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Your Whiteness is Showing: An Open Letter to Certain White Women Who Are Threatening to Withold Support From Obama in November.
As I was browsing the blogosphere, and found one of the most profoundly brilliant, and genuinely true short essays I have read concerning white women in America threatening to vote for McCain in November. Written by Tim Wise, it's titled Your Whiteness is Showing: An Open Letter to Certain White Women Who Are Threatening to Withold Support From Obama in November.
It was posted on Jack and Jill Politics, but can also be found on Wise's website here.
For those of you who don't know who Tim Wise is, "Tim Wise is among the most respected anti-racist writers and educators in the U.S., having spoken in 48 states and on over 400 college campuses. He has trained teachers, as well as corporate, government, media and law enforcement officials on methods for dismantling institutional racism, and has contributed essays to twenty books."
Here's a small portion of the essay,
I highly encourage anyone and everyone to read it. The insight is nothing short of genius.
And
now for a third question, and this is the biggie, so please take your
time with it: How is it that you have managed to hold your nose all
these years, just like a lot of us on the left, and vote for Democrats
who we knew were horribly inadequate--Kerry, Gore, Clinton, Dukakis,
right on down the uninspiring line--and yet, apparently can't bring
yourself to vote for Barack Obama? A man who, for all of his
shortcomings (and there are several, as with all candidates put up by
either of the two major corporate parties) is surely more progressive
than any of those just mentioned. And how are we to understand that
refusal--this sudden line in the proverbial sand--other than as a
racist slap at a black man? You will vote for white men year after year
after year--and are threatening to vote for another one just to make a point--but
can't bring yourself to vote for a black man, whose political views
come much closer to your own, in all likelihood, than do the views of
any of the white men you've supported before. How, other than as an act
of racism, or perhaps as evidence of political insanity, is one to
interpret such a thing?
See,
black folks would have sucked it up, like they've had to do forever,
and voted for Clinton had it come down to that. Indeed, they were on
board the Hillary train early on, convinced that Obama had no chance to
win and hoping for change, any change, from the reactionary agenda that
has been so prevalent for so long in this culture. They would have
supported the white woman--hell, for many black folks, before Obama
showed his mettle they were downright excited to do so--but you won't support the black man. And yet you have the audacity to insist that it is you
who are the most loyal constituency of the Democratic Party, and the
one before whom Party leaders should bow down, and whose feet must be
kissed?
Your whiteness is showing.














Comments (38)
Someone's already posted on this, and his blog made the Rec list.
June 11, 2008 7:52 PM | Reply | Permalink
Didn't see it. =P
June 11, 2008 8:04 PM | Reply | Permalink
Dabatable.
Again, debatable. How is it so hard to believe that someone would like Kerry, Gore, Clinton or Dukakis more than Obama, for some reason other than racism?
The best way to lure people to your political side is through insults, amirite?
June 11, 2008 8:00 PM | Reply | Permalink
Since the latest WSJ Poll has Obama 19 points ahead among all women, I don't think this is gonna be a problem......
June 11, 2008 8:03 PM | Reply | Permalink
I see these white women coming home to the Democratic Party. What issues is McCain with them on ? I can't think of one.
June 11, 2008 8:08 PM | Reply | Permalink
This is all just an excuse to go on a rant against "other people," since no one really has any idea at all about who is or is not going to vote for Obama (or McCain for that matter.) Oh well. It's the american way--smear everybody so that everything that goes wrong is someone else's fault.
June 11, 2008 8:59 PM | Reply | Permalink
This has become a new trend - go after feminists and the feminist movement. This is just another excuse to attack them.
June 12, 2008 1:29 PM | Reply | Permalink
I don't know, Bev. This piece of crap is just transparently stupid as hell. Wise doesn't make feminists look bad--he just makes himself look ridiculous.
June 12, 2008 2:45 PM | Reply | Permalink
Why on earth would they vote for McCain.
That would be like someone whose horse
finished second in the Derby, taking out their frustration by shooting their entire stable of horses, and burning down the barns.
McCain has already promised to stack the Supreme Court with Scalia clones.
June 11, 2008 9:57 PM | Reply | Permalink
Probably been posted/said somewheres before, but...I'm sure this kind of thing happens in every primary contest.
It's just that, with the Internet, so many more people are able to bring their views out for everyone else to see so things can seem far bigger/worse than they really are.
Believe Gaylthacan's comment kinda sums it all up...
June 12, 2008 8:54 AM | Reply | Permalink
"with the Internet, so many more people are able to bring their views out for everyone else to see so things can seem far bigger/worse than they really are."
While this is true, the internet also provides an avenue for greater movement and motivation on the part of these anti-Democrat Democrats.
For example, see the recent PUMA PAC ("organized to oppose the tactics and actions of the leadership of the Democratic Party and the media during the 2008 presidential campaign." )
While the actual numbers of unique participants for each is quite low, the sheer number of individual "no-Obama" sites is interesting. These are irrational people in general who call themselves the "real" Democrats and have taken it upon themselves to 'teach everyone else a lesson' via a Republican victory. Conspiracies, extreme insults and hatred, and overall nonsense is characteristic on most of the associated blogs.
June 12, 2008 12:50 PM | Reply | Permalink
Most of the feminist women who are planning to vote for McCain have made a sober assessment of the tactics Obama has used and concluded that he is unfit for the office. For starters, he used phony charges of racism to win the primary. He is the only Democratic candidate since Wallace to traffic in such stuff. He had a good cop, bad cop routine -- his campaign peddles a phony charge -- and he offeres a lame defence of the target. See Anglachel's Journal for a run-down on how he spread his phony assassination charge all over the media instead of letting Hillary's comment sit for an hour in the South Dakota media as part of a dull discusssion of timing.
Many of older feminists have been staunch supporters of civil rights and hence have been more immune to the type of guilt tripping tried above: we judge a man not on the color of his skin but on the content of his character and find Obama lacking.
June 12, 2008 3:25 PM | Reply | Permalink
Sober doesn't exclude irrational and spitefully childish. Clearly.
McCain called his own wife a c*nt in public, his wife who he was dating while married to his first wife who he later dumped for someone richer and not disabled as she was, even though she took care of their children while he was in Vietnam.
Not to mention his over-the-top temper and pro-Bush leanings.
How is that better than Obama, against whom the grievances you post about are point-of-view dependent?
How is McCain better for feminists again? Is "spite" the only thing considered in their "sober assessment"? Does that assessment not include ANY consideration of McCain's "content of character"?
Of course not, it's just spite and a desire for revenge. At best.
June 12, 2008 4:33 PM | Reply | Permalink
I wonder why Tim didn't write this to white working class men, the one demo Barack has consistently lost and which polls are still showing him struggling for, as opposed to white women. Seems to me that white workingclass men have a sad recent (last 30 years) history of actually voting against their self and family interests. But whoa, you can't have women, particularly white ones, showing any sort of petulance without slapping them down. That needs to be addressed quickly - who do they think they are? They don't have the right to make bad judgments. (!)
Don't get me wrong; I think not voting for someone based on race is fundamentally broken. But I also wonder - no, really I don't wonder that long - why the retribution for bad judgment comes so quickly for women, esp. white ones. And yes, public insult and shaming really does wonders for an argument in a country with secret ballots.
June 12, 2008 1:33 PM | Reply | Permalink
so if i am a progressive white person i am either for obama or my racism is showing?
iz that about it, boiled down to a nub, bub?
okay, set aside views on resumes and life experiences, just make it race and race alone that dictates a personz vote
is this what the fight for civil rights waz all about? you MUST vote for the black guy, white woman, hispanic, asian or whatever without our whiteness showing?
you clearly like most on this site, have forgotten that having manners and some modicum of let dead dogs lie in their souls somewhere
your candidate is leading in all the polls i have seen, the big disaparity is among white men, not among women.
before you dash to the conclusion all white people are either pro obama or a klan member in waiting for their kleagle...and insult the intelligence of any cognizant peep.
you won, get over it, move on, your guy should win, if it ever looked like a democratic year, it would seem now.
stop throwing around lurid accusations, do not make it: you are either with us or you are against us
that did not work for bush, eventually, in 2006 things changed much towards the better...do not make it more noticable than is necessary.
sure we have racism, its going to take more time to eradicate it, more than i see left in my life, sadly. but do not throw down gauntlets to folks tending to insult them, accuse them of racism, when it might just be something else, whether you choose, or the writer choses to believe it, or not
June 12, 2008 1:46 PM | Reply | Permalink
Have we not had enough posts from white people telling other white people how white they are? We get it; you're not a racist and everyone else in your neighborhood, your mom and dad, teachers, little league coaches, well they're all racists particularly if they didn't support Obama. Anyone else see this movie before; the young and the self-righteous, or the old and inexcusably self-righteous?
What patent nonsense. Here's a fundamental truth from someone who will vote for Senator Obama in November. Anyone who thinks that anyone else is a racist simply because he or she decides to vote for John McCain this year is nothing but, by definition, as racist as they come.
Progressive my ass. Post-racial? Give me a break.
June 12, 2008 2:12 PM | Reply | Permalink
bslev,
I'm getting tired of seeing these posts, too, but I see a little crisper distinction than what's usually discussed.
Racism is one of my sore spots. I take discussions about race very seriously. Being a female, I'm touchy about still-pervasive, deeply-rooted sexism too.
But this piece is useless in any productive discussion about race or gender. I'm getting tired of seeing people trying to play racism against sexism. Pieces like this usually have a pretty clear intent: someone is trying to establish some moral failing for feminists who support Clinton or African Americans who support Obama. It's ugly.
June 12, 2008 3:02 PM | Reply | Permalink
Laura:
You are a voice of reason, and I am appreciating your contribution to this forum more and more. I agree with you that one of the most distressing aspects of the Obama-Clinton contest has been this zero-sum notion that one cannot be simultaneously concerned about and committed to eradicating both sexism and racism. It's just an unnatural position to be in, and I'm hoping that we will restore an equilibrium in these areas when the campaign dust has settled. It serves no purpose to have these disputes between progressives.
Bruce
June 12, 2008 3:37 PM | Reply | Permalink
Thanks, Bruce. Coming from you, that's a big compliment.
You know, I'm not naturally inclined to credulously swallowing conspiracy theories, but your comment makes me wonder of some of this, as you say, zero-sum racism-sexism conflict originates from some opportunistic right-wing source? The seeds of this notion, strategically planted, can spread virally through the blogosphere. I've seen some really smart people buying into this crap too. Frighteningly effective.
June 12, 2008 4:03 PM | Reply | Permalink
Love that avatar.
June 12, 2008 6:07 PM | Reply | Permalink
Yes, you made a great choice Bev. When are you getting one now? :)
June 12, 2008 8:03 PM | Reply | Permalink
Nathan, be careful about accepting what this Wise guy is saying. I think he's using flawed reasoning to make a dumb and destructive statement.
He's trying to say that white feminists who withhold their vote for Obama are therefore racists. He says
But nowhere in his essay does he acknowledge that Clinton is the first woman to ever have a serious shot at winning the office of President. This part is huge and should always be taken into consideration if one is truly trying to understand what's going on here.
I commented on this Wise essay yesterday when it was posted on TPM Cafe. If you don't mind, I'll just finish by pasting in my comment from yesterday's thread:
June 12, 2008 3:18 PM | Reply | Permalink
That article is ridiculous. I plan to vote for Obama, but I know some women who preferred Hillary (as I did) who are threatening not to. Believe me, the color of his skin is not even on the radar for these feminist women. They really just don't like the man. My mother is one of these people and so is one of my closest friends. Personally, Obama has always made my skin crawl. But I am a pragmatist. If I had thought he would be the most electable candidate, I would have supported him. Now that he is the nominee, I have no choice. There is no alternative and I certainly support most of his views even if I don't care for the container (and again not about race, but rather all those smarmy vacuous platitudes—and I would feel the same way regardless of who uttered them). Articles like this one just further divide the party and reveal volumes about the pettiness and narcissism of Obama's supporters. He may very well win and win big, but that is because John McCain is such a terrible campaigner and generally repulsive human being.
June 12, 2008 3:52 PM | Reply | Permalink
I'm glad you plan to be rational when you cast your vote. I appreciate that.
You're right when you say that articles like this only divide the party. Wise's reasoning is flawed and unfair.
But I respectfully request that you reconsider the last part of the sentence, where you conclude that the article is a revelation of the pettiness and narcissism of Obama's supporters. I see this as a sweeping generalization that is unfair and destructive, as well.
We see it everywhere--aggrieved Clinton and Obama supporters painting the "enemy" with a broad brush. I think we should try to keep ourselves conscious of this inaccurate and unfair way of thinking.
June 12, 2008 4:13 PM | Reply | Permalink
my god i read the above post and pro TPM comments and thoughts the folks here think i am a racist? (which by the way i am not) but since anyone not voting obama and is voting mccain must by definition be vile, racist against obama (even though i am black), or a republican troll.
to call those who have decided to support mccain irrational is really a stretch as well. again for myself the most important reasons that kept me in the dem camp was it's supposed support of racial and gender issues. since that is no longer the concern of the dem party it is not as appealing anymore. it's not me who left the party but the NEW DEMOCRATIC PARTY has left me.
for all it's worth, for the dems to now come out and acknowledge the problems we have complained about throughout this campaign is wayy to little wayy too late. i don't trust obama or his advisors to understand what policies would actually help women in the US. his recent choice of caroline kennedy and oprah as female window-dressing tells me that he has no clue about the gendered cultures that women in the US have, or how women's persistent income gaps, power gaps, etc., are actually constructed in day-to-day life. i have been very fortunate to do well in this country by sheer hard work and not wasting time wallowing in racial victimization. i will not support a campaign that has blatantly played the race card to its advantage nor a party and campaign that has stood by and allowed hilliary/women to be so disrespected and marginalized
i will work to get down ticket dems elected but will do everything i can to show my lack of support for obama. with a strong dem senate and congress mccains hands are tied. many of us woould greatly appreciate folks to please stop threatening women with Roe V Wade and women's right issues. john mccain and the GOP have been in the majority party rule for years. if they were going to destroy womens rights and policies related to women they would have done so already. mccain's veto ppower will be significatly diminished with a veto proof congress and senate. i don't expect him to run a second term anyway.
since i am deemed a vile, racist, republican troll no need to respond. ;-)
June 12, 2008 3:57 PM | Reply | Permalink
The thing is, if Obama were a scintilla more progressive than Dukakis, Kerry, Gore or Clinton, he might have an argument. As it is, Obama has run an alarmingly center-right campaign that worries me. He has said "everything is on the table" with Social Security Reform. He has declared health care mandates off limits, using rightwing talking points. He supports the faith-based initiative slushfund for bigots, he support eviscerating public education with vouchers, he supports more - not less- religion in government. I could go on, but my hackles are rising. I have to not think about this list to be able to vote for him, because when I do, I get infuriated with the racist caricature that must be infecting so many of his supporters assuming that because he is black, he must be liberal. Talk about the whiteness showing.
I like Tim Wise. I have recommended him for seminars and convenings. I love his books, but he's fallen into the same trap of thinking black=liberal. Grow up, Tim. You know better.
June 12, 2008 4:01 PM | Reply | Permalink
I think I saw, in appalachia, white men vote for a woman....even if voting for a woman was the last thing they thought they would do.
They normally would have been flocking to Obama (if he was white).
This told me that racism trumped sexism. They would rather vote for a white woman than a black man. I saw the interviews, I heard what they said. Yes, they were right in HRC's wheelhouse and she had much better name recognition. I am not saying EVERYONE in appalachia...but where BHO should have done a lot better and from the comments these voters were making....plenty of white dems could not pull the lever for a black man. And anti-feminist white men would vote for white woman before they would vote for a black man.
I am also sure anti-feminist black men would more likely vote for a black woman, than a white person.
These are blatant generalizations, but statistically there MUST be people out there that would vote more strongly based on race rather than gender.
I know white people right in my hometown, who I thought were very left. They hated buush. Been ranting now for years. But now that BHO is the nominee they are suddenly at a loss, and a few even blurted out that they can't vote for a black guy. One shilly-shallied and said he didn't think he could trust him, and muttered and sputtered back into silence. I knew what he was thinking.
I think a WHOLE LOT of fervor and late HRC support was coming from people who did not want to be confronted by the narrowing of our candidates down to one - who is black.
Whatever racism that I harbor, it never even slowed me down in getting behind BHO. I guess I worried over elect-ability and the same racism I know exists amongst a sizable percent of the white voters...but I personally have no qualms about pulling the lever for him. I would as willingly pull the lever for a woman, it's just that HRC is a neocon in sheeps clothing. She is a corporatist. Wholly beholden to big money interests, and she wasted her 8 years in the senate, didn't do a damn thing for anybody except buush.
So I think the article about Your White Is Showing has some merit. It certainly doesn't describe ALL women HRC hold-outs. I understand and empathize with women voters who really had their chips "all-in" for HRC. But I know that a small but important % of them would rather not vote for a black man. Understandable.
Perhaps the MAN part was also galling them. Understandable.
Wanting to smack your child is also understandable. Doesn't mean it's your best course of action.
June 12, 2008 4:04 PM | Reply | Permalink
ohh and to those who said i was racist for stating that i don't bother reading many black web site because they typically very angry in content. spend some time on the jack and jill site and you will see a perfect example of what i meant.
i do not discount racism in america and did not do so on this site. my point was that i do not need a weekly/daily reminder of it from many black web sites. i believe my time is better spent bettering myself and my finacial situation then wallowing in self pity. that i do not need obama winning the presidency to feel good aboout myself as a black american. i am proud to be black and american now.
again, in my opinion the people on this site do not really understand all of black society and its experience. we see racism in society and deal with it in various ways. it is amazing to me to have so many now define racism for black people in america for me as a black woman.
June 12, 2008 4:12 PM | Reply | Permalink
I have to say, I'm surprised this has gotten so much attention. Someone else had already posted a similar post which made the top 10 rec'd. ...Hm.
June 12, 2008 4:49 PM | Reply | Permalink
It really shouldn't be surprising. This is the first time in US history that a presidential election has come down to a black candidate versus a white candidate. Race and racism in the US are going to be legitimately huge themes throughout the campaign.
June 12, 2008 5:23 PM | Reply | Permalink
In addition to the thoughtful structured response, I got a chuckle out of "Wise guy". Thanks for that.
June 12, 2008 5:04 PM | Reply | Permalink
oops, that was meant for Laurajordan.
June 12, 2008 5:11 PM | Reply | Permalink
I was for Hillary until: I heard Bill say the "fairytale" comment, then the S.C. "Jessie Jackson" comment, then the "I landed under fire" comment, then the Hillary campaign using the altered photo of Obama, then the "McCain is qualified, but Obama has a speech he made two years ago" comment, the "he says he's not a muslim" comment, the "hard working white people" comment, her asinine changing of the metrics(superdelegates/states/big states/total votes( (with MI & FL included)) everyday so she could claim that she is ahead.
It just became too much to bear. She then started blaming the media because Obama was beating her. You probably think that the media gave Obama a break--give me a break on that one. Obama got slammed more in the media for bowling a 39, than Hillary did for saying McCain is more qualified for president than Obama.
When I first heard someone say that Hillary wanted Obama to lose to McCain so she could run in 2012. I initially thought it was b.s. Then as she continued, and continued, and continued. I started to believe that they were right. The female dems that will vote for McCain or sit out, are either not thinking straight or are repugs working for Rove. Either way you get what you deserve. You lost. She lost. Get over it. If you wanna become a rethuglican, they'll be happy to have your vote and reproductive control of your body.
June 12, 2008 6:00 PM | Reply | Permalink
I am confuse! Are elections about getting the right person to do a good job? There was always this Clinton's supporters will vote for McCain on the news. If voting decisions are made on people instead of issues, those people don't address issues. If you say McCain is the same as Bush when Clinton is running but now you flip flop to McCain. Your vote is for the person not the administration of issues. You know, don't wonder about the extreme weather. The 360 degrees changes would cause the tornadoes.
June 12, 2008 6:45 PM | Reply | Permalink
Obama supporters,
Now, I have a valid position to critique Clinton supporters who vote for McCain, but the majority of you don't have a leg to stand on. During the primary you were out there lying through your teeth with ignorant claims that Clinton should run as McCain's VP, that Clinton was to the right of McCain, that Clinton was really a Republican.
Now that she has conceded, all of a sudden she's no longer all those things and you cannot understand why her supporters would support McCAin? Why not when you have been telling them for months that the two are the same on the issues?
Now, I know that's not true. But then, I was a Clinton supporter and knew she was more progressive than Obama. But you all, you have been lying about her position for so long, you really have no right to criticize the Clinton supporters who took you at your word when you said she was just like McCain.
June 12, 2008 7:01 PM | Reply | Permalink
It's not the Obama supporters fault that Clinton decided to basically endorse McCain with the "commander-in-chief threshold" line, not to mention her endorsement of McCain's gas tax holiday plan. Her tactics during the primary were eerily Rovian at times, and I found more than just Obama supporters recognizing this.
Perhaps it's simply that her concession speech put all that shit to the side. Because it did. Did I ever hate Clinton herself? No, just her campaign. But since a candidate is directly representative of the campaign they run, one can't help but associate her with her campaign's tactics.
June 12, 2008 7:50 PM | Reply | Permalink
1) Tim Wise was writing this letter to Harriet Christian and those Clinton supporters who would agree with her.
2) As far as such Clinton supporters are concerned, Wise is absolutely correct.
3) Voting for John McCain is not a prima facie sign of racism.
But...
Harriet Christian is taking a minority position and this is one of those times when being right is, perhaps, less important than being unified. Most white women seem to be getting over their disappointment at the outcome of the primaries and switching to support Obama. Those who aren't really do need to examine why McCain deserves their support over the democrat they would normally vote for. While it is true that Obama is an unknown quantity, we know John McCain all too well. We know precisely what type of disaster we smell cooking in the McCain kitchen.
And we may not like what Wise has to say in much of his piece but we have to ask why it seems to be so acceptable to some white women to vote for the Republican rather than doing what most women always do and vote for the democrat while holding our noses? The democratic party is a coalition party. That means that most of us are ultimately disappointed in the Presidential nominee. But we show up and vote for the person anyway.
Nobody should violate their conscience with the vote they cast in November. And the wonderful thing about this election is the opportunity it provides all of us to free our minds and vote on our true convictions and best interests and to clarify what those are in our own minds.
Time Wise may have offended some readers. It was unfortunate. But the confrontation helps people to figure out what they DO believe and what really does matter to them in voting for a president.
June 12, 2008 8:09 PM | Reply | Permalink
That pretty much sums it up. Thank you for the comment. =)
June 12, 2008 9:54 PM | Reply | Permalink
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