life
you know life can be a very strange thing . One minute your doing good then the next time tou trn around everything has gone nuts.
well the second one is where I am right now. If it wasnt for some friends that I have here I would probably shoot myself.
I have lost my home and everything i own to my now ex girlfriend. That is a hard thing to take but Im handling it. I hope things will get better soon.
But for now I dont know how often I will be able to blog. I will try to keep everybody posted so that you know Im still here.
temember to hug you friends and let them know you care have a nice day
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{{{hugs}}}
You know if you ever need anything, you can call me, okay? Hang in there.
May 3, 2009 8:10 PM | Reply | Permalink
I hope things get sorted out soon. You've been missed around here.
May 3, 2009 8:16 PM | Reply | Permalink
thank you bwak and lisB I have missed being here hopefully it wont be as long between blogs this time
May 3, 2009 8:22 PM | Reply | Permalink
Sorry to hear things have come undone here, red.
If you have a gun and you're ever worried you might use it, turn it in to the police. You can always get it back when you're feeling better. (Hope you don't mind the advice. But I'm concerned. Along with others, I'm sure.)
Peace be with you.
May 3, 2009 8:30 PM | Reply | Permalink
thank you for the concern theraP you dont have to worry I would never hurt myself exspecially now that I have all my freinds here
May 3, 2009 8:40 PM | Reply | Permalink
Things get better, things get worse. Keep the option open to give the police your gun. Again, you can always get it back when things are better.
I, for one, have enjoyed your posts and will be grateful for whenever you can get back on here.
May 4, 2009 3:58 AM | Reply | Permalink
I'm glad you responded, red. I'm glad to hear this community provides a life-line for you. There may be resources in your community you can make use of as well. (local mental health center or other places where people extend compassion, maybe even a support group for people who've lost a relationship)
Take care of yourself. Enjoy nature, the beauty of Spring. :)
May 4, 2009 2:37 PM | Reply | Permalink
I do care Red. Honest to god (blesses himself)
I have been left to sleein in parks. No kidding.
I found a place with the help of others.
DON'T GIVE UP!
I did give up for so long. Find a way. It is easy to say. But not easy to do.
Hell, I have five bucks left for the rest of the month. But I am assured that I have a place to live.
And a full refrigerator!!
Ido not know how to help!
May 3, 2009 8:38 PM | Reply | Permalink
I'm sorry you're having a rough time. Do not give up and especially do not give up on yourself. There are people out there you have never met, who value you. Don't forget to value yourself.
May 3, 2009 8:45 PM | Reply | Permalink
Things will work out, Red. It may well take some time and there will probably be some unpleasantness along the way, but things will work out.
I know from your postings you're a solid guy, someone who hangs in and gets through things. This too will pass.
May 3, 2009 9:16 PM | Reply | Permalink
I am sorry to hear you are going through this. I've had some times in my life when I was so down I thought I would never be OK again. And somehow, things get better. There will be a better day I promise.
Best Wishes!
May 3, 2009 9:28 PM | Reply | Permalink
Red You are a good man as is easy to see by reading your posts.You put your heart out there for all to see and are willing to protect others.Please don't change that because that is you. I know your hurting friend but remember grief doesn't last forever and the pain will lessen in time. Every time,we lose something, something new takes its place. A new beginning and not the end.You know and have seen that this TPM community has real people with real hearts and will reach out and help friends in need.Let someone here know if we can help, I mean this sincerely.
May 3, 2009 9:29 PM | Reply | Permalink
Truer words and all, red. Someday, you'll probably look back and realize what a gift these changes bring.
May 3, 2009 9:54 PM | Reply | Permalink
Red - you are in my thoughts - i pray that all will work out for you - you truly deserve the good things in life. I know it must be difficult for you at the moment but you know you have many friends here who care and want only the best for you. Hang in there - if you need anything, give a holler.
May 3, 2009 9:58 PM | Reply | Permalink
I'm sorry you're hurting Red. I've been there too. Treat yourself kindly. Think of all the good there is. I know you already know where that place is because you bring it to us.
...........And write, write, write.
May 4, 2009 2:41 AM | Reply | Permalink
Red
I am so sorry things deteriated to this level. I haven't been here much lately (computer crash, clients in crisis and life hijacking time) so was unaware of this.....
And now that I understand the chat site is no longer available it is problematic to communicate.
PLEASE post here as often as possible and DO NOT TURN AWAY FROM FRIENDS HERE! Reach out - we are here.
May 4, 2009 12:18 PM | Reply | Permalink
What kind of legal system allows a girlfriend to get your home and possessions? The particulars of your situation are none of my business but this sounds like a very unfair situation to me.
May 4, 2009 4:34 PM | Reply | Permalink