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Sound and fury.

The wound is deep, and it is raw. But in a time for healing, some are trying to cut even deeper.

As we all know by now, many women that supported Hillary Clinton are planning to vote for John McCain or sit out the election altogether.

I've always felt that though I am a man, my individual perspective had certain commonalities with aspects of feminism. First, my concept of what many would assume is a set reality - my "Blackness" - is as amorphous as the various attitudes, experiences and voices that shape popular feminist theory. I've never understood feminism to advocate solely one path to gender equality, nor one perspective on how unfair American society can truly be to women. It's overly simplistic to think that a soccer mom in suburban Denver would have the same thoughts and views on inequities as a waitress in Columbia, S.C., or a high-powered attorney in New York City.

Yet sexism can create a sisterhood, diverse as it may be. What's referred to as the "African-American experience" has similar differences, but also similar, invisible threads that bind all Blacks together. But the saddest commonality between the struggles of Blacks and those of women has been the culture of victimization that too many have embraced.

At moments of weakness, it's an understandable crutch: when felled by the weight of injustice, a one slur too many...consider yourself a victim. I mean, it's true after all, isn't it? I can't tell you how many times I've personally fallen into this trap. Self-victimization, frankly, seemed a viable alternative to the Horation Alger fantasies of guys like Shelby Steele and Ward Connerly.

But today, we hear persistent allegations that rampant sexism was the principal cause of Hillary Clinton's loss in the Democratic primary.

To be honest, I didn't see it. I saw the many errors of the candidate and her campaign, to say nothing of the appeal of her opponent, as being the principal reason. My being an active supporter of Obama's didn't blind me to real slights and even how certain words and actions could be interpreted as sexist (e.g. "You're likeable enough") even when they clearly weren't intended as such. True, there are those that say the same about Bill's "Jesse Jackson" comment in South Carolina. But Hillary showed her greatest strength when she was able to deflect such perceived slights with aplomb, and her greatest weakness when she openly aimed to make gender an issue with her language in the stump. Meanwhile, race remained a taboo topic for Obama to even discuss in interviews.

Damage was done during the campaign by the likes of Gloria Steinem, the feminist icon who first offered sexism as an explanation for Clinton's third-place finish in Iowa. (Thankfully, Steinem has followed her candidate in endorsing Obama.) The weird thing is, Steinem, et. al. are crying "Sexism!", when Hillary was being given any number of balls by her supporters. I mean, when it came to her and Pretty Boy Barack, Hillary was supposed to be mas macho. As evidenced by her Iraq vote and hawkish stances, Hillary had a misguided desire to show the boys that she too could be hardcore. How many times did we hear Hillary tell us how "tough" she was, or that she was a "fighter"? How many times did pundits, mostly male, parrot that sentiment, rarely offering us any evidence of said toughness? (Persistence in the face of stark reality isn't always courageous.) This notion was adopted by her supporters, and many of them became fighters, too. But now that the "fight" is over, they still want to battle. The problem is they've picked the wrong opponent.

John McCain is and always has been anti-abortion, and is ready to appoint Supreme Court judges that will overturn Roe v. Wade as soon as there's an opening. No "maverick" here - there is a clear record of McCain being a hardliner when it comes to women's rights, particularly reproductive rights. Add in the fact that McCain ran around on his first wife after she'd suffered debilitating injuries in a car crash, and uttered one of the most sexist jokes I've ever heard by a sitting statesman - about Clinton's daughter!

Knowing these things, it's curious why women who supported Hillary would vote for McCain at all. Why they would decide to do so when a decidedly better alternative is available tells me that it must be anger talking.

I know all about it. Various times during the course of this campaign, I've said these exact words: "I'll never vote for Hillary again. For anything. Ever." I was undoubtedly ticked about something she'd said, or something her husband said, or maybe just any time I saw or heard Geraldine Ferraro. But for all my bluster, I always hoped that I would not allow my vote to be subsumed by my personal weaknesses. For one, I was never voting for McCain. I didn't care if Bill Clinton showed up for a presser in blackface. Wasn't happening.

Let's leave aside the likelihood that a number of these (mostly White) ladies are simply unwilling to vote for an African-American candidate. Why would you allow your anger over perceived slights to lead you to vote for the very person Hillary was to run against? I just don't understand the logic of it. All throughout the campaign, we've heard how similar these two candidates are. Yet, when one candidate loses, everyone's ready to jump ship? Huh?

I can appreciate the historic nature of Clinton's candidacy, to be certain. But I didn't see a flock of Black folks headed to vote for Reagan or George H.W. when Jesse lost.

There's a very large part of me that really wants to tell women like Harriet Christian to get over it. Sometimes you lose. That's what progress is - if you want to stand on a level playing field and be judged for your merits, you leave the door open for that to happen.

One can't celebrate the historic nature of her campaign while at the same time ignoring her faults, and that's why it's complete crap to allege that sexism sank her ship. She ran an awful campaign, complete with gaffes, poor "loyalty" hires, bad money management and underestimation of her opponent. Also, this is not Margaret Thatcher we're talking about here. Thatcher was a woman who truly built herself out of nothing. Hillary Clinton is a child of privilege, and a woman who benefited greatly from her association with her husband and his legacy. I voted for her in New York's 2000 Senate race, not once worried about the fact that she had lived in the state she wanted to represent for approximately a half-hour. She cannot sing "I'm Everywoman" credibly. But yet, many women saw their hopes of a female President in her. I don't begrudge them that, but let's be real.

A disgruntled Hillary supporter voting for John McCain is the equivalent of South Central burning itself in the Rodney King riots. We didn't get what we wanted, so we burned our own neighborhood to the ground? Hillary folks didn't get what they wanted, so now they'll chance abortion being criminalized, as well as other setbacks of other feminist gains that have been fought for over generations?


Flexing political muscle for the sake of flexing it impresses no one. Flexing it while you're kicking your own ass gets you laughed at.

The wound is deep and it is very raw. But we can't let it fester. It could prove fatal.



(Cross-posted here.)


Comments (61)

Beautifully said, and thank you for all the linked citations. I appreciate that you're not targetting "Hillary supporters," only those especially ardent, "I'll vote for McCain first!" types who honestly do seem to be cutting off their noses to spite their faces.

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I am so sick of these insulting posts. Every single time Obama lost a primary his supporters claimed it was racism. So Clinton supporters claim it was sexism, so what? If Clinton had won and Obama had lost, the supporters of Obama would be screaming their heads off that it was racism and not because Clinton was a better candidate.

I remember the same sentiments being expressed when it looked like Clinton was winning - Obama supporters claimed that they wouldn't vote for her even if it meant throwing their vote away. Douglas Wilder said that if Clinton won because she had more super delegates than Obama, "there would be rioting in the streets."

If god forbid McCain does win this election, democrats will be screaming their heads off that it was because of racism and not because McCain was a better candidate. People will always rationalize disappointment, that's the nature of human beings.

Sigh.

Every single time Obama lost a primary his supporters claimed it was racism.

Huh? I never did. Neither did any other Obama supporters I talked to. Talk about "insulting".

So Clinton supporters claim it was sexism, so what?

Because it's not wholly true. Kinda the point of my post.

If Clinton had won and Obama had lost, the supporters of Obama would be screaming their heads off that it was racism and not because Clinton was a better candidate.

You can't say this authoritatively, and frankly, you're just trying to legitimize the poor behavior of these folks in this regard. (I'm not assuming you're one of them.)

I remember the same sentiments being expressed when it looked like Clinton was winning -

When was that, exactly? Before the race had really started? Because she was up in the polls doesn't mean she was winning.

Obama supporters claimed that they wouldn't vote for her even if it meant throwing their vote away.

I'd LOVE for you to offer up some evidence of that. I never heard word one from an Obama supporter expressing that opinion before Bill Clinton and Geraldine Ferraro started race-baiting. And by then, she wasn't going to win, anyway.

Douglas Wilder said that if Clinton won because she had more super delegates than Obama, "there would be rioting in the streets."

There might have been. You think the seating of MI and FL was unfair?

If god forbid McCain does win this election, democrats will be screaming their heads off that it was because of racism and not because McCain was a better candidate.

So let me get this straight. You're branding all Obama supporters as race-carders before the fact? And is this a roundabout way of you saying that McCain's the better candidate? If you think that, and you voted for Hillary, you need your head examined.

People will always rationalize disappointment, that's the nature of human beings.

Too bad that voting in your best interest isn't also in our nature.

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And you're branding all feminists with the same brand. You know, it wouldn't have hurt for you to do a little research into these campaigns and the allegations, stupid remarks and popping off of mouths before you started in on feminists.

Yes, people who are Obama supporters said those very things, many of them on this site. Perhaps if you had looked before you started kicking Clinton supporters and feminists, you might have had some empathy and understanding of how they might feel, because Obama supporters were saying the exact same things when it looked like Clinton was winning. (And if you can't acknowledge that, I don't know what to tell you.)

What you seem not to understand is that supporters on both sides, both campaigns and both candidates have said stupid things, hurtful things and behaved badly at times. That's what happens in long, hotly contested campaigns.

What really pisses me off is this constant carping and snarking at the feminist movement in this country. I am justifiably proud of what we accomplished as feminists and all women are in a better place because of the hard work and dedication of feminists in this country. Why you and Jade and others have to piss on it is beyond me. How would you like it if I carped and complained about the civil rights movement and their leaders? Are we supposed to measure their accomplishments by the metric of perfection?

I shouldn't even have to explain the McCain argument, although I will say nice deflection.

What really pisses me off is this constant carping and snarking at the feminist movement in this country.

Where does he make blanket statements about the feminist movement?

You're responding to a perceived criticism of the entire movement, but that's not what this post is about. At all.

I've noticed that you often perceive attacks on the feminist movement when in fact the criticism is about the behavior of people who are feminists. It's not the same thing.

People who are feminists are capable of being unreasonable and there's nothing wrong with calling them out on it. And criticizing their behavior does not necessarily imply a criticism of the feminist movement.

Thank you. You said it perfectly.

I'm not directing this even at "feminists" as a group, per se. It's specifically the people, feminist or not, who think that voting for spite against Barack Obama somehow solves something, or somehow makes up for the fact that Hillary Clinton lost.

I'm not sure how much clearer it could've been, and it seems BevD is intent on being pissed off at something - or someone.

She's an AWW.

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I give up, you win. It is very different when you say you felt the same sentiment these women are feeling - "that you wouldn't vote for Hillary for anything ever again." When these women say they're not going to vote for Obama for any reason or they're going to vote for McCain, it can't be for the same reason you felt that way, it must be something else - it must be racism. What else is there to explain their bitter disappointment?

Bev, perhaps it might help if you actually read my post for more than the bits and pieces that you picked out in order to piss yourself off.

You say this:

"It is very different when you say you felt the same sentiment these women are feeling - 'that you wouldn't vote for Hillary for anything ever again.'"

That's followed by even more snarky remarks, but that's besides the point. Seeing as you know exactly what I was saying, you surely know that the bit you're referencing was followed by this:

But for all my bluster, I always hoped that I would not allow my vote to be subsumed by my personal weaknesses. For one, I was never voting for McCain. I didn't care if Bill Clinton showed up for a presser in blackface. Wasn't happening.

If Hillary earned the nomination, she was getting my vote. Look up my posts and thread comments. I've always said this.

Why you're in such a damned hurry to be offended, I'll never know.

Really, Bev, this post is about the EXTREMISTS, not about all Clinton supporters, much less about all feminists (I'm a feminist and an Obama supporter, after all).

Note, for example, this quote of Scientific's:

At moments of weakness, it's an understandable crutch: when felled by the weight of injustice, a one slur too many...consider yourself a victim. I mean, it's true after all, isn't it?

Your posts kind of prove his point, here.

You did not read his posts. You might have read 2 lines of different paragraphs.

Stop pushing it. Please use both sides of your brain. Please.

This man did nothing of what your talking about in his posts. You appear to be either very confused, very angry or are PURPOSEFULLY lieing.

Either way, try and open up some, no one is diving over attempting to attack you.

But acting this sort of way.....its not even adult like.

"Every single time Obama lost a primary his supporters claimed it was racism." - BevD

Neither Obama nor his supporters claimed racism was responsible for every Obama loss. Certainly not in Vermont, Nevada or Texas, for example. Yet there is some truth to the racism element, as many voter exit polls in states along the Appalachian range reported. Race wa a factor for many voters in those states, as many as 1 in 5, and those who said so voted for Hillary by as much as 2-1.

Racism? Yeah, in some cases. But that hardly tells Obama's whole story, just as gender bias hardly tells all of Hillary's tale.

Should read New Hampshire, not Vermont.

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Just as gender was an issue for 2 out of 5. These statistics were the same throughout the entire race. However, when Clinton won, starting in New Hampshire, it was the "Bradley effect" or the Appalachian rednecks or the Ohio blue collar racists and on and on.

Can you provide a link to those exit polls showing 2 out of 5 voters said gender was a factor in their decision?

Scientific, thank you for a very thoughtful post.

You said: "Let's leave aside the likelihood that a number of these (mostly White) ladies are simply unwilling to vote for an African-American candidate."

Unfortunately, I don't think we can leave this aside. I think it really is the crux of the matter. I think the hardcore "I'll vote for McCain before I vote for Obama" white ladies are people who due to various fears, biases and internalized prejudices simply will not vote for a black candidate.

I'm white myself, 50 years old, and this is something I recognize especially in people of my own generation. We grew up with a lot of racist crap simply "in the air" surrounding us, and even those of us who always considered ourselves liberal/progressive absorbed some of in childhood. Some of us are lucky enough or have worked hard enought to recognize racism in ourselves and dismiss it when it rears its ugly head. Some people breathed it in and and never questioned it or haven't recognized it in themselves.

Anyway, a lot of those white ladies in question are squarely in my generation, and I believe the race of the candidate is a strong determining factor for them, whether or not they will admit it (even to themselves).

" . . . absorbed some of it in childhood."

Sorry about the typos!

Check this out: McCain's Clinic.

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You're right. Shame on me for thinking that his comments on old white ladies was a shot at the feminist movement, when really, they're just a bunch of old white racists. Why that feminist icon, Gloria Steinem, should make such silly comments that sexism might have played a major role in this election should probably be attributed to her age, she is fairly ancient - 61, 62, maybe? And of course Clinton can't identify with women because she was a child of privilege born to a working class family with a father who was a tradesman, one of those rich screen printers, went to public schools and worked all through college.

I apologize, I really did jump the gun on this, I should have read it more closely.

Mostly white ladies was the first wave. So we cannot say anything about that? Why not? I don't recognize that feminism. It sure as hell is not my feminism.

Yet, scientific (if you read his post), makes common cause with feminists and says he sees the similarities, some disheartening ones as well. He says he knows about how unfair American society is to women. Jeeez! Get a grip!

Why she's in such a damned hurry to be offended, I'm not sure. Lends credence to what I posted about, though.

yeah. Dunno. Seen her get similarly riled up on other threads. I guess she is hurt and angry. And on some level I understand. Or I try for understanding, but sometimes I go off too.

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Why would I be hurt and angry? I'm disgusted by the lack of empathy and compassion for Clinton supporters who have been so bitterly disappointed.

How many of them are swearing that they will vote for McCain or not vote at all, the same oath that the writer of the blog said he uttered at various times? Does that make him a sexist? There hasn't been one election I can think of where some group or the other was pissed at the outcome and swore to god that they were going to sit it out or vote for the other candidate. Why should this be about race? Why can't it be about sore losers like it has been in every other race where this has happened?

If this poster got over it, why does he assume that these women won't?

Then of course, there are also the gratuituous remarks, quite a few of them that are wrong, about Clinton that are nothing more than rubbing salt in the wound. If the poster wants to heal the wound then start pointing out why it is in their best interest to vote for him and stop pointing out how awful they and their candidate is.

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I apologize, this was very inoffensive blog entry. You know how women are.

I apologize, this was very inoffensive blog entry. You know how women are.

???

Whatever's going on with you, BevD, don't blame it on being a female. I don't want that kind of guilt by association.

You seem to have missed my point, above. When I quoted Scientific saying that "when felled by the weight of injustice" it's easy to see oneself as the victim.

You apparently feel like you're the victim of injustice. You are therefore playing victim. Clearly you believe that it isn't attractive when people call themselves victims of racism (some real, some perceived). So why do you find it a compelling argument to claim yourself the victim of sexism (some real, some perceived)?

As Evainne says, that's sure the hell not my brand of feminism, either. And I'm not talking about Gloria Steinem or Hillary Clinton, at this moment. I'm talking about YOUR argument.

All throughout the campaign, we've heard how similar these two candidates are. Yet, when one candidate loses, everyone's ready to jump ship? Huh?


As you say.

Thanks for this post.

I was over at Counterpunch reading a piece called "Your Whiteness is showing by Tim Wise. He shut my mouth wide open.

That was subtle. I agree with Wise, and say as much here.

Lends credence also to my comment above. "I'll vote for McCain before I vote for Obama" makes sense only as a manifestation of racism (conscious or otherwise)or a manifestation of insanity. It is not a rational act of feminist solidarity.

You know what, in regards to Clinton and this perceived sexism, Booman said it best a month ago:

My overall view is that Hillary Clinton succeeded in convincing the American people that she was the presumptive frontrunner, which means that people were able to picture a woman president without much resistance. That frontrunner status was so ingrained that I think it actually hurt her campaign, as people rejected a coronation. Meanwhile, the black community displayed a lot of resistance to the idea of a black president. This was evidenced by the slowness with which they rallied around Obama. Prior to his victory in the overwhelmingly white state of Iowa, the polls showed Clinton running even or ahead among blacks in South Carolina. In other words, Obama had a harder time getting people to accept the idea of a black president than Clinton had getting people to accept the idea of a female president.

Your highlighted portion. Nail meet hammer. But we never see that narrated that way anywhere else. That Obama made the case and got the nomination makes people feel bad. Ok. I get that. But to accuse him of some shenanigan.... Taht crosses the line for me.

Great post, great discussion and one that would not have been anywhere as useful without BevD. You may disagree with her--and I very much do--but the discussion would have sucked if she hadn't commented.

But having said that, I am still disinclined to assume this is a widespread, serious problem without actual data that proves it. We've been hearing a lot of anecdotes because the conflict and, frankly, the increasingly disordered thinking some of these women are engaging in, is to the MSM as free drugs are to an addict.

We've been seeing websites and blogs popping up--most recently set up by a publicist and specialist in astroturf campaigns that looks remarkably like the site for her business, but there's been zero inquiry as to whether all this is really real grassroots or whether its astroturf that's being funded by, say, those same twenty obscenely rich Texas Republican assholes who always seem to fund phony smear campaigns against Democrats. We've certainly seen some very obvious sock puppetry here and elsewhere for these sites that people are treating as if it were just regular posting.

What I have not seen is a lick of actual data measuring the size of this phenomenon as of now, now that Hillary has conceded. The only actual data I've seen is based on exit polling from the primaries, all of which was in line with the usual percentage of"hell no, my guy or nothing" answers we've seen in past hotly contested primaries in which the only candidates were white guys.

I have no doubt that some women are, in fact, mad enough about Hillary losing that they'll cast a spite vote for McCain and that they'll stay mad. Certainly, many of them got into the habit of believing the worst about Obama and interpreting eveything he said or did in the worst possible light and they can't break out of it. (At Riverdaugher, they were in a state of high dudgeon on Sunday because Obama went golfing in the morning, before Hillary's speech. No really. They were mouthfoaming furious.)

But we're treating it like its millions when it could just as easily be thousands. I have seen no evidence from which one can infer that it is not thousands. And thousands just isn't a problem.

Maybe it is millions. Maybe this is a serious problem that could cost us the election. Until I see proof, however it's just a hypothetical problem and I don't see any good that can come from worrying about something that may not be a real problem. We've got plenty of actual, real, verifiable problems to deal with.

I remain fascinated, in a clinincal kind of way, by the increasingly deranged thinking driving some of these sites, but as for worrying, wake me up with there's data proving its a real problem.

Scientific,

When was the last time you spoke with Obama or Clinton or Axelrod? My point being that it is not the candidates, personally, who we come to know or who frame their own picture but the media. Even a cursory look at the coverage of the primary reveals an appalling sexism and a barely concealed hatred of Clinton (and no, it was not warranted), as opposed to, for the most part, a forgiving portrait, with kid gloves on race, of Obama. The media behaved atrociously towards HRC and, consequently, women in general, and there is simply no comparison between the coverage of these “first” candidates. If Clinton was more accepted as a candidate initially, it is because she has been working on her run for a long time (in fact, Colin Powell may have had a good shot in 2000 because of his advance favorables).

You say Obama was not allowed to bring up race, but his campaign played race-politics very well, thank you. Not only did they assist in painting the Clintons as race-baiting, they augmented that appeal to black community through their Southern church/barber/beauty-shop tour with Oprah touting him as the One. And to say he couldn’t talk about race, when he made the country talk about it in order to distract from his political problem by giving the Speech that was to inaugurate a national conversation on race is a bit insincere. And, jeez, what happened to that urgent national conversation on race?

OTOH, Clinton pretty much avoided the feminism card but it was, as you point out, played by Steinem and others. And when Ferraro tried to make the case that race trumps feminism in the media, she was accused of being racist. Obama was never sexist himself ("likeable enough" was just a joke) and I don't think most of these disgruntled Clinton supporters think that. But he was silent as the first viable female candidate was trashed. And he benefitted from it. He should have railed against it. I don't think that sexism was the sole reason that Clinton lost though I do believe her portrayal in the media created an opening that Obama used. There are always many factors that a race can turn on or that could have played differently.

I agree with you that voting for McCain is wrong for any reason. But, belittling the grievance of core Democrats (“old white women” or not) who know what they’ve seen in this campaign, is not helpful. Most of these people (there are a lot of men in there, too) may feel even more insulted by the Obama supporters who have spread their fanatical Hillary hate all over the place for months now. Many are offended by the starry-eyed “we-are-the-ones” searching for that hopeful, post partisan, post racial, unity and love who have basically run around the blogs and online papers calling Clinton a bitch, and worse, and calling her supporters, trolls, and worse, and whom they see as representative of Obama. Of course, that cuts both ways, but when the political press reinforces one side, it becomes, well, one-sided.

But he was silent as the first viable female candidate was trashed.

Why was it Obama's responsibility to come to Clinton's rescue? Did she come to his rescue when he was facing race problems? No--she said he wasn't a Muslim "as far as I know," and that she certainly would have left her church over a pastor like Wright, and talked about "working, hard working, White Americans."

I write novels with strong female protagonists, and step 1 in showing womanly strength is to not let the female protagonist be rescued by the male--not unless she gets to rescue him just as often.

So again I ask: why was it Obama's job to defend his opponent when it wasn't her job to defend him?

No, you're right Yvaughn. He shouldn't be expected to criticize those that are, in effect, aiding his campaign. But it would have been nice if, as he presents himself as the post-sixties' anger agent of change and unity, he could have berated the media for its rampant sexism. Still, as you say, it's not his job to do that, but obviously, I don't see men standing up for women as in any way diminishing their strength. Equality is everyone's fight. For the most part, I believe Clinton said we should move on from Wright (though she did answer questions about him and rightly raised the issue with uncommitted delegates) and I think the "as far as I know" quote was an edited trap set by 60 Minutes and the "hard-working white Americans" quote was completely innocent demographic campaign-speak.

I don't see men standing up for women as diminishing the strength of either--as you rightly say, equality is everyone's goal. But I do see DEMANDING that men stand up for women as diminishing the strength of the women doing the demanding.

Not sure if I'm making sense....

Also, annoyed at my block-quotes in the previous post.

I didn't see her firing Geraldine Ferraro. What's your point?

Ferraro stepped down, just like Jim Johnson did today. Actually, Ferraro's comments make my point and she became a perfect example of that point by being labeled racist for even bringing it up:

"If Obama was a white man, he would not be in this position. And if he was a woman, he would not be in this position. He happens to be very lucky to be who he is. And the country is caught up in the concept."

Now is that all that she said in its complete context? No. She was talking about the media and the context of this race where Obama had been getting a break as a minority candidate while Clinton as a woman had been getting excoriated in blatantly sexist terms in the MSM. I didn’t altogether agree with Ferraro at the time but she had a valid point. And the article was a hit piece to begin with. Look at the way her comments were broken up and transcribed (apparently they’ve deleted the original article). But if you were writing down comments from the phone, would you end sentences before the conjunction? That was done to create sound bites that do not convey the original meaning. “If Obama was a white man, he would not be in this position” says something completely different from, “If Obama was a white man, he would not be in this position and if he was a woman, he would not be in this position.”

Just as Obama and his surrogates never made misogynist comments, Ferraro didn’t make racist comments. Bill Clinton didn’t make racist comments. Johnson didn’t make racist comments. Cuomo didn’t make racist comments. Bob Kerry didn’t make racist comments. Hillary didn’t make racist comments. The Clinton camp didn’t push Obama-is-a-Muslim memes. The Clinton campaign was derailed after NH by an appeal to blacks and white liberals that she was race-baiting against Obama. That was a turning point that she never recovered from and I have no problem with it; it’s politics as usual. But let's be honest about it. I can't explain why Obama was taken up and Hillary was put down but he definitely had a little media darlingness about him and she definitely was the media devil.

It will be great for all of America if an African-American is elected president but I don't want to pretend that everything else is different just because it is a black or woman candidate. This campaign, like most, has hinged on trumped up media-fueled hysteria over non-issues. I guarantee that, should Obama win the WH and I hope to God he does, it will not be purely on the merits of his candidacy. And I hope that his supporters begin to see that they are not going to get there without substantial help from the other half of the Democratic Party who put their eggs in another basket.

Ummm, I think it was the Hillary camp that pushed the meme that Obama simply could not win among "hard-working Americans, white Americans", following up on Gov. Rendell, from the Hillary camp, announcing that there were white voters in Pennsylvania who would never vote for a black. In response, I certainly did suggest that it would be INSANE for the Democratic superdelegates to defer to those voters who were voting on the basis of race. That isn't me saying Hillary won the states she did because of race. It was instead saying that if the Hillary camp is right, and there are a camp of voters who won't vote for a black, well, to hell with them.

This post was in response to BevD, not the orignal blog.

@ BevD,

please, I urge you to read Scientific's post again. I understand you are hurt and feeling like something was taken from you. Please, search within yourself and read Scientific's post. It is quite balanced. Here's the quote (along with the closing statement) that you should leave with:

I can appreciate the historic nature of Clinton's candidacy, to be certain. But I didn't see a flock of Black folks headed to vote for Reagan or George H.W. when Jesse lost.

Black folks did not abandon the Democratic Party. They/we understood the reasons, cultural, social and political. Why will you do less?

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Nothing was taken away from me, I am not hurt, I am not a "Hillary supporter", I am not an "Obama supporter", my candidate is the candidate that is nominated in August. I am a democrat.

I can, however, empathize with those supporters who invested so much emotionally in this race, just as Obama supporters did/do, and I have compassion for them because they lost what to them was the race of a lifetime.

Anyone with an ounce of sense would see that these women, for whatever reason, are doing the same exact thing that I have no doubt in the world Obama supporters would be doing, and that's being pissed that they lost and vowing never, ever to vote for Clinton under any circumstance. The writer of this blog entry SAID he felt the same way at times, why should he deny those Clinton supporters the same feelings he had? Now does that really make sense to you? No matter what "side" people are on, they have the same human emotions as people on the other side have.

They are not racists, they are not "AWW" they are human beings who have been greatly disappointed just as Obama supporters would have been. It doesn't really matter if you think that Clinton did not lose because of sexism, that is how THEY perceive it. You don't have to agree with them, you don't have to call them racists, you don't have to call them "AWW" but if you want to win them over to your side you DO have to recognize that this is how they see it and acknowledge that. It doesn't matter that you don't see it that way, it matters that they see it that way and if you really want them to vote for the democrat in November, you'll stop with the Tim Wise/Scientific et,al school of berating and accusing them of the worst allegation you can make in politics in this era, that they are racists. All that does is drive them deeper into their anger and feelings of betrayal.

This isn't how you get people to vote for your candidate. You don't make dumb allegations, you don't berate them, you don't castigate them and point out how stupid they are, or that they're cutting off their noses to spite their faces and all the other trite, meanspirited remarks about them and their candidate that only serve to make them feel worse. There hasn't been one election where those who lost a fight haven't vowed to sit it out or vote for the other guy - it happens in every single election. They are bitter, hurt and angry and if you're smart, you acknowledge and recognize it for what it is, empathize with them, agree that both sides wronged and were wronged, you stop running down their candidate and them and you start building a bridge so that they can join you, without feeling that they're sacrificing their dignity, feelings and pride.

These posts are doing more harm to the democratic party than you can imagine. You don't post in a vacuum and if your interest is in getting Obama elected, then be smart about it and stop making it worse than it has to be. There are very few women who are claiming that they'll throw their vote away, stop creating more of them.

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IF anyone was supporting HRC because of her positions on policies/issues - they wouldn't vote for McCain! There is minimal common ground (okay the gas tax holiday - gag) Too many were voting for her ONLY because of her gender.
For these HRC supporters to vote for McCain, there can logically be only three reasons:
1.) Race
2.) They really don't care (and never did) about the war, economy, healthcare, etc.
3.) They choose to be ignorant (sounds better than Idiots)

(I know I've said it in response to other bloggers posts about HRC supporters vowing to vote for McCain - but the facts never change.)

"Meanwhile, race remained a taboo topic for Obama to even discuss in interviews." - huh? Him trotting out his grannie on the banks of Lake Victoria all during the early days of the campaign, giving him the multicultural vision to change the world? His father, the one he wrote the book about, embodying Selma and the Civil Rights struggle? Oprah & Jesse in South Carolina, invoking "The One" from Miss Jane Pitman? The Muhammed Ali poster over his head and his constant comparing himself to Martin Luther King?

And then I ran across Ta-Nehisi Coates over at TPM Cafe:

"What a crock. Obama emphasized race about as much as most black people on the street emphasize race. What these intellectuals can't see is that the same issues that keep white folks up at night--the war, the economy, health care--are the same damn issues that keep black folks up at night."

You just disproved your own point.

Black people on the street emphasize race as much as our skin emphasizes it in the minds of folks for whom race is an issue. If you consciously see "Black", then that's us emphasizing race. Get it?

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Reading comments on hillaryis44, camille424 and others, they make it pretty clear why, to them:

1. They proclaim themselves the "real" democrats
2. All others (those who even mention doing anything explicitly or implicitly to support Obama, who on some sites they won't even allow to be named directly) are apostates who must be punished to prove the error of their ways
3. The election was rigged, stolen, a crime of massive proportions
4. By electing Republicans, the "criminal" DNC will recognize how right this small group of people were and be transformed (into an all-Hillary party, some want)
5. They have convinced themselves that Obama is the absolute worst human being on the planet, a horrible misogynist who using Republican tactics to the fullest to smear Hillary with the worst lies and insults while appearing to remain above the fray
6. They have also convinced themselves that, even though McCain has stances on issues in opposition to them, somehow that's better than what they call "an empty suit" of inexperience
7. They supported Hillary not because of issues but because of identity and personalization, she became them in effect.

Pathetic. It's never going to end is it?

You're setting up strawmen (or more accurately, Straw-women) for a foolish infantile desire to dance in the endzone and give the finger to the opposing team. The epitome of a Sore Winner.

What's really sad is, no, he's not. Have you READ Hillaryis44.org?

They CAN'T represent the standard Clinton voter (and thus are not straw-woman stand-ins). I refuse to accept that the Democratic party, much less the country, can be guided by ALL the same deluded beliefs (as listed by mos) being spouted by the Hillaryis44.org crowd.

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It's easy enough to find choice quotes from these sites. I'm not making anything up.

A good example that I posted before (from June 6):
"Obama is an empty suit, who affirmative actioned his way to the top. McCain may be bad for America, as most republicons are, but he won't be dangerous like Obama. I'd rather take a charisma-less, boring, flip-flopper, than someone who stole the election from Hillary."

Also "No Democrat that cares about the issues should vote for Barack Obama." "as for the superdelegates, just an FYI, we have the list with your names, you will be held accountable on Election Day and beyond, too." "Hillary Clinton, can defeat John McCain. Barack Obama cannot defeat John McCain. Only a suicidal Democratic? (sic) Party would nominate Barack Obama."

They've even formed an 'organization' called "PUMA (Party Unity My Ass)"

BevD is correct. There were an inordinate number of Obama supporters who--long before any perceived racial slights--said they would refuse to vote for Hillary. She was too conservative. She was Republican-lite. She was no different than McCain. This was prevalent early on in this primary season. I had a few post regarding these "unhinged" supporters.

Unfortunately, it's clear they've found an (imagined) enemy they find too difficult to let go of. All too pleased to continue with the unhinged, irrational rants.

Again...pathetic.

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"All too pleased to continue with the unhinged, irrational rants."

That goes for some people on BOTH sides. As long as everyone can recognize that and not be using the words "everyone" or "no one" then things will work out and the extremists will isolate themselves.

For what it's worth. That actual data I was talking about shows that the Hillerista diehard faction is a fringe, not a movement.

http://www.gallup.com/poll/107806/Obama-Gains-Among-Women-After-Clinton-Exit.aspx

It's hard not to talk about them and visit their blogs' comment sections. Thousands of people in this country earn a living from our inability to tear our eyes away from a good public meltdown, and heaven knows I'm as bad as anyone. But let's not not overstate their importance as a political force. It is bad for us and bad for them.

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What really pisses me off is this constant carping and snarking at the feminist movement in this country.

"Where does he make blanket statements about the feminist movement?

"You're responding to a perceived criticism of the entire movement, but that's not what this post is about. At all.

"I've noticed that you often perceive attacks on the feminist movement when in fact the criticism is about the behavior of people who are feminists. It's not the same thing.

"People who are feminists are capable of being unreasonable and there's nothing wrong with calling them out on it. And criticizing their behavior does not necessarily imply a criticism of the feminist movement.

"Posted by laurajordan"

Well said. But there isn't a monolithic "feminist movement". There are several factions, each of which claims to be THE "feminist movement".

My "feminism" began there was such a word. My "feminism" crystalized on my 16th birthday -- five years before 99 per cent of WOMEN caught wind of the issue.

Things were fine for ahile -- until I began getting backstabbed by the male-bashing faction which "responds" to ANY criticism -- actual or perceived -- by name-calling the critic "misogynist".

Hate in place of reason is flatly stupid. And refusing to deal with the female sexism behind that knee-jerk hate-motivated male-bashing is not merely despicable but contrary to a genuine feminism. (A genuine feminism recognizes that others in addition to women are oppressed; try, as example, being eligible for the draft during war time -- an oppression imposed exclusively on MALES). It is simply bigotry which will lay its tongue to anything as opportunity to spew its groundless hatred. And it makes all feminists look bad.

This shrill nonsense of personalizing everything -- as do paranoids -- even at times dishonestly in order to fuel a fake righteousness and outrage is beyond tiresome to insulting to intelligence, and to those who were actually feminists before most of the bashers got out of diapers.

I spported Hillary over all other candidates -- and it was a wonderfully strong field of Democratic candidates this time around -- because of her experience and "seasoning". More, though, I've been "ANY Democrat" over yet another reactionary, regressive Republican.

Anyone who votes for McSame is a fool. And any Hillary supporter who either votes for McSame, or doesn't vote at all in effort to make tantrums into political statements, aren't yet old enough to vote despite their apparent chronological age.

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"I'm white myself, 50 years old, and this is something I recognize especially in people of my own generation. We grew up with a lot of racist crap simply "in the air" surrounding us, and even those of us who always considered ourselves liberal/progressive absorbed some of in childhood. Some of us are lucky enough or have worked hard enought to recognize racism in ourselves and dismiss it when it rears its ugly head. Some people breathed it in and and never questioned it or haven't recognized it in themselves."

That is true. But let's pin it down a bit more specifically:

Every culture is racist. And everyone in every culture is inculcated with racism before they know it is a negative. As obvious result, it is a given that everyone is racist.

So the question isn't, "Am I racist?" but rather "What do I do about my racism?"

Can a "feminist" who is opposed to discrimination against women AFFORD to be a bigot in any way against equality for everyone else? "Be the change you would see in the world." -- Gandhi. Start with oneself instead of avoiding the issue by pointing one's finger away from oneself and letting fly the accusations.

Not-so-by-the-way: thanks for the sane post, "Scientific".


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"Why would I be hurt and angry? I'm disgusted by the lack of empathy and compassion for Clinton supporters who have been so bitterly disappointed."

You set yourself up for the disappointment -- so why should everyone be "empathetic and compassionate" about an election loss? Are we responsible for "fixing" your feelings, a sense of disappointment you feel for having taken everything too personally?

Might that be a lesson in the destructiveness of "identity politics"?

"Then of course, there are also the gratuituous remarks, quite a few of them that are wrong, about Clinton that are nothing more than rubbing salt in the wound. If the poster wants to heal the wound then start pointing out why it is in their best interest to vote for him and stop pointing out how awful they and their candidate is."

What in hell has an election got to do with "wounds" and "rubbing salt in wounds"!? GROW UP! I was a Hillary supporter from the outset. However, MORE IMPORTANT than my personal preference as to candidate is that a DEMOCRAT be elected -- instead of yet another good-ol'-boy reactionary Republican. And Obama is an impressive candidate in his own right.

GET a GRIP!

". . . . You know how women are.

"Posted by BevD"

Now THAT is a sexist remark -- even as it is an effort at self-justification, and denigrates WOMEN as excuse.

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I'm not a Clinton supporter. I'm a democratic candidate supporter. That is why I don't trash fellow democrats. Grow up yourself, kid. It's possible to feel empathy and compassion for people without supporting their cause or candidate. This isn't a cross town high school rivalry and posts like this do nothing but create more anti-Obama feelings.

It's interesting that people think I'm a Clinton supporter because I understand how her supporters might feel right now. You might want to try it.

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"It's interesting that people think I'm a Clinton supporter because I understand how her supporters might feel right now."

It's probably just because of the impression that you support the arguments of people who "trash fellow democrats" while saying that you "don't trash fellow democrats". Plus exaggerating statements like "Every single time Obama lost a primary his supporters claimed it was racism."

It's quite possible to understand why they might feel such a way to make comments about how they'd rather vote for McCain than Obama just to 'teach them all a lesson', and still think it's utter nonsense and a large mistake.

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No, you inferred that, you made that assumption, you imagined that I supported their arguments because I understand their arguments. Why don't you look back at all the primaries, look at the ones Obama lost and read the comments - every single primary he lost wasn't because Clinton was seen as the better candidate, it was because the voters were racists. It was stupid.

Now, do I support what these women are doing? No, I think it's dumb, but yes, I understand why they feel as they do.

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You inferred incorrectly, I was simply "understanding" the people who were, as you say "trashing" you.

Random supporters don't run the campaign and can say whatever they want. Just as spiteful, revenge-filled childish Hillary supporters don't represent her campaign, neither do immature Obama supporters represent or decide policy for him. One person saying something about racism doesn't mean that even anything above a tiny minority believe the same.

People who strongly support a candidate will always (in general) make up excuses for a loss. Some of Hillary's supporters have, some of Obama's supporters have, so have supporters of each and every candidate ever. It's political nature.

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