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Your Thoughts on the Edwards Scandal

Former NC Sen. John Edwards admits to ABC's Bob Woodruff that he did have an affair with novice filmmaker Rielle Hunter, but says he is not the father of her baby.

Is this the end of the political road for Edwards?


Comments (71)

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He is the scum of the earth and the newest member of the Newt Gingrich club.

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The following excerpt from the ABC report stands out for me.


"Edwards said his wife, Elizabeth, and others in his family became aware of the affair in 2006."

If that is true, then he has now also seriously damaged his wife's reputation, if she was still pushing to get him the nomination after she had learned that he was the new Gary Hart.

What is it with wife's of politicians. Are they just as driven for fame as their cheating husbands? How else can one explain why they continue to enable the cheating creeps that they are married too.

Elizabeth campaigned hard to get John the nomination, after she, according to her husband, already knew that he had this giant skeleton in his closet.

The first thought that came to my mind, when I read this news was that it killed any slim chance Hillary may have had to be picked as VP. There is no way that Senator Obama can pick her now, because the news about John Edwards cheating, is going to resurrect all of Bill's sordid history.

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edit: should read

What is it with wives of politicians

Nice theory - not only did Hillary get tainted because her husband cheated on her, she's now tainted because Edwards cheated on his wife. Somewhere in Bangalore there's infidelity and it will reflect badly on Hillary as well.

We need a woman president. Bad.

And the secret? Yes, sometimes women can be overnice to husbands who don't deserve it. They're so used to being in supportive roles, they don't see when it's time to step out.

Which doesn't mean that infidelity needs to end in divorce, to clarify.

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Breaking news for you, dimwit!

They were cheating with, brace yourself for the shocking revelation, WOMEN.

Women cheat too.

Was she cheating on her husband? Or was she single?

Of course women do cheat on their marriages. But to date there hasn't been divulged a large cottage industry of Washington call boy services or airport stalls to cater to their sexual needs.

Even "family men" fuck up now and then. This is between Edwards and his wife. Period. That he learned a lesson and came out stronger for it is one of two ways these things go in life. Even Bill Clinton's cheating isn't what pisses me off about his presidency.

I can't believe any serious progressive gives a fuck about any of this. It is none of our business, regardless of what the man decided to pursue as a career. Democrats ask for the government to stay out of American bedrooms only turn that same puritanical eye on the beds of our representatives. They are every bit as puerile as the Raging Right.

Glass houses and stones and pots and kettles certainly come to mind given the divorce rate in this country on both sides of the aisle.

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John Edwards outed himself. He didn't need to confess publicly. Progressives didn't force him to confess. I personally wish he'd kept his goddamn mouth shut and handled his private problems in private.

Who cares!?

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I'm sure Edwards supporters care a lot. It's a private tragedy but Liam makes the good point above that the man campaigned as a "family man" dedicated to his wife and children. These Southern boys cannot keep their pants zipped.

Exactly, Norse God!

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Apparently John Edwards cares, loki. He mistakenly thought we would care, too.

I'm very disappointed in Edwards but think it's a very silly question with Bill Clinton and others with very successful careers. McCain is running for president for crying out loud!

I don't think it's a silly question. Gary Hart's career never recovered from a rumored dalliance with Donna Rice. Former President Clinton was impeached for matters swirling about his liaison with Ms. Lewinsky and Paula Jones, while Gennifer Flowers lurked in the background. Would Clinton have been an even more successful President if he was not consumed by scandal? McCain's dumping of one wife to acquire another happened at the start of his political career -- but it cost him dearly with his influential friends, especially the Reagans. Rudy Giuliani's career has not been the same since he dumped Donna Hanover at press conference and confirmed his then affair with his now wife Judith. Newt Gingrich -- thrice-married now -- dumped one wife suffering from a brain tumor for another and went through contentious divorce with number two who revealed his affair with number three. Gingrich is on the sidelines now.

We have politicians who rant about defending marriage from assaults by homosexuals (no gay marriage!) and yet what marriage seems to need defense from the most is infidelity. And those who rant the loudest are often the most guilty.

Perhaps it's too idealistic, but what does it say about a candidate's honesty and integrity if he will cheat on his spouse and lie to the people closest to him? Can you believe what he says about the issues that affect you?

I haven't quite figured out what I think about Edwards other than feeling enormous disappointment in him and if the timeline is correct, in Elizabeth too.

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Amen to that.

I would like to think we could all grow up since Gary Hart was drummed out of politics for a non-issue. Why do we continue to act like any of this is our business?

Just imagine how different things might have been with a President Hart. The guy is freaking brilliant, at least based on everything I have ever read or heard from the man.

Whatever private pain this has caused Elizabeth is now largely dealt with, as she learned of the affair two years ago. Edwards' should apologize now to his supporters for lying and for spending $114,000 of campaign cash to chase a skirt who had no experience producing the campaigns vids she was hired to produce.

Edwards always did blink too much for my tastes, and I could not help thinking it wasn't because of contact lenses.

The truthseekers of the world will have a field day, but this falls short of fathering a baby.

Sex seems to too easily follow power.

Even though the Senate Republicans welcomed back David Vitter, I doubt they'll be supportive of Edwards. I expect they'll work him into McCain's next attack ad.

I guess now he's officially a celebrity, in all possibile definitions of the word

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Bingo!

I am so tired of hearing about what these politicians are doing with their pants off (although any scandal involving McCain would be a thrill - and a hoot!). I feel sorry for Edward's wife though. Thank God he didn't get the nomination.

John McCain seems to be scandal-proof regardless of his behavior.

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/jane-smiley/hiding-the-scumbag_b_117892.html

An exerpt:

So, John McCain had a lengthy affair with a young rich woman, left his wife for her when she was crippled from a car accident, and went on to live off the new wife, for decades, and it's not a scandal. Why is that? Why is a misstep, followed by anger and reconciliation, a scandal, while actual bona fide betrayal followed by abandonment (and, let's say, a parasitic lifestyle) is just one of those things?

It is said that the first Mrs. McCain has forgiven her former husband. It is said Elizabeth Edwards has forgiven her current husband.

I know, I know, the National Enquirer never went after McCain. Why is that? When there seemed to be a bit of a smoking gun about John McCain and a lobbyist earlier this year, The National Enquirer didn't touch it. The lobbyist was disappeared, the New York Times dropped the story, and shhh. NO scandal. Why is that? Wouldn't I, as a citizen, rather my president slept with a filmmaker than a lobbyist?

I remain extremely disappointed in Edwards, and it is mainly because he should have known all this would come back to haunt him; it would wound his family and ruin his credibility for the things that he cares mightily about. Regardless of whether it SHOULD, it simply DOES. He may have a political life, but it will be much less vigorous than it could have been.

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Karma pays a little visit to John Edwards?


"I think this President has shown a remarkable disrespect for his office, for the moral dimensions of leadership, for his friends, for his wife, for his precious daughter. It is breathtaking to me the level to which that disrespect has risen."

-- John Edwards, quoted by the Raleigh News & Observer in 1999, on Bill Clinton.

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Karma, indeed.

I still like him.

After all, he did single-handedly make universal health care the first issue of the 2008 primary, and Obama and (former candidate) Hillary's proposals were more-or-less lifted directly from Edwards'.

Additionally, he bullied the Democratic party into ostracizing FOX News, who deserved it more than any other network.

Would that the remaining Democratic candidates in the primary had been as issue-focused as Edwards, we would have all been spared the nasty personal shit pre- and post-PA.

I still like him.

Nonsense - health care was a natural part of Hillary's policy focus.

Will this be Obama's fault??? What of King George and Condi's affair? Isn't true that Laura Bush is moving out to separate living quarters in Dallas as soon as they leave Washington?

edwards will be out of the public light and the details are of a private nature. I hope we can move past story quickly and leave the edwards alone!

I sure hope Hillary doesn't seize the moment to play her scorned woman card, in an attempt to make herself relevant again. Yea, I know it's cynical of me, but the strongest message that has come out of this entire election cycle for me, is never underestimate the power of the Clintons to self-promote!

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More Republican slime. When asked by a reporter, Hillary said her prayers are with Elizabeth and the Edwards family and she had no further comments.

It could be argued that if John Edwards had not run, Hillary would have come in a respectable 2nd in Iowa and competed better in Edwards's home district in South Carolina. If he hadn't run, she might, in fact, be our nominee. The Edwardses have been extremely stingy toward Hillary, and she owes them nothing.

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Stupid. Stupid. Stupid.

John Edwards was stupid for going there. Elizabeth Edwards was stupid for supporting him so strongly, knowing what he had done. The Americans in general are stupid for being so pathetically hyper-puritanical about sex.

For (insert diety of choice here)'s sake, the sex drive is the second strongest drive we have after the drive to survive.

I'm not saying we should all go out and have affairs, but I am really sick and tired of our inability to separate a person's sex life from his/her work life.

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Ripper says:
"Whatever private pain this has caused Elizabeth is now largely dealt with, as she learned of the affair two years ago."

But ABC story says:
"Edwards today admitted the National Enquirer was correct when it reported he had visited Hunter at the Beverly Hills Hilton last month. - The former Senator said his wife had not known about the meeting."

Try being lied to - being confessed to -- working through all that to get to forgiveness and putting it all behind you -- only to find that, once again, you're being lied to.

That's the part of the account that, quite literally, makes my stomach turn over, and I don't want to think of the new pain she's having to deal with now.

Was Edwards' political career going some place before the scandal news broke? It seemed to me he had gone as far as he could go as a politician with the demise of his run for the presidency.

Honestly, my innermost thoughts upon hearing this breaking news were:

1. Whew, we dodged a bullet.
2. Now I feel slightly justified in never warming to Edwards.
3. Hmm, what should I have for lunch: sushi, or a burrito?

Why does that make you feel justified in not liking him? See, it's that attitude that he's all of a sudden a horrible guy that empowers this prudish hypocrisy that ensures that we get liars and/or self-righteous puritans in the White House

I was just thinking if Elizabeth doesn't divorce him immediately we'll know it's a calculated act to further their careers and it just goes to show how venal she is. Or however this argument's been posed the last few years.

People are crazy loose with all their judgement. So much righteousness, how do they breathe?

Well fwiw I never said he was a horrible guy. I'm just glad he's not our candidate, we've got a tough enough time cutting through the b.s. as it is.

Go Fish!

Yep... or, I think... is eel a fish?

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Offshore Drilling is very risky for politicians. Storms can erupt and create the need for massive cleanups.

This post will soon climb to No.1 on the TPM charts in the next couple of hours. That's my thoughts.


Oh, thank god Edwards ain't be on the democratic ticket this november.

I would be more forgiving if he had run to be president of France. Everyone would have shrugged their shoulders over the revelation and wondered why it was on the news. In this country, to hide such baggage from his Democratic supporters, however, was selfish in the extreme, although he will not have been the first to do so. In fact, two of the last four Democratic presidents had major zipper issues.

McCain cheated on his first wife with his current one...so is there a statute of limitation on cheating?

Honestly, that he cheated says nothing - nothing, nothing, nothing - about how good he would be as president. It's infantile to think otherwise and one reason this country is in such a mess is that hypocritical prigs are running the show. It's hypocrisy because Americans are horribly unfaithful, we divorce, we cheat, we have a million fetishes, but oh, we get so precious when someone gets caught.

Honestly, the hysterical condemnations of cheating men sound like the frightened attempts of women who think fear is the only thing keeping their men in their lives.

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Its' when someone cheats and then acts holier than thou that we get pissed. Don't lecture to us about values then go violate them. That's called hypocrisy, and no one likes that. Period.

You and I generally never agree. On this, I'm totally with you. I cannot stand all this priggish, puritanical howling.

Ditto to both of you. It's why I am now a Bull Moose Republican. I find the antics of the modern incarnations of both parties very tiresome.

Being guilty of a moral lapse in judgement is one thing. However, IMHO being a hypocrite is quite another:

In 1999, when Edwards was a senator, he said of President Clinton and his affair with Monica Lewinsky:

"I think this president has shown a remarkable disrespect for his office, for the moral dimensions of leadership, for his friends, for his wife, for his precious daughter. It is breathtaking to me the level to which that disrespect has risen."

http://news.yahoo.com/s/ap/20080808/ap_on_el_pr/edwards_affair


I apologize. I didn't see the post above with the same quote. However, I didn't provide a link to the quote.

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>>>Honestly, that he cheated says nothing - nothing, nothing, nothing - about how good he would be as president.

But the fact that he was willing to take enormous risks with his party and (if successful) his country DOES say something about how good he would be as president.

Same goes for Clinton. Because he was so addicted to high-risk behavior and then dealt with it by lying, etc., our country was paralyzed for many long months, partisan divide was magnified, and one can argue we got Shrub because people were so turned off by 'Democratic leadership.' That DOES matter.

And if the Vanity Fair article has credibility, we might have been in as untenable a position if Hillary had been nominated as we would if Edwards had been (not, I should add, because of her own behavior however).

Right, Hillary is a lesbian and killed Vince Foster after seducing him.

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Well, doing much worse sure wasn't the end for Newt Gingrich....
and David Vitter is doing fine, thank you. What I wonder about though is why Elizabeth Edwards would have gone along with keeping this a secret during a Presidential run. I guarantee: had, in late 2006, John Edwards come out with a mea culpa (and especially he is not the father), it probably wouldn't have hurt him that much.
Especially with the wife by his side. And he wouldn't even have had to play the Republican scandal script: Republicans are to blame and God has forgiven me because God loves me.

Lessons, lessons, lessons.....

I guess the Professional Christians, for whom no good sex goes unpunished, won't be voting for Edwards now. Oh wait, they never would have anyway. Oh wait, he already lost. Still, an opportunity to feel smug and righteous is a terrible thing to waste.

PROFESSIONAL CHRISTIANS!


I love it!

Boy! I'd like to give Elizabeth Edwards' conduct the benefit of the doubt but I'm having trouble doing so.

Knowing he was damaged goods and there was a good chance his infidelity would come out, eventually, she gave him cover -- allowed him to waste the time and effort and money of his supporters and prevented them from donating those things to their second choice.

What was she going to say if he'd gotten the nomination and the news had come out in October 2008?

Eh. Sex happens. If I'm not involved, I'm not really all that interested. He prolly shouldn't have lied about it when he was asked about it though. People get uptight about politicians lying, even though we know that is something they do. I definitely think it's interesting that this story overshadowed a war between Russia and Georgia.

I feel that under the circumstances he is a man who had an affair and stopped... owned up to it with his family and tried to prevent them from being further hurt by press about it. Now that he sses it's unavoidable he owns up to it and apologizes for his 'mistake'.

How superhuman do people expect our leaders to be really? I would much rather have a man like Edwards in office than Cinton who lied about it.

I have much more respect for the 'take responsiblity', 'apologize', 'make amends' approach...

I would much rather George Bush's human failings were something of this nature than his desire to rule as a dictator and bring about Armageddon.

European's see us as a very sexually dysfunctional and immature country. I wonder why??? I frankly was disappointed and suprised when I saw the Huffpost use this as their headline story in the style of the National Enquirer and claimed to be the 'first' to interview the woman etc. Who cares who was first? It is just remarkable to me that the media falls into this pattern...

Oh, and if I had my choice, I would still pick Edwards for VP.

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(Note: The following is a practical discussion, not idealistic.)

My guess is that John Edwards' political career is effectively over. Elizabeth Edwards, however, may very well be able to move into elected office, should she desire to do so.

I think it's stupid for a high profile politician to get involved in extramarital activities of any kind. It's just stupid behavior, but it's incredibly human. How many people end up being unfaithful to their husbands and wives in this country - in the world - and somehow don't get all over the tabloids?

Sure, we expect more of our politicians. We expect them not to lie, but everyone lies about sex, especially the elicit angle of it. How many politicians would admit to masturbating? How many of you would?

Nobody is going to have an affair and then stand up and say, look here, I just had sex with someone not my wife or husband. Don't be ridiculous.

Clinton lied about Monica. Of course he did. JFK had mistresses brought in by the Secret Service - and he was married to Jackie O! It's entirely likely that many other presidents had mistresses, too. Certainly Edwards and Clinton weren't the first to do so, though they did get caught, and that makes them fools, where the others who did not get caught are just politicians of whatever stripe.

Sex is such a powerful, yet shameful, part of our lives in this country. The shame is that it is so shameful. And powerful people are often in a position to act upon their impulses, and they do. Probably they shouldn't. They should know better. They should exercise self-control. But sometimes they do it, just like everyone else. They fall from grace. They fail in their sexual integrity.

The irony of this is that good people can still do "bad" things where sex is involved and still be good people. Sex is private, and it's our natural tendency to keep it that way, whether it is legitimate sex in our marriages or elicit sex outside of marriage. It's still something we don't go talking about in public unless we're porn stars.

That someone who has an affair will lie about it is self-protection. Every husband or wife who cheats lies about it. Some come clean ultimately. Some never do, unless they are caught. But their first impulse is always to lie.

It's so human nature, but it's shocking when a politician who we think and hope is honest does it. I know. It hurts. It outrages. But it's also further proof that even the mightiest politician is, in the end, human, and nobody wants to admit they fucked the wrong person. Nobody.

It still doesn't make them villains. It just makes them human.

Recommend this comment in full. Great way to articulate what in my mind is summed up with, "None of your fucking business."

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Have you considered that there is possibly more going on than physical pleasure?

Consider the power one has over a worshipful groupie, particularly during sex.

Consider the thrill of a high risk action.

And then overlay the potential of a president with these "issues". But we dodged that bullet. But keep in mind, John was still being considered for VP or for a Cabinet post or other political job. That is not going to happen now.

This should be the lesson to politicians--the American public and the American voter don't like the lies and the hypocrisy. There's no "free pass" because it's sex. Now, the Edwards' can have their privacy and kiss good-bye to any dreams either of them had about an appointed or an elective political office.

Clinton's affair came out because of legal investigations inducing pre-trial discovery testimony. It was dug out, he hadn't engaged in public behavior, and he was under various unnecessary civil jeopardy that would have made acknowledging lead to only more absured discovery process. ("Tell us every female you've seen since you were 13? Name babysitters.")

I don't think Edwards is much better, but certainly his affair was less discreet.

It's the gift that keeps on giving.

This Edwards scandal puts a dark cloud once again over the Clintons and will certainly be the referendum on why the Obama campaign will need to take action to avoid any of these dubious connections that seem to have a scandal behind every door. It was just a few months ago we were focusing on that Gov. Spitzer and now this. Now look at the stories that were being reported before the Edwards admissions, it was Clintons, Clintons, Clintons now tell yourself why the Clintons are so special again, they are just guilty and the Edwards.

I feel this scandal effectively frees Obama on his decision to selecting a VP, he will ultimately choose a VP that is free of scandals like this which indirectly nails the coffin in the idea of a Obama-Clinton ticket. (Sighs relief)

I also think it would be wise for Obama to pick his VP before the convention, as half of the mainstream media will be flustered with the Edwards affair story, and NBC will be busy with the Olympics (no Morning Joe and Pat Buchanan to spread their anti-Obama talking points), perfect time to catch everyone off guard.

Gov. Kathleen Sebelius, now's your chance.

Very well stated... could not agree more.

was attempting to respond to raider99's post

One thing more that I would like to suggest is to consider the concepts of forgiveness and redemption.

Forgiveness is possible within a marriage when there is real love - the kind that is deeper than the surface. Betrayal is painful, but so is cancer. Sometimes we can overcome both of them and come out strong on the other side. Forgiveness is a very Christian value, but it is also a part of any transcendent view of the world. I know. I've been there, and love that is real can endure. That's why they call it "for better or for worse."

Redemption isn't about collecting McCain points and getting a ride on the Not-So-Straight Talk Express. It's about learning from mistakes and becoming stronger, clearer and more aware of your own strengths and weaknesses. Some people are serial abusers. Like other addicts, they don't learn from their repeated mistakes, but continually make excuses and repeat the same behaviors.

But for some people, mistakes are the greatest learning opportunities and the real chance to grow deeper and more self-aware. Through redemption can come strength, and if anything is needed when the sexual beast rears its head, it's strength of character.

I'm not talking here about John and Elizabeth Edwards. How they choose to handle this situation, and what the have learned from it are none of my business. I'm just speaking from experience and from my own viewpoint that all the moralizing that people do over other people's failures is often missing the fact that forgiveness, redemption and real abiding love are all possible in this world, cynical as it often seems.

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I'm a wife with cancer, so I admit I am not rational about this.

Caring for a spouse with cancer is one of the most stressful, frightening things that will ever happen to a person. At various times in this journey, I have issued a blanket, pre-emptive pardon to my husband for anything he might feel a need to do in the interests of his own self-care. So far, to my knowledge, he hasn't taken me up on that. But I can definitely see how Elizabeth Edwards would have compassion for her husband and forgive him and love him even more in the aftermath of an affaire.

But, the stress of all they were going through clearly affected their judgement as individuals and as a couple. Because, having an extra-marital affaire does not make a candidate unforgiveable. It makes him unelectable. Yet, like terrorists, they ran for president with this bomb strapped to their chests.

As for Elizabeth Edwards plea for privacy, she should know as well as anyone that people who deliberately put themselves in the public eye have no privacy. If she wanted to keep this strictly a family affair, she needed to veto the candidacy. Because, as it turns out, the personal truly is political.

As posted elsewhere, I reiterate:

As much as I deplore the media's feasting at the table of the Edward's table of misery, I do not agree that this is 'just about sex'.

Ah no, 'my friends' - this isn't a simple case (not to make light of adultery, as it is never simple or admirable) of infidelity. Much more.

Stop and consider for one moment please - Edwards was cognizant of his 'sordid affair' (I so love the '40's genre language from bad novels) when he threw his hat in the ring for POTUS. IF he had prevailed (which many thought was a distinct possibility at the onset) as the DNC nominee and this came out - well, most likely the Repubs wouldn't even need to try and rig the election.

And what if he took the VP spot (which he said he would if offered) - that would be just as bad. Or waited until Obama named him (of all things!) AG?
The fallout would be horrid.

Then there is the question of 'were campaign funds, contributions by unwitting supporters, diverted to accounts of this woman and Young?' If so, wrong on so many levels. (He didn't know? Perhaps - but no excuse, because it was his actions that created the mess.)

There are many other issues too.

But, this only proves that whatever we do creates a domino effect and will either benefit or harm others.

Nevertheless, his family should be left alone and the noxious gases being spat out by the media should be condemned and ceased immediately.

And another side note - it's seldom really about 'just sex'. And no, it isn't the sex that is any of our business - but his lack of concern for the potential damage (if lies revealed) to Obama, HRC, and DNC, et al. in this election is our business.

And Jade, to answer your question about his political future - my reply is, 'I certainly hope it is over. As it is said, fool me once, shame on you - if I come back for more, I deserve what I get.'

Good points. On the human side, I understand and think it's a private thing, but as you say, this was on the national stage, and to think that it could and would remain undisclosed and then to risk so much while carrying this "bomb" does seem of considerable importance. I still hope the Edwards can do good work in the world, but not as one of our elected officials.

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