Life, or something like it
Disclaimer - Political content of this blog is pretty nigh nil. Read on if you must.
The sun has set and I´m sitting in the plaza of a Spanish colonial town in Mexico. Townspeople are walking about the beautiful plaza, crowned with a colonial era church, and dotted with lovely, and tall palm trees. Children are playing and shouting and laughing with delight. As I watch them, (my guess is they're 5-7 years of age), flowing from one side of the church to the other like waves lapping an elaborate stone shoreline, I´m reminded of summers of my own childhood long gone. Their play resonates, reminding me of nights when as children, we tempted our fates by disregarding the ordained time to be home, in favor of one more game of kick the can under incandescent street lights. In short, I find this all very charming. It´s something I´ve not seen in an American town, (at least not without a bevy of mothers overseeing the play), for some time now. I admit my experience may be a tad limited, and I´m not in the habit of hanging out by schoolyards and playgrounds. Perhaps somewhere in some small towns in my country scenes like this play themselves out night after night, like re-runs of last weeks' cinema offering, were someone there to witness it. I hope so.
Knowing the degree of control exerted over children these days, leads me to wonder what the long term effects of such regulation will be on personality development. Perhaps I'm projecting. I was never very good at´'towing the line' as it were. I grew up in a blessedly less threatening time and was also blessed with parents who understood and fostered a sense of exploration in me. When I consider some of the things I was more or less OK'd to do, if not encouraged to do so, I am sort of amazed. I'm amazed at my good fortune to be born at such a time and amazed at my parents´lassaiz-faire attitude toward child-rearing. I suppose to some extent, that too, was a function of that particular snapshot in time.











