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Let's improve the tone of contentious postings
For the most part, I enjoy reading the posts regarding the Obama/Clinton battle. I find I learn through the comments and the various links. I even find comfort in reading posts which match my own opinion. (I'm an Obama supporter.) There is real camaraderie sometimes! However, lately, I've felt that reading an entire thread of Clinton vs. Obama. really brings me down. It's getting to be a negative experience rather than an exhilarating experience. Is that happening to anyone else?
The posts are getting nasty on both sides. I'm not just talking about
the trolls (we should not feed them). I've read plenty of rude
comments and unfortunately, bad language (the "f" word is just plain
coarse, in my opinion). I wince when I read a post by a fellow Obama
supporter that is rude. There's a lot of juvenile back and forth
arguing.
It must be because we are all going crazy until this settles. Perhaps there's not that much new that we can actually post. Yet people like to keep up the blogging relationships, the routine. So, keep on blogging, but can we improve the tone a little? We don't want to destroy ourselves, do we?













Comments (58)
I second your motion. In so doing, I make no claim not to have gone overboard at times myself.
Sometimes I think the over-the-top rhetoric comes from the fear that this election will slip away - that the Republicans will win because of the way a Democratic campaign is conducting itself.
At other times, what happens just seems mean-spirited.
April 5, 2008 3:32 PM | Reply | Permalink
I agree with you as usual.
April 5, 2008 5:03 PM | Reply | Permalink
Isn't it terrible? If Obama would just drop out we could all be united again like we were last Fall.
April 5, 2008 3:33 PM | Reply | Permalink
Otto F -
That was a very nice snarky comment. The sort of which I approve. You used clean language and did not call me an idiot. Thank you.
I agree that we need to united again and hope that it happens sooner than later.
-Susiehussein
April 5, 2008 4:30 PM | Reply | Permalink
susiehussein: "However, lately, I've felt that reading an entire thread of Clinton vs. Obama really brings me down. It's getting to be a negative experience rather than an exhilarating experience. Is that happening to anyone else?"
According to Gallup, no.
Gallup TPM-Bloggers Clinton-v-Obama Up/Down Experience Tracker:
susie 100%, others 0%
If you look at the internals, you can see why: you're the only one reading threads in their entirety! ;)
April 5, 2008 3:42 PM | Reply | Permalink
TooBubba:
You are either hilarious or snarky. I choose hilarious.
Thank you so much for the polling results! I guess I have been reading tooooo much. Actually, I confess I don't read the really long posts...... In the future, I will scan for my fav posters, like TooBubba. The problem is that too many people lack avatars which makes it difficult to scan!
-Susiehussein
April 5, 2008 4:26 PM | Reply | Permalink
I was trying for funny. Your "hilarious" is flaterring. :)
Firefox browser includes a quick and easy "Find" feature. I use it dozens or hundreds of times a day. Don't know what I'd do without it.
April 5, 2008 5:28 PM | Reply | Permalink
I was for Edwards, but he dropped out. Now there are only two left-- one side's supporters says the other candidate is a "fucking whore" who wants to "pimp out her daughter" and one side's supporters don't say things like that. I'm on the side that doesn't.
April 5, 2008 4:17 PM | Reply | Permalink
Riesz-
I apologize for my side. Since there seems to be more Obama posters than Clinton posters at TPM, offensive posts would be more noticeable on that side. I do hope that it isn't representative of the mainstream Obama supporters, because it isn't in keeping with Obama's message. Please don't stereotype us - we're not all rude. Just as I know that not all Clinton supporters are rude.
April 5, 2008 4:36 PM | Reply | Permalink
Perhaps the reasons are layered.
I'm a new blogger. I've been blogging for a over a month. I started here only today, for example.
I've struggled with this myself. In general, I don't like to sink to insults when making my points. And many of us who support Obama have tried to emulate the restraint and wisdom he has exercised during the campaign.
But I can only speak for myself. Very often during the campaign, I have felt that in general, the dirty tricks, the obvious mischaracterizations and low blows are coming from the Clinton campaign. For example, when Hillary Clinton goes on national television and answers the question, Do you believe Barack Obama is a Muslim? by saying "As far as I know", I am torn as to how to respond.
I try to stay calm but it has been difficult because, again, I do believe that the low blows, if they were to be counted are coming mainly from her side.
I think passionate arguments that seem excessive to some, can serve a purpose and are potentially a good strategy to bring clarity to the discourse. Sometimes decorum constrains thinking.
So I'm all for passionate,respectful discussion.
Thanks for starting this discussion.
girl from the bronx
April 5, 2008 5:26 PM | Reply | Permalink
"For example, when Hillary Clinton goes on national television and answers the question, Do you believe Barack Obama is a Muslim? by saying "As far as I know", I am torn as to how to respond."
This is what drives Senator Clinton supporters crazy. Anyone who actually saw the interview and not the out of context blogging on this site and others, knows that this is NOT what she said. She said unequivocally that he wasnt. It wasnt until Kroft hounded her for several minutes as if he was going to spring some great unknown on her she said this and again, if you actually watch the FULL clip, her tone was more like "sheesh, I answered this 3 times already"
It is the out of context, misrepresentations that cause the problems and guess where they are coming from?
April 5, 2008 8:28 PM | Reply | Permalink
You're kidding, right? History will show quite another story when all is said and done with the Clinton/Obama campaigns. I'm sure of that.
April 5, 2008 5:02 PM | Reply | Permalink
MSNBC said those things, so why did you try to pin them on TPM Obama backers?
You are a perfect example of what the thread is complaining about, and yet the thread writer bought into your con game.
April 5, 2008 5:17 PM | Reply | Permalink
I'm not quite sure I agree with your type-casting. I've seen plenty of nasty stuff from both sides.
April 5, 2008 5:19 PM | Reply | Permalink
CAN"T WE ALL JUST GET ALONG! We could if the Obama crowd were over 25 and had ever worked for a living in the real world. Eating Twinkies and worrying about a test next week isn't conducive to rational intercourse. Enough said.
Posted by ricksramblings
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The academics, legislators, professions, generals, union workers, etc who support Obama have worked for a living. The college students will have to deal with the consequences of decisions being made in their names.
Many of us view Hillary as truth-challenged. Some of her statements about NAFTA and the outsourcing of jobs do not appear to be based in fact.
If you vote against someone because of what a subset of supporters say on any given website, then you deserve the President you would get. I did not change my opinion about Sen Clinton because of posts made on any website by her supporters. The candidate herself made me an Obama supporter.
While she may view her sniper fire comment as a joke for Jay Leno, I view it as a major character flaw. I have been sleep deprived. I am also a SciFi fan. I never misspoke about receiving phaser fire from a Romulan vessel. In my profession, that type of misspeaking would be grounds for a psychological review. Has Sen Clinton ever been in ANY situation in which she received enemy gunfire.
It is not a joke.
I watched Sen McCain get confused about Sunnis and Shiities. He also fabricated a story about supporting the MLK National holiday on the 40th memorial observance in Memphis. I see Sens Clinton and McCain as willing to say whatever needs to be said to whatever audience they address.
I see that Barack Obama can't bowl. I am not worried. I don't want to have a beer with him, I want him to be a President. Now having a good Boureaux with President Obama might be another matter.
April 5, 2008 9:10 PM | Reply | Permalink
So you extrapolate the offensive statements of one radio jock (and a tv reporter)and condemn all Obama supporters for it? You use this as a reason justify your support of Hillary Clinton? You can support Clinton for whatever reasons you choose - hopefully that support is grounded in positive policy reasons or a genuine respect for Senator Clinton. But if you believe no Clinton supporters say offensive "stuff like that" I suggest you visit Hillaryis44 or MyDD for regular, vitriolic, and virulent personal attacks on Barack Obama.
Unlike you, I don't blame you or all Clinton supporters or even Senator Clinton for the hateful attacks of a few intense partisans.
April 6, 2008 12:30 AM | Reply | Permalink
I agree with this posting. I wonder if most bloggers are a little crazy and obsessive. I guess that would include me. I could be out canvassing for my candidate, but.......
April 5, 2008 4:56 PM | Reply | Permalink
You're right, Susie. I've had many civil disagreements with Obama supporters on other blogs (and some agreements!) and I don't stereotype all Obama supporters, but OTOH I can't help but notice a definite asymmetry: there is a disturbing amount of visceral Hillary hatred, not nearly balanced on the other side.
The only reason I can think of for it is that she's a woman. It isn't because she's a Clinton-- Bill Clinton left office with the highest approval ratings in history.
Have you noticed what I'm talking about? I know we Hillary supporters can get mean sometimes and call names, but we usually direct it at Obama's supporters, not at Obama himself. We don't hate Obama the way so many Obama supporters hate Hillary. It's very disturbing.
April 5, 2008 5:17 PM | Reply | Permalink
Riesz-
I must disagree on several points. There are many observers, myself included, who would happily support a candidate who happens to be a woman. While I have no doubt that some of the anti-Hillary sentiment is sexist, there are many who don't like her for solid reasons, many feminists included. There are feminists who have pointed to questions of character in the way she treated women involved with Bill. There are also many democrats who don't like Bill for many reasons, the least of which his "triangulation" steps to the right. So, please don't cast all anti-Hillary energy as sexist. It's not.
April 5, 2008 5:37 PM | Reply | Permalink
Again, I can only speak for myself.
First of all, I'm not sure how it can be determined on any given day, how much more hateful blogging or sentiment is coming from one side over another. We all have our impressions, but really, that's all they are.
But I will honestly say, Mr. Fischer. My strong antipathy towards Hillary is not based on her surrogates. It is based on her actions. Her calculated response to the question posed to her whether or not Obama is a Muslim reveals how low she will go. She has stepped over the line too many times during this campaign for me. And when we look at this campaign in future years, perhaps a more accurate version will emerge.
April 5, 2008 5:42 PM | Reply | Permalink
Girl from the Bronx -
Thanks for your calm, level-headed comment.
April 5, 2008 6:06 PM | Reply | Permalink
girl from the bronx.
Please, go here and look and listen carefully.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LHFREDHB-nQ&e
I laid this challenge out in my blog a couple of weeks ago and virtually EVERY Obama supporter said that the meme going around about the "as far as I know" was a total sham. I challenge you to review this and stand by your misrepresentation of what Senator Clinton said.
Please do the right thing.
April 5, 2008 8:33 PM | Reply | Permalink
Riesz -
Well, I would love to vote for a woman! (and I am a woman!) So that is not why I support Obama. For me, Obama is the once in a lifetime candidate, he is special. I believe he transcends other candidates. You may say that I've had too much koolaid, but it is my true feeling, one that I've had ever since I heard his speech announcing his candidacy. So, I am an Obama lover, not a Clinton hater!! I'm sure there must be others like me.
Are you a Clinton lover or an Obama hater? It is easier to debate with lovers than haters, don't you think? Perhaps it's the haters that are ruining it for us all!
-Susiehussein
April 5, 2008 6:12 PM | Reply | Permalink
Although you could be right, Riesz Fischer, I don't think the anger toward Hillary has to with gender. The exception is the notable case of trolls who are here to make us all mad at one another by masquerading as Clinton and Obama supporters and insulting both candidates.
There have been some gender-specific attacks on Hillary. There's no justifying David Shuster of MSNBC saying Hillary was "pimping out" Chelsea, or Randi Rhodes calling Hillary a whore, even if Rhodes was, as some people claim, telling a tasteless joke. Shuster is not, as far as I know, an Obama supporter. He's a journalist who thought he was being clever. Since Rhodes is a woman, it seems unlikely she was telling her tasteless joke just because she saw an opportunity to attack a woman instead of a man.
The anger of most real Obama supporters toward Hillary has to do not with gender, but with Hillary's campaign tactics. The anger toward the Clinton campaign is just like the anger toward the notable male Republican Karl Rove for conducting campaigns that systematically divide people based on things like race and use anger to motivate their chosen demographic to go vote Republican. To Obama supporters, it seems clear that Hillary's campaign is using similar tactics against a Democrat in a Democratic primary. She's trying and succeeding at getting whites to vote against the black guy and women to vote against a man.
Apparently Hillary's supporters don't notice Hillary's campaign practices at all, or else think it is fine to use them against Obama for some higher purpose. Hillary can't seem to remember whether Obama is Muslim or Christian. The Clinton campaign supplied the photo of Obama in native African dress to reinforce the Muslim aspersions that started with rightwing sources. We keep hearing about Wright from Hillary herself, Harold Ickes and others. Mark Penn must have said the word "cocaine" twenty times in one TV interview about Obama even as John Edwards' campaign manager Joe Trippi tried to get him to stop. The Clinton campaign tried to get mainstream media to write about Obama and a Weathermen connection based on his service on a charity board that had an ex-weatherman as a board member. If you're an Obama supporter, it has been hard over the months not to notice that the Clinton campaign is carefully painting a portrait of Obama as an angry, black, muslim drug-user with terrorist friends. That's awfully nasty stuff. I really don't think the Obama campaign has done anything comparable.
Also, when it comes to anger at people within the Clinton campaign, it is directed equally at the male contingent: Bill Clinton and the impressive roster of male political operatives: James Carville, Mark Penn, Harold Ickes, Howard Wolfson, etc.
Then there's the way the Clintons personally and Hillary's campaign as a whole have reacted to complaints about their own negative campaigning. Bill says the negative campaigning is a good thing and everybody should "saddle up." Hillary says it's "the fun part." James Carville assures us this is a very "mild" campaign. Harold Ickes says it's "genteel." They not only do nasty divisive things, they celebrate themselves for being such clever political operatives and for showing such wonderful restraint in not doing even nastier things. What they apparently see as the "fun part" of politics is precisely what turns a lot of people's stomachs. Getting mad about their blowing off protests against negative campaigning has nothing to do with anybody's gender.
Hillary's changing positions on the nomination process are another source of anger toward her - changing positions and rationales on things like casino voting, seating delegates from Florida and Michigan, the legitimacy of caucuses, etc. The contradictions are pretty stark between her original positions and the ones she switched to when she feared the loss of delegates or suddenly was behind and needed to get delegates somehow. The contradictions make people see the sniper fire claim and other inaccuracies as a pattern of intentional misrepresentation rather than slips of memory.
I think Obama supporters express their anger at the Clinton campaign's actual behavior and inappropriately attack Hillary's supporters in the process. When Hillary's supporters defend themselves by defending or repeating her tactics, saying Obama's total accomplishments amount to giving a single worthless speech, that he is a phony, an empty suit, not fit to be commander-in-chief, just words, then act as though that justifies any and all nasty tactics against Obama, that makes Obama supporters madder.
Then, between us, we waste a lot of time and generate still more ill will.
April 5, 2008 6:50 PM | Reply | Permalink
LLD -
In-f'in-deed! Rock on...
I am exhausted by having to recount the actual time-line, rollout of crap the Cs have perpetually hoped to stick to a wall. We've been here before & got burned by loyalty for loyalty's sake. I am sadly at the point of not distinguishing btw Shrub's minions and Hil's.
We have an alternative to be FOR...
My bf's father's wisdom - usually re a bad spouse or bad job or bad choices of any sort = "...you knew what you got when you got it." So discard or be disappointed.
And as Maya Angelou said, "When someone shows you who they are, believe them." Also known as 'show me your ass' one too many times and...what will I do? Be loyal or admit the funky smell?
Jeez - we've been here before - just 7 yrs. ago - Dems aren't immune. I don't need smack talk, I just need the walk. Fauxs No!
April 6, 2008 4:24 AM | Reply | Permalink
That's actually what bothers me is when Clinton supporters (not many anymore, but there used to be a lot, and it still hurts when I hear it) start tossing hatred at the supporters such as the infamous line "drinking the Kool-Aid." I really hate that line, and I wish it would just go away. It doesn't make any important argument that couldn't be phrased better, and it doesn't add anything to the discussion. It just acts as a personal insult. I know that Obama supporters are guilty of this too, but it actually bothers me more when it's against the supporters than when it's against the candidate.
April 5, 2008 9:13 PM | Reply | Permalink
Oh if only it were true. I've heard amazingly hateful stuff said about Obama's morals and general character by Clinton supporters. I get pretty ticked about Obama supporters doing the same thing.
This site has more Obama supporters, so there's a higher frequency of Clinton hating than on a more balanced or even Hillary-esque site. And perhaps those of us who know better should say more. Unfortunately, when I see a Hillary-hating post I tend to get mad at the author myself and then get rude too.
I wish this site required you to preview a post before you could send it; seeing my words formatted can make me tone things down.
April 5, 2008 10:52 PM | Reply | Permalink
This will never happen, but, OK...I agree.
April 5, 2008 6:12 PM | Reply | Permalink
Gee, how could that be any fun?
Hmm, some way for readers to downrate vile, mailicious, useless, or trollish posts and make them disappear might be useful. Oh, we used to have that? Dang, sure miss it.
April 5, 2008 6:51 PM | Reply | Permalink
Now that would be a great feature. Then I could downrate my own posts when I get too cranky and hit 'send' before editing.
April 5, 2008 10:54 PM | Reply | Permalink
I think that comments have gotten more substantive lately. There are a few posters who don't fit that description, but on the whole, I think there has been less insult and more fact in postings.
...except for people like Riez F, Lalo, and some others.
April 5, 2008 6:57 PM | Reply | Permalink
CAN"T WE ALL JUST GET ALONG! We could if the Obama crowd were over 25 and had ever worked for a living in the real world. Eating Twinkies and worrying about a test next week isn't conducive to rational intercourse. Enough said.
April 5, 2008 7:52 PM | Reply | Permalink
Thank you for that model of rational discourse.
As for the specific argument you make, there appear to be counterexamples. I'm over 60, have worked since my teens, and haven't eaten a Twinkie for 40 years.
Not that I object to Twinkies in principle.
April 5, 2008 8:23 PM | Reply | Permalink
So you think all Obama supporters are white and go to college. Not much to say about, well the rest of us.
April 5, 2008 8:35 PM | Reply | Permalink
I am an Obama supporter.
I am white; 60 years old; a nurse practitioner; have supported myself all my life; have travelled to England, Norway, Italy, Japan, South Africa, Botswana, Egypt, Israel, Australia, New Zealand, Sweden, Germany, North Caicos, Canada, Mexico, Brussels, Scotland, Spain, Portugal, Slovenija, Austria, Finland, (and others) -- and lived in France for a year.
I have raised three children -- one 22, and two 18 year-old twins. I am an excellent cook and I read good authors every day. I have written many health-related articles. Two years ago I started a new job in a new field (infertility) and I had to learn new drugs, new treatments, and new procedures.
I never eat Twinkies, and I am not a lightweight. I am not worried about a test next week; I am worried about my childrens' futures. I don't want a President who will declare war for bogus reasons. I don't want a President who is a serial liar. I don't want a President who feels entitled to the office. I want a President who has earned our trust and is legally elected.
What if the Hillary crowd would open their eyes? See? I could have hurled an insult to you like you did about Obama supporters, but I didn't.
April 5, 2008 8:50 PM | Reply | Permalink
Wonderful post, CVille Dem.
But then as a 60+ white guy who's worked his whole life, has two kids, and supports Obama, I'm viewing your post from the perspective of a narrow interest group. Since we ended up in this thread because we responded to Susie's appeal to improve the tone of discussion, we may have a common weakness there, too.
CVille Dem, it's just you, me, and Obama, like three peas in a pod.
Except for all those young people. And all those black people. And all those educated people. And all those affluent people. And a lot of Hispanic and Latino people who are on the young side, if reports are accurate. And, oh yeah, most of the delegates elected to the Democratic National Convention. (Apologies to those I failed to mention.)
Now that I think about it, it's a pretty big club. There aren't enough Twinkies in the world to go around.
April 5, 2008 9:36 PM | Reply | Permalink
Thanks for the response, lifelong. I am an EVOLVED Democrat. My family was Republican, and I even voted for Nixon!!!!
Reagan turned me into an Independent -- as a Virginian, I voted for Anderson, knowing that my vote wouldn't count anyway, but I wanted to protest.
I finally realized that I was a Democrat when Bill Clinton inspired me, and the moniker "Independent" just didn't do it for me any more. I was a loyal Clinton supporter, and defended him and Hillary against every nasty insult thrown their way. I was so glad to actually vote "for" someone rather than for the least objectionable person.
I had the same enthusiasm voting for Gore; too bad the fact that he won didn't get any traction. I thought Howard Dean could have been elected. The "scream" was a ridiculous excuse to throw him away. I was not enthusiastic about Kerry, but of course, voted for him. He won too, but oh, well.
Now I have true enthusiasm again for a candidate. Obama has shown his decency, his organizational skills, his ability to choose staff, and his ability to unite diverse people, and to manage a budget.
Hillary and Bill have been a huge disappointment -- even an embarassment -- and they continue to show that they would never be able to unite our country. If they are so disruptive to our own party how could they appeal to republicans?
It truly is time for a change. Yes we can!
April 5, 2008 10:24 PM | Reply | Permalink
FYI - I'm 49 and white and work for a living. I guess I'm in the offensive, latte drinking demographic. Most of my 40-50 something friends are for Obama too.
-Susiehussein
April 5, 2008 9:05 PM | Reply | Permalink
What Obama supporters need is a latte drinking song, like the ones the Bavarians sing in beer halls, only in English and much more eloquent.
Maybe a march with a catchy refrain about healing divisions of gender, race and class. And long pauses for refills at the Starbucks counter.
Then we'd get some respect.
April 5, 2008 9:46 PM | Reply | Permalink
Made me lauqh, buddy. I can only afford to drink lattes 1-2 times a week, though I do nuke my milk for double-strength coffee. And I'm 49, worked ever since I dropped out of school to work on a little farm in the Hudson Valley; I'm still waiting for that limousine they say I've got to show up.
April 5, 2008 10:46 PM | Reply | Permalink
I'm with you, Eliyah. I was joking about the lattes. I'm too cheap for Starbucks (but it's fine with me if other people go). I don't even drive a Prius. I just wish I did.
My latte drinking song idea was making light of a common way Clinton supporters try to dismiss Obama supporters. Oddly, it's much the same as the way Republicans try to dismiss liberal Democrats.
The Republicans fault us for not driving Hummers, hating the French and shooting polar bears. Or was that shooting the French and hating polar bears? I guess it depends on whether Dick Cheney is free. He would shoot the French and the polar bears, and then run over both with the Hummer.
Now that I think about it, it's not right to accuse us of having lattes and then turn around and accuse us of having Twinkies, too. Even the insults hurled at us are of insultingly poor quality. They lack gravitas.
April 5, 2008 11:24 PM | Reply | Permalink
I'm going to work on the latte drinking song. I was doing pretty well improvising twelve-bar blues verses Friday morning; if I have a bad morning tomorrow I'll see what I can come up with.
April 7, 2008 12:48 AM | Reply | Permalink
Well, I guess someone needs to defend the college-aged, so I'll try. Hi, my name is Lauren. I'm a freshman double-major at American University. I'm Jewish, but not very observant, since I feel closest to G-d when I'm studying Torah rather than in services. I want to know what I'm going to do after college since it's more than likely that the economy will be tanking, and it's less than likely that I'll be able to find a good job. This fear isn't alleviated by going to a restaurant with my family and finding out that our waiter went to my university for graduate school. I'm sick of having watched the entire world seem to erupt in flames since the time I entered middle school (September 11th occurred while I was in seventh grade, and I watched as the second plane hit the tower from my classroom), and even sicker of watching other cultures distorted on my television set. And sickest of all of knowing that too many people believe in it. I watch the concerns in my parents' discussions with each other, me, and my sisters about various issues, and believe it or not, they influence me the most on politics, not my friends. I'm worried about things just like you are, and please don't dismiss that worry as any less human or real than yours.
April 5, 2008 9:33 PM | Reply | Permalink
Great defense.
I do feel bad for you and my own kids because opportunity in this country has been shrinking. We oldfolks have left you a world worse than the one we set out to make better.
It's your turn. You're bound to do better than we did.
April 5, 2008 10:29 PM | Reply | Permalink
Haha, the truth is, I think progress is progress, if nothing else, through time. ^_^ Everything probably nullifies itself out to zero ultimately. The point is to make sure that the most important things are in order. The baby boom generation brought equal rights for women and minorities, as well as the fall of the Soviet Union - all great things. Now it's my generation's turn to continue. I was just railing at someone who didn't seem to want me to.
April 6, 2008 7:51 PM | Reply | Permalink
Oh yes, and I've never touched a Twinkie either, although I don't think it makes much of a difference. Just thought I'd let you know.
April 5, 2008 9:35 PM | Reply | Permalink
Great post. I feel like I should personally apologize to you for Sept. 11. I'm just one American, but I'm one of those silly dreamers who thinks each of us affects the course of history and that democracy is at least partly a spiritual practice (but don't take my Talmud away!). I do think we make a difference, but only when we try to listen as well as talk. I don't know about you, but my Jewish family wasn't much for listening, so I'm still learning. Especially thanks to people like Susiehussein.
Geez, I wish I could add "hussein" to my id, which is my hebrew name. More amusing on so many levels.
April 5, 2008 11:07 PM | Reply | Permalink
O dear.
If the f word - AKA fuck and all it's variations are going to be self-censored because some find it offensive, that really cuts into my usual way to talking.
And I've toned it way down.
What happened to the first amendment? I don't call Clinton supporters bad names and I counter lots of trollish nonarguments with real arguments.
But I guess it just seems - I dunno - "not me" to worry about what curse words or other "forbidden terms" (Oy!) get posted.
I'm sorry - I don't mean to be overly contentious - I just cuss a lot.
April 5, 2008 8:24 PM | Reply | Permalink
Not mine to judge, but I think there's a form of redemption in whom you cuss.
During WWII, Eisenhower was the top allied commander. By his rules, it was OK to call somebody an SOB, including calling a British officer an SOB. But if an American officer called a British officer a British SOB, the American was relieved of command and sent home.
The Democratic Party might have a better chance of winning this fall if Democrats could agree not to do the equivalent of calling one another SOBs.
April 5, 2008 8:45 PM | Reply | Permalink
Perhaps if the "flaming" were more literate it would be more interesting. John Adams was called a "hideous hermaphroditical character" by the Jefferson camp.
I'm not sure that internet addicts reflect the sensibilities of average voters. And what is said here will have little effect on the campaigns. However, what is said on television is another matter.
April 5, 2008 10:06 PM | Reply | Permalink
Just look at the headlines in the Recommended Posts. The more outrageous misrepresentations the better. Like the World Weekly News but all against the first viable woman candidate for President.
April 5, 2008 8:37 PM | Reply | Permalink
Good point. A lot of the headlines are way out of line.
Pissing off Hillary supporters will just make it harder to elect Obama if he is nominated. And vice versa, of course, though the balance of nasty headlines is tilted against Hillary.
There's this weird online joy-of-flaming thing that I find hard to comprehend. It doesn't seem like a great way to choose a president.
April 5, 2008 8:51 PM | Reply | Permalink
O I totally agree with that my dear, and I even gave a long civil explanation to a long racist troll the other day and the worst I called him was a fool.
But I can be sarcastic - and the fighting is getting beyond silly since it's clear how this is going to end up.
I always did agree with the basis of the post - that's why I said I wasn't trying to be contentious. I just cuss and usually it's Repugs.
Well, and journalists. And bad commenting systems. And sometimes America, ya know? :)
April 5, 2008 10:49 PM | Reply | Permalink
I don't know how that ended up reading "long racist." I meant to say "well known racist."
sorry.
April 5, 2008 11:00 PM | Reply | Permalink
I would like to second Tena's support of the F word. But I think it should be saved for the republicans. I am 100% behind the idea of improving the level of discourse between the Hillary and Obama camps.
In sports speak, this is a scrimmage. Let's save the hostility for the actual game.
April 5, 2008 11:59 PM | Reply | Permalink
I can see that the f-word issue is a losing battle. Let's just agree to disagree, shall we? I can't help it, I'm an English teacher and you know how we value extensive vocabulary. F is getting too common. Our assignment is to challenge ourselves to find other powerful words to describe our indignation and vitriolic anger. :)
p.s. After the election, I might change my name to susiegrammarqueen. Be afraid, be very afraid!
April 6, 2008 11:28 AM | Reply | Permalink
I'm a cappuccino-drinking Hillary supporter.
I'm a male but people assume I'm female because I'm really sick of the sexism this campaign and I rant about it. Oddly enough, I usually feel much worse after I write these rants because I get more and more sexist comments back.
I occasionally write posts about racism, but then I get attacked because I think blacks have a lot of power to solve many (not all) of their problems by pulling together. I quoted Martin Luther King the other day and then people started attacking him. Well, not by name. They thought they were attacking me.
Then there's a litany of "progressive" points and if you don't toe the line with those, you're called a Republican. Bringing up the 90's doesn't help because from what I now understand, the 90's were even worse than the 2000's because, um, well, because.
Not much fun around here.
April 6, 2008 11:41 AM | Reply | Permalink
I can see what you mean. You are a real person with complex views - gray, not black and white (I'm not referring to race). It is sad that we have to reduce everything to simplistic terms in order to debate it. I blame it on the 24 hour newstainment and the fact that they have to catch people with quick soundbytes. It isn't conducive a nuanced discussion.
-susie
April 6, 2008 12:28 PM | Reply | Permalink
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