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Isn't That What Matters?
Hi there, come on in. Oh, shoot, is it raining again? I'll take that, just don't forget it when you leave. 'Course, that's how I've aquired every umbrella I've ever owned. Cool! 2006, and excellent year. Thanks so much, I'll go pop it in the frig. Oh, look, Sox is doing her wiggle dance for you. Such a show-off, but too cute.
It's raining again. The soft kind that floats rather than falls, that shifts through the air like a liquid ghost. It caresses your skin and refreshes your soul. If you're part of it, in silence, you can hear it brush across the leaves of that old tree ... leaving behind one simple droplet to represent the passing of many. In summer, this kind of misty rain is simply heaven on a hot, sultry evening. The air seems to catch a second breath and exhale relaxation. Time slows down to find it's southern drawl and everyone who cares to notice finds a rainbow.
Sox? OK, but you're not gonna like it. You know you hate going out in the rain. That was quick! If I could just get you to wipe your feet. Look out! She's heading in ... remember, not on the sofa.
Who needs their drink freshened? Great, you know where the kitchen is. By the way, what did we ever decide about the pot-luck dinner thing? I thought of a twist, tell me what you think - since some people don't cook, how about if they make requests? Then the cooks in the group can give it a shot! Don't look at me like that, it's only my second glass.
The rain's drifting in through the kitchen window. The slight breeze teaching the curtains to dance. There is laughter and conversation flowing in from the living room and I know that all is right in my world.
Just in this one moment. But just in this one moment ... isn't that what matters?







Comments (27)
Those are the instances in which you fall in love. Those small moments where you lose track of things, where everything drops away and for that simple, blessed instant you're overwhelmed by nothing except the sound of the rain, or the heartbeat beside you.
They fade too fast. We lose too much. However at the moments we have, we can exhale, let our shouders sink and drain. It doesn't last -- there are, as JB put it, jobs and chores and questions, and plates I need to twirl -- but while it does, it's actual and tangible bliss.
July 28, 2008 12:17 AM | Reply | Permalink
As I release a sigh ...
July 28, 2008 12:23 AM | Reply | Permalink
as my guitar gently weeps.
July 28, 2008 1:37 AM | Reply | Permalink
I've read your comment several times, and I have to say that I think I love you. Doesn't matter if you're purple with blue dots, two inches high, a thousand years old or none of the above. I really think I love you.
Just so ya know.
July 28, 2008 6:36 AM | Reply | Permalink
Fall in love?
fall in love?????
Mein Gott!
I guess my age is showing, but I cannot even begin to fathom your thinking here.... Has been eternity for some since having experienced such. I pray tell it doth exist; but for others.
July 28, 2008 12:55 AM | Reply | Permalink
I hear it does exist. All the tabloid TV shows say so. 'Course, they also prove it is followed by regret, divorce..
I believe in love. Now let the Beatles play in your mind -
July 28, 2008 1:09 AM | Reply | Permalink
All you need is love.
Thanks for the cold beer.
*rubs Sox's belly*
July 28, 2008 1:22 AM | Reply | Permalink
If I fell in love with you
would you promise to be true
and help me understand?
July 28, 2008 1:39 AM | Reply | Permalink
..'cuz I've been in love before
and I found that love was more
than just holding hands..
July 28, 2008 1:54 AM | Reply | Permalink
Can you harmonize too? Cuz I'm really good at it too.
If I give my heart to you
I must be sure from the very start
that you won't hurt my pride like her...
'Cuz I couldn't stand the pain.
July 28, 2008 2:00 AM | Reply | Permalink
I sang in both a barbershop and an a'capella/madrigal group for years. Unfortunately, have been without both since having moved to my present locale. *sigh* I miss that!
But my baritone voice still rings strong, albeit solo these days.
But, carrying the tune, as proferred:
And I would be sad if our new love was in vain
July 28, 2008 2:15 AM | Reply | Permalink
*sigh*... I want to believe....
But I'm a crusty old bastard.
I maintain a facade of optimism - primarily as not to dissuade my daughter. But for me....?
Nyet.
July 28, 2008 1:27 AM | Reply | Permalink
One never knows what the future holds. Never say never.
July 28, 2008 1:44 AM | Reply | Permalink
I brought the rawhide bone for Sox. You brought the Beatles in return.
All is good.
I bought my Republican mom the movie "Across the Universe" for her birthday and this past weekend I got to view it with her. She loved it. There were only two songs she didn't recognize, but she still enjoyed the whole experience. What more in life can I really ask for?
July 28, 2008 1:29 AM | Reply | Permalink
She amazed me by getting the part in the movie that brings up "Happiness Is A Warm Gun", when the priest gets spun around the hospital room.
July 28, 2008 1:33 AM | Reply | Permalink
Staying on the Beatles theme.....
Didja manage to see "Across the Universe" last fall?
July 28, 2008 1:30 AM | Reply | Permalink
coralsea, such a favorite movie of mine I bought it for my Republican mother too.
See above.
July 28, 2008 1:34 AM | Reply | Permalink
Heh.. great minds thinking alike - simultaneously, no less!
Vunderbar flick; it pleases me no end to learn you graced your gop'relatives with the dvd. Your boundless optimism is quite inspiring, Lis.
July 28, 2008 1:51 AM | Reply | Permalink
My family, as did I, loved the choreography and story line. The music goes without saying.
I wanted to get across to them how anti-war the film is, but I don't think they understood that in one sitting. I took heart in the fact that my right-leaning Indie sister took it home so she could watch it greater detail and solitude.
I'm happy about all that.
July 28, 2008 1:44 AM | Reply | Permalink
Hey, Lis. Good to see ya. Did you get a beer? See that you did, good. Weekend may not have been such a bad thing after all, you think?
July 28, 2008 1:40 AM | Reply | Permalink
Actually, looking back on it, I think I made a lot of headway. I think they are starting to understand me. The Beatles helped (thank you, John).
The fact that I have friends here, like you, helped too.
When we were'nt talking politics and Beatles, I made my mother listen to Queen Latifah's version of California Dreaming.
My mother and sister loved it.
*scratches Sox behind the ears*
July 28, 2008 1:51 AM | Reply | Permalink
You made more than headway. You made your voice known. With the kind of strength only adult children can understand.
Sox, get off of her! 70 pounds of love in your face can be ... is that the Beatles? No? Did someone change the music?
July 28, 2008 2:00 AM | Reply | Permalink
Oh, barefooted, honey....I have to go to bed or I'll never go to work tomorrow.
What is up with that, by the way? Go to bed, go to work....is this what we daydreamed of as children?
Hell, no!
But, it is what it is.
Love you, my new found friend.
*rubs Sox's belly again*
Thanks for this. I owe you. Love, love, love,
Lis
July 28, 2008 2:12 AM | Reply | Permalink
Sox is my friend now. I welcome her 70+ lbs. on my lap. And YES!! The Beatles inspired "Across the Universe" was a huge hit.
Headway feels kinda good.
*rubs Sox on the head*
July 28, 2008 2:05 AM | Reply | Permalink
'Night, Lis. Sleep peacefully. You deserve it.
July 28, 2008 2:19 AM | Reply | Permalink
Guess that's it for tonight. Late, huh? Or early, depending on how you look at it. Either way, I wish you all a wonderful Monday.
Or at least give it a shot. ;)
July 28, 2008 3:02 AM | Reply | Permalink
Time to give it my own shot - wish me the best, will you?
See ya later,
Melissa
July 28, 2008 7:25 AM | Reply | Permalink
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