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Obama's grandmother died today


I wish she had lived to see him elected President of the United States of America.  Can you imagine how proud she would be?  In his own words she did everything for him, I am truly grieving for him.

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It is like a cruel joke. I can't imagine the pain for the living, Barack and his nuclear family, just can't imagine it. She was like his mother. I dropped everything when my mother passed, one can't go on working, it seems crazy to do so. I can't imagine having to campaign like he has to, and then to attend to an election and an army of supporters and an entire country the evening and the day after if he wins. Hopefully, when he visited, she had the wisdom to pass on the message "I don't want you to think about me, go and do what you have to do," that they both knew she was going soon, and that she allowed him the precious gift of mourning in advance. Really, it's simply such a ghastly thing, something out of Greek tragedy.

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P.S. I mentioned Greek tragedy, but should also say that medieval/Renaissance Catholic theology might take it as as spooky "vanitas" message, i.e., God reminding who's in charge and what's important. This happening, it's really the stuff to fuel the minds of astrologers and numerologists, hard to see it with a rational mind, it just cries out for some kind of mystical explanation.

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It does seem like that. The thing is though, that if you wait to see the end of the story, you'll have to live forever because there is never a "good time" to die - the story in endless.

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BevD:

So tragic indeed. Take solace in knowing that the deceased, the one for whom the living mourn, rests in peace, and had to have died knowing that the grandson she loved, the grandson she helped raise to be the man he is today, will make history tomorrow, in no small part because of her guidance. She must have been very proud in her final moments, and I hope it eased her pain.

Meanwhile, I cannot help but notice that there are some on the left side of this page who are using this tragic event to focus on sick people who apparently make fun of this tragic event--it is the sick on the fringe mocking the sick on the fringe--the haters mocking the haters, and for what?

My heart goes own to Senator Obama and his family, and I wish him strength, and I hope he knows that one of his grandmother's last wishes would be that her death would not tarnish what we are about to witness tomorrow. May she rest in peace.

Death brings friends together Bev and AA. I'm so glad we are friends.

Bruce

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Thanks Bruce. When my mom died my older son who was only 11 at the time wanted to give a eulogy. Part of what he said came back to me today when I read this sad news - "Grandma thought we were the greatest kids in the world and that made us want to be the greatest kids in the world." Sounds like Obama might have had a Grandma just like that...

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I am too guys, I am too...

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I mentioned in a recent thread under one of Jim Sleeper's posts that I have a co-worker whose father is hanging on in a hospice with end-stage emphyzema. He is a long-time Republican voter and ex-military guy. But he has said for months that he just wants to last long enough to see Barack Obama elected president. Doctors and family all expected him to be dead many months ago, and there have been several false alarms. I'm keeping my fingers crossed that he makes it through anothr 24 - 27 hours.

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Hey DanK:

You're a good guy and I really hope your co-worker's Dad gets the chance to see what is about to take place tomorrow. I was actually thinking about you recently, and I was wondering how you were feeling about all this history. I think I can remember the comment you wrote way back when after you had made the decision to back Senator Obama. You were one of the first, and so it's probably an extra special feeling for you. I like that. Someday maybe that little boy of yours will have kids, and maybe someday those kids will sit on your aching, aging knee and they'll ask you to tell them about the time this country opened its arms and became that much more inclusive, and that much closer to what we are supposed to be all about. I'd like that for you, and I'd like that for them. I bet Senator Obama is thinking about moments like that right about now, and I hope it helps ease the pain of his loss.

Bruce

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Personally, I am exhausted Bruce. I feel like I have been struggling forever with first the primary battle, and then the election battle. I'm not sure exactly how I will feel tomorrow, since my tank is just about empty. I need a break. I am somewhat expecting a period of anticlimactic emotional letdown, or even mild depression, because in my experience that is a typical emotional response to victory following a long, intense and tiring struggle.

But I'm very proud that my son gets to vote in his first election tomorrow, and that with any luck he will get to say he participated in mnaking history.

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The only thing that matters is that he saw her before she died.

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You're a class act, BevD.

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