Inspection- Roman Polanski: Pedophile or Nasty Criminal Putz?
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Polanski: Pedophile? Or nasty, criminal putz?
The case of Roman Polanski has me into more than mere muse as of late
over these two skews: ways to frame his crime. When I first heard the
news I wondered, "Where the hell has the media been on this?" Where the media usually is: no where to be found if it's not sexy or serves the some big corporate agenda.
What's the fuss is about his cinematic work I have never quite figured
out. Even though I've had multiple film critique classes and know
amongst many profs his work is well respected, in my opinion his most
famous movie: Rosemary's Baby was a big yawn and a big promotional smooch to Catholicism and superstition, for example. I can't remember a damn thing about Chinatown or The Pianist.
Good movies hang with me. Polanski's movies twist away easier than
Linda Blair's all too obviously fake head. And sometimes all I'm left
with is fake puke. Gross? Yes, but not all that interesting, relevant
or even good fiction. Yeah, I know. Supposedly Baby
was supposed to have been based on real events. But I'm enough of a
skeptic to only believe that's what really happened like that just as
soon as I see the ghost of Harry Houdini who said he would come back if
it's possible. His movies, as a whole, have neither overwhelmed me, nor impressed me. I do think, like most icons, he's a bit over-rated.
Though I was not impressed, I have no personal ax to smash into what
soon will be mere remains of a towering tree of a career here. What
makes him so popular? Stumps me.
Since I'm not a fan you'd think my first reaction would be to cheer the
pickle he got himself into in after using his own personal pickle in a
very inappropriate manner, oh, so long ago. No, my first reaction was... "Why do they insist on conflating statutory misbehavior with being a real pedophile?"
This has less to do with Polanski than it does my feelings regarding
dating and age differences. I learned about this issue early: when I
was still a teen, and I also learned I am no fan of older men who date
underage girls. I lost a friend in the late 60s/early 70s over this
issue. Dan was a
smarter than your average 16 year old who, more so than most, was
hormone driven. (Maybe I should strike "most" and rephrase as "all?")
Briefly after we first became friends he started dating Marsha. She was
14, he was 16. OK, problematic, but not something I found offensive.
The last time we had a true discussion was when he insisted he was
going to date Lisa.
"Dan, she's a sixth grader. And if you hadn't futzed around all these
years by now you'd be a senior like me. It's immature decisions like
this that hold you back." "But I like her!" "Dan, she's friggin 12 years old, you're almost 18." "But I like her!" "Dan, if you do this, I can't be your friend anymore."
Well, I'm sure you know where that went. So I'm obviously no pal to
those who do such things. But there's something so obviously different
when comparing the two. Both are predatory, true, though I believe one
is less so. Someone who dates under age; especially with that much of a
difference, should be punished. We have to draw the permission line
somewhere, and a 12 year old really... most of the time... hasn't the
schnock to decide either way. OK, I understand that doesn't translate
into "all," but I still go back to... "We have to draw the permission line somewhere."
But a true pedophile should really be more clearly defined: both
legally and socially. Why? Someone who chases five-year-old kids is
sick beyond belief. So why do we, as a society, shove both dating under
age women and chasing little kids into this catchall pedophile
category? We shouldn't, because it's like treating assault as the same
as mass murder. The two are simply not the same, and they shouldn't be
put together on any list: national or local, without at least
distinguishing between the two.
That's what we don't do now. As it stands a 18 year old who gets caught
with a 15 year old is pretty much considered the same as the 50 year
old who likes to prey upon 3-year-olds. That is flat out wrong.
Yet, as the story progressed and I learned more about what happened, I
became less and less comfortable with my own position. She was drugged. She was drunk. I would assume Polanski had something to do with all of the above. "Jackass" doesn't quite describe my feelings.
I have read she's still angry over what happened, although even she has
said it was long ago and we should let it go. I'm sorry, I can't agree:
he had to be in his forties, she... 13. And, to add to the rage, we
can't let someone who ran get away with it, even if the judge went back
on an agreement. But
all these issues: the drugging, the alcohol, the extreme age
difference... could be punished under separate laws. We could actually
punish him worse than a true pedophile if we treated his crimes that
way. Yet in their anger people want to conflate this kind of criminal
prosecution with those sick bastards who hunt and prey on the smallest
and most vulnerable amongst us, much like our laws do. There simply is no comparison.
One type of person needs to be punished, yes, but the other probably
needs to kept away from civilized society: permanently. Now that's something I might agree to. Inspection is a column that has been written by Ken Carman for over 30 years. Inspection
is dedicated to looking at odd angles, under all the rocks and into the
unseen cracks and crevasses that constitute the issues and
philosophical constructs of our day: places few think, or even dare, to
venture.
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