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Interesting Conversation With Two Clinton Supporters
Yesterday, I went to a picnic at a friends house. She's a very enthusiastic supporter of Hillary Clinton, and she really doesn't like Barack Obama at all (let's call her "Sue" because her name is Sue). Another Hillary supporting friend (Kathy) was also there. At one point, the conversation turned to the subject of Hillary's assassination comment. My friend Kathy said that she was really shocked by the comment, and that Hillary had lost her as a result of it. She said she found it ghoulish and unforgivable. She's always been a Hillary stalwart, so I was a bit surprised to hear this coming from her. My friend Sue gave the standard Clintonista answer--that Hillary was simply noting that primary battles often go into June and that the assassination talk had nothing to do with anything. She also restated her belief that Obama is a phony, and too inexperienced to be president. The usual shit.
Here's the weird part: Kathy won't vote for Obama even though she says Hillary has lost her. The reason? She doesn't believe Obama can beat McCain. So she's not voting for him? Twisted logic indeed. On the other hand, my friend Sue says she'll vote for Obama even though she hates him, because she hates McCain worse. Does this make any sense?
I'm wondering what others are hearing from their Hillary supporting friends. Will Obama get their vote, or are they planning to make good on the threat to stay home or vote for McCain. So far, I haven't met a single Hillary supporter who's willing to vote for McCain.



Comments (178)
This is an old technique: Post a diary claiming that even supporters of your rival candidate disagree strongly with her on something. We will never know if this blogger is telling the truth or simply making stuff up.
And even if the rumor were true...will the diary remind his imaginary friends that Obama disagree with them? Are two picnic friends' opinions more worthy of attention than say, the opinion of RFK's own son, who saw nothing wrong with Clinton's remarks?
Say hello to your imaginary friends.
May 27, 2008 10:30 AM | Reply | Permalink
Dude, reread the post. It's not propaganda.
May 27, 2008 10:32 AM | Reply | Permalink
Instruct me. How do you know it's not propaganda? As a matter of fact, how do you know it's not purposefully divisive, designed to drive a wedge between Obama and Clinton supporters? I've re-read the post. As a matter of fact, I'd say it's full of divisive phrases.
May 27, 2008 9:10 PM | Reply | Permalink
Picnics in Minnesota are designed to be divisive. Kathy is fond of "ghoulish," while Sue just gets "the usual shit." With Democrats treating each other like that, I'm not sure McCain is gonna need Pawlenty. Now Ventura... that guy knew how to REALLY put on a spread. Obama/Ventura?
May 27, 2008 9:56 PM | Reply | Permalink
Billy, of course it contains a couple of divisive statements. I'm not going to pretend I agree with the pro-Hillary sentiments of my friends (especially when they make no sense). And you know as well as anyone that I'm not prone to mincing my words. But it's not propaganda. It's anecdotal--written as a series of short, declarative, factual statements (peppered with a little personal editorializing). That was by design. No matter how deviously clever you think I may be, I'm not trying to trick anyone with my post. I was simply asking for more stories. I'm trying to gauge--for myself and for others--just how serious this "I'll vote for McCain" sentiment really is.
May 28, 2008 8:13 AM | Reply | Permalink
"We will never know if this blogger is telling the truth or simply making stuff up."
Yes, stated like a Republican. If you can't attack the message, attack the messenger.
May 27, 2008 10:52 AM | Reply | Permalink
I wouldn't have posted it if it wasn't true. Perhaps it's your practice to post lies, truthseeker. It's not mine.
May 27, 2008 11:08 AM | Reply | Permalink
Your friend's "logic" reminds me of the woman I know who at the start of the Iraq War was due to go on a family trip for her parent's 50th anniversary, to Paris.
She was all about the War and as a result, she declared: "I will go to Paris. I will stay in their hotels, and eat their food. But I will not drink any French wine - I'm bringing my own."
That's the same kind of logic.
May 27, 2008 1:29 PM | Reply | Permalink
I still refuse to eat French Fries. Instead, I prefer baked. God damn those obstreperous French. :)
May 27, 2008 3:33 PM | Reply | Permalink
It's OK to eat them as long as you call them Vichy Fries.
May 27, 2008 4:52 PM | Reply | Permalink
Or go Britspeak and call them "chips" and call our chips "crisps"; cookies become "biscuits"; dessert becomes "pudding" and before you know it no one will know what the heck you're talking about.
I have found that carrying around a couple of screw-drivers is helpful. When one of my pro-Hillary acquaintances starts spinning her head off, I can offer a choice: Phillips or flat head? No more loose screws.
May 27, 2008 6:22 PM | Reply | Permalink
How can you trust a car wearing a pair of rabbit ears?
May 27, 2008 1:54 PM | Reply | Permalink
A car wearing a pair of rabbit ears would be a nice trick.
I meant to say "cat" wearing a pair of rabbit ears (even though I know there's no editing feature, I still blame...um...someone other than me...for this snafu).
The point remains - the leader of Colbert Nation himself calls into question your veracity.
May 27, 2008 1:56 PM | Reply | Permalink
Of course, we'll never know whether this blogger is telling the truth and really meant "cat" or whether he's just making it up and meant "car" all along.
May 27, 2008 3:58 PM | Reply | Permalink
Good point.
May 27, 2008 4:50 PM | Reply | Permalink
Personally, I loved the image of a car wearing rabbit ears!
May 27, 2008 6:20 PM | Reply | Permalink
I'll ask the good people of Volkswagen to get on it.
May 27, 2008 9:41 PM | Reply | Permalink
You want to go bye bye in the car car?
May 27, 2008 9:12 PM | Reply | Permalink
I'm sure you're very sorry that when you said "car" some people construed that as referring to an automobile.
May 27, 2008 7:54 PM | Reply | Permalink
No he only "regrets referring to a car" IF it bothered anyone.
May 28, 2008 8:50 AM | Reply | Permalink
Robert Kennedy Jr. made a charitable statemtent about Hillary's assassination comment. I would not assume that he felt no twinge of emotion (or stronger) about her inappropriatly invoking his father's murder to support her ongoing candidacy. All his comment proved is that he has more class than Hillary.
May 27, 2008 11:50 AM | Reply | Permalink
Yeah, Robert Kennedy Jr.'s opinion is the only one that matters and if he says it's okay for the candidate that he supports to use the historically tragic loss of his father as a rationale for continuing a lost nomination fight, then...!
Whatever. This isn't a rationale argument and it is the only thing the Clinton camp hit the airwaves with this weekend.
I am offended. I had a family member violently taken and think it is in very poor taste, thoughtless and quite cruel to use such an event as a rationale for continuing. You, bobby jr., hillary and crew can think it is okay, its symptomatic of her greater problems. I and other Americans reserve the right to react any way we are moved.
May 27, 2008 1:57 PM | Reply | Permalink
there's plenty of people around the country making similar arguments. I'm an Obama supporter. Like hte poster, I'm trying to make sense of the Clinton folks' thinking. This is a thought-police comment.
May 27, 2008 3:18 PM | Reply | Permalink
I'd also like to point out that if Teddy Kennedy wasn't ill, we might be hearing another Kennedy perspective on Mrs. Clinton's resort to the "A" comment.
May 27, 2008 5:42 PM | Reply | Permalink
If Teddy Kennedy weren't ill, she might have used the 1980 campaign as an example where he poisoned the waters all the way through the convention.
May 28, 2008 2:31 AM | Reply | Permalink
I don't think that Hillary would want to bring attention to someone who ruined the Dem's chances at a shoo-in election by going to the convention and dividing the party.
She wants to go to the convention because if not she would have to start "campaigning her heart out" for Obama. Once he becomes the acknowledged candidate she will have to stop campaigning for herself.
May 28, 2008 8:53 AM | Reply | Permalink
Hillary's been campaigning for Democratic presidential candidates since 1968. I think she earned the right to campaign for herself once.
May 28, 2008 10:34 AM | Reply | Permalink
I have campaigned for Democrats since 1966. Do I get to campaign for myself too? Anyway, with her huge advantages of name recognition, a big war-chest, and an ex-president spouse, she got to do it -- She campaigned for herself.
Then she lost.
Now it is time to circle the wagons for the party. I will be very surprised if she does what she claimed she would do, which is to "work tirelessly for the nominee of our party," since it isn't going to be her.
Do you think she will, Des? If she does, will it affect your attitude about the upcoming election? How about if she doesn't?
May 28, 2008 5:57 PM | Reply | Permalink
May 28, 2008 11:23 AM | Reply | Permalink
Sigh. Take Two, for aesthetic reasons (and with fingers crossed):
When I watched the interview, I thought she certainly could have mentioned Ted instead of Bobby. She'd mentioned 1980 a few minutes earlier.
No matter what she says, people will freak out. That's just how powerful she is. ;-)
May 28, 2008 11:32 AM | Reply | Permalink
Either this picnic was in Montana, or your friend Kathy has a very unusual understanding of cause and effect.
She won't vote for Obama in the *general* election, because she doesn't think he can beat McCain?
Wow. That may just be temporary dizziness; I would expect it to clear up by August.
May 27, 2008 10:31 AM | Reply | Permalink
The picnic was in Minnesota, but my friend Kathy just moved here from Boston. Don't ask me--I don't get it either. I said to her, "Kathy, that doesn't make any sense. It's just shooting yourself in the foot." She replied, "I know, but I just don't think he can win." I think maybe that's her passive/aggressive way of saying, "I just don't want him to win." It's a pretty weird way of thinking, no matter what.
May 27, 2008 11:14 AM | Reply | Permalink
Interesting that she's from Boston.
And now, based on this early exit poll, using the Electoral College Extrapolator 2008TM, I am now prepared to call MA for John McCain.
May 27, 2008 2:01 PM | Reply | Permalink
She told me that one of the reasons she supports Hillary is because "she's done great work for the state of New York." One hopes this will continue well into the future.
May 27, 2008 3:45 PM | Reply | Permalink
Depsite my Extrapolator remark, I do think it's interesting she's from Boston.
The last polls I saw were a month old, but they only gave Obama a 2 point lead over McCain (and yes, I realize the election is 5+ months away, which is to say about half a primary season away).
May 27, 2008 3:58 PM | Reply | Permalink
Yawh wicked awf heeyah, dude. I sweyah my home state will nevah go fuh Jawhn gawdam McCain.
May 27, 2008 9:19 PM | Reply | Permalink
She has done LOUSY work for New York... but we would prefer to suffer with her 4 more years as opposed to seeing her in higher office.
May 28, 2008 2:41 AM | Reply | Permalink
My friend Kathy is in her late 50s. She's an old-school feminist from the days when people still referred to feminism as "women's lib." I think Hillary could take a dump on the sidewalk and Kathy would say she'd done a great job. There's no doubt in my mind Kathy is something of a genderist and that she's probably a little too willing to give Hillary the benefit of the doubt. But Kathy's also a Bostonian and a child of the '60s, and JFK and Bobby and Teddy represent to many boomers what the Clintons are to a younger generation. And when Hillary invokes the memory of Bobby Kennedy, she had better goddamn well show some respect or she's gonna lose people.
May 28, 2008 8:33 AM | Reply | Permalink
Too bad you added this comment. It reveals your ignorance about your friend Kathy.
May 28, 2008 11:42 AM | Reply | Permalink
There are people out there who don't want to support a "loser." They feel that it's somehow a reflection of them personally if they are not on the "winning" side. They'd rather vote for a winner even if they agree more with the policies of the loser.
May 27, 2008 4:02 PM | Reply | Permalink
A friend of mine is a Clinton supporter, but said she will support Obama "when she has to". Another voted for Clinton, but likes Obama equally well and is supporting him now.
I went to a wine shop on Saturday, and the owner is a Clinton supporter. Her partner is an Obama supporter. They both made a pledge back at the beginning of the primary season to support whoever got the nomination.
On another bulletin board I'm on, there was a collective group flounce on one of the Clinton supporting groups, because the mod didn't like all the "I'm going to vote for McCain instead!" rhetoric. It was rightly pointed out that Clinton and McCain's policies have almost NOTHING in common.
The trouble is, a lot of these women were Republicans to begin with, and were only supporting Clinton because of her gender. If that's the case, I fully expect them to vote for McCain if Obama gets the Democratic nomination.
I think many of these supporters were either:
a) Never Democrats to begin with.
b) Will come around...eventually.
c) Will stay home.
May 27, 2008 10:32 AM | Reply | Permalink
Thanks for the input. That's why I posted this--I was interested in hearing something more detailed than just poll results. I'm hearing a lot about how Clinton supporters are planning to vote for McCain, but I haven't personally met any. I know a few Republicans who will vote for McCain, but most are really pissed off that he's the nominee. I realize anecdotal evidence is just that, but it seems to me that many of the "Clinton supporters" who are planning to vote for McCain were actually McCain supporters who voted for Clinton in the primaries.
May 27, 2008 11:19 AM | Reply | Permalink
It's not irrational to engage in identity politics. All things being pretty much equal, why not vote for the person who is your gender or color. I don't particularly believe in it, but I don't condemn it.
That said, there IS something irrational about identity politics that doesn't see itself as such. What I mean is, where "I'd rather vote for the woman is acceptable," the kind of grasping at straws that your friend Kathy does is, well, irrational and dishonest. Unfortunately, there's no way to reason with someone who's not open to reason -- which is I guess what you found out.
By the way, I put those people who say they can't vote for Obama because his supporters are obnoxious in the same bag. They're dishonest and not onto themselves, and are beyond rational discussion too.
May 27, 2008 11:45 AM | Reply | Permalink
The problem for me is how do you define the identity in identity politics? Because it's so random, and it's completely reliant on how you define yourself (which is something I try to avoid whenever possible). If I'm basing my decision on identification, what quality do I choose? Two X chromosomes versus one? Breasts versus lack of them? Pink skin versus brown? Male versus female? Curly hair versus straight? That's why I'm so adamantly opposed to identity politics: because it's fundamentally false and it doesn't work unless you turn the other person and yourself into a meaningless cartoon. My grandma once voted for someone because his opponent had a mustache and she didn't like mustaches. Where do you draw the line?
May 27, 2008 4:13 PM | Reply | Permalink
I keep saying this, too - anyone who bases their vote on a candidate's supporters are really suspect.
Anyone who bases their vote on what one or a bunch of people on a comments board say is insane.
May 27, 2008 5:55 PM | Reply | Permalink
Obama says it's not about him, it's about us, his followers who will carry out his revolution.
If you don't like or trust the followers, you probably won't like how the revolution of hope is carried out. McDonalds may have a great leader, but I've only dealt with the little people wearing paper hats. Fortunately they know how to do the fries thing right.
May 28, 2008 2:35 AM | Reply | Permalink
If you don't like Obama's message, I'd say you probably prefer a Republic over a Democracy.
May 28, 2008 8:36 AM | Reply | Permalink
I pledge allegiance to the flag
of the United States of America.
And to the Republic for which it stands
One nation indivisible,
with justice and liberty for all.
A republic is a state or country that is not led by a hereditary monarch,[1][2] where the people of that state or country (or at least a part of that people)[3] have impact on its government,[4] and that is usually indicated as a republic.[5]
In republics that are also democracies the head of state is selected as the result of an election. This election can be indirect, such as if a council of some sort is elected by the people, and this council then elects the head of state. In these kinds of republics the usual term for a president is in the range of four to six years. In some countries the constitution limits the number of terms the same person can be elected as president.
If the head of state of a republic is at the same time the head of government, this is called a presidential system (example: United States).
May 28, 2008 10:40 AM | Reply | Permalink
If I based my opinion on the fringe followers of any candidate or celebrity, I would never support anyone for any reason. I don't judge the merits of episodes of Star Trek based on the fanboys that attend a convention.
What you are describing is reeactionary thought. You are using the behavior of certain individuals to justify your beliefs. That is what is known as an external locus of control. You are ceding your intellectual authority to extremists.
I don't judge Hillary based on her abrasive internet supporters. I judge her based on her campaign and candidacy, which has thus fair failed to secure the majority of delegates in spite of a monumental lead in fundraising, networking, and brand name recognition that she held at the starting line.
Hillary's campaign is a boondoggle. It is the political equivalent of the Big Dig. She has squandered a 200 million dollar chest and is now operating substantially in the red. Her debts threaten to exceed her general election funds. Were she to secure the nomination, she would not have the financial leverage to campaign against McCain, who is being bankrolled by the RNC.
I want to make this distinction as simple as possible and in so doing transcend the "personal is political" bullshit that has turned civics into American Idol. Hillary and Obama's agenda, and the Democratic Party's agenda in general, are so similiar that debate occurs over the details instead of the big picture. Both candicacies are groundbreaking in terms of race and gender. HOWEVER: one candidate is operating in the black and has displayed a grassroots organizational machine that has outperformed the entire field of candidates. The other candidate is operating substantially in the red and offers NOTHING except image.
I suggest that everyone step away from the rancor that has permeated this campaign and simply view the bottom line. Who has what it takes to prevent a third Bush term? Who has conducted a campaign that eclipsed the presumed standard bearer?
Seriously: lick your wounds and rally around the nominee. Help to legitimize his victory and push forward through November and on to a Democratic majority. We have so much to accomplish. We have so many PROBLEMS that exist in spite of this silly season. We have gas prices, market collapse, the Iraqi occupation, climate change, trade deficits, nuclear proligeration, and above all we all need to heal from eight years of the politics of fear and anxiety.
May 28, 2008 9:47 AM | Reply | Permalink
Convince me that they're just fringe followers, and not representative of his 17 million supporters. Show me where the sane ones hang out.
May 28, 2008 11:09 AM | Reply | Permalink
ha! He can't, he's too busy watching TV.
May 28, 2008 11:37 AM | Reply | Permalink
Yeah, but the folks who cling to identity politics need to consider outer-group advocacy. Basically, it suggests that people who are not in a particular minority group are generally as or more successful in creating change for that group; it's something about the cognitive dissonance of seeing, for example, a guy speaking out for women's heart health or a Hispanic individual defending an African American cause. Sometimes politicians who don't look like us can do the most good for us, so it's doubly important that we look at their policy platforms and not just genitalia and skin color.
May 28, 2008 9:46 AM | Reply | Permalink
I can honestly say I have never looked at a politician's genitalia.
May 28, 2008 12:23 PM | Reply | Permalink
Hot Damn! rtbag and I agree on something! High Five!!!!
Wow! I knew we could find common ground! Peace!
May 28, 2008 6:01 PM | Reply | Permalink
Thank GOD (if there is one) this is the thing we agree on. ;-)
May 28, 2008 7:46 PM | Reply | Permalink
Does checking out their butts count? If so, Rahm Emmanuel's got a nice one for an uptight guy.
May 28, 2008 10:23 PM | Reply | Permalink
I see that on my mommy boards. Most of the women are Republicans, hell many of them still have blinkies that say "God Bless President Bush" (gag me). So, they have no problem voting for McCain over Obama, mostly because they're so ignorant and fell for the media narrative of "straight talk". Oddly, a lot of them are military wives and their husbands, several of them deployed in Iraq or Afghanistan are all Obama supporters who voted for Bush twice.
May 27, 2008 11:35 AM | Reply | Permalink
I would add a D) to your list.
I think many of these supporters were either:
D) As dumb as a box of rocks.
I am a woman and a feminist, but since when does feminist mean woman at all costs? You like Clinton, fine. But to not want Obama when they are >
How far we have come to show how far we have not come.
To the feminists out there who don't want to vote for Obama but will vote for McCain, think about:
- abortion rights (McCain is against)
- women in business and the military (McCain doesn't believe women should fly combat missions)
- Supreme Court appointees (for too many reasons to list)
Come on galz...THINK!
Live Frankly
May 27, 2008 7:29 PM | Reply | Permalink
I wanted to do a reality check on this too. A few of my friends are Hillary supporters and neither of them are as combative as those you find on the blogs.
If Hillary doesn't win, they'll vote for Obama.
May 27, 2008 11:03 AM | Reply | Permalink
They're loyal to Hillary and would love to see a woman in the White House but to them, what path a woman takes to get there is just as important. And they just don't see Hillary's path as an inspiring one.
May 27, 2008 11:11 AM | Reply | Permalink
Yeah, same here. I suspect many of the "Clinton supporters" who post on this blog are actually Republicans, pretending to be Clinton supporters in order to lend credibility to their stupid arguments.
May 27, 2008 11:21 AM | Reply | Permalink
Some. But most are just going through a slightly more intense version of the passive-aggressive thing your friend Kathy has got.
May 27, 2008 12:19 PM | Reply | Permalink
I have been wondering if some of the "I won't vote for Obama" rhetoric on line isn't a "talking points" issue with the Clintonista's - a way to scare the party in to exactly the kind of thing we've all been worried about - "we have to elect Hillary because we can't afford to lose her female base". I don't spend too much time on the more rabid pro-Hillary forums out there, so I can't say for sure, but it sounds like a plausible Clinton ploy.
That said, I actually know only one friend that is still in Clinton's camp, and they will be supporting Obama once he puts the nomination to bed. But then, I live in Portland, OR where Obama created his own "city" earlier this month when he spoke to 75,000 people at one of our waterfront parks. It's really kind of hard to find a Clinton supporter around here.
May 27, 2008 12:49 PM | Reply | Permalink
Any friends or relations I have who are Hillary supporters will vote for Obama. I don't, however, have any Republican friends (some were, but are no more), so I can't speak to the idea of Republican women for Hillary.
I do have a Republican brother-in-law who is planning to vote for Obama, and definitely not McCain, but what would happen if Hillary were the nominee, I can't say. I tend to think he'd go third party.
May 27, 2008 11:52 AM | Reply | Permalink
Maybe democracy is wasted on some people...
May 27, 2008 11:13 AM | Reply | Permalink
I've posted it a million times, but it's always worth a repost:
"The best argument against Democracy is a five-minute conversation with the average voter."
-- Sir Winston Churchill
May 27, 2008 11:23 AM | Reply | Permalink
And as I have posted several times:
Half the electorate is below average intelligence.
There's a reason why the founders wanted a Republic and not a Democracy. Simply looking at these boards show that even many passionately involved in following politics can't think critically and independently and rely on emotions and slogans and labels to make arguments.
May 27, 2008 11:46 AM | Reply | Permalink
The pedantic statistician in me must point out that half the population isn't necessarily below average intelligence - but at least half the population is at or below median intelligence (and at least half the population is at or above median intelligence, too).
But I concur with your basic point - not all votes are cast with equal thought or care.
But since we're quoting Churchill, he also said this:
And (I forget who said this) democracy may not give us the government we need, but it will give us the government we deserve.
May 27, 2008 3:35 PM | Reply | Permalink
I could have posted that argument... and you are correct, of course. But I figured most people would have had enough troubles with the one I was making. ;-)
May 27, 2008 6:56 PM | Reply | Permalink
PS As Bertram Russell said: You can be clear or correct. But not both.
May 27, 2008 6:57 PM | Reply | Permalink
And when he said that, was he clear or correct?
May 27, 2008 8:20 PM | Reply | Permalink
It seems pretty clear to me...
May 27, 2008 9:22 PM | Reply | Permalink
But he didn't SAY half the populationis below average intelligence; he said have of the electorate is.
I think Clearthinker is right on the money!
May 28, 2008 9:05 AM | Reply | Permalink
I meant HALF, not HAVE, of course!
May 28, 2008 9:07 AM | Reply | Permalink
I never liked that argument against democracy. Below average intelligence doesn't mean not intelligent enough. Some people are not disciplined thinkers and make less than rational choices, but the degree of intelligence that qualifies one to make the correct or even any one particular choice is not average and above. As you have observed, many motivations go into choice besides intelligence. The observation about inflamed passions on blogs--agreed.
May 27, 2008 3:43 PM | Reply | Permalink
That's not true - it is not half.
At any given time, about 35% of the population is below average intelligent.
It is not 50%.
May 27, 2008 5:57 PM | Reply | Permalink
Oh god that's gorgeous.
May 27, 2008 11:54 AM | Reply | Permalink
Isn't that nice? Of course, he had the advantage of having consumed a full bottle a champagne each day of his life.
May 27, 2008 3:39 PM | Reply | Permalink
The ideal of democracy isn't, IMO, that we can expect people to make good decisions, but -- and I'm sorry to go all John Locke on everyone's ass -- consent of the governed.
May 27, 2008 7:49 PM | Reply | Permalink
I know two Hillary Delegates both of whom say she is making an ass out of her self. One who I will call Al, not his real name, started to get tired of Hillary after the Bosnian sniper fire incident. The other other person Tanya, her real name, is sort of a hippy wanna be, she got mad at Hillary for what she called the open request that someone assisinate her opponent.
Both these people are life long Democrats and seem like they are going to support Obama. The longer Hillary stays in the more obvious it gets to most people that she does not have waht it takes to be president.
May 27, 2008 11:25 AM | Reply | Permalink
Does it drive anyone else bonkers that she says "my opponent" and not "Senator Obama?" Does she forget his name?
May 28, 2008 9:49 AM | Reply | Permalink
Well, all of my Hillary-supporting friends are white gay males. There's no real logic behind their support, just the usually racist undercurrent found in the white gay male community (straight black women, you'll note are not-really-but-kind-of exempt from that because as one friend said, "Ya'll are either Mammies or Divas and everyone knows that [we] all gay men have a mammy or diva just dying to break out."). So, instead of looking at the Clinton's extremely minute legislation on the backs of the LGBT community, they look at Obama see "black man" and automatically assume "homophobe" and dial it in. Most of them said that if Clinton doesn't get the nomination they'll sit it out (no big whoop here, as most of them don't vote regularly anyway).
May 27, 2008 11:32 AM | Reply | Permalink
Which only goes to prove that no group (gay or female or whatever) has any more open mindedness (as a group) than any other. Sad, really.
This also applies to people who think if only a woman were in the White House, the "evil" patriarchy methods would melt away and somehow a "gentle" matriarchy would take hold.
Great point. I hope you flesh this out and post as it's own blog.
May 27, 2008 11:51 AM | Reply | Permalink
TPM reader HOKNY has two excellent posts on the subject.
Our Billysumday's fleshing out of the "diva theory" was also excellent and got picked up by Andrew Sullivan.
May 27, 2008 1:43 PM | Reply | Permalink
I haven't looked into this personally to verify it, but in something I read the author noted that, whereas Clinton almost only discusses gay issues when she knows she's in front of a substantially gay audience, Obama addresses them regularly in speeches in front of the general public.
Have you heard of this?
If true, maybe it's a point you could bring up with your friends. :o)
May 27, 2008 1:19 PM | Reply | Permalink
On his MLK day speech in SC, Obama, speaking in a church, chastised Afro-American congregations for their homophobia.
May 27, 2008 1:46 PM | Reply | Permalink
To all of you who purport to have the actual outcomes for the November election, and there appears to be many of you, what will be the winning Power ball numbers? Come on, all you multi-millionaires, you can share some love, don't horde those precious number, come on! What, your not multi-millionaires from your clairvoyance skills? Then tell us how the hell you, or anyone, can accurately describe who's going to win what come November. If you can't predict Powerball, you sure as heck can't predict elections six month out!
May 27, 2008 11:37 AM | Reply | Permalink
That's got to be one of the most tortured and idiotic analogies I've ever heard. I want you to go out an poll power balls, OK? Not the people who play, but the balls themselves. Can't do it? Oh, well then--polling must be impossible.
May 27, 2008 11:54 AM | Reply | Permalink
Predicting the November election is at worst a 1 in 3 propasition, where the odds on the powerball are a little lower, 1 in 5 million or something like that
May 27, 2008 11:57 AM | Reply | Permalink
Maybe Kathy and her friend are in the beginning stages of grief. I know that I would be if Obama had lost. He means very much to me personally, as have many presidential candidates and winner throughout by 46 adult years. I cry and I scream in exhultation--would make Dean the Scream look completely composed. I've suffered all the stages of denial and anger and irrational blaming, along with bargaining, which is what Hillary seems to be doing. Don't underestimate the power of a HRC supporter's investment in having a woman president. The meaning is intense and complicated.
I unabashedly say that I love Obama, who what I know of him is, a deeply empathic person. His speech on race melted me, especially his empathy for the workingclass white racists. That means to me that my lifelong investment in empathy and my hopes for all levels of America and the world is substantially fulfilled. The resonance between him and me is that intense and important.
I expect that the cause of empathy as a means for creating harmony will be advanced beyond measure. Am I out of my gourd? Perhaps. But that is the way I feel, and I expect that some HRC supporters have very similar feeilngs. I respect them for allowing their longing for the fulfillment of their ideals to bubble up, regardless overdone they may be. On the left, we've become hopelessly cynical and burdened by low expectations. Let 'er rip, and respect the HRC supporters for doing the same.
May 27, 2008 12:52 PM | Reply | Permalink