The Burden Of Being Black In America
What if it were possible to take every single American out of America and put them all in a big room. Just imagine a room that big. And these Americans would be able to maintain all of the life experiences and such that they have had to the point of being taken to this room. That would be everything except the color of their skin. We would somehow be left colorless. And then one of the worlds Gods came into the room. You know one of them that is all powerful and knows everything and everybody; you've heard the stories. And this God let everybody know that he would allow everybody to pick the color that they would want to be before coming back to America. Now with all of your American knowledge and experiences intact WHAT COLOR WOULD YOU TELL GOD YOU WANTED TO BE.
This is the crux of a editorial I wrote years back to try to give perspective to being "Black in America"? We Americans know the truth about our country and who we are and how we behave and who we've been. The truth is many millions of Americans would jump at the chance to get rid of the burden of "Being Black In America". Many millions of Americans would not want to be a Black American even if they were rich. Let's tell the truth; under the circumstances that I've listed in the above story we know that God would not be surprised to find out that Black would not be the most popular pick of skin color when given the chance to pick. Just a little perspective about what "Being Black In America" is about.
Now I'm not complaining; my Grandpa raised me to stand up for myself and to respect who I am and where I came from. He also taught me reality and how to deal with it. My Grandpa typifies many Black people and would use the metaphor to teach. That's why many Black people will answer a question with a story instead of a direct answer; it's cultural. And to describe the typical life of a American Black man he would use the baseball metaphor. Grandpa would say "Boy just remember when your in the batters box the count is always going to be 3 and 2 and you're only going to get one pitch". It was Grandpa's way of preparing me for what I had to deal with. Thanks Grandpa.
I'm not complaining at all. On the other hand I wouldn't have had it any other way. Being "Black In America" sets you up for a special challenge in one of the worlds most unique countries. When you're "Black In America" it's hard to escape it. Your Blackness follows you into any venue you exist in. Job, community , education , traveling , love relationships , friendships , military service , business , and you get the point. There is no part of live that is not effected by "Being Black In America". In many cases "Being Black In America" is a burden because you just can't just be a man or a regular person like others are allowed to be. "Being Black In America". You can replace Black with Indian, Mexican, Puerto Rican , or any other non white minority person. And you definitely can replace Black with Women of any color and my contention would still apply.
I whish that it didn't have to be like this. It would be nice if we all could just be people together and except the reality of the fact that we are more family then not. That the true group is one of all people together and that the color is not the principal factor that differentiates us.
America was taken from the indigenous people that were here; most to many of the American Indians were killed. From the first ambush of the Pequot people of Massachusetts to the last ambush at Wounded Knee of the Sioux; Indian people paid a stiff price while attempting to stand up for their freedooms and their lands. To know of the past greatnest of the Indian nations and to consider their current pliight is an abysmal thought. The stories of any non-white peoples of American history are similar. The stories of any woman are also similar in the same way.
Muhammad Ali took part in the 1960 Olympics in Italy. And on a vidieo of the time Ali is shown talking to two Italian men. And they are confronting him about why he fights for a country that does not respect him or want him. Ali pondered the point for a moment and looked at the camera and said "we're working on it". And we are. Black Americans made the decisions to be a part of the American experience long ago. And we are not going back.
I do not comment on Americas past to be abrasive or argumentative in any way. And I'm not asking for any slack or help in any way. Fussing with my fellow Americans is not going to solve anything per se. But to ignore the true history of our country and who we really are is a problem. And you must give way to the true past if you're to live in the present time effectively. The problems of color in America and the associated issues that come with it must be acknowledged and dealt with in true terms; and in all of it's reality. And until that time America and it's reality will always be problematic; we should strive more for the great American idea and move away from it's reality.












I doubt that you will get many responses. People want to be post-racial. When Ralph Bunche became Ambassador to the UN, it was a post-racial event. Thurgood Marshall's appointment to the Supreme Court was post-racial. Colin Powell and Condoleeza Rice were post-racial Secretaries of State. Obviously, we are truly post-racial with the election of Barack Obama.
If you are expecting MSM to carry a message that there is more work to be done in racial issues, forget it. Remember how quickly the National discussion on race went away after Obama's speech in Philadelphia?
Look at the news anchors in prime time. See any dark-hued anchors on broadcast or cable? Think you will get a discussion that is led by a person with your viewpoint? It will not happen.
On the bright side, there are enough websites out there where you can get a discussion going to address issues close to your heart. There are books that give data supporting your view of where the issue of race rests in contemporary America. There is even science fiction like "Blonde Roots" that switches the role of the races in the slavery issue.
The mind stretching on issues of race will occur on the internet, not in MSM. Most people will be on the sidelines just like they were when firehoses and German Shepherds were used against Black children.
Excellent post
March 24, 2009 5:30 PM | Reply | Permalink
White people suck. What can I say? It's basically the truth. Nearly every grievous sin you could imagine has been attempted or accomplished by Caucasians. This in no way absolves the Blacks from their share of the human suffering and stupidity market:
http://www.pbs.org/wgbh/pages/frontline/shows/evil/etc/slaughter.html
On the other hand, White people lied us into a war with people that never attacked us, by claiming they were up to all kinds of nefarious bullcrap. And that was just the Indians. White people pull that rabbit out of a hat whenever they need justification for their otherwise immoral actions.
In the overall, I'd guess that ALL humans are equally capable of being as ruthless as white people if given a chance. It's just that some white people aren't about to let that happen. They are few in number, but they own the country. We are in the process of "bailing" them out right now. They invested in crap they just made up from whole cloth and paid themselves handsomely for the effort!! If only they would have been more honest and invested in 'legitimate' business loans for the rapidly growing REAL industries in America!!
Like independent 'for profit' prisons as well as the predatory 'advance check cashing' services that spring up in every otherwise abandoned retail location. If you are poor because you are not investing in those high growth, high profit industries....well pffft, you are an idiot. For chrissakes, from what I'm seeing, a fellow could dam near retire just selling off his 'junk' gold jewelry. How the hell did I miss that source of cash???
White people ruined the banking system of this country because smart white people are greedy bastards who have no compunction taking money from people who think it's easier to get to heaven having achieved bankruptcy. They're just doing God's work which is why it is imperative to pay them bonuses rather than have them pay us bail.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Eye_of_a_needle#General_interpretation
I prefer Black people myself, but mainly of the variety that don't hate this middle-aged white guy for all the crap that's been perpetrated on them in the past (and present) by my ancestors. The real pain we're feeling is that of rich-poor, not black-white. I know cause I live in the 'hood.
Putting On for my city....as usual...
because...
Them other brothers actors, Me I'm a factor...
and...
In due time the city is mine.
crossposted to my TPMblog.
Enjoy.
March 24, 2009 6:41 PM | Reply | Permalink
Good post as always Viper. Well thought out and felt out so to speak. Great quote from Ali.
I do like to point out that there are serious discussions of race. I like to add caste and class to that discussion. But we must look for them.
PBS and the History Channels as well as CSPAN present fine documentaries and discussions. And I always advertise MSNBC on the weekends when they mostly give up on news. These prison docs they do are much more impressive than anybody seems to report.
Why are we holding over two million people in prison and why are half of these prisoners African Americans?
Why do I never hear a call to release a quarter of the prisoners as soon as possible. I do it all the time but have few readers, obviously.
So many different issues facing us today must include a discussion of race.
Thank you for a fine,and well put together piece.
March 24, 2009 6:45 PM | Reply | Permalink
Most people who are not Black would not choose to be Black. But, I think you underestimate the community in thinking they would have it any other way! Oh, there are a few and you can spot them in a crowd, because they try to disown their heritage today (Clarence Thomas, Michael Steele, Ward Connolly).
March 24, 2009 6:51 PM | Reply | Permalink
Excellent post although, I've never felt being Black was a burden. I tend to see it, when I actually think of it, as a badge of honor. Yet, with that said, I can't help but realize there are various reasons I've always been comfortable in my own skin.
Similar to the situation of Viper, my parents played a major role in how I see my self. Also, I'm brown skin, I've never experienced what it's like to be of darker hue. Would I still have been as comfortable? I'd like to think so but I can't say for sure. Then there is the fact I'm female, which brings on it's own set of challenges but I think it's generally tougher to be a Black man in this country, than a Black woman.
Have I experienced racism, yep. Growing up during the 50's in the South it was difficult to escape. Interestingly enough, it was racism in other parts of the country that would catch me off balance. Growing up, I was pretty clear who hated me and why. Not so much outside of the South.
Either way, I wouldn't want to be anyone other than who I am. Is it really fair to ask or expect anyone else to change?
March 24, 2009 7:33 PM | Reply | Permalink
Aw hell, Viper. You KNOW I've always wanted to be ultra-violet.
Truth is, at this point, I've done the white thing long enough. It's been fun, and it's been crap. I'd say, "Spin that color wheel. Let's see what comes up."
I'm kinda hoping Dick comes out Orange. So I can see him when he comes sneakin' across the border from Minnesota. ;-)
March 24, 2009 8:21 PM | Reply | Permalink
I have always been just on the yellow side of the spectrum so to speak. I think it has served me well since I have already survived my father by more than twenty years.
I confess I usually wear these hooded sweat shirts and travel at night so it is hard to tell.
March 25, 2009 10:07 AM | Reply | Permalink
Way back when Mizz Oprah first went 'national" she did a show about racism with a woman (sorry, but it has been so long my recollection of certain details -- like the woman's name -- have faded), anyway... with a woman who conducted a seminar on a racism. For Oprah, she did it on her show over two or so episodes. And in one part of it, everyone in the course was supposed to write down their answer to the question, "If you could be any race, what race would you be?" Not a single white person participating in the seminar -- even making their preference known by anonymous, secret ballot -- NO ONE chose to be black.
Burdensome? To be perfectly honest, at times, yes... It is difficult to go through life being able to clap on the right beat, to dance and look cool doing it even when I'm faking it, to demonstrate some modest competency at just about any sport I tried, to be the proud possessor of a nice round booty before J. Lo made round booties cool with y'all, to speak both "white" and "black", to have people -- black and white -- curious as to where my "people" are from, to have a full head of hair with a mind of its own, straight one day, curly another, and downright kinky on the third, to suppress this desire to put a little "soul" into the National Anthem every time I sing it, to miss out on buying tanning lotion or going to the tanning salon because I'm already a rich golden brown to begin with (in fact I buy the highest level SPF sunblock I can get my hands on, and damn it, it still doesn't work!), to drive while black and sometimes shop while black even though my money is just as green as yours and I use my turn signals every time I change lanes and rarely stray above the speed limit.
My life might have been a bit easier, but it certain would be lacking in the rich variety of experience I enjoy every day because of this "Fine Brown Skin"*.
Good post!!!
(*jazz afficionados may recognize the song title.)
March 24, 2009 8:38 PM | Reply | Permalink
Another weigh-in from the perspective as a black person, more specifically a black woman, with a somewhat unique, although increasingly prevalent, situation.
Biologicically, I am mixed (B/W), but was adopted into and raised in a white household. My parents not only allowed me to develop into my blackness (outside of simple skin tone), but embraced and fostered it.
Both in my younger and latter years, I feel I had much more of a choice to reject my race and its associated culture based on the cushion of my family's race and Dutch culture. Not only did I embrace being black at a young age, but also, not a day has gone by that I regret that choice or that I do not feel blessed to be part of such a proud legacy. It has made me stronger and I am confident, a much better person than I otherwise might have been.
And the author is correct in the theory that we must, not only acknowledge our triumphs as a nation, (ex. Revolutionary War, Civil War, WWII, and Civil Rights), but we must also acknowledge our tragedies (Native and enslaved genocide, Slavery, Reconstruction, Jim Crow, and delayed civil rights) and the effects that the latter has had on a significant portion of our population that has surely spent more time suffering the ravages of forced colonization and bondage than relishing in freedom.
I see this as a fundamental flaw of our nation--our wholesale ability to take credit for the good while at the same time, failing to fully and intelligently acknowledge the bad and addressing it in a meaningful and lasting way.
March 25, 2009 12:24 AM | Reply | Permalink
Thankfully, it doesn't have to be like this. People are making sure of that daily in their personal lives.
Inexorable changes have already made the black burden you describe a phenomenon that is reaching it's end. It's been a long road and we have miles to go, but we are on our way--together--and the end is coming.
March 25, 2009 1:48 AM | Reply | Permalink
I didn't know whether or not I should comment. I am of mixed ancestry, but black isn't in the mix. Are black or white the only choices? Because I would pick Native American without hesitation. But, black OR white? Hmmm. You know, I think I'd pick black....for the richness.
March 25, 2009 10:41 AM | Reply | Permalink
And we are still working on it.
It was a significant moment when the one female reporter at the presss conference pointed out that we are no longer discussing Obama's race. Faux News tried to bring race back into the public eye with their trash comment related to Michelle Obama, but I did not really seen as racial. It was merely a nasty pathetic attempt at making a headline. Already that inflammatory remark is heading to the shredder, yesterday's news, and only barely. I hold that as a sign that most people found the remark unworthy of TV air time and thousands objected across the board. We have more to discuss about race, but that comment was not in any way a meaningful part of that discussion.
The scariest part of the dwindling impact of Faux News and there self-righteous pseudo-Christian fascist conservatives is that as they fade from prominence, they sporadically have these little flare-ups, desperate for attention. It makes one nervous what they will attempt next in their effort to reclaim center stage.
The race card? It's been reduced to a ploy, a tactic. But racism remains a serious matter and I am glad to be having this meaningful discussion here.
March 25, 2009 2:04 PM | Reply | Permalink