The Best Night Of Our Lives
Other than those personal rites of passage -- and I've had some wonderful ones -- this was the best night of my life.
I have two grandchildren, twins born in February. The first President they will ever know is an African-American. We won't have to teach them about equality and the stupidity of prejudice. We won't have to tell them, as white liberals tend to tell their kids, that they are "just as good as us" because they will know it. After all, the President is black. They won't tear up, as I did, the first time they see the word "President" under a photo of a black man or gaze in wonder at our beautiful African-American "First Family."
The election of an African-American President changes America forever. And, just as much, it changes America forever in the eyes of the world.
I watched that speech thinking of the people in front of televisions in Berlin and Mumbai and Buenos Aires and Lagos who were watching too,.
America became America again tonight, something we have not been, in my opinion, since November 22, 1963.
Can Obama deliver? I know he can. Anyway, he already has. He has delivered a clear message that America is still the place where impossible things happen, a country open to all and not built on a particular race or ethnicity, a land where we elect as President (seven years after 9/11) a guy named Barack Hussein Obama. A part of me can't believe it.
I am so proud of this country.
And of President Elect Barack Hussein Obama.
God, I love writing that.

















All right, who cried? (Me.)
November 5, 2008 1:07 AM | Reply | Permalink
I had this very strange feeling....having felt it in a while......what's it's called? PRIDE.
Thanks America, for giving that emotion back after the Nightmare Years.
November 5, 2008 11:27 AM | Reply | Permalink
Me too (cried) -- after I saw Oprah and Jessie cry on camera on NBC in the crowd.
Yes M.J., this is more than change, it is sea change. You will find no black Disney princess for black girls to aspire to, but now they have role models living in the most powerful house on the planet.
November 5, 2008 1:14 AM | Reply | Permalink
I had serious doubts growing up I would ever see this day. I am happy beyond words.
Being Italian-American I always dreamed that a fellow 'paisan' would some day be elected President of the United States. And some day it will happen thanks to the barriers broken down today by Barack Hussein Obama. Now truly any child born in America, regardless of race, gender or faith can grow up to be president.
I have never been prouder of my country, one I have always loved, then I am tonight. America again has fulfilled the promise the founders envisioned when they embarked us on this great experiment in self governance. I think somewhere Thomas Jefferson is looking down and smiling...especially about the role which his home, The Old Dominion, played in this. I think of JFK, RFK, Dr. King, Rosa Parks and all of those who played a role, great and small, in leading us here...and I am especially happy that John Lewis is alive to see this day.
Once again America has showed it is a leader in the world. Not based on the rhetorical flourishes of Washington politicians but because of the character of the American people. It is our true national strength.
November 5, 2008 1:36 AM | Reply | Permalink
Many have worked hard to see a day like this come to pass.
It has not been an easy road and this is not the destination, but Obama's election is a gigantic victory for the long term prospects for our country and for making our ideals and our vision of what America ought to be come closer to reality.
Much remains to be done, but this is a huge victory in a battle no one thought could have been won just a few short years ago let alone back in the 50's and 60's when people were losing their lives for daring to voice their opposition to segregation and legally sanctioned inequality. This proves the value in perservering even when it seems all the work and sacrifice and struggle will come to naught.
To tell you the truth, I didn't tear up tonight. I was tearing up this morning as I went from polling place to polling place seeing hundreds and hundreds of people lined up outside waiting to vote. They were people of ever race, class, etc... No demographic group was left out. they were determined, committed and happy! None of them was deterred by the long waits. All wanted to do their part. What I saw this morning was real patriotism because each of them was making a committment to a better America.
When I think about where we find ourselves today, I am reminded of a quote I read to myself often:
"When I despair, I remember that all through history the ways of truth and love have always won. There have been tyrants, and murderers, and for a time they can seem invincible, but in the end they always fall.
Think of it - always."
- Mahatma Gandhi
November 5, 2008 1:47 AM | Reply | Permalink
Reading your post and the comments, it seems that the principal object of this election has been for Americans to "feel good" about themselves.
Is Obama some sort of Prozac... like Reagan?
November 5, 2008 3:12 AM | Reply | Permalink
So I'm guessing you missed all that "issues" stuff ...
November 5, 2008 3:25 AM | Reply | Permalink
Even including the "issues" stuff, the main object of this election was for us to feel good about ourselves. And for the world to feel good about us. Bush/Cheney have made us feel and look like shit in our own hearts and the eyes of the world. Obama DOES make us feel good, and the world feels good about us. Because he brings better issues to the table, but more importantly a better way of LOOKING at things. The history made tonight makes me tear up every time I think of it, but what is just as likely to make me tear up is the knowledge that degrading, despicable reactionary politics and the politics of fear are out the window. That's important. Bush/Cheney set fire to a lot of bridges. Here is to hoping Obama/Biden can put them out.
November 5, 2008 6:40 AM | Reply | Permalink
No, I didn't miss the issues "stuff", its just that the positions changed a lot from month to month. Many of Obama's supporters found this "re-positioning" much to be admired. Anyway, wonky, campaign position papers are never very indicative of what people are going to finally do under fire. That is what people were talking about, when they talked about "experience", not so much the the candidate's experience in office, but the voter's experience of the candidate, while he was in office.
Since before entering the Senate, a couple of years ago, Obama had never held major office before, the only meaningful track record he has with which to predict how he administrates is his campaign.
As a campaigner, Obama is a very calm, prudent, even cautious, very methodical, person, one who takes decisions after much consideration and balancing the advice he is given. This is all very encouraging, however, things are moving very fast in the world right now and I fear that they could be moving much too fast for such methodical consideration. I'm reminded of what Jack Dempsey said about a very intelligent opponent: "He is a very smart fighter; when he's fighting he is thinking all the time. But, all the time he was thinking I was hitting him."
If Barack Obama had taken office when Bill Clinton did, I am sure he would have done a much better job than Bubba did and obviously nobody could have done worse than Bush. Now, inheriting the mess both his predecessor's have made, I think his first two years are going to be hellish beyond belief; after that it might be too late.
November 5, 2008 7:54 AM | Reply | Permalink
Good observations about Obama David!
You cold well be right that his cautious (some would say timid) approach may put him behind the curve in times that demand far bolder and more dramatic action/leadership. Time will tell. Being bold doesn't seem to be his forte after watching him become even more centrist as the campaign wore on. Nonetheless, there was one very notable bold decision he did make and that was to run in the first place. Thus, there's reason for optimism.
If he appoints predictable Washington insiders suchas the loathsome Rahm Emmanuel and the weak, ineffective Tom Daschle to key position we will have a far better idea of what his administration might be capable of. I hope he doesn't appoint many of them though he can't avoid that completely. DC Democrats are a huge part of the problem. None of them understand the urgency of the problems citizens face or the kind of changes needed to help the regular people of the nation and fewer still care.
Their focus is on getting ahead and doing well for themselves, being among the powerful and servicing the needs and desires of the powerful and wealthy. If he is guided primarily by those types expect more bad decisions like his vote for telecom immunity in FISA and the inexcusable trillion dollar giveaway to Wall Street.
November 5, 2008 8:38 AM | Reply | Permalink
Couldn't agree more.
November 5, 2008 11:22 AM | Reply | Permalink
"it seems that the principal object of this election has been for Americans to "feel good" about themselves. Is Obama some sort of Prozac... like Reagan?"
I don't feel good about myself as much as I feel good about the future. If you look back at any good president, I think you'll notice they all accomplished that very same thing. There is only so much a president can do in reality, as you insiders know all too well. So why not motivate the Country while you are at the wheel?
November 5, 2008 1:15 PM | Reply | Permalink
Although I must admit last night's victory did improve my mood as I was in a depressed mood. Of course the antidepressives are much better these days -- 1 pill of Wellbutrin XL generally gets all my mental pistons firing for 24 hours. Prozac, which I took for a year 14 years ago, didn't do didly.
I think Obama will be more of a Wellbutrin than a Prozac -- I think he will really get the Nation's pistons firing, and not just on motivation or hope for the future. I think he's a bonafide decision maker and that he'll do as good of a job as can possibly be done. There are still plenty of moderate voting Dem representatives let's not forget. It won't be a dictatorship. And I liked Obama's use of the word humility last night when referring to the other side of the isle.
So for all those reasons I am hopeful for the future, I am counting the days 'til Crawford, and I have already started to be much relieved knowing Dubya and Co. will be duck hunting in a few months. And with any luck, more people who need an anti depressant will be able to take one.
November 5, 2008 1:34 PM | Reply | Permalink
M.J. - Your essays are a breath of fresh air. You are funny and deathly serious all in one piece. And always approachable in the way you write. That's not an easy skill to acquire and maintain.
I didn't tear up tonight. I deliberately kept myself from doing so. This past 8 years has been such a nightmare that I have already done way too much of that. Words are seductive in that if you say them the right way you forget that they need to be followed by actions if they are to have any meaning.
Now we have the chance to finally have words backed up by action and meaning.
Then I will tear up.
Cheers and thanks.
November 5, 2008 3:16 AM | Reply | Permalink
Thanks, Doug. That means alot.
November 5, 2008 7:55 AM | Reply | Permalink
A friend of mine was running for Supreme Court in Texas. He had a suite for friends to watch the returns. As a Democrat, he lost. So the night was bitter sweet.
But I'll tell you what was awesome: To sit in a room that was 80% white, 20% black, and watch almost everyone wiping away tears when our first Black President finished speaking. A night for the ages.
November 5, 2008 11:33 AM | Reply | Permalink
“I have a dream that my four little children will one day live in a nation where they will not be judged by the color of their skin but by the content of their character.”
–Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr., Aug. 28, 1963
Still waiting on his dream. Nobama was elected BECAUSE of his color and in spite of his CHARACTER!
November 5, 2008 7:43 AM | Reply | Permalink
No way jose is a fuckface.
November 5, 2008 10:07 AM | Reply | Permalink
Are you kidding me??
What election were you watching (sounds like the one on Faux News) - because you couldn't have been watching this one, you twit.
November 5, 2008 10:30 AM | Reply | Permalink
Just the opposite, NoWay. Obama was elected in spite of his color and BECAUSE of character -- principally, John McCain's character. If McCain had displayed the kind of character people thought he had two years ago, he might well have won. He would have given white voters a plausible reason to vote against the unfamiliar. Instead, McCain showed he would compromise his principles, recklessly select as his running mate an ignorant twit, and run a contemptible campaign based on misrepresentations, distortions, smears and unsubtle racism. I'm ashamed he didn't lose worse than he did.
November 5, 2008 8:00 AM | Reply | Permalink
There IS a God!
November 5, 2008 10:09 AM | Reply | Permalink
Re: "....any child born in America, regardless of race, gender or faith can grow up to be president."
It helps to have half-a-brain---you bettcha!!
(As with my other postings), my congrats for Senator-to-President-elect Barrack H Obama. Hopefully, he and the Dems don't squander their November wins, but instead always looking forward.....
November 5, 2008 10:17 AM | Reply | Permalink
I'm 16 years old and I'll be able to tell my children, my grandchildren - maybe, if I'm lucky, my great-grandchildren about how I was there to witness the greatest election in our nation's history: the first African-American president.
For the first time in a long time, I actually am hopeful about the possibility of reform in D.C. - my dissatisfaction has been erradicated for the moment (gotta see who Pres Obama picks for his administration first) and I'm actually proud.
More than proud - JUBILANTLY ESTATIC - about the possibility of America being restored to the glory and prestige it once new. All this made doubly so when I listened to Pres. Obama's acceptance speech - such a profound statement from a truly, truly spectacular night (I was moved to tears by the end, after calming myself from dancing, singing, yelling and wagging my finger in the face, respectfully, to my ultra conservative republican mother - who was even estatic about this election, although she had been praying for a "Mack-Attack-Comeback" until Ohio came in)
Maybe, just maybe - people are starting to realize just how awesome this could be. :)
November 5, 2008 10:27 AM | Reply | Permalink
Excuse me for interupting your reverie in congratulating yourself for voting for Obama BECAUSE he is black.
Your statement: "We won't have to tell them, as white liberals tend to tell their kids, that they are "just as good as us" because they will know it"
sure sounds pat-on-your-lily-white-back(your own)racist to me.
We who are conservative, haven't felt the need to tell our kids such a thing, I guess because people of every stripe of color, religion, and ethnicity are always regular & welcome friends & guests in our home. Guess we never feel the need to STATE THE OBVIOUS! And perhaps if you actually were acquainted with people who have darker skin then yourself, you might discover that not ALL of them were as jubilant about Obama's election as you are. Just because a person has dark skin doesn't mean they are relegated to All sharing the same mindset, brainwaves or political viewpoints. There ARE actually (you may want to sit down to digest this shock and awe statement)conservatives who happen to be black, who would consider white people who vote for a candidate JUST BECAUSE he is black, every bit as racist a thing to do as the opposite, nor probably would Martin Luther King considering his quote:
“I have a dream that my four little children will one day live in a nation where they will not be judged by the color of their skin but by the CONTENT OF THEIR CHARACTER.”
–Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr., Aug. 28, 1963
Although no one should deny that it was high time
this particular glass ceiling was broken, the reason most conservatives (black, white, red & yellow) would not vote for B.O. had nothing to do with his race but everything to do with his lack of character as evidenced by ONE example(& there are MANY examples) of his vote to deny babies born alive in botched abortions ANY medical care whatsoever. They are put in unused spaces of rooms(i.e: a nurse's testimony included a shelf in janitor's closet) etc. to die. (I would have provided the link on U-Tube showing Obama HIMSELF saying this, but U-Tube in their complicit participation in the liberal agenda of manipulating facts, has decided to remove the video from their site.) However a short audio clip on the Chicago Tribune website of Obama as the LONE senator arguing on the IL Senate floor on April 4, 2002, against Senate Bill B1663, a companion bill to the Born Alive Infants Protection Act that would have required an abortionist to call a second physician to assess a baby aborted alive is at the moment still available using this link:
http://www.jillstanek.com/29383467.mp3
Obama's most revealing statement from the clip was to say this bill "is really designed simply to burden the original decision of the woman and the physician to induce labor and perform an abortion." In other words, if a baby were to survive his or her abortion, the death plan marked out for this child should be carried out nonetheless. This chilling lack of concern from Obama for the most helpless, innocent members of society reveals a glaring character flaw denoting a callousness toward human life that should be hard to fathom, regardless of your skin color.
In addition to bad moral decisions, the political hydra of Obama/Biden/Pelosi/Reid/Dodd/Frank have economic plans which will effectively turn the USA into the USSA (United Soccialist Republic of America). We wonder HOW you will explain to your children and your grandchildren that socialism and the associated excessive and burdensome taxation of Americans was a CHANGE you believed in. We sincerely hope YOUR DESCENDANTS do NOT decide to punish you for your serious error in judgement this election, by leaving YOU in an unattended room somewhere to die without medical care. We hope THEY will develop the qualities of forgiveness, compassion and of making wise choices based on facts & not liberal media spin. Your life may depend on it,for as liberal Holland started with legalizing abortions to rid themselves of unwanted babies & have moved on to euthanasia to rid themselves of unwanted old relatives, all countries will ultimately decide by the votes of their elected (moral or immoral) officials whether they REALLY do value all of humanity or not.
November 5, 2008 3:08 PM | Reply | Permalink
Twilight Zone music, please
November 5, 2008 5:37 PM | Reply | Permalink
*cues the music*
November 5, 2008 8:22 PM | Reply | Permalink