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Josh Marshall: I Love a Good Slavery Joke
On the front page of today's TPM is Josh Marshall:
I guess I love a good slavery joke as much as the next guy. So here's a terribly witty Jonah Goldberg column in which he belittles slavery and debt peonage by comparing them to requiring college students to do a few hours of community service in exchange for taxpayer-subsidized student loans or getting kids to volunteer for Americorps.
Okaa--aaaaa-aaaaaa-ay....
Call me "over-sensitive" and tell me that I need to go out and buy a sense of humor, but slavery has never been something I find funny. Maybe not being one of the "regular, working, hardworking Americans" -- you know, those blue-collar, regular people who understand these things makes me "arrogant, elitist, and out of touch" with the Applebee's salad bar crowd.
Now, granted, I may be just a little too close to the subject at hand, having had some not too distant relatives who enjoyed the "benefits" of slavery. You know, traveling to an exotic distant land, chained head to foot in the lower decks of a ship, packed in tightly (apparently for our safety, the Middle Passage version of "seat belts"). Greeted with the exciting prospect of toiling for hours in the hot sun on an actual working plantation (the 18th and 19th century version of a "dude ranch vacation.") The cuisine is not four-star, Michelin rated, but one can make do. You have to make your own entertainment. Be wary of the over-zealous "fitness directors" who follow a more literal interpretation of "crack the whip" than you might be used to. Above all, don't go off the property for any self-paced activities or "unauthorized" visits north to the seaside resorts of say, Boston or New York City, to stretch your legs and enjoy a little, er, "freedom."
But, I have digressed. The point that struck me was how easy one could substitute the "N Word" for slavery and continue reading -- thinking "oh, boy that's gonna be real funny." And I was thinking that's how so many people tell disparaging ethnic jokes and racial jokes and gay jokes and feel okay doing it. It's okay for me, cause the "next guy" likes 'em too. Don't blame me for telling these jokes -- or laughing at them, or letting 'em slide by -- cause everybody else is telling 'em, or laughing at 'em or letting 'em slide right by.
Now Josh didn't really mean he likes slavery jokes, as far as I know.... I'll take him at his word that he was just a bit "inartful" in his choice of words... In the future, he might choose "a good tarbaby joke" instead. Perhaps what he meant to say was "that for the first time in his adult life" he found himself laughing out loud at something he would have ordinarily "rejected and denounced."
But then again, he might just enjoy a decent 5 cent cigar and good slavery joke with his bourbon and branch. Just as much as the next guy.







Comments (172)
Jade,
Nothing to add here. You said it all, quite well too.
July 9, 2008 11:48 AM | Reply | Permalink
When one reads such strained seriousness and oh look at my picture and you'll see why I'm so upset blathering, what can one say except ... Jade?
July 9, 2008 8:56 PM | Reply | Permalink
It makes me want to say, "Holy fucking shit!"
July 9, 2008 9:30 PM | Reply | Permalink
Irony and sarcasm are wasted on the overly sensitive.
July 9, 2008 11:50 AM | Reply | Permalink
I'm pretty sure Josh was being ironic, Jade.
July 9, 2008 11:50 AM | Reply | Permalink
Um, Jade, if you get the irony -- and you sort of seem to -- I don't understand your objection.
What Josh is actually saying is "Slavery is a serious subject that we shouldn't joke about."
His (ironic) way of saying that is "I guess I love a good slavery joke as much as the next guy."
The irony is not making a joke about slavery. It's a joke about conservative doofuses who think the subject is funny.
July 9, 2008 11:54 AM | Reply | Permalink
What he said.
July 9, 2008 12:25 PM | Reply | Permalink
If Jesse Helms or Strom Thurmond had said, "I love a good slavery joke," you might take it a little differently.
The point is how easy we can deliver a line and not get the other messages that might be delivered.
I don't think Josh meant harm. And note that I did not accuse him of anything. The point is words do matter.
Yeah, words, just words.
July 9, 2008 12:32 PM | Reply | Permalink
Sure. But Josh Marshall isn't Jesse Helms or Strom Thurmond. He's Josh Marshall. Did you even bother to read the underlying article? And if so, how did it escape your comprehension that Josh was ridiculing the writer and his ridiculous "forced servitude" story? Your complaint makes no sense whatsoever, and I think YOU owe JOSH an apology.
July 9, 2008 2:01 PM | Reply | Permalink
Get a grip, people... no apologies.
Josh wrote something off the cuff. I'm saying "off the cuff", glib or cute or just not thinking can matter. Not accusing Josh anything if YOU READ WHAT WAS WRITTEN. But instead you prove my point: there is a certain "dog whistle" effect when certain words are used. Substitute a word here or there and BANG!
What if I had said "I love a good Jew joke just as much as the next guy..." Chances are someone would have been offended.
The point is... ONCE, MORE WITH FEELING... words matter. What may seem innocent to one person conveys a very different backstory to someone else. You might find it funny. To someone else, it's not. To one person, it's a segue to another guy's column, to someone else it may be a reminder to something else.
That's the point. It's about the unforeseen power of words.
July 9, 2008 2:27 PM | Reply | Permalink
Sounds like your very post was another example of the exact inartful-ness you ascribe to Josh, judging by the reaction.
July 9, 2008 2:56 PM | Reply | Permalink
Words do matter, Jade. And Josh uses his words to great effect here: to blast and ridicule people like Goldberg and their ignorant attitudes about slavery.
He wasn't joking about slavery. He was joking about nitwits like Goldberg who think it is OK to joke about slavery, or to diminish its evil.
You say that he unintentionally revealed something. But I don't see what that is, unless it is that he has no tolerance at all for people who think slavery is a joking matter, or who would dare to suggest it is something not much different than college students doing community service.
July 9, 2008 7:34 PM | Reply | Permalink
What if I had said "I love a good Jew joke just as much as the next guy..." Chances are someone would have been offended.
No, chances are someone would have thought you were making a sarcastic point -- particularly if you said it in the same context that Josh used. You seem to be determined to play the role of the humorless, politically correct PC policewoman. Which is not exactly the best way to get people to take SUBSTANTIVE examples of racist rhetoric as seriously as they should.
July 10, 2008 9:56 AM | Reply | Permalink
Context matters, too, you know.
July 9, 2008 2:02 PM | Reply | Permalink
"Call me "over-sensitive" and tell me that I need to go out and buy a sense of humor, but slavery has never been something I find funny." Love lots of your stuff, Jade, but on this, you do need to get a sense of what he was saying, at least, and yeah, if Jesse Helms or Strom Thurmond had said this, it would have been taken differently, as the context would have been they would have MEANT it.
July 10, 2008 10:46 AM | Reply | Permalink
Irony? You mean like goldy or bronzy, but made of iron instead?
July 9, 2008 12:43 PM | Reply | Permalink
Are you trying to insult steel workers?
July 9, 2008 2:17 PM | Reply | Permalink
Jade, I don't want to speak for anyone else, but I'm pretty sure that Josh is on your side of this argument. I read it as irony, nothing else.
July 9, 2008 11:55 AM | Reply | Permalink
Jade, exquisite.
Just sorry it had to be written. And it did.
July 9, 2008 11:56 AM | Reply | Permalink
The LA times opinion piece Josh links to by Jonah Goldberg in addition to belittling our disgraceful history of slavery, reveals Goldberg is aghast at asking our youth to do volunteer work in the US.
Meanwhile his conservative cohorts send our troops and National Guard to get wounded or killed in a pointless war based on lies. Conservative Americans complain about a school disciplining their students at 16 or Obama asking them to help their communities, but don't mind if the same youth are sacrificed later in an illegal war.
July 9, 2008 11:59 AM | Reply | Permalink
It's not about Goldberg's column, it's about Marshall's intro to it. It's about saying something meant to be harmless, hip, snappy, cool but in the process, saying something that is revelatory and unintentional.
Could Josh have pointed you to Goldberg's column in a different way... he sure could have.
July 9, 2008 2:35 PM | Reply | Permalink
I've tried to avoid responding to racebaiting posters like Jade7243, but this is freaking ridcukous at this point. Quite possibly the most ridiculous, reactionary, over-the-top, out of line post I've read in a long long long time.
July 9, 2008 12:10 PM | Reply | Permalink
Dijamo, do yourself a favor. Do not read or respond to my posts. Go troll on someone else's posts. Avoid me like the plague.
Otherwise I'll believe you have a girlcrush on me and want to be my little brown buddy. Why else would you pop up every where I write? Why else would you try to impress me with your -- gotta love this one -- "assacious" use of the English language? Why else would you go out of your way to bother me?
You must be feeling the love... Maybe I'll post lyrics to bad one-hit wonder songs on your blog... Unless you prefer the "History of the Loon in North America." Your choice.
July 9, 2008 12:42 PM | Reply | Permalink
Correction - you were stalking me. I've replied to you rarely and since you made the inference that I was a housen***a cleaning up after Massuh Bill and Missuz Hillary not all. This was an exception. Because people like you who use inflammatory racial stereotypes when they are to your advantage and have no right to in a holier than thou manner condemn someone else for a benign comment.
You are as much as a dinosaur as Jesse Helms and Obama himself wouldn't condone your tactics. So no I do not have a girl crush on you, so go fuck yourself. And I now return to my regularly scheduled ignoring of "pathetic race baiting small minded bitter hateful thing" Jade7243. Ta-Ta!
July 9, 2008 2:26 PM | Reply | Permalink
If the shoe fits...
July 9, 2008 2:38 PM | Reply | Permalink
OOOHHH - Fight! Fight! Fight!
July 9, 2008 2:58 PM | Reply | Permalink
m-ASS Dem, are you instigating again? I'm reporting you to Lila.
CAGE THE TIGER.
July 9, 2008 3:00 PM | Reply | Permalink
Don't make jokes or try to be friendly with dijamo. She hates people who like her.
July 9, 2008 11:07 PM | Reply | Permalink
Yes indeed - the shoe fits you perfectly. Unapolgetic, racebaiting, divisive, downright stupid, ignorant ass and wrong as usual. Josh is owed an apology for your being slurred by a ridiculous hyperbolic asstastic fucktard like you.
* Lila, I wish to make a pre-emptive plea if above comment infringes on whatever community standards have been set. But this asstastic fucktard has earned it.
July 9, 2008 3:08 PM | Reply | Permalink
Why do you show the ugliest side of your personality around here?
Why do you continue to write anything here on MY BLOG if you are so offended?
Why not just go away?
Why verify the worst of what people think of you here?
Why do you continue to exist?
What is the definition of troll? Dijamo. Period. Full stop.
July 9, 2008 3:20 PM | Reply | Permalink
1. I stopped responding to you but the topic of this post led me to believe someone needed to be put in check for casually inferring that someone else is a bigot, when the bigot is you.
2. Your blog is crap. You rarely have anything intelligent to say, so it's not like I'm exactly dumbing things down here, m'kay.
3. It's a free country (and a free site) and I can comment whenever and wherever I want. (that is unless Lila has decided to enforce community regs on language in which case this post won't see the light of day)
4. I continue to exist because I actually have a point of view and debate issues versus attacking other folks on a personal level (unless attacked first). You don't have the intellectual capacity to engage on logic or reason, hence the hilarity of this attack post accusing Josh Marshall of racism from a confessed bigot ensues.
5. Troll - someone who issues hyperbolic arguments not for debate or reason or to explore an issue, but to peddle hate and divisie and attract attention to oneself. If you want to see a troll Jade, come out from under the bridge and find yourself a mirror.
July 9, 2008 3:34 PM | Reply | Permalink
Young lady... and I use the term disparagingly, you did not read my post. You saw my name and decided to continue this little catfight, soon to be street brawl we have been engaging in over several weeks.
If you had actually read my post, instead of flapping your lips, you would see that at no time did I call ANYONE a racist. Had you actually read my post you would have seen that it was a reminder that words matter. That what may be an off-the-cuff, throwaway line to one person, might be offensive to someone else, or send an unintended signal or message to others.
But you, in your inimitable fashion, decided to open your mouth wide and start screaming about something you clearly failed to understand.
Somehow your ego has led you to believe that you and your opinions are more important than, in fact, they are. Somehow you think you are the "chief black woman" around here and that opinions which are not in line with yours are invalid.
NEWS FLASH: You are not and neither are your opinions. You are not as smart as you think you are, you are not as brilliant as you assume. No one needs to kiss your black ass to be able to post or comment here. Get over yourself. And get the hell off my blog. You don't want to fuck with this Black Bitch!
July 9, 2008 4:43 PM | Reply | Permalink
I have no issues with those who disagree with me respectfully. I do have issues with folks who resort to racebaiting like you do by inferring that I am a housenigga and scullery maid because I am an African American supporter of Hillary Clinton. That's what you call OVERT racism and bigotry. You are so full of hatred that you can't even come to terms and acknowledge that you are wrong.
Then you have the nerve to call out Josh Marshall for a comment that was clearly using irony and sarcasm to mock some idiotic conservative who was treating slavery as a joke and you say:
"Now Josh didn't really mean he likes slavery jokes, as far as I know.... I'll take him at his word that he was just a bit "inartful" in his choice of words... In the future, he might choose "a good tarbaby joke" instead. Perhaps what he meant to say was "that for the first time in his adult life" he found himself laughing out loud at something he would have ordinarily "rejected and denounced."
But then again, he might just enjoy a decent 5 cent cigar and good slavery joke with his bourbon and branch. Just as much as the next guy."
Fuck you Jade. Come to terms with your own hypocrisy. See what a slimy person you really are. I have never attacked you or anyone else on that level nor would I. Because I'm not a bigot. You are. And your continued defense of your own bigotry while having the audacity to even infer that Josh crossed the line while you yourself went way over it is hypocrisy at its worst.
And with that I will leave your precious post not because you demanded it, but because:
1. It's a really crappy hyperbolic over the top hatefest.
2. Life is too short to waste time dealing with bigoted, hateful and divisive folks like you.
July 9, 2008 5:03 PM | Reply | Permalink
Your little brown buddy?!? What the fuck is wrong with you? If you had any case to make at all (and you didn't) you just blew it. What a fucked-up thing to say.
July 9, 2008 11:06 PM | Reply | Permalink
Jade: "Otherwise I'll believe you have a girlcrush on me"
This is a homophobic insult. Unable to support her ridiculous implication that Josh Marshall is a crypto-racist (suggesting next time he should make a tarbaby joke), Jade resorts to a tool of hatred. Message: You're a lesbian so shut up.
July 9, 2008 11:53 PM | Reply | Permalink
Yeah, here, here. Josh is obviously a racist who thinks Jonah Friggin Goldgerg is witty. Yeah, that's it.
Wow.
I guess he should have included a winking smiley face icon after each sarcastic phrase.
July 9, 2008 12:36 PM | Reply | Permalink
The point in case y'all missed it:
The point that struck me was how easy one could substitute the "N Word" for slavery and continue reading -- thinking "oh, boy that's gonna be real funny." And I was thinking that's how so many people tell disparaging ethnic jokes and racial jokes and gay jokes and feel okay doing it. It's okay for me, cause the "next guy" likes 'em too. Don't blame me for telling these jokes -- or laughing at them, or letting 'em slide by -- cause everybody else is telling 'em, or laughing at 'em or letting 'em slide right by.
Got that?
Not calling Josh a racist. Just saying what you say and how you say it speaks volumes. And sometimes you might say something that sends a message you didn't intend. Just saying if you don't pay attention, you might blow that "dog whistle" that perks up the ears of some people -- and gets them thinking you said something that you didn't say.
Not "race-baiting" as a loud mouthed, foolish, non-thinking commenter stated categorically.
Think, people. THINK.
July 9, 2008 12:51 PM | Reply | Permalink
And after you think, people, UNDERSTAND. It was irony. have we become so sensitive and superficial that we can differentiate between irony and literalism? Pass the hemlock, it's no fun to live anymore.
P.S.: Sorry if I offended any dead people.
July 9, 2008 2:10 PM | Reply | Permalink
There are bigots of all colors. Jade is admittedly a bigot who uses demeaning racial stereotypes herself. She's impervious to logic or reason or context. All she understands is hate and division and spreading such hate and division wherever she can. It's funny that in trying to expose Josh for bigotry, she only ended up exposing herself.
July 9, 2008 2:58 PM | Reply | Permalink
She's been like that ever since that house landed on her sister...
July 9, 2008 9:02 PM | Reply | Permalink
For all I know, Jade may be a bigot. I doubt it based on what I've read at TPM, but who knows? However, while this article may reveal her to be wrong, overly sensitive, tone-deaf to irony, or foolish, it provides absolutely no evidence of bigotry.
And IMNSHO your comment is way out of line.
Why is everyone in the Cafe suddenly so willing to race to the bottom of the unwarranted insult well? These are the kinds of shit sandwiches we wouldn't even feed to right-wing trolls in the past.
July 9, 2008 10:01 PM | Reply | Permalink
Senator McCain said no offense taken.
July 9, 2008 7:14 PM | Reply | Permalink
I'm from the south, Jade, and I didn't miss the way you used "y'all" to take a subtle jab at me.
July 9, 2008 2:16 PM | Reply | Permalink
So you're not calling Josh a racist, you're just saying that what he said reveals him as a racist.
Sounds like the same claim to me.
On the topic at hand, I don't see how irony can survive under such careful scrutiny. It's a pretty useful rhetorical device that I'd hate to lose to political correctness.
July 9, 2008 3:09 PM | Reply | Permalink
Your boneheaded, shallow, knee-jerk reaction to a single phrase (the meaning and intent of which was abundantly clear) reminds me why I tend to avoid stupid people. Not that you're a stupid person. But you'll certainly do until one comes along.
July 9, 2008 11:12 PM | Reply | Permalink
Think, people. THINK
Seems to me that somebody who makes flip references to "little brown buddies" and "girl crushes" maybe isn't in the best position to tell others to think before they speak/write.
July 10, 2008 10:07 AM | Reply | Permalink
Here's an example of the danger of words in the wrong mouth:
George W. Bush
Dakar, Senegal
July 8, 2003
from the George W. Bush Out of Office Countdown calendar
July 9, 2008 12:56 PM | Reply | Permalink
I have that calendar too!
July 9, 2008 1:06 PM | Reply | Permalink
Jade-
Strom or Helms would have never made that statement in that context. You've become a victim of Selective Reading Syndrome that has plagued network and cable news since the 90's Context is everything, and you're willfully ignoring that to try and appear righteously indignant.
Josh Marshall is the last person you need to worry about being a racist or actually enjoying a slavery joke in the way you are accusing.
As for myself, I saw a movie recently that was a satirical and biting look at slavery. It was called CSA, or Confederate States of America. It was a mockumentary, non-slapstick, made to appear like a Ken Burns film about our country if the South had won the Civil War. It was funny, and dark, and some could say full of "slavery jokes".
I enjoyed it because it mocks the people whose views I despise. Laughing about tragedy is a way of healing. Not the only way, not the way you may choose, but still valid.
July 9, 2008 1:01 PM | Reply | Permalink
Sure. Words matter. Context matters. Who's saying something matters.
But Josh is the right person, in the right context, with the right words. Bush, in the example above, is the wrong person, in the wrong context, saying the wrong thing.
The solution is not to tiptoe around taboo words or taboo subjects. We've tried that in the past, and it tended to turn the Left into the sort of boring party no one wants to show up for. The solution is just to exercise good judgment, on a case-by-case basis, paying attention to context.
July 9, 2008 1:07 PM | Reply | Permalink
I just took a cursory look at what Goldberg wrote. He seems to not understand that attending school is a compulsory practice. It is set up that way because most kids would not attend if we left it up to them.
Requiring them to perform a week's worth of service is not demanding very much, and it does provide an education benefit by exposing many young people to the harsher realities of the real world around them.
I would not be surprised if it did not wake some students, who were slacking off, to the reality of what awaited them if they did not apply themselves and study more. There is no downside to it.
Would Mr. Goldberg abolish the Boy Scouts just because Hitler perverted his youth movement.
It does not get much lower than when someone uses the devastating crime against humanity, that was inflicted on the people of Africa, as a device to bludgeon the first African American in contention to become President.
Mr. Goldberg should be suspended for committing such an atrocity to paper, and so should his editors for approving of it.
Jade: It was a poor choice of words on Josh's part. I think his heart was in the right place, and he was actually stunned that this Goldberg fellow would make such a comparison.
Like the bard said: "He jests at scars that never felt a wound". I am sorry. Keep the faith, and stay strong.
July 9, 2008 1:24 PM | Reply | Permalink
How true!
July 9, 2008 1:31 PM | Reply | Permalink
I'm of the mind that JM was being sarcastic or ironic, but he didn't telegraph it well. As he probably made the assumption that we all know his hearts in the right place and that he would never say such a thing seriously.... And he wouldn't.
Still a lot of folks out on the web aren't being ironic and it feels like Obama's candidacy is bringing all the racist folks out of hiding..
I noticed this headline on a so-called "McCain Blog"
"Obama Loves Dat FISA Bill!"
That takes us back..
July 9, 2008 1:25 PM | Reply | Permalink
I heard that as Josh totally jeering and crapping on Jonah Goldberg.
July 9, 2008 1:49 PM | Reply | Permalink
Read it that way too... ;)
July 9, 2008 1:50 PM | Reply | Permalink
After a few people responded with great civility and helpfulness for the ironically challenged OP she still tries to justify her post. Still doesn't get it.
Now, in the past I've been accused of being a little over the top, rude, too insulting...and clearly this begs for some of my best stuff! But no...I'll refrain. I'll let this poor little deeply sensitive genuinely ignorant woman be.
*good god*
July 9, 2008 1:54 PM | Reply | Permalink
You appear to be on fire, Norse God. ;-)
July 9, 2008 2:18 PM | Reply | Permalink
And you Cricket are always on fire! Rrrrroww... (that was my best Roy Orbison "Pretty Woman" growl.)
July 9, 2008 4:52 PM | Reply | Permalink
As far as you know? Where have we heard that formulation before?
I'm struggling here! I'm really struggling. Can't hold back for much longer.
The stupid...it burns!
July 9, 2008 1:57 PM | Reply | Permalink
If you read the formulation of that entire paragraph, you see not only "as far as I know", "reject and denounce," "for the first time in my adult life" ... even "tarbaby" which Tony Snow while at the podium as White House press secretary thought was just fine to use as a reference.
Words... just words.
July 9, 2008 3:14 PM | Reply | Permalink
I was troubled, too, by Josh's words though I knew immediately, as they came from Josh, that they were meant ironically. And of course, Goldberg is an ass which is what Josh was trying to say - as only an ignorant ass would compare some community service to slavery. Additionally, I believe Josh assumes that most people don't enjoy a good slavery joke, so enjoying as much as anyone may mean feeling slight nauseous and sickened that you belong to the same species as the person telling the joke.
It's odd, you know, we tend to judge the words of people we like by intent and the words of people we dislike by impact. We respect Josh and are confident his intent is benign - to highlight the ludicrous inanity of someone comparing a few hours a week of community service to slavery.
On the other hand, we tend to judge the statements of those we dislike by impact. If someone we did not know or knew to be racist said those words, we could look at the impact of the actual phrase "enjoy a good slavery joke" which is on its face offensive to descendents of slaves - and really to all people who believe slavery is no laughing matter.
I believe the proper course is to judge impact - how our words affect the people who hear them. That means when someone speaks up and say those words offend me, to listen to why and try to understand the impact of the words before jumping up and down and saying "but that's not what was intended."
In the law, the impact of your actions trumps your intent - most of the time. I think they should in language as well.
July 9, 2008 1:59 PM | Reply | Permalink
Do you propose we outlaw irony and enforce literalism? For God's sake, get a grip. It's CONTEXT that really matters, at least for thinking people.
July 9, 2008 2:07 PM | Reply | Permalink
No, I propose that when people point out the unintended offense our words may cause, we listen politely instead of compounding the offense by defending our words and stomping all over the person who tried to point out the problem.
White people get a lot of benefits from white supremacy - whether they want them or not. One of those benefits that they should just toss out with the trash where it belongs is the privilege of telling black people what racial jokes and sayings they are allowed to be offended by.
July 9, 2008 2:34 PM | Reply | Permalink
"One of those benefits that they should just toss out with the trash where it belongs is the privilege of telling black people what racial jokes and sayings they are allowed to be offended by."
Thank you - the hubris of those who presume to do this is sometimes truly breathtaking. Your comments, in my opinion, are valid and hit the mark.
Note: Why is that some here cannot debate without personally attacking those who may not agree with them? If your stance is valid, you do not need to attempt to personally denigrate or slur those who disagree with you. Unless you want to prove your ignorance and/or lack of ability to argue your case on its merits - well, then - that's just sad.
July 9, 2008 4:09 PM | Reply | Permalink
Trouble is, when one points out the "hurtfulness" of an ironic statement, does it not come with the expectation that such irony will refrained from in the future? What Jade's post means to do is to subtly control speech. I think that is dangerous territory.
Amazing how many of us are unwilling to be spied upon but how eager we seem to monitor, critique, and control the speech of others.
The Bill of Rights is missing a few digits, it seems.
July 9, 2008 4:53 PM | Reply | Permalink
Here here, Oregon, this is what I was thinking the entire time.
July 10, 2008 10:44 AM | Reply | Permalink
In all honesty, by the way, I fully expect that Josh will respond to this critique from Jade, who was careful to state that she believes his good intent - with much more maturity and grace than you, or many other of the people here.
July 9, 2008 2:36 PM | Reply | Permalink
You don't have to know who wrote it to recognize the irony. It's not subtle irony, and the author unpacks it for us.
All you have to do is read the second sentence:
"Terribly witty" is still (heavy) sarcasm, but "belittles" is clear as day, straightforward, hear ye hear ye language. You just can't be much clearer without a skywriting plane.
All that being said, I guess we should lay off Jade, who has come in for an unfair amount of personal abuse on this thread.
July 9, 2008 3:40 PM | Reply | Permalink
Hey, that's too adult for the internet. I don't see the swear words, or the yelling or anything. Your comment is boring.
July 9, 2008 4:43 PM | Reply | Permalink
Yeah you are so right. Because Jade is only allowed to dish out personal abuse, and not be expected to take it herself.
July 9, 2008 5:13 PM | Reply | Permalink
Didn't mean to dis you personally.
July 9, 2008 9:32 PM | Reply | Permalink
Kick ass comment. Wonderfully said.
July 9, 2008 3:45 PM | Reply | Permalink
Yep.
July 9, 2008 3:08 PM | Reply | Permalink
Pile on in progress.
July 9, 2008 4:41 PM | Reply | Permalink
I make exception for our host
July 10, 2008 11:57 AM | Reply | Permalink
some people just don't get stuff. Humor them.
July 9, 2008 3:32 PM | Reply | Permalink
I hate to see liberals bashing liberals. Let's all take a deep breath, and watch something we can all agree on:
youtube.com/watch?v=moutUEfqUQ4
... and also watch something patriotic:
youtube.com/watch?v=woLQI8X2R6Y
July 9, 2008 3:47 PM | Reply | Permalink
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July 9, 2008 3:57 PM | Reply | Permalink
Really Pirate Peet. Did you just call me a belligerent chick?
STICK YER PLANK UP YER NETHERREGIONS!
xoxo dijamo
July 9, 2008 4:07 PM | Reply | Permalink
ARGH!
DEAR BELLIGERENT WENCH
LET ME BE FRANK
TONE DOWN YOUR TONE
OR YOU'LL HAVE TO WALK THE PLANK
WENCH HILLARY'S MINE
YOU KNOW THIS TO BE TRUE
NOW START BACKING 'BAMA
OR YOU'LL BE KICKED OFF MY CREW
LET'S GET THE WENCH TO BE IN CHARGE OF THE TREASURY. UNTIL THEN HARMONY HARMONY HARMONY!
ACQUIRE! MERGE! MARAUD! DILUTE! DILUTE!
ARGH!
July 9, 2008 8:26 PM | Reply | Permalink
Even though it was obviously an attempt at sarcasm, it was a poor choice of words.
Jade, well put, but I just wasn't as bothered by it. I think folks need not to get so whipped up by "slights" this, well, slight. Recommended, though.
July 9, 2008 4:15 PM | Reply | Permalink
Well I have to agree and disagree with Jade on this one. My frosted side thinks it was a stupid article by Josh and a small rap on the knuckles was in order. While my whole grain goodness wheat side thinks, "Josh should have his bitch ass dragged to the hood. Beat down bloody with a busted cap in his knees. Followed by him begging for his life, liberty, and pursuit of rest in peace." That said, where I disagree is the bit about "not needing to kiss Dijamo's black ass" I can't see anyone passing up on that, no matter what she posts.
July 10, 2008 11:33 AM | Reply | Permalink
But then again, he might just enjoy a decent 5 cent cigar and good slavery joke with his bourbon and branch.
Nice white-slavemaster imagery there. Who's the racist again?
July 9, 2008 4:55 PM | Reply | Permalink
You need to go out and buy a sense of humor.
July 9, 2008 5:15 PM | Reply | Permalink
There are a host of problems with this statement.
First, you conflate your First Amendment protection from government suppression of your speech with the idea that the right is so absolute that individuals and private groups are also prevented from discouraging your speech. That's not true and just momentarily thinking about it, you will recognize that your speech is constrained all the time, by your employer, your family, your friends. You voluntarily comply to be part of that society.
Second, you seem to confuse the right to free speech with the right to approval for your free speech, with freedom of criticism. So in essence, you are demanding that you get free rein to be as offensive as you want to be, but Jade has no right to complain about it. I guess, basically, you claim the right to complete hypocrisy.
Third, you seem to presume that it is a bad thing to curtail offensive speech. Research has shown that speech influences attitudes - that frequent use of the n-word or calling women bitches, etc. influences attitudes toward blacks and towards women negatively. Thus people and society as a whole have a vested interest in speaking up and criticizing offensive speech - and curtailing it - with social pressure, not governmental prohibition. And that is all perfectly legal under the first amendment.
Fouth, you are seeking to curtail Jade's speech.
July 9, 2008 5:36 PM | Reply | Permalink
This was in replay to Official A - somehow that got lost in the posting of the comment.
July 9, 2008 5:39 PM | Reply | Permalink
Oregon,
I find your comments right on the mark. So elocuent. Thank you for taking the time to write them.
July 9, 2008 6:13 PM | Reply | Permalink
actually it appears to be Jade that is attempting to curtail speech here. laying down some sort of imaginary line in her own head that josh, in the future, should know not to come near as regards his choice of "words." she then wasted no time hurling insults, accusations and telling someone to get lost when they pointed out the obvious. nice try at spinnin it tho.
July 9, 2008 6:18 PM | Reply | Permalink
Yes, she is and she has that right. You know, we all have the right to see to discourage offensive speech. Incidentally that right is practiced here all the time by people who say don't you dare stand up for the 4th Amendment, it might hurt Obama. Don't you dare defend separation of church and state, it might hurt Obama. If that's not trying to curtail speech, what is?
The thing is, people curtail speech all the time and as individuals we have the right to try. We are often likely to fail, but we have the right to try.
July 9, 2008 7:39 PM | Reply | Permalink
It's hard to know how to respond to this post because Jade's reading is so bizarre on so many levels. Jade reads this post to mean that I like a good joke about slavery. And once she's drawn that conclusion she's off and running. It would be virtually impossible to read the post, both in words and substance, and not have it be penetratingly clear that this a dictionary example at 'sarcasm', meant to communicate that slavery is not a funny subject and shouldn't be belittled or joked about as Goldberg does in his column. The most generous interpretation I can think of is that Jade stopped reading after the first sentence because she was so jazzed up to write her post and couldn't wait. Simply bizarre.
July 9, 2008 6:23 PM | Reply | Permalink
EArlier today, I said "In all honesty, by the way, I fully expect that Josh will respond to this critique from Jade, who was careful to state that she believes his good intent - with much more maturity and grace than you, or many other of the people here."
I am sorely disappointed. May I suggest you read the following: http://tinyurl.com/6l7ktf
or this:
http://www.westernstatescenter.org/resources/ChallengingMoments.pdf
July 9, 2008 7:20 PM | Reply | Permalink
Wow. Just, wow.
Josh responded with exactly the maturity and grace that I expected him to -- by politely but firmly telling Jade that she is out of her frikkin over-literal mind.
The utter inability of some of you to catch the thunderingly obvious sarcasm here is astounding. And we say the right lacks the capacity to understand nuance???
You're at a major liberal blog. You all know Josh's writing. And so when he says "I love a good slavery joke" and then proceeds to tear apart the person whose slavery comment he referenced, Josh is telling you as clearly as if he hit you over the head with a hammer that he does NOT like slavery jokes.
This is NOT the same as "the one about the Chinaman who..." It is NOT a nasty comment disguised as "ha ha can't you take a joke." It just isn't. And it isn't even close.
This isn't about lacking a sense of humor about Josh's "joke." It's about being so obtuse as to refuse to recognize a bitterly sarcastic comment when you read one, and assuming that it is simply an insensitive "joke."
You're not being humorless, or over "sensitive," because Josh wasn't being funny. You're being thick-headed, because Josh was being sarcastic.
July 9, 2008 8:24 PM | Reply | Permalink
Exactly. I took it as twisting the knife in the back sarcasm of the strongest kind. Nothing remotely humorous intended about it.
July 9, 2008 9:16 PM | Reply | Permalink
My god, really. That post was dripping with sarcasm. How could anyone miss it? Even if you had never read a single word from Josh before it would still have been obvious he was being sarcastic.
July 9, 2008 9:34 PM | Reply | Permalink
And if you had read what i wrote earlier, you would know that I recognized the sarcasm, but argue that regardless of his intent, he has to consider the impact of his words.
But you did not read that.
July 10, 2008 10:28 AM | Reply | Permalink
Wow. Just wow. If Josh is so frightening and disappointing, go away.
July 9, 2008 10:20 PM | Reply | Permalink
The classic 5th column move. I feel both stupid and crushed. You've been setting us up all these years Josh.
July 9, 2008 7:05 PM | Reply | Permalink
I laughed at Josh's comment, which seemed like sarcasm of the most obvious kind.
It's helpful in these situations to draw a dinstinction between what offends *you,* and what is actually offensive by *any* reasonable standard. I would suggest that this falls squarely into the former category.
I wouldn't presume to lecture you about your sense of humor. But I *am* suprised that anyone who spends much time here could so grossly misinterpret Josh's intent. I think he's earned the benefit of the doubt.
July 9, 2008 7:56 PM | Reply | Permalink
Perfectly written, Beetle.
I think we need to set up a trust fund to help Jade, and some others on here, buy a clue.
July 9, 2008 8:02 PM | Reply | Permalink
Yes, and she gave him the benefit of the doubt as to intent. She wrote, "Now Josh didn't really mean he likes slavery jokes, as far as I know.... I'll take him at his word that he was just a bit "inartful" in his choice of words"
Now that is undercut by her subsequent sentence, but nonetheless, she is clearly saying she doesn't put Josh in the same patch as Goldberg.
July 9, 2008 8:17 PM | Reply | Permalink
Jade:
I have read Josh's blog for several years I've never particularly felt the need to comment on a post or engage in one of the discussions on the forum. As I read your statement though (and then scrolled through the commentary below) I had to add my two cents.
I'm sure that I'll live to regret this if it becomes a habit as I really (honest!) have a few other things that probably need to take priority in my life. That said, here goes:
I felt strongly that your cry of racism, either in Josh's intent or fundamental in very nature of his comments to be unfair. Decrying racism with the use of humor has a long and noble tradition. From the early days of the abolitionists here and in Europe with newspaper cartoons, through boundary testing (and redfining) comedians of the 70s, to preachers and novelists today -- humor has been used to show the inhumanity and horror of slavery and racism itself. The power of that medium is that the mockery makes self-evident the shamefullness of the position.
There is enormous difference (the "context" of which many here have spoken) between racist humor that denigrates and what Josh wrote in his opening sentences. By calling out his choice of phase and implying that its very structure is racist you also, I think, defeat your own cause of moving the conversation forward. "words, just words" do carry tremendous power -- but so to does denying history through condemning intelligent discussion -- and I would suggest that is the far more dangerous path.
To equate discussion on race -- even when a slight bit of humor is used as the medium -- with a racist dicussion curtials a dialogue that is critical for us all. To assail someone as negligent in their duties to that dialogue -- as I feel that you have in your comments against Josh -- when they are moving forward the cause of calling our racism appears short-sited and self-aggradizing.
Politics, Liberty, Humanity, (even Love) have long had a close relationship with Wit and Humour.
Josh deserved a more fair assessment that took into account the context of his comments, the discussion, and the character of this site.
July 9, 2008 8:15 PM | Reply | Permalink
Some things are never funny. But I'll give Josh the benefit of the doubt and agree with those who call it "inartful" rather than intentionally insensitive.
July 9, 2008 8:24 PM | Reply | Permalink
The only thing "inartful" about Josh's post was how over-the-top and unsubtle the sarcasm was.
Thank god he didn't try to be at least a tiny bit subtle. I cringe to think of the shit-storm we'd be having here.
July 9, 2008 9:35 PM | Reply | Permalink
Sometimes a quip is just a quip. It's easy to take offense, the trick is try look on the bright side, give the benefit of the doubt, resist the urge to be pedantic--lighten up.
Some words do matter. Some don't. Sticks & stones baby. Sticks & stones.
July 9, 2008 9:16 PM | Reply | Permalink
Jade,
When I read Josh's comments, I assumed they were intended to be sarcastic. After all, the piece WAS about Jonah Goldberg's usual idiotic blather. However, I agree with you on this one. If joking about slavery is acceptable, what's next? Holocaust jokes? Sadly, dijamo's comments are indicative of the level of racism on this site tolerated by other TPM readers; especially since it's obvious that dijamo sure as hell ain't a "sista". Call it like you see it.
July 9, 2008 9:26 PM | Reply | Permalink
I certainly hope we don't see Josh making holocaust jokes. That would be in very poor taste. Of course, if Josh made a slavery joke, that would be in poor taste too.
But Josh didn't make a slavery joke. He made a snide and sarcastic comment about Jonah Goldberg diminishing the horrors of slavery in his column.
And FWIW, if Goldberg had written a column comparing some proposed Obama program to the Holocaust (Liberal Fascism, anyone?), and Josh had begun a post slamming the column by saying "I love a good Holocaust joke as much as the next guy," I (and I'm pretty sure my Jewish wife would agree) wouldn't think it was an offensive attempt at a joke.
July 9, 2008 9:39 PM | Reply | Permalink
Jade,
"When I read Josh's comments, I assumed they were intended to be sarcastic."
If you really got the idea that JM was being sarcastic, that is, NOT ACTUALLY ENJOYING A SLAVERY JOKE AT ALL, how could you feign indignation from anything following his clearly sarcastic intro?
"If joking about slavery is acceptable, what's next? Holocaust jokes?"
Who is joking about slavery here? This is eerily in line with Jade's elusive comments that although she doesn't think JM is a racist, just that he should heed the "unforeseen power of words."
What is there to agree with Jade over? Either JM is a closet racist--as evidenced by a total misinterpretation of the very clear meaning and intent of his post--or he is pointing out the inappropriateness of comparing community service to the injustices set in motion by the African slave trade. I'm going with the latter.
When it's time to be offended, there will be no doubt about it.
Sure, you can choose to be offended at comments that fall squarely in the category of "illuminating", just as you can choose to run a stop sign. Like OregonActivist made clear, interpretation happens within each individual, this is true. But at a certain point, one must be able to distinguish between allies and enemies. JM is an ally by ANY metric one can apply.
You and others may be offended, and you can join a group and have a website dedicated to how offended you are, but it doesn't change the fact that your emotions in this regard are wasted energy: you appeal to a facile relativism--that all perspectives and interpretations are equal.
This just isn't true. Some interpretations are well justified and some (that there is any reason to feel snubbed by JM's article) rely on a fundamental MISreading of the author.
JM's statements were neither poorly chosen nor "inartful". His statements shouldn't need any justification unless one CHOOSES to be offended.
July 11, 2008 4:02 PM | Reply | Permalink
Jade calls slave chains "seat belts," and is offended by Josh's biting sarcasm? Who gave her a license to make slavery jokes?
July 9, 2008 9:34 PM | Reply | Permalink
Why do you people waste so much time on someone who is obviously trolling TPM. All you have to do is see the post is by Jade. Incredibly, you people actually recommend crap like this. Stupid is as stupid does.
July 9, 2008 9:58 PM | Reply | Permalink
I laud your noble condemnations of the poster, then the sheeple in this thread as stupid, and the then too the recommenders as stupid.
There could be no better, no more persuasive demonstration of your superiority to these slobbering hordes than that you confer upon yourself, even as you unironically join the consensual and highly personal condemanation of Jade by the people you deride as stupid. Your joinder in the thread is surely immune to your own critique of it.
And your McCain-loving Panama hat is such a deft touch! No one can decypher such subtlety.
July 9, 2008 10:14 PM | Reply | Permalink
Nope. Not in character, Crankypants. Sorry.
July 9, 2008 10:43 PM | Reply | Permalink
"Your joinder in the thread is surely immune to your own critique of it."
As always. You may be a curmudgeonly old coot, but your vision is 20/20.
July 9, 2008 11:20 PM | Reply | Permalink
Hard to imagine, isn't it Billy?
July 9, 2008 11:17 PM | Reply | Permalink
Wouldn't bother me if someone said, "I like a good holocaust joke as much as the next guy," or "I like a good basilisk joke as much as the next guy," if I thought the point was that holocaust jokes are bad and the people who make them are bad.
Notice that saying you enjoy a joke is not to tell a joke. Two different things.
July 9, 2008 10:00 PM | Reply | Permalink
Anyone else here recall WTF? accusations of anti-semitism or more recently, sexism, on this site?
When the accused respond with denials, does anyone here think that the accuser is ever 'effing persuaded differently? Maybe it does happen on a rare occasion but I can't recall any examples.
At least these instances do offer a chance to bear witness to a different perspective, whether one agrees with the characterization or not.
So, enough already with the umbrage and stone-throwing from all sides. There's room for everyone to see what they see from their own perspective without the stupid back and forth arguing over whether or not the reaction has any validity.
July 9, 2008 10:00 PM | Reply | Permalink
Yes. Well said.
July 10, 2008 9:10 AM | Reply | Permalink
he was obviously being sarcastic about the asswipe who actually was making the slavery joke.
July 9, 2008 10:02 PM | Reply | Permalink
People - he was calling Goldberg an asshole. A dumb, ignorant, asshole. Using sarcasm is even less respectful than saying, "Goldberg wrote on slavery and does a poor job, and some might even call it offensive."
Were an "intelligent", "respected" person to write such a piece, Josh would have written the intro different, i.e. "Wow, I really don't understand this. I don't agree with X person much, but I do know they aren't stupid." But it wasn't. It was a big fat gooey dummy. So he laughed at him. Saying, "slavery is great! Goldberg gets it!"
its issues like these (I can think of only a couple of others) I try not to think about. PC sucks. How do people so sensitive (not just the poster, but those who are doing the "well, both sides have their points") and/or clueless get through life without crying each hour of every day? Or do people just avoid them?
Josh doesn't need to "clarify", "apologize", or anything. If anything, just say "Those who have even the slightest issue with this intro should stay off the web".
July 9, 2008 10:13 PM | Reply | Permalink
Jade, I love you, but honesty compels me to admit that I'm on the same side as Loki, Dijamo and Billy Glad, (if not the precise sentiments they expressed or the way the expressed them) on this one and on the opposite side from you and (kind of) Raider and Scientific.
Which I have to admit, really gives me that same complete "its a world gone mad" sense of complete disorientation I felt the first time I saw Dennis Hopper in a Gap commercial.
But then again, I'm on the complete opposite side of the issue from Oregon Activist so I guess there is still some kind of order left in the universe.
And yet despite that tiny speck of order, the ironic gobsmacking continues unabated.
Earlier today, in an effort to express how over-the-top I felt something Loki had said (rather prominently and specifically) about me was, I responded to a comment by Cricket in almost exactly the same voice as Josh was using in the one to which you take umbrage. And--here's the irony gobsmacking of which I speak-- my comment was one about which Josh, and for that manner Jonah Goldberg, might well have felt exactly as you felt about this statement of his.
My point was that I thought Loki's, ahem, assessment of my political views was jarringingly and shockingly wrongheaded and offensive. To make the point, I said something that even shocked me a little because it was the most effective way to communicate the magnitude and reason I found it shocking. When I made the comment, I hoped and trusted that any Jews (or anyone else who was touched by the Holocaust or by pograms and persecutions, or who just felt really strongly about books), would take my meaning as intended. I hoped that either because they knew me, or because of the context, they'd understand that my meaning was not to offend them, but to demonstrate why what had been said about me was offensive.
On our underlying argument, I still think I'm right and Loki's wrong (a belief that is evidently fully reciprocated.) I am still of the opinion that attacking Obama in ways that feed into destructive MSM frames is both pointless and unwise in the context of winning this critical election.
But there is a seed of truth to Loki's hypersensitive (damn, the irony gobsmacks just keep coming tonight) response to me. In my view, my disagreement with him (that one, anyway) is that there are times when propriety, social decency, or just simple expedience in pursuit of a higher goal, call for a certain degree of self-censorship. The sociatally indespensable behaviors we call "tact" and "manners," being two important examples of that.
Loki's point to me, however,(or at the part I can agree with) is that there is only so much self-censorship that we can inflict upon each other through social and peer-pressure before the real value of the First Admendment is lost to us as a society. Before we become such a bland, colorless, flavorless, inoffensive mass of polite androids that we might as well not have free speech because if we use that right we're sure to offend someone.
There is a time, a place, and a moment when the appropriate and needful thing to do is to scratch your nails down a chalkboard, even though most of the time the correct response to that profoundly anti-social activity it physical violence.
One time it is appropriate to do that is when someone's attempt at "humor" has stepped so far beyond the bounds of decency and propriety, is so hurtful and harmful, that you are compelled to call them out on it. And (Irony Gobsmack Night continues!) the best way to do that is to strip their attempt at "humor" down to its stark ugly essense so that everyone can see how truly indefensible the comment is.
Rightly or wrongly, that's what I was trying to do on a matter that touched me personally. And that's what Josh was doing on a matter that touched a lot more than just him, or you, personally. Goldberg was out of bounds. He was profoundly out of bounds, beyond the bounds of decency and well into the zone of postively anti-social. Goldberg has an audience of millions and this website gets three quarters of a million unique visitors a week. Smacking Goldberg down, and down hard, was important. Far more important than my own pique.
But the only way to get a lot of people to understand why Goldberg was being offensive was to do exactly what Josh did--boil the comment down to exactly what it was that shocked the conscience and then put it in their faces. I'm sorry you found it hurtful, truly I am, but it was important for Josh to do that, much more so, I might add, than it was for me to express the reason for my own pique at Loki's choice of epithets. Goldberg has an audience of millions and Josh's site gets three quarters of a million unique visitors a week. The right delights in disguising its fundemental viciousness and misanthropy as "humor" and the point needed to be made that its not fucking funny.
July 9, 2008 10:29 PM | Reply | Permalink
And, once again, oh, for an edit function . . .
July 9, 2008 10:34 PM | Reply | Permalink
Jade, it appears that you have a highly developed ability to find something that offends you, whereupon you react to it with a hair-trigger spiel whose obvious and condescending intent is to sound like you are educating all of us troglodytes about race matters.
You didn't even bother to consider the context of Josh's use of Words That You Find Offensive (WTYFO for short, since we will undoubtedly be having this discussion the next time anyone uses one of several words no matter the context).
You need to free yourself from this self-constructed prison.
July 9, 2008 11:06 PM | Reply | Permalink
Yes. Context matters and sometimes there is a point to the pc police reaction.
I think what some have described as irony might also be described as sarcasm.
July 9, 2008 11:50 PM | Reply | Permalink
He was obviously making fun of the author of the article. To find offense here is so fuckin stupid.
July 9, 2008 11:38 PM | Reply | Permalink
I think you just want Josh to link to your article.
Nice try, attention seeker.
July 9, 2008 11:44 PM | Reply | Permalink
A question to the many posters on this thread who were really unpleasant in their degree of vitriol:
Do you (individually and/or collectively) really think it is no longer necessary in our society to observe common courtesy? Have you lost, or never learned, how to say what you mean, even when you vehemently disagree with someone, without stooping to name calling and base insult? And have you lost, or never learned, the obligation to make a prompt apology when you really know you have gone over the top? Please think about it.
I realize that the tag line from a bad book and worse movie in the early 70's said: "Love means never having to say you're sorry." But, aside from the fact that many of you are too young to have seen it, in fact, the opposite is true: "Love (read respect and decency) means always having to say you're sorry.... because if you hurt someone -- intentionally or unintentionally -- you still hurt them and that deserves an apology.
Although it seems clear that Josh did not intend offense, that does not mean that what he said, or the way he said it, could be guaranteed to be offenseless.
Therefore, because it did offend Jade (whether or not it offended you, or me, or whomever else) and she said so, civilly, why isn't it the simple, right thing for Josh to do to at least offer Jade the classic lawyer's apology?: "If what I said, or the way I said it was offensive to you, Jade, I'm sorry. That was not my intention; on the contrary, my sole intention was to call Jonah on his glib racial insensitivity."
If Josh apologized that simply and directly, then we might expect Jade to reply: "Thanks, Josh, I know that was not your intention. If I over-reacted, and that upset you, I'm sorry. That was not my intention; on the contrary, my sole intention was to point out that words can be interpreted in different ways by different people, and we need to be sensitive to that."
Now everyone feels good about himself or herself again, because both primary parties have done the higher road thing. And the rest of you could then post a simple: "Sorry, All."
And now we're all over it.
This is not rocket science; it's just good manners. And now it's my turn: "I'm sorry, if I offend anyone by sounding as if I am lecturing."
The End, on the other hand,
July 10, 2008 12:20 AM | Reply | Permalink
Thank you. Your post is exactly on point.
Greatly appreciated.
July 10, 2008 2:32 AM | Reply | Permalink
The problem here is that Jade didn't politely say that she was offended, she launched a five paragraph rant.
She spent the 1st paragraph getting offended in advance by anyone that disagrees with her. She spent the 2nd paragraph claiming a special right to be offended. She spent 3rd and 4th paragraphs proving that she did indeed completely miss the point that Josh was being sarcastic and/or ironic and did not IN ANY WAY mean to imply that he found slavery jokes to be humorous. Then after sort of suggesting she knows that Josh didn't really mean to say he finds likes slavery jokes in the 4th paragraph, she takes it back in the 5th paragraph.
When the first two respondents respectfully and politely pointed out that Josh was being ironic, she replied in a way that makes it entirely clear that she really doesn't get it, doesn't want to get it and doesn't care to be polite about it.
Under the circumstances, the lack of common courtesy throughout the thread is not surprising.
July 10, 2008 7:36 AM | Reply | Permalink
wwstaebler,
Right on point. And good manners are free; it only takes a choice to exercise them.
July 10, 2008 9:28 AM | Reply | Permalink
Scratch "The end, on the other hand.." which I meant to delete.
July 10, 2008 12:24 AM | Reply | Permalink
Why on earth should Josh apologize? Jade exhibited a little pathology here, along with a complete lack of common sense. She should apologize. You must be a hand-wringing, Psychology Today-reading panderer in a turtleneck.
July 10, 2008 12:29 AM | Reply | Permalink
Wigmarx:
Take a look at your response, which demonstrates exactly what I am talking about.
When you say: "Why on earth should Josh apologize?" you are expressing a fair opinion, without resorting to namecalling.
When you say: "....lack of common sense. She should apologize." you are also expressing a fair opinion, without resort to namecalling.
Therefore, in just those two sentences you have let us know what you think and how you feel, and you have done so in a completely civil way.
What do you think you accomplish, then, either by negatively characterizing Jade as "exhibiting a little pathology;" or, by negatively characterizing me (as you imagine me to be) as "a hand-wringing, Psychology Today-reading panderer in a turtleneck."
The purpose of my post is to recommend the use of good manners. What is the purpose of yours?
Please connect the dots for me: What is the connection in your view between manners (in which people shake hands after a quarrel ) and the "hand-wringing" you suggest? How do you connect the suggestion of good manners with the image of "a Psychology Today-reading panderer in a turtleneck"? Were you taught manners by a psychologist, or by your parents and teachers? The turtleneck reference is amusing, however. It is July, after all.
Perhaps you might reconsider your response?
July 10, 2008 1:04 AM | Reply | Permalink
Fabulous again.
July 10, 2008 9:30 AM | Reply | Permalink
"Therefore, because it did offend Jade (whether or not it offended you, or me, or whomever else) and she said so, civilly, why isn't it the simple, right thing for Josh to do to at least offer Jade the classic lawyer's apology?: "If what I said, or the way I said it was offensive to you, Jade, I'm sorry. That was not my intention; on the contrary, my sole intention was to call Jonah on his glib racial insensitivity."
The "classic lawyer's apology" is not an apology, that's why it's called a "lawyer's apology." A conditional apology ("If I hurt your feelings, sorry") is not an apology when the put-upon individual has already made it clear that feelings were hurt indeed, oh yes, omigod, how they were hurt.
"If Josh apologized that simply and directly, then we might expect Jade to reply: "Thanks, Josh, I know that was not your intention. If I over-reacted, and that upset you, I'm sorry. That was not my intention; on the contrary, my sole intention was to point out that words can be interpreted in different ways by different people, and we need to be sensitive to that."
This is funny, but also a little messed up.
First, a Josh apology would be rank pandering that would encourage further thread-eating and breast-beating by professional offense-takers, and I highly doubt that Jade would have so replied. Whattaya say, Jade? Would you have been able to retract your paranoia?
Second, your stealthy need to control the terms of the discourse is probably the reason you cannot see, or cannot take, a joke.
Finally, and perhaps most of all, you love 'the process' too much, and are not focused on real things. Therefore, you will have the last word, if you want it.
July 10, 2008 4:39 PM | Reply | Permalink
Last three grafs should be in italics. Where is that edit function and why?
July 10, 2008 4:41 PM | Reply | Permalink
hmmmmm... you really ARE wearing a turtleneck in July, aren't you?
July 10, 2008 1:20 AM | Reply | Permalink
Now that made me genuinely laugh. Thanks.
July 10, 2008 1:45 AM | Reply | Permalink
I really care about subtle prejudice, and insensitive word choices. I've written many comments on the subject. I could write a thousand words on John McCain's wife-beating joke, or Maureen Dowd's Obambi references. But this has nothing to do with prejudice or insensitivity. It's about basic reading comprehension. Josh was saying that joking about slavery is a bad thing, and he was criticizing Goldberg for doing that. If you didn't immediately understand that, you can't read English well, and that is not Josh's fault.
I am getting really tired of people insisting that journalists and others write without blatantly obvious irony, because they are either poor or inattentive readers. Find a book written by a great author - Tolstoy, Austen, Henry James - and learn how to read without the help of emoticons.
July 10, 2008 1:54 AM | Reply | Permalink
Have you ever read "A Modest Proposal", by Jonathan Swift?
Call me "over-sensitive" and tell me that I need to go out and buy a sense of humor, but cannabalism has never been something I find funny.
Now Swift didn't really mean he advocates cannabalism, as far as I know.... I'll take him at his word that he was just a bit "inartful" in his choice of words... In the future, he might choose "a good beefcake joke" instead.
July 10, 2008 3:09 AM | Reply | Permalink
I've heard holocaust jokes, dead baby jokes, cancer jokes, war jokes and probably quite a few more on subjects that are definitely unfunny.
Josh very very obviously being sarcastic but humor is one of the ways we have of dealing with sensitive subjects so I find nothing per se offensive about the very concept of a slavery joke.
July 10, 2008 4:21 AM | Reply | Permalink
target="_blank">"I don't know what we're yelling about! ... Loud Noises!" -- Brick Tamland
July 10, 2008 7:13 AM | Reply | Permalink
Jade could be Matthew Weaver's sister or wife. If I don't look at the avatar or the nickname, I could swear it was Weaver's bullshit.
July 10, 2008 8:35 AM | Reply | Permalink
Jade, you lost me on this one. Josh's sarcasm is unavoidable and non-racist.
July 10, 2008 9:19 AM | Reply | Permalink
I like a good homosexual or Polish joke. But slavery, a practice that existed in many cultures on many continents against every conceivable race (perhaps even space aliens) going back into history as far as the eye can see... that's just too extreme for me.
July 10, 2008 9:22 AM | Reply | Permalink
wwstaebler,
Thank you!
Josh,
What may have seemed an innocuous and ironic comment is a raw subject area for many African-Americans. Unlike many of your readers, I have family members still alive who grew up knowing our relatives who WERE slaves. This is not a subject area that we joke about, ever. Slavery is still a relevant issue especially when more political voices are calling for the revision of the Fourteenth Amendment, so-called "originalists" sit on the U.S. Supreme Court, and human trafficking routinely takes place world-wide, even here on American soil.
Your response sets the tone for everything else on this site. Calling Jade7243's comments "bizarre" seems dismissive and downright peevish to me. As a journalist, does "free speech" trump taking responsibility for what others would consider "hurtful" or "hate speech"? What I find truly ironic is how one of most recommended reader posts from yesterday repeatedly referred to individuals as "pussies" yet NO ONE at TPM called out the author for inflammatory and sexist language. So much for TPM's policies on civility.
July 10, 2008 9:53 AM | Reply | Permalink
This is not a subject area that we joke about, ever.
Which was precisely the point of Josh's sarcasm. Why is this so hard to see?
July 10, 2008 10:09 AM | Reply | Permalink
For some people, not just Jade (and "Oregon Activist"?) the mere mention of certain words triggers an innate releasing mechanism (a dated term, I know) emitting a cascade of emotions and pseudo-thoughts that cannot be questioned, cannot be explained, and cannot be corrected. These folks are not really reacting intelligently to the stimulus, they are emitting a coiled-up behavior that they have contained (nurtured?) until they see those words.
What's so pitiful is that for some, this is "not a bug, it's a feature."
July 10, 2008 4:23 PM | Reply | Permalink
Really, you're too full of yourself.
July 10, 2008 7:38 PM | Reply | Permalink
Billy Glad,
Now you are just being a complete tool. Weaver is an out and out racist. Jade is no such thing. I do not recall you doing much, if any, challenging of Weaver when he was spewing his hate speech all over this site for month after month.
I understand why Jade reacted the way she did. I can not say if I would or not, because my ancestors did not have their entire humanity and genealogy erased. Look at all the people who go to great links to trace their specific roots, and family trees all the way back to the old countries. Jade can not do that, and neither can any of those who are descended from their abducted and enslaved ancestors.
Jimm Webb can trace his roots back to Ulster and Scotland, and identify his clan, and his ancient family roots and culture. Oprah can not. She is left to trying to find some indications of what part of Africa her ancestors were from with some vague DNA matchings that are of questionable accuracy, but she will never identify her specific African lineage.
As for those who are using Mr. Swift's Modest Proposal as an example of why people should not be so sensitive about jokes about slavery or the holocaust; you do not have a clue.
Mr. Swift was an Irishman who was not making a joke about the conditions that the English had reduced the Irish people to. He was crying out in outrage over the genocidal conditions that were being inflicted on the Irish people in their own country by posh sounding invaders. Mr. Swift was not joking. He was putting the lash to those genocidal spoilers of his native land.
Mr. Swift was speaking truth to power. Of course the murderous bastards shrugged it off, and the Irish Famine followed. Then people, such as Lady Wilde, Oscar Wilde's mother, had to lash out at those who created the conditions that caused the famine, and who did nothing to alleviate it.
Here is what she wrote. She was not much of a poet, but her anger come through. It came throught all down the years in Ireland, and that is why Bob Geldof acted to save the children.
People stop bullying Jade. She may have overreacted to some of Josh's words. She is a good and decent human being.
"The Famine Year (The Stricken Land)"
Lady Wilde's poem "The Famine Year" was anthologized in twentieth-century Irish schoolbooks. Here's the poem, which originally appeared in The Nation in January of 1847.
Weary men, what reap ye? - Golden corn for the stranger.
What sow ye? - Human corses that wait for the avenger.
Fainting forms, hunger-stricken, what see you in the offing?
Stately ships to bear our food away, amid the stranger's scoffing.
There's a proud array of soldiers - what do they round your door?
They guard our masters' granaries from the thin hands of the poor.
Pale mothers, wherefore weeping - Would to God that we were dead;
Our children swoon before us, and we cannot give them bread.
Little children, tears are strange upon your infant faces,
God meant you but to smile within your mother's soft embraces.
Oh! we know not what is smiling, and we know not what is dying;
We're hungry, very hungry, and we cannot stop our crying.
And some of us grow cold and white - we know not what it means;
But, as they lie beside us, we tremble in our dreams.
There's a gaunt crowd on the highway - are ye come to pray to man,
With hollow eyes that cannot weep, and for words your faces wan?
No; the blood is dead within our veins - we care not now for life;
Let us die hid in the ditches, far from children and from wife;
We cannot stay and listen to their raving, famished cries -
Bread! Bread! Bread! and none to still their agonies.
We left our infants playing with their dead mother's hand:
We left our maidens maddened by the fever's scorching brand:
Better, maiden, thou were strangled in thy own dark-twisted tresses -
Better, infant, thou wert smothered in thy mother's first caresses.
We are fainting in our misery, but God will hear our groan:
Yet, if fellow-men desert us, will He hearken from His Throne?
Accursed are we in our own land, yet toil we still and toil;
But the stranger reaps our harvest - the alien owns our soil.
O Christ! how have we sinned, that on our native plains
We perish houseless, naked, starved, with branded brow, like Cain's?
Dying, dying wearily, with a torture sure and slow -
Dying, as a dog would die, by the wayside as we go.
One by one they're falling round us, their pale faces to the sky;
We've no strength left to dig them graves - there let them lie.
The wild bird, if he's stricken, is mourned by the others,
But we - we die in Christian land - we die amid our brothers,
In the land which God has given, like a wild beast in his cave,
Without a tear, a prayer, a shroud, a coffin or a grave.
Ha! but think ye the contortions on each livid face ye see,
Will not be read on judgement-day by eyes of Deity?
We are wretches, famished, scorned, human tools to build your pride,
But God will yet take vengeance for the souls for whom Christ died.
Now is your hour of pleasure - bask ye in the world's caress;
But our whitening bones against ye will rise as witnesses,
From the cabins and the ditches, in their charred, uncoffin'd masses,
For the Angel of the Trumpet will know them as he passes.
A ghastly, spectral army, before the great God we'll stand,
And arraign ye as our murderers, the spoilers of our land.
July 10, 2008 10:01 AM | Reply | Permalink
Peter Principle,
Making light of slavery, even with sarcasm, is offensive to those of us whose lives continue to be drastically shaped by it. Substitute "Shoah" for "slavery" and see if the context is any less painful.
Liam,
Powerful!
July 10, 2008 10:37 AM | Reply | Permalink
I'd certainly love to hear how your life is continuing to be drastically shaped by slavery. Perhaps that will enlighten us as to how you (and perhaps even Jade) could miss the obvious sarcasm and ironic tone in Josh's post, which WAS NOT making light of slavery but was in fact pointing out how much of an idiot Goldberg is.
We all seem to understand Josh's very obvious intent but you insist on saying he was making a joke about slavery. He wasn't. Was not. Did not. Period.
July 10, 2008 11:02 AM | Reply | Permalink
The lesson here being, don't even be SARCASTIC about slavery. Irony is forbidden - because as we all know, no racial, ethnic or religious subset of humanity that has genuinely suffered from injustice has ever developed an ironic streak in their cultural idiom.
Good grief.
All I can say is, I hope you never accidentally see Curb Your Enthusiasm or the Colbert Report. You'd blow a gasket!
July 10, 2008 11:18 AM | Reply | Permalink
And this is supposed to be a liberal blog with progressive thinkers. HA!
There are some people who can be mediators and healers. Some that are brilliant at moving difficult conversations forward--conversations about race, gender, homophobia, abortion, etc.
Oregon Activist smartly attempted to illuminate "intention vs. impact" and wwstaebler called for civility.
Why the lack of compassion and empathy for Jade and others here who say Josh's comments disturbed them?
What does it cost people on a personal level or intellectual level to put yourselves in someone else's shoes and try to understand why something offended them?
You don't have to feel offended to acknowledge the legitimacy of someone else's feeling of hurt. No need to be so mean-spirited about it. >p>Geez. It's not like Jade was demanding that Josh be fired from the campaign...
July 10, 2008 11:18 AM | Reply | Permalink
Look, slavery is not solely within the ken of African Americans, Jews have had to endure it too. Can we lose the high-and-mighty tone? Does not lend itself to anything but a downward spiral.
July 10, 2008 11:59 AM | Reply | Permalink
And this is supposed to be a liberal blog with progressive thinkers. HA!
I find your use of HA! offensive. For some reason you find it funny that people here make don't take every accusation of closet racism seriously. Please legitimize my feelings of offense with an apology. Thanks in advance.
July 10, 2008 11:24 AM | Reply | Permalink
Psy, great sarcastic post, but "to be great is to be misunderstood."
-R.W. Emerson
July 10, 2008 10:12 PM | Reply | Permalink
I think the main problem here is a fundamental misunderstanding about sarcasm and irony. It's not always meant to be funny. I don't think there is anything in Josh's original post that is funny. That is what makes his post thought provoking. The fact that it's not funny...the fact that he [i]doesn't[/i] find jokes about slavery funny. If he had instead said, "I guess I don't like slavery jokes as much as some people." Would that have been offensive? Because that is the meaning of the sentence he wrote.
That said, it brings up an interesting point about language. If someone is offended someone's rhetoric but it is because they misinterpreted the writer's meaning--at what point is that the writer's fault and and what point is it the reader's fault?
For example, if someone were to write:
"Slavery in America was one of the greatest tragedies in human history."
And someone read that and thought that meant that slavery was great and got offended. Is that in anyway the writer's fault? I understand that this a very simplified example. Not many, if any, readers would misinterpret the meaning of that sentence. But it is just grammar, context, and word usage.
In this particular case, I don't think Josh is to blame. I think the meaning was pretty clear. Even Jade7243 suspected that she didn't think that Josh really liked jokes about slavery. So it does seem as if, as she says at the top of her post, she is being too sensitive.
July 10, 2008 11:51 AM | Reply | Permalink
This thread jumped the shark about 7 times already.
July 10, 2008 12:05 PM | Reply | Permalink
No kidding.
July 10, 2008 12:21 PM | Reply | Permalink
I fully understand sarcasm, irony, and context. However, Josh's pointed response and several of the above comments illustrate how people who purport to be "liberal" are often blind to how their own words and actions may be construed as racist and/or sexist. Had Jade7243 not identified herself as a black woman or dared to challenge the status quo, I doubt that her input would have been labeled "bizarre" or "overly sensitive" (a price for being uppity, perhaps?). Even if you don't share her point of view, at least recognize that if you're not an African-American, your perception and experience with the the consequences of the "peculiar institution" may be less tangible than ours. Her points are valid.
July 10, 2008 1:07 PM | Reply | Permalink
Thanks, Goldspinner.
This thread is a great exemplar of white privilege at work. Because most of the posters are white and their cultural conditioning has not led them to find the statement "enjoy a slavery joke" the least bit offensive based on its context, they believe that any black person offended by it (or any other person) is overly-sensitive. They assert the white privilege of defining when it is and is not acceptable for black people to be offended by race-related phrases and jokes.
Rather than actively trying to oppose racism by listening and trying to understand, they enforce the racist social infrastructure by claiming that they, white people, have the power to decide when blacks are allowed to be offended.
This is not unusual. It is distressingly typical. It's just more disappointing because I always hope for better from progressives. Sadly, progressives are as oppressive as any one else when they are the ones criticized.
July 10, 2008 2:35 PM | Reply | Permalink
Oregon Activist,
THANK YOU for actively making a difference as part of your life's work.
July 10, 2008 3:36 PM | Reply | Permalink
Thanks, Goldspinner, but this thread is an example of where I had a failure of nerve and did not do as I ought.
I saw Josh's comment earlier in the day and was troubled by its insensitivity. I thought about posting a comment objecting, but then moved on without doing so - letting it slip away.
That meant that the first objection came from a black woman - when ideally, white people who notice oppressive moments are obligated to speak up so that black people don't have to. What happened then, of course, is that white posters d coalesced around the usual argument that black people are just looking for insults, have a chip on their shoulders, etc. etc. One of the reasons that anti-racist white allies should speak up first is to short circuit that typical white discounting of black opinion and cut off that white claim that they get to decide what's offensive.
After Jade posted, I backed her up. But if I had been an active anti-racist ally yesterday, I would have posted earlier and on my own.
July 10, 2008 7:21 PM | Reply | Permalink
Could you explain, please, what exactly you found offensive about JM's statements in his article? Offense at his words just doesn't seem to hold any validity without completely misinterpreting them.
I'm not trying to belittle you or anyone else by asking this. I truly believe that if we parse this out to the smallest analyzanda, the debate of whether JM said anything offensive or not will dissolve. Maybe I'm wrong.
So, are you under the impression that JM does indeed enjoy a good slavery joke?
Should sarcasm be avoided altogether or only sarcasm about topics that poll with certain demographics? Where do we draw the line with sarcasm?
thanks
July 11, 2008 4:24 PM | Reply | Permalink
I used the term insensitive for a reason - because there was insensitivity to the potential impact of that phrase, "I love a good slavery joke as much as anyone..." on people whose family history was affected by slavery - particularly when the effects of slavery continue to ripple through our history.
That's not to say no one could say that, but that falls into the area of "insider/outsider" and only an insider - a black person could say that without appearing insensitive to the long-term and continuing effect of slavery. I think whites sometimes make the mistake of thinking that since slavery is over, it no longer has an effect on black lives, but that's not true. It still has an effect on white lives - reinforcing racist ideas about blacks. Sometimes in my work, I have encounters with unabashed racists and one common idea they have is that whites were only able to enslave blacks because of black inferiority. The fact that slavery was possible is then, for them, a justification for slavery. It's irrational, but then so is racism.
Your grandparents were not slaves, neither were mine. My eyes first traveled right over that to the meat of the story - Goldberg's idiocy. However, thanks to my experience in anti-racist organizing, my eyes traveled back and I thought, "oh-oh, that could be a problem" You see, for some people, that can never be a laughing matter and while they might accept an insider saying that - knowing that insider shared the common experience of racism and lost family history - it's unrealistic to expect everyone who is black to accept that from someone who is white. That's why I said I should have posted my objection right away...because I recognized how insensitive the statement was and saw the potential for offense.
July 11, 2008 7:07 PM | Reply | Permalink
You know a good general rule is the insider/outsider idea. Although I would prefer no one use the N-word, clearly it's different from the mouth of a black person than a white person. That's true for gender and other ethnic epithets as well. If you don't belong to the group affected by a joke or an epithet, don't use it.
July 11, 2008 7:13 PM | Reply | Permalink
Let me put it this way. I can tell a Swedish joke - but woe unto any Norweigan that tries. : )
July 11, 2008 7:15 PM | Reply | Permalink
So, OA, you actually believe JM "enjoys a good slavery joke as much as the next guy"?
July 11, 2008 8:41 PM | Reply | Permalink
Read what i wrote again. Did I ever say that? I talked about the appropriateness of insider/outsider joking. You said you thought seriously analyzing why this is perceived is offensive would be useful, but not if you willfully misstate what i just wrote. I took the time to answer you seriously. Please return the same degree of respect.
July 11, 2008 9:36 PM | Reply | Permalink
That's exactly what I'm trying to clarify.
I'm wondering how exactly are JM's words offensive if they are read as sarcasm. Either he enjoys a slavery joke or he doesn't.
If he doesn't, then clearly there is no way he could be on the side of offending anyone with this particular comment. If that is the case (which it would appear you agree with), then any offense taken from his words resides soley in the minds of those who wish to see offense in them--not in the actual meaning of the words.
In other words, save your energy for an issue. There doesn't appear to be one here. People are free to be offended by whatever they like, but that does not necessitate the existence of anything offensive.
July 11, 2008 10:17 PM | Reply | Permalink
No, I don't think Josh enjoys a good slavery joke. Yes, I recognize it as sarcasm. Yes, it can still be offensive. Slavery is not something he has the history or the right to joke or be sarcastic about. What is insensitive is his nonrecognition that slavery is not the place for irony - not from someone outside the group affected by slavery.
Additionally, what is even more offensive is white posters telling Jade she has no right to be offended. That is white privilege, the white poster saying white people get to set the boundaries of what black people can be offended by in terms or racial joking, irony and the like. What Josh said initially was insensitive. The response from posters and from Josh was offensive - in that they presume that as white people they can tell black people to "get over it" which is the essential point of telling black people they aren't allowed to be offended when a white person stomps on sensitive subjects so gracelessly.
July 12, 2008 11:13 AM | Reply | Permalink
Oregon Activist,
Well said!
July 12, 2008 11:47 AM | Reply | Permalink
Slavery wasn't funny 200 years ago and it's not funny now! No love lost Josh!
August 9, 2008 11:03 AM | Reply | Permalink
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