I Didn't Vote For Obama Today
I have a confession to make.
I did not vote for Barack Obama today.
I've openly supported Obama since March. But I didn't vote for him today.
I wanted to vote for Ronald Woods. He was my algebra teacher at Clark Junior High in East St. Louis, IL. He died 15 years ago when his truck skidded head-first into a utility pole. He spent many a day teaching us many things besides the Pythagorean Theorem. He taught us about Medgar Evers, Ralph Abernathy, John Lewis and many other civil rights figures who get lost in the shadow cast by Martin Luther King, Jr.
But I didn't vote for Mr. Woods.
I wanted to vote for Willie Mae Cross. She owned and operated Crossroads Preparatory Academy for almost 30 years, educating and empowering thousands of kids before her death in 2003. I was her first student. She gave me my first job, teaching chess and math concepts to kids in grades K-4 in her summer program. She was always there for advice, cheer and consolation. Ms. Cross, in her own way, taught me more about walking in faith than anyone else I ever knew.
But I didn't vote for Ms. Cross.
I wanted to vote for Arthur Mells Jackson, Sr. and Jr. Jackson Senior was a Latin professor. He has a gifted school named for him in my hometown. Jackson Junior was the pre-eminent physician in my hometown for over 30 years. He has a heliport named for him at a hospital in my hometown. They were my great-grandfather and great-uncle, respectively.
But I didn't vote for Prof. Jackson or Dr. Jackson.
I wanted to vote for A.B. Palmer. She was a leading civil rights figure in Shreveport, Louisiana, where my mother grew up and where I still have dozens of family members. She was a strong-willed woman who earned the grudging respect of the town's leaders because she never, ever backed down from anyone and always gave better than she got. She lived to the ripe old age of 99, and has a community center named for her in Shreveport.
But I didn't vote for Mrs. Palmer.
I wanted to vote for these people, who did not live to see a day where a Black man would appear on their ballots on a crisp November morning.
In the end, though, I realized that I could not vote for them any more than I could vote for Obama himself.
So who did I vote for?
No one.
I didn't vote. Not for President, anyway.
Oh, I went to the voting booth. I signed, was given my stub, and was walked over to a voting machine. I cast votes for statewide races and a state referendum on water and sewer improvements.
I stood there, and I thought about all of these people, who influenced my life so greatly. But I didn't vote for who would be the 44th President of the United States.
When my ballot was complete, except for the top line, I finally decided who I was going to vote for - and then decided to let him vote for me. I reached down, picked him up, and told him to find Obama's name on the screen and touch it.
And so it came to pass that Alexander Reed, age 5, read the voting screen, found the right candidate, touched his name, and actually cast a vote for Barack Obama and Joe Biden.
Oh, the vote will be recorded as mine. But I didn't cast it.
Then again, the person who actually pressed the Obama box and the red "vote" button was the person I was really voting for all along.
It made the months of donating, phonebanking, canvassing, door hanger distributing, sign posting, blogging, arguing and persuading so much sweeter.
So, no, I didn't vote for Barack Obama. I voted for a boy who now has every reason to believe he, too, can grow up to be anything he wants...even President.













Tears in my eyes here. Thanks.
November 4, 2008 10:31 AM | Reply | Permalink
Second that, great post !!!!
November 4, 2008 3:03 PM | Reply | Permalink
What a great way to end the night...thank you.
November 5, 2008 1:29 AM | Reply | Permalink
Beautifully written, eastside93. Rec.
November 4, 2008 10:47 AM | Reply | Permalink
Wow. Nice. Recommended.
November 4, 2008 10:57 AM | Reply | Permalink
After the policy headaches, the MSM delusions, all the hype and foofarra a 5 year old boy can grow up to be anything that his heart can imagine. THAT is why Democracy matters for America, for my own Canada, and for the world.
November 4, 2008 10:57 AM | Reply | Permalink
Great post.
My nine-year-old daughter filled out the presidential choice on my absentee ballot. We video-taped it and I think I'll put it on the utube and post a link on TPM.
This is one she'll remember her whole life. She made her own campaign posters and yard signs. Last night when I put her to bed we talked about how we hoped the world would change today.
This feels about a hundred times more important than any election in my life.
November 4, 2008 10:59 AM | Reply | Permalink
Wow Boyd, what a moment for you and your son. Thanks for sharing this. (I knew I should have moved my 401K funds into Kleenex stock).
November 4, 2008 10:59 AM | Reply | Permalink
Damnit, dijamo. First he made me cry, and then you made me laugh and snort my coffee. I'm a mess over here!
Wow. Who knew I would shed so many tears this year? Tears of joy and hope as well as tears of sadness and frustration.
I expect I'll shed some more tonight, but hopefully, they'll all be tears of joy.
November 4, 2008 11:29 AM | Reply | Permalink
I'm guessing I've had more sadness and frustration this primary season than you Phoebes, but it's nothing but joy and anticipation today. And I can't imagine what what it feels like for those who have been with Obama from the beginning. You've always been one of my faves even back in the Election Central primary gladiator days. Hope you enjoy the day! What a journey.
November 4, 2008 2:29 PM | Reply | Permalink
Don't leave your name. The R's will probably challenge your vote.
November 4, 2008 11:02 AM | Reply | Permalink
Sir, sorry to say but that is illegal!
Snark aside that is truly beautiful. That's what some people don't realise. This is how it feels like to be part of history, something that will be teached in schools, and talked about years after all of our demises. It's unbelievable, but I am so proud to be part of this with my family and all of you, let us all make history together.
November 4, 2008 11:02 AM | Reply | Permalink
"teached in schools", what an unfortunate mistake. Obama will fix that too... ;-)
November 4, 2008 2:44 PM | Reply | Permalink
Nice.
November 4, 2008 11:02 AM | Reply | Permalink
Don't do this to me at work!
What a beautiful post--thanks so much!
November 4, 2008 11:03 AM | Reply | Permalink
All I can do is smile. Thanks.
November 4, 2008 11:04 AM | Reply | Permalink
Thank you for remember all of those wonderful people, and for letting that five-year-old touch that button. Sometimes grace is everything.
November 4, 2008 11:06 AM | Reply | Permalink
Wow. Tears welling up here too. If I hadn't already voted, you would have spurred me to do it.
November 4, 2008 11:07 AM | Reply | Permalink
That.Was.Beautiful.
When I picked up my 5 year old daughter last Thursday, we talked on our long two block walk home like we always do. Out of nowhere, she asks me, "Daddy, who is Barack Obama?" I told her that he was running to be our next president. She said, "My friend Christine told me that he IS going to be our next president. Is that true?" I looked her straight in the eye and said, "I hope so honey. For your sake, I certainly hope so."
I thought back to when I was 5 years old and I'm pretty sure that I was completely unaware of who was running for president. The kids at my daughter's elementary school are talking about the election. I am as amazed as I am proud.
Thanks for sharing your great story! :)
November 4, 2008 11:08 AM | Reply | Permalink
My family never voted when I was a kid. Never. My wife and I don't have children yet, but I swear that I will bring them to the polls if we're ever blessed with little ones.
November 4, 2008 11:28 AM | Reply | Permalink
$20 says this post makes it Drudge by noon.
November 4, 2008 11:09 AM | Reply | Permalink
That.Was.Beautiful.
When I picked up my 5 year old daughter last Thursday, we talked on our long two block walk home like we always do. Out of nowhere, she asks me, "Daddy, who is Barack Obama?" I told her that he was running to be our next president. She said, "My friend Christine told me that he IS going to be our next president. Is that true?" I looked her straight in the eye and said, "I hope so honey. For your sake, I certainly hope so."
I thought back to when I was 5 years old and I'm pretty sure that I was completely unaware of who was running for president. The kids at my daughter's elementary school are talking about the election. I am as amazed as I am proud.
Thanks for sharing your great story! :)
November 4, 2008 11:09 AM | Reply | Permalink
thanks for sharing
November 4, 2008 11:10 AM | Reply | Permalink
Thanks for sharing your wonderful story - and for reminding us all that the simple act of casting a vote can truly change the world, in so many, many important ways.
November 4, 2008 11:11 AM | Reply | Permalink
Truly touching. Thanks so much for that.
November 4, 2008 11:11 AM | Reply | Permalink
Awesome post.
November 4, 2008 11:11 AM | Reply | Permalink
This is awesome. I brought my 7 year old and she "voted". She needed a little help for the Congressional race but got the Presidential.
I am in no way as eloquent as you but I felt pride and joy that my daughter witnessed the enthusiasm of this election. Her school "voted" and she handled the fact that McCain one well (we are in a very Red precinct in VA).
Anyway, tears are in my eyes. Thanks so much for this great story.
November 4, 2008 11:13 AM | Reply | Permalink
Both of my babies voted for President for the first time in their lives. I am proud of them for voting for Obama, and even more proud of myself for raising such beautiful, giving children. :*}
November 4, 2008 11:13 AM | Reply | Permalink
On behalf of my kids, thanks.
We all needed that this morning.
November 4, 2008 11:13 AM | Reply | Permalink
Beautifully written. Incredibly moving.
Thank you.
November 4, 2008 11:13 AM | Reply | Permalink
My wife still remembers being four years old and voting against Nixon with her mother, such is the power of voting. My five year old has been telling everyone that she would vote for Obama because he will end the war in Iraq. Last night she added "I don't McCain wants the war to end..." Creating a culture of voting is as important as voting itself. Nicely done!
November 4, 2008 11:15 AM | Reply | Permalink
In Minnesota it perfectly legal to have an assistant of your choice help cast votes as long as it is not your boss, union rep or an actual candidate.
November 4, 2008 11:15 AM | Reply | Permalink
Yes. Hell, yes.
November 4, 2008 11:16 AM | Reply | Permalink
Loved it. Thanx.
November 4, 2008 11:16 AM | Reply | Permalink
This was a remarkable post but all the comments have also been uplifting. This was an election for the future and the generation who will have the opportunity to forge a brighter vision for our country in a time of incredible challenge. Thank you for your thoughtfulness.
November 4, 2008 11:17 AM | Reply | Permalink
What a load of sentimental cr@p. This guy should be writing soap operas.
November 4, 2008 11:17 AM | Reply | Permalink
No, he's writing history.
November 4, 2008 1:14 PM | Reply | Permalink
Wingnuts will be all over you for voter fraud.
November 4, 2008 11:18 AM | Reply | Permalink
"This just in on FOX News, a breaking story, ACORN operatives across the country are sending armies of young children - that's right, children, many of them minorities - to vote using those fraudulent registrations ACORN has been submitting for the past few months. We now turn to our guests today, Ann Coulter and a rabid badger. Just so there's no confusion, Ann's the one on the left of your television screen. Badger, you first. Are children a threat to democracy?"
November 4, 2008 2:10 PM | Reply | Permalink
I voted for the blondie:
http://www.flickr.com/photos/barackobamadotcom/3001769637/sizes/o/
November 4, 2008 11:19 AM | Reply | Permalink
Beautiful. Thanks.
November 4, 2008 11:19 AM | Reply | Permalink
This 50-yr-old white woman has been brought to tears. Thanks for your thoughtful article.
November 4, 2008 11:19 AM | Reply | Permalink
Beautiful and simply touching.
November 4, 2008 11:19 AM | Reply | Permalink
Awesome.
November 4, 2008 11:20 AM | Reply | Permalink
My five year old pressed the "Cast Vote" button, and checked that I was voting for I wanted to. He was awesome.
And yes, I'm voting for him and his 4 week old brother. I believe the world will be a better place because of my choice.
November 4, 2008 11:21 AM | Reply | Permalink
My five year old pressed the "Cast Vote" button, and checked that I was voting for I wanted to. He was awesome.
And yes, I'm voting for him and his 4 week old brother. I believe the world will be a better place because of my choice.
November 4, 2008 11:22 AM | Reply | Permalink
Keep it up, America. This Brit is finding himself incredibly moved by these voting tales. Remember: the rest of the world is watching as closely as you are, only we can't do anything to influence the result. After eight long, dark years, you - and the rest of the planet - are on the verge of something truly special.
November 4, 2008 11:22 AM | Reply | Permalink
I didn't vote for Obama either....
I voted for my 5 month old grandson (my first). I voted for the grandchild due in July (my second).
Yes, I pulled the lever next to the name "Obama" but I cast my vote for the future!!!
November 4, 2008 11:22 AM | Reply | Permalink
Thanks. A truly touching intimate moment. A story like this will be embedded in our minds years from now as we remember how proud we felt--how proud I felt this morning being the 14th voter of Ward 09 to fill out my ballot--to vote this time.
I think of all the hype, anxiety, nailbiting, and tears over the past few months and know in my heart that that excitment will override all the lies, intimidation, hypocracy, and downright foolishness.
"It's a beautiful day!" - U2
November 4, 2008 11:22 AM | Reply | Permalink
Very moving. Thank you.
You remind me of a quote I heard in an NPR interview last week:
Rosa sat so Martin could walk.
Martin walked so Barack could run.
Barack is running so our children can fly.
November 4, 2008 11:22 AM | Reply | Permalink
Just beautiful. Thank you so much for sharing.
I have to say that I was overwhelmed by emotion at the polling place this morning seeing the number of African Americans there with their children. My six year old voted with her father and I tried to explain how historic this election was and casting my own ballot felt very overwhelming, but watching those mothers and fathers with their children was too much....I just cannot imagine how powerful it must've been for those parents to share that experience with their kids.
After the past nightmarish eight years (with a hat tip to Andrew Sullivan): Know Hope.
November 4, 2008 11:22 AM | Reply | Permalink
Will the Republicans pick this post up and point to it as an example of voting fraud? I hope Malkin, Instapundit and the rest don't see this!
November 4, 2008 11:24 AM | Reply | Permalink
You brought a tear to my eyes and not many can do that to this old man. Beautiful, absolutely beautiful. Thank you!
November 4, 2008 11:25 AM | Reply | Permalink
wow
a little more touching then i wanted it to be...
at first i was outraged that you hadnt cast a vote for president but i couldnt stop reading, and im pretty glad i did....
stupid americans always jumping to conclusions
thanks for the story
and hoepfully today goes very well for us all!
November 4, 2008 11:25 AM | Reply | Permalink
Oh there you go! You made me cry!
Thank you for including your child in our nation's voting process.
November 4, 2008 11:26 AM | Reply | Permalink
I didn't expect to be crying this early in the day. Thanks, that was beautiful.
November 4, 2008 11:27 AM | Reply | Permalink
I will be dropping our ballots off this morning. I've already got roaring in my ears, and short choppy, breath. It's gonna be quite a day and night.
November 4, 2008 11:27 AM | Reply | Permalink
You're going to jail fucker. Voter fraud. The republicans are on thier way to your house right now. It's Guantanamo for you. Hide the kid!
November 4, 2008 11:27 AM | Reply | Permalink
That nailed it for me. That is why we vote. Not for our own personal short term gain. That is it. Thanks for helping to clear out my tear ducts this a.m.
November 4, 2008 11:30 AM | Reply | Permalink
I know little about my father's hometown in Oklahoma except it had a billboard that said "N*&@ Don't Let the Sun Set on You in
Dundee." Best I can tell the town no longer exists. I know little about the future, except it will be better for my adopted biracial son.
November 4, 2008 11:34 AM | Reply | Permalink
FWIW, it shows up on Google Earth, just west of Healdton.
November 4, 2008 12:58 PM | Reply | Permalink
Yep, heartwarming. Impeccable logic too.
But the snarky side of my nature rebels just a little at the "purity and sanctity" of children - it's as if we believe all the wisdom and rationality in the world is concentrated in their little hands.
If that's so, why don't we let them vote?
November 4, 2008 11:34 AM | Reply | Permalink
I'm not crying. It's the rain.
HUMMMMM BABY! Waytago EASTSIDE!
November 4, 2008 11:36 AM | Reply | Permalink
I saw Obama working a rope line on TV. The camera picked up an ederly black man and black woman, perhaps husband and wife just behind the rope. I can't describe the look on their faces when Obama was right there in front of them, but maybe the shit they had to live through all their lives somehow disappeared with Obama there in front of them, and maybe their life will never be the same again.
I hope Obama is elected for all the people like that eledery couple.
November 4, 2008 11:39 AM | Reply | Permalink
I was standing on line to vote this morning, watching the parents who had their young children with them. Mine are too old for that now but I wished that they could have joined me for this one. You've captured beautifully why.
Thanks.
November 4, 2008 11:39 AM | Reply | Permalink
Beautiful, beautiful post, tears in my eyes. I registered at TPM just so I could comment.
I'll definitely be thinking of my little one when I cast my vote for Obama after work, although I'm opting not to bring her along this year. (Have completely irrational fear that she'd accidentally flip the lever for McCain, and then open the curtain to lock it in. Yes, as far as I know we're still using old-style voting machines!)
November 4, 2008 11:42 AM | Reply | Permalink
Damn you all for telling such moving stories today, for making me cry, and for filling my heart with hope for the future.
I'm not going to get any work done today, especially if I can't see the computer through my tears of joy.
November 4, 2008 11:42 AM | Reply | Permalink
If only my daughter had every reason to believe he, too, can grow up to be anything she wants...even President.
November 4, 2008 11:44 AM | Reply | Permalink
Crying here in WA, too.
I took my (mixed-race) six-year-old to a Biden rally in Tacoma, he was bored out of his gourd, but I wanted him to be part of history.
A few days later we were at a restaurant that gave fortune cookies, and his read "Welcome the change coming soon into your life."
And, he said, "Maybe it's Obama."
I didn't let him vote for Obama on my ballot because, of course, that's illegal.
ahem.
November 4, 2008 11:44 AM | Reply | Permalink
I have had the best conversations this year with my 12-yr old triplets. We've talked about the issues and we've talked about the electoral college. We've talked about what it means when a fellow student says that voting for Obama means that you're a baby killer. We've talked about what it means that voting for Obama means you want to give all of your money to poor people. We've talked about that it's OK that we might have to pay higher taxes if we vote for Obama. It's been great.
November 4, 2008 11:44 AM | Reply | Permalink
Beautiful story. Hope your kid has the golden Midas touch.
November 4, 2008 11:44 AM | Reply | Permalink
Nice try, Reed; but I'm not gonna... I said I'm not gonna... not... DAMMIT!!!
Yeah, OK, I got all teary-eyed, too....
Seriously, thanks for a very moving post. I have two sons of my own, and I'd like for them to come of age in a much better America than I did. What I've seen of the generation just now starting to come into it's own gives me tremendous hope for the future. Keep up the good work....
November 4, 2008 11:45 AM | Reply | Permalink
Dude, you cannot do that to me. I'm too on edge as it is. I almost ended it all with a letter opener.
November 4, 2008 11:47 AM | Reply | Permalink
Ah, vote fraud.
Well it was for a good cause!
November 4, 2008 11:50 AM | Reply | Permalink
God bless.
November 4, 2008 11:51 AM | Reply | Permalink
This is the second time you have caused me to cry tears of hope for my fellow man, Eastside; the first was your $600 contribution to the people of the Gulf Coast. Your son has a fine father. And, whether or not he remembers this moment, we will.
November 4, 2008 11:51 AM | Reply | Permalink
One word.
Classy!
November 4, 2008 11:52 AM | Reply | Permalink
I hope that the young boy one day looks back on this morning and realizes the power and innocence which all Americans have at that one instant. I dream we all feel this way...today
November 4, 2008 11:52 AM | Reply | Permalink
Wonderful post. I dragged my kids out of bed early this morning to go vote with me, and I let my 9 year old push the button for Obama for the same reasons. This post perfectly captures the pride and the elation I feel today.
November 4, 2008 11:53 AM | Reply | Permalink
My neighbors' children were in line today, too. When a slightly cranky six year old arrived and I told his dad I'd been in line for half an hour, the dad said, "well, maybe we should come back." But the six-year old said, "No. I want to vote." When I left, they were still waiting in line -- the six-year old determined to vote for "high-speed rail." It's wonderful to see people that young already learning about what it means to vote.
(And yes, I also teared up.)
November 4, 2008 11:54 AM | Reply | Permalink
Great. Now I'm all choked up.
November 4, 2008 11:57 AM | Reply | Permalink
I cast my vote for Obama in Brooklyn today and wished I could have been there with my partner, my same-sex partner, now my husband who is from Croatia. He can’t vote in the USA. He has never voted, not once, in any election, anywhere in his entire adult life. He has been here in the USA for 15 years as a student through high school, university, and graduate school and then the past 6 years as a hard-working, tax-paying H1B visa holder. His visa will expire at the end of this year and he will have to leave the country before Obama takes office.
So as I cast that vote today I did so with a great amount of hope for the future. Hope that things will change so that I as a US citizen will have the right to sponsor my husband to obtain lawful permanent resident status just like any opposite-sex, married couple would be able to do. Hope that Obama will cast away DOMA and support UAFA. Hope that my vote today will pave the way for a future in which I will be treated equally among my fellow citizens. Hope that I will realize the civil right to extend that right to sponsor the individual with whom I intend to spend the rest of my life with. Hope that we will be able to return to this country with full, legal status sooner rather that later to live our lives without governments treating us as less-than-others.
And I hope I will be there someday to witness my husband cast his first vote.
November 4, 2008 12:00 PM | Reply | Permalink
The original post made me cry. This comment made me cry AGAIN. Thank you for sharing your story, and I hope the future is good to you. (and yes, i finally registered with tpm- after months of reading- just to reply.).
November 4, 2008 4:29 PM | Reply | Permalink
I think we hereosexuals should make an issue of being heterosexual, even when most gratuitous, as if it's of PUBLIC relevance.
What do you think?
November 7, 2008 6:01 PM | Reply | Permalink
Wow.
November 4, 2008 12:01 PM | Reply | Permalink
Trite, obvious, sweet, wonderful, moving, and simply brought actual tears to my eyes. Yes, that is why we do this. Thank you.
My god, I feel so deeply truly wonderful today.
November 4, 2008 12:03 PM | Reply | Permalink
Thank you for this beautiful post, and thanks to everyone here who has involved their children in this amazing electoral process. It's the least we can do for them, having collectively saddled each and every one of them with $35,000 worth of government debt. ($34,714 today on national debt clock.)
November 4, 2008 12:06 PM | Reply | Permalink
To the author of this post (EastSide93): That was the most amazing post I have read in months. Maybe years. I am an old white guy (61) who lived across the river for you for a year back in 1973. We seldom drove across the river back then -- it was too scary -- we only heard about the crime and such. And I apologize to you for my fear back then.
Like you, I have seen the world change in these many decades. I grew up in Joplin. I went to a Catholic elementary school. The only Catholic family in the city had 2 sons who were in my class for all 12 years. I considered myself to be friends with them, but we never did anything outside school together. And, looking back, I feel bad about that. They were very nice guys.
Muhammed Ali changed this country. The entire world (white and black) admired him. Michael Jordan changed this country. I remembered being pleased at the world years ago when I would see lots of pre-teen and teenaged white boys wearing Michael Jordan's #23 t-shirts. I knew that the world was changing.
I remember thinking that the "Black is Beautiful" slogan from decades ago was just "PR" -- but then along came Dianna Ross and Janet Jackson -- and I realized that truly, Black is Beautiful.
Honestly, I was for Hillary. I didn't think my fellow citizens were ready for Obama. But they (my fellow citizens) have truly stunned me. I was floored and delighted to see photos of 100,000 white folk at an Obama rally in Denver.
As much as JFK did, I believe that BHO will change the world in a very positive way. For the first time in decades, I see the possibility of Peace on Earth.
I could ramble more -- a person has a lot of memories and thoughts at 61 -- but I just wanted to let you know that your Post, here on this site, has truly moved me.
With your permission [let me know if it is not given], I am planning to print your post on parchment paper -- and frame it in an expensive frame for the wall in my living room.
There is only one other item on my wall -- a picture of Matthew Sheppard from the Sheppard Foundation on their "Vote For Me" poster from 2006. It has been on my wall for 2 years. And I just this minute recognized how that poster and your post are truly entertwined around the same topic. I have new hope for America.
I wish you well.
November 4, 2008 12:09 PM | Reply | Permalink
Hi Bob. You're welcome to use the post. Thank you for your comments. You should know that I've been to central Missouri often, and I've found people there to be nice to me individually. Just more confirmation that the mob mentality can be overcome with direct personal communication.
To everyone else who's posted here: I am...well...stunned at the responses. Thanks to all of you very much, even those concerned about me being attacked for "voter fraud". I personally hope this story becomes a Drudge post - it means the GOP has nothing better to discuss, which means they're losing by 200 EVs.
I doubt Alex has any idea what he really did today. He just enjoyed the colorful touch screen. :-)
If I do my job right, though, he'll come to recognize its significance without me harping on it.
November 4, 2008 12:22 PM | Reply | Permalink
Printed, matted, framed and hung. All before the first set of polls close on the East Coast. It was a fun experience. The guy from Kinkos helped me get good paper for printing (he didn't charge me for the paper). The lady at the frame shop didn't charge me for her labor. She also "found" a coupon under her desk that gave me a major discount. Then, at the checkout counter the clerk rang it up -- and with tax it came to $17.76! She didn't understand why 1776 was so significant but she could tell that I was euphoric over the price. All this in the reddest state in the nation. I am on my way to a Watch Party at a local Mexican restaurant. Thanks Boyd.
November 4, 2008 7:10 PM | Reply | Permalink
I welled up just reading these comments!
November 4, 2008 12:10 PM | Reply | Permalink
My eight year old son has watched this election with an interest that surprised me, through 4 nights of the convention and lots of questions about our local propositions. He not only just voted for Obama, he voted against Prop 8 here in California - which he refers to as "that law some people are trying to pass that means you can't marry the person you want to marry". I have never been more hopeful about our future.
November 4, 2008 12:14 PM | Reply | Permalink
No offense, but could we do with less melodrama? I voted for Obama because he's going to be a better president than McCain would have, but Obama is only a human politician. I'm more afraid of the backlash from true believers like everyone wiping their eyes here than from Republicans, because these people (you people) are setting yourselves up for a big disappointment when, starting Jan 20, clouds don't rain honey and ObaMidas is unable to slow the inexorable progression of the economic recession with a wave of his magic unicorn wand.
November 4, 2008 12:20 PM | Reply | Permalink
No offense taken, but I don't recall anyone here saying that clouds would rain honey or anything like that. He also won't cure the common cold. Failure to accomplish either of these Chuck Norris-type feats won't bother me.
Many of the people posting in this thread (myself included - check the blog) have criticized Obama at various points in this election. I think TPMers are actually fairly clear-headed about Obama's limitations and idiosyncrasies (certainly more so than dKos), but most of us recognize his gifts and the potential for an end to the wreckage Bushco is leaving for us and our children.
It's a watershed moment in American political history if Obama is elected, and a lot of people are moved by it. It will dominate the discussion, and it should.
November 4, 2008 12:34 PM | Reply | Permalink
First, thank you for the post. Wonderful.
And this is a watershed moment, an opportunity that might lead this country moving not only in a better economic and foreign policy direction, but a better political and cultural direction. Years from now, we could find ourselves a more decent and progressive country, and looking back see that it was this election that paved the way, just as the fight for civil rights paved the way for this moment, and so on.
November 4, 2008 1:01 PM | Reply | Permalink
No honey? Damnit. I want my vote back.
November 4, 2008 2:44 PM | Reply | Permalink
I wasn't looking for honey. A beer, maybe. But I didn't vote for Obama in hopes of having a beer with him.
November 7, 2008 6:06 PM | Reply | Permalink
Wow, this was amazing. This brought tears to my eyes. I've never seen so much unity, hope, and love as I have with my fellow Obama supporters this election.
November 4, 2008 12:22 PM | Reply | Permalink
Tears in my eyes too.
Here's a fun video of my 2 year old helping shape the future!!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YKiPNSKsS6Q
November 4, 2008 12:24 PM | Reply | Permalink
Too cute!
November 4, 2008 2:22 PM | Reply | Permalink
Tears here, too. My five year old will pull the lever for me, too, as he did for his mom. He likes to vote early and often.
November 4, 2008 12:25 PM | Reply | Permalink
Thanks for sharing, Devon. As cscs would say sometimes, I'd give it a "5" if I could. I rarely well up and had not done so this election cycle until learning of the news of the death of Obama's grandmother yesterday. Now the tears are streaming down my face as I sit here reading these stories by you and others. Just really starting to sink in and get to me, I guess, the magnitude of what is happening.
November 4, 2008 2:03 PM | Reply | Permalink
I've spent the past two months focused on how racism is used in the electoral season, along the Willie Horton lines (for a site I'm working on, StopDogWhistleRacism.com. I just realized today that, for all my focus on the negative stuff, I haven't really had a chance to get excited. I'm knocking off work early today to get in on the good feelings.
November 4, 2008 3:53 PM | Reply | Permalink
Now he will have a story to tell like mine.
When I was 4, my Dad took me into the voting booth with him. It was one of those old mechanical booths with the curtains that close behind you. He was pulling levers all down the Democratic side but he didn't pull the top one. He picked me up, pointed at the top lever, and said "Pull that lever down." So I did. Then Dad said "Now you can tell everybody that you voted for John F. Kennedy."
Dad didn't make it to this election, nor did my Mom. They were lifelong Democrats, raised by Democrats, in a family of Democrats. So this year, I returned the favor. This one was for you, Mom and Dad. I hope I made you proud.
November 4, 2008 12:28 PM | Reply | Permalink
They're doubtlessly bursting.
When you talk to them again, have them pass along a "thank you" to Madelyn Dunham.
November 4, 2008 12:39 PM | Reply | Permalink
Thank you...
November 4, 2008 12:29 PM | Reply | Permalink
Wow, what a load of crap.
November 4, 2008 12:34 PM | Reply | Permalink
Together, Yes We Can!
The transformation is OUR transformation. It starts with each and every one of US.
November 4, 2008 12:34 PM | Reply | Permalink
Cute story, but I am tired of reading these ironic "Gotcha" headlines here, at MyDD and Kos. Been going on for weeks now. Stop it with those everyone.
November 4, 2008 12:40 PM | Reply | Permalink
Thank you.
November 4, 2008 12:41 PM | Reply | Permalink
To those who have described the post as sentimental and crap...
What did you intend to accomplish by verbalizing that? Let the rest of us have a moment where we can enjoy the feeling that true change is in the air. Our feelings are valid.
And if you disagree with that sentiment, your feelings are valid, too, but go to a different blog site and commiserate with them.
November 4, 2008 12:43 PM | Reply | Permalink
I took my 14 year old daughter with me to vote as I've done since she was born. We realized, as we were standing in line, that she will be able to vote for Obama's reelection in 4 years. She was very excited.
November 4, 2008 12:46 PM | Reply | Permalink
I took my 14 year old daughter with me to vote as I've done since she was born. We realized, as we were standing in line, that she will be able to vote for Obama's reelection in 4 years. She was very excited.
November 4, 2008 12:47 PM | Reply | Permalink
So beautifully written; I'm in tears. I'm holding by breath for change.
November 4, 2008 12:48 PM | Reply | Permalink
One word.
Classy!
November 4, 2008 12:54 PM | Reply | Permalink
Powerful & eloquent - the perfect expression of today's hopes.
November 4, 2008 12:54 PM | Reply | Permalink
My seven year old at breakfast this morning was excited because it's election day and Obama is going to win. We then explained for what felt like the 1,000th time that we hope Obama is going to win but different people have different ideas about what is the right way for the country to work. At which point he said this
"Well even if he doesn't beat McCain he's definitely going to beat Bob Barr!"
The his Dad and I looked at each other in an attempt to not burst into laughter.
November 4, 2008 1:00 PM | Reply | Permalink
He taught us about Medgar Evers, Ralph Abernathy, John Lewis and many other civil rights figures who get lost in the shadow cast by Martin Luther King, Jr.
The oh-so-minor discordant point in a moving essay. Casting a shadow sounds ominous. Rather, their stars are less visible in King's brilliant sun.
November 4, 2008 1:01 PM | Reply | Permalink
I voted for Obama because I have a gay son and someday I have hope that all mothers of gay children can tell them that they too could be president.
November 4, 2008 1:01 PM | Reply | Permalink
How in hell does one's PRIVATE sexuality have PUBLIC relevance?
How does making an issue of DIFFERENCE DIMINISH the significance of DIFFERENCE?
Not so by the way, in view of the fact that it also isn't relevant: I'm heterosexual.
November 7, 2008 6:20 PM | Reply | Permalink
Wow. That was powerful stuff. Thank you for sharing.
November 4, 2008 1:03 PM | Reply | Permalink
Why do you want to make people cry?
yay! for your dear little boy!
November 4, 2008 1:03 PM | Reply | Permalink
Eastside...well done, well done! Thats what it always is about, every election. Our children and their children. The dream of full human dignity is getting closer.
November 4, 2008 1:06 PM | Reply | Permalink
Thank you. When Obama wins I WILL cry.
Then I have signs that say "Yes we did!!!" to put in my windows. I live on the 10th floor of a high rise and my windows are visible to everyone driving buy or waiting at a huge intersection near my building.
It's happening. It's happening.
November 4, 2008 1:13 PM | Reply | Permalink
Wow, Boyd.
You should hand out barf bags with your posts.
November 4, 2008 1:15 PM | Reply | Permalink
Hey Mitchum22, tell me where you live so I can bash your fucking head in..
November 26, 2008 12:32 PM | Reply | Permalink
What a letdown.
I was hoping to read about somebody else here who voted McKinney, both for voting outside the duopoly box and for doubly making history.
>sigh
November 4, 2008 1:15 PM | Reply | Permalink
Moving, beautifully written post. Bravo.
And just for the record, anyone who can't see the progress this election represents for this society should be pitied. You can be very realistic and still be moved by what's happening today.
November 4, 2008 1:16 PM | Reply | Permalink
Wow. It all comes down to a simple and very powerful moment. Thank you for sharing.
November 4, 2008 1:17 PM | Reply | Permalink
Well, I did vote for Obama this morning. I used to take my kid, but there was no fargin way to separate a high school student from a bed before 11:00 am on her day off.
Even Barack can't work miracles..
November 4, 2008 1:18 PM | Reply | Permalink
See also:
http://www.dailykos.com/story/2008/10/29/92941/441
November 4, 2008 1:22 PM | Reply | Permalink
Beautiful, eastside.
November 4, 2008 1:22 PM | Reply | Permalink
You brought tears to my eyes. I am praying for America!
November 4, 2008 1:23 PM | Reply | Permalink
Very beautiful. When I voted I placed my 11 year old son's hand on top of mine as I marked my ballot. Someday he will be proud that his first vote was cast for the man who is going to change our world.
November 4, 2008 1:25 PM | Reply | Permalink
Thanks for such an inspiring post Eastside. It brought tears to my eyes. By the time I got through a few of the comments, I was flowing like a river.
I was so excited to cast my vote early this morning with my mom by my side. I'm a 50+ white female Vietnam era veteran. My mom is 82 1/2. We both proudly filled in the circle for Obama/Biden.
I feel so exuberant yet a bit anxious waiting for the MSM to call the election for Obama.
November 4, 2008 1:28 PM | Reply | Permalink
Here in Oregon we vote by mail, so I decided that my daughters (ages ten and eight) would fill in the oval beside Barack's name. They were well aware of the significance of this election, and realized that one day they would take pride in having marked this particular ballot.
This entire election cycle has enabled us to examine with them the responsibilities and obligations of active citizenship.
November 4, 2008 1:31 PM | Reply | Permalink
Thank you for sharing this. Last night I got a phone call from my neighbor, who's a visiting professor from Germany. Her daughter had asked her if she could go and vote and her mom thought to call me and ask if she could go with me. I was honored and happy to walk with her to our polling place, which was at her school. As we walked, college kids rode by on their bikes calling out to everyone, urging us to go and vote. When we got into the booth I pulled the levers and then had Yamina press the red button to cast the vote. And on the way back to campus, my young friend told me how important this would be to Africa and Europe, and I couldn't agree with her more.
November 4, 2008 1:34 PM | Reply | Permalink
I remember going to vote with my Mother in our small rural western Pennsylvania town in the late sixties. We had just moved here after my Dad had finished his residency in Delaware. He was about to be drafted as 1A after being classified 4F before he finished his education (He had a cleft palate, punctured eardrum and other things that would not qualify him). Since he had worked at the Dover AFB they thought he would welcome being in the service. He had four children under 8..so no he would not. So my parents quickly found a postion that would qualify him as essential. We moved...very far from my Mother's sisters who had been her support and help as my Dad finished school. I remember going into the booth with my mother, holding my baby brother as she juggled her pocketbook, my baby sister and her umbrella. Finally she told me to pull the lever to register her vote. I remember the pride it gave me that I was her big girl helper. (My older sister was in school that day, so it was a big deal for me to be the 'big sister') As we came out of the booth, the poll worker asked her "how did you vote?". My Mother was shocked because no one had ever asked her in previously. Since it was a new town, small and obviously important to know where this new Doctor's wife stood, my Mom being the sarcastic joker that she was, said calmly: "I voted the for the Communist Party if it is any of your business!" That shut the old biddy up wonderfully, except that when the results were published, 1 person in our town had voted communist. So for the rest of our time in that town we were labeled as "Pinkos".
Every election since, I vote in the tradition of my mother. I vote with my heart, with an eye to the future and with my children there with me. Announcing who you voted for is not as important as showing up and voting. Each and every election is important. Each issue is your chance to make a difference. Teaching your children that with great gifts comes great responsibilities and that we have to accept our actions or inactions have consequences. So vote, tell your neighbors to vote, tell your family to vote, tell everyone to vote. Because when we stop accepting our role in our government, we deny our children their future.
November 4, 2008 1:47 PM | Reply | Permalink
I did the same with my 5 year old this morning. It was one of those parental moments that remind me why I put up with all the baloney Kindergarteners can dish out.
November 4, 2008 1:52 PM | Reply | Permalink
Excellent, excellent post.
My parents are from Alabama and Texas. They're 84 years old, former fans of George Wallace. I remember as a child my father still referred to people he worked with as "Good Ni***r" and talked about the racial tensions in the south (and not in a good way, if you get my drift). I was a confused kid, frankly, because most of my teachers in grade school (until 6th grade, anyway)were incredibly kind, gifted, intelligent, loving, and Black. We moved when I was 11 (in 1973) to an all white rural area because the "wrong kind" of people were moving into our neighborhood.
I now live next door to the house I moved into when I started 6th grade. My 9 year old daughter goes to the same grade school, but now she has African American friends, latinos, asians, Arabs, persians, and still a lot of "white" folk, and exactly zero issues like the ones I dealt with at her age.
My oldest daughter is now student teaching and lives in North Carolina and voted for Barack. My middle daughter blogs for him on Youtube.
And both parents just voted to help make a black man president.
I was worried for awhile but this is, in fact, still America.
November 4, 2008 1:53 PM | Reply | Permalink
Did it with my five-year-old this morning too. It was a reminder that what I do as a parent has an impact on the future of our society.
November 4, 2008 2:04 PM | Reply | Permalink
Excellent, excellent post.
My parents are from Alabama and Texas. They're 84 years old, former fans of George Wallace. I remember as a child my father still referred to people he worked with as "Good Ni***r" and talked about the racial tensions in the south (and not in a good way, if you get my drift). I was a confused kid, frankly, because most of my teachers in grade school (until 6th grade, anyway)were incredibly kind, gifted, intelligent, loving, and Black. We moved when I was 11 (in 1973) to an all white rural area because the "wrong kind" of people were moving into our neighborhood.
I now live next door to the house I moved into when I started 6th grade. My 9 year old daughter goes to the same grade school, but now she has African American friends, latinos, asians, Arabs, persians, and still a lot of "white" folk, and exactly zero issues like the ones I dealt with at her age.
My oldest daughter is now student teaching and lives in North Carolina and voted for Barack. My middle daughter blogs for him on Youtube.
And both parents just voted to help make a black man president.
I was worried for awhile but this is, in fact, still America.
November 4, 2008 2:07 PM | Reply | Permalink
I don't understand you people at all. This story is full of cliches and probably just something that somebody made up. No wonder the country is in the mess it's in.
November 4, 2008 2:08 PM | Reply | Permalink
I don't understand you people at all. This story is full of cliches and probably just something that somebody made up. No wonder the country is in the mess it's in.
November 4, 2008 2:08 PM | Reply | Permalink
You felt the need to post this twice, I see. :-)
Kidding aside, though, it's a little saddening to see the cynicism from some on this thread. I expected more of it, to be honest. Today, however, people like you can't mess up my mojo.
BTW, did you consider that the country is in the mess it's in precisely because people stopped believing in the best and started settling for the mediocre?
I want my son to grow up in a country where the relentless pursuit of perfection is the minimum he'll accept. That starts with being involved in our nation's affairs - and that starts with knowing the importance of voting. I'm glad I took him today - and if I have to take the occasional brickbat from a misanthrope, I'd do it again.
In fact, he'll be going with me for the midterms in 2010, too. And I might even write about it. :-)
November 4, 2008 2:35 PM | Reply | Permalink
Posted by bocawayne
This story is full of cliches and probably just something that somebody made up. No wonder the country is in the mess it's in."
I agree the country is in a mess.
Your comment, Reminds me of the Joe the plumber story, A fabricated Cinderella story about a guy, so full of clichés, and turns out to be a man named Sam not Joe. I'm not making this up. Sam
An unlicensed plumber, probably avoiding paying taxes on his income.
Using Sammy Davis' tap dancing skills as a stereotypical analogy, or if you prefer Racists remarks. Joe the plumber is really Joe the fraud.
November 4, 2008 3:31 PM | Reply | Permalink
Thank you so much...beautiful post
November 4, 2008 2:23 PM | Reply | Permalink
That's beautiful.
November 4, 2008 2:33 PM | Reply | Permalink
I cast my first vote the same way: as a 7-year-old kid pulling the lever for my mom. Unfortunately, it was a vote for Bush the Elder, but it's something that stuck with me. Your son is going to remember this for the rest of his life. That's awesome.
November 4, 2008 2:37 PM | Reply | Permalink
Great post! Thank you for a fresh perspective of what casting our vote really means. Just want to note that whether we pull the lever for Obama or for McCain, most of us do so in hopes that our children and grandchildren will have a brighter future. Some crusty old repubs actually love their families, fellow citizens, and country!
November 4, 2008 2:37 PM | Reply | Permalink
Been waiting for the absolute proof our dream has come true, but you got me! Goose bumps & tears galore. I echo everyone here, beautiful!
November 4, 2008 2:40 PM | Reply | Permalink
Damn Eastside! You've gone viral! ;)
November 4, 2008 2:46 PM | Reply | Permalink
Speaking with my mother this morning, it became clear to me why Barack Obama is special. Beyond his policies and speeches, he is the only presidential candidate I can remember, in my brief forty-nine years spent circling the sun, whose judgement supercedes his ego. I believe we can trust him to make choices which are in the best interests of our country and our planet. I find it ironic that McCain's slogan is "Country First." Should Republicans voting today truly wish to put country first, they should cast their votes for Senator Obama. Thank you, Mr. Reed, for touching my soul today.
November 4, 2008 2:47 PM | Reply | Permalink
Speaking with my mother this morning, it became clear to me why Barack Obama is special. Beyond his policies and speeches, he is the only presidential candidate I can remember, in my brief forty-nine years spent circling the sun, whose judgement supercedes his ego. I believe we can trust him to make choices which are in the best interests of our country and our planet. I find it ironic that McCain's slogan is "Country First." Should Republicans voting today truly wish to put country first, they should cast their votes for Senator Obama. Thank you, Mr. Reed, for touching my soul today.
November 4, 2008 2:51 PM | Reply | Permalink
Beautiful comment. I too teared up.
And I confess that I choked up when I voted in DC for Obama this morning. I realize that my vote doesn't really affect things, since DC will go Blue anyway. But as an upper income, middle aged white person who has enjoyed the benefits of American society, I felt compelled to stand in line for an hour to vote anyway. As I marked my ballot, I thought back to the images of my childhood of Bull Connor and the firehoses, of Schwerner, Goodman and Cheney of the Freedom Riders, of Viola Liuzzo, of Dr. King marching in Selma, of the time my family's house was targeted by vandals because we had Black friends. Little did I dream back then that I would one day vote proudly for a man as President who was Black.
November 4, 2008 2:55 PM | Reply | Permalink
Oy. Mix a cup of sugar into a bowl of chicken noodle soup. The result will be this post.
November 4, 2008 3:01 PM | Reply | Permalink
Not cool, not cool at all. I'm not supposed to start crying 'till late tonight. And now you've gone and made me weep at 3:06.
November 4, 2008 3:06 PM | Reply | Permalink
Thank you.
November 4, 2008 3:11 PM | Reply | Permalink
The true meaning of our creed.
November 4, 2008 3:14 PM | Reply | Permalink