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A Morning at the Bank


My office has been going green since the economy went to shit.  I only wish we'd started earlier.

But what we did start earlier, this year, was a beautiful movement for our community:  We started volunteering at the county Food Bank.  One Wednesday each month, we allowed up to 12 volunteers to go to the Food Bank and work their asses off for half a day, while getting paid on company time.

Every time they asked for volunteers, I stayed at the office instead.  I am terrible when it comes to driving to new places, because I always get lost.  So I brought food in, each month, instead, and donated it to the cause.

Well, today, I had no choice but to go up there to the County Food Bank.  Today was the day that my office would usually have a very cushy party at a local swanky Yacht Club where there'd be an open bar, a DJ, a dance floor, and a three-course dinner, if not a buffet consisting of everything from rack of lamb to lobster tail.

But instead, today, we had a pizza luncheon with canned sodas, and the entire office was sent in two shifts to do volunteer work at the County Food Bank.

I got lucky...I had the morning shift.  The morning shift consisted of taking all the donated goods, checking their condition (expiration dates, suitability, pack-ability, etc.) while the afternoon shift had to open unmarked cans and guess what was inside.  I'd like to share that most everyone in the office volunteered for the afternoon shift because they figured they could make an early and easy day of it and then go home.  Ha!

Anyway, here's what it was like:  The warehouse was so cold that most of us wore our winter coats as we worked.  And we did indeed work.  Our CEO himself dragged pallets around and stacked cans and boxes.  Senior VP's rolled their sleeves up and packed and lifted boxes.  We took every donated good available and weighed it's safety, worthiness, and nutritional value and then sorted same by yelling out, "Soup!, "Pasta!", "Protein!" (tuna fish, canned meat, beans, other legumes), "Veggies!", all the while making room on a very small table for the sorting and packing of said goods.

Some of the office guys got busy tearing down the boxes that the donated goods had arrived in, and others got busy labeling and taping up the new boxes that the sorted and examined goods went into.

I jumped around making myself useful as much as I could, telling clueless employees where the soups were supposed to go, telling them they had to open each jar of peanut butter to ensure an unbroken seal, and explaining that glass goods couldn't be boxed up because of breakage/spillage.  When I wasn't busy telling people what to do, I was busy.

After two hours of hard work, we were all given a tour of the entire warehouse, where we walked into a refrigerator the size of my apartment and saw shelves upon shelves of donated eggs and milk and produce and God knows what else, then walked through two rows of warehouse space that held donations from companies like McCormick (the spices smelled so good!!  --  but, alas, they mostly consisted of ground peppercorn and steak rub).  Many local prisons donate their farmed goods, and many local companies donate their damaged cans (forklifts tear boxes and therefore local supermarkets won't accept them, so they go to the Food Bank). 

And then, just as I was feeling good and happy about doing this work for two hours near the holiday, the woman who runs the facility starts to share with us the realities about the people who actually benefit from her services:  Homeless vets who work for her one day a week in order to get their share of two days' worth of food and try to make it last four days.  Disabled people who also volunteer for her and yet can't read the labels of the food they're taking off the shelves when they leave at the end of the day, to go back to their shelter.  Two-income family members who lost both incomes at the same time and have children to feed.

I started crying, finally, when she told us of all the homeless people who are allowed to come to the warehouse 24/7 to pick soup cans off the shelves versus sorting through a dumpster for their dinner.  They all tell her how they like the soup cans that have pop-off lids.  Why?  Because they can take these soup cans to a local fast food place like MacDonald's, go into the bathroom, run the hot water and stop up the sink and then place the soup cans in the steamy hot water in order to "cook" their soup.  Once it seems hot enough, they pop the lid off the soup and gulp it down as they let the hot water drain out of the sink.

I'm sorry, but no one should live that way.   No one.

I'm grateful to have my job this year.  I'm grateful to have a wonderful boss and a great company to work for.  I'm grateful to have a roof over my head, people to buy gifts for and send cards to, and I'm most especially grateful to have a paycheck.  Without my paycheck, I'm just one step away from being homeless myself.

Gives one pause, doesn't it, this season?

 


 


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Thanks for this, LisB. I guess it's somewhere in the Bible where it is said "The poor will always be with us." But for so long as I've got more than I need for myself and my family, there is no reason to abide people having to eat out of soup cans in McDonalds' rest rooms.

I help out at the local food pantry. It is painful to witness men, usually accompanied by their children, struggling to maintain their own dignity as they necesarily visit the pantry to make certain their family will have at least something to eat in the next few days. Rightly or wrongly, there is something deep within a father that tells him his self-worth is wrapped up in his ability to be a provider for his family. A look at these men tells you absolutely that the charity of others, whle required for survival, is not sustaining of that man's dignity. It makes me ache to see it.

You are indeed blessed to work for such a company as you describe. I cannot know what they offer in terms of wages and benefits, but how wonderful it is that they also offer oportunity for every employee to get in touch with their own humanity. If only this were more common, there would be no troubled, yet neglected veterans laying on park benches under newspaper sleeping bags, nor would there be families left to choose between heat or groceries to sustain themselves.

How far have we come in the last hundred plus years? Your impactful story written in this Christmas season recalls Dickens and points out that we have such a long way to go before we can truly celebrate the honor of man and the Blessings of God (regardless of who She might be.)

Thanks for sharing.

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Lis, thanks for sharing that with us. It's stories like this that cause me to get so pissed off when people who make tons of money gripe about the possibility of having to pay more taxes...This should not happen in America. Not in my America.

I don't even know if my community has a food bank...I'm going to find out tomorrow.

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Lis, your story brought tears to my eyes. Ya know, in all the times I've donated canned goods, I never thought about how the homeless prepared or even opened the cans.

Tomorrow, our local grocery market is accepting food donations at the front of the store, and from now on, I'll be getting the cans with pop-off lids and anything else that has easier access.

I just can't imagine being homeless. I know I wouldn't survive. When my thermostat is set at 68, I'm layered with thermal underwear, a tee shirt, and a sweatshirt.

Thanks for the pause and reminding me how lucky I am.

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Thank you for the comments. I wrote this late last night after storing up all the feelings all afternoon and evening....and I knew I couldn't sleep until I got it out.

I was once homeless, living in my ex-boyfriends pickup truck, eating balogna sandwiches for dinner, and showering every morning in the office gym. None of my coworkers knew that I was homeless. I hope never to be again.

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I like Christmas stories. I am a chump for sympathy and empathy. And this is not empty sympathy and empathy for others.

How in the world did you find Father Christmas as a boss? Like Sleepin says this is right out of Dickens.

And this is a time to be grateful.

Very good, good, good.

And Merry Christmas to all!!!!

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Thank you, LisB.

And so many of the homeless are mentally ill - because our social safety nets for community mental health have evaporated. These people need more than food. They need respite care in compassionate settings.

Peace.

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When I was a child, I used to bring home wounded animals. I'd nurse them, love them, and release them. The most memorable being a sparrow hawk and a hummingbird.

My daughter brings home wounded people. We have one here now, and I am not too happy about it. Or perhaps I should say "wasn't". Perhaps I need to be more LisB and less G.W. Bush.

Thanks LisB.


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"The habit of giving only enhances the desire to give." - Walt Whitman

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LisB that was beautiful. Your Food Bank is very lucky to have food on their shelves and pallets coming in. I help out and donate to our local food bank and right now their shelves are appallingly bare. The lady who runs the place (I work with her occasionally for a project I do in one of my classes) said that many of her usual donors have either a) cut their charitable donations to save money for Christmas shopping or b) are now needing her services. Both of which are sad (but for different reasons). A lot of the food drives they usually get from our university dried up this year because the semester ended two weeks earlier, so students who are usually bringing in boxes of food were studying for exams.

I think it's amazing that your employer pays you all to volunteer. I hope more organizations follow their lead. You should send their info to CNN to get some publicity for the effort...it could lead to some fortunate copycatting!

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Thank you, Lis, for doing your part (and several others' as well!) to help unravel the massive knot of deprivation and suffering our sadly misdirected society inflicts on its most vulnerable.

I wish I were half as wonderful a human being as you've revealed yourself today.

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Thanks, Lisa. There are many of us who are trying to help, yet there are still not enough of us. It's sad on a good day, and overwhelming on a bad one. I do a lot of pro bono work with the uninsured, and it breaks my heart. By doing this I learn how they got to where they are, and most of them never really had a chance.

I see people who were abused and neglected throughout their childhood, people who are obviously learning-disabled and stuck in minimum-wage jobs that don't nearly support a family because of it, I see young adults who take drugs because they're depressed and want to stop but can't, but can't get treatment for the depression or the drug abuse because they're uninsured. Our society, or at least our political system, turns its back on these people, and tells itself without knowing anything about them that it must be their own fault.

But I do have hope. There are a lot of people now who refuse to ignore this, and who do what they can to help. I think there are more now than before. Maybe the tide really is turning.

Early in my career a very wise supervisor told me that every time you help someone, in any way, you give them not just that help, but also a memory of compassion that they can hold onto and may use in the future. Please keep doing all that you're doing.

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Oh, Tom, the pain you must see every day. I feel for you as much as the people who make up your pro bono cases.

So many of us at work feel that we've truly made a difference this year, working with the food bank, and because I live somewhat close to it, and discovered that I'm welcome to go in on any Saturday, I think I'll be going back, on my own, repeatedly, when I have no other plans (which is pretty often). In fact, I know I'll be going back.

Thank you so much for your work as well.

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every time you help someone, in any way, you give them not just that help, but also a memory of compassion that they can hold onto and may use in the future.

How true, Tom. How true.

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Nice seasonal post Lisa. I wonder if your company is enlightened enough to know that they are getting back far more than they are giving.
Tom Hollenbach brings up a great point that downtrodden people can also use some professional help to get their lives back together. Legal, medical, financial, educational, occupational, and auto mechanical help are also needed by the homeless and near homeless working poor in America. Food is good, but teaching people how to feed themselves is a better long term solution.
Finally for now, consider taking your family to a soup kitchen for a day of volunteer work. It might just be the best present you will get this year.

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Excellent point, Tao, excellent point. ALL industries should be more giving this holiday season, and beyond.

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