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Something Is Wrong Somewhere: A Labor Day Lament


As an homage to Labor Day, I was going to write about my Gran and the part she played in 'The Great Sit-Down Strike' of 1936-37.   But, I will leave that story of the past for another day.

Instead, I wish to consider the here and now this Labor Day.  There is no need to rehash the statistics.  We know we're knee deep in deep shit.  If we haven't already lost the way we earn a living, we know someone who has.  We know it.   And if you don't, well, I reckon you've got your head stuck so far up yer own ass, it's merely hopeless.

Not having a way to earn your keep is a worrisome condition.  It causes all kinds of bad stuff...ulcers, migraines, depression, panic, destitution, exposure to the elements, starvation, death....you know, the usual stuff.

Ohhhhhhhhh, you might be thinking,  it doesn't get that bad. There are shelters all over the place and soup kitchens and all kinds of charitable institutions that provide for the jobless.   No one ever died from not having a job. Pshaw.  Get a grip.  (Head check.  Where is yours again?)

But, today, I wish to speak of some of the fallout of having no labor on Labor Day.  The incidentals, you might say.  The kids.

You see....
When Dad lost his big job, the one with the health insurance benefits, well, it was a little sad around the house.  But, Mom still had her checkout-counter job.  And, at first, I  didn't notice there wasn't hot dogs to go along with the mac and cheese anymore, well, mostly because I love mac and cheese.  I could eat it everyday.

Then the house got cold.  But, it was kinda fun anyway because then we got to sleep together in one big bed in order to keep each other warm at night.

The phone rang all the time.  Dad told me not to answer it, but sometimes I forgot and then he would yell at me a little.  But, he never hit me.  Not like Tod's dad.  Toddy gets it all the time from his dad.  His dad don't work anymore, either.

The phone stopped ringing.  I think my Mom fixed it.  She's at home all the time now, too.  Dad and Mom used to fight with each other.  Now they don't say anything.  Mom talks to me, says it will all work out, helps me get ready for school, because it's warm there, Mom says.  It's warm at school and they give me a lunch for free, too.  Sometimes, that's all I have to eat all day.  Sometimes on Saturday, I don't have anything to eat.  On Sunday, I used to get a snack at Sunday school.  We don't go to church anymore.  Mom says she doesn't want any one to know we are poor.

I don't know what poor is.

That stuck up girl Heather at school  told me I smelled bad and asked me when was the last time I had a bath and didn't my Mom ever wash my clothes.  My Mom washes my clothes!  I think.  I don't know.  Mom tries so hard, she makes a little money doing chores for old people so sometimes we have supper, too.  Dad doesn't do anything anymore.  Mom says he has give up.  Then she looks really worried.  Sometimes, she cries.  I tell her I'm trying my best to be a good kid, that I won't be a problem anymore, that I will stop falling asleep at my desk in school, that I'll try harder to learn better how to read and stuff, but then she just cries harder.  I'm not bringing anymore letters home from my teacher anymore.  It just causes trouble.

I worry about my mom.  She cries too much.  Sometimes my stomach hurts.  But, I'm not hungry or anything.  No, I'm not.  My stomach hurts even when there is food in it.

We have to move, Dad says.  We can't live in our house anymore.  We are going to go live in Uncle Ray's back yard.  In his camper!  I love camping!

Except, I will have to leave most of my toys behind.  Not enough room, Mom says.

That's okay.  

I don't need toys.

I'm a big boy now...I'm gonna be eight years old pretty soon.

Did I just make this up?  Not really.  This is, more or less, what one of my nephews told me not too long ago when he was recalling some difficult months nearly twenty years ago after both parents lost their jobs.  Had I known what was transpiring back then, I would have helped.  But, I did not know until many years after the fact.  That is the stigma of unintentional poverty, of having no labor on Labor day, of not wanting anyone to know you have become poor.

I had a nice rant all worked up about this situation going on in our country.  This cavalier treatment of the unemployed. The glib way we give short shrift to their needs because there is unemployment insurance, homeless shelters, food banks, soup kitchens.  That stuff is all in place to take care of it so all the grownups can have a clear conscience.  But, so little is said about what the kids go through.  If you think stuff like this will not affect them because of their young age, think twice. 

It is seared into my nephews memory.

I was gonna blast the lawmakers.  I was gonna blast the rich.  I was gonna blast.....everything.  I was furious, lemme tellya, just furious.  Especially after reading jollyroger's important piece Sunday morning.

But, it was an impotent rage.  A big bomb that went poof instead of kaboom.  My rage just went away because when I stare into the face of this tremendous disaster, the fight leaves me.  It's so damn big.  Way bigger than me.  Scary big.  The rage left me and all I have left is my resolve to help where I can.

When I first began posting here at TPMCafe, late last year, one of my first blogs was about what could be done for those who would need help during the predicted unemployment crisis.  I said I was going to plant extra vegetables and donate them to food banks or soup kitchens or where ever there was a need.

I have done that.

But, I thought I'd feel better about it.  Somehow, it just isn't enough.

There is a stanza from a song written by Jim Garland in the 1930's that about covers what it has come down to, this labor-less Labor Day.  It was performed at the time by Pete Seeger and The Almanac Singers.

We worked to build this country, Mister,
While you enjoyed a life of ease.
You've stolen all that we built, Mister,
Now our children starve and freeze.



This song is still sung today.  Play it, Chet.  Sing it, boys.


There's sixty years difference between the two versions of this lament.

Something is still wrong somewhere.



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Thank you.

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You are welcome.

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Thank you so much for this excellent post flower. Kids remember, but often do not understand/know what is going on at the time.

You note that we have support systems now for the unemployed. I think most folks think they are there, but they may not be. Unemployment insurance for example. Covered jobs vary to some extent by state (most exclude agricultural workers for example). Also, while jobs may be covered, workers may not be eligible. Some employers try to avoid releasing workers under conditions where they would be eligible for benefits. Folks may not have worked long enough etc. This report from the Urban Institute stunned me with how few folks get benefits:

While over 90 percent of jobs in the United States are covered by unemployment insurance, not all unemployed workers receive benefits. In fact, only 36.3 percent of the unemployed in 2007 received benefits. Some choose not to claim benefits, and others who do apply are found ineligible because they did not earn enough or work long enough before losing their jobs.

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The non-governmental support systems are stretched beyond their capabilities, homeless shelters are turning folks away, food banks are begging for help....and, it's not even winter yet, Rowan.

Believing there is unemployment benefits to keep you afloat should you lose a job is a flimsy basket to keep hope in. It will stave off the inevitable for a while, but long term unemployment....well. And that is if you qualify.

The word 'defraud' comes to mind for some reason. I mean, I worked in good faith, why am I being denied benefits?

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Yeah Flower, that's what I was getting at. Too many people THINK there is a "safety net" when it is actually a rope stretched across the abyss. If you are lucky enough to fall close enough to it and grab on, you can hang in the wind - as long as your grip lasts. It's another version of "We have universal healthcare, because folks can go to the emergency room."

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Not having a way to earn your keep is a worrisome condition. It causes all kinds of bad stuff...ulcers, migraines, depression, panic, destitution, exposure to the elements, starvation, death....you know, the usual stuff.

This is priceless, saddening

What is your name?

Who do you do?

The second question a stranger asks. Who you do is who you are. It is that simple. What is your place in society.

This is a fantastic blog.

Oh and I love the song....Johnny and Willie...

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I was tickled when I found both songs online. Yep, Pete Seeger, Willie and Johnny, Chet and Bono, and my guy Tom Petty. All singin' for the rest of us.

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The other group not covered by unemployment insurance is the self-employed. Many of us are under-employed at the very least, and if we are injured we don't get help from the G. I have never read that those numbers are factored into the Department of Labor's statistics.
Thanks for telling your nephew's story from childhood; it's pretty timeless, isn't it?

Flowerchild, you mentioned having become a Tribal Elder recently. Which tribe is yours?

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Flower: I'm sorry that this stark image of an overburdened, weeping mother and a child helpless to do anything about it is part of your family's memory. I grieve that such a lifetime psychic and emotional scarring will be visited on so many children in the next few years.
Wendy: as a freelancer/independent contractor for most of my working life, I've been amazed that, in a country that says it encourages entrepreneurs it is, in fact, a country that provides no saftety net for those who fail to work for corporations but, instead, pursue independent incomes. It is not just a matter of being barred from access to subsidized healthcare or temporary unemployment benefits; it is also that social security benefits do not accrue for those who are self-employed.
I attempt to comfort myself by being mindful that years of knowing we had no governmentally-sponsored safety net has better prepared freelancers to cope, at least emotionally, with the current economic disaster fallout of lost jobs and benefits. It may be far more shocking and therefore debilitating for those with a corporate employment history to deal with sudden and unexpected losses of anticipated pensions, subsidized healthcare, etc..
There is no comfort, however, in knowing that change has not been in the direction of freelancers finally getting on the safety net list; that, rather, now those who thought they were on it are dropped, forced suddenly, without preparation or practice, to adopt the freelance, freefall scramble.
At least we did by choice.

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When people ask me what our Retirement Plan is, I tell them, "A shopping cart and Hefty Bags." We will be in good company.
Now that I can't work, I am paying in zero to Social Security. Every year I get a letter from them showing how much my monthly check will be when I am old enough to collect; it's a comical figure. They inevitably advise me that I should make more money; DAMN, wish I'd thought of that!"

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hahahhahaha...a shopping cart and a hefty bag. That sounds like the answer I give when I'm asked what kind of health plan I have. I tell them, "Well, I plan on living until I fall over dead with a heart attack."

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"a lifetime psychic and emotional scarring will be visited on so many children in the next few years."

This is exactly why I wished to write this....especially after reading about the epic number of homeless children in jollyroger's blog.

Every crisis begets another. It's endless. And we continue to ask, "Is this the best we can do for ourselves?" We answer, "No!", but our actions make us liars.

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But WW: Social Security benefits do accrue for the self employed as long you report income and pay taxes. I do benefits for people for a living. As long as you are reporting income and paying your taxes, you are eligible for SS. You pay the full amount--employers usually pay half--but you are still paying in and deserve the benefit.

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Anishinaabe. You might be more familiar with the popular names Ojibwe or Chippewa. And I did not become a Tribal Elder...just an elder of the tribe. Lowercase 'e'. Which means all I did was live long enough to reach the age of 55. I will never be a Tribal Elder with the uppercase 'E'. Traveling the Red Road takes dedication and commitment and acceptance of certain good ways. I am too much of a liberal. ;o)

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I think we are all neighbors because many of us has shared that very same fate.

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Yep. Sharing misfortune makes it less, makes us all residents of the same neighborhood.

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Great post, flowerchild. So moving, so well done. Our power is in numbers now. We need to keep on blogging, keep on speaking out, keep on reminding those with blinders on how this situation is affecting real people every minute of every day.

These stories are heartbreaking, but what's horrifying about them is the numbers. These stories are out there by the millions. Yes, millions.

Who is going to finally listen?

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Ever have that feeling you're screaming into a howling wind?

Yeah. Me too.

We'll keep on keepin' on, Ramona. That's what old warriors do.

Thanks for stopping by.

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I wish I had time to read this but I gotta go work at the 7-Eleven. Students are total slaves to the system. Maybe I can be manager when I get my Masters.

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Go get 'em kid.

Heads up though. Apparently, they're on their way to becoming 5-eight and a half. Cutbacks.

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Werkin' on Labor Day, Doomer? Ya getting time and a half for it? If ya are, thank a union. If yer not, form a union. ;o)

So...when you get yer Masters...is that when you get to wear one of them green jackets? How cool is that? =D

Nice to see you!

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Amen!

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Eniwek. Amen, indeed.

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While I often find release in letting go at the machine, I cannot move the machine and people tend to ignore a rant, unless they can achieve some vicarious comfort of their own in hearing someone express what they have not found the words to say. But it is stories like these that really move people, that move them to action.

Thank you, Flower. Strong post.

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I hope it does some good, GZap. At the very least, make some folks stop and think before they dismiss that grubby looking little kid as having parents that don't care. At the very most, make some folks stop and dig a little deeper for a few bucks for the food banks....or even make a ruckus about the uneven distribution of life's necessities.

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Thanks Flower, this is a vivid picture of what a child living in poverty and hunger lives through daily.It is hard not to go into a rant about the injustice of it all,but a better way would be to become part of the relief. If ever there was a time to give food to the food banks it is now. We also keep a basket that we put food in every week,good food and not just stuff no one wants,every two weeks we take it to a hurting family.There is also a little can to put cash in. It can be done individually, as a family, or as a group, but it can and should be done.Will it help the whole world, no just one family,but it brings with it hope and love which is as comforting to the soul as the food is to the body.This is not for glory or recognition, and it can be done in secret if you like,it is not about I, but the one in need.Thanks again Flower for presenting this,I hope one,two or many will take it personally, and do unto others as we would want them to do unto us.Get a basket and fill it up!

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Yer a good guy, DonDi. You really are.

Yep. Get a basket and fill it up!
Make like the Easter Bunny, leave it on a doorstep, ring the bell, then hop away.

There's only once person you really need to impress and that is yourself.

And, if you believe in a higher power...well, they already know the good deed you've done.

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This is awful. Rec'd.

Yucch.

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I am deeply wounded and will never recover. Plus, I'm going out to the backyard and eat worms now. That'll learn ya!

Migwetch (thanks) for the rec'd.

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You should probably told me that if seemed to me excessive or a bit much for the reader, to Overreach THIS!, but I would not have readily accessed that in my on-line dictionary.

But anyhow, miigwech gayegiin for the migwetch, and a happier labor day than in your story. to you and those close to you, Flower!

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When I read "Angela's Ashes" by Frank McCourt I was constantly amazed at how he managed to develop and keep a sense of humor and develop good relationships after such a bereft childhood.

Children tend to internalize that regardless how terrible (or good) their childhood was, to them it is normal, and so becomes what they "should" expect. Therefore women who are abused by their fathers often marry abusers -- not because they like abuse; they just see it as their lot in life. Conversely, those who learn early on that they are valued seek out those who value them to spend their time with.

That is the true tragedy about a story like you told; children learn that they deserve less; that hoping for the best is always followed by disappointment; that working really hard to rise above it all is for suckers. This brings me back to Frank McCourt -- he had a few mentors that saw his talents -- he had a couple of good breaks, and his strength of character took him to great heights.

Big Brothers, and other mentoring programs can really make a difference in a child's life. As impotent as we all feel, it is possible to find a way to help. Not everyone is free to do it at all times, but anyone who DOES have time, I recommend mentoring programs. There are many with different names; and many communities have their own versions.

Thanks, Flower. For the reminder.

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Mentoring....I cannot disagree with you, CVille, about what an important thing it is.

Frank McCourt's Angela's Ashes and 'Tis are two of my favorite reads and it was a sad day when he died.

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