Rose colored glasses
A student went to his meditation teacher and said, "My
meditation is horrible! I feel so distracted, or my
legs ache, or I'm constantly falling asleep. It's just
horrible!"
"It will pass," the teacher said matter-of-factly.
A week later, the student came back to his teacher. "My
meditation is wonderful! I feel so aware, so peaceful,
so alive! It's just wonderful!"
"It will pass," the teacher replied matter-of-factly.
Humanity has this nasty habit of not wanting to accept reality for
what it is. We continually want to see the world as we would like
it to be. Now I'm not saying that having a vision of better things
for ourselves and those we know is bad. On the contrary - it helps
in giving us the motivation to improve ourselves and live for those
around us.
But to constantly believe that this rose colored view is what life
actually is, will always lead us astray. And when reality does
show itself it can be very traumatic to our psyche.
This affliction exists in both the left and the right. We lived for a very
long time not wanting to look a the reality of the effects out life style
had on the environment, economy, society and ourselves. Cheep
energy, cheep labor and the ability to have our every hearts desire
clouded our desire to see the consequences of our life styles.
But now it cannot be ignored. The elephant in the dining room has
neon signs on it and is trumpeting loudly. Those on the right are
screaming bloody murder because it is now being pointed out that
their devil may care live style cannot go on. That we have to take
care of the environment. That the economics of the past cannot
continue. And that we need to make some major changes which
will require everyone to make some sacrifice. So they are behaving
like a youngster being scolded for doing some dumb and dangerous
thing and they cannot have fun any more.
At the same time too many on the left are also in their own delusion
believing that becoming vegan, driving electric cars, running 8 miles
a day and embracing every social cause - will save the human race
and the planet. All worthy ideals but hardly our salvation.
What needs to happen is for everyone to look at the reality of the world
we live in and our own human nature...the bad as well as the good.
And then make the decisions and changes necessary to really make
a difference. Even it if it is uncomfortable and requires giving something
up.
Reality is not always pleasant nor is it always uncomfortable. It does not
stroke our little egos or kick us in the gut. But it does have to be dealt with
on a daily basis. It cannot be ignored or white-washed. And there are no
quick and easy solutions to that which it throws at us. But their are intelligent
choices.
C
meditation is horrible! I feel so distracted, or my
legs ache, or I'm constantly falling asleep. It's just
horrible!"
"It will pass," the teacher said matter-of-factly.
A week later, the student came back to his teacher. "My
meditation is wonderful! I feel so aware, so peaceful,
so alive! It's just wonderful!"
"It will pass," the teacher replied matter-of-factly.
Humanity has this nasty habit of not wanting to accept reality for
what it is. We continually want to see the world as we would like
it to be. Now I'm not saying that having a vision of better things
for ourselves and those we know is bad. On the contrary - it helps
in giving us the motivation to improve ourselves and live for those
around us.
But to constantly believe that this rose colored view is what life
actually is, will always lead us astray. And when reality does
show itself it can be very traumatic to our psyche.
This affliction exists in both the left and the right. We lived for a very
long time not wanting to look a the reality of the effects out life style
had on the environment, economy, society and ourselves. Cheep
energy, cheep labor and the ability to have our every hearts desire
clouded our desire to see the consequences of our life styles.
But now it cannot be ignored. The elephant in the dining room has
neon signs on it and is trumpeting loudly. Those on the right are
screaming bloody murder because it is now being pointed out that
their devil may care live style cannot go on. That we have to take
care of the environment. That the economics of the past cannot
continue. And that we need to make some major changes which
will require everyone to make some sacrifice. So they are behaving
like a youngster being scolded for doing some dumb and dangerous
thing and they cannot have fun any more.
At the same time too many on the left are also in their own delusion
believing that becoming vegan, driving electric cars, running 8 miles
a day and embracing every social cause - will save the human race
and the planet. All worthy ideals but hardly our salvation.
What needs to happen is for everyone to look at the reality of the world
we live in and our own human nature...the bad as well as the good.
And then make the decisions and changes necessary to really make
a difference. Even it if it is uncomfortable and requires giving something
up.
Reality is not always pleasant nor is it always uncomfortable. It does not
stroke our little egos or kick us in the gut. But it does have to be dealt with
on a daily basis. It cannot be ignored or white-washed. And there are no
quick and easy solutions to that which it throws at us. But their are intelligent
choices.
C
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Seeing the world the way we want it to be makes us extra-protective of the politics and ego through which we filter reality. Anything that contradicts our worldviews undercuts our perception of reality, and our assessment of ourselves. That's why, I think, we are so driven to demonize our opponents: Reducing them to inhuman neutralizes the validity of their arguments. We are viable one more day. Excellent post!
September 13, 2009 6:40 PM | Reply | Permalink
This will change the hue of those glasses!
WALL STREET IS BETWEEN YOU AND YOUR DOCTOR NOW.
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Wall Street Banks hold these percentages of shares in Health Insurance giants and are increasing shares by the tens of millions
United 77.32%
WellPoint 79.04%
Aetna 79.45%
CIGNA Corp. 68.71%
Coventry Health 82.25%
Health Net Inc. 79.37%
Wall Street is the enemy. Can we afford another bailout for these people and their bonus structure!
September 14, 2009 5:09 PM | Reply | Permalink
Thanks Curt.
What the left seems to forget or fails to recognize is what those on the right want and what the republicans have promised to deliver.
A return to the good old days of Eisenhower
when we were all prosperous, whites didn't have to worry about having blacks or hispanics or asians or any non-while in their neighborhoods, children did not question adults, women stayed at home as wives, all wars were just and we were always the good guys, energy was cheep and we could take it from where ever we found it and we had one bad guy to worry about.
Days that really did not exist except on some half hour TV program. A fantasy pure and simple.
We were not all prosperous just ask those in the ghettos or in Appalachia.
White only communities had to be enforced.
Young people were questioning and disobeying adults all the time. They were just not open about it.
Women stayed at home not because they wanted too. But because nobody would hire them.
Non of the wars were just and we were not the good guys all the time.
Energy was cheep because we stole from those who had it.
And the bad guy was just as paranoid of the US attacking them as we were of being attacked.
And when this unreal notion of the world started to unravel...so did the right.
C
September 13, 2009 7:21 PM | Reply | Permalink
All things are transitory.
Even when we are not deluded about what is there, we cling to it, not wanting it to pass, staying in a state of fear that we will lose it. So we try to get more of it while trying to protect ourself and what we "have" from those forces that will try and take it.
The complication in it all is that we are always once removed from "what is there." There is the thing and the word for the thing. And that is one thing to many.
Caught in the prisonhouse of langauage as we are, it is never as simple as asking people to open their eyes. We can never be sure what it is we are looking at, and when we are sure it has already passed, as if in a dream.
Further complication: what is there is layers of complex systems within complex systems, overlapping with other complex systems which are themselves part of complex systems, feedback looping endlessly, emergent features unfolding unpredicatably, kicking and dampening forces altering and upsetting systems, impacts cascading in infinite multiple directions. Decisions having to be made without any assurance of the real consequences.
September 13, 2009 7:53 PM | Reply | Permalink
I agree with all of this...
I hope this comment makes sense....I believe at eh end of the day the majority of humans have a core ethos that is empathetic and/or compassionate. It gets deluded and side tracked by many things. The complexity that acamus mentions creates a vacuum that is sometimes filled by people motivated by self interest. As I see it, most of the progress we have made over centuries has come from a sense of compassion. It doesn't mean that all we need to do is spread the love and things will happen, but it seem that knowing good things come from realizing we are all more similar than we are different...that we are all often in the same boat....can help.
September 13, 2009 10:30 PM | Reply | Permalink
I hope so Norse. Though some of us see it as an ocean liner and others as a leaky skiff.
C
September 13, 2009 10:35 PM | Reply | Permalink
Norse, I applaud your belief in the basic goodness of man...wish I had it. I believe man is basically an awful, selfish creature who has to work constantly to think of anyone but himself. Sometimes we succeed and sometimes we don't. In scary times like this, I think an awful lot of people go back to using their reptilian brains, worrying about whether THEY have enough of the scarce resources, and don't care much about whether or not others have enough. Thank goodness some people are able to rise above it for awhile, but the scarier it gets, the more there are that will revert.
September 14, 2009 12:43 PM | Reply | Permalink
No Stilli. It's something that youlearn.
C
September 14, 2009 1:53 PM | Reply | Permalink
I ALREADY KNOW ALL THIS. WHY DO YOU THINK I PUT OFF SHAVING ALL THE TIME?
September 14, 2009 2:16 AM | Reply | Permalink
Energy was cheap because all of us (yes, all) stole it from the future. And now we have stolen so much from the future, that future became today.
Liberalism and its "inevitable" expansion and progress as we know it was based on the shared prosperity gotten from the cheap energy. Without cheap energy, economies don't grow 2-3% a year. Therefore it's also impossible to pay back debt -- and therefore it's impossible to have capitalism as we know it. The middle class will shrink back to the mercantile class, the poor will expand. As human energy is now required to run the farms. Factories will disappear and consumer based economies will dry up. Expect to see a slide back to earlier times and mores. The idea of universal healthcare will recede into distant memory as an impractical idea. Indentured servitude? Feudalism? People will trade security for freedom extremely fast. Self-governance will shrink as bands form around strong figures.
Society will most certainly restructure. More granularly and more around persons rather than laws.
Too many people, not enough planet. Millions of years of liquid sunshine stored in fossil fuels used up in a mere 150 years -- much of it in war activities.
We are of nature and our supposed "elevation" from it was mere illusion for the briefest of moments. What rises comes up, comes back down.
And usually much faster.
September 14, 2009 3:03 AM | Reply | Permalink
Yeah sounds about right. I think the only thing you failed to mention is the billions of people who will die in the process either by starvation or in the conflicts which will ensue to control what dwindling resources remain.
September 14, 2009 3:10 AM | Reply | Permalink
As usual CT you totally missed the entire point of the post. And I refuse to explain it to you.
{Gets up off chair and smacks CT hard. Monk near by asks "CT...why do you not bow ?" CT does NOT get a revelation !}
C
September 14, 2009 9:45 AM | Reply | Permalink
Jeez, I guess I missed it, too, cm...could you explain it to me? Cuz I was thinking it was about facing up to reality and I THOUGHT that was what CT was saying. So I misunderstood one (or both) of you.
September 14, 2009 12:51 PM | Reply | Permalink
The point is that we tend to see and experience what we expect to see and experience rather than what is actually there. We glorify and/or degenerate what is there. Rather than accept reality for what it is.
"for there is nothing either good or bad, but thinking makes it so" - Hamlet , Wm. Shakespeare; Act II, scene ii
C
September 14, 2009 1:02 PM | Reply | Permalink
Relooking at CT's comments, it is exactly what you say people do: in this case project a reality onto the future. Some of the scenario may have some actual validity, or even all of it, but if we get caught up reacting to a future that has yet to become, so that we do not see the possibilities that are now, then it is indeed a mental trap. What happens if there is a technological breakthrough in renewable energy technologies that is able to spread quickly. And we still grow enough food to feed people, it is just the distribution process creates barriers. Etc. Etc.
September 14, 2009 2:29 PM | Reply | Permalink
I will give you and CT that. However what I was referring to (poorly I'll admit) is that we tend to look at the present situation based on our own prejudices and beliefs was to what it is SUPPOSED to be instead of what it actually is.
Getting all upset because a dog got into our flower garden. The dog got into the garden because that is what dogs do. Need to fence the garden.
C
September 14, 2009 2:55 PM | Reply | Permalink
Humbly I will admit that at least part of the paradigm is what I was talking about.
Rather like wanting the present to be the way we remember that past was like. Even though the past was not anything like the way we remember it. If we remember it at all.
I myself fall into this trap a lot. Forgetting (conveniently) that the technology was primitive by our standards and - in todays dollars - very expensive.
Or that one reason it was easy to get along in the area I grew up in was because nearly everyone was of the same ethnic, social and economic background as I.
C
September 14, 2009 3:24 PM | Reply | Permalink
I'm reminded of the early days of 3d movies...One lens filtered green, one lens filtered red, and we saw the remainder in three dimensions.
Perhaps the monk said the same thing in both instances because the student made the same mistake in both instances. The blue colored glasses painted as false a reality picture as the rose colored glasses.
Or is that too Aristotelian? Anyhow. I'm going to polish my nominally clear glasses which I note have a big thumb print on them...my own, of course.
September 14, 2009 9:53 AM | Reply | Permalink
Hit the post button a bit too soon. I read "monk" and there was no "monk". Probably the thumbprint's fault.
September 14, 2009 9:55 AM | Reply | Permalink
You saw what you expected to see. That is the problem and why magicians can do what they do.
We all do this.
C
September 14, 2009 10:01 AM | Reply | Permalink
took me three minutes to correct myself. If that's not quite magical, it isn't bad for an ordinary mortal. :-)
September 14, 2009 1:44 PM | Reply | Permalink
As we all try to polish our rose-color glasses:
[Ma-tsu] was residing in the monastery of Dembo-in where he sat constantly in meditation. The master, aware that he was a vessel of the Dharma, went to him and asked, “Virtuous one, for what purpose are you sitting in meditation?”
Tao-i answered: “I wish to become a Buddha.”
Thereupon the master picked up a tile and started rubbing it on a stone in front of the hermitage.
Tao-i asked: “What is the Master doing?”
The master replied: “I am polishing [this tile] to make a mirror.”
“How can you make a mirror by polishing a tile?” exclaimed Tao-i.
“And how can you make a Buddha by practicing zazen?” countered the master.
September 14, 2009 10:07 AM | Reply | Permalink
Good one acamus. I always like that story.
C
September 14, 2009 10:17 AM | Reply | Permalink