A post earlier today (by the same title as this one)
referenced a comment I made a couple of days ago in a thread, which comment
was, “Very little depends on how we characterize Clinton supporters on this
site.” I am channeling Obama’s experience after his “bitter” comment – I feel
his pain!
And as with Obama’s “bitter” comment, mine was used as an
example a bit out of context, and yet does reflect some beliefs that may be at
odds with what some others believe. So here comes the dull recitation of what I
meant, and what I believe, strictly for those who don’t have much to do on this
Monday evening.
First, my comment was in the midst of a discussion about how the Democratic party can achieve unity. More on that in a moment. I
agree with Ben’s main point that civility is important – I believe it is vital
in interpersonal relationships, be they intimate, close, casual, or electronic
relationships. I take civility for granted for myself and those I know. Meanness, or
beyond that, verbal violence, is above all selfish and destructive. On TPM, I
most enjoy and resonate with those comments that are civil, friendly, and
thoughtful; and I enjoy about this site that kindness seems to be the
predominant culture. It is all too rare in media these days – so much media is
filled with hate filled speech, it really is awful.
So a separate paragraph for my main message: TPM is a site
dominated by thoughtful, kind people, and I celebrate that.
On to Democratic party unity. There has been puzzlement in
the media about why this Democratic primary has been so divisive, has caused so
much anger on both sides, when the two candidates are so close ideologically.
This next will sound like yet more Hillary bashing, but it is not, it is a
carefully considered opinion: IMHO, much of the responsibility for the
divisiveness lies with Hillary Clinton. Imagine the different tone this
campaign would have had if we had heard something like these quotes from her:
“Reverend Wright is over the line, but I can understand the
anger he is expressing, the anger that black Americans feel.”
“ Obama Muslim? That is straight from Karl Rove and his
gang. I have great respect for Islam, but the simple fact is that Obama is a
Christian. He goes to church more than I do.”
“I do not want any votes from Republicans who are just
looking to create chaos in our primary. To you Limbaugh fans, please just stay
home.”
“I welcome the votes of all Americans. However, it gives me
pause to hear that there are racists supporting me simply in order to vote
against Obama. That is a morally wrong reason to cast a vote.”
Dream on, right?
Clinton did not show class and moral behavior during the final months of this campaign, she showed the opposite. The thing is, the act of lying corrupts; and when a powerful
politician lies and cheats, repeatedly, it corrupts many people, both in her inner circle, as well as among her supporters. Donna Brazile was a breath of
fresh air Saturday at the RBC – finally she said: it is wrong to lie, it is
wrong to cheat, it is wrong to try to change the rules after the fact to the
set of rules that happens to hand you a victory…
I do not believe that McAuliffe, Ickes and the rest are evil
people – I don’t even think they are basically corrupt. The legions of people
at the meeting Saturday who were screaming at each other – I do not believe that most of them are fundamentally rageful people.
It is Hillary Clinton (again IMHO) who has brought so many
people to this anger; and to finally get around to my point, it is only Hillary
Clinton who can bring unity back to the Democratic party, by giving up the
biggest lie she has been living for almost two months: That she has any chance
of winning this primary. When she concedes gracefully (which many indicators
now suggest will happen soon), the lie will be over, her inner circle can stop
trying to defend the indefensible, her supporters can finally admit the obvious
truth that Obama has won. Then we can all take a deep breath, give ourselves a large group hug, and start working toward November, to put Obama in the White House, and a huge Democratic progressive majority in Congress.
To those who have made it to the end of this post, thanks
for your time, I do appreciate it. Ben, you started a great conversation, and I’m
happy to have had a part in it.