This Memorial Day, Honor the Fallen
Your weekend newspaper--assuming your town still has one--will be stuffed with pages of glossy advertisements for holiday sales. Your local TV news will do a story on the folks waiting in line in the dark for your local mall to open its doors. All weekend, people will be firing up their grills or spending a day at the beach.
Nothing's wrong with enjoying your three-day weekend. But I worry that, even after almost eight years of war, too many Americans see today as just another summer holiday. Memorial Day should mean much more than barbecues and clearance sales.
Today is a solemn day of remembrance for our more than one million American service members of all generations who, on the field of battle, made the ultimate sacrifice. For my part, I am honored to join President Obama and other veterans' groups in the wreath-laying ceremony at Arlington National Cemetery today. It is a humbling opportunity to pay my respects to the generations of American warriors who have given their lives in defense of our country.
This Memorial Day, please take the time to learn a little about a few of the men and women whom we are honoring this weekend. Each of these servicemembers is a recipient of America's highest military award for valor, the Medal of Honor.
World War I. Army Captain Marcellus Chiles and his men were near Le Champy Bas, France, when they came under heavy machine gun fire. Captain Marcellus picked up the rifle of a fallen soldier and led his men across a waist-deep stream to engage the enemy. Shot in the stomach by a sniper, Captain Marcellus refused to be evacuated until his team was under the leadership of the next senior officer. Soon after reaching the hospital, Capt. Chiles died.
World War II. On Dagami Leyte, in the Philippines, Private First Class John F. Thorson was an automatic rifleman on a team tasked with taking a heavily fortified enemy position. Under intense fire, Pvt. Thorson moved ahead of his team and single-handedly attacked a trench defended by several hostile riflemen. Seriously wounded, he fell a few yards from the trench; as his platoon reached him, an enemy fighter threw a grenade into the group of men. With his last breath, Pvt. Thorson rolled his body onto the grenade. Killed instantly by the explosion, he saved his fellow troops.
Vietnam. Gray Martini, a Private First Class in the Marine Corps, was conducting offensive operations with his company at Binh Son. Moving without cover over a rice paddy, the Marines in Pfc. Martini's platoon assaulted an enemy trench line under fire from grenades, rifle and mortar fire. Within minutes, 14 Marines were killed and 18 wounded. Pfc. Martini crawled from an area of relative safety to hurl hand grenades, killing several of the enemy. He then crawled through fire to rescue a wounded comrade. A fellow Marine had been killed in a previous rescue attempt, and Pfc. Martini suffered a serious injury. Nonetheless, he braved enemy fire again to rescue a second Marine. This time, he was mortally wounded. Using his final strength to move the second rescued man to safety, Pfc. Martini gallantly gave his life defending his fellow Marines.
Afghanistan. Operating in an enemy-controlled area, Navy Lt. Michael Murphy's team of four was discovered and assaulted by more than 30 Taliban fighters. The ensuing firefight killed one member of Murphy's team, and wounded the other three. The mountainous terrain was making it impossible to call for support, so Murphy fought his way to an unsheltered position where he could transmit a call. Exposed to direct enemy fire, Murphy was mortally wounded. But he fought on, reporting his coordinates to headquarters and requesting immediate support for his team. He continued to engage the enemy until he finally gave his life, having saved his comrades.
There are no words that can truly commemorate the heroism of these men. But one voice, in my opinion, comes closer than any other. During the Civil War, President Abraham Lincoln had this to say about the men who had fought and died at the battle of Gettysburg:
"We are met on a great battle-field of that war. We have come to dedicate a portion of that field, as a final resting place for those who here gave their lives that that nation might live. It is altogether fitting and proper that we should do this.But, in a larger sense, we cannot dedicate -- we cannot consecrate -- we can not hallow -- this ground. The brave men, living and dead, who struggled here, have consecrated it, far above our poor power to add or detract. The world will little note, nor long remember what we say here, but it can never forget what they did here. It is for us the living, rather, to be dedicated here to the unfinished work which they who fought here have thus far so nobly advanced. It is rather for us to be here dedicated to the great task remaining before us -- that from these honored dead we take increased devotion to that cause for which they gave the last full measure of devotion -- that we here highly resolve that these dead shall not have died in vain -- that this nation, under God, shall have a new birth of freedom -- and that government of the people, by the people, for the people, shall not perish from the earth."
Almost 150 years later, the words of Lincoln still resonate. But it doesn't take being Commander-in-Chief to honor the fallen. This Memorial Day, I hope you add your own words of remembrance for the brave men and women that have heroically served this nation, and perished on the battlefield. It is the duty of every American to ensure that they are never forgotten.

















Paying My Respects
I hope you died well and I hope you died clean.
May 25, 2009 1:58 PM | Reply | Permalink
Ellen,
thanks for that link, I haven't heard that song in decades, and combined with the video its giving me a sense of melancholy.
May 26, 2009 11:15 AM | Reply | Permalink
It was falling, too, upon every part of the lonely churchyard on the hill where Michael Furey lay buried. It lay thickly drifted on the crooked crosses and headstones, on the spears of the little gate, on the barren thorns. His soul swooned slowly as he heard the snow falling faintly through the universe and faintly falling, like the descent of their last end, upon all the living and the dead.
And in some faithful heart are you always nineteen?
May 26, 2009 12:13 PM | Reply | Permalink
Ellen asks:
I was 19 when I jumped into Normandy, and I was in my Mother's heart.
May 26, 2009 1:42 PM | Reply | Permalink
Much appreciated.
May 25, 2009 2:48 PM | Reply | Permalink
Your words always cut right to the heart of what's important, Mr. Rieckhoff. Thank you again for sharing them.
May 25, 2009 4:43 PM | Reply | Permalink
Thanks Paul for keeping the flame of bravely and liberty burning in the memory of all the fallen. True patriotism in and out of the battle field.
May 25, 2009 6:15 PM | Reply | Permalink
Appreciate that you didn't use the phrase "died for our freedom" because it's really hard to come up with a post WWII military death that had anything at all to do with your freedom or mine and that includes Afghanistan.
Memorial Day should serve as a poignant reminder: the wars we fight are pointless and should be resisted. If you want to honor the dead, stop the killing.
May 25, 2009 9:08 PM | Reply | Permalink
I responded to your ridiculously insulting Cafe post, as well. Please quit posting this nonsense when you obviously have no clue what-so-ever about the motivations of those who serve and the true sacrifices they are making, regardless of the wars they fight in.
They definitely have died for our freedom despite your disgusting attempts to diminish their sacrifice. And it most certainly has to do with "your freedom or mine" because the majority of those who serve have volunteered out of a desire to DEFEND THAT FREEDOM! They are patriots who are serving to defend this country.
The truly sad part is that you are so embarrassingly clueless about it. Hang your clueless head in shame.
May 26, 2009 12:09 AM | Reply | Permalink
Are you as passionate the other 364 days of the year? When they are sent on multiple and extended tours? When they are not given the equipment needed for their protection? When they are shipped back and dumped into toxic and underfunded facilities? When they are left homeless and committing suicide not being able to cope, or given the help to, with the horrors they have been put through? Or are you passionate just on this one day? I have been here a long time and I am not sure I have ever seen you on a thread discussing those issues...though, who knows, I may be wrong.
May 26, 2009 12:58 AM | Reply | Permalink
RObby Love,
how was the war in Korea or Panama defending our freedom? How about Grenada? How was fighting Desert Storm defending our Freedom? How about the invasion of Iraq, how was that defending our freedom.
Since WWII our military is sent to war more for political purposes than to defend our freedom and that's why the deaths and maimings are so tragic.
Attacking people who criticize political wars by accusing them of attacking the troops is warped, and usually a right wing tactic.
May 26, 2009 6:16 AM | Reply | Permalink
Paul,
excellent column.
May 26, 2009 6:19 AM | Reply | Permalink
When this bunch comes home from Iraq and Afghanistan, if they ever do, I have a feeling Memorial Day will be quietly forgotten.
But they won't come home in any numbers, if at all. There is no way the military will let us get a look at what's left of our volunteers.
BTW, what's this headline I keep seeing about military and veteran suicides still going up? I thought "defending our freedom" instilled pride?
"the true sacrifices they are making, regardless of the wars they fight in"
Gosh, I've met lots of people who felt the same about the SS.
May 26, 2009 11:20 AM | Reply | Permalink
And a bit of snark to the max.
May 26, 2009 1:32 PM | Reply | Permalink
Thanks, Ellen. Reagen laying a wreath for the SS at Bitberg was what I had in mind.
May 26, 2009 6:19 PM | Reply | Permalink
Mooser,
addressing the torments of our present day combat veterans and the SS in the same short post isn't something I would do.
May 26, 2009 1:48 PM | Reply | Permalink
Better do it now, while you still can.
May 26, 2009 6:24 PM | Reply | Permalink
Mooser,
I won't change my mind if "while you still can" comes to pass.
May 27, 2009 9:22 AM | Reply | Permalink
"They definitely have died for our freedom..."
Yes, I remember how scared we were when Iraqi submarines were attacking our shipping and actually torpedoed boats in New York Harbor!
And when the Afghanis attacked our Naval facilities in the Pacific, I thought it was all over for the good ol' USA.
May 26, 2009 11:24 AM | Reply | Permalink
Oh, come on, in defense of our country? I don't think so. If we seek to rationalize the, to me, senseless deaths of brave people it must be done on better grounds than this. How about: . . .in pursuit of huge profits, military industry employment and political advantage?
May 26, 2009 11:50 AM | Reply | Permalink
Tragically, you are right. Covert, bi-lateral trade agreements between the US and Israel and the UK for the transfer of military technology and the sale of cluster bombs and other WMD including NBC agents between these countries, and others, are the key factors that enable massive profits to be made by those armament manufacturers who exist and thrive on war and efficient killing. Now, frighteningly, by unmanned drones.
Close down these purveyors of death and you minimize the frequency and depth of war and conflict. Subsidize them and the reverse is true.
May 26, 2009 4:51 PM | Reply | Permalink
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