A Letter to a Daughter From a Daughter
Liz,
We have never met. Our paths highly likely would never cross. Though we may be proximate in age, and share the same gender, we are two very different women. I am not a Republican and you are not a Democrat. But with Father's Day approaching, as one daughter to another, I must say, on behalf of all the fathers who are not here because of your father, it is time for you stop promoting the myth that your father kept us safe, and that it was okay for him to sanction torture and wage an unnecessary war to do it.
My father served his country in uniform during times of war and times of peace. He grew up in times of economic hardship and racial segregation, but lived through to see prosperity and integration. Your father -- by his own words -- sought deferment from military service not just once, but five separate times because he had "better things to do." My father had better things to do also. Like raise his own family, love his wife, care for the mother and aunts and uncle that raised him.
He had better things to do like pursue a degree in pharmacy. But he set that aside to serve his country. He had better things to do like many young men of college age who would rather sit on the quad and watch the girls go by, their pleated plaid skirts swishing to and fro, their saddle shoes and bobby sox scuffling leaves in the crisp fall air. That pastime beats the hell out of basic training in the sweltering heat of sprawling air base in southern Texas town with segregated black men of his unit. Yes, my dad had better things to do, but he put them aside for his country. Your father didn't.
In 1962 and 1963, for example, while my father was leaving home at 3 and 4 o'clock in the morning to strap himself into a B-52 and take off for points classified, leaving behind his wife and 5 young children, you father was arrested twice for driving while intoxicated. 1966, when your mom was 10 weeks pregnant with you or your sister, you dad applied for the last of his "hardship" deferments. In contrast, my father and my family endured the hardship of moving to one more foreign country, one more basing housing unit, one more military school system, and one more classified job assignment.
Now, you might argue that your dad worked for presidents and that should count for something. I will grant you that. Your father interned in the Nixon administration, served in Congress where he found a way to be on the wrong side of history numerous times, voting against the Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr national holiday, voting to sustain President Reagan's veto of the bill to impose economic sanctions against South Africa for its continuation of apartheid. Your father -- surprising for one who went to such great lengths to avoid military service -- was the architect of three sizable wars: Gulf War I, the war in Afghanistan and the war in Iraq.
Your father used his office to encourage -- some would say "coerce" -- the nation's intelligence agencies to produce and promote and promulgate false intelligence about Iraq and weapons of mass destruction, a connection between Saddam Hussein (whose ascension to power your father at one point supported) and Osama Bin Laden. Your father encouraged those same intelligence agencies to swoop in and take men (and apparently women, too) to secret destinations in foreign countries where he knew torture was a common practice and would be used without restraint on people.
That fomenting and prosecuting another war in Iraq was on your father's agenda from well before George W. Bush took office is common knowledge. He was not happy with the ending of the first war. It has been clear that his objective was the Iraqi oilfields and their revenue for his one-time company, Halliburton.
But Liz, this is the sticking point: your defense of your father for supposedly keeping the country safe after September 11, 2001 forces us to question just exactly what he was doing to keep the country safe before September 11, 2001. Your outsized defense of your father for his post 9/11 behaviors -- outing a CIA agent, manufacturing lies about weapons of mass destruction (or is that weapons of mass destruction development systems?) or whatever other obfuscation or construction he chooses -- misses the point on a host of issues, but most importantly misses on torture.
The laws banning the use of torture do not contain a qualifier -- "we got good information!" The laws are direct: no torture. Your father used torture to cover his tracks. He wanted a war in Iraq. He used torture on at least one person 189 times to try to make a link between Osama Bin Laden and Saddam Hussein. He forced otherwise law abiding US citizens to torture other humans so Dick Cheney's war was more palatable. He used intelligent men and women as foils to concoct lies about yellowcake uranium and fuel rods, chemical weapons and dirty bombs. He used torture to "prove" those lies.
Liz Cheney, I know you must love your father with all your heart. Otherwise, you would not be making such a strenuous argument for him. Both of you point to the more than 3000 people who died on 9/11. But neither of you are willing to answer for the more than 4500 men and women killed by an unnecessary war -- your father's war -- in Iraq. A war based, let me repeat, on the lies that Osama Bin Laden and Saddam Hussein were colluding together pre- and post- 9/11, the lies that Saddam Hussein had weapons of mass destruction ready to be used on us or Israel or elsewhere. Lies that he wanted "evidence" of, "proof" that came through torture.
So confident is your father in his lies that he promotes Iran as his next war of choice. Thank goodness -- no, I thank God -- he is no longer in office to wage that war.
Liz, whatever you want to tell your father in comfort of your own homes, at celebratory meals around the family table, at picnics and barbecues in your friends' backyards, you are free to say. But do not use the nation's airwaves and mass media to promote these lies anymore.
It is painfully unfair to the daughters and the sons whose fathers died fighting Dick Cheney's personal war. No amount of torture will make them say otherwise.
















Jade, I hope you will send this to her (and to many Op-Ed papers). I say the latter because Liz Cheney will probably not read what you wrote, or will ignore it.
You said it best (although I have to admit I thought you were talking to LizB for a very brief time, and I was a little confused -- MY bad, not yours.
Great Post, and full of truth; I am sooooo sick of hearing about how they "kept us safe." Clinton kept us safer, as was pointed out elsewhere, since the first attack took place 16 days into his first term -- oh, and Clinton never got a warning like Bush/Cheney did.
By the way, thank your father for his service to our country. I don't think Cheney ever served our country, unless it would refer to the term the way my sons use it. In that case, Cheney definitely said to our country, "You are served!"
May 17, 2009 7:04 PM | Reply | Permalink
Maybe I'll get lucky and MoDo will plagiarize it! LOL!
May 17, 2009 7:39 PM | Reply | Permalink
Frankly, if MoDo wants to redeem herself, she should publish your entire blog - crediting you!
This is a magnificent, outstanding, stirring post! I can't say enough good things about it! I'd rec'd 10x if I could! Maybe 100!
It should be spread far and wide. You've hit all the right notes! What tour de force!
Thank you, Jade.
May 18, 2009 9:27 AM | Reply | Permalink
Jade,
Powerful! And I so agree with CD about sending this out 'en masse' to Huffington and blogs too (as well as op-ed pages NYT, WP, etc.)
If I could I would rec a million times.
Heartfelt, factual and on point.
Thank you. Very much!
Of course, rec'd here.
May 17, 2009 7:29 PM | Reply | Permalink
I'm in agreement with CVille and Sammie, Jade, you must send this to every paper and blog you can think of. If you do want to, and need help getting it out, we'd be happy to help.
Awesome post, Jade, just awesome. HIGHLY rec'd.
May 17, 2009 7:38 PM | Reply | Permalink
Jade: many of our fathers gave their lives for this country -- mine, also, among them. He, among them, who served in WWII and in Korea, and then also served as Reservist guinea pig observer at Los Alamos.
"So" -- as Cheney would say -- to Liz (although for Liz we strive to feel the compassion a daughter is due who loves her father, no matter what)....so, Dick.... just so.
Adults make their choices, and live (or die) with the results of those choices.
Thank you, Jade, for honoring our fathers deserving of honor.
May 17, 2009 7:40 PM | Reply | Permalink
Jade, SEND THIS OUT. THIS IS SUPERB. WOWOWOWOOWOW
GOD I HATE THE CHENEYS
HAHAHA
Oh I hereby award you the Dayly Blog of the Day Award for this here TPMCafe site, given to all of you from all of me.
May 17, 2009 8:18 PM | Reply | Permalink
Really well done Jade.
May 17, 2009 8:40 PM | Reply | Permalink
Jade: Thanks for this. My husband was drafted in 1969, two months out of high school. He didn't have any friends in high places to help him, even though his father was career Army. Today, his son, my stepson, is serving in Afghanistan. He graduated from West Point in 2006 and is serving his time, proudly. My father was a member of the RAF in WWII. So, we recognize a Chicken Hawk when we see him. The Cheneys are the worst kind of false "patriots", asking others to do for them what they themselves will not do, and have never done. If you've ever read Charles Dickens, his books are full of Cheneyesque characters, evil, malicious, manipulative, and without shame. Dickens could have had many novels out of the Cheney family. It is early for Father's Day comments, but thanks so much for this. It hit a nerve.
May 17, 2009 9:25 PM | Reply | Permalink
Before I got to the end of this blog I just said to myself, "Oh she just has to send this out to every place and every one she can!" Then I saw the comments, so I'm adding my voice to the rest. Let this blog fly, Jade.
May 17, 2009 10:25 PM | Reply | Permalink
Wow!
This is incredibly well expressed and packs a perfect direct experience punch!
I concur with the others with regards to sending this out.
We have just started to hear a few comments from military personnel and their families. I expect that we are likely to hear a downpour at some point as there has bene an injustice done in both waging an unjustified war and endangering lives in addition to using power to corrupt leaders and service men and women within the military to break the law and commit immoral acts.
They have been doubly injured and I am concerned about the moral among our military. I was encouraged by the statement I read on TPM about the military man who said he wanted the photos released that Obama is attempting to block. And when he was asked why he would want these photos released that might escalate violence against our military men on the ground, he said 'because we are fighting for democracy'.
I am greatly disturbed by all of the wrongs done to those who are in the service and have no idea how they can be made right. Thanks for sharing this with us.
Waging a PR campaign to try to persuade the public that torture is good and the VP kept us safe when the destruction that was 911 was on his watch... it's all sick and ludicrous. I think that Dick Cheney is a patholocially fearful sociopath... Liz Cheney is following in his footsteps. Forget about the legacy folks, as Bill Clinton said, 'it's over'.
May 17, 2009 10:49 PM | Reply | Permalink
Jade, this is truly exceptional. In so many ways it is exceptional.
Thank you.
May 18, 2009 1:28 AM | Reply | Permalink
I love the way you compared and contrasted the fathers, but the sticking point was inevitable. Under Cheney it was deadly, and then final for so many.
Not that it makes much difference, but I would love to see one phrase added to the Cheney side of accounts:
Your father interned in the Nixon administration, where he learned the value of erased tapes ....
May 18, 2009 6:24 AM | Reply | Permalink
One more time - this is an outstanding blog! Simply outstanding!!!
May 18, 2009 9:29 AM | Reply | Permalink
thanks all... *smiles humbly*
May 18, 2009 10:30 AM | Reply | Permalink
Oh yes, Jade. This needs to broadcast much further then our Cafe. You've been given too much encouragement to let this be the end of a very poignant and well-crafted work. Don't make us have to torture you to admit there were NO ties between Saddam and Osama, and no WMD either. Oh dang, in my zeal to torture someone to appease my darkest desires, I see you already did admit that. But what about those companies who offer torture services? What about the economy? Anyhoo...
While there is no need to amend the piece, I would simply say we lost 3,000+ people on 9/11, 4,500 people since 9/11, but the Iraqis have lost around 100,000 people. 100,000 people who had absolutely nothing to do with 9/11.
It is encouraging to hear the mlitary folks making noise about their contempt for Cheney. I am sure there was a lot of stuffed sentiment during their Administration, but the sounds are emerging. I suspect it may become a deluge. I think we need to wash away this stain and it is truly disappointing, but it WILL take a flood to do it.
May 18, 2009 12:12 PM | Reply | Permalink
Jade,
That was brilliant. Even though you presented your narrative, it resembles much of what a lot of feel. I've been say to friends lately that it's funny how Cheney is doing the circuit to champion his policies. He and pundits alike have been saying that the nation has been safe since 9/11, but NO ONE ever counters him to ask or state that it's due to the "laisez-faire" policies toward national security by HIS administration that made 9/11 possible?
I'm not going to jokingly propose torturing you to send this out, because like torture, your article is serious business. So please distribute this faster than WHO can distribute swine flu -- make your piece truly viral... Please?
May 18, 2009 12:42 PM | Reply | Permalink
Viral is up to us, folks! :-)
May 18, 2009 1:45 PM | Reply | Permalink
This letter is Truth to Power, Jade. I, too, hope you will sent it out beyond TPM.
May 18, 2009 3:40 PM | Reply | Permalink
I echo what everyone else has already written: send this everywhere. Send it to the Times! (It really would be such an improvement over MoDo's stuff...even the plagiarized stuff...)
The emperor doesn't have any clothes. Reading your letter to Liz Cheney is like hearing someone speak those words.
Five deferment Dick shouldn't receive the deference that he does: there are millions and millions of Americans who are far more heroic than even in Dick's feverish dreams, and your dad is one of them.
May 18, 2009 3:53 PM | Reply | Permalink
The people have spoken... I'm getting off my patootie to make it so...
May 18, 2009 4:17 PM | Reply | Permalink
And you all are free to distribute wherever...
May 18, 2009 4:35 PM | Reply | Permalink
Jade, read Boyd Reed's new blog, TPM Plagiarism, Part Deux. It strikes me that you would be a prime target.
May 18, 2009 5:03 PM | Reply | Permalink
Absolutely outstanding, Jade! I will do my part to send it around because it speaks for me too from the heart.
May 18, 2009 5:12 PM | Reply | Permalink
Jade, This is my first post ever on the net. I was so moved by your letter I had to respond. My husband spent 26 years in the army and served in Viet Nam. He did 2 tours and saw his men suffer, including death. Your understanding made my heart sigh and yes, cry. I will send your letter to everyone I know and perhaps we can all learn a kind, understanding, non critical voice gets us further than venom. You go, Girl
May 18, 2009 9:21 PM | Reply | Permalink
thank you for speaking out and sharing, we said/written :toast:
as i always like to say, thank GORE, he 'invented' the internets! ;>
peace
May 18, 2009 10:58 PM | Reply | Permalink