I Didn't Vote For Obama Today
I have a confession to make.
I did not vote for Barack Obama today.
I've openly supported Obama since March. But I didn't vote for him today.
I wanted to vote for Ronald Woods. He was my algebra teacher at Clark Junior High in East St. Louis, IL. He died 15 years ago when his truck skidded head-first into a utility pole. He spent many a day teaching us many things besides the Pythagorean Theorem. He taught us about Medgar Evers, Ralph Abernathy, John Lewis and many other civil rights figures who get lost in the shadow cast by Martin Luther King, Jr.
But I didn't vote for Mr. Woods.
I wanted to vote for Willie Mae Cross. She owned and operated Crossroads Preparatory Academy for almost 30 years, educating and empowering thousands of kids before her death in 2003. I was her first student. She gave me my first job, teaching chess and math concepts to kids in grades K-4 in her summer program. She was always there for advice, cheer and consolation. Ms. Cross, in her own way, taught me more about walking in faith than anyone else I ever knew.
But I didn't vote for Ms. Cross.
I wanted to vote for Arthur Mells Jackson, Sr. and Jr. Jackson Senior was a Latin professor. He has a gifted school named for him in my hometown. Jackson Junior was the pre-eminent physician in my hometown for over 30 years. He has a heliport named for him at a hospital in my hometown. They were my great-grandfather and great-uncle, respectively.
But I didn't vote for Prof. Jackson or Dr. Jackson.
I wanted to vote for A.B. Palmer. She was a leading civil rights figure in Shreveport, Louisiana, where my mother grew up and where I still have dozens of family members. She was a strong-willed woman who earned the grudging respect of the town's leaders because she never, ever backed down from anyone and always gave better than she got. She lived to the ripe old age of 99, and has a community center named for her in Shreveport.
But I didn't vote for Mrs. Palmer.
I wanted to vote for these people, who did not live to see a day where a Black man would appear on their ballots on a crisp November morning.
In the end, though, I realized that I could not vote for them any more than I could vote for Obama himself.
So who did I vote for?
No one.
I didn't vote. Not for President, anyway.
Oh, I went to the voting booth. I signed, was given my stub, and was walked over to a voting machine. I cast votes for statewide races and a state referendum on water and sewer improvements.
I stood there, and I thought about all of these people, who influenced my life so greatly. But I didn't vote for who would be the 44th President of the United States.
When my ballot was complete, except for the top line, I finally decided who I was going to vote for - and then decided to let him vote for me. I reached down, picked him up, and told him to find Obama's name on the screen and touch it.
And so it came to pass that Alexander Reed, age 5, read the voting screen, found the right candidate, touched his name, and actually cast a vote for Barack Obama and Joe Biden.
Oh, the vote will be recorded as mine. But I didn't cast it.
Then again, the person who actually pressed the Obama box and the red "vote" button was the person I was really voting for all along.
It made the months of donating, phonebanking, canvassing, door hanger distributing, sign posting, blogging, arguing and persuading so much sweeter.
So, no, I didn't vote for Barack Obama. I voted for a boy who now has every reason to believe he, too, can grow up to be anything he wants...even President.













Tears in my eyes here. Thanks.
November 4, 2008 10:31 AM | Reply | Permalink
Second that, great post !!!!
November 4, 2008 3:03 PM | Reply | Permalink
What a great way to end the night...thank you.
November 5, 2008 1:29 AM | Reply | Permalink
Beautifully written, eastside93. Rec.
November 4, 2008 10:47 AM | Reply | Permalink
Wow. Nice. Recommended.
November 4, 2008 10:57 AM | Reply | Permalink
After the policy headaches, the MSM delusions, all the hype and foofarra a 5 year old boy can grow up to be anything that his heart can imagine. THAT is why Democracy matters for America, for my own Canada, and for the world.
November 4, 2008 10:57 AM | Reply | Permalink
Great post.
My nine-year-old daughter filled out the presidential choice on my absentee ballot. We video-taped it and I think I'll put it on the utube and post a link on TPM.
This is one she'll remember her whole life. She made her own campaign posters and yard signs. Last night when I put her to bed we talked about how we hoped the world would change today.
This feels about a hundred times more important than any election in my life.
November 4, 2008 10:59 AM | Reply | Permalink
Wow Boyd, what a moment for you and your son. Thanks for sharing this. (I knew I should have moved my 401K funds into Kleenex stock).
November 4, 2008 10:59 AM | Reply | Permalink
Damnit, dijamo. First he made me cry, and then you made me laugh and snort my coffee. I'm a mess over here!
Wow. Who knew I would shed so many tears this year? Tears of joy and hope as well as tears of sadness and frustration.
I expect I'll shed some more tonight, but hopefully, they'll all be tears of joy.
November 4, 2008 11:29 AM | Reply | Permalink
I'm guessing I've had more sadness and frustration this primary season than you Phoebes, but it's nothing but joy and anticipation today. And I can't imagine what what it feels like for those who have been with Obama from the beginning. You've always been one of my faves even back in the Election Central primary gladiator days. Hope you enjoy the day! What a journey.
November 4, 2008 2:29 PM | Reply | Permalink
Don't leave your name. The R's will probably challenge your vote.
November 4, 2008 11:02 AM | Reply | Permalink
Sir, sorry to say but that is illegal!
Snark aside that is truly beautiful. That's what some people don't realise. This is how it feels like to be part of history, something that will be teached in schools, and talked about years after all of our demises. It's unbelievable, but I am so proud to be part of this with my family and all of you, let us all make history together.
November 4, 2008 11:02 AM | Reply | Permalink
"teached in schools", what an unfortunate mistake. Obama will fix that too... ;-)
November 4, 2008 2:44 PM | Reply | Permalink
Nice.
November 4, 2008 11:02 AM | Reply | Permalink
Don't do this to me at work!
What a beautiful post--thanks so much!
November 4, 2008 11:03 AM | Reply | Permalink
All I can do is smile. Thanks.
November 4, 2008 11:04 AM | Reply | Permalink
Thank you for remember all of those wonderful people, and for letting that five-year-old touch that button. Sometimes grace is everything.
November 4, 2008 11:06 AM | Reply | Permalink
Wow. Tears welling up here too. If I hadn't already voted, you would have spurred me to do it.
November 4, 2008 11:07 AM | Reply | Permalink
That.Was.Beautiful.
When I picked up my 5 year old daughter last Thursday, we talked on our long two block walk home like we always do. Out of nowhere, she asks me, "Daddy, who is Barack Obama?" I told her that he was running to be our next president. She said, "My friend Christine told me that he IS going to be our next president. Is that true?" I looked her straight in the eye and said, "I hope so honey. For your sake, I certainly hope so."
I thought back to when I was 5 years old and I'm pretty sure that I was completely unaware of who was running for president. The kids at my daughter's elementary school are talking about the election. I am as amazed as I am proud.
Thanks for sharing your great story! :)
November 4, 2008 11:08 AM | Reply | Permalink
My family never voted when I was a kid. Never. My wife and I don't have children yet, but I swear that I will bring them to the polls if we're ever blessed with little ones.
November 4, 2008 11:28 AM | Reply | Permalink
$20 says this post makes it Drudge by noon.
November 4, 2008 11:09 AM | Reply | Permalink
That.Was.Beautiful.
When I picked up my 5 year old daughter last Thursday, we talked on our long two block walk home like we always do. Out of nowhere, she asks me, "Daddy, who is Barack Obama?" I told her that he was running to be our next president. She said, "My friend Christine told me that he IS going to be our next president. Is that true?" I looked her straight in the eye and said, "I hope so honey. For your sake, I certainly hope so."
I thought back to when I was 5 years old and I'm pretty sure that I was completely unaware of who was running for president. The kids at my daughter's elementary school are talking about the election. I am as amazed as I am proud.
Thanks for sharing your great story! :)
November 4, 2008 11:09 AM | Reply | Permalink
thanks for sharing
November 4, 2008 11:10 AM | Reply | Permalink
Thanks for sharing your wonderful story - and for reminding us all that the simple act of casting a vote can truly change the world, in so many, many important ways.
November 4, 2008 11:11 AM | Reply | Permalink
Truly touching. Thanks so much for that.
November 4, 2008 11:11 AM | Reply | Permalink
Awesome post.
November 4, 2008 11:11 AM | Reply | Permalink
This is awesome. I brought my 7 year old and she "voted". She needed a little help for the Congressional race but got the Presidential.
I am in no way as eloquent as you but I felt pride and joy that my daughter witnessed the enthusiasm of this election. Her school "voted" and she handled the fact that McCain one well (we are in a very Red precinct in VA).
Anyway, tears are in my eyes. Thanks so much for this great story.
November 4, 2008 11:13 AM | Reply | Permalink
Both of my babies voted for President for the first time in their lives. I am proud of them for voting for Obama, and even more proud of myself for raising such beautiful, giving children. :*}
November 4, 2008 11:13 AM | Reply | Permalink
On behalf of my kids, thanks.
We all needed that this morning.
November 4, 2008 11:13 AM | Reply | Permalink
Beautifully written. Incredibly moving.
Thank you.
November 4, 2008 11:13 AM | Reply | Permalink
My wife still remembers being four years old and voting against Nixon with her mother, such is the power of voting. My five year old has been telling everyone that she would vote for Obama because he will end the war in Iraq. Last night she added "I don't McCain wants the war to end..." Creating a culture of voting is as important as voting itself. Nicely done!
November 4, 2008 11:15 AM | Reply | Permalink
In Minnesota it perfectly legal to have an assistant of your choice help cast votes as long as it is not your boss, union rep or an actual candidate.
November 4, 2008 11:15 AM | Reply | Permalink
Yes. Hell, yes.
November 4, 2008 11:16 AM | Reply | Permalink
Loved it. Thanx.
November 4, 2008 11:16 AM | Reply | Permalink
This was a remarkable post but all the comments have also been uplifting. This was an election for the future and the generation who will have the opportunity to forge a brighter vision for our country in a time of incredible challenge. Thank you for your thoughtfulness.
November 4, 2008 11:17 AM | Reply | Permalink
What a load of sentimental cr@p. This guy should be writing soap operas.
November 4, 2008 11:17 AM | Reply | Permalink
No, he's writing history.
November 4, 2008 1:14 PM | Reply | Permalink
Wingnuts will be all over you for voter fraud.
November 4, 2008 11:18 AM | Reply | Permalink
"This just in on FOX News, a breaking story, ACORN operatives across the country are sending armies of young children - that's right, children, many of them minorities - to vote using those fraudulent registrations ACORN has been submitting for the past few months. We now turn to our guests today, Ann Coulter and a rabid badger. Just so there's no confusion, Ann's the one on the left of your television screen. Badger, you first. Are children a threat to democracy?"
November 4, 2008 2:10 PM | Reply | Permalink
I voted for the blondie:
http://www.flickr.com/photos/barackobamadotcom/3001769637/sizes/o/
November 4, 2008 11:19 AM | Reply | Permalink
Beautiful. Thanks.
November 4, 2008 11:19 AM | Reply | Permalink
This 50-yr-old white woman has been brought to tears. Thanks for your thoughtful article.
November 4, 2008 11:19 AM | Reply | Permalink
Beautiful and simply touching.
November 4, 2008 11:19 AM | Reply | Permalink
Awesome.
November 4, 2008 11:20 AM | Reply | Permalink
My five year old pressed the "Cast Vote" button, and checked that I was voting for I wanted to. He was awesome.
And yes, I'm voting for him and his 4 week old brother. I believe the world will be a better place because of my choice.
November 4, 2008 11:21 AM | Reply | Permalink
My five year old pressed the "Cast Vote" button, and checked that I was voting for I wanted to. He was awesome.
And yes, I'm voting for him and his 4 week old brother. I believe the world will be a better place because of my choice.
November 4, 2008 11:22 AM | Reply | Permalink
Keep it up, America. This Brit is finding himself incredibly moved by these voting tales. Remember: the rest of the world is watching as closely as you are, only we can't do anything to influence the result. After eight long, dark years, you - and the rest of the planet - are on the verge of something truly special.
November 4, 2008 11:22 AM | Reply | Permalink
I didn't vote for Obama either....
I voted for my 5 month old grandson (my first). I voted for the grandchild due in July (my second).
Yes, I pulled the lever next to the name "Obama" but I cast my vote for the future!!!
November 4, 2008 11:22 AM | Reply | Permalink
Thanks. A truly touching intimate moment. A story like this will be embedded in our minds years from now as we remember how proud we felt--how proud I felt this morning being the 14th voter of Ward 09 to fill out my ballot--to vote this time.
I think of all the hype, anxiety, nailbiting, and tears over the past few months and know in my heart that that excitment will override all the lies, intimidation, hypocracy, and downright foolishness.
"It's a beautiful day!" - U2
November 4, 2008 11:22 AM | Reply | Permalink
Very moving. Thank you.
You remind me of a quote I heard in an NPR interview last week:
Rosa sat so Martin could walk.
Martin walked so Barack could run.
Barack is running so our children can fly.
November 4, 2008 11:22 AM | Reply | Permalink
Just beautiful. Thank you so much for sharing.
I have to say that I was overwhelmed by emotion at the polling place this morning seeing the number of African Americans there with their children. My six year old voted with her father and I tried to explain how historic this election was and casting my own ballot felt very overwhelming, but watching those mothers and fathers with their children was too much....I just cannot imagine how powerful it must've been for those parents to share that experience with their kids.
After the past nightmarish eight years (with a hat tip to Andrew Sullivan): Know Hope.
November 4, 2008 11:22 AM | Reply | Permalink
Will the Republicans pick this post up and point to it as an example of voting fraud? I hope Malkin, Instapundit and the rest don't see this!
November 4, 2008 11:24 AM | Reply | Permalink
You brought a tear to my eyes and not many can do that to this old man. Beautiful, absolutely beautiful. Thank you!
November 4, 2008 11:25 AM | Reply | Permalink
wow
a little more touching then i wanted it to be...
at first i was outraged that you hadnt cast a vote for president but i couldnt stop reading, and im pretty glad i did....
stupid americans always jumping to conclusions
thanks for the story
and hoepfully today goes very well for us all!
November 4, 2008 11:25 AM | Reply | Permalink
Oh there you go! You made me cry!
Thank you for including your child in our nation's voting process.
November 4, 2008 11:26 AM | Reply | Permalink
I didn't expect to be crying this early in the day. Thanks, that was beautiful.
November 4, 2008 11:27 AM | Reply | Permalink
I will be dropping our ballots off this morning. I've already got roaring in my ears, and short choppy, breath. It's gonna be quite a day and night.
November 4, 2008 11:27 AM | Reply | Permalink
You're going to jail fucker. Voter fraud. The republicans are on thier way to your house right now. It's Guantanamo for you. Hide the kid!
November 4, 2008 11:27 AM | Reply | Permalink
That nailed it for me. That is why we vote. Not for our own personal short term gain. That is it. Thanks for helping to clear out my tear ducts this a.m.
November 4, 2008 11:30 AM | Reply | Permalink
I know little about my father's hometown in Oklahoma except it had a billboard that said "N*&@ Don't Let the Sun Set on You in
Dundee." Best I can tell the town no longer exists. I know little about the future, except it will be better for my adopted biracial son.
November 4, 2008 11:34 AM | Reply | Permalink
FWIW, it shows up on Google Earth, just west of Healdton.
November 4, 2008 12:58 PM | Reply | Permalink
Yep, heartwarming. Impeccable logic too.
But the snarky side of my nature rebels just a little at the "purity and sanctity" of children - it's as if we believe all the wisdom and rationality in the world is concentrated in their little hands.
If that's so, why don't we let them vote?
November 4, 2008 11:34 AM | Reply | Permalink
I'm not crying. It's the rain.
HUMMMMM BABY! Waytago EASTSIDE!
November 4, 2008 11:36 AM | Reply | Permalink
I saw Obama working a rope line on TV. The camera picked up an ederly black man and black woman, perhaps husband and wife just behind the rope. I can't describe the look on their faces when Obama was right there in front of them, but maybe the shit they had to live through all their lives somehow disappeared with Obama there in front of them, and maybe their life will never be the same again.
I hope Obama is elected for all the people like that eledery couple.
November 4, 2008 11:39 AM | Reply | Permalink
I was standing on line to vote this morning, watching the parents who had their young children with them. Mine are too old for that now but I wished that they could have joined me for this one. You've captured beautifully why.
Thanks.
November 4, 2008 11:39 AM | Reply | Permalink
Beautiful, beautiful post, tears in my eyes. I registered at TPM just so I could comment.
I'll definitely be thinking of my little one when I cast my vote for Obama after work, although I'm opting not to bring her along this year. (Have completely irrational fear that she'd accidentally flip the lever for McCain, and then open the curtain to lock it in. Yes, as far as I know we're still using old-style voting machines!)
November 4, 2008 11:42 AM | Reply | Permalink
Damn you all for telling such moving stories today, for making me cry, and for filling my heart with hope for the future.
I'm not going to get any work done today, especially if I can't see the computer through my tears of joy.
November 4, 2008 11:42 AM | Reply | Permalink
If only my daughter had every reason to believe he, too, can grow up to be anything she wants...even President.
November 4, 2008 11:44 AM | Reply | Permalink
Crying here in WA, too.
I took my (mixed-race) six-year-old to a Biden rally in Tacoma, he was bored out of his gourd, but I wanted him to be part of history.
A few days later we were at a restaurant that gave fortune cookies, and his read "Welcome the change coming soon into your life."
And, he said, "Maybe it's Obama."
I didn't let him vote for Obama on my ballot because, of course, that's illegal.
ahem.
November 4, 2008 11:44 AM | Reply | Permalink
I have had the best conversations this year with my 12-yr old triplets. We've talked about the issues and we've talked about the electoral college. We've talked about what it means when a fellow student says that voting for Obama means that you're a baby killer. We've talked about what it means that voting for Obama means you want to give all of your money to poor people. We've talked about that it's OK that we might have to pay higher taxes if we vote for Obama. It's been great.
November 4, 2008 11:44 AM | Reply | Permalink
Beautiful story. Hope your kid has the golden Midas touch.
November 4, 2008 11:44 AM | Reply | Permalink
Nice try, Reed; but I'm not gonna... I said I'm not gonna... not... DAMMIT!!!
Yeah, OK, I got all teary-eyed, too....
Seriously, thanks for a very moving post. I have two sons of my own, and I'd like for them to come of age in a much better America than I did. What I've seen of the generation just now starting to come into it's own gives me tremendous hope for the future. Keep up the good work....
November 4, 2008 11:45 AM | Reply | Permalink
Dude, you cannot do that to me. I'm too on edge as it is. I almost ended it all with a letter opener.
November 4, 2008 11:47 AM | Reply | Permalink
Ah, vote fraud.
Well it was for a good cause!
November 4, 2008 11:50 AM | Reply | Permalink
God bless.
November 4, 2008 11:51 AM | Reply | Permalink
This is the second time you have caused me to cry tears of hope for my fellow man, Eastside; the first was your $600 contribution to the people of the Gulf Coast. Your son has a fine father. And, whether or not he remembers this moment, we will.
November 4, 2008 11:51 AM | Reply | Permalink
One word.
Classy!
November 4, 2008 11:52 AM | Reply | Permalink
I hope that the young boy one day looks back on this morning and realizes the power and innocence which all Americans have at that one instant. I dream we all feel this way...today
November 4, 2008 11:52 AM | Reply | Permalink
Wonderful post. I dragged my kids out of bed early this morning to go vote with me, and I let my 9 year old push the button for Obama for the same reasons. This post perfectly captures the pride and the elation I feel today.
November 4, 2008 11:53 AM | Reply | Permalink
My neighbors' children were in line today, too. When a slightly cranky six year old arrived and I told his dad I'd been in line for half an hour, the dad said, "well, maybe we should come back." But the six-year old said, "No. I want to vote." When I left, they were still waiting in line -- the six-year old determined to vote for "high-speed rail." It's wonderful to see people that young already learning about what it means to vote.
(And yes, I also teared up.)
November 4, 2008 11:54 AM | Reply | Permalink
Great. Now I'm all choked up.
November 4, 2008 11:57 AM | Reply | Permalink
I cast my vote for Obama in Brooklyn today and wished I could have been there with my partner, my same-sex partner, now my husband who is from Croatia. He can’t vote in the USA. He has never voted, not once, in any election, anywhere in his entire adult life. He has been here in the USA for 15 years as a student through high school, university, and graduate school and then the past 6 years as a hard-working, tax-paying H1B visa holder. His visa will expire at the end of this year and he will have to leave the country before Obama takes office.
So as I cast that vote today I did so with a great amount of hope for the future. Hope that things will change so that I as a US citizen will have the right to sponsor my husband to obtain lawful permanent resident status just like any opposite-sex, married couple would be able to do. Hope that Obama will cast away DOMA and support UAFA. Hope that my vote today will pave the way for a future in which I will be treated equally among my fellow citizens. Hope that I will realize the civil right to extend that right to sponsor the individual with whom I intend to spend the rest of my life with. Hope that we will be able to return to this country with full, legal status sooner rather that later to live our lives without governments treating us as less-than-others.
And I hope I will be there someday to witness my husband cast his first vote.
November 4, 2008 12:00 PM | Reply | Permalink
The original post made me cry. This comment made me cry AGAIN. Thank you for sharing your story, and I hope the future is good to you. (and yes, i finally registered with tpm- after months of reading- just to reply.).
November 4, 2008 4:29 PM | Reply | Permalink
I think we hereosexuals should make an issue of being heterosexual, even when most gratuitous, as if it's of PUBLIC relevance.
What do you think?
November 7, 2008 6:01 PM | Reply | Permalink
Wow.
November 4, 2008 12:01 PM | Reply | Permalink
Trite, obvious, sweet, wonderful, moving, and simply brought actual tears to my eyes. Yes, that is why we do this. Thank you.
My god, I feel so deeply truly wonderful today.
November 4, 2008 12:03 PM | Reply | Permalink
Thank you for this beautiful post, and thanks to everyone here who has involved their children in this amazing electoral process. It's the least we can do for them, having collectively saddled each and every one of them with $35,000 worth of government debt. ($34,714 today on national debt clock.)
November 4, 2008 12:06 PM | Reply | Permalink
To the author of this post (EastSide93): That was the most amazing post I have read in months. Maybe years. I am an old white guy (61) who lived across the river for you for a year back in 1973. We seldom drove across the river back then -- it was too scary -- we only heard about the crime and such. And I apologize to you for my fear back then.
Like you, I have seen the world change in these many decades. I grew up in Joplin. I went to a Catholic elementary school. The only Catholic family in the city had 2 sons who were in my class for all 12 years. I considered myself to be friends with them, but we never did anything outside school together. And, looking back, I feel bad about that. They were very nice guys.
Muhammed Ali changed this country. The entire world (white and black) admired him. Michael Jordan changed this country. I remembered being pleased at the world years ago when I would see lots of pre-teen and teenaged white boys wearing Michael Jordan's #23 t-shirts. I knew that the world was changing.
I remember thinking that the "Black is Beautiful" slogan from decades ago was just "PR" -- but then along came Dianna Ross and Janet Jackson -- and I realized that truly, Black is Beautiful.
Honestly, I was for Hillary. I didn't think my fellow citizens were ready for Obama. But they (my fellow citizens) have truly stunned me. I was floored and delighted to see photos of 100,000 white folk at an Obama rally in Denver.
As much as JFK did, I believe that BHO will change the world in a very positive way. For the first time in decades, I see the possibility of Peace on Earth.
I could ramble more -- a person has a lot of memories and thoughts at 61 -- but I just wanted to let you know that your Post, here on this site, has truly moved me.
With your permission [let me know if it is not given], I am planning to print your post on parchment paper -- and frame it in an expensive frame for the wall in my living room.
There is only one other item on my wall -- a picture of Matthew Sheppard from the Sheppard Foundation on their "Vote For Me" poster from 2006. It has been on my wall for 2 years. And I just this minute recognized how that poster and your post are truly entertwined around the same topic. I have new hope for America.
I wish you well.
November 4, 2008 12:09 PM | Reply | Permalink
Hi Bob. You're welcome to use the post. Thank you for your comments. You should know that I've been to central Missouri often, and I've found people there to be nice to me individually. Just more confirmation that the mob mentality can be overcome with direct personal communication.
To everyone else who's posted here: I am...well...stunned at the responses. Thanks to all of you very much, even those concerned about me being attacked for "voter fraud". I personally hope this story becomes a Drudge post - it means the GOP has nothing better to discuss, which means they're losing by 200 EVs.
I doubt Alex has any idea what he really did today. He just enjoyed the colorful touch screen. :-)
If I do my job right, though, he'll come to recognize its significance without me harping on it.
November 4, 2008 12:22 PM | Reply | Permalink
Printed, matted, framed and hung. All before the first set of polls close on the East Coast. It was a fun experience. The guy from Kinkos helped me get good paper for printing (he didn't charge me for the paper). The lady at the frame shop didn't charge me for her labor. She also "found" a coupon under her desk that gave me a major discount. Then, at the checkout counter the clerk rang it up -- and with tax it came to $17.76! She didn't understand why 1776 was so significant but she could tell that I was euphoric over the price. All this in the reddest state in the nation. I am on my way to a Watch Party at a local Mexican restaurant. Thanks Boyd.
November 4, 2008 7:10 PM | Reply | Permalink
I welled up just reading these comments!
November 4, 2008 12:10 PM | Reply | Permalink
My eight year old son has watched this election with an interest that surprised me, through 4 nights of the convention and lots of questions about our local propositions. He not only just voted for Obama, he voted against Prop 8 here in California - which he refers to as "that law some people are trying to pass that means you can't marry the person you want to marry". I have never been more hopeful about our future.
November 4, 2008 12:14 PM | Reply | Permalink
No offense, but could we do with less melodrama? I voted for Obama because he's going to be a better president than McCain would have, but Obama is only a human politician. I'm more afraid of the backlash from true believers like everyone wiping their eyes here than from Republicans, because these people (you people) are setting yourselves up for a big disappointment when, starting Jan 20, clouds don't rain honey and ObaMidas is unable to slow the inexorable progression of the economic recession with a wave of his magic unicorn wand.
November 4, 2008 12:20 PM | Reply | Permalink
No offense taken, but I don't recall anyone here saying that clouds would rain honey or anything like that. He also won't cure the common cold. Failure to accomplish either of these Chuck Norris-type feats won't bother me.
Many of the people posting in this thread (myself included - check the blog) have criticized Obama at various points in this election. I think TPMers are actually fairly clear-headed about Obama's limitations and idiosyncrasies (certainly more so than dKos), but most of us recognize his gifts and the potential for an end to the wreckage Bushco is leaving for us and our children.
It's a watershed moment in American political history if Obama is elected, and a lot of people are moved by it. It will dominate the discussion, and it should.
November 4, 2008 12:34 PM | Reply | Permalink
First, thank you for the post. Wonderful.
And this is a watershed moment, an opportunity that might lead this country moving not only in a better economic and foreign policy direction, but a better political and cultural direction. Years from now, we could find ourselves a more decent and progressive country, and looking back see that it was this election that paved the way, just as the fight for civil rights paved the way for this moment, and so on.
November 4, 2008 1:01 PM | Reply | Permalink
No honey? Damnit. I want my vote back.
November 4, 2008 2:44 PM | Reply | Permalink
I wasn't looking for honey. A beer, maybe. But I didn't vote for Obama in hopes of having a beer with him.
November 7, 2008 6:06 PM | Reply | Permalink
Wow, this was amazing. This brought tears to my eyes. I've never seen so much unity, hope, and love as I have with my fellow Obama supporters this election.
November 4, 2008 12:22 PM | Reply | Permalink
Tears in my eyes too.
Here's a fun video of my 2 year old helping shape the future!!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YKiPNSKsS6Q
November 4, 2008 12:24 PM | Reply | Permalink
Too cute!
November 4, 2008 2:22 PM | Reply | Permalink
Tears here, too. My five year old will pull the lever for me, too, as he did for his mom. He likes to vote early and often.
November 4, 2008 12:25 PM | Reply | Permalink
Thanks for sharing, Devon. As cscs would say sometimes, I'd give it a "5" if I could. I rarely well up and had not done so this election cycle until learning of the news of the death of Obama's grandmother yesterday. Now the tears are streaming down my face as I sit here reading these stories by you and others. Just really starting to sink in and get to me, I guess, the magnitude of what is happening.
November 4, 2008 2:03 PM | Reply | Permalink
I've spent the past two months focused on how racism is used in the electoral season, along the Willie Horton lines (for a site I'm working on, StopDogWhistleRacism.com. I just realized today that, for all my focus on the negative stuff, I haven't really had a chance to get excited. I'm knocking off work early today to get in on the good feelings.
November 4, 2008 3:53 PM | Reply | Permalink
Now he will have a story to tell like mine.
When I was 4, my Dad took me into the voting booth with him. It was one of those old mechanical booths with the curtains that close behind you. He was pulling levers all down the Democratic side but he didn't pull the top one. He picked me up, pointed at the top lever, and said "Pull that lever down." So I did. Then Dad said "Now you can tell everybody that you voted for John F. Kennedy."
Dad didn't make it to this election, nor did my Mom. They were lifelong Democrats, raised by Democrats, in a family of Democrats. So this year, I returned the favor. This one was for you, Mom and Dad. I hope I made you proud.
November 4, 2008 12:28 PM | Reply | Permalink
They're doubtlessly bursting.
When you talk to them again, have them pass along a "thank you" to Madelyn Dunham.
November 4, 2008 12:39 PM | Reply | Permalink
Thank you...
November 4, 2008 12:29 PM | Reply | Permalink
Wow, what a load of crap.
November 4, 2008 12:34 PM | Reply | Permalink
Together, Yes We Can!
The transformation is OUR transformation. It starts with each and every one of US.
November 4, 2008 12:34 PM | Reply | Permalink
Cute story, but I am tired of reading these ironic "Gotcha" headlines here, at MyDD and Kos. Been going on for weeks now. Stop it with those everyone.
November 4, 2008 12:40 PM | Reply | Permalink
Thank you.
November 4, 2008 12:41 PM | Reply | Permalink
To those who have described the post as sentimental and crap...
What did you intend to accomplish by verbalizing that? Let the rest of us have a moment where we can enjoy the feeling that true change is in the air. Our feelings are valid.
And if you disagree with that sentiment, your feelings are valid, too, but go to a different blog site and commiserate with them.
November 4, 2008 12:43 PM | Reply | Permalink
I took my 14 year old daughter with me to vote as I've done since she was born. We realized, as we were standing in line, that she will be able to vote for Obama's reelection in 4 years. She was very excited.
November 4, 2008 12:46 PM | Reply | Permalink
I took my 14 year old daughter with me to vote as I've done since she was born. We realized, as we were standing in line, that she will be able to vote for Obama's reelection in 4 years. She was very excited.
November 4, 2008 12:47 PM | Reply | Permalink
So beautifully written; I'm in tears. I'm holding by breath for change.
November 4, 2008 12:48 PM | Reply | Permalink
One word.
Classy!
November 4, 2008 12:54 PM | Reply | Permalink
Powerful & eloquent - the perfect expression of today's hopes.
November 4, 2008 12:54 PM | Reply | Permalink
My seven year old at breakfast this morning was excited because it's election day and Obama is going to win. We then explained for what felt like the 1,000th time that we hope Obama is going to win but different people have different ideas about what is the right way for the country to work. At which point he said this
"Well even if he doesn't beat McCain he's definitely going to beat Bob Barr!"
The his Dad and I looked at each other in an attempt to not burst into laughter.
November 4, 2008 1:00 PM | Reply | Permalink
He taught us about Medgar Evers, Ralph Abernathy, John Lewis and many other civil rights figures who get lost in the shadow cast by Martin Luther King, Jr.
The oh-so-minor discordant point in a moving essay. Casting a shadow sounds ominous. Rather, their stars are less visible in King's brilliant sun.
November 4, 2008 1:01 PM | Reply | Permalink
I voted for Obama because I have a gay son and someday I have hope that all mothers of gay children can tell them that they too could be president.
November 4, 2008 1:01 PM | Reply | Permalink
How in hell does one's PRIVATE sexuality have PUBLIC relevance?
How does making an issue of DIFFERENCE DIMINISH the significance of DIFFERENCE?
Not so by the way, in view of the fact that it also isn't relevant: I'm heterosexual.
November 7, 2008 6:20 PM | Reply | Permalink
Wow. That was powerful stuff. Thank you for sharing.
November 4, 2008 1:03 PM | Reply | Permalink
Why do you want to make people cry?
yay! for your dear little boy!
November 4, 2008 1:03 PM | Reply | Permalink
Eastside...well done, well done! Thats what it always is about, every election. Our children and their children. The dream of full human dignity is getting closer.
November 4, 2008 1:06 PM | Reply | Permalink
Thank you. When Obama wins I WILL cry.
Then I have signs that say "Yes we did!!!" to put in my windows. I live on the 10th floor of a high rise and my windows are visible to everyone driving buy or waiting at a huge intersection near my building.
It's happening. It's happening.
November 4, 2008 1:13 PM | Reply | Permalink
What a letdown.
I was hoping to read about somebody else here who voted McKinney, both for voting outside the duopoly box and for doubly making history.
>sigh
November 4, 2008 1:15 PM | Reply | Permalink
Wow, Boyd.
You should hand out barf bags with your posts.
November 4, 2008 1:15 PM | Reply | Permalink
Hey Mitchum22, tell me where you live so I can bash your fucking head in..
November 26, 2008 12:32 PM | Reply | Permalink
Moving, beautifully written post. Bravo.
And just for the record, anyone who can't see the progress this election represents for this society should be pitied. You can be very realistic and still be moved by what's happening today.
November 4, 2008 1:16 PM | Reply | Permalink
Wow. It all comes down to a simple and very powerful moment. Thank you for sharing.
November 4, 2008 1:17 PM | Reply | Permalink
Well, I did vote for Obama this morning. I used to take my kid, but there was no fargin way to separate a high school student from a bed before 11:00 am on her day off.
Even Barack can't work miracles..
November 4, 2008 1:18 PM | Reply | Permalink
See also:
http://www.dailykos.com/story/2008/10/29/92941/441
November 4, 2008 1:22 PM | Reply | Permalink
Beautiful, eastside.
November 4, 2008 1:22 PM | Reply | Permalink
You brought tears to my eyes. I am praying for America!
November 4, 2008 1:23 PM | Reply | Permalink
Very beautiful. When I voted I placed my 11 year old son's hand on top of mine as I marked my ballot. Someday he will be proud that his first vote was cast for the man who is going to change our world.
November 4, 2008 1:25 PM | Reply | Permalink
Thanks for such an inspiring post Eastside. It brought tears to my eyes. By the time I got through a few of the comments, I was flowing like a river.
I was so excited to cast my vote early this morning with my mom by my side. I'm a 50+ white female Vietnam era veteran. My mom is 82 1/2. We both proudly filled in the circle for Obama/Biden.
I feel so exuberant yet a bit anxious waiting for the MSM to call the election for Obama.
November 4, 2008 1:28 PM | Reply | Permalink
Here in Oregon we vote by mail, so I decided that my daughters (ages ten and eight) would fill in the oval beside Barack's name. They were well aware of the significance of this election, and realized that one day they would take pride in having marked this particular ballot.
This entire election cycle has enabled us to examine with them the responsibilities and obligations of active citizenship.
November 4, 2008 1:31 PM | Reply | Permalink
Thank you for sharing this. Last night I got a phone call from my neighbor, who's a visiting professor from Germany. Her daughter had asked her if she could go and vote and her mom thought to call me and ask if she could go with me. I was honored and happy to walk with her to our polling place, which was at her school. As we walked, college kids rode by on their bikes calling out to everyone, urging us to go and vote. When we got into the booth I pulled the levers and then had Yamina press the red button to cast the vote. And on the way back to campus, my young friend told me how important this would be to Africa and Europe, and I couldn't agree with her more.
November 4, 2008 1:34 PM | Reply | Permalink
I remember going to vote with my Mother in our small rural western Pennsylvania town in the late sixties. We had just moved here after my Dad had finished his residency in Delaware. He was about to be drafted as 1A after being classified 4F before he finished his education (He had a cleft palate, punctured eardrum and other things that would not qualify him). Since he had worked at the Dover AFB they thought he would welcome being in the service. He had four children under 8..so no he would not. So my parents quickly found a postion that would qualify him as essential. We moved...very far from my Mother's sisters who had been her support and help as my Dad finished school. I remember going into the booth with my mother, holding my baby brother as she juggled her pocketbook, my baby sister and her umbrella. Finally she told me to pull the lever to register her vote. I remember the pride it gave me that I was her big girl helper. (My older sister was in school that day, so it was a big deal for me to be the 'big sister') As we came out of the booth, the poll worker asked her "how did you vote?". My Mother was shocked because no one had ever asked her in previously. Since it was a new town, small and obviously important to know where this new Doctor's wife stood, my Mom being the sarcastic joker that she was, said calmly: "I voted the for the Communist Party if it is any of your business!" That shut the old biddy up wonderfully, except that when the results were published, 1 person in our town had voted communist. So for the rest of our time in that town we were labeled as "Pinkos".
Every election since, I vote in the tradition of my mother. I vote with my heart, with an eye to the future and with my children there with me. Announcing who you voted for is not as important as showing up and voting. Each and every election is important. Each issue is your chance to make a difference. Teaching your children that with great gifts comes great responsibilities and that we have to accept our actions or inactions have consequences. So vote, tell your neighbors to vote, tell your family to vote, tell everyone to vote. Because when we stop accepting our role in our government, we deny our children their future.
November 4, 2008 1:47 PM | Reply | Permalink
I did the same with my 5 year old this morning. It was one of those parental moments that remind me why I put up with all the baloney Kindergarteners can dish out.
November 4, 2008 1:52 PM | Reply | Permalink
Excellent, excellent post.
My parents are from Alabama and Texas. They're 84 years old, former fans of George Wallace. I remember as a child my father still referred to people he worked with as "Good Ni***r" and talked about the racial tensions in the south (and not in a good way, if you get my drift). I was a confused kid, frankly, because most of my teachers in grade school (until 6th grade, anyway)were incredibly kind, gifted, intelligent, loving, and Black. We moved when I was 11 (in 1973) to an all white rural area because the "wrong kind" of people were moving into our neighborhood.
I now live next door to the house I moved into when I started 6th grade. My 9 year old daughter goes to the same grade school, but now she has African American friends, latinos, asians, Arabs, persians, and still a lot of "white" folk, and exactly zero issues like the ones I dealt with at her age.
My oldest daughter is now student teaching and lives in North Carolina and voted for Barack. My middle daughter blogs for him on Youtube.
And both parents just voted to help make a black man president.
I was worried for awhile but this is, in fact, still America.
November 4, 2008 1:53 PM | Reply | Permalink
Did it with my five-year-old this morning too. It was a reminder that what I do as a parent has an impact on the future of our society.
November 4, 2008 2:04 PM | Reply | Permalink
Excellent, excellent post.
My parents are from Alabama and Texas. They're 84 years old, former fans of George Wallace. I remember as a child my father still referred to people he worked with as "Good Ni***r" and talked about the racial tensions in the south (and not in a good way, if you get my drift). I was a confused kid, frankly, because most of my teachers in grade school (until 6th grade, anyway)were incredibly kind, gifted, intelligent, loving, and Black. We moved when I was 11 (in 1973) to an all white rural area because the "wrong kind" of people were moving into our neighborhood.
I now live next door to the house I moved into when I started 6th grade. My 9 year old daughter goes to the same grade school, but now she has African American friends, latinos, asians, Arabs, persians, and still a lot of "white" folk, and exactly zero issues like the ones I dealt with at her age.
My oldest daughter is now student teaching and lives in North Carolina and voted for Barack. My middle daughter blogs for him on Youtube.
And both parents just voted to help make a black man president.
I was worried for awhile but this is, in fact, still America.
November 4, 2008 2:07 PM | Reply | Permalink
I don't understand you people at all. This story is full of cliches and probably just something that somebody made up. No wonder the country is in the mess it's in.
November 4, 2008 2:08 PM | Reply | Permalink
I don't understand you people at all. This story is full of cliches and probably just something that somebody made up. No wonder the country is in the mess it's in.
November 4, 2008 2:08 PM | Reply | Permalink
You felt the need to post this twice, I see. :-)
Kidding aside, though, it's a little saddening to see the cynicism from some on this thread. I expected more of it, to be honest. Today, however, people like you can't mess up my mojo.
BTW, did you consider that the country is in the mess it's in precisely because people stopped believing in the best and started settling for the mediocre?
I want my son to grow up in a country where the relentless pursuit of perfection is the minimum he'll accept. That starts with being involved in our nation's affairs - and that starts with knowing the importance of voting. I'm glad I took him today - and if I have to take the occasional brickbat from a misanthrope, I'd do it again.
In fact, he'll be going with me for the midterms in 2010, too. And I might even write about it. :-)
November 4, 2008 2:35 PM | Reply | Permalink
Posted by bocawayne
This story is full of cliches and probably just something that somebody made up. No wonder the country is in the mess it's in."
I agree the country is in a mess.
Your comment, Reminds me of the Joe the plumber story, A fabricated Cinderella story about a guy, so full of clichés, and turns out to be a man named Sam not Joe. I'm not making this up. Sam
An unlicensed plumber, probably avoiding paying taxes on his income.
Using Sammy Davis' tap dancing skills as a stereotypical analogy, or if you prefer Racists remarks. Joe the plumber is really Joe the fraud.
November 4, 2008 3:31 PM | Reply | Permalink
Thank you so much...beautiful post
November 4, 2008 2:23 PM | Reply | Permalink
That's beautiful.
November 4, 2008 2:33 PM | Reply | Permalink
I cast my first vote the same way: as a 7-year-old kid pulling the lever for my mom. Unfortunately, it was a vote for Bush the Elder, but it's something that stuck with me. Your son is going to remember this for the rest of his life. That's awesome.
November 4, 2008 2:37 PM | Reply | Permalink
Great post! Thank you for a fresh perspective of what casting our vote really means. Just want to note that whether we pull the lever for Obama or for McCain, most of us do so in hopes that our children and grandchildren will have a brighter future. Some crusty old repubs actually love their families, fellow citizens, and country!
November 4, 2008 2:37 PM | Reply | Permalink
Been waiting for the absolute proof our dream has come true, but you got me! Goose bumps & tears galore. I echo everyone here, beautiful!
November 4, 2008 2:40 PM | Reply | Permalink
Damn Eastside! You've gone viral! ;)
November 4, 2008 2:46 PM | Reply | Permalink
Speaking with my mother this morning, it became clear to me why Barack Obama is special. Beyond his policies and speeches, he is the only presidential candidate I can remember, in my brief forty-nine years spent circling the sun, whose judgement supercedes his ego. I believe we can trust him to make choices which are in the best interests of our country and our planet. I find it ironic that McCain's slogan is "Country First." Should Republicans voting today truly wish to put country first, they should cast their votes for Senator Obama. Thank you, Mr. Reed, for touching my soul today.
November 4, 2008 2:47 PM | Reply | Permalink
Speaking with my mother this morning, it became clear to me why Barack Obama is special. Beyond his policies and speeches, he is the only presidential candidate I can remember, in my brief forty-nine years spent circling the sun, whose judgement supercedes his ego. I believe we can trust him to make choices which are in the best interests of our country and our planet. I find it ironic that McCain's slogan is "Country First." Should Republicans voting today truly wish to put country first, they should cast their votes for Senator Obama. Thank you, Mr. Reed, for touching my soul today.
November 4, 2008 2:51 PM | Reply | Permalink
Beautiful comment. I too teared up.
And I confess that I choked up when I voted in DC for Obama this morning. I realize that my vote doesn't really affect things, since DC will go Blue anyway. But as an upper income, middle aged white person who has enjoyed the benefits of American society, I felt compelled to stand in line for an hour to vote anyway. As I marked my ballot, I thought back to the images of my childhood of Bull Connor and the firehoses, of Schwerner, Goodman and Cheney of the Freedom Riders, of Viola Liuzzo, of Dr. King marching in Selma, of the time my family's house was targeted by vandals because we had Black friends. Little did I dream back then that I would one day vote proudly for a man as President who was Black.
November 4, 2008 2:55 PM | Reply | Permalink
Oy. Mix a cup of sugar into a bowl of chicken noodle soup. The result will be this post.
November 4, 2008 3:01 PM | Reply | Permalink
Not cool, not cool at all. I'm not supposed to start crying 'till late tonight. And now you've gone and made me weep at 3:06.
November 4, 2008 3:06 PM | Reply | Permalink
Thank you.
November 4, 2008 3:11 PM | Reply | Permalink
The true meaning of our creed.
November 4, 2008 3:14 PM | Reply | Permalink
Powerful. Simply Powerful.
My nine year old son watched me as I blocked out Obama's name. As we walked out I told him that this could possibly be the most important election of my lifetime.
Thank you for sharing. Thank you for moving me to tears.
November 4, 2008 3:17 PM | Reply | Permalink
Beautiful...i'm getting all chill bumpy....
November 4, 2008 3:34 PM | Reply | Permalink
Oh, for cry eye... You killed me with this one. Beautiful.
November 4, 2008 3:44 PM | Reply | Permalink
I don’t want to be the LC; lone curmudgeon
But I had a different reaction to this post right to the end
• I think voting for political leaders is an incredible and rare privilege
• A lot of people have sacrificed a lot more than I have or the poster of the original note for the right to vote;the right of a black person or a female to vote and be considered for a vote
• I think adopting an air of cynicism because “your perfect and personal candidate” is not on the ticket is a horrendous cop out. All of those examples given were heroes but that does not qualify them as leaders of nations anymore than surviving a prison camp does.
• Leaving the final decision to vote to the vagaries of a child you love and asking them to go eeney meeney miny moe is attributing too much inherent wisdom to them and too little to yourself.
• Children should be children and not sages and adults should be adults and not vote dodgers
and for the record, the parental figure didn't vote. But he /she did give up their right to complain about what happens next with the economy or energy or killing innocent people. When you are not part of the solution, you are certainly part of the problem. And don't blame that on the child.
November 4, 2008 3:44 PM | Reply | Permalink
Not exactly sure how to react to this. Scornful ridicule, while certainly an option, isn't appropriate today. So, I'll attempt to respond in serious, respectful fashion.
If you really believe I didn't vote, then you're either overly literal or completely off your rails. If you really believe I somehow "pawned off" responsibility for my vote to my son, you completely missed the point of the story.
My son is perfectly capable of reading Obama's name. He owns an Obama t-shirt, and we have three Obama signs on our property. He always alerts us when he sees Obama on TV.
I wanted him to actually press the button, so he could be a part of today too. That was the only point. If you had bothered to actually read the post, you'd have seen that I told him to find Obama's name and touch it.
Your response, unfortunately, makes you more of a misanthrope than a curmudgeon.
November 4, 2008 3:56 PM | Reply | Permalink
I am in agreement with Mr Reed on a critical point; I am literal. Although when it comes to voter fraud, I am not sure you can be “too literal”. In the state where I voted, you are required to be eighteen (old enough to be involuntarily sent to war) and registered in the state. If you do not meet these requirements, you cannot legally vote.
But of course Mr. Reed knew this when he posted my core objection to what he did:
“Oh, the vote will be recorded as mine. But I didn't cast it.”
I love each of granddaughters with all my heart, but I would not let them vote for the same reason I do not let them sit on my lap and drive an automobile. It's illegal and their time will come when they are ready for it. For now, my job is to help make a world for them that is safer, better, fairer and more equitable than what we have. Part of that role is teaching them that you do not commit fraud just because it was done for or by somebody you love or because you were not caught. That is a slap in the face to the millions of Americans who think voting rules are Not made to be broken.
We don’t know all the facts about the last Presidential election that got us into this mess, but we do know that voter registration and authenticity was a critical part of it. At this very moment, I am a lot more concerned about getting the red states blue than I am in convincing 180+ people that right is right and Reed is wrong.
November 4, 2008 5:41 PM | Reply | Permalink
The idea that allowing my son to press the final voting button on my electronic ballot is somehow the same as letting him take the wheel of my car is, well, stupefying.
The mere elucidation of that false equivalency really gets at your excessively literal view. I didn't commit voter fraud, or anything even remotely close. It's just stunning that you would hold that view. No reasonable observer would conclude that I was somehow abdicating my election responsibility to my son or "teaching my son to dishonor the law" (paraphrasing another commenter).
November 4, 2008 7:08 PM | Reply | Permalink
obieone, if that isn't just about the weirdest post.
November 4, 2008 4:44 PM | Reply | Permalink
Don't let the nay-sayers get you down. They're just looking for an outlet.
I can't speak for drudge, but I was directed here by facebook- this is currently making the rounds as people's status, etc. The list of comments thanking my friend for posting the link to your blog is almost as long as the list here! (Ok, not quite, but you get the idea)
Anyway. I'm sure that your son will be proud and happy to have participated- and to be able to read this story.
Gobama!
November 4, 2008 4:05 PM | Reply | Permalink
I've read this three times to myself and cried every time. I just read it out loud to my boys, ages 10 and 6, who are my reasons for voting for Barack.
November 4, 2008 4:14 PM | Reply | Permalink
You started my blood boiling
then the tears falling.
November 4, 2008 4:16 PM | Reply | Permalink
As a student of politics from north of the border, I have watched the American political scene for almost 50 years, usually despairing that America was not living up to its ideals. I acknowledge, with tears, the incredible significance voting for Obama must have for Afro-Americans. I think, more importantly, that for so many caucasians to not only vote for Obama, but to volunteer their time to work for Obama is stunningly inspiring, and promises great hope. It leads me to say that for the first time in my adult life I am really (meaning extremely) proud of America!!!
November 4, 2008 4:18 PM | Reply | Permalink
I have read this three times to myself, and cried each time. I just read it out loud to my boys, ages 10 and 6, who are my reasons for voting for Barack. Unfortunately, in Oregon we cannot take our children to the voting booth and have them participate in the solemn privilege of voting. Instead they gathered around our kitchen table as my husband and I drew our lines to vote for Barack.
As you have so eloquently written, those who come before us inspire us...those who will follow us motivate us.
November 4, 2008 4:21 PM | Reply | Permalink
November 4, 2008 4:22 PM | Reply | Permalink
this was a wonderful story, but it did happen to stick out to me at the end of the article that he said the "boy" could now believe that he could grow up to be anything, even president. i am somewhat sad that we could have been voting for hillary today, and that would have been amazing. i think obama is fantastic and will be a wonderful president, if elected. however, breaking the barrier for african american men still leaves a giant barrier for women.
November 4, 2008 4:26 PM | Reply | Permalink
Thank you! This brought tears to my eyes, too. I don't really have sufficient words of my own to respond to your post, or to this day. Here are some from Walter Benjamin, my favorite writer (and my avatar):
and yeah, Benjamin was a Marxist. You wanna make something of it? ;-)
November 4, 2008 4:32 PM | Reply | Permalink
Thanks Eastside. I cried when I read your post. I cried when I voted for Obama this morning and I cried when I ran into my daughter at the polls.
November 4, 2008 4:41 PM | Reply | Permalink
John McCain went to war to defend Our right to vote before he could vote. Respect for the law of America is what each Candidate should inspire-you not only committed fraud-you involved Your Baby-why? I am honestly asking you why can you not see that what you are inspiring here is illegal? Voting is a PRIVILEGE that should be appreciated. We should learn about it and what led to us having that privilege before we draw the line to Our chosen Candidate-Your Child is only 5 years old-not able to read enough to learn about voting and not old enough to understand what was done was against the law and not able to question the decision of a much older parent that should know better. Do you realize you have taught your child to follow wrongdoing from the highest authority in His life? His Beloved Mother-I fasted and prayed today that America becomes Senator John McCain's Hero-I am glad I made the right choice.////
November 4, 2008 4:49 PM | Reply | Permalink
You're on the wrong board.
RedState is >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>> that way.
November 4, 2008 4:52 PM | Reply | Permalink
What do you mean? I'm not a Republican-am I not allowed to post here? Or just not wanted here? Are there different boards here?////
November 4, 2008 5:07 PM | Reply | Permalink
I never said you were a Republican, though you'd be the first Democrat I've seen making the argument you made.
BTW, what world do you live in where 5-year-olds are not old enough to read? My son was reading Blue's Clues books when he was 3. The real parental crime is when children enter kindergarten with no prior exposure to basic reading skills.
Your remarks are straight from the Limbaugh-approved talking points. Hence, they're more appropriate for RedState (or Free Republic, if you prefer). Of course, you're welcome to make them here, but don't be surprised at the reaction.
November 4, 2008 6:16 PM | Reply | Permalink
That may be the last time your child will ever get to vote. Under obama, this won't be a free country any longer, it will adopt socialist views and ways little by little until we're a socialist country and didn't even see it coming! By the time he's 18 he may not have the right to vote and our freedoms we took for granted may be gone. We'll all be sharing the "wealth" others have worked so long and hard to acquire, and dying slowly and painfully on healthcare that's paid for by the government where your waiting months and years to see the doctor you so desperately need to see. These practices have failed in other countries and you'll look back and think, you helped it all come about by making wrong choices and not being informed! You should have voted for McCain!
November 4, 2008 5:36 PM | Reply | Permalink
I'll leave the factual inaccuracies of your post alone (except for one short example: if you already have health insurance, you're allowed to keep it under the Obama plan; it's designed to offer federal-employee health care to uninsured adults and mandate it for uninsured children).
I think of it this way. This country has survived a great deal of internal injury, a lot of it brought upon by the Bush/Cheney cabal that even now is looking to undo various protections and reforms - and has enacted as many signing statements as the previous 42 Presidents COMBINED. I strongly suspect that having a President who is actually one of the smartest guys in the room for Cabinet meetings won't take my son's rights away. I don't want a President I can sing "Barbara Ann" parodies or ride on a charter bus with.
This is a serious time, for serious people. The 15 minutes of the McSame/Failin' Sideshow will expire around midnight ET.
November 4, 2008 6:22 PM | Reply | Permalink
What do you mean? I'm not a Republican-am I not allowed to post here? Or just not wanted here? Are there different boards here?////
November 4, 2008 5:38 PM | Reply | Permalink
I hope you savored the moment because it may be the last time your child will get to vote. By the time he's 18 we may be a socialist country.
November 4, 2008 5:42 PM | Reply | Permalink
well that will be an improvement on the extream right country it has been since Raygun.
November 4, 2008 10:17 PM | Reply | Permalink
Boyd,
Such a great post. So don't feel disappointed that many many many people are motivated by fear, and anger, or just haven't seen enough of the world or been exposed to enough views to see why you feel the way you do. You just have to reach the people who do. And there are lots and lots of us who do appreciate this poignant moment you so perfectly described. I've forwarded your post to many friends and family, to include some friends of mine who voted for the Republican ticket this time around...and the response from these thoughtful people was resoundingly positive.
Like I said....such a good post. Turn off your computer and enjoy the day.
November 5, 2008 8:52 AM | Reply | Permalink
Many of our strongest allies are combinations of:
1. Monarchy,
2. Democracy, and,
3. Socialist economics.
One of those is named Great Britain.
Learn, or die as stupid as you stand today.
November 7, 2008 5:43 PM | Reply | Permalink
Allow me to be among the last to thank you for this. Had I gotten here sooner, I would have been the first.
November 4, 2008 6:13 PM | Reply | Permalink
Trite nonsense, you Americans are so damn sentimental it's ridiculous. If you were more dispassionate about politicians, like we are in Australia, you wouldn't have so many crooks, liars, charlatans and incompetents running your country.
November 4, 2008 6:15 PM | Reply | Permalink
A Twinkie is processed, artifically colored, and full of crap.
An appropriate handle, indeed.
November 4, 2008 6:27 PM | Reply | Permalink
TPmoma
I am politically independent but typically and certainly this time will vote democratic. But it is unfortunate that your republican opinion is not welcome or worse get assigned a generalization as a "ditto head".
On this particular set of blogs the story is a lot more significant than the act; and of course, pointing that out makes you a nay sayer.
It reminds me somewhat of the Charles Bronson /Jill Ireland movie about the outlaw and the lady. The story she spins about him during his absence takes on such a large life, that when he appears in the light of day, he is shorter and coarser than her story and she wants nothing to do with him. The story is better and larger than the truth.
I am retired Air Force, but still in the Environmental clean up business. I have spent my professional careers in and out of the military cleaning up and photographing the environment so I have a commitment. My military travels took me to countries where people do not take a flippant approach to political acts; my reaction to this story is not knee jerk.
I think McCain is a good man, but the wrong man for this job at this time. I think Obama is the right man at the right time. Those are my truths that I hold to be self evident.
I agree with you that holding a child up; encouraging him and then boasting when he does something wrong or trying to discourage free speech from an opposing party is NOT how I want Obama supporters perceived. They do him an injustice. I am not looking for another Kennedy (idealistic but with flexible morals). I am pinning my hopes on Obama as the improved version. But I certainly want to know that no matter who wins, the democratic process will continue to work.
Let freedom ring in all its forms.
November 4, 2008 6:28 PM | Reply | Permalink
Nicely written and a nice perspective, but commenters here ought to bear in mind that Obama had something much more real to shed a tear about this week, and he went on doing his job, working hard at it, and doing it well regardless. His job assignment is about to get titanically more difficult, however, and if America is going to fix the horrendous mess created over the last 8 years, not to mention finally and truly addressing mounting problems building up for much longer than that, then he will need huge amounts of effective assistance going way way beyond tearing up and using Kleenex.
November 4, 2008 6:30 PM | Reply | Permalink
Well done.
November 4, 2008 6:31 PM | Reply | Permalink
Thanks to everyone (even the snarky, the angry and the miserable) who responded to this post.
Truthfully, I'm pretty embarrassed about the response it's generated. It's humbling, and somewhat scary for me. I'm used to being under the radar - not passed around the 'Net.
For those who responded positively, especially those with whom I've crossed swords at various times, your words mean a great deal to me. You probably know who you are, and there are too many to try and name all of you.
For everyone else, I'm glad you took the time to read one guy's story of his Election Day. This is the sixth Presidential election I've followed closely, the fourth in which I've voted, and the third in which I've volunteered. But this is the first in which I feel completely invested. It's not likely to be the last, though.
It's hard to describe what I felt in front of the voting machine, and just how surreal and wonderful it was. I truly feel pity for those who can't understand or empathize on some level about this. Were it not for the people in the story, and people like my single mother and her single mother who raised me to appreciate the power of and the struggle for the vote, I wouldn't get it either.
I spent the last three weeks in a state of near-panic in central and western Pennsylvania, doing all I could with the time I had to help hold my state for Obama once I found that McCain was going to dump much of his remaining resources here.
It's a strange feeling to pour all of yourself (especially at the end) into a campaign. I'm completely exhausted, and I know I didn't do as much work as many of you have, so I can only admire your reserves of energy.
As I blogged on the evening of June 3, I have tried to help my son understand why this is such a big deal. In the months since, he knows why his dad was at the Obama campaign offices so much, which made it SO much easier to volunteer. Recently, I stopped blogging so much in part to spend my free time playing Hulk Operation and Monopoly Junior (his favorite games) with him.
I've read every comment, and I've taken them all to heart, the good and the bad. I keep shaking my head at the recommends. I'm still embarrassed, but also proud to have been a positive part of this election day for that number of people. Thanks again, everyone.
November 4, 2008 6:49 PM | Reply | Permalink
Of the many, many persons who gave their lives for the right to vote is Medgar Evers. In tribute, from Bob Dylan:
ONLY A PAWN IN THEIR GAME
(Words and Music by Bob Dylan)
1963, 1964 Warner Bros. Inc Renewed 1991 Special Rider Music
A bullet from the back of a bush took Medgar Evers' blood.
A finger fired the trigger to his name.
A handle hid out in the dark
A hand set the spark
Two eyes took the aim
Behind a man's brain
But he can't be blamed
He's only a pawn in their game.
The South politician preaches to the poor white man,
"You got more than the blacks, don't complain.
"You're better than them, you been born with white skin," they explain.
And the Negro's name
Is used it is plain
For the politician's gain
As he rises to fame
And the poor white remains
On the caboose of the train
But it ain't him to blame
He's only a pawn in their game.
The deputy sheriffs, the soldiers, the governors get paid,
And the marshals and cops get the same,
But the poor white man's used in the hands of them all like a tool.
He's taught in his school
From the start by the rule
That the laws are with him
To protect his white skin
To keep up his hate
So he never thinks straight
'Bout the shape that he's in
But it ain't him to blame
He's only a pawn in their game.
From the poverty shacks, he looks from the cracks to the tracks,
And the hoof beats pound in his brain.
And he's taught how to walk in a pack
Shoot in the back
With his fist in a clinch
To hang and to lynch
To hide 'neath the hood
To kill with no pain
Like a dog on a chain
He ain't got no name
But it ain't him to blame
He's only a pawn in their game.
Today, Medgar Evers was buried from the bullet he caught.
They lowered him down as a king.
But when the shadowy sun sets on the one
That fired the gun
He'll see by his grave
On the stone that remains
Carved next to his name
His epitaph plain:
Only a pawn in their game.
November 4, 2008 7:21 PM | Reply | Permalink
HAHAHAHAH!!!!!!!!!!!
LET THE GLOATING BEGIN!!!!!!!!!!!!
THIS JUST IN FROM PA... THEY WOULDN'T EVEN LET FORMER SENATOR/NAZI TRICKY RICKY SANTORUM VOTE!!!
BWAAAA HAHAHAHAHAHAH
Plenty of quality gloating at
www.MacYapper.blogspot.com
November 4, 2008 7:22 PM | Reply | Permalink
I need to hurry home and join us all in waiting for the outcome.
But as i see the final "still doesn't get it" post i am reminded of Tricky Dick Nixon's response to Dick Cavett about Watergate.
"it's not illegal;if the president does it"
i don't know anymore. The overwhelming response to this blog is that some procedures are just "guidelines" or "it's not fraud if a five year old does it".
i told another respondent that i feel somewhat like the person in the scene from "Midnight Express" who was walking the wrong direction in the one way circle. Bit i will continue to vote for your right to all walk the same direction.
let's cross our fingers and hope the Hero and alaska lassie era has ended.
November 4, 2008 7:38 PM | Reply | Permalink
what a great post. i don't know you, but i love you.
my 5 1/2 year-old went to vote with me in virginia a couple weeks ago. he wants me to wake him up later and tell him that barack won.
thanks to EVERYONE, 100 or 5 years old, who voted.
November 4, 2008 8:53 PM | Reply | Permalink
November 4, 2008 9:19 PM | Reply | Permalink
bloody brillant
195 - 76 as I write. Great post.
Sam Cooke was right, that change is gonna come. It's nearly here. Well done Yanks. Australia thanks you
November 4, 2008 9:32 PM | Reply | Permalink
In 1969, when I was 5 years old, my father (may he rest in peace), did the same thing with me. He held me up in a voting booth in the bronx and let me pull the lever for JFK. it's a moment i'll never forget. thank you for sharing this bit of your life with me. it allowed me to relive a sweet memory.
November 4, 2008 10:35 PM | Reply | Permalink
Just beautiful. You captured what this election meant to my wife and myself for our future, and our children. Really really well said.
Thank you.
November 4, 2008 10:35 PM | Reply | Permalink
Well, I DID vote for Obama today. I'm tired of the current regime, tired of the lies and tired of having Governments back turned on me and other Main Street Americans. Time for a change and it looks like we are going to get it.
JIff
www.anolite.echoz.com
November 4, 2008 10:40 PM | Reply | Permalink
Hi Boyd,
I just came by via facebook because your Clark Jr. High line caught my eye. Both my parents taught there when I was younger (and knew Mr. Woods apparently) so I was curious if you had either of them (the Norwoods). My mom says she does remember you and what a gifted student you were :)... And I just thought that was kind of neat and random.
Jennifer
November 4, 2008 10:42 PM | Reply | Permalink
Mrs. Cynthia Norwood was your mother? I remember her class. She did a lot for me at Clark.
Tell her I said "hello" from the not-so-battleground state of Pennsylvania. :-)
November 4, 2008 11:15 PM | Reply | Permalink
Yes she certainly was.. err is! :) I will pass your greetings along. I sent her this entry also and told her I was going to butt in and ask if you remembered her. So she will probably get a kick out of the fact that you do!
November 4, 2008 11:31 PM | Reply | Permalink
Yeah! That's the way to do it!
November 4, 2008 10:47 PM | Reply | Permalink
Damn, you're good.
November 4, 2008 10:48 PM | Reply | Permalink
Yeah! That's the way to do it!
November 4, 2008 10:52 PM | Reply | Permalink
Poor people of this country...
putting so much hope in presidential candidates.
They're all snakes, yes, your savior Obama, too.
November 4, 2008 11:19 PM | Reply | Permalink
If you believe I see Obama as a savior, you speak from a position of rank ignorance.
The real work begins now - and I intend to work just as hard to hold him to his platform as I did to get him elected.
November 4, 2008 11:31 PM | Reply | Permalink
Eastside,
My 6 year old daughter went with my wife,mother,sister and niece to vote on the first day of early voting. It was my nieces' first election. I wanted to go, but it was just so cool to see them go together. It was a powerful thing. The divine feminine.
This one's for these children of ours.
Thank you for a fine post.
-Mark
November 4, 2008 11:38 PM | Reply | Permalink
Thank You. From me. I have a future now.
November 4, 2008 11:49 PM | Reply | Permalink
I didn't vote for Obama today, and that's for real, neither did my 6 year old son, who voted at school, and this is why:
Why should I waste my vote on a man who will NOT say the pledge of Allegience? Who turns his back on our flag? Who says that this is not a Christian Nation anymore, but a Christian, Musleum, Etc. nation? This is a Christian nation, one Nation Under God, who Barrack Obama's pastor of Years says "God Dam America" You can NOT go to a church for years & years & NOT ever hear your pastor say that,
Race has nothing to do with this, it is time for a change, and if he would have respected our country then I would have voted for him, but I will not now, or ever vote for someone who does not support America to the fullest.
If you hate the flag, our flag, that many of my family members have fought to defend then it would all be different, my Poppa did not fight in the war for a non American like Obama to become president, nor did my dad, or my Uncles.
Talk crap about me for saying this I dont care because I will not check this again, I just stumbled accross it and I can not beleive that everyone is voting for this man,
even my son voted McCain, and we're democrtas and when i asked my son why he voted McCain, he said because Obama wasn't nice when he won't say the Pledge.
Out of the mouthes of babes,
I only hope that by the time my son grows into a man our country will not be destroyed because of this man who is becoming our president.
According to The Book of Revelations the anti-christ is: The anti-christ will be a man, in his 40s, of MUSLIM descent, who will deceive the nations with persuasive language, and have a MASSIVE Christ-like appeal....the prophecy says that people will flock to him and he will promise false hope and world peace, and when he is in power, will destroy everything
November 4, 2008 11:49 PM | Reply | Permalink
As one of the software developers of this site, I'm extremely gratified that you were able to figure out how to register for an account and post a comment. If you can do it, anyone can!
November 5, 2008 12:44 AM | Reply | Permalink
In reference to comment from 'obamasucks':
Right you are, so right. The rest are blind, or ignorant, or both. Or they're just stupid. And they have obviously never bothered to ask a Soldier, Sailor, Airman, or Marine what their opinion was, and how and why they wanted to vote conservatively. Those who GAVE everyone, and continue to ENSURE, the thing most civilians in this great country don't even understand - freedom. No one wants to remember that those who fight volunteer to do so, because the belief in something greater than yourself is what this country was founded upon.
And I'm sure some folks out there will say that Obama is that someone who thinks about others. Funny...then why is all of his information so secret? Why does he lie about his past relationships with criminals and domestic terrorists. Did anyone besides me happen to see Ayers vote yesterday? And how everyone wanted to come up and hug him? WTF? Who gave him the right to vote? Who gave him the right to do so without harrassment? The very same ones who defend the US today, that's who. The very same ones who don't approve of a CINC being in-charge without a day of military service in his past running this country.
Sheep. They're all sheep. And yet, it is everyone guarding the sheep who will reap the consequences.
November 5, 2008 4:53 PM | Reply | Permalink
A very moving post. I couldn’t leave the ugly comment before mine as the last one. Thank you for this post and for all your hard work to help make this happen. I voted for Obama about 3:15 pm Chicago time, in Obama’s neighborhood. There was no chance that Illinois would not go for Obama, but I wanted to be able to tell my children I voted for him.
I'll also tell them about singing "We shall overcome" at a memorial service for Martin Luther King forty years ago. I remember Medgar Evers and James Meredith and my bewilderment as I watched on television the screams of outrage that greeted a black man who dared, of all things, to enroll in a state university. We've got a ways to go, but we've come a long way, and by "we" I mean we Euro-Americans. God bless you.
November 5, 2008 12:39 AM | Reply | Permalink
By not voting for Obama you directly validated the agenda of the "W" Bush administration. If you didn't you're brain dead: there's no way about it. Don't hind behind your child -- admit that you couldn't vote for change in the direction our nation is heading. Does Obama have all the answers? Of course not! But could he do worse than W and his ilk? NO!!!!!!
November 5, 2008 1:11 AM | Reply | Permalink
To quote Kevin Shay:
November 5, 2008 1:28 AM | Reply | Permalink
I took my 8-year old son in also, and I let him push the "select this" button right after I selected Barack Obama. He proudly wore his sticker for the rest of the day.
November 5, 2008 1:39 AM | Reply | Permalink
Boyd,
You have my support. Your post was so moving.
I cannot in any way shape or form understand why there are so many hatefully ignorant comments being left by kooks. Perhaps, once they've cooled down and had an opportunity to fully comprehend this new beginning for our country, we can welcome them and find commonality between us instead of the disparities.
November 5, 2008 1:56 AM | Reply | Permalink
I realize I'm post 215, and no one will probably read this, but I wanted to take some time to sign up (to post a comment).
I am a parent, and like many others that will read this I'm sitting here in tears, and I wanted to thank you for that beautiful post.
November 5, 2008 2:38 AM | Reply | Permalink
I was six in 1994 in South Africa. I was in grade one. And I went into the voting box with my mother and marked the 'x' for Nelson Mandela. I remember writing about it at school for a show-and-tell story - what I had done on the public holiday.
It was a truly important day for me, and I just want to congratulate you on doing this for your son.
November 5, 2008 3:07 AM | Reply | Permalink
This letter brought tears to my eyes.Well written.Im so glad you gave your grandbaby the chance to make that vote.Lovely.....
MiMi
November 5, 2008 4:20 AM | Reply | Permalink
This does not rub me right.
You didn't let your kid vote - you -told- your kid how to vote.
How do you figure out how to vote for? Let someone older / smarter decide for you.
Maybe when he's older - his teachers, pastor or boss will tell him how to vote.
November 5, 2008 4:50 AM | Reply | Permalink
Beautiful story about why voting is so important. My faith in humanity was beginning to wane, but now I feel energized, hopeful, and more alive than I have felt in the last eight years.
November 5, 2008 5:18 AM | Reply | Permalink
How great is this day?!!! How bright ur child's future will be! Now u can walk in the streets with a sense of pride knowing that a man of color has the power to change the course of ur future and that of ur loved ones. The barrier has been broken and a new dawn has come. A dawn for all races... The world belongs to us all. The journey wil b long before the world recovers from a devastating economic crisis and a war that has taken thousands of ur sons and daughters and a dwindling earth. But this man has promised, so give him a helping hand. With humility, love and compromise 'YES U CAN'. From this day forth, No one can make u feel inferior without ur consent.
Here in South Africa we have followed his journey with such faith and the Lord has delivered. He shall lead u to the promised land as long as u walk with him.
Be still America ... the Lord is with u.
God bless
November 5, 2008 6:36 AM | Reply | Permalink
I want to say how disapointed I am with the "American" public. They (You) all have just shown how ignorant they are as a society. I used to laugh when people compared the U.S to the Great Roman Empire, but now I see it. We will fall from within, and it starts this upcoming 4 years. "We the People" just voted for a man merley for color, just to make history. Well you all got it, you made history and we are now going to be the laughing stock of the world. You all wanted a "softer" leader, not so aggressive, as the world leaders around us have definetely moved on the offensive side of the court, you all wanted to step back and soften our world stances. Well with Obama you got it....I sincerely hopes he does pull out all the trops from Iraq/Afghanistan and the countless other regions (Muslim regions) in the world and brings them home...Cause I count the days now when the ticker tape we all quickly glance at proudly scrolled on the Communist News Network better known as CNN, show the dreadful roadside bombs going off in America...The proud the weak America.
You all are so damn blind to the fact Obama can not and will not better America. It takes the avergage Joe to do this. Obama and his sheep were out for one thing and one thing only, HE wanted to make history for himself, not for our naion but for his "Afican American Brotherhood". That's funny I thought America was built on family traditions, Christianity and the hope of equality. When Mark my words, with this time in history, I hate to say it, BUT I bet "hate crimes" will be at an all time high. I hope I am proven wrong, but I doubt it.
And "YOU" fellow (sad to call you Americans) Americans better brace yourself for a huge terorist attack on our own blessed soil again, and good ol'Obama, will embrace it from his "brotherhood" or do nothing at all, since he has NO idea what the military or homeland security is about...Hell he wants to open our borders up more. Just like Clinton, we had more terrorist attacks against US interests then any other President before him or after him UNTIL NOW.
Good one, who are you all going to call upon to help you then, Starbucks and your hybrids...Good luck.
May God be with us, we need his protection more then EVER!!!!
November 5, 2008 8:10 AM | Reply | Permalink
Infidel or is it "FIDEL CASTRO"
You some people r just plain stupid, y don't we just give this man a chance, if we gave "BUSH" eight long years y can't we just give him a try forget race, McCain is to old to lead this country and you know that so y are you posting that all this stupid "SHIT" leave it alone he's the PRESIDENT now get over, you're just mad because it's a "BLACK" man who's gonna lead this country now HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA
November 5, 2008 9:12 AM | Reply | Permalink
No, we did not vote for Obama only on grounds of color. We voted for the best man for the job.
Guess what, racist fool:
Obama is not a Marxist.
Obama is not a Socialist.
Obama is not a Communist.
Stop listening to hateful people as your source for truth about that they hate therefore will lie against. Or you will go to your grave as stupid then as you are at this moment.
Did Rome fall? Yes. Were any of the leaders of Rome who caused the fall black? No, idjit, they were not. Wake up and grow up.
November 7, 2008 5:39 PM | Reply | Permalink
Boyd,
Such a great post. So don't feel disappointed that many many many people are motivated by fear, and anger, or just haven't seen enough of the world or been exposed to enough views to see why you feel the way you do. You just have to reach the people who do. And there are lots and lots of us who do appreciate this poignant moment you so perfectly described. I've forwarded your post to many friends and family, to include some friends of mine who voted for the Republican ticket this time around...and the response from these thoughtful people was resoundingly positive.
Like I said....such a good post. Turn off your computer and enjoy the day.
November 5, 2008 8:54 AM | Reply | Permalink
Great story. Don't let those unhappy about results of election ruin your day. ditto above, turn off computor and enjoy the day.
November 5, 2008 9:06 AM | Reply | Permalink
It is a New Dawn in America. I spent most of the afternoon getting Mr. Reed's post printed and framed (and hung on my wall before the first polls closed). Then I spend the evening at a Watch Party in a Mexican restaurant here in town.
To all of you who are afraid of Barack Obama, it might calm your fears to realize this: as the first African-American president, Obama knows that the only way we will have a second African American president in the next 50 years is for him to have the best administration in living memory. I believe he will do that.
To Boyd Reed: I printed several copies of your post and distributed them at the watch party. People were, initially, disturbed by the title of the essay. But I watched the frowns change to smiles when they got to the end of the story.
I have renewed faith in the decency of Americans.
November 5, 2008 9:17 AM | Reply | Permalink
That was as good as Obama's speech!
I now look at my nephew & nieces - same biracial makeup as Barack Obama - and realize that one more barrier has been taken down for them. A barrier that should have never been there in the first place.
What a historic and exhilarating election is was!
November 5, 2008 9:21 AM | Reply | Permalink
Well all this really says is that you are teaching your kid to choose style over substance.
The only reason Obama won is because the Republicans pushed that middle-of-the-road hack John McCain on us.
Call it a perfect storm of a lame candidate (McCain), combined with the complete lack of journalism aimed at finding out just who this radical, Barack Hussein Obama, really is.
We are entering a very dark chapter in what will surely be the biggest attack on the Constution of the United States in the histroy of a once great country.
November 5, 2008 9:48 AM | Reply | Permalink
I can't believe it. You all make me want to throw up this morning. You (the writer) telling your child to find 'Obama' and hit the button is EXACTLY what's wrong with all you liberal sheep. You say it's about democracy, and then you dictate 'choice'. This election was a huge failure!! Do any of you weepy "oh, you made me cry it was so moving" bunch of intellectual homeless care to realize you just elected the son of a radical Muslim and an Atheist to the most powerful position of the free world?? So what does that make Obama? He’s a Muslim too. How are children raised? They are taught as their parents believe. The same holds true for you. How quickly you all forget 9-11. Hello!! Wake up! Stop wanting to be the first to jump on the "I voted for an African-American" bandwagon, and realize that this country is headed to hell so fast it's making my head spin. Where have family values gone? Where have the protection of my rights as an individual gone (does anyone even KNOW what the 2nd Amendment is anymore)? Where has my protection to keep what I make as a hard-working American and not give it to a lazy-ass freeloader waiting for the next government handout gone?
Jake P knows what the truth is. Infidel knows the truth. Arrogantb knows the truth. That is because they are not sheep like the rest of you – blindly willing to go with the masses as the slightest prodding. Me? I'm a wolf. I hunt, and fight, and am territorial as hell. Come try and take something from me. I earned it – not you. You want it, get a job.
November 5, 2008 10:25 AM | Reply | Permalink
Dear imaconservative and obamasucks (among others):
Your responses today have been so interesting that it prompted me to do a little research. Stating that Obama is of the Muslim faith is not true. In fact, this article, http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/22767392/, "Obama sets record straight on his religion" states that, "His father and stepfather were Muslim. And he spent part of his childhood in Indonesia, a largely Muslim country. But he attended secular and Catholic schools, not a radical madrassa."
Also, that article quotes Obama who says that he attended the same Christian church for almost 20 years and that whenever he is in the US Senate, he pledges allegiance to our flag. He then references an email that was circulating full of lies and half-truths. Is that where you got this information?
A little more research about your facts before posting would be beneficial. Please read the article. The last word of the very first paragraph says it all: "EDUCATE".
Oh! and to infer that he is somehow now the antichrist is, well...a little over the top. It must not be any fun at all living your life in fear!
November 5, 2008 6:10 PM | Reply | Permalink
my question is are we going to see a repeat of what happen in 63? I'm sure everyone knows what I mean.Can he really pull us as a nation togeather?
November 5, 2008 10:25 AM | Reply | Permalink
Hey, imaconservative!
"Me? I'm a wolf. I hunt, and fight, and am territorial as hell. Come try and take something from me. I earned it – not you. You want it, get a job."
You should have run on the Rebulican ticket. This is the spirit we needed on the ticket this year...not Mr. Stumblestammer.
Thanks for making me want to fight back!
November 5, 2008 10:47 AM | Reply | Permalink
So even though we've heard since the start of the primaries "Race Doesn't Matter! Race Doesn't Matter!" your post makes it sound as though that's all that matters. You sound as if you voted for Obama simply because he is an African American which just seems wrong. That's no better than voting against him for the same reason or voting for or against a woman simply because she is a woman. I hope there was more thought into it than that because you stated that you were just thinking of your child. I hope that since we now have an African American president that the next time there is an African American on the ballot people will vote based on the issues.
November 5, 2008 11:18 AM | Reply | Permalink
I did not vote for Obama and I'm still glad I did not. I am a Christian and I actually believe that as one, I had to vote R this time. Thankful that we can voice our feelings and thoughts. I can't say O is Islamic. But I do know one thing, he can't say he's a Christian. The media has been really crappy again. Crapping on the president, having nothing good to say. They are just very biased. Like I just heard on a newscast, you can not call it the main stream media. Well atleast we still have the freedom to vote. But have you noticed who terrorists and communists wanted to win? The answer is-Mr. O. All that smooth talkin' tell em what they want one. What if he was not brown, many people who have not given a crap, would not have gotten off their ignorant butts to vote. God Bless our free society, and hope people will not be so biased and racist next election.
November 5, 2008 11:27 AM | Reply | Permalink
I live in Indiana. I'm a Democrat. Believe me, the last election was more than enough disappointment. I was in a little town called 'Goshen' with two of my friends, all watching the states turn red...by 2am, we all three went to bed with a feeling of what can only be described as 'doom'.
It was wonderful last night to see the opposite...I even stayed up until 2am to watch the final count for Indiana...for the first time in 44 years, Indiana has gone blue. I live in a blue state. And, what's more important, I feel like we finally have a president that will make me proud, and one who will turn America back into a place of which I can be proud.
And yet, with all the Conservatives around here...I know I'm going to be hearing a lot of 'we're all going to die!'...just like the above.
As a side note:
Believer? Who are *you* to say who is and isn't a Christian? I'd say the way you're talking and acting online right now isn't exactly 'Christian' as I would define it...but do I say you're not Christian? No. How about we leave personal beliefs to the individual, OK?
November 5, 2008 11:51 AM | Reply | Permalink
Enough of the fraud discussion. The right man one. i am a lot more concerned about the bitter rhetoric being lobbed on this new day.
McCain made a wonderful concession speech and of course President Elect Obama was spot on.
What is troubling in the comments in oppossition to his new status is how they remind me of what i heard in the 70's. I was just assigned to Eglin AFB in Florida and the Equal Rights Amendment was being voted on (a long time ago). And all my wife and i heard was how men and woman were going to have to use the same bathrooms. And this from intelligent people. Sad to say that there are still many people who don't believe that when you help one person, you help us all. But of course, hand-up not hand-outs.
Obama is not going to give away the country and we are not going to turn into communist china although i think we could use a cultural revolution.
November 5, 2008 11:56 AM | Reply | Permalink
Very nice but...Now the young inner city kids must look at themselves as real contributers to society. They must now stand up and ratify this anomaly that it is not just a freak event * that they have a reason to be proud. We can look up to the achievements of Obama, but they will be meaningless unless the rest of black America can show they are worthy of top leadership. They are getting their chance in the spotlight. They need to get off the street and into the library to continue to have the respect of the rest of the country. Obama and those like Tiger Woods worked their ***** off to get where they are. Now black america must do the same or we white folks will look at this as irrelevant * and won't let it happen again. Have the respect for yourselves that you deserve. Don't give up on life because you don't think you have a chance to make something of yourselves * no more excuses. Here is your chance to pick yourself up by your baggy pants and make America proud of our colored brothers. I don't want to make a business deal and see the underwear of the person as he walks away - unless it is a women. AMEN!
November 5, 2008 12:06 PM | Reply | Permalink
They need to get off the street and into the library to continue to have the respect of the rest of the country.
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What this world can do without is the superior preachings of racists such as you.
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Obama and those like Tiger Woods worked their ***** off to get where they are.
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Gee, thanks for the first half of your racist contruction -- and now the second half:
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Now black america must do the same or we white folks will look at this as irrelevant
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Yer right: thank you for the "permission," Mr. Superior White Man, who always has the final say on what OTHERS are allowed to do --
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* and won't let it happen again.
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Whites did not ALLOW this to happen, racist jackass: Whites, on one hand, HELPED it happen; and on the other, could do nothing to STOP it.
But thanks, in behalf of our black citizens, for your PERMISSION for "them" to act as if equal in rights and before law -- but ONLY WHEN YOU ALLOW it.
November 7, 2008 5:21 PM | Reply | Permalink
Cool. It's me again. We can legislate immorality. But, many say we can't legislate morality. Yes, we all have beleifs (blue in a red state) and the freedom we have here mostly has it's roots in the bible. As in that book that many right wingers respect. So critisizing people because they are "religious" or "spiritual" is stupid in my view. Yes I am a radical. I want God's love and blessings to freely flow in this nation. There is corruption in both parties, but in my view John McCain was a much better choice. If a democrat beleived in true democracy, Christian values and not socialist stands, then I would vote for them. God bless the darker colored people in this country, but beleive it or not their were many of those types who are Christians and did not vote for Obama. Also the bible says to judge people by their fruit. Pretty much, their actions.
November 5, 2008 12:24 PM | Reply | Permalink
Change! What will it look like?
All we can do is wait and see.
November 5, 2008 12:47 PM | Reply | Permalink
I just almost cried as i read that . Its so beautiful thanks for sharing
November 5, 2008 12:47 PM | Reply | Permalink
This is just the kind of gushy, touchy-feely drivel that makes me so glad that the election is finally over! I am so sick of hearing all the "messianic" references to Obama...as if he will single-handedly save us from all the evils of the world. Whatever. Let's get on with it and see just what he does. In a few years, maybe I'll be able to sing his praises...but as of this moment, he has done NOTHING to earn my undying loyalty. His actions will prove his character...not his words. Stop slobbering all over yourselves people...put away your box of kleenex...he's just a man...he's not God. Get a grip.
November 5, 2008 1:58 PM | Reply | Permalink
NO WAY DID I VOTE FOR OBAMA
Never in ten trillion years would I have voted for him, he reminds me of a slick talking car sales men!!
I never wish harm to any one but I have this bad gut feeling some extremist groups like the KKK or Neo Nazis may try to assassinate him before he even starts office or not long into it, he might make history as first black president and also shortest term!!
I don't wish him any harm but I DID not vote for him and now plan to move out of the country until he s out of Office.
November 5, 2008 2:07 PM | Reply | Permalink
He has allot to prove to me that is for sure!! Lets see if his money is where his mouth is and he does as he says he will... but wait his first thing he does was already state NO TAX CUTS ALREADY so he lied already before he even started office. Good way to kick things off!!
We need our economy Fixed and I do not think he is up to the challenge. I did not like Hilary but she could have done the job at least.
What a loss they made in not choosing McCain. They will learn the hard way, I won't I wont be in this country much longer I hope!
November 5, 2008 9:18 PM | Reply | Permalink
Ferris Wulf: The sooner you move away, the better. I suggest you go to Baghdad or Kabul. Buh-bye.
As for me, as a proud father I was very touched by Boyd's post and have forwarded it to my little network of thoughtful, progressive, intelligent friends. Thanks for a truly captivating experience.
November 6, 2008 2:49 PM | Reply | Permalink
I would like to add my opinion to your story while the freedom to do so still exists. I agree your story was a very touching one. I am also not here to attmept to slay your intelligence or in any way, shape, or form treat you as less than a human being. I think we can all agree, by some of the replies that have been posted on both sides of the issue, people can be cruel.
I would however like to address the body of your story. I read it thoroughly and seem to be the only one to discover exactly what was said. I did not read anything about Obama's policies, opinions or views being a part of your voting decision. I did read about how the Black American influences in your life were the deciding factor in your choice.
Throughout the story we read how one exceptional Black American after another has influenced you in ways that have stuck with you throughout life. (I commend these influences for leaving that deep an impression on you) However, once done reading the story, I realized that through the text of the post I can gather that your only reason for voting for Obama was because, to you, he exemplified the Black American society. In essence voting for him on race alone.
I would like people and yourself to consider where this country would be if elections and everyday life were based on the descriminations of race alone. Not that long ago they were and the country was an awful place. People, were treated in ways that our country should be ashamed of, on all sides of the racial issue.
I hate to think that this country is beginning a downfall back to the ways of hate and violence all triggered because of the color of somebody's skin. I also must add that I consider it an abuse of civil and constitutional rights to vote our nation's leader in based solely on color.
(PS) I am not stating that this is the only reason he was elected.
November 5, 2008 2:07 PM | Reply | Permalink
Hey Iqbal Yusaf,
What you intellectually bankrupt hoards on the Obamma side don't realize is that GIFT could very well be a BOMB, for all of us, even the ones smart enough to see through all the Koom-by-ya words from the "anoited one" and NOT vote for him.
See, we knew that he really wasn't saying ANYTHING!
November 5, 2008 2:16 PM | Reply | Permalink
Thank you for the tears!
November 5, 2008 3:49 PM | Reply | Permalink
Wow, the wingnut freeper-redstaters are foaming and gnashing today. Never seen such volume of idiocy on TPM. Did y'all get your marching orders from Rushbo or something to flood the reality-based blogs? How many times can you repeat, "Yer sheep! Yer sheep! U libz r sheep!" before you collapse into a puddle?
Well, sorry, nutballs. You lost, and lost big. The country has repudiated your brand of division, hatred, baseless smear, guilt by association, and Nixonian-Rovian "Southern Strategies." Get used to it. Hiding under your bridges might be the best place to do that.
November 5, 2008 7:28 PM | Reply | Permalink
I voted Republican this time, as I have for 25 years. That's where my values are, and I don't regret it. But I can't help but feel pride in our system and our people that brought democratic party back and placed a historic candidate into the highest office of the land.
Having your son touch that screen for Obama was the right thing to do. Your son participated in bringing about a historic moment, something he's sure to remember. That's an incredible gift you've given your son. Well written!
Congratulations and best wishes for the coming years!
November 5, 2008 9:40 PM | Reply | Permalink
I'm absolutely impressed by your blog but I'm dissapointed by the uneducated and negative comments.
I honestly keep forgetting that we now have a BLACK president. That's pretty important but if I could have voted, I would've picked Obama anyways.
It's always a shocker and it brings a smile to my face when I remember, "We've got our first black president now."
November 6, 2008 1:16 AM | Reply | Permalink
Dear Boyd,
I'm not sure if you will be returning to this blog of yours to read any more comments. But I just want to tell you that I recall your pristine blog when comments and recommends were both at 0. After me, the comments and recommends were 1 and 1. And I wanted so much for your blog to be widely read!
It left me so moved I could hardly write much, like the hush after a moving piece of music, where the audience waits for a few breathless moments before applauding.
I want you to know that I returned to your post again and again throughout the day. What a joy it was for me to see it not only rocket to the top of the rec list, but to be flagged on the front page. I must say, I felt almost like a midwife to have been the first one to comment and the first to recommend. And I came back again this morning just to see the final total - at this moment.
It's sad, Boyd, that some felt it necessary to foul this thread. But that only shows us how much work is left undone.
Having been saddened by the negative comments (which always seem to arrive on the best posts which are most recommended), I decided to post this bookend comment, here at the tail end of this thread - to match the one I was proud to put at the beginning.
I think this one post has garnered more recommends than any other post at TPM. That, itself, tells us something about this historic moment we're a part of. And how touched so many were by your beautiful story. My initial comment was one of tears. But this one ends with a congratulatory smile:
:)
November 6, 2008 9:41 AM | Reply | Permalink
Nice Blog, very touching.
Nice to know a five yr old boy of any race can dream of becoming President and achieve that dream, because it obvious a 5 yr old girl will not.
You want to bring race into this election how about sexism?
How about during the tears someone have the nerve talk about sexism.
How the Obama campaign with the help of the Media shredded 2 women and the women of this country did nothing. Glass Ceiling ladies lets hear it.
At the end of the day I am going to show YOUR President the same respect MINE was shown the last 8 years.
I live in the Liberal community of Austin Texas and I have 8 years of PAYBACK.
As a vet at this moment for the first time in my life I am ashamed of this Country. I am cheering for the other guys and joining the Blame America first crowd.
On the Surface we seem so tolerant....peel back the layers its all a facade.
It was BRO's B4 HOEs
November 6, 2008 5:43 PM | Reply | Permalink
Nice Blog, very touching.
Nice to know a five yr old boy of any race can dream of becoming President and achieve that dream, because it obvious a 5 yr old girl will not.
You want to bring race into this election how about sexism?
How about during the tears someone have the nerve talk about sexism.
How the Obama campaign with the help of the Media shredded 2 women and the women of this country did nothing. Glass Ceiling ladies lets hear it.
At the end of the day I am going to show YOUR President the same respect MINE was shown the last 8 years.
I live in the Liberal community of Austin Texas and I have 8 years of PAYBACK.
As a vet at this moment for the first time in my life I am ashamed of this Country. I am cheering for the other guys and joining the Blame America first crowd.
On the Surface we seem so tolerant....peel back the layers its all a facade.
It was BRO's B4 HOEs
November 6, 2008 5:46 PM | Reply | Permalink
The Janitor,
The glass ceiling would have existed regardless of the outcome. If McShame and Failin would have won or even Hilary, would you have written your blog in support of Obama, and the injustice that is being done to black men?.......I didn't think so.
November 7, 2008 4:00 PM | Reply | Permalink
Your celebration will be short-lived when you see how fast Obamma forgets what color he is and you who voted for his skin color.
He will be too busy paying back a whole lotta people who don't look like you or talk like you while the first lady is eatin' Iranian Caviar.
Now get back to work - theys a whole lotta taxes a comin'!
November 6, 2008 8:35 PM | Reply | Permalink
This is an incredible story, and shows a lot of the thought and dedication that went into this campaign.
Thank you.
It pains me to see the hateful comments posted here by "the other side." It shouldn't be like that. Because we live in a republic, and this is an occasion, to a greater degree than in a very long time, where that really played out. The highest voter turnout ever, by a wide margin. Quite possibly the most popular president-elect since Washington. This is a great moment in American history whether you consider it from a civil rights perspective, a civic involvement perspective, or just as an example of people coming together for the common good.
I find it really inspiring that you gave your child this great memory, so that 80 years from now he can tell his grandchildren, I was there when the first African American was elected president, I was there when we proved that the American Dream did not die in the 60s or the 90s, I helped bring about the future that you're living in.
Truly inspiring.
November 7, 2008 12:09 AM | Reply | Permalink
Though a nice post I fail to see how you didn't vote for him. You told your child who to pick, how is that not you picking? I have kids around the same age and they would vote for whoever I told them to vote for too. They know more about toys and cartoons than about politics. I mean if your child had hit the McCain button, would you have pressed the vote button or changed it? You voted for Obama, you just had your child hit the button. Don't try and glorify it. Sheesh get over yourself.
November 7, 2008 8:19 AM | Reply | Permalink
Just when I think the last tear has been shed... Thanks for sharing the stories of those who inspired, gratitude for their lives and for sharing your vote with your son. Of course now you too are an inspiration.
November 7, 2008 11:21 AM | Reply | Permalink
I can't stop shedding tears either...from laughing at all the Obamma (aka Jim Jones) koolaid drinking - racist - mushheads sobbing over this poser headed for the white (or is it the black...?)house.
November 7, 2008 3:16 PM | Reply | Permalink
I can't stop shedding tears either...from laughing at all the Obamma (aka Jim Jones) koolaid drinking - racist - mushheads sobbing over this poser headed for the white (or is it the black...?)house.
November 7, 2008 3:17 PM | Reply | Permalink
Boyd,
Your blog is absolutely beautiful! Having been the recipient of some of the very same benefits (I attended Crossroads, A.M. Jackson, and Clark Jr. High), I understand and share your gratitude.
I am so disgusted by those who thought it necessary to desecrate your blog with their ignorance, but as usual, we continue to rise above them.
I decided to early vote, and YES, I cast my vote for Barack Obama.
It's amazing to hear all of this talk about voting for him simply because he is black is WRONG. I didn't vote for him simply because he's black.....but why not?!
Our ancestors were lynched.....just because they were black.
They had to use seperate restrooms and drink from seperate fountains.....just because they were black.
We are racially profiled and jailed......just because we are black.
So, with all of the negative things that have been forced upon us.....just for being black, we deserve the opportunity to vote for Obama.....just because he's black.
Let me clarify.....
I didn't vote for Obama because of his skin color.
I voted for him because I believe he is working for me and people just like me, regardless of our color.
I voted for him because I agree with his ideals on how our country can be turned around.
In no way do I think he is or will ever be our savior, but he deserves a chance to help fix America. He can only do so much to even "attempt" to fix all that the Bush administration has done to our country. Anything is better than what we've been going through, and I believe that it's safe to say that McCain wouldn't have changed much.
On a side note, I remember you from when I was a little girl. You all lived across from my kinfolks (the McKinney's), I'm a member of Mt. Zion (your grandmother, with her keen memory, still remembers me), and you used to tutor my cousin and brother in math (the Hunts) years ago. You were always a brilliant mind, and it's great to share a similar background with someone who recognizes the importance of sharing this historic moment with our children. Your son will never forget this.
God Bless,
Kim H.
November 7, 2008 3:56 PM | Reply | Permalink
"Let me clarify....."
Blacks have fought and died in every US war, including the "revolution". It's about damned time they are included in all the rest of it. [I'm not black. Buy my childhood was marked by the attacks on one of my first heros, Cassius Clay -- he later changed his name to Muhammad Ali -- because he merely expressed his view "without permission".]
To put a more directly relevant point on it:
Millions have died for the US right to vote -- a significant number of those within the US. The Moores were murdered for registering [black] people to vote. Medgar Evers was assassinated for registering [black] people to vote.
At bottom, Martin Luther King, Jr. was assassinated for registering [black] people to vote.
Anyone who says voting -- and voter suppression --don't matter -- is insulting those millions and this country.
Only to clarify . . .
November 7, 2008 5:15 PM | Reply | Permalink
Only to clarify...
Acorn, very suspect.
Lack of journalistic integrity in dealing with Obamma prior to, during, and post election. In fact the absolute adoration by the media of this questionable person (Obamma) is likely to make a thinking person puke!
Yes, your ancestors (not his) were treated badly, no doubt about it. But, that is ancient history.
Blacks have been given more in this country in the last 35-40 years than any other minority group in the world...and still the belly-aching.
Well the Dems have been promising to give you a helping hand for 50 years and if they haven't done it by now it's never goin to happen.
I just wish more people would rely on there own God given talents and stop looking to the government to solve all of there real and perceived problems.
Why are we trying to please the world? Most other countries suck compared to the USA, but that could very well change (change-change-change) with Obamma.
November 7, 2008 7:11 PM | Reply | Permalink
Kim H
"He can only do so much to even "attempt" to fix all that the Bush administration has done to our country. Anything is better than what we've been going through..."
I am a conservative. Bush did not preside as one, he had to deal with 9/11! Remember?
Bush was a little too wishy-washy, too much reaching across the aisle to Dems only to get crapped on, much like the black community by Dems. Why they continued to vote Democratic is a mystery.
Your Democratically controlled Congress has to own up to their part for the mess we are in...I, for one, don't believe everything the talking heads on Obammavision* regurgitate as facts. You shouldn't completely craft your show from the talking points of the Democratic Party Headquarters.
*(MSNBC, CNN, Headline News, PBS, Charlie Rose, The View, SNL, Comedy Central, Larry King, Jay Leno, David Letterman, not to mention all the print media glued to Obamma's ass...should I keep going? Where is the Fairness Doctrine when you need it?) Too much white guilt! Too little personal responsibility in the voting block for Obamma.
If Bill Cosby were to run I would vote for him in a heartbeat over any republican.
He shoots straight and he doesn't dodge the media and tough questions the way Obamma did, does and will continue to do with your help.
If you want to continue to fool yourself about the Republicans being solely at fault, be my guest...the tide also goes out in washington.
November 8, 2008 4:02 PM | Reply | Permalink
To those who posted negative comments - GET OVER IT AND STOP WHINING! Our next President will be Barack Obama so get used to it and give him a chance. Nothing can be as bad as George Bush. On January 20, 2009, we will have a President who is intelligent and articulate - something we have not had for the last 8 years!
So how about giving him a chance to heal our country and try to bring honesty and integrity back in the White House. Enough is enough - stop the divisive comments - didn't we get enough of that during the campaign? It is over and we need to focus on fixing the economy, health care, the war in Iraq and our status in the eyes of Americans and the world. This is our opportunity to shine so please stop the pettiness - In other words - be a good loser and try to help get America back on track.
November 8, 2008 11:09 PM | Reply | Permalink
kathy4change...Well you're entitled to your opinion, and your pettiness also apparently.
I hope the Right Media hounds Obamma's every move like the Left Media did to President Bush. We, those of us who aren't Obammazombies, already don't trust him (Obamma) because of the company he and his wife keep.
Our country can't possibly heal with the kind of propaganda that was raining down from the Left Media outlets and the Obamma campaign.
Face it, you fell for Obamma's charm and semi-good looks not his abilities in governing...given he hasn't ever run so much as a lemonade stand.
We will be lucky to still be a sovereign country in 4 years, or avoid an all out assault on our freedoms.
November 9, 2008 4:54 PM | Reply | Permalink
To all of the sheep out there:
In yesterday's newspaper was an article on the Jonestown massacre which happened 30 years ago on November 18. When will mankind learn? They were blindly following a charismatic leader as though he was the Messiah, and now we have a charismatic leader about to be our president whom many are following blindly and some are proclaiming the "Messiah." This is chilling, to say the least. Read the article below. Face the truth.
Narcissistic personality disorder (NPD).
Understanding Obama: The Making of a Fuehrer
By Ali Sina
I must confess I was not impressed by Sen. Barack Obama from the first time I saw him. At first I was excited to see a black candidate. He looked youthful, spoke well, appeared to be confident – a wholesome presidential package. I was put off soon, not just because of his shallowness but also because there was an air of haughtiness in his demeanor that was unsettling. His posture and his body language were louder than his empty words. Obama’s speeches are unlike any political speech we have heard in American history. Never a politician in this land had such a quasi “religious” impact on so many people. The fact that Obama is a total incognito with zero accomplishment, makes this inexplicable infatuation alarming. Obama is not an ordinary man. He is not a genius. In fact he is quite ignorant on most important subjects. Barack Obama is a narcissist. Dr. Sam Vaknin, the author of the Malignant Self Love, also believes, “Barack Obama appears to be a narcissist.”
Vaknin is a world authority on narcissism. He understands narcissism and describes the inner mind of a narcissist like no other person. When he talks about narcissism everyone listens. Vaknin says that Obama’s language, posture and demeanor, and the testimonies of his closest, dearest and nearest suggest that the Senator is either a narcissist or he may have narcissistic personality disorder (NPD).
Narcissists project a grandiose but false image of themselves. Jim Jones, the charismatic leader of People’s Temple, the man who led over 900 of his followers to cheerfully commit mass suicide and even murder their own children was also a narcissist. David Koresh, Charles Manson, Joseph Koni, Shoko Asahara, Stalin, Saddam, Mao, Kim Jong Ill and Adolph Hitler are a few examples of narcissists of our time. All these men had a tremendous influence over their fanciers. They created a personality cult around themselves and with their blazing speeches elevated their admirers’ souls, filled their hearts with enthusiasm and instilled in their minds a new zest for life. They gave them hope! They promised them the moon, but alas, invariably they brought them to their doom. When you are a victim of a cult of personality, you don’t know it until it is too late.
One determining factor in the development of NPD is childhood abuse. “Obama’s early life was decidedly chaotic and replete with traumatic and mentally bruising dislocations,” says Vaknin. “Mixed-race marriages were even less common then. His parents went through a divorce when he was an infant (two years old). Obama saw his father only once again, before he died in a car accident. Then, his mother re-married and Obama had to relocate to Indonesia : a foreign land with a radically foreign culture, to be raised by a step-father. At the age of ten, he was whisked off to live with his maternal (white) grandparents. He saw his mother only intermittently in the following few years and then she vanished from his life in 1979. She died of cancer in 1995.”
One must never underestimate the manipulative genius of pathological narcissists. They project such an imposing personality that it overwhelms those around them. Charmed by the charisma of the narcissist, people become like clay in his hands. They cheerfully do his bidding and delight to be at his service. The narcissist shapes the world around himself and reduces others in his own inverted image. He creates a cult of personality. His admirers become his co-dependents.
Narcissists have no interest in things that do not help them to reach their personal objective. They are focused on one thing alone and that is power. All other issues are meaningless to them and they do not want to waste their precious time on trivialities. Anything that does not help them is beneath them and do not deserve their attention. If an issue raised in the Senate does not help Obama in one way or another, he has no interest in it. The “present” vote is a safe vote. No one can criticize him if things go wrong. Why should he implicate himself in issues that may become controversial when they don’t help him personally? Those issues are unworthy by their very nature because they are not about him.
Obama’s election as the first black president of the Harvard Law Review led to a contract and advance to write a book about race relations. The University of Chicago Law School provided him with a fellowship and an office to work on his book. The book took him a lot longer than expected and at the end it devolved into…, guess what? His own autobiography! Instead of writing a scholarly paper focusing on race relations, for which, he had been paid, Obama could not resist writing about his most sublime self. He entitled the book Dreams from My Father .
Not surprisingly, Adolph Hitler also wrote his own autobiography when he was still nobody. So did Stalin. For a narcissist no subject is as important as his own self. Why would he waste his precious time and genius writing about insignificant things when he can write about such an august being as himself?
Narcissists are often callous and even ruthless. As the norm, they lack conscience. This is evident from Obama’s lack of interest in his own brother who lives on only one dollar per month. A man who lives in luxury, who takes a private jet to vacation in Hawaii, and who has raised nearly half a billion dollars for his campaign (something unprecedented in history) has no interest in the plight of his own brother. Why? Because, his brother cannot be used for his ascent to power. A narcissist cares for no one but himself.
This election is like no other in the history of America . The issues are insignificant compared to what is at stake. What can be more dangerous than having a man bereft of conscience, a serial liar, and one who cannot distinguish his fantasies from reality as the leader of the free world?
I hate to sound alarmist, but one must be a fool if one is not alarmed. Many politicians are narcissists. They pose no threat to others... They are simply self serving and selfish. Obama evinces symptoms of pathological narcissism, which is different from the run-of-the-mill narcissism of a Richard Nixon or a Bill Clinton, for example. To him reality and fantasy are intertwined. This is a mental health issue, not just a character flaw. Pathological narcissists are dangerous because they look normal and even intelligent. It is this disguise that makes them treacherous.
Today the Democrats have placed all their hopes in Obama. But this man could put an end to their party. The great majority of blacks have also decided to vote for Obama. Only a fool does not know that their support for him is racially driven.
Let us call a spade a spade. This is racism, pure and simple. The truth is that while everyone carries a misconceived collective guilt towards the blacks for wrongs done centuries ago by a bygone people to a bygone people, the blacks carry a collective rancor, enmity or vendetta towards non-blacks and to this day want to “stand up” to the white man.. They seem to be stuck in 19th century.
The downside of this is that if Obama turns out to be the disaster I predict, he will cause widespread resentment among the whites. The blacks are unlikely to give up their support of their man. Cultic mentality is pernicious and unrelenting. They will dig their heads deeper in the sand and blame Obama’s detractors of racism. This will cause a backlash among the whites. The white supremacists will take advantage of the discontent and they will receive widespread support. I predict that in less than four years, racial tensions will increase to levels never seen since the turbulent 1960s. Obama will set the clock back decades… America is the bastion of freedom. The peace of the world depends on the strength of America , and its weakness translates into the triumph of terrorism and victory of rogue nations. It is no wonder that Ahmadinejad, Hugo Chavez, the Castrists, the Hezbollah, the Hamas, the lawyers of the Guantanamo terrorists and virtually all sworn enemies of America are so thrilled by the prospect of their man in the White House. America is on the verge of destruction.
There is no insanity greater than electing a pathological narcissist as president.
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