I love to snark on liberal fora as much as anyone, and Rachel Maddow's one-sided laugh attacks are my most highly treasured guilty pleasure.
But, man, I keep finding myself in situations where that sort of discourse is completely useless. With my center-to-right parents. With my conservative friends. With my apolitical coworkers. As much as I love to make fun of Walnuts and his druggy Skeletor trophy wife, I keep feeling as though that stuff is weakening my capacity for rational political discussion in the real world--a world in which there are tons of jokers on the right, hitting below the belt every single day and threatening the longevity of a nation in which partisan citizens can interact and get along as friends.
No one has ever spat in my face or behaved in the ways recently unaired on YouTube and elsewhere; if they did, I'd have to sock someone in the eye. But I live in one of the most Republican cities in Texas, and I intend to be understood here for who I am politically. My Republican friends argue with me, but they manage to do so without talking about "slick Willie," "Bitchary" or "Barry Hussein Obama."
And I don't mind standing up and saying that I can return that respect without losing my backbone.
I realize that this isn't as coherent as it could be. But I've been thinking a lot about how best to navigate these tricky waters of political discussion, of mutual understanding among Americans with different outlooks.
Any thoughts on this?