“Change will not come
if we wait for some other person – or if we wait for some other time. We are the ones we have been waiting
for. We are the change that we seek.” -- Barack Obama
I take this 2008 presidential race personally. Yes, I have chosen to support Barack Obama
with my time and money. But let me tell
you why.
In June 1998, my family and I came back to Iowa
to visit my parents at their farm.
During that week, I drove my parents to Nebraska
Methodist Hospital
Oncology Center
for their comprehensive check ups. Mom,
who was battling colon cancer, had now developed two tiny spots on her
liver. And Dad, who was a five-year
survivor of pancreatic cancer, was holding his own, but barely. The long-term outlook for both was not
optimistic.
Later that week, my dad and I sat at the picnic table in the
backyard talking about what would happen to the farm. He shared his disappointment that Iowa
had never developed the economic opportunities to keep his three daughters and
one son closer to home. He also mourned
the loss of rural culture. That
conversation, Dad’s deep disappointment and cracking voice, have stayed with
me.
A little more than a year later, Mom and Dad were gone. We spent two years sorting out the
estate. My older sisters inherited 80
acres of farm ground, the land where Dad had grown up, now rented and farmed by
our cousin. My brother and I (the
younger two) inherited the farm and house where we’d grown up. My brother, who was best suited to live here
and maintain the place, searched for employment, but ran straight up against
all the economic factors Dad lamented.
So my husband, a special education teacher, found a job, and we moved
almost two years after dad’s death. I
was not upset to leave my corporate job behind and concentrate on our kids,
then ages one and 13.
I did not anticipate what happened next. Six months after returning to the place of my
birth, my neighbors approached me about becoming a write-in candidate for
school board. Knowing the abysmal
turnout for school board elections, I said, “Sure.” Much to my surprise, I won the election, and
the work has been non-stop ever since.
(For the record, school board directors are not paid in Iowa.)
In addition to taking on school board leadership, I ended up
with leadership roles in my Methodist church and a historic preservation
group. The new work included: starting an after-school program at the
church, writing and administering grant dollars, helping our school district
develop a vision, establishing 501(c)3 status for the preservation group, and
on and on. On top of this, my son
entered and graduated high school and my daughter went from toddler to
elementary school.
Behind it all, though, replaying in my brain was that conversation
with Dad. I had returned to this place I
love, disappointed to see so little had changed in the 18 years I’d been
gone. Decline was the only change. And I was surrounded by people discouraged and
confused – too cynical or worn out to fight for change. Many didn’t know where to begin.
Yet I returned at a good time. A few stalwart leaders are building some
things here: exploring economic
development, opening small businesses, and pooling resources. We’re beginning to show people that, “Yes we
can” make a difference, whether it’s picking up the neighborhood or reopening a
park. But it’s a battle every day to get
people to work for change; to believe it’s possible.
So it’s exciting to see a national leader, who has lived
this same experience, speak this truth and ask us to believe in ourselves. Because until we decide to make America
a better nation and to work for it, nothing will change.