How about discussing race in America?

Let me first state my strong belief that this is more a generational problem. Much has happened in our nation’s recent history (the past 40 years). I do not see the same problems discussing race in people my age or younger (I have 3 "white" teenagers). I may be wrong, but the voting is only supporting my theory.

I also believe that this generational problem does not only belong to whites. As Obama stated, it is hard for the black generation who remember overt racism as a daily fact of life to forgive and forget. I'm not so sure I could.

I don't know that this can be changed. I am not sure we can convince a large number of "whites" that were raised to believe they were better than another entire race that they in fact are not. I don't know that we can convince a large number of  "blacks" that white people have changed. Yesterday at work, I heard an elderly woman call a young black lady a "dirty nigger" because she tried to help her. The young lady tried to act like it didn't bother her and an elderly man apologized, but you can't un-ring a bell. No matter what is said or done afterward, I'm sure she might think ALL white people secretly feel that way.

I believe the only way out is through. In this time, as in other times of generational shift, it is not only of benefit but necessary for the survival of our nation, for the youth to pave the way. In this matter the elders are wrong and we should not allow their fear, bigotry, or deeply held illogical beliefs to hold us back. Whether they are black or white.

Back in December, before all the brouhaha grew to a roar, Time magazine published an article by Shelby Steele, "The Identity Card", in which he attempted to marginalize every black person into one of two categories. I must mention that he himself is "black", in that he has a black father and a white mother. In response I wrote this letter:

As a white woman, mother to a biracial son, and staunch Obama supporter I was stunned by the simplistic ignorance of Shelby Steels viewpoint.  In the Time article “The Identity Card” the author separates all black Americans into two groups- the “bargainers” and the “challengers”. Bargainers are those who bend and offer compromise. Challengers question motive and intent and trust only when proof is offered.