Don't Forget Your Keys: Walking while Female
Ran across this ad gauging demographic reactions to Rev. Wright's speech:
Wright Demographic Reactions
But watching it I was reminded of the comments of so many at TPM - that "what Rev. Wright said was true". Well, kinda. Sure, Hillary probably never had a taxi pass her by or got called a n****r. And Obama probably never had to clutch his car keys in his hand as it got dark knowing he was "walking while female" - i.e. rape bait. He probably never had to tell a cop what he was wearing after he narrowly slipped away from someone who attacked him. He probably never left a meeting with the guys back in the room smiling and going, "nice tits - what'd she say?" (Or had a Washington Post article written about his "cleavage" or been called a "Vaginal American" on MSNBC). He has probably never been called a c*nt or a bitch either, though I don't know how we gauge whether n*****r or c*nt is worse. But I'm sure he's never been told he's angry or irrational because he can't control his chemistry, because it's "that time of month" (even if post-menstrual - men are often clueless about the specifics of female mechanics).
Dick Gregory went on and on in Louisiana recently about how even successful blacks have to clutch the steering wheel when getting pulled over, not knowing how the cop will treat them. Well, a woman has to clutch the steering wheel hoping the cop pulling her over won't rape her, that the flat tire she has won't lead to an assault by someone pretending to help.
And where Rev. Wright is definitely wrong is that yes, women also have to work twice as hard as men to succeed. If not harder. Blacks may be questioned as affirmative action cases. Women are questioned as to who they slept with. Blacks once they get the job go to lunch and drinks with the guys, are tied into the decision process. Women are in the "will she go out with me?" line. Unless they're married with kids, and then they get to deal with the kids and don't have time for after hours drinks. Because of course sharing home duties for a working couple with kids is at best 70%-30%, and quite often 95%-5%. Obama's a Senator working 4-5 days in Washington; Michelle's a VP who lives in Chicago - is there more than a 1 in 10000 possibility that the man would take care of the kids in such a relationship?
And after all the scheduling, arranging, organizing, team building, financial management involved in being a mother - coming up with ways to keep the kids from fighting and play nice together, new games to keep them from being bored, snacks and dinners and after-school schedules, diagnosing headaches and foul moods, getting night shifts when kids are sick - is there any way in hell a woman could put "mother 14 hours a day 7 days a week" down on a resume as having something to do with management and organizational experience, and not get laughed out of an interview?
And just where the hell are the women preachers anyway?
Here's a line about the woman who sparked a revolution in the 1950's: "In December 1943, Rosa Parks became active in the Civil Rights Movement, joined the Montgomery chapter of the NAACP, and was elected volunteer secretary to its president, Edgar Nixon. Of her position, she later said, "I was the only woman there, and they needed a secretary, and I was too timid to say no." She continued as secretary until 1957." That's right, we got a woman here, let's make her a secretary. The woman who discovered fission in Germany in the 1930's, Lise Meitner, had to work for free - women weren't allowed in the lab - and her male counterpart got all the credit including the Nobel.
Here's Sojourner Truth speaking at a Women's Rights Convention 150 years ago. Ain't I a Woman?
How much has really changed for women black or white since?
Wright Demographic Reactions
But watching it I was reminded of the comments of so many at TPM - that "what Rev. Wright said was true". Well, kinda. Sure, Hillary probably never had a taxi pass her by or got called a n****r. And Obama probably never had to clutch his car keys in his hand as it got dark knowing he was "walking while female" - i.e. rape bait. He probably never had to tell a cop what he was wearing after he narrowly slipped away from someone who attacked him. He probably never left a meeting with the guys back in the room smiling and going, "nice tits - what'd she say?" (Or had a Washington Post article written about his "cleavage" or been called a "Vaginal American" on MSNBC). He has probably never been called a c*nt or a bitch either, though I don't know how we gauge whether n*****r or c*nt is worse. But I'm sure he's never been told he's angry or irrational because he can't control his chemistry, because it's "that time of month" (even if post-menstrual - men are often clueless about the specifics of female mechanics).
Dick Gregory went on and on in Louisiana recently about how even successful blacks have to clutch the steering wheel when getting pulled over, not knowing how the cop will treat them. Well, a woman has to clutch the steering wheel hoping the cop pulling her over won't rape her, that the flat tire she has won't lead to an assault by someone pretending to help.
And where Rev. Wright is definitely wrong is that yes, women also have to work twice as hard as men to succeed. If not harder. Blacks may be questioned as affirmative action cases. Women are questioned as to who they slept with. Blacks once they get the job go to lunch and drinks with the guys, are tied into the decision process. Women are in the "will she go out with me?" line. Unless they're married with kids, and then they get to deal with the kids and don't have time for after hours drinks. Because of course sharing home duties for a working couple with kids is at best 70%-30%, and quite often 95%-5%. Obama's a Senator working 4-5 days in Washington; Michelle's a VP who lives in Chicago - is there more than a 1 in 10000 possibility that the man would take care of the kids in such a relationship?
And after all the scheduling, arranging, organizing, team building, financial management involved in being a mother - coming up with ways to keep the kids from fighting and play nice together, new games to keep them from being bored, snacks and dinners and after-school schedules, diagnosing headaches and foul moods, getting night shifts when kids are sick - is there any way in hell a woman could put "mother 14 hours a day 7 days a week" down on a resume as having something to do with management and organizational experience, and not get laughed out of an interview?
And just where the hell are the women preachers anyway?
Here's a line about the woman who sparked a revolution in the 1950's: "In December 1943, Rosa Parks became active in the Civil Rights Movement, joined the Montgomery chapter of the NAACP, and was elected volunteer secretary to its president, Edgar Nixon. Of her position, she later said, "I was the only woman there, and they needed a secretary, and I was too timid to say no." She continued as secretary until 1957." That's right, we got a woman here, let's make her a secretary. The woman who discovered fission in Germany in the 1930's, Lise Meitner, had to work for free - women weren't allowed in the lab - and her male counterpart got all the credit including the Nobel.
Here's Sojourner Truth speaking at a Women's Rights Convention 150 years ago. Ain't I a Woman?
How much has really changed for women black or white since?
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