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American Sense of Entitlement
Don't tell me what to do. I'm an American.
Americans are free. The freest country in the world.
Democracy is the worst of all systems except for all the rest.
Don't like it? Go live in Burkina Faso or Vladivostok.
We have the best health care, the best universities,
the best movies, we invent the best stuff, and the rest
of the countries in the world are just jealous of us.
Even sports - they run around kicking a little ball.
We have sports that require some thinking, some strategy,
some toughness.
Okay, had to get that out of my system.
Strolled by Andrew Sullivan's for a rare peek, and
came across a note from an ER physician noting the
sense of entitlement people coming in have. I guess
I always assumed this was mostly right-wing spin
against the poor. Now I start to think again. What
he describes is not just desiring access to treatment,
but controlling the process - how quick, which
tests, what prescription. Veruca Salt style - "I want
it now."
Where I live, far from the US, people do use their
free health care a lot. But it doesn't feel like
entitlement. They seem to go when they need treatment.
And tend to take what they're given rather politely.
But everything that gets beamed out of America is
about some kind of entitlement, an exemption to
pollute more, entitlement to torture, entitlement
to not be subject to international rules and norms,
entitlement to rule the roost, dominate the world's
currency and markets, decide who gets nuclear
weapons, offshore but retaliate, to tilt everything our way.
The world was waiting for us to anoint our new Messiah,*
not say to get our shit together and start listening to
friendly, intelligent foreign voices.
We are entitled to drive as much as we want,
to insult others in the name of freedom as much as
we want, to invade and threaten and harass and extradite
and embargo and sanction wherever and whenever we
feel appropriate. We're #1. We don't need a mirror.
Just another beer. Road trip. Let's go blow up some shit,
go taser someone. Entitlement in little things and big -
"I pay my taxes, get out of my lane".
Our talking back to power has become a parody.
By talking back, we mean "act irreverent" without
actually accomplishing anything. We make YouTube.
The bullshit continues. It's there on the left and
on the right. Puppets in our own game of superiority.
Our media has become a cottage industry catering
to the self-perceived entitlement of its audience.
Who will we mock today? Who will fill my little pot
of entitlement or risk my wrath and ire?
Entitlement is a virus, an earwig that's eating through
the American brain and psyche.
*Note that of course we're entitled to a Messiah,
that it's inconceivable that we could deserve a plain
ordinary politician as our leader, much less a poor
incompetent one. That would be un-American.
Americans are free. The freest country in the world.
Democracy is the worst of all systems except for all the rest.
Don't like it? Go live in Burkina Faso or Vladivostok.
We have the best health care, the best universities,
the best movies, we invent the best stuff, and the rest
of the countries in the world are just jealous of us.
Even sports - they run around kicking a little ball.
We have sports that require some thinking, some strategy,
some toughness.
Okay, had to get that out of my system.
Strolled by Andrew Sullivan's for a rare peek, and
came across a note from an ER physician noting the
sense of entitlement people coming in have. I guess
I always assumed this was mostly right-wing spin
against the poor. Now I start to think again. What
he describes is not just desiring access to treatment,
but controlling the process - how quick, which
tests, what prescription. Veruca Salt style - "I want
it now."
Where I live, far from the US, people do use their
free health care a lot. But it doesn't feel like
entitlement. They seem to go when they need treatment.
And tend to take what they're given rather politely.
But everything that gets beamed out of America is
about some kind of entitlement, an exemption to
pollute more, entitlement to torture, entitlement
to not be subject to international rules and norms,
entitlement to rule the roost, dominate the world's
currency and markets, decide who gets nuclear
weapons, offshore but retaliate, to tilt everything our way.
The world was waiting for us to anoint our new Messiah,*
not say to get our shit together and start listening to
friendly, intelligent foreign voices.
We are entitled to drive as much as we want,
to insult others in the name of freedom as much as
we want, to invade and threaten and harass and extradite
and embargo and sanction wherever and whenever we
feel appropriate. We're #1. We don't need a mirror.
Just another beer. Road trip. Let's go blow up some shit,
go taser someone. Entitlement in little things and big -
"I pay my taxes, get out of my lane".
Our talking back to power has become a parody.
By talking back, we mean "act irreverent" without
actually accomplishing anything. We make YouTube.
The bullshit continues. It's there on the left and
on the right. Puppets in our own game of superiority.
Our media has become a cottage industry catering
to the self-perceived entitlement of its audience.
Who will we mock today? Who will fill my little pot
of entitlement or risk my wrath and ire?
Entitlement is a virus, an earwig that's eating through
the American brain and psyche.
*Note that of course we're entitled to a Messiah,
that it's inconceivable that we could deserve a plain
ordinary politician as our leader, much less a poor
incompetent one. That would be un-American.
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Probably was those out of work bankers. Poor people don't go to ERs. They drop dead, and I suppose they are entitled to do so.
April 15, 2009 6:57 AM | Reply | Permalink
Forgive me Des for falling off track a bit here and Bwack my deeply respected chicken person but in as much seriousness as I can maintain I submit for your consideration the following based on real world experience. My wonderful spouse person worked at the hospital spoken of below for 15 years and shared her experiences with me. I have come to see myself as a soup kitchen unpaid professional after working there on and off since 2001, A Retirement Oddessy. And Bwack, I agree that a good number of poor people do stay home and die for lack of basic medical care. Thousands. Google go ahead and die to see the hilarious video if you want. My comment:
Poor people do go to ER's. Once or twice a month I call an ambulance for a down client at the soup kitchen. Seisure and collapse are common causes. People who are merely very sick or in great pain get referred to whatever free clinic is open that day and they can go wait in line there. They do not seek much of what little health care exists. And their crisis entry into the health care system comes by an ambulance staffed with paramedics accompanied by a fire truck and a cop if they can find one to provide security. The responders are quite competent and the ambulance bill runs in the $700 range. After due billing attempts, the city eats the cost via the tax supported indigent fund. The Emergency Department staff triages and treats the patient under the "no insurance protocol*" so as to get the person back on the street at mimimum cost because they know there will be no payment forthcoming. *(I just made that up. We hope for the best that all ED patients receive the same care. And patients with insurance are not admitted just to improve the for profit balance sheet.)
ED care has a different treatment protocol than routine care. And as good as it is, they are working with no patient history in an urgent setting and don't want to be sued for malpractice so it turns out to be very expensive with relatively poor results. They have to run a battery of tests and don't really know how the person will respond to any particular medication. Compared to a physician who has experience with the patient and that patient's medical history in hand, the ED staff are at a great disadvantage. After due billing attempts, someone else accounts for the thousands of dollars the ED session cost. It is a mighty expensive safety net that gets paid for by the usual cash cow taxpayers.
And the only sound that's left after the ambulances go is me and Larry sweeping up...
April 15, 2009 10:43 AM | Reply | Permalink
I'm in the pharmacy business... I see all kinds of terrible behaviour from Medicaid patients (and a few with private health care as well...).
There are MANY MANY patients that do indeed abuse the system... They are unemployed and like to take narcotics.
I heard one ER Nurse suggest her ER have something like a Brown Bag Lunch... only inside this bag would be:
1) An Rx for Hydrocodone
B) Cab Fare
III) Work Excuse
She said it's the lions share of what they do in her ER. The majority of their patients are there for no real emergency... rather they are seeking narcotics.
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Having said all that!!! I see a good many poor people (with Medicaid) that are seriously ill and benefit greatly from their free meds...
Poor people tend to be less educated, have worse diets and do more dangerous physical labor (more injuries)... their lifestyle doesn't help them...
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WRT Universal Healthcare... It does seem to me that Americans do have a sense of entitlement... My wife is from Brazil (where they have universal healthcare) and people there don't seem to abuse it. Perhaps there are other reasons for this, I'm not sure... But I'd bet given such coverage here in the US, there would be MANY who would work every possible angle to get as many narcotics as possible on the taxpayers dime.
Perhaps my view is just a product of the business I'm in...
April 15, 2009 2:56 PM | Reply | Permalink
As soon as we start treating drug addiction as the psychological (perhaps medical as well for certain people) condition that it is, I suspect this trend will subside.
Not sure what the answer is besides legalizing as much as you can get away with (perhaps weed to begin with) and then decriminalize the rest, with some form of treatment being the punishment for possessing controlled substances illegally.
The continuing tragedy in this country is that we overreact to every problem and as a consequence we overshoot any real solutions.
April 16, 2009 8:31 AM | Reply | Permalink
Roger the drug seekers at ED. More stupid expense for anyone quaint enough to still pay taxes.
April 23, 2009 9:35 AM | Reply | Permalink
Unh, no. Poor people, because they have no money and no medical insurance, have no choice but to use emergency rooms (where they can't be turned away) for their health needs as Emergency Rooms cannot turn people away.
This figured hugely in the arguments against Obama's healthcare plan. Because the poor would be the people not to opt for healthcare that's not required (as it is not in Obama's plan), they would continue to use ER treatment as their primary source of care -- at a quite staggering cost.
I don't bring this up because I begrudge the poor going to Emergency Rooms. I'm totally sympathetic. But you're grabbing the wrong end of the stick if you think ER treatment is only for the wealthy.
April 15, 2009 5:05 PM | Reply | Permalink
I might have some sympathy for our ER doctor's complaint if we weren't trapped in the healthcare system we're trapped in -- but I remember that my fiancee had a knee injury for which physical therapy would have sped her recovery and our insurance company disagreed and so they denied her a necessary service. They never examined her, never offered an alternative, just said no.
And we all know that ER doctors and doctors in general decide what to do using protocols designed in tandem with... the insurance companies. So I dare say that a patient's opinion about what tests, drugs or treatments they want could be very important and that our ER doctor should either advocate for a fairer system with more patient rights or kindly shut up.
April 15, 2009 8:43 AM | Reply | Permalink
There you go, doctors should just STFU and fix the patient a sandwich.
April 15, 2009 8:51 AM | Reply | Permalink
Would that be so bad?
April 15, 2009 10:01 AM | Reply | Permalink
Depends. What kinda cheese you got?
April 15, 2009 10:59 AM | Reply | Permalink
For you, Quinn? Swiss, of course, to go with that ham.
April 15, 2009 12:33 PM | Reply | Permalink
Good to see you Q, you've been missed.
April 15, 2009 1:37 PM | Reply | Permalink
Thanks for the kind wishes folks, and the post earlier. 'Twas sweet, and thoughtful. We're all ok, and other than me being doubly grouchy from cutting down (quitting?) smoking, and the flood waters rising on my doorstep (impressive, no real worry), it's all good.
But thanks again. Will write more later.
April 15, 2009 11:38 PM | Reply | Permalink
Des... that's not what I said and you know it. Doctors make mistakes. Doctors have a lot of their decisions made by insurance companies. People in America do not always get the best treatment available. That's not a "shut up and make me a sandwich" issue. It's a patient's rights issue.
April 15, 2009 7:47 PM | Reply | Permalink
Awesome blog, Des. We do seem to have an opinion of ourselves that isn't supported by our history of performance.
That's not to say we are completely undistinguished as a nation, but we are hardly the Roman Redux many would like to believe. Gore Vidal said on Bill Maher's show that never even got close to Rome's influence and power, though we flirted with the idea. I think that is exactly right. It saddened me to see him so wizened. The man really is a modern day Thomas Paine as far as I am concerned.
America is the country that didn't get its ass kicked enough growing up. A bloody nose and black eye tends to make a person watch their mouth. We may have lost a few battles over the years but never in a way that made us question our basic societal assumptions and identity. We have not been dominated by outside forces since the country's founding, so instead allowed ourselves to be manipulated and dominated from within. Mostly due to the underlying psychological issues this blog addresses, but there are structural deficiencies that have never been updated for a modern America.
Thomas Jefferson admonished us to rewrite the Constitution once in a generation or risk falling into ruin and irrelevance. He meant a page one rewrite, not tinkering around the edges with more amendments. The fact that we have left our system of government and governance essentially unchanged generation after generation seems to me another indication of a chest-thumping pride that declares nothing we do could possibly need to be rethought.
Modified? OK. Tweaked? Sure. But completely redesigned from the ground up? Why would we do that? We are the best! America is narcissistic, petulant and seemingly terrified of sustained self reflection. The kind of self reflection that involves bad poetry and bottles of wine and long tearful calls to people we've wronged at distant times in our past.
We avoid that sort of thing like the plague in this country. We are lucky if we go back to a previous administration for lessons learned. I wonder what everyone is so afraid of learning about this country that keeps us trapped in this habitrail?
April 15, 2009 8:53 AM | Reply | Permalink
Jason,
You make some good points. I particularly agree with your comment on the arrogance that suggests the founding fathers were infallible. It's as if some assume they were divine beings, or had not committed the egregious error of permitting Slavery to survive the founding of the country.
Republican lecture on about having only "strict constructionist judges", but, of course, just the opposite is true. What they really want judges who are selectively activist. Who will affirm laws with which they agree and strike down laws with which they disagree. Pretty much, IMHO, the same as liberals want.
April 15, 2009 9:57 AM | Reply | Permalink
I would suggest that perhaps the Democratic Party is guilty of the same self worship, but only in a different direction and for different ends. They pretend to divine what this or that founder truly meant or why certain violations of the Constitution are OK but others are clearly wrong.
While I actually agree with many of the policy arguments found on the left, I have noticed a tendency to also selectively engage their reasoning ability when it comes to objectively examining their ideas and ideals and how both are put into action.
Hypocrisy has long been a bipartisan feature.
April 16, 2009 8:25 AM | Reply | Permalink
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More Blustery Hogwash . . .
It's the old, "I'm so perfect and they're not."
Whoever they are . . .
~OGD~
April 17, 2009 10:20 AM | Reply | Permalink
Anything that isn't Chorus Approved is defined as bluster. It's obvious you didn't actually take in the entire thread before commenting. When both parties are equally susceptible to negative side of group dynamics it could hardly be termed an Us vs Them conversation.
April 17, 2009 12:19 PM | Reply | Permalink
I'm not so sure I understand your point, OGD.
April 17, 2009 1:34 PM | Reply | Permalink
Great comments all. My only rebuttal is the Civil War, which really (even if you were in the North) kicked us in the pants. Jim Crow laws aside, that war, which really was the possibility of the dissolution of the union, was a crisis which caused a lot of reorganization of our priorities. Yes, as you say, this crisis came from within. It wasn't Germany invading us. It wasn't Russia nuking us. It was completely self-wrought.
I kind of think a sense of entitlement is both a character flaw (as you are pointing out), but also a benefit. Children with more of a sense of entitlement seem to do better in school. No, not the petulant brat, but the child who will ask a question in class so that they'll understand a concept. The child that will volunteer to do something (which adds up to experience). The kid not embarrassed to call out something that is wrong. Some entitlement is a requirement for success. I believe that there are studies of kids in families (usually poor) where neither the parents or the children get involved in their own education. This meekness towards their future and towards authority, I believe, helps add to the list of reasons why the poor have less of a shot to succeed.
Our country and our people, in general, have succeeded because we expected to succeed. It's our culture, I guess. The problem is that we often go too far. The asshole American tourist. The terrible foreign policy decisions that discount other country's opinions. Not adopting policies that help our people ("it would be coddling, I say!"). And, as you say, the inability to self reflect and start over. Especially in politics--we often stick to our guns like super glue until they have to surgically removed from our hands.
April 15, 2009 12:03 PM | Reply | Permalink
One simple explanation is that we never do anything in this country by halves. We, as a society, went from slavish imitation of European culture to slavish worship of our own. We seem to do nothing in moderation.
April 15, 2009 12:43 PM | Reply | Permalink
I think we're in line for a good ass whuppin' now.
April 15, 2009 11:40 PM | Reply | Permalink
I wonder if maybe we are recovering consciousness from the ass whupping we just received these last 40 years?
We have to figure out what lessons are to be learned, but one of them certainly has to be a renewed commitment to diligence on the part of all American citizens. We have seen what happens we let the inmates run the asylum for too long. There is a reason why our place in so important, the final check on unrestrained power.
I am taking a cue from US abolitionist Wendell Phillips as we wake up from this latest national nightmare:
April 16, 2009 8:49 AM | Reply | Permalink
I'm with you. But vigilance requires an engaged and informed citizenry. Otherwise it's just teabagging.
April 16, 2009 9:42 AM | Reply | Permalink
That's why we are here. Engaged and informed citizens will take time to develop.
April 16, 2009 10:44 AM | Reply | Permalink
Hopefully it won't take too many more ass whuppins.
April 16, 2009 11:13 AM | Reply | Permalink
Des, your posting has prompted me to add an observation on the notion of American Exceptional-ism. I realize that such is not the same as the notion of American Entitlement which you are talking about, and so, my comments below are not a rebuttal to your argument.
The Right always slings the, "blame America first" charge - as they did to Obama after he spoke to the Europeans - whenever anyone dare engage us in a bit of national reflection. If countries were human beings, we would call such reflective behavior a healthy sign of maturity. On the other hand, behavior which presumes that whatever one does is right, simply because one is who s/he is and wants to do it, might be normal for a small child but would be considered abnormal behavior in an adult.
So, why does the right believe that standard should be different for governments? Aren't governments comprised of adult human beings?. I have never understood the Republican notion that what is considered mature healthy behavior for individual adults, somehow, isn't healthy for any collective groups of adults, such as, the government.
I'm tired of watching Progressives being put on their heels while defending themselves against Conservative charges of "blaming America first". Self-reflection is not the act of assigning blame, it's the mature act of any honest situation assessment. Conservatives would have our president running around like some bratty 5-year old, only, with the worlds top military at his whim. Hmm, now, what recent Commander-in-Chief does THAT sound like?
April 15, 2009 9:25 AM | Reply | Permalink
Blame Republicans First. There. Said. Done.
April 15, 2009 9:30 AM | Reply | Permalink
LOL!
April 15, 2009 9:36 AM | Reply | Permalink
I normally don't agree with you on much, but I do on this. I think decades of wealth and military power have not made Americans better people. We could do whatever we want, and got used to double standards. Some might see a bright spot in the current economic collapse: Perhaps people will be a little less greedy, and a little more compassionate?
April 15, 2009 10:05 AM | Reply | Permalink
Everything you've said is true...and it is only going to get worse.
April 15, 2009 10:07 AM | Reply | Permalink
Not to turn this into another anti-Bush screed, but the man's lack of experience outside this country was really a serious failing.
My experiences abroad have taught me that we are the greatest people on earth....at being Americans. Sometimes that is a good thing, but often not.
The Right is horrified at any hint of "socialism". Having lived for a bit in Austria, and spent some time in Sweden, I can assure you that thier flavors of socialism give the citizens more freedom than most Americans enjoy. Americans are free to pay through thier noses to line the pocket of whichever insurance company thier employer chooses for them. Austrians are free to go about thier lives without worrying over how they will pay for medical care, dental care, and eyeglasses.
April 15, 2009 11:12 AM | Reply | Permalink
"Socialism" is an anachronism, and the confusion of terms here is simply ignorance. "Social Democracy" actually won the fight in Europe with the radicals who wanted varying degrees of communism. Think of how the social democrats were actually regarded as parasites and enemies by the Soviet Union, or in Cuba. Once in power, the totalitarians turned on the reformers and democracy activists who wanted a democratic form of socialism.
What Europe has today is *Social Democracy* and a big welfare state. Europe differs from the US mostly in degree -- US unemployment is limited, Europe has mostly open-ended. Europe gets paid maternity leave, the US gets unpaid leave. etc. etc. The US is more economically liberal and less regulated, although FDR and the Democrats also established many social programs here. It's only a matter of degree difference.
When I hear wingers refer to "socialism", the suggestion is obviously "communism". But both are false. (It's remarkable how much of the conversation in the US is simply based on not knowing the facts).
April 15, 2009 12:10 PM | Reply | Permalink
Like Des I've lived outside of the country a lot.
Wasn't better , or worse. Put another way , somethings- better , some-worse,it averaged out.
Probably there was less self congratulation but since I often didn't speak the local language I don't want to overstate that. The intense interest in the World Cup might signify the opposite.
I wish we actually were better but that's probably unrealistic. People are people as I annoyingly repeat when I take up space in the interminable discussions about the unique evils of the Palestinians/Zionists.
April 15, 2009 11:40 AM | Reply | Permalink
Im going to defend Americans(see Iraqis are not all savages). I tend think in a global way. I think generally all people are the same, and if the rest of the world's population has had the advantages of having lived in the only superpower in the world, it would also give them a sense of entitlement. Moral of the story, a little humility is healthy but its difficult to be humble in a setting where the media and politicians propagandize the "US #1" culture.
April 15, 2009 11:54 AM | Reply | Permalink
I don't know, I think American's sense of entitlement helped them become the superpower. Chicken or egg?
April 15, 2009 12:05 PM | Reply | Permalink
Where in hell is Bwak when we need her?
April 15, 2009 12:38 PM | Reply | Permalink
good point.
April 15, 2009 4:21 PM | Reply | Permalink
Thanks for chiming in...Ever give some thought to doing a post? You have a perspective almost no one around here shares, and we would love to hear it.
April 15, 2009 4:04 PM | Reply | Permalink
I have written a few things. I mostly enjoy reading truthfully. Thanks for the kind words.
April 15, 2009 4:24 PM | Reply | Permalink
Sometimes the American sense of entitlement is just staggering. We save the life of one American captain, yet there are 18 more ships being held, 300 captives from other countries that are less than important. We support the International Criminal Court going after al-Bashir in Sudan, but how do we have the moral authority to push for that when we are not a party to that court ourselves? A very me-centric view of the world.
April 15, 2009 2:07 PM | Reply | Permalink
That's true we are a bunch of whiney, spoiled brats, but why shouldn't we go the extra mile for US citizens in trouble? It would be nice to know the US Navy had my back if I got into some pirate trouble, and wasn't spending my tax dollars saving a bunch of Ukranians!
I say this half-jokingly, and I have nothing against Ukraine, but I do think these other countries are responsible for their own ships, and can't/shouldn't count on the US Navy.
April 15, 2009 4:09 PM | Reply | Permalink
I don't know how we would feel entitled or superior in the world after eight years of BushCo. Those who are still followers should feel total shame, but they don't even have enough sense to do that. Instead, they're still going around being the usual Ugly Americans, pumping their chests, pretending that our sick brand of capitalism makes us the greatest country on earth.
Our social policies would be laughable if we weren't so hopeless at taking care of our own. We're not just pathetic, we're pathological when it comes to lining the pockets of Pharma,the insurance companies and any associated private business having to do with health.
Those poor "socialist" countries whose citizens pay taxes for universal health care. Don't they know that healthy, happy people are the bane of profiteers?
The greatest? Maybe someday. Again. . .
April 15, 2009 3:57 PM | Reply | Permalink
I just loss an Aunt to cancer. I have theory that she didn't have to die. She didn't have--could not afford-- proper care. It was so bad that she couldn't afford the chemotherapy until they found some organization to help get the medicine her doctor prescribed. The doctor told her after she started the medicine that there was nothing they could do for her. It was too late. I called her several times. I heard her suffering. She was in so much pain that she, in the last few weeks of her, would not speak on the phone. You mean, she died just because she couldn't afford the treatment? If getting medicine to people in her condition is a sense of entitlement than so be it. She was entitled to the best damn treatment in these United States. She was entitled to better treatment than she received. Shame on this country!
April 15, 2009 4:19 PM | Reply | Permalink
Why exactly was she "entitled to the best damn treatment in these United States"? I thought it was obvious we're entitled only to piss-poor service if that, and anything better we can scrape out of the system, kudos.
We might be able to come together to revamp our system to actually serve everyone reasonably. Entitled to this? Entitled to "the best" rather than reasonable coverage?
April 15, 2009 5:07 PM | Reply | Permalink
What is reasonable about Cancer?
April 16, 2009 12:58 AM | Reply | Permalink
Everything. It responds to treatment usually in very predictable ways.
April 16, 2009 2:57 AM | Reply | Permalink
Desi, great post. I'm sure everyone will see something here that resonates with them and it may be different things for different people.
Here's my 2 cents:
1. If any other country in the world had a larger economy than the US, would they be any different? In other words - are we "entitled" because we can get away with it or because we really believe we're exceptional?
2. Entitlement permeates the American psyche. Does that mean that Justice Thomas is right when we talks about rights vs responsibilities? If you replace "rights" with "entitlement" in his NY Times sidebar, it would read very close to what you're talking about.
3. Why does entitlement exist? Is it because of our conception of the country("we the people") or is it the product of competition within a two-party system? My experience in Europe was that German entitlement is not that different from American - it's more civilized and understated, but Germans take their fair share of things for granted too.
Thanks!
April 15, 2009 4:31 PM | Reply | Permalink
Here's a link to that Thomas NYT sidebar: http://www.nytimes.com/2009/04/14/us/14bar.html
In one quote, he sounds like Obama(or vice versa) when talking about the Bill of Rights: “Shouldn’t there at least be equal time for our Bill of Obligations and our Bill of Responsibilities?"
April 15, 2009 4:59 PM | Reply | Permalink
He's just grousing. People think they have a right to a TV and air conditioning? Grandpa's getting grumpy, must have missed his nap. He was born in 1948 and goes on and on about WWII? Get a life.
April 15, 2009 5:16 PM | Reply | Permalink
Oh I know.
An aside: I used to live in Tucson, and there AC is pretty much a requirement in June. Of course that begs the question if people should live in the Sonoran desert (100+ degree days for a month or so in the summer, no flowing water), but that's another story. I remember once our car's AC only getting the temperature down to about 100 (120 outside). Is that a livable place, really? There, the AC is pretty much like the life support systems in the International Space Station.
April 15, 2009 5:22 PM | Reply | Permalink
My brother one time segued from a big rant about too-big government to a complaint that they hadn't sent him notification that his driver's license had expired (I tried to explain that the date is right there, and it's pretty obvious that a 4-year-license expires close to once every 4 years).
We want it all, we expect it all, but we don't want to pay for it. It should be given to us. That's not quite the German attitude. Ours is more a vicious mood-swing barbiturates-and-booze type entitlement.
April 15, 2009 5:02 PM | Reply | Permalink
Maybe not quite in the next five years or so, but this too shall pass. When the sun never set on the British Empire, the Brits thought they were the kingfishes of the earth. Still want to, though they keep getting slapped down.
But as economic power continues to ship out of here to the East, so will influence -- and we'll get our comeuppance when nobody gives two shakes what we have to say anymore. We've gotten fatheaded here because we've been able to call the shots so much.
April 15, 2009 5:31 PM | Reply | Permalink
Quite a hubbub over a simple matter!
Geography.
April 15, 2009 6:25 PM | Reply | Permalink
I've got mixed feelings about our sense of entitlement. We certainly felt we were entitled not to be attacked on 9/11. On the other hand, as Herbert's column pointed out yesterday, we shrug at 120,000 gun deaths a year so apparently we don't feel entitled not to be shot in a drive by, at school or at the mall.
We no longer feel entitled to a 40 hour work week to paid vacation, to a defined pension, to employer paid healthcare. Women never felt entitled to employer or government paid pregnancy leave. We don't feel children are entitled to have a home to sleep in at night. We don't feel they are entitled to a quality education.
Sure, we can all tell stories of good for nothing poor slobs. Some are indeed poor because they are slobs. I guess I'm more amazed every day at how middle class Americans are slowly but surely willing to feel entitled to less than what they felt entitled to yesterday.
April 15, 2009 6:53 PM | Reply | Permalink
Do they feel less entitled, or more entitled but less awarded?
April 15, 2009 7:15 PM | Reply | Permalink
I think most of all they are less educated. They don't even know that a labor movement once fought for working conditions they've surrendered without a fight. Americans feel entitled about dumb stuff. They feel entitled not to wait at the McDonald's drive through or to have an urgent care they can drag the kids into so quick, but they don't feel entitled to the time to make their kids better meals or take them to a doctor who has the time to become a family physician.
April 15, 2009 7:46 PM | Reply | Permalink
The mystery is why people aren't more personally invested, or self-interested, about their rights and benefits?? Why aren't they up in arms about more vacation, more time with their kids, better health care, etc.? It's strange how docile and manipulable people are. The health care industry pays a few million for an ad campaign denouncing the latest proposal, and the people sit back down and go "Oh, never mind". We have more consumer goods but fewer rights and poorer conditions.
April 16, 2009 9:04 AM | Reply | Permalink
This post is weird. I want to high five Des, but I am stuck chewing on the word entitlement... Especially as concerns health care. A trip to the ER is a frustrating and heartbreaking experience. I watched some poor sod clutch his broken wrist for hours. When that fellow finally sees a doctor, I wouldn't blame him for being belligerent and entitled. He is in pain.
Plus, I note that you snuck a dig in at messianic politics. The only reason you could have possibly wanted to do that is your own sense of entitlement: you feel entitled to have one over on us feckless Obama supporters.
Anyhow, overall your work here is reminiscent of an old man yelling at clouds.
April 15, 2009 8:24 PM | Reply | Permalink
I have to agree.
"Entitlement" doesn't fit for me. Arrogance, perhaps. Intransigence, probably. Foolhardiness, undoubtedly. Greed, but that's already been covered.
And I don't get the Messiah thing.
April 15, 2009 11:38 PM | Reply | Permalink
First, I had dismissed the "entitlement" of the ER crowd for years, again as right-wing propaganda. My time visiting ER or hospitals in general left me disappointed. But that's not the entitlement attitude the ER physician is referring to - he's talking about "I'm hungry, get me food as well". I knew an American in a foreign country who got stopped for riding the metro black - he had a good salary, just couldn't be bothered paying the ticket. He's screaming at the foreign police, "You can't stop me, I know my rights." Entitlement. I'm an American.
Messiah? No, I really think there's some hucksterism going on, and it comes from us thinking we always will get the best, something new, something magnificent, our Woodstock. Look at what Republicans have done with Reagan, look at how they vaunted Bush, look at how Palin was brought on. This passing of 2nd rate meat in cut Grade A packaging doesn't go on with the left as well? The marketing caters to our overgrown sense of entitlement. Sure, they'll deliver on all those promises because gosh darn it, we deserve it, however unreachable the promise.
April 16, 2009 12:34 AM | Reply | Permalink
I've traveled overseas several times, so I have seen a bit of what it's like outside this crazy flaming bus called America. It also once gave me a very good look at 'Americans' from the outside, and I found myself embarrassed.
I wish I remembered more of the specifics of this encounter. I was sitting in an airport in Chiang Mai, Thailand, waiting to return home after a two week stay. When I visit there, I stay with the family of a friend, so I experience life as a local. I guess that's why this episode struck me how it did.
Anyway, sitting across from me were two middle-aged couples from Texas. They too were returning home, and they were having a conversation about bits of their vacation. I had never felt embarrassed to be an American before, but as I listened to them expressing their opinions of various aspects of their trip I became more and more incredulous. The disdain with which they regarded some of the Thai people they met during their trip coupled with the total lack of respect for the culture was staggering. There was definitely a bit of the entitlement disease that you speak of in this post as well. I was actually offended by their behavior, and that's a pretty neat trick, as I'm definitely not easily offended.
The event really opened my eyes. 'Do I sound like that?' I asked myself. 'Do people see in me what I just saw in these Texans?'
It showed me that while an 'American' can be humble, respectful, kind and considerate, 'Americans' are rude, boastful, self-important assholes. Yes, that's how some (and possibly many) people outside America see us. The world tolerates us because we have the biggest guns and sometimes we use them to help beat up their noisy neighbors. They tolerate us because we buy their stuff, and help the poor and downtrodden when doing so aligns with our own self-interest.
I don't know if we were ever really a 'force for good' in the world or if it was all just propaganda, but I feel that now more than ever we've lost our way - both at home and abroad. I was hopeful that this current economic crisis would serve as a wakeup call, but I'm afraid it's going to fade away without us learning any real lessons.
Well, except for how to piss all over meaningful, profoundly important historical events by holding modern-day analogues where clueless middle-class Americans protest in favor of the very people that are stealing their lifestyle.
April 15, 2009 10:51 PM | Reply | Permalink
Bingo bingo.
April 16, 2009 12:48 AM | Reply | Permalink
Great comment. You might consider a blog that hits these points. We need a few more mirrors in this country.
April 16, 2009 9:39 AM | Reply | Permalink
Great piece, Des. Only quibble is that the word "entitlement" may not exactly capture the mix of feelings/motivations that're in play, but hey - I can't think of a better one.
I gotta edit myself on this one, because the rant's too close to the surface. But that whole pirate episode just blew. my. mind. A lot of people were PROUD of what happened. Celebrated. Seems that because we proved something to our fellow citizens in the GOP, all was well. Now, I have NO fucking idea how people can take this stance with a straight face, knowing what we know about Blackwater and the tens of thousands of hired guns, privateers and downright pirates WE'VE got overseas, and how offended we'd be if other nations blew them to shit and then celebrated... but fuckit, eh? Seems we can torture and kidnap and blow wedding parties to shit, and make deals with drug lords and hired guns, and steal artworks and gold and jewels and oil and gas, but since WE couldn't possibly be PIRATES, then.... it's all good! No need to be embarrassed at what just transpired. We CELEBRATED that episode. How repulsive is that? We think it's ok to go apeshit with rage when others celebrate OUR dead (this is Somalia, right?) but then we dance and celebrate our skills and leadership and pronounce a new national direction because we shot 3 teenage thugs dead?
WE'RE THE PIRATES, KIDS. HELLO? Aw fuckit. People are gonna come on here and tell me how bad the pirates were, and the necessity of the rule of law, and how it's in the common good, and they were just hired by warlords and all that... and not for ONE SECOND "get" how mentally deficient that sounds coming from a nation with mercs embroiled in Iraq, and expanding into Afghanistan. I can agree with every word they say, but the idea that somehow OUR guys couldn't possibly be "pirates"? That's just astounding. Anyhoo. Good post. Gotta exit.
April 15, 2009 11:36 PM | Reply | Permalink
Yes, who is our Sir Francis Drake, our beloved hero and a pirate to the Spanish. All in the eyes of the beholder.
This mote of heroism in a torrent of great cowardice, ignorance and thievery. Reminds me of the old ethnic joke, couple gets caught in the woods by thugs, tell the guy not to get out of the car while they brutally rape his girlfriend, and he's laughing because he stepped out of the car 3 times while they weren't looking. The little things that bolster our pride. How many trillions did we pay to make this pirate episode needed? I tried explaining it to my kids, this is a land where people have nothing, decades of war. So people will do desperate things. Hey, rich people in a boat off the coast, let's take it. Compare that to Bernie Madoff or the hundreds or thousands of completely insanely rich, leisurely pirates who looted our system while proclaiming themselves captains of industry. Or that guy on Wall Street venting against little people getting bailouts because "we're not going to take it anymore", that poor pitiful Wall Street "we".
There was a clip of a congressman tearing an SEC investigations head a new one over the Madoff scandal at deepcapture.com, how she had all the info for years and let it get away, and she just kept repeating, "we did the best professional job we could", and he'd answer, "bullshit, what are the details of what went wrong?" and she wouldn't tell him. And while I was happy he was slamming her, it was impotent. She never answered. We're being heisted even still to trillions and we still have no power, only a pirate rescue and a t-shirt.
April 16, 2009 12:45 AM | Reply | Permalink
"This is my wave baby,
Don''t cut me off!"
-- Surf Punks
"My Wave"
April 15, 2009 11:55 PM | Reply | Permalink
Duke: I blame society. Society made me what I am.
Otto: That's bullshit. You're a white suburban punk just like me.
Duke: Yeah, but it still hurts.
- Repo Man
April 16, 2009 3:10 AM | Reply | Permalink
"The more you drive, the stupider you get."
-- Repo Man
April 16, 2009 6:04 AM | Reply | Permalink