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This is the Story of Me...A response to More Dumb questions about Barack Obama and Black Folks
I am who I am. I am black. I am African-American. Though my ancestral heritage states otherwise. Either way, I am black. No, I don't claim to have a pulse on the black community, but I do have a pulse on what it is like to be black in America, and how some black folks are feeling about Barack Obama.
I wasn't raised in the ghetto of Mobile, Alabama. I was raised in a middle-class neighborhood where my neighbors were white and black. My great-aunt lived in an all-black neighborhood. I had cousins who lived in the housing projects. I was just fortunate enough to have this kind of education. When I read blogs that questions some people's blackness, I get a little uneasy. Because, no one can put into question someone's blackness.
When Barack Obama started his campaign, a lot of black people thought that Barack was one of us. That he wasn't "black" enough to identify with us. So many had decided to vote for Hillary because they knew her, and she was Bill's wife. As the nomination process went on, Barack's blackness came on display. Suddenly, black folks didn't see Barack as not "black" enough, they saw him as "one of us".
What we failed to realize is that Barack is everyone of us. He's not black or white, he's a human being. Just like me. Even though my ancestry is African, Irish, and Blackfoot Indian, and I am still a human being, and I am part of the human race. People question my "blackness" all the time. Because I don't listen to a lot of rap music, but I have never had anyone question my "human-ness." No one can never question that. No one can question Barack's.
The one thing I want people to take away from this blog is that it is time for all this to end. I was raised to love everyone regardless of skin color. I was raised to embrace who I am, but not let my race run me. In other words, I am going to be LaKeisha Michelle Chestnut, a woman, a mother, a daughter, a lover, and a friend regardless of my racial make-up. Barack Obama is going to be President Barack Obama regardless of his racial makeup.
Thanks for reading!!








Comments (54)
Thank you for a fine post.
June 9, 2008 12:51 PM | Reply | Permalink
Good on 'ya LaKeisha. You've got it right. I'm married to a Filipina. We have a daughter. What is she, white? Well, no. Is she Asian? No again. She is what the Filipinos call a mestiza, meaning half-and-half. In Hawaii, she would be called hapa-haole, half white. She is in fact a human being. This is the wonderful thing about Barack Obama. Besides because cool, elegant, intelligent, articulate and charismatic as all get-out, he is all of us. (As an aside here, I think that my daughter is hotter-looking than any one-hundred percent Caucasian or Asian. She's wow!)
June 9, 2008 11:38 PM | Reply | Permalink
Thanks for your excellent post. If only all were as wise and secure in their own being.
June 9, 2008 12:53 PM | Reply | Permalink
Thank you LaKeisha. I started supporting Obama when Biden dropped out, not because I'm black (in fact I was told I "had" to vote for Clinton because of my gender and age) but because he was the best candidate. That's it. The best candidate.
June 9, 2008 2:14 PM | Reply | Permalink
I love this post.
There waa recently a news report about some towns in the deep South that have elected black mayors. In one, this development was initially upsetting to some of the towns' white voters. But after a while, as the mayor did his job like all mayors do, race became less and less of an issue. In one amazing interview, a white voter seemed to know the mayor well, seemed to know a lot about what he was doing, but was surpirsed to hear that the mayor is black.
There will be voters who vote against Obama because of race, but we just need to soldier on, because after Obama is elected, he will do the job he does as the person he is, and those narrow minded voters might just learn a thing or two, might just open up their minds a bit.
June 9, 2008 2:28 PM | Reply | Permalink
Thank you.
The question of "blackness" is, by and large, a pretty stupid one - but it continues to be asked. Judging by the rather noticeable racism in this campaign, it's pretty clear that Barack is Black, and that he is treated as such by a society that hopes to wish away its race problem with minor gestures and symbolic achievements.
I applaud Barack Obama, the candidate I've supported since his entry into the presidential race. But if we are fortunate enough to bring about his election in the fall, he will still lead a nation weighed down with ignorance. One man's elevation to the nation's highest office provides inspiration, but not solutions. Those are left to us all.
June 9, 2008 3:29 PM | Reply | Permalink
Well we fail in that when we fail to realize that every one of us is every one of us.
And I believe that that is the truest thing I ever discovered or became aware of. I didn't realize that profoundly until I had my mitrochondrial DNA analyzed for recent ancestry. I was raised a white Protestant and as far back as I knew in my mother's family, which is the only line that they can test in women because we only get the Y from our mothers; men get both. Anyway, I was wrong about what I thought I knew because it turns out that genetically I am an Ashkenazi and Sephardi Jew from eastern europe/turkey, and about 1/8 African, mostly from Ghana, though I have markers in the Congo, the Central African Republic, Kenya and Ethiopia as well.
I had no idea. When I got those results, those were the most fascinating two days of my life. The Jewish genetic heritage is so overwhelming that I missed my African roots altogether until I looked again. And that's when I realized in a very profound way that we are all the same being.
It came to me not that we are a human family, but that we are the same being - we are one entity in fact. I can't explain it any better than that.
I love you post - it's beautiful and very appreciated. Very - thanks.
June 9, 2008 4:31 PM | Reply | Permalink
From the Dhammapada:
See yourself in others. Then whom can you hurt?
June 9, 2008 5:42 PM | Reply | Permalink
Indeed.
The difference between knowing that and really understanding that is vast, I found. It was for me, anyway. That may not at all be true for everyone.
Intellectually I know all kinds of things, but that doesn't mean my whole being understands those things. I had a very strange moment when whatever it was deep in me that I didn't even know was there that kept me separate from other people, shattered.
Very odd moment. I'm glad it happened.
:)
June 9, 2008 7:08 PM | Reply | Permalink
Bustin' out the Dhammapada... Niiiice.
June 10, 2008 12:42 AM | Reply | Permalink
Don't be anything.
June 12, 2008 1:33 AM | Reply | Permalink
America is an African and a European nation in addition to being Native American. Hence all Americans are black, and all Americans are white. We all navigate both sides of this intricate binary system of culture. Even the squarest European-American casually uses yesteryear's African-American parlance without even realizing it. Yet even someone with a lily white complexion would have trouble getting hired if they spoke Ebonics in a job interview. Since race does not exist genetically, the best thing we can do to fight racism is to celebrate the African-American culture that is in all of us.
June 9, 2008 5:01 PM | Reply | Permalink
No, all Americans are not black and all Americans are not white. Calm down! We can renounce racism without backing into stupidity!
June 9, 2008 6:43 PM | Reply | Permalink
Your grandchildren will agree with me.
June 10, 2008 12:58 AM | Reply | Permalink
I had my ancestry traced by a Genealogy Service. It was very expensive,but they were able to
discover that I am descended from a very long line of dead people.
All joking aside: We are all out of Africa.
both the DNA , and the paleoanthropology evidence makes that clear.
June 9, 2008 5:04 PM | Reply | Permalink
liam- This is my recent ancestry. If I want to go further, they can run it through another data base, but since we are all the children of one mitochondrial African Eve, I don't really care about deep ancestry - doesn't interest me as much.
But ultimately we are all Africans - some of us just stuck around Africa longer.
;)
June 9, 2008 5:12 PM | Reply | Permalink
Thanks for the post!
I'd definitely second it, although I'm white I saw many of the same things you discussed with people I go to college with who are black. At first I heard a lot of the "he's not black, he's just using blacks to get into the white house" and "I don't know much about Hillary, but she's got Bill!" I found it all very strange and somewhat offensive in the case of the first comment based on identity politics and then as a feminist in the case of the second.
But it was exactly like you said. There was suddenly a tidal wave of change and almost a feeling of shame that appeared most definitely after South Carolina. I remember when I had checked up with a girl named Gena and asked her if she still liked Hillary and she stated, "Well, I don't know, she's been pissing me off lately with some of the things she said".
I should say that the people I talked to didn't follow politics very well, but these were their opinions. All I can say is that I'm glad the switch happened, but it certainly she some light on a solid voting block.
June 9, 2008 5:05 PM | Reply | Permalink
this is just for you lakeisha. since you feel democrats who do not agree with you completely are not real democrats and don't need us you won't mind our new grassroots campaign being formed.
we are also creating a counter weight to MOVEon.org i have heard. YEAHHHHHH!!!!!!!!!!!!
The Hillary Grassroots Campaign is proud to announce that we have joined the coalition to just "Just Say NO Deal."
http://www.justsaynodeal.com Millions of disaffected voters or "pumas" (party unity my ass) have banded together to form this coalition of the unwilling... - Just Say No Deal!
please visit
http://hillaryclintonnews.blogspot.com
June 9, 2008 5:36 PM | Reply | Permalink
I went to that website, wherein it is thought that HRC mighta oughta shoulda run as an independent.
http://www.thepetitionsite.com/1/We-Want-Hillary-In-The-White-House
What a deluded, embittered, useless, and ultimately pitiful group of HRC idolators.
June 9, 2008 5:41 PM | Reply | Permalink
oh yes! 'just say no' is back!
can we have bumper-stickers?
and policemen coming to talk to school children?
and awesome commercials involving eggs?
June 9, 2008 7:10 PM | Reply | Permalink
AKA: Michelle McGee
June 9, 2008 7:11 PM | Reply | Permalink
Michelle! You've inspired me. I just contributed $25 to the Obama campaign in honor of your thread hijackings! Don't believe me? You can check here:
http://my.barackobama.com/page/outreach/preview/main/TrollBowl
June 10, 2008 11:08 AM | Reply | Permalink
come join us. :-)
June 9, 2008 5:37 PM | Reply | Permalink
There are a few threads here where you have not yet posted this come-on. But I guess you're doing OK for your first day.
Your crowd will play no role in November.
June 9, 2008 5:44 PM | Reply | Permalink
This is not its first day. Best to ignore it.
June 9, 2008 5:50 PM | Reply | Permalink
Michelle,
This not the blog to post about how I feel about you. If you want a debate, I truly welcome it, but not here. I have a blog that I post to that we can have a debate. It's called "Keeping It Real with LaKeisha". I will definitely give you the address so you can read it, post a comment, or whatever you want to do. I am all up for debate. Being a real Democrat means you can agree to disagree, but when you talk about someone who is trying to bring about change in THIS country for the better, then you are not a "REAL" democrat. I am down for party unity, and I will embrace my fellow Hillary Clinton delegates with open arms at the Convention. Because we have one common goal, to make sure this country is better for our children. This is not about Hillary or Barack, it's about US and OUR CHILDREN. I'm a mother of 3 daughters, and I want them to know that I help make the country that they live in a better place for all. You got a problem with that? Then I suggest you, get on another train, because this CHANGE train has left the station!!
June 9, 2008 5:49 PM | Reply | Permalink
Beautiful post.
June 9, 2008 5:44 PM | Reply | Permalink
I'm in the supposed Hillary Demo (boomer, white, female). As a matter of fact, my mom is also in the Hillary Demo (even older, white, female). Guess what! We've both been Obama supporters for months. Why? Because his ideology matches ours, he's calm under fire, and his ability to motivate We the People is off-the-charts.
And yep, you're right. It turns out Barack Obama is one of "us" too. Nice post.
June 9, 2008 5:55 PM | Reply | Permalink
Rec'd.
Well stated, from beginning to end.
June 9, 2008 6:02 PM | Reply | Permalink
This is the second post that has been recommended, and I thank you very much, ya'll!! I''ll sum my point up in a little bit...
LaKeisha
June 9, 2008 6:14 PM | Reply | Permalink
lakeisha,
not interested, no time..and really not relevant.
v/r,
michelle
June 9, 2008 6:34 PM | Reply | Permalink
Well apparently you have time to post here. But no time for an honest debate? Again, I do need to reiterate that you are not a REAL Democrat!!!!
REAL Democrats debate...
I think you're scared of an intelligent debate or you just hates someone who disagrees with you. Either way, I will NOT let you hijack my post. You can either debate me or get off my post.
You have truly crossed over in my domain. You don't want an honest debate or as you say, don't have time or I'm not relevant. But as of today, this ends now! You call yourself a Hillary supporter, but you're not. Hillary would not even entertain you or your thoughts about Obama. So let it go!! You're annoying, and I don't have time to feed your non-existent ego.
THANK YOU!!
June 9, 2008 7:01 PM | Reply | Permalink
AKA: Michelle McGee
June 9, 2008 7:11 PM | Reply | Permalink
Troll... no food for YOU!
June 9, 2008 7:18 PM | Reply | Permalink
"I was raised a white Protestant and as far back as I knew in my mother's family, which is the only line that they can test in women because we only get the Y from our mothers; men get both."
Just some questions for HusseinTenaX -- in principle, being female, you're not getting any Y chromosome info but in your other chromosomes you're getting parental DNA from both your father and mother, and your mitochondrial DNA is a whole different ball of wax. Are you sure you're not getting a mix of dad and mom dna -- and where did you get the sequencing done? But I agree with the gist of what you're saying -- if we all took a look at our DNA, I'm sure we'd find evidence of all kinds of ethnicities, countries of origin, races, etc.
Alex
June 9, 2008 6:40 PM | Reply | Permalink
Actually for both boys and girls, mitochondrial DNA is all inherited from the mother. All of an individual's mitochondria (and therefore all mitochondrial DNA) are descended from the mitochondria in the mother's ovum: the father's sperm enters the ovum and contributes 1/2 of the nuclear DNA but nothing else.
Mitochondrial DNA analysis traces a family back only through successive maternal lineages. HusseinTinaX is getting pure maternal information, back through maternal grandmother, etc.
Women have two X chromosomes (in the nuclear DNA), one from each parent. Men have one Y from the father, one X from the mother.
Y chromosome analysis traces a man's family back through successive paternal lineages.
June 9, 2008 6:55 PM | Reply | Permalink
A nice post and I wish we could all be "colorblind."
Unfortunatley, there are plenty of racists on all sides.
June 9, 2008 7:26 PM | Reply | Permalink
This is a terrific post. Thanks.
It was particularly rivetting for me because I've just been over at Daily Kos where there's a thread sounding off at CNN because they're working on a special `Black in America.` The thread & comments basically object to the special because they see it as race baiting.
Both my mother and I were incensed before this thread because we'd read an article profiling the impact of race in Ohio where a 62 year old white man had told the journalist that the Constitution should be amended so that blacks could never be President.
My mother directed me to the thread, where she'd lost her temper. She wrote:
"I'm so TIRED of everyone portraying Barack as a black man. He is a BIRACIAL man.
America should be ashamed - there's so much coverage of this overseas - that the American media keeps calling him a black candidate - he's a biracial candidate.
He was brought up by WHITE people, which makes him just as much, if not more, white as it does black.
I'm so sick of the racism in this campaign. I've just read an article where a 62 year old man in Ohio said that the Constitution should be amended to stipulate that the President can't be black!
The whole thing's repulsive."
And then I come back here and read your wonderful post and feel all over the place! sigh So many different realities going on in different universes.
I just have to go back to Obama's own attempt to conduct a non-racial campaign - but the moment I resolved to do that I remember how annoyed I get whenever I see him actually mention race: he'll be emphasising inclusiveness and talk about white, African-American, Hispanic and Asian America, but NEVER does he include in that context native Americans. Not once have I heard him do that. (I expect he did when he was visiting reservations.)
But every time he omits to mention them I get furious: it reminds me how small their voting percentage is and that that's no doubt why: it means they're so rarely on the politicians' campaign radar.
June 9, 2008 8:24 PM | Reply | Permalink
I promised a summary, and here it is.
I want to thank everyone that has written comments to this post. I hope that you all took something positive from what I said. This is my highest recommended post so far. Please by all means, if someone disagrees, and I am not talking about all these trolls. I am talking about true people who disagrees with what I said, by all means, say so. I like a healthy and honest debates. But again thank you to you all...Including Fran. BTW, Fran, Obama has met with some of the Native American tribes, and in fact some of the tribe leaders have endorsed him. SO, he hasn't forgotten us. (I am 1/3 Native American on my mother's side. My maternal great-grandmother was full-blood Blackfoot and my great-grandfather's maternal grandmother was full blooded Cherokee.)
Again...Thank you...
PS...The comment board is acting up!!
June 9, 2008 9:30 PM | Reply | Permalink
Oh yes Michelle! People get ready there's a train a comin', don't need no baggage just get on board.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=y0FnjkSFwss
June 9, 2008 9:30 PM | Reply | Permalink
I understand your position, but let me disagree slightly.
I wake up to MSNBC news with an entirely Whitebread co-hosting panel. African-Americans are on occasionally as guests and rarely as co-hosts. Latinos and Asians are rare. The Caucasian panel may be gloriously "colorblind., but the view of the Latino population is only concerns issues surrounding immigration.
To me being color/ethnicity aware is important. It lessons the ability of certain groups to be demonized. Blacks, Latinos as TV news hosts might provide a presence and point of view that allows the rest of the country to view these groups as one of us. I fear a "colorblind" society.
June 9, 2008 9:33 PM | Reply | Permalink
No need to fear a colorblind society. It's was the dream that Martin Luther King, Jr. That we all live in a society where no one is judged on the color of their skin, but by the content of their character. That's the kind of world I want my kids to live in.
June 9, 2008 9:57 PM | Reply | Permalink
Ooops--I think my last post was meant for Lakeisha. Getting a little paranoid about the trolls--some known as Michelle.
June 9, 2008 9:36 PM | Reply | Permalink
Yuck--gag--barf. Rereading the comments I was definitely scammed by Michelle. Don't feed the trolls!
June 9, 2008 9:42 PM | Reply | Permalink
well I was going to post but now you got me paraniod and confused, zydecogirl, lol Ah hell, I enjoyed reading this article found it inspiring (lump in throat inspiring). Thanks.
June 9, 2008 10:05 PM | Reply | Permalink
This is the troll, not LaKeisha--her posts are fine.
michelle bociurkiw
June 10, 2008 5:09 PM | Reply | Permalink
I am the reflection of the child who drops his ball in the street and almost gets run over because he was distracted and wasn't thinking.
I am the reflection of the teenager who smokes pot and tries something else just to either seem cool or try something for the hell of it just to get a reaction.
I am the relection of the woman who goes to work with a swollen eyelid and says she was just "wrassling" with her boyfriend in fun, and something crazy happened, and wants to stay home but can't.
I am the boy my white female self went to school with in third grade who had a tank full of little green lizards in his bedroom and I sat for hours playing with them, only to have my mother worry and wonder where I am, while still being the boy who wondered why that white lady came over here demanding her daughter back.
I am me. And I'm listening. And I love the voice that is talking to me, straight.
Thank you.
June 9, 2008 10:55 PM | Reply | Permalink
Thanks for the post. I myself am way over the pundits breaking down voters into subgroups of race and gender. So way over it. If someone is getting 51% that's really all I want to know. If its useful for the campaigns to dig in deeper and see what subpopulations they are failing in let them. But to repeatedly bleat it out over the news is dehumanizing and insulting.
June 9, 2008 11:26 PM | Reply | Permalink
you are a hoot lakeisha and a bit dramatic i might add. wonder if that's also in that DNA. lol
June 9, 2008 11:49 PM | Reply | Permalink
No, I am an activist. That's what's in my DNA! Dramatic? Oh, I can get vocal when I believe in something. Like I said..debate me or get off my post!!! Plain and simple!!
LaKeisha
June 10, 2008 12:27 AM | Reply | Permalink
You seem to remain undebated. As you should be.
June 10, 2008 1:13 AM | Reply | Permalink
MB:
Don't you let these brickbats distract you, gir...(er, sir or madam).
These fools are only wasting their own time sharing sincere thoughts with the likeminded, whilst you you clever do..(er, *dog or bitch) are cashin' checks and cashin' in on that ad from the back of the matchbook WORK FROM HOME IN YOUR SPARE TIME! NO EDUCATION, TRAINING OR THOUGHT REQUIRED
*"on the internet, no one knows you're a ..."
June 10, 2008 2:02 AM | Reply | Permalink
LaKeisha-
Loved your post!
I cringe when race comes up in the political conversation, because I don't think it should matter what Obama's background consists off. I appreciate him for his character and honestly. He will tell you the truth, rather than what he thinks you want to hear. That is so refreshing!
However, I have come to realize that it is ultimately good that we are now discussing race. We need to bring it out into the daylight and examine our feelings about race and ethnicity. It's a kind of national therapy. Everyone is different in someway, which makes us unique individuals. Therefore, we are all the same and all different at the same time.
Let's talk about what it means to have light skin or darker skin, or being an older woman or a younger woman, or being gay, Jewish, a white male or whatever.
I'm glad you started the conversation!
June 10, 2008 2:39 AM | Reply | Permalink
You Go Girl!!!!!!!!!
June 10, 2008 8:16 AM | Reply | Permalink
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