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Disabling comments


It appears that with the new Movable Type format it is possible to not "accept comments" and sadly, after this post, I shall put a check on that option. I say sadly, because most of the comments I receive, even harshly critical ones, are  very useful to me as a mirror and I often get new ideas reading them or marshaling my resources to answer their critique.

However there are a few posters who are simply intolerable in both content and form and to receive them into ones space and engage them is degrading.

At first I was amused that "moderate centrism" was being defended using tactics that one associates with Stalinists or skinheads, I suppose I thought there was something Monty Pythonesque about it all, but finally, sullen, hostile, brutality palls.

I don't like to stand on my dignity, but I don't think any of us have to tolerate personal allusions, comments on our private lives or to be insulted or intimidated. Nobody has to tolerate or put up with that. I certainly won't.

I think that the presence of these little cyber-thugs is probably discouraging many beginners, people with valuable things to say that are less case-hardened the myself, from blogging, but the decision to allow the little bullies to continue is not mine, the only possibility open to me is to disable comment in the space that carries my name. "I am David Seaton and I approve of this message"  should apply to anything in a space that carries my name.

I shall miss many of the people who comment on my TPM blog and I imagine they know who they are so I won't single them out... Who knows this might make them future targets for abuse.

From now on, if anyone wants to comment on anything I post here they are welcome to visit my home blog, "David Seaton's News Links" and leave their comments there. The address is:
http://seaton-newslinks.blogspot.com/   This is because Blogspot has a feature that we don't have at TPM yet (or I haven't discovered it yet) that allows me to moderate my space and to filter the comments. I read them, but I am not forced to give them space to insult me or other commentators.

I am allowing comments on this last post because I think the topic might be of general interest to many members of this forum, but I shall not answer of participate in any discussion that follows.


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I think that the presence of these little cyber-thugs is probably discouraging many beginners, people with valuable things to say that are less case-hardened the myself, from blogging

That this does happen more often than many might think was one of the most interesting things I learned from a stint as a moderator on a smaller website similar to this one. We had a private message system, and they would use that instead to communicate thoughts and ideas, and say in the process they'd rather not subject themselves to the public forum because of the bullying or silly gamesmaship or personal attacks or labeling or cliquishness. For example, I imagine a lot of the people sending emails to Josh Marshall, the readers he often quotes with initials, feel the same way. Some people do it because of shyness (it was most suprising to me how the anonymity didn't help them much, they still were fearful of getting personally attacked for their views,) but there are also the very busy grownups who don't see much potential in "sharing" with a bigger audience if it means being subjected to a lot of child's play. I'd be willing to bet many very interesting people continue to lurk here, without participating precisely because they see the type of attacks that you have experienced.

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No problemo David. I fully expected you to jump on this option once you realised it was available. Took you long enough.

Totally predictable you are, viejo.

Just won't bother with you unless I see you around on other peoples' threads.

Bueno bye now.

PS. I am so rec'ing this and spreading the word....

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So you will accept no comments at all here and allow only those of which you approve to be published on your blog. Forgive me, but that seems to be dangerously close to censorship. If you wish no dissent, no question and no opposition then so be it. Your right, your choice. But by taking away the voice of those who disagree - even in the most vile of ways - you void the voices of all.

If you wish to be heard by all ears, you must listen to all voices. If not ... then simply shut up.

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Censorship? Come on, you can write your own blogs. Yeah, I'm censoring telemarketers when I hang up the phone or put my phone on the blacklist. I'm censoring you when I say you can't come into my house at 7am and tell me what you think at my breakfast table. The horror, the horror.

He even said you can comment on his blog, and he'll screen for irrelevant insulting comments before posting. It's not like David ever had a big problem with having his ideas attacked - God knows he wouldn't post here at all if he did.

I think the current software here allows deleting individual comments, or only all of them? Anyway, can understand the desire for pre-screening. Occasionally people like to paste the phone book in the Comments thread just to derail it. Do you have a problem with censoring that?

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To David, I'd recommend however leaving comments on. Many people like me can easily skim by the jerks and actually discuss your comments. The chances of me going off to a few individual blogs to post is slim. If the comments get too off track, you can just delete them all and start over.

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I would concur with Des and Jsfox below. Whether or not this is up for discussion, I vote to leave them on.

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I agree. It's not censorship, exactly. It's just David's cowardly way of slinking off into obscurity. Consider yesterday's post entitled "Change?". There was no real rancor there, just a discussion based on the ideas put forth in David's post. It was a fairly polite discussion, and David barely participated. Why? Well, if I were a gambling man, I'd put my money on the proposition that David's primary goal in posting on this particular site is not to engage in intelligent conversation, but rather to stir up trouble and animosity. Which is why a few of us cyber-thugs are so tempted to call his cowardly bluff. Personally, I look forward to David's comment-free posts. Without comments, I suspect they will simply be ignored.

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Actually, yes, I do. The administrators of the site have every right and responsibility to do so, but I don't think the poster should. The freedom to comment includes the freedom to be stupid, obnoxious and rediculous. Deleting comments on your own thread seems to me to be - yes, I'll say it again - borderline censorship.

Hanging up on a telemarketer who calls you randomly without your permission is one thing. Giving them your number and then crying foul when they call is another.

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David, don't despair, each man's opinion. Some posters are jerks, behind the mask of anonymity they come out.

Turn down foolish arguments. Avoid them, ignore them and they might go away. If not let them waste their time at the keyboard and when no one responds, they might figure out they are being ignored.I wouldn’t associate with them outside this room, and there’s no need to kickback at barking dogs.

They're as uncivil as their conscience permits. It reflects on them not you.

Those of us, who may disagree with you, can disagree without being disagreeable.

It's a matter of timing too, I’ve seen times when browsing, no one has much to say and it’s a welcome sight to have a dialogue with you, even if it’s something I disagree with.
Steel sharpens steel.

Your supporters will defend you, if not SO WHAT


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I would add, enemies of TPM, would like to see Certain (ALL) posters disappear, to stifle opinions, to neuter the influence of this site on the body politic.

If you leave, they will have found the weakness in the armor, a little heat and TPM posters leave. With no voices at TPM, we fail to get followers. Other sites would love to pick up the attraction, with the advertisers following.

But of course you can leave TPM and go to another site, run by the jerks that'll have succeeded in destroying TPM

I will not go quietly into the night.

As long as TPM has voices, we will be heard.

If we just go to hit and run Posting, with no interaction. I might as well pick up the paper and read the opinion pages.

Then you'll be relegated to talking to yourself.
Because if all you want to do, is all the talking, people will decide your not listening so why should we listen to you.

You will have lost the power.

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Let me summarize this blog: David Seaton is a big pompous crybaby who can't take the heat when people don't revere every word of his tiresome bloviations.

My response: Yippee, the TPM "thugs," of which group I am personally proud to belong, have WON! We've forced David Seaton to reveal himself as a big old wimp!

My recommendation: Hereafter, whatever David Seaton posts, just keep reminding yourself that he is an intellectually dishonest craven coward who doesn't stand for anything other than personal self-aggrandizement.

Oh, and did I mention his most tiresome habit of crapping all over Obama's victory? You know, the one so many of us worked so hard to achieve. And, oh, yeah, didn't even wait a few days to start doing it, thereby giving the rest of us a chance to bask in the blessed relief of the success we had attained. Talk about disrespecting the feelings of others because your own viewpoint is SO MUCH MORE IMPORTANT! Sorry we hurt your "widdle feelings," sir. Too bad you didn't give a damn about ours.

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Oh bullshit. People like you would make the Cafe a hangout for showroom dummies and a circle jerk. This quote from you sums it up with pristine clarity:

"Sorry we hurt your "widdle feelings," sir. Too bad you didn't give a damn about ours".

Incredible. You see nothing strange about the fact that you presume to be speaking for others. Res ipsa loquitor; score one for the departing Seaton.


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Once a week, I head to the local watering hole to hang out with friends. We're all pretty hardcore Obama supporters, and besides talking about baseball or football, the conversation inevitably moves to a discussion of the political news of the day. A few weeks ago, a guy sitting near us at the bar joined in the discussion. He's a Republican, but he was funny and he had some interesting ideas, and his input definitely added to and enlivened the conversation. Somebody told him, "Hey, we're usually here on Thursdays. You should come down next week." So he did. It was fun for a few weeks, but it soon started to dawn on many of us that he wasn't really engaging in the conversation--he was just delivering talking points. It was the same tired monologue every week. It became clear that he was only talking and that there was no listening going on. He didn't have any real interest in joining in the conversation. He was just there to deliver a sales pitch. So many of us went from enjoying his input to simply tolerating his presence.

David's like that. He encircles and enfolds his hackneyed sales pitch in different wrappers in order to fool you into believing that he has something new to say, but his basic sales pitch is always the same: Obama sucks, Americans are stupid, and David Seaton is the only person on the planet who truly sees the truth. It's fun for awhile, but over time it gets pretty tiresome.

The Thursday after the election, I walked into the bar, and our boorish buddy was sitting there, waiting. He said to me, "Well, the pussy won." Then he laughed. But he hadn't been joking. It was obvious that he was sincerely pissed off. And it was also obvious that any appearance of a polite conversation was now over. So I said to him, "Fuck off Ted. Have a nice life."

I hope David has a nice life.

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Oh no, it's the "Stop Picking on Obama" whine. If you're so sensitive to David's posts, you could just celebrate your victory elsewhere, eh? Or you need the world 100% revolving around Barry?

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I need the world revolving 100% around the president-elect. Could you hook that up for me?

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David -

While I have rarely agreed with you, nay dare I say never agreed with you :) I look forward to your posts - even when I say you have been beating only one drum.

For some, which includes me, it was hard, especially at 60, to get used to the rude, fuck off comments even when not directed at me. I did though and learned to just ignore and pay attention to the comments and posters that made me think and made me laugh.

So on that note, please leave comments on.

Now if this is some ploy to drive traffic up on your blog (snark alert) . . . fuck off ;)

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I suspect David posts here because he's actively trolling for abusive comments. He clearly isn't posting for the conversation. Consider the logic. There are literally hundreds (thousands?) of politically-oriented sites where David could post. On many of them, he would be welcomed as a sage. But he chooses to post here, where his posts rarely get recommended and many of the comments to his posts are overtly hostile. And from what I've read, the hostility is not about his ideas--it's about his repetitive droning. You might suggest that David has a right to post here and that he has a right to express his opinion, and I would agree wholeheartedly. But we heard David's single opinion months ago, and we've heard it, over and over--like a broken record--ever since.

Here's the problem: David's posts are clearly unpopular or at least uninteresting to the majority of people who visit this site, and he knows it. He rarely gets recommended, and only 8 people are following him. Not only that, but David rarely recommends anyone else's posts, he rarely comments on any threads other than his own, and he's following exactly no one. What does that suggest to you? It suggests to me that David isn't interested your opinion or mine. It suggests to me that his primary reason for choosing to post here, rather than on a site where his opinions would be more enthusiastically received, is because he's trolling. He posts here because he either likes the abuse or because he likes to start fights.

I'm as guilty (or more guilty) as anyone of being a rabble-rouser. I post mean comments here, and I have gone to sites like HillaryIs44 or No Quarter and stirred up trouble by posting tripe, just for the fun of seeing what happens. But David has been doing this for MONTHS. And he often openly gloats about "hitting a nerve" with his posts any time he gets an especially negative reaction. He clearly loves pissing in the pool, and he is clearly contemptuous of most of the people who post here.

If David gave a shit about anyone else's opinion, I'd have a different opinion about him. But look at his public record. He cares about his opinion and the opinions of those who agree with him. The rest, he ignores. And now he announces that he's planning on banning all opinions from his own posts. For me, that says everything that needs to be said.

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On many of them, he would be welcomed as a sage.

Where? Only on sites where anything that is anti-Obama is automatically welcomed, and anyone who can crank out a slightly-different "Obama sucks" post day in and day out would have a huge following. Redstate, for example, or freerepublic.

And he often openly gloats about "hitting a nerve" with his posts any time he gets an especially negative reaction.

Posters like Seaton often end up taking that view. They get nothing but derision for posting the same sort of stuff over and over again. Some slink away in shame. Others convince themselves that the derision proves they're right. What they don't realize is that they could "hit a nerve" in a similar fashion by posting that Obama is a Muslim, etc., etc.

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And speaking of HillaryIs44, I just went there to see if it still exists. Amazingly, it still does, although it appears they have recently converted it to a comedy site. Not quite as good as The Onion, but still pretty freakin' funny, nutzo humor.

http://www.hillaryis44.com

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Awesome, David. I think that's a great decision on your part. Recommended.

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Perhaps better, disable posts.

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He won't be able to sustain it. The problem is that he has one recurring thought ("Obama sucks") and rather than waiting until he has a new thought to post he for some reason feels compelled to post every day. Even if he's got nothing but minor variations on "Obama sucks."

So he usually gets few reccs, because there's nothing new to recc. And few comments that could possibly be considered "discussion," because there's nothing new to discuss.

So it's going to be a replay of a similar episode with my favorite freeper, TS77. DS is going to post for a while with comments disabled. He's going to see few reccs, and no other posts addressing his latest way of saying "Obama sucks." Nothing. And then he'll start leaving comments enabled again.

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Heh. I think you're probably right. Or else he'll just go away and find another place to pitch his soporific screed. Either choice is fine with me.

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David. While I still enjoy your posts for their links, I feel as though your own thinking has declined these past couple of months. I suspect others found this as well, and they then comment less, which drops the ratio of those positively engaged to those throwing turds. And I think your credibility also got hurt when you repeatedly trumpeted the Whitey tape, offered to apologize, and then basically blew it off. Some people felt less interested in engaging as a result.

That said, I think some of the turd flingers need to quietly rethink as well. I understand the need to jump on your posts, and shout BAH! And do it myself. What I don't get is the need to do it repeatedly, and then, within the post, do it persistently, and personally. TPM has lost a lot of voices, and if you look close, we've pretty much reached a state where these pages lack any real steel in the debate. Part of it is post-election celebration, and people just not wanting much debate.

But even in day-to-day posts and comments, we see lots of "Just trust Obama, he's done great so far," or "Calm down, it'll all be fine." As though they don't get that thinking for ourselves is kinda central to what Obama's proposed, with his bottom-up, change is us, mantra. The soup's pretty thin, beyond debate about Cabinet appointments folks. Just check the top 15 list, and look for any real independent ideas or or arguments.

So as for you David, do as you wish. I'd recommend some honest rethinking and refuelling, then charge back in when there's something concrete to argue FOR, or substantive case against. And keep comments open when you do, eh?

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Ok, you've inspired me to be blunt. On one of his more recent posts, I suggested to David Seaton that a lot of his posts seemed to bait for the trollish responses on Obama, and if he didn't want that, he shouldn't keep doing it, and that some of us others would prefer that he not, and that we preferred his posts on topics other than his Obama obsession for that reason. And he responded along the lines that he liked it in a way, that those trollish responses were fun and helped refine his thinking. Now he appears to have changed his mind, and sees that that degrades the site as a whole.

So I, as someone who thinks it degrades the site as a whole to feed trollishness, have absolutely nothing against him taking an action which seems to be an experiment in self-discipline. No one is here is required to read his posts. And of the management doesn't mind him using posting here to draw commenters to his site, who am I to tell them what to do? And they clearly don't seem to mind, because they just chose to make the "disable comments" option clearer, instead of chosing to turn off the "disable comments" option.

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Yup. David can do as he wants, as can TPM with the software. I'm just irritated at David because he's smart enough, knows enough history, etc., that he COULD have become more engaged. Instead, I feel like he's been wasting our time - spinning new ways to lay out the same bait. That's fine, we'll move on. But it's lazy. Wasted talent. David would usually toss me a line at this point, but he knows he's missed his re-entry trajectory. Misread his audience.

So yes, he's talking about how people were unpleasant to him, but that's not it. Go back over the last few days of his posts - they're been relatively cheerful, I'd say. Nope, David underestimated people. His argument was thin, he laid a dozen cloaks on it, he completely misread whether there was any intelligence on offer here, and now... he's just busted. No cards left to play. He can change that. Or he can stay lazy, and f-f-f-fade away.

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David, the average TPM reader is very dumb and misinformed. Some might call you a "chicken" for disabling comments, as if any intelligent person would be afraid of their inane, beside-the-point comments that contribute nothing to readers' posts.

I'm with you, and I love the optiohn to disable comments. it keeps the retards away.

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The "retards", however, can still reply to your comments.

I used the term "retard" awhile ago in a conversation with a friend. I was being intentionally crass, just like you were. Turns out she has a little sister with Down Syndrome. It's a funny term otherwise, but I'll probably never use it again.

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Even a chicken isn't "chicken" enough to disable comments.

That isn't "chicken", it's infantile. If you can't stand the heat, gt out of the kitchem. Politics ain't beanbag, and etc.

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You use the word "retard"? You are, hands down, the biggest douche bag on TPM. Fuck off and die, liar77.

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The whole point in blogging on a site such as this is the exchange of ideas. If comments are disabled you may as well be reading the newspaper.

Since the disable feature became available I have started to check to see if comments are allowed before I read posts. I don't read posts that don't allow them.

While I am not a fan of personal attacks and try to stay clear of people who do that, disabling comments is not the way to go IMHO. Ignoring mean people seems to work best, as ignoring them deprives them of the kick they get out of getting under your skin.

Having your own website is a great idea if you can't stand the heat. But talk about an echo chamber...Who has such a huge ego that all you want to do is write things then have your adoring fans tell you how wonderful you are. Part of the enjoyment is challenging people who disagree w/ you, trying to convert them to your point of view.

For all intents and purposes, if you disable comments, this is farewell for us, David. Thank you for your presence here, and good luck with your website.

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The typical "if you can't stand the heat..." argument.

Good rebuttals are heat. Idiotic replies to posts and calling people "troll" may be "heat" to you, not me.

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Believe or not, though, some people really are just trolling. David's a masochist.

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Birds of a feather...

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"The whole point in blogging on a site such as this is the exchange of ideas. If comments are disabled you may as well be reading the newspaper"

I think you've hit on something here as Seaton's professional life is centered around writing for a newspaper. His livelyhood depends on explaining America and Americans to an audience that has little experience by which to judge the accuracy of his portrayals.

A one-way street lined by cheering admirers is his comfort zone.

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I find the fact that you wrote this post interesting. If I assume that you are just interested in expressing your displeasure with some of the commments you received. Consider yourself heard. You are basically stating that you're not comfortable with this envirnonment and want to limit your engagement. Received.

To be honest with you I realize that I don't read your posts often because I have not found a particular interest in them generally which doesn't mean anything but I have had an impression of your being here to be heard but not to listen to or engage others. I just share that feedback because you offered this public forum after which there will be no communication...

Good luck. I am sure you will find engagements that are personally satisfying for you. I am less likely to read your posts without comments as it is a one sided offering. Best of luck!

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I have no separate opinion on David's personal decision, or the behavior of his interlocutors. But as a general matter, I don't at all like this idea of giving users at TPM Cafe the option of disabling comments.

There are any number of tools for creating a personal blog on the internet, and one can apply whatever rules one likes to those blogs, including comments or no comments. David himself operates such a site. He exploits the public space of TPM Cafe in the way some of the front page posters do: as a secondary outlet for discourses that are posted on some other primary blog. He thus benefits greatly from the extra eyeballs and readership that are drawn to the site for other reasons.

But TPM Cafe is a group site in which a limited amount of real estate is available in the right-hand column. The individual "blogs" posted are in turn part of the Great Blog which is TPM Cafe. Whenever one post appears, it takes the place of another post which gets pushed off the bottom of the list. It seems to me that a perfectly reasonable toll for using this public information highway, so to speak, should be a willingness to open one's thoughts to comments from the whole community. That's why large communities such as TPM Cafe exist after all, because they offer the opportunity to talk back rather than just be talked to. If they didn't offer this opportunity, David and others wouldn't find nearly so many readers here for his literary-political perambulations.

People who post blogs but disable comments are, it seems to me, free-riding on the benefits of community without sharing in its obligations. They want the privilege of posting their ideas in the limited space on a group blog, but will not accept the rental fee for doing so. Why should the TPM Cafe community confer portions of its limited real estate on people who won't pay the rent? It's like giving a booth in a crowded, in-demand flea market to a guy who won't let people buy his products on site, but demands they go to his store to make their purchases, and who demands his booth should be "special". People who are being good TPM Cafe citizens, and opening themselves up to criticism and abuse in exchange for the privilege of posting, might get their words shoved quickly off the roll of recent posts by prima donnas who demand total control over how their words are framed: namely, they don't want their beautiful words sullied by any nasty, ugly, uncooperative comments.

Responding to a "comments off" poster through another post, rather than in the comments section, which many people will often choose to do if they are frustrated by the inability to comment, is not a viable long-term option. It will only gobble up the limited real estate with posts representing multiple comments on what is in reality a single thread, and which should be compressed under a single post.

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Responding to a "comments off" poster through another post, rather than in the comments section, which many people will often choose to do if they are frustrated by the inability to comment,

This is a very important point that I think management may not be foreseeing in their decision to allow this function.

Especially since they haven't been able to figure out how to easily produce a continuous archive of recent posts. If they could figure that out, the "limited real estate" argument wouldn't be as convincing.

Don't get me wrong, I happen to personally loathe the tradition of people pontificating to each other through individual blog posts (always reminded me of that old "he said, she said" dualing pundits sketch of Dan Ackroyd and Jane Curtin on Saturday Night Live) even by contributors. I first came to TPMCafe attracted by the possibility of reading contributors talking to each and exchanging ideas with each other within single threads--that hope never actually came to fruition, it's rather rare to see a contributor comment on another contributor's thread to this day, much less respond to their own commenters. Dan,just seems to me that in-thread discussion has never been an m.o. that management here seems to have much interest in, they seem to like traditional blog system of "the contributor pontificates, the peanut gallery responds." Consider the idea that they may like to see a bunch of blog posts talking to each other, and that our preference is in the minority.

In any case, I suspect you are correct that this will be a problem causing a lot of trouble until they have continual access to all recent blog posts without that couple of hours cut off.

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The ability to respond to an online post or an article is a pretty basic thing, bordering on a "right". And no matter what horrible "indignities" Seaton feels he has endured on this site, I'm sure it doesn't compare to what writers like David Brooks or Charles Krauthanger (yeah, I know) or any number of other writers hear every single day of the week. David Seaton is being a big, fat, pompous baby and he's threatening to completely subvert the spirit and intent of a public forum like this one. Rather than turning comments off, he should seriously consider just not posting at all.

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People who post blogs but disable comments are, it seems to me, free-riding on the benefits of community without sharing in its obligations.

Just so.

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I defy you, David Seaton. No one can stop me from commenting on your threads! NO ONE!!!!!!

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Fuck. I just spit coffee all over my monitor.

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You got a monitor? ;-)

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Two, actually. One sits in a room behind a pane of one-way glass and records everything I say and do. She thinks I don't know she's there, but sometimes I can smell her cigar smoke.

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You didn't think they let him go out without supervision, did you?

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I choked on my chocolate chip cookie!

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