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The risks of being alive.


I'm goint to ask a series of questions anbout certain
unpleasant states. I'm nosaying we should not have
strong feelings or preferences about them. Nevertheless
from these examples we can begin to get a clue; and
when we have a clue we can see more clearly what we are
doing in practice. Here are the questions:

*If I am told told "Joko, you have one more day to
live, " is that OK with me ? Or if someone told you
that, is it OK with you ?

*If I am in a sever accident, and my legs and arms have
to be amputated, is this OK with me ? It that were to
happen to you, is it OK ?

*If I were to never again to receive a kind and
friendly encouraging word from abyone, is this OK with
me ?

*If I, for whatever reason, have to be bedridden and in
pain for the rest of my life, is this OK with me ?

*If I make a complete fool of myself, in the worst
possible circumstances, is this OK with me ?

*It the close relationship that you dream of and hope
for never comes to pass, is this OK ?

*If for whatever reason I have to live out my life as a
beggar, with little food and no shelter, exposed to the
cold, is this OK with me ? With you ?

*If I must lose whatever or whoever I care for, is it
OK with me ?

Now, I can't answer OK to any of these. And if you're
honest, I don't think any of you can either. But to
answer OK is the enlightened state, if we understand
wht it means for something to be OK. For something to
be OK, if doesn't men that I don't scream, or cry, or
protest or hate it.


Charlotte Joko Beck - Everyday Zen

The instinct of most of us in times such as these is to
keep our heads down and hang onto our pleasures and
possessions and bear our pains as best we may. We wish
to run no risks in a world with chance so badly skewed
against us. The result is that we are trapped, closeted
with our fears while the storm rages worse outside.
Here in this tight space dread grows, and the
possibilities for remedy are few. On television
maniacally cheerful people contrive to sell us
happiness. Buy! Enjoy! Experience! Out on the streets
glowering zealots paste up posters urging struggle,
war, confusion, and the death of their enemies -- after
which, presumably, mankind will enjoy bliss.
Civilization appears to be spiralling down into awesome
decadence, and the fall of Rome comes to the minds of
those not altogether oblivious to history. It's an
unpleasant thought, so we take shelter in our small
delights or else in the blandishments of psychological
and religious quacks who -- for a fee to defray the
costs of their own indulgences -- will tell us anything
we want to hear. Do we feel guilty? It's probably
someone else's fault. Are we tempted by vice? Go ahead,
fulfill yourselves! Will we have to give up anything to
achieve happiness? Oh, never! Perish the thought! A
golden age is dawning.


Leonard Price

Being alive means taking risks. Each breath we take everyday
is a risk. Getting up in the morning is a risk. Will we burn our
breakfast and set our house on fire ? Going to work is a risk.
Will some one cross the median and plow into us ?

Being around others is a risk. Walking up stairs is a risk. We are
confronted everyday by risks. even if we hid ourselves away in a
mountain cave there is a risk of a cave in or being flooded.

Try as we may, we simply cannot rid our selves of risks. There is a
risk of getting sick or injured or dying everyday.

Yet we try to remove them by surrounding ourselves in big houses
in gated communities, driving big expensive cars, running our selves
into the ground, taking all sorts of vile potions and making laws to
eliminate these risks.

We try to eliminate the risk of being in business or working or having
a relationship.

Now some risk management is certainly a good thing. Requiring that people
know how to operate a vehicle in a safe manner, making killing, and stealing
an illegal act are wise and good things to do.

But anyone who pays attention to the news knows that these things as
a total prevention of the risks imposed are not as effective as we would like
them to be.

We make laws to prevent the use of certain drugs but we all know how
effective that has proven to be. We even made the use of alcohol illegal.
Ask some people who lived in the 1920s and 30s just how effective that
was.

And here is my point. We cannot legislate risk away. People will still
engage in activities that are risky to themselves and to a certain
extent, to other people.

And we certainly cannot legislate activities that we ourselves find
unpleasant or uncomfortable for whatever reason. It just does not
work.

I myself do not like alcohol and do not go to bars or nightclubs to hang
around drunk people. It's not my thing. But I will defend you right to do so
if that is what you wish to do. (Though I would be rather upset if you attempted
to drive afterward.)

Forcing others to bend to our wishes simply because we don' like what
they do will not remove our own risks. However we also need to extend
some common courtesy to others who may not appreciate our activities.

We need to all be more tolerant of others and their chosen life styles and
realize that we ourselves are responsible for our own life.

Or do we really want to live in a risk-less world of Aldous Huxley.

C
 
 

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I agree. I think i hid away for almost a decade out of fear.

If we take no risks, we are dead.

If we reach out to someone, that someone might bite us. So we stay quiet.

If we say something on our minds, someone may ridicule us. So we stay quiet.

If we misstate something, others might point it out and scorn us. So we stay quiet.

THE DEAD ARE OH SOOOOOOOOOOO QUIET.

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That is such a good comment DD. And so true.

C

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Thanks for this. I know a few folks for whom it would do a world of good to read.

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This makes me think of kids who have to wear bike helmets and elbow pads and knee pads just to ride a bicycle, when as a kid I rode my bike down big hills with no hands (and no helmet or pads) and not only loved the feeling of freedom that it gave me, but survived it over and over again, to boot.

Seems to me parents and religious folks, for instance, spend a lot of time worrying about outside dangers and threats to the point where they want to have laws made to protect themselves, their children and/or religious values to the detriment of others' freedom.

I'd rather see them inform themselves and their children in an intelligent way about the dangers they perceive, than to have them influence their local or state politicians to write yet another new restricting law that makes a few people feel safer while the majority loses their freedom.

Thanks for this post. Very though provoking, as your entire series has been.

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Er, thought-provoking, and also. ;)

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I'm having to think here, C. Are we afraid of the risks of living? Or are we just afraid, period?

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Yes....


C

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As much as we deal with it rather poorly, we'll all die. Some don't do too well along lifes road and others just saunter through it nonchalantly.

Unless we change in some very basic ways none of this will ever change. For starters, individual peoples connection with the natural world has grown tenuous at best. I was speaking with a sixteen year old a couple of weeks ago and somehow the conversation got around to escaping from a bear. The teen said with certainty to just run away. This very clearly informs us that human knowledge is a very random thing.

And then there is science.

Ray Kurzweil, celebrated futurist, recently penned an article predicting that in the not too distant future technology will permit extending human life well beyond what is the current norm. There is good basis for his argument. He predicts that even before mid century, science in general will have changed our world dramatically.

I think much of this will be taken for granted and go generally unnoticed by the majority. The upshot of this is, in the event of a global calamity, our ability to cope will be severely impaired. Most people will perish for the lack of common sense knowledge or an inability to assemble factual information into any logical order. We see this reflected already in much of the discussion that goes on right here. Where individuals possessed of the exact same facts arrive at absolutely opposite conclusions will remain a puzzling feature of human mental capability.

This inexplicable anomaly is and will remain an impediment to progress. One thing I have noticed about people in this regard is some inject into the equation the factor of human interaction even though it is not a factor at all. I cannot count the number of times I have expressed to someone fact based ideas only to have a response that is totally about this interaction and not at all about the evaluation of the data. And it is amazing to see in the face of the other person their bewilderment as to why I am left speechless with their response. It makes for some awkward moments. Unfortunately, sometimes I just can't help myself and I laugh. Not good.

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One thing I have noticed about people in this regard is some inject into the equation the factor of human interaction even though it is not a factor at all.

Granted, in the here and now and over the internet, it isn't a factor.

But if a bomb explodes and we're all gathering in the hills or in a cave (or hopefully, both), the human interaction part is gonna help.

It will be a factor.

Yes no?

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Good morning Lis. I wasn't referring to the humaness. I was was referring to the office politics notion of things where personalities factor into decisions but have nothing to do with the task at hand. I was equating this with the conduct of congress where things decidedly go off track and where a final piece of legislation ends up having little or no effect in achieving what was intended or even has an opposite effect.

In the event you refer to I don't think you would like what would actually happen. When it comes down to plain survival, instinct will take over and the strong will survive. It has to be that way for any to survive. People like us (having a social conscience) who hesitate to change our mindset in that split second when it becomes necessary will perish. We know this simply by looking at what is occurring right now and translating that to the scenario you describe. By whatever means is available those who possess that means will be the survivors. This is happening all the time. Fortunately for us it isn't happening here. For now.

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Good morning, TPC. You're absolutely right. But who's to say I won't kill you for fresh fruit and a slice of bread?

Just kidding.

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I think much of this will be taken for granted and go generally unnoticed by the majority. The upshot of this is, in the event of a global calamity, our ability to cope will be severely impaired. Most people will perish for the lack of common sense knowledge or an inability to assemble factual information into any logical order.

I fear you maybe correct. I have a friend who grew up in Iowa...on a farm...but his knowledge of how to do even the basic tasks around the house was severely limited..his parents did most of this. he was not required to learn.

This seems to be the case for a lot of young people these days..as well as their parents.

People lacking in the knowledge of how to feed themselves beyond going to the grocery store and putting something in the microwave.

I do not think I am exaggerating here either.

C

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I don't believe you're exaggerating at all. The basics of many things are simply not known because it isn't necessary for us to know them. It has been a very long time since personal knowledge of these fundamentals were required for survival. If you take away the support structures of a cooperative society that provides these things vast numbers of people will not survive.

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Good post, C.

We need to all be more tolerant of others and their chosen life styles and realize that we ourselves are responsible for our own life.
With the ongoing toxic social effects of divisive political strategies, tolerance likely will continue to be an elusive ideal for many people except maybe for kids.

With respect to responsibility, it seems people are innately resourceful. For some, it remains dormant until called upon by necessity.

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Speaking of resourceful, I am writing a small cook book entitled "How To Serve A CEO."

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Larry: please, please tell us some of the names of your appetizers, soups, entrees, and desserts....

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OK but just a few.

Appetizer: Conscience of CEO in Aspic: The moral sensibility of a CEO (as rare as the finest Beluga caviar) is served in an aspic gel and eaten with small silver spoons.

Soup: CEO Elbow and Navy Bean: The elbow of a CEO is very tough owing to the fact that they use it all their lives as a weapon in their efforts to advance their status. After browning in olive oil the elbow should be simmered for several hours. Add the Navy beans and cook until tender.

Entree: Leg of CEO Wellington: CEO’s are notoriously unrepentant which means they have probably never knelt in prayer or to do work so the knee and lower leg are as tender as veal. Served in a puff pastry shell. A chilled Fume Blanc Or white Zinfandel is recommended.

Dessert: I recommend drinking a brut champagne in front of the oil painted portrait of the deceased CEO. It is a sparse but truly satisfying end to dining on CEO.

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Now, that's resourceful.

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Nice list, Larry. A bit disappointed that, for dessert, champagne was not accompanied by: "Poached Pair in Whine sauce..."

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C: This may be after the bell send your post to oblivion, but I wanted to thank you for the points you made herein.
Risk is important, as a positive, to the experience of living and to feeling that one lived for something.
This series of blogs has been really thought-provoking.
I thank you for them.

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