In response to thisniss' excellent post.
Many here have seemed worried recently. Anxious, even. It seems Obama is getting hit from all sides and not fighting back effectively. Tempers flare, even neutral exchanges are sharper. The "pro-Obama" posts have an undertone of almost pleading. People are defensive, jumping on minor points or feeling that every laughable crackpot theory is a valid imminent threat that must be taken pains to somehow rectify, in the process giving validation.
This turns people off. It turns you off, it turns us off and it turns everyone else off.
And I submit it is deliberate.
Obama is about positive energy. About "getting it done" instead of "fighting." About a positive, empathic, assertive and inclusive approach to solving problems. He is stirring the "better angels" from a long slumber and providing a rallying point, and being that proverbial first one to speak. The positive energy, "hope" if you will, is also what is attracting many of the family members, friends and co-workers of the early supporters. Naturally everyone in the race has fervent fans, but there has been something in this particular enthusiasm that has stopped many cynics in their tracks to take another, serious look. Something many have not done in years if decades.
Opposing candidates, whose names I will not mention, have nowhere to go but down. They play yesterday's game; one year one side is up by three points, the next year the other squeaks a victory by two. The trenches go deeper and deeper, and 50 + 1 becomes 49 + 1 if you break one of theirs.
Obama is getting people to snap out of it, getting people to go past their conditioning, the brainwashing and really take a look around themselves. Then they--we--go to others and point out this guy who seems to get it. And we think we might just have it too.
For the dynamic duo, the only way to victory is to kill the enthusiasm. Snuff out the positivity. Gossip, lies and bullshit divert our time away from the positive, from talking to people. They anger us so that when we do talk, it is not about how we all can take the right way, it is about how the others, the enemies are taking the wrong way. And those we speak to just hear the same thing they have been hearing all these years, shrug and continue living in their castles wrought of despondency.
So it is our turn, again, to snap out of it and really take a look around. That guy gets it. Maybe I do too.
Anyway, see if you can find that place again.
For a few days, write every single comment or blog post twice. Write it once to say what you want to say, then write it again to say what you need to say. Do not read hastily, do not write hastily.
Turning the other cheek does not work. It never did. You will need to rebut some posts but there are two ways to go about it: there is the positive, empathic, assertive and inclusive way and there is the wrong way. If you notice that your rebuttal does not address the exact points of the accusation by simple facts, it is not worth the electricity. Scrap it. If you are not able to, and not one of us is an expert in every area, do not post just to say something, anything to create balance of bad. Let it be and someone will come along to do the right thing. Forcefully and truthfully.
Do not join in or stay silent on an untruth aimed at the others just because it happens to benefit us at this time. It is not OK. It is never OK.
If you or someone else in the kool-aid team, someone in the campaign or even the big guy himself makes a mistake, say it out loud. The politicians of yesterday lie because they know their 25 will support them no matter what. When I stop accepting it when my guy or gal does something wrong is when they will stop doing it.
Do not generalize. All X do not do Y. With notable exceptions (whom you should just ignore), everybody here is basically a decent human being. Hell, maybe they will not even appreciate your gesture but never let that stop you. Give credit where it is due.
And make sure everyone else does too. You are your brother's keeper and you are your sister's keeper.