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Bristol's Choice -vs- "Megan's" Choice

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As much as Bristol Palin's pregnancy has been batted about in the MSM and the blogs, I believe something important has been left out of the discussion.

Even John Stewart missed it yesterday when chatting with Newt Gingrich; Stewart noted that the press release stated that it was "Bristol's decision to have her baby" -- a choice the McCain/Palin ticket would seek to take away from American women.

But here's what's missing in the coverage and discussion:

While it will be the most life changing event of her life, Bristol Palin's pregnancy will have less of an effect on her life then a pregnant teenager living in, say, Appalachia. A teenager I'll call "Megan"."

You see, Bristol has the support of a loving family. "Megan" might not. "Megan" most likely comes from a dysfunctional family.

Bristol, as a governor's daughter, will have access to more than adequate prenatal care. "Megan" might not.

Bristol will always be able to get to her appointments. "Megan" might not.

Bristol, and her child, will have excellent care after the baby is born. "Megan" might not.

Bristol will have access to excellent child care while she finishes high school. "Megan" might not.

Bristol will have someone to care for the child if she decides to go to college. Not only will "Megan" almost certainly not have someone to care for her child if she wanted to attend college, she almost certainly won't be able to afford to go to college in the first place.

Bristol, due to her mother's turn in the spotlight, will have life chances denied "Megan", living a life of quiet desparation in the mountains of Appalachia.

So. While her pregnancy will be a significant life change for Bristol Palin, it will not destroy her life chances, or those of her child.

For "Megan", however, an unwanted pregnancy will significantly impact the odds she'll finish high school, and put college out of reach, if not out of imagining. Lack of an adequate education will significantly impact "Megan's" chances at getting a well paying job. Which will significantly impact her housing, her health...and almost certainly lead to a sense hopelessness and helplessness. All of which will impact her child's chances. And thus the wheel turns. And turns. And turns.

In sum; while Bristol Palin's pregnancy looks familiar to many American families, in the details, it is nothing like the majority of teen pregnancies in America. Nothing like the challenges faced by "Danielle" in urban America, or "Amanda" in suburban America, or "Nicole" in rural America.

Not. Even. Close.


Comments (5)

Fantastic thread. Bristol will have all she needs to take care of her child, however, this is NOT the case with millions of young women who KNOW they won't be able to care for a child if they were to have one. Being pro choice does not mean you are pro abortion, so Bristol's CHOICE should be brought to the forefront.

This is a great post and I might add that there is little to no chance that Bristol would have to resort to a profession like stripping or something demeaning like that to make ends meet for her and her child; but Meagan, Danielle, Amanda & Nicole may have to at some point.

I'm not making light of this serious topic as I have seen teen pregnancy first hand push otherwise normal & intelligent teenagers to desperate places they never would have otherwise gone.

Privileged is the word you're looking for....yes.

Privileged - yes. Thank you.

I strongly believe that the "privileged" position the Palins are in, like the McCains, serves to isolate them from how it is for /real/ American families. They simply don't have to make desperate choices - as JohnAH noted.

Privileged - yes. Thank you.

I strongly believe that the "privileged" position the Palins are in, like the McCains, serves to isolate them from how it is for /real/ American families. They simply don't have to make desperate choices - as JohnAH noted.

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