Misogyny in our midst
Last week I wrote an article for The Guardian (UK) about online misogyny, using Kathy Sierra's experience as a jumping off point.
Last week, Kathy Sierra, a well-known software programmer and Java expert, announced that she had cancelled her speaking engagements and was "afraid to leave my yard" after being threatened with suffocation, rape and hanging. The threats didn't come from a stalker or a jilted lover and they weren't responses to a controversial book or speech. Sierra's harassers were largely anonymous, and all the threats had been made online.
One of the things I wrote in detail about in the article was the unbelievable responses to Sierra's story. Some thought she "deserved" it, some called her complaints (about getting death threats, imagine!) "whining." Sadly, I expected to find these kinds of reactions in certain places on the internet. What I didn't expect was to find them so close to home, and from a progressive "leader" in the blogosphere, no less!
Kos on Kathy Sierra and female bloggers being harassed and getting death threats:
Look, if you blog, and blog about controversial shit, you'll get idiotic emails. Most of the time, said "death threats" don't even exist -- evidenced by the fact that the crying bloggers and journalists always fail to produce said "death threats".
So let me get this straight: blogging about the oh-so-controversial world of software development means you should expect to get death threats. After all, nothing brings out the crazies like tech-talk. And besides, she probably made it all up anyway.
...Email makes it easy for stupid people to send stupid emails to public figures. If they can't handle a little heat in their email inbox, then really, they should try another line of work.
I mean come on, if you can't handle your address and social security number being published along with threats of rape, hanging, suffocation and death--you're a fucking lightweight.
Seriously though, it's one thing to argue--as Markos does--that a blogger code of conduct would be ineffective. Fine. But dismissing online misogyny and Sierra's experience (without even bothering to do any research on the subject, to boot) is reprehensible. Though predictable given the source.
Implying that women are "whining" about harassment or violence against them and mocking them for taking these threats seriously is just such a sexist cliché. I think the progressive blogosphere deserves better.












Comments (57)
Jessica, how do we crack down on anonymous comments?
In your Guardian article, you pose the question, "Is this really what people are like?" I can only conclude that yes, this is what people are really like. The anonymity of the web and other online situations really expose how people think.
While the national media are busying scorching Imus for his comments, worse things are said on the web every day. When it comes to racism, misogyny, and other forms of bigotry, a lot of the easy work has been done. We don't have de jure discrimination or institutionalized racism. Getting rid of prejudice and sexist thinking will be the hard part, if it's possible.
I'm not coming up with good ideas on how to make things better. It seems the most we can do is disallow anonymous comments, but that basically doesn't solve any of the problems. Even I have a fake email address that I use in certain circumstances so that I can keep my personal information private.
What to do?
April 12, 2007 11:50 AM | Reply | Permalink
Yeah, I thought Kos's comment on this was strange. If I were to guess, I'd say that he's been getting this wacky email crap for so long, he's just sort of numb to it now.
But there's really no defense of what he said. What happened to Sierra is NOT simply "heat" in her email inbox.
Dissent Protects Democracy.
April 12, 2007 11:56 AM | Reply | Permalink
it's hard to gauge how extensive the problem is. Like terrorism, it only takes a few cranks out of hundreds of emails to scare somebody. they could be sincere threats -- they could be teen pranks. A free society allows people to act irresponsibly, and unfortunately -- too many do.
April 12, 2007 12:03 PM | Reply | Permalink
Anonymity, really, pseudonymity, is also the reason blogs work.
Dissent Protects Democracy.
April 12, 2007 12:05 PM | Reply | Permalink
Given the recent controversy combining Don Imus, rap lyrics and videos, etc you make a good point.
I noted in a prior blog that I hadn't realized until this morning that much of the debate about the treatment of African-American women was being done by African-American men and Caucasians. Imus defenders have (to my knowledge) been all males. Ana Marie Cox wrote in Time magazine about her need to feel accepted as one of the the "guys" by appearing on Imus. Gen Ifill had to wait until Imus was wounded before responding to his cleaning woman "joke".
If women are being marginalized in a discussion about women in the Imus-Rutgers situation and MSM women are under pressure by their male peers, then I'm not surprised that the blogosphere is akin to the scenes in "A Clockwork Orange" or "A Boy and His Dog".
Arianna Huffington made the point that if a 12 year old girl put a video of her signing on You Tube, there would in short order be comments like, "You are terrible. You should kill yourself."
I have no idea on how to change the climate.
April 12, 2007 12:05 PM | Reply | Permalink
Reece says:
I'm always somewhat bemused (and a bit puzzled) when people suggest disallowing anonymous comments as a remedy to the problem of online harrassers and those who casually invade the privacy of others. Aren't most of the people who post anonymously doing so to protect themselves from online harrassers?
Setting up the situation so that the average person isn't able to protect themselves by posting anonymously will only make them more vulnerable to harrassment. And the harrassers would undoubtedly find a way to hide their identity anyway.
Know your enemy well, for in the end that is who you become. ~~Old Chinese Proverb
April 12, 2007 12:07 PM | Reply | Permalink
I'm don't like misogyny (or misandry) or incivility. I'm also don't like making up new rules that effectively punish the innocent for the sins of the guilty. The anonymity of the internet is overrated and death threats are a crime in many places. Report them to the police. If they don't rise the the level of prosecution under current law, then try to find some other way to punish the guility -- not the rest of us.
April 12, 2007 12:24 PM | Reply | Permalink
I do think it's a far leap to say "the blogosphere" is like A Clockwork Orange. Just like in real life, most of it functions well, but some of it, not so well.
Isn't the issue here, really, more about our society and the celebrity spectacle?
I would imagine anyone in the spotlight, whether it's a well-known blogger or a TV star or a musician or a model, has to deal with stalkers, psycho fans, etc.
This is a problem that's not at all limited to the blogosphere.
Dissent Protects Democracy.
April 12, 2007 12:29 PM | Reply | Permalink
What did kos say about the bloggrrls working for Edwards who were forced to resign by the rabid dog faction of supporters of Bill Orally and his colleagues? Were they just a bunch of whiners? Or were the death threats reprehensible in that similar case?
Or did the fact that they are popular bloggers with a following (willing to be very vocal about how out of touch with reality such a comment makes you appear to be) lead him to temper his remarks somewhat?
April 12, 2007 12:35 PM | Reply | Permalink
You may have misinterpreted my comment. While I said that is about the best we can do, I also noted that it is essentially useless as a remedy.
April 12, 2007 12:36 PM | Reply | Permalink
A free society allows people to act irresponsibly, and unfortunately -- too many do.
Death threats are not protected speech. If you mail someone a picture of themselves being hung, or of them being suffocated with lingerie, you're breaking the law. Post those pictures on a website, as happened to Kathy Siera, same thing. E-mail someone with explicit death threats, as also happened to Kathy Siera, same thing. Illegal. As it should be.
they could be sincere threats -- they could be teen pranks.
I can think of several women of my own acquaintance who have been stalked and/or experienced domestic violence, as well as a friend's mother who was stalked and murdered by someone she didn't know. It's not something to be taken lightly by anyone, regardless of gender, but I have to say that I'd particularly counsel any woman I knew who was being stalked (so far I haven't known any men who've been stalked), not to dismiss it as a teen prank, not to think that they were making a big deal out of nothing, and not to think that, say, getting a restraining order was an extraordinary enough step in itself to actually protect them.
It's the reluctance to "blow things out of proportion," in my experience, that gets people killed.
April 12, 2007 12:53 PM | Reply | Permalink
Unfortunately this is a major blind spot for Kos.
He has solid instincts in many areas, which have enabled him to build and maintain his remarkable site, and I admire him tremendously for that. But this issue came up on DailyKos as well, in a complicated eruption that came to be known as the 'pie war'. Before the worst sorts of hostility to women came out in the comments (not actually as bad as Kathy Sierra endured as far as I know, but ugly still), Kos could have defused the conflict, but instead poured gas on the fire by inviting the 'sanctimonious women's studies' crowd to leave and form their own blogs. While he backtracked slightly later, he never really backed off from his belief that some women were just being too sensitive.
The immediate result was the alienation of large numbers of women and other feminist-leaning activists from the site, and, I would content, the further entrenchment of an aggressive style of debate on the site. A number of spinoff or diaspora blogs were formed.
Things have settled back into various messy equilibria since this happened (in 2005), and I have to say that Dailykos is, and was, far too vast and complex an organism to be have its course set by such an incident, however intense. There are many strong women at Dailykos, including frontpagers, and some activists have come back over time; there were of course always many Kossacks who never agreed with Kos on this, etc. And the tone and emotional reactions of the messy Dailykos organism are all over the map, as anyone who invests time in tracking diaries can attest.
But while it did not set the course, it did close off some paths. For better or worse, Dailykos may always be a somewhat narrower and more aggressive place than it might have been if that conflict (a long-simmering and complex bit of gender dynamics that really had very little to do with an ad about a pie fight) had been defused with more sensitivity on Kos's part.
More info here: http://www.dkosopedia.com/wiki/Pie_fight
April 12, 2007 12:56 PM | Reply | Permalink
I'll add a one more note to this already overlong comment:
Kos has always resisted efforts to make Dailykos into the destination/community site for left-lib activists.
In some ways it tends to serve as such despite him, simply because of it's size. But he has periodically and consistently taken steps to reassert that his is a site about winning electoral fights, and the rest is just frills and context.
The incident described above was, from one perspective, just one of several times this focus has gotten him into fights with the larger community he has attracted. More recently, there was a flap when he reduced and refocused his blogroll to reflect his priorities, thereby apparently depriving many smaller blogs of potential traffic and googleranking. In the end, he instituted a new feature: thousands of decentralized blogrolls (every diary writer can create one), to distribute the linkage more democratically.
Like I said, a complicated organism.
April 12, 2007 12:57 PM | Reply | Permalink
So there's no way to find out who sent these threats?
April 12, 2007 1:55 PM | Reply | Permalink
Jessica,
So dissapointing to hear that Kos is mouthing some kind of 'tough guy' macho crap. One wonders what kind of 'heat' he's gotten in his inbox.
Why can't he be supportive instead of offering tough guy bromides?
I've been stalked by some mysterious cabal of psychos, and it nearly drove me to the brink.
Our sociey is going to hell. Every body fancies himself the new Hannibal Lechter. Our standards are going down and we have a coarse and endlessly vulgar culture of death and violence to thank for it.
April 12, 2007 2:17 PM | Reply | Permalink
From what I've pieced together, it seems that at least one of the death threat posts couldn't have been made without "owner" permissions. After all but one of the blog owners said they weren't responsible for the post, the remaining blog owner said that his user account had been hacked. That's all based entirely on blog chatter, though, albeit from people who would seem to be in a position to know such things.
In any case, the police have gotten involved, so hopefully the right person/people will eventually be held accountable.
April 12, 2007 2:32 PM | Reply | Permalink
Kos is blinkered. He thinks that all bloggers are political bloggers, and thus behave according to the rules of political blogging, which allow for a lot more bare-knuckle dealings than elsewhere. In that mileu, macho crap is the order of the day.
Kathy Sierra is not a political blogger.
It's time to stop feeding the line that there is One Big Blogosphere, whose rules and culture are dictated by big political bloggers.
Kos speaks for the mileu of tech blogging the way he speaks for cat blogging.
April 12, 2007 3:05 PM | Reply | Permalink
Well, a username don't have to be your real name. I mean, I do stuff as "DataShade" all over, and I'm kinda careless about self-identification, but I could have just as easily logged in this time as MingTheMerciless or something; my username grants me a shield against trolls' and lurkers' attacks, but leaves me accountable to site admins - and trackable for law enforcement.
April 12, 2007 3:16 PM | Reply | Permalink
Yeah, a Clockwork Orange seems a bit much. But then I have to admit, I am that rare person who has never read the book *or* seen the movie (don't tell anyone!), so what do I know.
Isn't the issue here, really, more about our society and the celebrity spectacle?
And misogyny (coupled with racism in the cases of Gwen Ifill and the Rutger's team).
April 12, 2007 3:23 PM | Reply | Permalink
It comes down to the fact that there is no way to stop this crap. Some people just like to inflict fear on others. The anonymity of the net makes it impossible to retaliate through the normal shaming/legal action you'd receive in real world society.
I don't agree with the off hand way Kos dismisses it, but voluntary oaths etc really are useless against it. Unless some kind of clipper chip system tagged each and every person (and yeah you can trace most people, but not those who want to be anonymous and know what they're doing) there is really no way to get rid of it.
A certain percentage of people only participate in civil society b/c they're forced to by the force of societal norms and the threat of state retribution. The net removes all that.
April 12, 2007 3:45 PM | Reply | Permalink
It's a disturbing book, and a disturbing movie. The movie's definitely worth seeing, at least once. (You'll never listen to Beethoven's 9th the same way...)
Dissent Protects Democracy.
April 12, 2007 4:08 PM | Reply | Permalink
I'm a man who was stalked; it probably was a teen prank, and I mostly dismissed it as such (I was young). But I also looked over my shoulder, and on one occasion, nearly really hurt someone who was, well, breaking into my apartment but for unrelated and relatively innocent reasons. I doubt that anyone who knows they are being stalked can really dismiss it - it's frightening even when you are certain it is harmless.
April 12, 2007 4:33 PM | Reply | Permalink
What we really need is to get at the root of why some people are so freaking violent, and toward women, even if only in emails or postings. Violence against women is a longstanding social ill that I believe we haven't overcome because as a society we've decided sexism and mysogyny no longer really exist. But then I ask, where does the urge to threaten a woman with rape, hanging, and suffocation come from? Is it a territorial issue--she's entered the tech world and stepped on some toes? Or is it just a general disgust with the female sex? Either way, we've got big problems.
April 12, 2007 4:33 PM | Reply | Permalink
That Kos could be so dismissive to the reality of males stalking females and minors recalls Amitai Etzioni´s equally phallocentric condescension that pseudonyms are the bane of celebrity online discourse with the hoi polloi.
Yes, stalkers, miscreants, reprobates et seq. abuse pseudonymity to facilitate predation.
Yes, almost all law enforcement professionals routinely discourage the use of “real names” in online fora by women, children, minors, other potential targets for predation.
Kos isn´t worth my time and neither is Etzioni, for more reasons than the above. It just so happens the above supports our general impression of divas run amok, of substances more gossamer than gravitas.
April 12, 2007 4:36 PM | Reply | Permalink
We've discussed this before, and I doubt we are any closer to a conclusion. Given I go way back in pre-Internet networks, when most users were researchers, non-anonymity, and for that matter usually no pseudonymity, worked for several reasons. On the one hand, users valued their reputations. On the other hand, the academic-research culture was quite tolerant to distinguishing between the personal and public spheres. Oh, someone might use a cryptic ID for technical reasons, but everyone knew AD03 at the Department of Labor Computer Center was Howard Berkowitz. Indeed, up until the early 90s, a lot of people had their email IDs larger than their "wetware" names on convention badges, because we often thought of one another by email. Ham radio operators still do the same thing.
Industrial and government researchers were responsible for not revealing proprietary or classified things, but their management was pretty tolerant of personal opinion, especially with disclaimers. The only time I made any use of pseudonyms was in chat rooms, especially for gaming.
USENET was perhaps the earliest widespread equivalent of blogs, not counting some of the less scalable dialup and linked bulletin board systems. I separate USENET from BBSs also because it took relatively more technical skill and personal connections to get onto USENET, so, again, personal reputation was important. Just having looked back at some historical articles, the first significant use is later than I remembered it: the Canter & Siegel spam flood was in 1994, and AOL giving the first access to general consumers was around then.
Canter & Siegel were not anonymous, and indeed got threats. Still, given they were self-promoting immigration lawyers, shall we say their plight did not get much sympathy? Their offense was denial of service through massive spam, not personal attacks. Not long after AOL connected, allowing pseudonyms, there started much more hostility.
I still do use newsreaders with strong filtering, and there's an interesting balance between blogs and USENET. Blog clients rarely allow much filtering, which is the only way of dealing with massive noise on many USENET groups. I often wonder what the use of strong, user-defined filtering would be on blog civility. It's hard to threaten someone if they've set up filters such that they don't see you.
My general feeling is that pseudonymity will scale well only if:
Some thoughts, at least, not solutions. A woman friend once asked me to go into a pseudonymous chatroom with a female handle, to have a first-hand experience of what harassment took place, and I indeed felt it. I've done enough Method acting that when I played the role, I tried to react as various real women I knew, which was itself insightful.
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Howard
*equal opportunity offense to both extremes*
"Those who cannot remember the past are condemned to repeat it" [George Santayana]
April 12, 2007 4:45 PM | Reply | Permalink
Your very own Fatal Attraction?
April 12, 2007 4:47 PM | Reply | Permalink
After reading about Ms. Sierra's blog-difficulties, I went to read her site. It's all about writing *software*. The *ultimate* boring affects-very-few topic. (I believe this because I've been doing it for 35 years, and while it's interesting to me, it just doesn't have much pizzazz outside our fairly small world.)
If Ms. Sierra were blogging about holding Corporate America or government leaders accountable for their acts, she should expect to receive hate mail from the self-centered among us.
She is talking about writing software! And she's very nice about it, too. (It may be her insistence on appropriate language that pissed off some mouth-breathers.) If/when she returns to blogging, then I expect to go back to reading her work as it reminds us to think about our customers, and the effects of our work on the daily experiences of real people who depend on it.
April 12, 2007 4:58 PM | Reply | Permalink
It's a disturbing book, and a disturbing movie.
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OK. Some geeks have a limited sphere of literary references. How about like the Federation moving into Klingon territory in the original Start Trek series.
April 12, 2007 5:29 PM | Reply | Permalink
I'm afraid I never quite got into the language of Finnegan's Wake or Clockwork Orange, and only have a scant few words of Klingon. I can, however, fake the latter with south German and a sore throat.
Geekish or not, I'm idly wondering if a discussion topic of dystopias might be of interest. Especially since Kurt Vonnegut died today, I'll offer an online version of one of my greatest fear expressed in dystopic story, "Harrison Bergeron". Orwell's 1984 is another nightmare, given I know how primitive was its surveillance technology.
Sometimes Brave New World scares me. Sometimes it's even more scary to deal with hanging out on an Island there, as a rather pleasant existence.
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Howard
*equal opportunity offense to both extremes*
"If you want a picture of the future, imagine a boot stamping on a human face -- for ever" [Inner Party Member O'Brien, 1984]
Is the Apple 1984 Super Bowl commercial the bright side of 1984?
April 12, 2007 5:53 PM | Reply | Permalink
the article was referring to anonymous online threats -- not domestic violence where the perp is known by the victim
April 12, 2007 6:16 PM | Reply | Permalink
Without the affair, or the boiling stuff, or the knives. No wonder nobody optioned my screenplay.
April 12, 2007 6:29 PM | Reply | Permalink
"Progressive leader" my fanny.
Max B. Sawicky
http://maxspeak.org/mt
max@maxspeak.org
April 12, 2007 6:53 PM | Reply | Permalink
What?
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Howard
*equal opportunity offense to both extremes*
April 12, 2007 7:20 PM | Reply | Permalink
There's a big difference, I think, between close-knit, specific user groups/mailing lists, and political speech on blogs.
Pseudonymity allows us to talk about politics, etc, without backlash from employers, etc. It helps create a kind of public sphere.
If we use TPMCafe as a case study, I think it works pretty well, and I'm not sure there's much to worry about sigs or gaming the system. Our credibility here comes from knowing each other over time. If someone with your ID starting talking smack around here, I would know it's out of character for you, and I would guess it's not really you. When Fred Dobbs created accounts very similar to yours, we all knew it wasn't you.
I don't have to know your real name to know who your are, or to respect your point of view. And I think personal reputation comes into play here, just as it did before blogs, or on non-anonymous forums. If I or anyone wants to be taken seriously around here, then personal reputation is important. It's stored in all of our comments. And, again, it has no bearing or relation to our real names.
The filters, though, is an interesting idea. The ability for us to just "block" other IDs, so we wouldn't have to see their comments, might work. Although I guess it would essential be the same as having their comments zero-d out, which would leave other responses in place. That would only make me want to see the blocked post!
Dissent Protects Democracy.
April 12, 2007 7:41 PM | Reply | Permalink
As I'll freely admit, I am conflicted about public and private spheres, and where to draw the line. Perhaps if I feel masochistic, I might resubscribe to a mailing list about a certain concept of "netizen", the owner of which believes in Internet-enabled direct democracy for everything, blissfully and deliberately unaware of little things like secure voting. Does anyone want anonymous networked Diebold?
Even if voting were secure, I simply don't see many forms of network-enabled communication, without controls, scaling to infinite size, any more than a New England town meeting will scale to infinite size. Mind you, for the record, I'm living in a New England town and I actually will go to a town meeting. Previously, though, the County Board of Arlington County, Virginia, had to give up on its open mike policy, as 2 or 3 individuals would monopolize it for hours.
Over the years, I have found developing a perhaps idiosyncratic writing style is one of the best ways of identifying myself. If push came to shove, there are quite sophisticated means of language analysis that aren't quite a fingerprint, but make it very, very hard to get away with continued forgery.
Seriously, I think a general blog filter, which could be individualized as are newsreader or mail filters, could add quite a bit of civility. The more juvenile forms of insult are easy enough to filter, although I will give some slack to someone doing Monty Python, Mel Brooks, Winston Churchill, or John Wilkes impressions.
Hmmm. After a frightening number of years of networking, I can go quite comfortably knowing that I do not have to read certain posts, other than to design a filter. There are some technical challenges in creating effective filters; one annoying individual kept morphing his name to block the simpler (but complex to nonprogrammers) regular expression filters that many newsreaders use.
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Howard
*equal opportunity offense to both extremes*
Anyone can ignore, but artistically ignoring is a rare gift.
April 12, 2007 8:01 PM | Reply | Permalink
That "Harrison Bergeron" story has haunted me since I first came across it. I found it a much more potent indictment of "equality" than, say, Atlas Shrugged. (I realize that they're not identical, by the way.) It's one of those stories that just stands out -- I have, at times, forgotten its title or author, but never the message.
April 12, 2007 8:08 PM | Reply | Permalink
Some associates were putting together a website not long ago -- and then ended up taking all pictures down. It was, after all, the only prudent thing to do after someone developed a fixation on one of those depicted.
April 12, 2007 8:11 PM | Reply | Permalink
Some of my colleagues were upset recently that a young staff person had written about us on her personal blog, with pictures. I didn't really care. But it reminded me of a conversation my wife had with an Indian lawyer/academic who is a good friend about the fact that we use a stylized picture of our son as the logo for a business we run. (He was up in arms about how we are appropriating our son's image.) And I changed my picture here, which was of me and the kid, to one of me taken by the kid (making him absent and me pretty unrecognizable). I guess I'm comfortable exploiting his image for commercial purposes, but not posting it up for anyone to see - even though I still don't care about the blog about my office.
April 12, 2007 8:20 PM | Reply | Permalink
I'd guess Max doesn't think Kos is progressive.
Kos once said he used to be Republican, more Libertarian really.
April 12, 2007 8:25 PM | Reply | Permalink
What? hcberkowitz
I think he said, "'Progressive leader' my fanny." At least that's what I think I heard him say.
April 12, 2007 8:30 PM | Reply | Permalink
Jessica,
I have hesitated to post this account because i am not a woman and can only guess the terror a woman might feel when being stalked by anonymous creeps. Yahoo didn't know that when the Yahoo Sheriff told me to go to the police if I was concerned about years of threats of death and dismemberment by a Colorado daytrader, leader of the pack, who regularly posted my address complete with maps for other psychos. Though I always post under my own name, the Yahoo Sheriff had no way of knowing my gender as you can see.
How could even my wife be frightened when we have a German Shepherd who had some Jehovah's Witness contemplating their own entry into Paradise because of one mean bark by the world's largest chicken. They drove off and Rosie ate well that night. I worry lots more about those trying to save my soul than terrorists who intend to free it from its bondage.
Yahoo did do something later. The Sheriff deleted my name and account for annoying the stalkers. Got to give him credit for something.
Seems to me there should be some accountability by Yahoo.
Guess not.
Best, Terry
April 12, 2007 8:36 PM | Reply | Permalink
OK. Some geeks have a limited sphere of literary references.
Heyyyy, I'm not a geek!
*adjusts tape on glasses*
And I was actually an English major in another life, so... so... I have no excuse for my limited sphere of literary references.
See, this is why pseudonymity is necessary for some of us to participate.
April 12, 2007 9:28 PM | Reply | Permalink
With Rand, I'm much more comfortable recommending Anthem to adolescents than Atlas Shrugged. The latter, perhaps no longer, is something of a rite of passage. While taking summer courses before my first college year, I spent 48 hours or so of essentially continuous reading to get through it. At a comparable time, I think hippies called it a Happening.
When the Unabomber was publishing his manifesto, I shared a number of emails that suggested he sounded like John Galt. On detailed examination, there were major substantive differences, but the stylistic similarity of the monologues was eerie.
It's entirely possible that if Ayn Rand had had a draconic but competent editor, Objectivism would have triumphed. Alternatively, had Ayn Rand had a word processor, it might take several trucks to lift her magnum opus.
More seriously, some of my remarks tonight, on political correctness, come from several haunting literary memories. As you point out, there are similarities between "Harrison Bergeron" and Atlas Shrugged, although they are more about egalitarianism gone berserk than the idea of thought. 1984 and Anthem, in different ways, approach the premise that suppressing certain ideas or words will eventually sear them from humanity.
That is a somewhat different terror than conditioning gone wild, either in Brave New World, The Manchurian Candidate, or the less polished reality of Communist reeducation, especially Asian before the Soviets discovered punitive psychiatry.
As you mention, sometimes one can forget details but never a message. Rand did have some gems. As I think about one, the scene is clear and the words, I think, are coming back. In the world being abandoned by creators, the Faustian scientist, Dr. Robert Stoddart, asks Dagny Taggart if he could see the wreckage of the so-promising, so-enigmatic motor. He examines it in silence, and comments something to the effect that it was so wonderful to see a brilliant, creative, idea that was not his.
As I remember, Rand stated first what I've heard more commonly as a rule of management: first-raters hire other first-rate people. Second-raters hire third-raters.
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Howard
*equal opportunity offense to both extremes*
Should I admit here to geekhood?
April 12, 2007 9:34 PM | Reply | Permalink
I dunno, the bit about you almost hurting someone who was breaking into your house "for unrelated and relatively innocent reasons" sounds promising. Did you then take the thief out for breakfast at a 24 hr. diner, and hire him to stalk your stalker? 'Cause that might be cool...
It sucks that you were stalked, though.
April 12, 2007 11:00 PM | Reply | Permalink
Markos is a sexist asshole. I'm a former frontpager (by popular request) who got bounced for the sin of being female. There are a few other female bloggers around who have had the same experienc.
April 13, 2007 5:52 AM | Reply | Permalink
Well, thanks for joining us over here.
April 13, 2007 6:10 AM | Reply | Permalink
Just goes to show you: just because you experienced it as horror doesn't mean that you shouldn't write it as comedy!
April 13, 2007 6:12 AM | Reply | Permalink
I haven't read all the responses to these posts but the post itself sure reminds me of the 1960s when women were afraid to report actual rape because they were almost certainly going to be run through the mill as sluts deserving of what they got. Bogus or not, threats are threats, and need to be treated seriously.
April 13, 2007 6:16 AM | Reply | Permalink
Actually, it is about writing (and learning, and using) *good*, *user-centric* software, which is one of the most diffcult jobs on the planet IMHO. And in the modern era one which affects more people than just about any other except water, sewer, and trash operations.
sPh
April 13, 2007 6:41 AM | Reply | Permalink
But geez you have to admit that is sinful all right.
I am nevertheless curious what this is about. Perhaps you would be so kind as to enlighten.
Best, Terry
April 13, 2007 7:00 AM | Reply | Permalink
Yeah. I think that words and actions have a way of bleeding into each other. Wack jobs tend to fantasize and talk about their obsessions before acting on them.
C'mon, it's not 'free speech' for me to threaten to kill you and rape you.
April 13, 2007 8:17 AM | Reply | Permalink
Look, the standard ought to be that we don't treat people differently online than we would in person in mixed company. Why should ethics, manners, laws, etc. be different?
Crime is crime, online or on the phone, with regard to communication of terroristic threats. The response ought to be prosecution to the extent possible, or, at least a deciphering of the identity of the person, the person booted if they're a user, and a cease and desist letter sent by the ISP which copies the DA's office with jurisdiction.
Re: political blogging, why should politics be different than other discourse? All the nastiness does is create enmity, destroy communication, and cause gridlock or delay. That is the thing that I'd hoped Obama would bring to this election cycle: basic human decency to bring politics into the business of human beings instead of the work of demonaics.
The unhinging of persons online, when it concerns a political organization, will be used by the opposing partisan soft-organization to attack - attack - attack. That's the partisan / adversarial system ethic we've accepted from the political parties and legal system's traditions.
These traditions of adversarial system partisanship aren't constitutionally required for there to be just, loyal and fiduciary advocacy for parties.
There's something some call isomorphing: when someone runs into words / conduct from others that remind them of words / conduct that hurt them in the past. It may not be the same, but only seem the same to them emotionally and situationally. That needs to be considered re the hearer.
Considering the level of abuse of all kinds that people dish and take in life, is it any wonder we're seeing it relived online?
Obviously, we all have to do our part.
Honor: Ilsa's and Rick's decisions in Casablanca.
April 13, 2007 10:23 AM | Reply | Permalink
Nobody who's criticized Kos has done anything to debunk his main point, because Kos is right. This will always happen as long as 1) we have an Internet and 2) people can comment anonymously on blogs. There's nothing we can do about it and no way to stop it, except for the one way a woman (or man, since it is indeed possible to violently threaten a man) CAN stop it: by shutting down their blog.
So, get upset over Kos' tone if you want, but he's right on the facts.
April 13, 2007 7:57 PM | Reply | Permalink
I'm surprised that you expected anything from Kos other than what he gave you. How much time have you spent in a DK comment thread?? I've written some DK diary entries critical of Markos & Armando & had to withstand hundreds of the most disgusting, vicious comments. The site is redolent of anger, violent & assaultive language. And Kos countenances it, prob. even feeds off it.
I'm delighted to report I've been banned fr. Kos and I'm the better person & blogger for it. That's why I blog here now.
These issues are important & should not be dismissed as thoughtlessly as Kos tries to do. Those of us who've had blog trolls, stalkers & abusers know how much suffering it can cause. And I hate the stupid line: "if you can't stand the heat, you should try a diff. line of work." Who says that blogger's have to endure such hate as a price for their devotion to the craft of blogging? That's preposterous & betrays the impoverishment of Kos' thinking on the subject & his lack of empathy for his fellow bloggers.
Richard Silverstein
Tikun Olam>
April 15, 2007 12:42 AM | Reply | Permalink
I have a photo of myself with my son on my blog's About Me page and I can't tell you how many times right-wing nutcases have copied the image & posted it at 3rd party sites in order to mock both me & my son. Once they even called my then 2 yr old son (who'd never had a haircut) "simian like." Imagine calling a 2 yr old child an ape. It takes a certain low class of human being. And does Kos think we should have to stand for this s(*t???
My wife really doesn't like me doing this. But I don't want bullies running my life or determinging the decisions I make at my blog.
DMCA notices have gotten the images taken down relatively quickly.
Richard Silverstein
Tikun Olam>
April 15, 2007 12:47 AM | Reply | Permalink
Don't you want to remove that e mail address so it won't be harvested by spammers?
Richard Silverstein
Tikun Olam>
April 15, 2007 12:50 AM | Reply | Permalink
I have posted a rather lengthy blog entry in response.
May I encourage you to read it?
April 15, 2007 2:32 PM | Reply | Permalink