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What Was Your Favorite One?


Hi there, come on in.  Thanks, good to see you, too!  At least the rain seems to be letting up.  Can't put anything over on you, can I?  I did indeed enjoy the storms.  Find yourself a seat and I'll grab something from the kitchen.  Hungry?  I haven't shopped recently but I'm sure I can find something that doesn't move on its own.

Dollars are tight - for everyone (mostly).  I've been hearing a lot about holiday shopping and how to cut corners.  I began thinking of those things, as well ... and started remembering some of my favorite gifts I've given over the years.  In a weird way, they come to mind much quicker than favorites I've received.  Some cost quite a bit; some almost nothing unless you count time, imagination and joy in the doing as a price.

 

There was the dirt bike my whole family got together to buy for my brother when he was probably too young for one.  I'll never forget his face.  Of course, he blistered his entire palm on the exhaust manifold not long afterwards but that's beside the point.  

I got creative for awhile.  Knit my Mom a few sweaters, made crochet stars for Christmas tree ornaments, as well as sewing them together as a tree skirt to match (yes, Mom again).  A few yarn and lace angel tree toppers for friends, and so on.  Hmmm.  What happened to those days?  Must ask myself that sometime.

I gave the man in my life at the time an air compressor for the garage.  Had as much fun getting his sons to help me get it in the house and wrapped (sort of, took two rolls of paper that didn't match) as I did catching his reaction on video.  Many years have passed, but still one of his prized and often used possessions.  Can't beat Craftsman! 

One year, his oldest wanted $200.00 to drive up north to visit his girlfriend after the holiday.  We decided to do it, but I refused to do the "write a check" thing.  How boring is that, I ask you?  I got 200 one dollar bills from a very confused bank teller and we wadded them all up into little balls.  Put a few heavy books in the bottom of a huge box and filled it with styrofoam packing peanuts.  Mixed in 197 wadded dollars.  I wrapped the last three individually and put them in his stocking.  I laughed so hard I cried watching him tediously straighten each bill -  trying to say a sincere thank you through clenched teeth.  Not to mention his first foray into finger cramping.  The best part?  $197.00.  WT..?  He searched that box and recounted those dollars forever, 'til he finally gave up (still slightly worried he'd missed $3.00).  Even he was able to laugh when he found them. 

So many, many more wonderful presents given and received.  All with love.  Tell me!  What was your favorite one?  You decide if it was one treasured by you or remembered for the pleasure it gave another.       

 

 


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Drawing a blank on the topic, but I wanted to say hi and thanks for opening up tonight. Always good to see the light on.

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Always great to see you. Let me know if you think of anything ... I'll bet you've enjoyed making your kids happy, yes?

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Hmmmmm...in my current state of senility it's hard to remember! I know for me the one gift that sticks out the most is the gray wool coat w/ rabbit fur trim my husband got me probably our 2nd Christmas. It was horribly expensive for the day and our financial condition. To this day I don't know how he came up with the money. The very thought of wearing it today makes me want to barf (the whole dead animal thing, you know!) but at the time I was so grateful!

Every year the Christmas stockings I give the kids (even as adults) are the thing they look forward to the most. Little treasures that they know I spend the whole year collecting, things they've forgotten they admired, and tasty little tidbits.

Good to see you, Missy! I miss our every night glass of wine I'd gotten so accustomed to...drinking alone is no fun!

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Rabbit fur! Wow, that takes me back to going to Sears (when it was a catalog store, you picked up what you'd ordered) with Mom for the rabbit fur coat I'd begged for. Unpacked it and immediately half the fur fell on the floor. I was traumatized - maybe that's why I'm so against fur today!

Love your stockings tradition. I've missed you - and our wine - too, still.

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I had to take some time to think about this one.

Received: All the interesting tools and other useful things I've been given through a lot of years. (I'm using the term in a very large sense, of course.) Of them all, I think that when my sister gave me a coffee grinder and some beans quite a few years ago, beginning my lifelong coffee addiction, it was the one that had the longest lasting impact. There have been others, of course, lots of it has been kitchen stuff, much has not. Otherwise, many people have given me books, of all sorts, and each one of those is wonderful - there's something in every last one of them to be treasured.

Given: I'm usually pretty decent at finding things that match up well to someone. One year, though, I gave my sister and (then) brother-in-law my stereo receiver and some cash. They were struggling in a tiny apartment while he was in grad school and she was supporting them both working at a small town "shopper" publisher, and their stereo had blown out. Her shriek of delight was electric. And again, there have been more, and the particular items don't matter nearly as much as seeing someone light up and knowing that they're happy.

And in every case, the best of all is being with the few people in my little family - there's not too many of us, but we make up for it with raucous good times that last well into the night. Things come and go. People are the deeper, more meaningful joy.

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Nice. I especially love the story about your stereo gift. Reminds me what a real gift is all about - what makes another truly happy. Who then, receives the greatest pleasure?

Isn't it lovely that we can share the "deeper, more meaningful joy" with a simple hug and a smile. No dollars needed.

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Well, I have to say, your ($200) gift-styling was pretty amazing. I doubt I'd ever have thought of something like that.

But yeah, lately I've been telling family members not to give me objects. I have enough objects. Maybe too many. I generally suggest a donation to Doctors Without Borders or Habitat, or maybe the Heifer Project.

I'll settle for the closeness. That's enough for me.

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And as long as you feel that way, you already have your gift.

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My sister (yeah, the Right-Leaning Independent one) had me going for months, making me think she had bought be something amazing like a hot new outfit that I could wear to school...

Christmas morning comes, and I get this huge box from her, and I open it, and there's nothing but tissue paper and old magazines and newspaper and then finally, finally, a shoebox at the bottom.

I open up the shoebox, and find more paper. I rip out all the tissue paper and there, at the bottom of the shoebox, two tickets to the Broadway musical "Annie", which I've been singing along to all year long.

She took me on the train from CT to NYC and we sat together at the theatre in our nice seats and I loved her so much I wanted to die just to thank her.

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Oops, forgot to say that this was in the late 70's. But then, I'd be giving away my age, wouldn't I? Oops, too late.

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You made me tear up, thank you. What a wonderful memory for you both. Hang on to that when you need to ... okay?

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Cool. Not a musical fan myself, but the real value wasn't in the show. You have a good sister...

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Yes, to both of you. Yes, I do hang on to memories like that when I need to. And yes, I do have a good sister. I have many good sisters. I'm very grateful for that.

This year, we aren't giving presents to each other, my sisters and I. The economy and all the nieces and nephews and all that. We give to the kids because this is their time, not ours any longer. We're cool with that. The kids are happy, and that's what counts.

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Good evening, all. Thanks for inviting me in. I remember one year in college, I was essentially broke. Mom sent me money so I could get home for the holidays. I wrote poems for my sibs and parents. I still remember my sister Alison remarking how she thought my gift was the best of all. Sweet memory. On the receiving side I remember waking up in third grade, and trouncing downstairs with my sisters to find a long velvet cord attached to the Christmas tree with a note exhorting us to follow the cord. We did. Into the basement where a deluxe ping-pong table awaited us. We played ping-pong all day while we weren't eating and continued to do so for many years to come. My dad had been the champion of his destroyer group in WWII so it took many years for me to best him but he was a good teacher and didn't take advantage of us as novices.

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Hahahaha! The $200 gift story is hysterical.

Now that I think about it, the most memorable gift I ever gotten was from a little cousin of mine when we were both still very young. His parents didn't want to spend any money on me, so he wrapped up one of his possessions, an old wooden elephant that had holes in the back to hold crayons - complete with crayons broken off in the holes, and I'm sure my face when I opened the old crusty thing was one of "WT..?". At the time I thought it pretty lame, but as I think of it now, decades later, the memory is warm and pleasant. Thank you for helping me remember that.

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