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Songs I Want Played At My Funeral
Tears and Rain, by James Blunt
Nocturne, Op. 61 No.7 (from Midsummer Night's Dream), by Mendolssohn
Should I Stay or Should I Go Now, by The Clash
That's all I can think of for now, and, as it depends upon my mood which song eventually makes it into my will, when I don't even know when I'll write one, and I don't know what mood I'll be in when I do (or when I will pass, for that matter), I would like to keep it open, and have all three songs played.
Keep 'em guessing.
Not that I plan on dying any time soon, but when I read recently that The Clash's Joe Strummer had requested (and was granted his wish) that they play his Clash song "(White Man) In Hammersmith Palais" at his funeral, I decided I really should have a song that I love and have felt deep inside me was "my song" played at my funeral so that everyone who knew me and shows up anyway will walk away feeling that they still knew me and will still know me years later.
Joe Strummer felt that "(White Man) in Hammermith Palais" was his best song, ever. He wrote it because he wanted to make a statement about the time he was invited to appear at an all-black, mostly Jamaican band collaboration concert in London. He felt honored to be invited because he felt that the bands would fire up an important political movement with the help of its audience. He wanted the concert to make a difference. Instead, he sat through the show and felt that it was nothing but a "Four Tops all night with encores from stage right" affair, no statement made, and therefore, no point.
In his song about this experience, he moves from his bitterness about it to an overall picture of black/white society, followed by the more general rich/poor society, as it was in the tougher parts of Great Britain at the time - aw hell, just society - and then closes with what can only be one of the most bittersweet and enigmatic of lines. Here are the lyrics, for those of you still reading this and still interested:
Midnight to six man
For the first time from Jamaica
Dillinger and Leroy Smart
Delroy Wilson, your cool operator
Ken Boothe for UK pop reggae
With backing bands sound systems
And if they've got anything to say
There's many black ears here to listen
But it was Four Tops all night with encores from stage right
Charging from the bass knives to the treble
But onstage they ain't got no roots rock rebel
Onstage they ain't got no...roots rock rebel
Dress back jump back this is a bluebeat attack
'Cos it won't get you anywhere
Fooling with your guns
The British Army is waiting out there
An' it weighs fifteen hundred tons
White youth, black youth
Better find another solution
Why not phone up Robin Hood
And ask him for some wealth distribution
Punk rockers in the UK
They won't notice anyway
They're all too busy fighting
For a good place under the lighting
The new groups are not concerned
With what there is to be learned
They got Burton suits, ha you think it's funny
Turning rebellion into money
All over people changing their votes
Along with their overcoats
If Adolf Hitler flew in today
They'd send a limousine anyway
I'm the all night drug-prowling wolf
Who looks so sick in the sun
I'm the white man in the Palais
Just lookin' for fun
I'm only
Looking for fun
/end lyrics
Joe Strummer was the voice of The Clash. Obviously, he was also the voice of his time and place.
But, I digress.
I was speaking of my funeral song choices. If I think of any more songs, I'll add them to my list of, so far, three.
I can just imagine the faces of my funeral gatherers when all three songs are played in succession and at a healthy volume.
But, I digress.
So, I am into The Clash (with an emphasis on Paul Simonon, bass) after many years of not being into the Clash, and so I'm catching up and have recently discovered that a) Paul Simonon is an artist (oil paintings) and recently, this year, opened yet another show in London to great success and b) in 2005 he got back out of the artist studio and into the musical one, and collaborated with Damon Alburn (the Blur, Gorillaz, et. al.), Simon Tong (guitarist from The Verve), and Tony Allen, one of the primary co-founders of afrobeat, on an album entitled "The Good, The Bad & The Queen" (hereinafter known as "TGTBTQ").
No Clash sound here, except perhaps in "Three Changes", and no Verve sound here, except perhaps in the title track "TGTBTQ" when Simon Tong's guitar rips new holes in rockdom's ass with a great sense of humor and relish; no Blur sound here, except when Damon opens his mouth or smashes his fingers against the willing ivorie, and all the while Tony Allen keeps a jazz/reggae/afrobeat/you name it throb and pssshhhttt going on almost in spite of it all.
This album does not rock -- yet it rocks-- except for a few exceptions. This album is mellow, veddy British (the darker/sometimes lighter side), and makes one, for the most part, sit back and just get mellow. Think Cold Play, but better. Stronger. Tighter. Yet more relaxed. And more rockin'. Yeah, that kind of album. Just so you know.
There are surprises....but they're all good.
I enjoy watching youtube footage of "TGTBTQ" live performances because I love to watch Paul Simonon move. Back when he was in The Clash, he kept his bass slung low, below the hips, resting on his upper thighs, and in interviews admitted that a) when he joined the band he didn't know how to play a guitar or bass yet found the bass easier to learn, b) he taped the letters of each chord to his fret and looked at them in great need in the very earliest Clash days, and c) he felt the bass was so heavy at times that his shoulder strap needed cushioning with whatever he could use as a shoulder pad.
As an aside, when he and the rest of The Clash played the song he wrote, "The Guns of Brixton", on stage, Paul would switch guitars with Joe Strummer in order to play rhythm guitar instead of bass, because he felt a little nervous concentrating on both the bass and his lyrics/singing.
That was then, this is now. In 2005-2007 youtube.com video footage of TGTBTQ live performances he holds the bass to his belly with no strap half the time. Yet he still bounces around, shuffles around, slides around, grooves around, jerks his shoulders around, his hips around, his knees around, and his feet around, always to the beat and always looking neat, just like he did in the Clash days.
The man has learned his craft(s). And he still looks fookin' sexy.
Would you look at me, I'm turning Brit. Oi.
But, I digress.
When I listen to this album by "TGTBTQ", I feel melancholy, then elated, bounced up, bounced back, mad as hell then happy as hell, and glad that Paul Simonon learned how to play the bass.
Next week, I think I might cover the work of Leonard Cohen. Until then, yours truly,
LisB (Working towards Unity, one song at a time)











Comments (26)
Sorry, Lis, but I can't resist.
One of my favourite stories... Billy Connelly, (Scottish comedian) has made a recording and requested that the tape be placed just under the soil in front of his gravestone. The idea is that anyone visiting it will trigger the recording.
`You're steppin' on my balls!`
July 2, 2008 9:15 PM | Reply | Permalink
pinot noir, I prefer Pinot Grigio. Or beer.
Just so you know.
But I laughed at your comment because I also am reminded of an awful (yet somehow comic -- dark, dark) thing that my ex-boyfriend once said about his dad. He said, "When dad dies, we're gonna taxiderm him so he's standing up in the living room with his hands on his hips, with one of those supermarket automatic step-on triggers that when you step on it, he says, "Where's my money?".
I've been considering that one myself, sometimes, but not often. I think I'd rather let out a loud fart on command, followed by an, "Ooops" and, somehow, a blush.
But, I overtax the taxidermists with that one, methinks.
July 2, 2008 9:27 PM | Reply | Permalink
Oh my goodness! It will smell like roses, though, right?
I was wondering if you liked the Clash.
July 2, 2008 9:49 PM | Reply | Permalink
1977.
Clampdown.
Tommy Gun.
Radio Clash.
Yeah...I like them well enough.
July 2, 2008 10:21 PM | Reply | Permalink
Woke up this morning
Put on my slippers
Walked in the kitchen and died
And oh what a feeling!
When my soul
Went thru the ceiling
And on up into heaven I did ride
When I got there they did say
John, it happened this way
You slipped upon the floor
And hit your head
And all the angels say
Just before you passed away
These were the very last words
That you said:
Please don't bury me
Down in that cold cold ground
No, I'd druther have "em" cut me up
And pass me all around
Throw my brain in a hurricane
And the blind can have my eyes
And the deaf can take both of my ears
If they don't mind the size
Give my stomach to Milwaukee
If they run out of beer
Put my socks in a cedar box
Just get "em" out of here
Venus de Milo can have my arms
Look out! I've got your nose
Sell my heart to the junkman
And give my love to Rose
But please don't bury me
Down in that cold cold ground
No, I'd druther have "em" cut me up
And pass me all around
Throw my brain in a hurricane
And the blind can have my eyes
And the deaf can take both of my ears
If they don't mind the size
Give my feet to the footloose
Careless, fancy free
Give my knees to the needy
Don't pull that stuff on me
Hand me down my walking cane
It's a sin to tell a lie
Send my mouth way down south
And kiss my ass goodbye
Please don't bury me
Down in that cold cold ground
No, I'd druther have "em" cut me up
And pass me all around
Throw my brain in a hurricane
And the blind can have my eyes
And the deaf can take both of my ears
If they don't mind the size
July 2, 2008 10:39 PM | Reply | Permalink
Steve Goodman "A Dying Cub Fan's Last Request"
Curtis Mayfield "People Get Ready" (Now if there was just some way of adding Jeff Beck's insanely hot guitar work from the otherwise forgettable Rod Stewart version...)
Bruce Springsteen - almost anything, really
Ludwig van Beethoven - Symphony No. 9, 1st movement
Johann Sebastian Bach - Three Part Inventions (Wanda Landowska version, please)
The Persuasions "Looking for an Echo"
Off the top of my head - I'm sure I'll think of more with a bit of time.
July 2, 2008 11:03 PM | Reply | Permalink
And how could I possibly have forgotten:
Warren Zevon's "I'll Sleep When I'm Dead"
July 2, 2008 11:06 PM | Reply | Permalink
Mixing heartbreak, motor oil and Bombay gin, are ya? ;-)
July 2, 2008 11:20 PM | Reply | Permalink
Don't it make you want to rock and roll...all night long?
Oh yes, and I much prefer the live versions from "Stand in the Fire".
July 2, 2008 11:27 PM | Reply | Permalink
Hi Lis!
I love that you ponder what songs you want played at your funeral. I confess I've thought about that too.
Your love of the Clash intrigues me. I'll have to pay more attention to the songs you described to really get the effect of playing them consecutively.
My mother died when I was eleven (she was 44), and so I spent the next 20 or so years thinking (not consciously, really) that I'd probably die at around the same age, too. So I kind of did think about death more than a normal person would.
Now that I'm 44 -- and now that I've become conscious of my early-death assumption -- I've learned to worry a lot less about dying young. But I still sometimes think about what kind of final, loving message I want to leave behind for the humans I cared about.
For my funeral, I want the song that best captures my feeling about God (which I was trying to explain to "Tankard" on another thread tonight). Actually, the way I experience spirituality is expressed pretty well in this song by Austin's own Bob Schneider. It's called "The World Exploded Into Love". You've probably already heard it; but if not, you might be pleasantly surprised.
Now I gotta listen to that "Hammersmith Palais" tune you described.
Merci beaucoup.
--Laura
P.S. I really enjoyed the backstory you gave of Paul Simonon's early days with the bass!
July 2, 2008 11:39 PM | Reply | Permalink
I need to get back to Sixth Street!
And fast!
Great tune, Laura!
July 3, 2008 1:00 AM | Reply | Permalink
You and the Missus planning a vacation to the Central Texas area? You better let me know about it if you are! I got some thangs to recommend!!
July 3, 2008 1:31 AM | Reply | Permalink
There's a poem I keep thinking of, about funerals, and I thought it was by William Cullen Bryant, but when I search the internet I cannot find it.
My book of best-beloved American Poetry has been sent to the (scream) storage room in my apartment, wherein all things lay in haphazard fashion.
I must dig it up.
No pun intended.
July 2, 2008 11:48 PM | Reply | Permalink
Erm, but...not tonight. Must....go.....to....bed.
July 2, 2008 11:59 PM | Reply | Permalink
Okay, I went to bed, only to jump up, real fast, and realize that maybe it was Countee Cullen I was thinking of, and not William Cullen Bryant. I mean, it's understandable. Almost. Countee Cullen, William Cullen Bryant.
But I digress.
Here is Countee Cullen's "For A Lady I Know":
She even thinks that up in heaven
Her class lies late and snores,
while poor black cherubs rise at seven
to do celestial chores.
And the poem that I keep thinking of basically said, "Don't give me a funeral march, a coffin, through town. Put me in a wheel barrow, if that." And then went on about women wearing mourning hats and such.
But it wasn't Countee Cullen, and it wasn't William Cullen Bryant.
Dammit. I wish I could dare to venture into my (scream) storage room, this late at night, alone.
Ah well. I will find it, eventually. Unless one of you knows what the hell I'm talking about, and is willing to save me a trip into the (scream) storage room, this late at night.
July 3, 2008 12:40 AM | Reply | Permalink
Lis, since you mention moving on to Leonard Cohen:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6OEBI9VvF34&feature=related
Some think Cohen writes too much of death, but more often it's about redemption.
July 3, 2008 1:06 AM | Reply | Permalink
here's one you might enjoy: R. vaughn williams - 'lark ascending' - would love to know yr thoughts of this at some point.
July 3, 2008 2:36 AM | Reply | Permalink
Thanks for all the suggestions. I will be busy tonight on the internet, looking at all this stuff.
Oh, and good news. My poetry book is in the living room after all, and not the (scream) storage room. As soon as I get home around 2:30 EST today, I will tell you who the funeral poet is/was, and will share the poem with you.
July 3, 2008 8:08 AM | Reply | Permalink
Best song *ever* for a funeral: "You'll Have Time," from William Shatner's shockingly good album, "Has Been" (produced by Ben Folds, and won a Grammy - well worth checking out for the song "Common People" alone.) Rather than posting the lyrics here in their entirety, you can find them here:
http://www.absolutelyrics.com/lyrics/view/william_shatner/you'll_have_time/
Yeah, I know. It's not a link. Sorry. Enjoy....but I hope that no one here will require these funeral-related songs - no matter how good - at any time in the near future. :)
July 3, 2008 12:18 PM | Reply | Permalink
OMG, I love it!! Thanks!!
July 3, 2008 12:39 PM | Reply | Permalink
You're very welcome. :)
The fact that the song is delivered with a full-on gospel arrangement is the icing on the cake.
July 3, 2008 1:11 PM | Reply | Permalink
I had one more idea this morning as I was walking in to work. (Love nearby clients!)
"A Nightingale Sang in Berkeley Square" - as performed by Stephane Grappelli.
If you're not familiar with his work, he may well have been the best violinist who ever lived. That he played swingy jazz is just gravy.
July 3, 2008 1:14 PM | Reply | Permalink
I found my funeral poem, finally. And boy, was I way off. It was William Carlos Williams!
Here's a link to his poem, Tract:
http://www.poemhunter.com/poem/tract/
July 3, 2008 2:40 PM | Reply | Permalink
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZsHxOInmbXA
July 3, 2008 4:37 PM | Reply | Permalink
And if you want a tear shed:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WSjmvU_8xLY
July 3, 2008 4:43 PM | Reply | Permalink
Well, there's always one-hit wonder Norman Greenbaum's "Spirit in the Sky" with that cool guitar echo effect...
When I die and they lay me to rest
Gonna go to the place that's the best
When I lay me down to die
Goin' up to the spirit in the sky
Goin' up to the spirit in the sky
That's where I'm gonna go when I die
When I die and they lay me to rest
Gonna go to the place that's the best
Prepare yourself you know it's a must
Gotta have a friend in Jesus
So you know that when you die
He's gonna recommend you
To the spirit in the sky
Gonna recommend you
To the spirit in the sky
That's where you're gonna go when you die
When you die and they lay you to rest
You're gonna go to the place that's the best
Never been a sinner I never sinned
I got a friend in Jesus
So you know that when I die
He's gonna set me up with
The spirit in the sky
Oh set me up with the spirit in the sky
That's where I'm gonna go when I die
When I die and they lay me to rest
I'm gonna go to the place that's the best
Go to the place that's the best
Hey, it's got a good beat and it's easy to dance to... LOL
July 3, 2008 5:48 PM | Reply | Permalink
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