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Will White Feminists Speak up for Michelle Obama?

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For weeks now, we have been hearing from feminists that Hillary Clinton was badly treated in the primaries. Some arguments are overblown -- sexism is not why she lost -- but it has been valuable to raise the issues. Now, though, the issue is how another working mother is to be treated: Michelle Obama. The attacks gathering on her are scurrilous, profoundly sexist and racist. Will prominent white feminists and female pundits and officials -- including Congressional Republican women -- speak up forcefully against slurs on Michelle Obama? It will be a strong test of their good faith. Do they care about fairness to all women involved in public life, or are they just whining for Hillary or maneuvering for her voters?


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Was this reposted and the previous thread deleted as censorship?

good question

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The way to answer this question would be to look for cached versions of the previous post and provide us with evidence. I can only assume that few here clears there cache on a regular basis.

Otherwise into the silent night it goes.

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This is right on point, an opportunity for these feminists to put their money where their mouth is - do you oppose this type of attack on all women, or just Hillary?

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I don't defend sexist women -- Michelle was making snide comments about having a model family in the White Hosue -- just remember she is the one who actually slept with the intern who was trying to seduce her. It is only later that Obama decided to marry her.

She wanted Hillary to be held responsible for the misdeeds of her spouse and made no allowance for the role of forgiveness between two people who love one another.

She has her children attending a church which teaches hatred.

I will continue to judge her by the content of her character, not the color of her skin.

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It's not quite the same post, subtle differences...

Whatever - teach my that trick so I can erase my embarrassing half posts that have real technical errors. This seems to be a transparent attempt to restart the discussion and erase previous comments because the answers were not what she desired. I don't see anything substantively different from her original post.

Folks, it is exactly the same post -- and it was reposted only because of my incompetence in getting it to the right place when I originally wrote it.
Sometimes there are conspiracies, but not this time....

Theda S.

Posted on the old thread: I posted this story story on TPM a few days after AlterNet posted it 2 May, 2008. This is exactly how a feel about the whole situation.

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teach my that trick so I can erase my embarrassing half posts that have real technical errors.

Judging from Theda Skocpol's response, and presuming it's either true or she's an unusually brazen liar, that's a trick you could actually use, like right there.

I'll give the benefit of the doubt, but it certainly seems suspicious to me. An explanation would be nice.

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Now that you've mentioned it, I'm going to sit down with Andrew and give it another look and try to see if we can get to the bottom of what happened. But I assure you, no one on the staff has ever knowingly taken down a Coffee House post, though we occasionally take down individually comments for violating the TOS -- foul language, hate speech, etc. In any case, we'll give it a look and report back. All I would ask is that on these various different grounds, I'd ask people at least assume things are errors until we have a chance to answer/explain. Most of the issues like this are either misunderstandings or problems caused by our staff being stretched thin. Josh

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June 6, 2008 9:42 PM | Reply | Permalink

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I assure you, no one on the staff has ever knowingly taken down a Coffee House post

Heh, er, that looks like one of them "non denial denials" as "WoodStein" used to call them, norw Josh Marshall qualifies it with "on the staff." :-)

Contributors are obviously either not considered staff or considered staff but not that kind of staff where one pays attention to what they do: there's M.J. Rosenberg examples, and just the other day Steve Clemons did it the latter with admission by Andrew Golis right on that thread that Clemons had taken down the post for a while and edited a user's comment. Funny there's also the curious qualifier in that statement about "a Coffee House post" which limits to only one of several sections of TPMCafe, but I would give benefit of doubt and not conspiracize on that. :-)

P.S. News to me was that Clemons was empowered to edit a comment by someone else. In the past we had Rosenberg remove whole threads, but his own only. I always was under the impression that only managers could remove someone else's stuff, and I only saw them use it on trolls only a couple of times in several years, and those were so bad there were no complaints about it by anyone else.

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After Josh's initial reply, I thought it was just a technical glitch here and there. (I felt like the old Martin Short tobacco exec character on SNL, "Is it me? It's not me, is it?"). But then it seemed to happen frequently to MJ. About the same time as MJ's last invisible ink pieces, Todd Gitlin posted one in which he mistook a reference that some Obama critic was making and was railing against something he had misunderstood. I believe I was the first commenter pointing out his error when the whole post disappeared. In that case, I understand why he would want to delete it. He was criticizing something that he'd just misread and it had no value as a prompt for discussion. But why can't they at least leave a note behind explaining their "edits"?

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Just remembered the subject of the Gitlin piece that was deleted. It was a criticism of Obama's relationship to Ayers being more than he let on and mentioned a book by Ayers. Professor Gitlin mistook that book for a different one Ayers had written later.

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Oh yeah, I remember seeing that one happen now, too. As I said on that thred that Josh posted on, if they are posting under their own name and have a reputation to maintain, it's often understandable, if they at least leave a goddamn notice that they have done it! Otherwise, in my eyes, it hurts their rep anyways, cause it's like a little kid trying to hide a broken dish from Mom.

"admission by Andrew Golis right on that thread that Clemons had taken down the post for a while and edited a user's comment."

Where is this admission and to which which post does it refer?

Is this true, false, or mis-construed? The answer is important, because if we really and truly have insiders editing user's comments, we don't have anything worth preserving here. If Clemons edited a user's comment, without a disclosed good reason and without announcing the edit, he needs to be banned from this space.

You replied to a post that had not been posted. So I assume when the post was received you saved it for comment purposes?

http://tpmcafe.talkingpointsmemo.com/talk/2008/06/unprofessional-dishonest-editi.php

I bookmarked Josh's response from a prior thread becuase it seemed like a firm statement of policy. I had seen entire posts or threads disappear previously and it struck me as censorship on a journalism site. I don't mind posters correcting the record or clarifying, but I don't understand how entire articles and responses disappear into nowhere.

Plus if THEY can remove & edit posts, why can't readers edit, preview or delete? At least in that case I wouldn't have to title my 3rd attempt due to formatting errors as: The Effing Jazzy Rule A Cautionary Tale Again without the Effing Fonts & Styles I Can't Figure Out!

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You want the same rights the elite have, you have to get in on the activist blogging on it :-), by becoming a proud member of the TPM software whiners' club. Responsibilities include voting up posts complaining about the software like this June 10 one on the Reader Blogs when they come up, as they do weekly. As Yoda Urbinato suggested on that thread, squeaky wheel gets the grease: I think there should constantly be a post on the recommended list about the need for an edit function until it actually happens. There's strength in numbers, solidarity! (Psst: they don't read a lot of the comments on the threads, they are busy with other stuff.)

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Is it OK if white and black men stand up for her too? Or are only white women allowed?

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How about brown red and yellow people? Can we get a pantone color chart for who can and can't stand up against sleaze?

Oh wait... how about we just make it simple, and take note of who fails to stand up against sleaze, who plays identity politics, and hold them accountable for strangling our culture with these moronic endless debates.

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Goodbye and good riddance to identity politics.

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Will White Feminists Speak up for Michelle Obama?

I would certainly hope anyone with an ounce of common sense would speak up against this nasty smear campaign against Michelle Obama.

That stuff is incredibly corrosive to democracy. The US can't continue to be a prosperous and powerful nation with political decisions being made on such a moronic level; any more than our culture could survive by replacing school books with the National Enquirer. It's just gutter.

National Enquirer. That's exactly what Fox News reminds me of. Unfortunately, the rest of MSM media news isn't much better.

Thank goodness for TPM.

laurajordan - National Enquirer has too much credibility. FoxNews = Weekly World News.

http://www.extrememortman.com/wp-content/uploads/2007/11/Dick%20Cheney%20robot%20heart%20Weekly%20World%20News.JPG

I'm sorry, I guess I missed the part where Michelle Obama was being oppressed. c'mon, people: she said some stupid things, and she should take her lumps for it.

the Republicans are going to make outrageous claims about their opponent, but we knew they would. the good news is I don't think people are buying it anymore. as a former Hillary supporter, I have to say I'm suddenly feeling really good about this election, and I really think Obama can win.

that being said, tho, he and his wife have been a tad thin-skinned and they need to get over it.

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Baby mama? You don't think that's a problem?

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Why do I feel that this is a continuation of a fight that for all intents and purposes has ended?

I have no idea what stand "feminists" (re: Hillary supporters?) will take on the smearing of Michele Obama. But I am hoping (and expecting) everyone on the left (and center) will stand together behind Barack Obama and denounce the baseless attacks on him and Michele.

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yep. Absolutely.

To that I'd add "feminists" and everyone need to drop all these phony labels and remember how to think for themselves again. Don't just regurgitate the slogans and PC dogma, inform and think for yourself.

These zombies on the left and right with their endless slogans, knee jerk politics, and fervor, will be our ruin.

Frankly, it makes them easy prey from the real predators of the world, the ENRONs and Carlyle Groups and such. You think the ENRON traders cared if they ripped off "Grandma Millie" whether she was an old hippie or a religious wingnut?

To the real sleaze bags, they're all easy prey. People need to get past the 60's and realize while they've been quibbling they're being looted and bled to death.

Well said. All you need to be is a fair human being to "denouce and reject" such things.

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Theda,
Can you provide some examples of these profoundly sexist attacks?

How about Fox describing her as Barack's "baby mama," which, in this case, is both racist and sexist.

The outrage! Have you complained to MSNBC for their sexist coverage of Senator Clinton where she was referred to as "she devil" "strip-teaser.""witchy" voice to "fingernails on a blackboard." "not a convincing mom" "Madame Defarge" "Nurse Ratched.", not to mention pimping out her daughter.

On CNN a commentator objected to the calling of Hillary a bitch being a racist because some women are actually bitches. Send any cmments then?

But Fox News called Michelle Obama Barack's Baby Mama and that gets you outraged. The silence of those who sat by and allowed Hillary Clinton to be smeared in sexist terms means that this type of disgusting attack on Michelle Obama is more acceptable. So for all the Obama supporters spewing the B word and worse about Hillary, you've lost the moral authority to confront such an attack against Michelle Obama.

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Wow...what righteous indignation.

Lets see. Bill Clinton says (paraphrasing) " No big deal Jesse Jackson won South Carolina too" but Obama supporters are bad for not defending Hillary? I am not saying what was said about her by Matthews et al were anything but reprehensible. I watched the Clinton campaign opportunistically jumping on any Obama verbal misstep for political gain (see: "Bittergate"). And saying only she and McCain were qualified to be Pres. And your crying 'foul' for us Obama supporters not jumping to Hillary's defense? Or is a tinfoil hat being worn and Matthews et al were all part of Obama's "dirty tricks" team whose job it was to smear Hillary?

Obama is the nominee and I hope all of us on the left will support him just like we would have supported Hillary if she was the nominee. We need to move forward not look back. The feelings of bitterness is understandable. I would have been crushed too if the person I supported, Obama, didn't get the nomination after coming so close. It was a close race that played out until the end. One side had to 'win' and one side had to 'lose'. But it should still be about getting a D elected in November.

Agreed with electing a democrat in November. But please don't take that to mean I will ignore the democratic party's silence in the face of sexism in this campaign. And please don't expect me to be silent in the face of the vilification of Hillary in gender demeaning terms particularly on the liberal blogosphere - so called democrats spewing sexist and misogynist attacks against Hillary. For folks to expect the feminist movement to step up to the plate for Michelle Obama after deafening silence from democrats and progressives for what Hillary faced is appalling. I find it incedibly hypocritical and I am sure that I am not alone.

And as an African American woman I know I am where I am because of the people who paved the way before me. and so Obama was compared to Jesse Jackson. Is it really that outrageous? Jesse won 30% of the dem primary vote and 14 states. It was not an insult - it was a statement of history. It's a fact and one that pother people had noted before Bill mentioned it. How that makes him Grandmaster of the Klan is beyond me. The next female candidate will be compared to Hillary.

Bill Clinton was able to win despite the sexist attacks against Hillary and I am sure Michelle Obama will exhibit the same strength in this campaign. When Michelle Obama called Hillary polarizing, she should have known that that polarizing image came in the face of GOP smear attacks on Hillary. The ironic thing is that Hillary understands better than anyone what Michelle Obama will face. Will Hillary defend her? Michelle Obama said if Hillary won she'd have to think about supporting her. Maybe Hillary will have to think about defending Michelle Obama. The Obamas and the democratic party have done nothing to earn Hillary's defense, but she may the better person and do it anyway.

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Well I can't say I begrudge your point of view. Yes, I feel Hillary was at times treated unfairly by the MSM and other times, as "anObamaDemocrat pointed out, she received more favorable coverage than Obama. All that time spent on Reverend Wright by the MSM? There was a whole televised debate that delved into such pressing issues as "American Flag Pins" and proper "National Anthem etiquette". To be honest I can't describe how happy I am that the primaries are over. Much more of it and the party/movement would have been torn apart.

But I can understand how you feel. Both sides were targets of unfair and sometimes offensive (re: Chris Matthews misogyny) comments.

Now let's get a D elected!!! 8)

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I think you're may be getting trolled again. Try and add up the things dijamo declares and see if they make any kind of sense. Dijamo is a vertiable geyser of disinformation. Take this comment from her blog:

There are others (20%) who are perhaps more moderate on foreign policy but liberal on economics who are not sold on the authenticity of Obama.

Huh? Hillary voted for the war and was an economically conservative neoliberal along with Bill, heading up the DNC and New Dems, the most right wing Democrats during the entire period since the New Deal.

Dijamo's posts are filled with this disinformation and attempts to poison the well.

Just because someone claims to be a black woman online doesn't mean s/he is one. Statistically, how probable is the persona of the highly political black woman supporting Hillary who is continually trying to poison the well and divide Democrats against Obama?

What's the probability of a pudgy white Freeper adopting that persona for thrills from his mom's basement?

Again, these trolls pop up every election season. Large numbers of idiots and Freepers playing halloween, and it's difficult to tell them apart. They're both irrelevant though.

You are misinforemd. Hillary's economic plan is more progressive than Barack Obama - true universal healthcare, greater gov't intervention int he foreclosure crisis, etc. There is not a person with an ounce of intelligence that will say Barack's policy proposals are more progressive than Hillary.

Hillary is more moderate on foreign policy and Barack was more progressive...until he started running in the general election. Now if dictators want to meet wth him it will be at a time and place of his choosing should they meet the appropriate metrics - what Hillary's position was all along.

Those who claim that Obama was more progressive economically don't understand what the hell progressive means. I am talking to you. And I am who I have always been - don't need to put on a front for everyone. Your failure to understand that a black woman can vote not on color but on policy exposes your own ignorance.

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For you to take such a broad brush and claim that all people who supported Obama before now lack a moral high-ground based on behavior of other people is ludicrous.

First - your high horse road off a while ago.

Second - some of those same people you denounce and reject did indeed reject the sexist treatment of Hillary. At a certain point (particularly after being repeatedly and rudely called sexist by posters similar to your self) there is little a bunch of silly posters can do on a closed loop called TPM.

Third - not much room to argue when you categorically claim everyone on the other side cannot make a point because you declare them unfit. Show me your badge.

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Kozmic, are you suggesting djiamo may actually be some old Republican guy, who picked an avatar that looks like everything we would trust as "one of us" to gain our trust, so he could trash our party using falsehoods laden with feigned feminist bitterness?

...and that they are posing all this divisiveness, and repeating again and again they are "for" a Democrat in November?

And just to reassure us they really are a young black woman, they mention it again and again, despite the fact we should be able to see that in the avatar?

Surely someone wouldn't go that far to fool us all, I mean this is just the Presidency we are talking abut, so who would ever care enough to put on such an elaborate ruse, and hang out here pouncing on every pro-Obama post, the same way Billy does whenever someone disses McCain?

Boy, I sure hope people wouldn't be so mean and hypocritacl as to decieve all of us that they are a Democrat, but they are really Republicans taking our intrs-party contests and truning them into bitter fights?

I would slit my wrists before I would believe that could happen!

As you may have noticed I have said I will support Obama and have posted pro-Obama posts. I have repeatedly said (and acted on the principle) that I will encourage other Hillary supporters to support Obama because he is NOT MCCAIN. However I will not excuse the Obama supporters who turned a blind eye to sexism and are reactivating their NOW cards and grabbing pitchforks to defend Michelle Obama. So if you want me to quiet down on the criticism, you Obama folks should just put away your argument that feminists must rally around Michelle Obama.

It's a losing argument because you have no moral standing to argue against sexism. The Obama supporters' newfound dismay about the sexist media is transparent as saran wrap. If you gave a crap about respect for women in the media, you would have spoken out against it rather than telling Hillary to toughen up and stop whining and sexism played no role in the primary campaign.

So put the sexism issue away - why not you did it when Hillary was running - and focus on why Obama rather than let's protect Michelle Obama which just exposes the hypocrisy of Obama supporters. You have no moral stading remaining on the issue so take the advice you gave to hIllary. Deal with it and move on.

Well, Bills point was that Obama winning SC was meaningless because the OTHER fairytale black candidate, Jackson, also won SC and look how it turned out for him! Blacks aren't REAL contenders - they just get the black vote (so what?) in black states (so what?). REAL people (whites) in REAL states (almost all white) won't ever vote for such a gimmick candidate in the end - just like they didn't vote for Jesse J in the end.

Essentially saying that a black candidate can only ever get token support because they are "only" black (you know, like Jesse Jackson) is very insulting.

Hillary had the women in her campaign take a back seat to the men. She threw the women under the bus as soon as times got tough (Patti Solis Doyle). If Obama did that it would be unforgivable to you, but Hillary? Letting the boys tell her how to act is just political strategy, right?

And remember when that labor leader said Hillary is the type of leader with "testicular fortitude" and all she did was smirk? I will never forget the deafening silence by PEOPLE LIKE YOU who ignored how incredibly sexist that was and just laughed it off. The Clintons used racism to get votes and ignored sexism to keep them. Real classy.

She fired both Solis-Doyle and Mark Penn, and then put in a woman as head of the campaign. I guess she's covering her tracks as an anti-feminist.

By the way, I hear we don't have to worry, Obama will take care of all the feminist issues just as well and even better.

COMPLAIN to MSNBC? Seems like you'd be thanking them.

In fact, Clinton recieved the highest percentage of positive coverage from MSNBC among major cable news networks according to the Project for Excellence in Journalism: http://journalism.org/node/11275

A quote: "The Clinton campaign had MSNBC to thank for a greater portion of statements disputing the concept that she is unlikable, 22% on MSNBC versus 13% on CNN and 12% on Fox News."

Covering up bumbling failure due to poor planning and execution by blaming those who actually HELPED you shows just what kind of President Hillary would have been - and, thankfully, will never be.

Positive when talking about her policies. Please be assured Chris Matthews was not using racist terms about Senator Obama like he did with Senator Clinton. It amazes me that even now so called democrats don't find that unacceptable. HELLO! If it's acceptable against Hillary then it's okay against Michelle Obama too or do you not get that simple concept? like he did

It should also be noted that study only goes through 3/9 and does not include the more strident anti-HRC tones that emerged as the campaign went on.

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That study is completely irrelevant regarding racist and sexist treatment of the candidates. It is a study about media characterization of political themes and tactics and how they played (i.e. did networks positively cover Clinton's "Ready on Day One" theme). You're using this study deceitfully to say something it doesn't. Does this study even mention gender or race?

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Michelle Obama isn't running for office.

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Yet... she may just get an opportunity to do that one day, Hillary has certainly broken that glass ceiling, because of her we know a First Lady can win hig public office, withouth ever running for city council, or state government, or even governor. The road to the White House might jsut start at the White House!

Maybe this is really all a gigantic ploy to propel Michelle into a Senate seat in some state she won'tneed to actually live in until Barack is moving back out of the White House!?!?

Hey, the First Lady glass ceilng has been shattered, so what's to top Michelle from advancing because ehs spent 8 Years as the First Lady?

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Actually, Hillary's claim to have broken the glass ceiling is a perfect example of her self-interested opportunism. When she gave her "magnanimous" concession speech, did you notice that she said there were "18 million" cracks in the ceiling? That was Hillary trying to gather "her" voters together and rally them behind her. 36 million Democrats voted during the nominating season. Hillary counts her voters because they voted for a woman. But Obama's don't count because he's a man. See how she plays the game? She doesn't deserve an inch of slack.

As a matter of fact, I have complained to MSNBC.

Sadly, the stuff that comes from Fox News doesn't shock me anymore. At all. They have no cred. They're like the National Enquirer--you just expect them to be shocking and tacky. What would really shock me is if they were to do something classy and fair for a change.

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Laura,
I feel the same way about Fox. I never watch it but when I hear about things like the "Baby Mama" crawl, I can only write it off as something a RW propaganda network would run. Unfortunately, FOX gets away with stuff no other network can because they're known to be partisan. I have to believe that much of Fox's huge viewership comes from those wanting the National Enquirer type stuff. But when most of the other major networks have allowed some pretty rank stuff during the primary, it's a definite shift in the press coverage. And the fact that most people didn't rail against it at the time only encourages the media to bring it back out when it will get the most viewers, in the general.

I agree.

The other cable news channels (MSNBC, CNN) have made a mistake in trying to emulate Fox News, to the degree that they have.

Fox News is increasingly becoming cartoonish. I think we'll see, over the next couple of years, Fox News and the rest of the right-wing noise machine become increasingly irrelevant. In a few years, there will only be the dead-end old-timers left, fighting and re-fighting the old fights from decades ago.

"Oh, damn those elite Yankee Reconstructionist Carpetbaggers!"

Hi dijamo. Any citations for all those quotes? Source and context matters.

Saying bad things about Hillary's voice is not sexism (it can get screechy -- a fact as much caught on tape as Dean's campaign-busting "Yeeha"). If I say Bush's voice has sounded like moronic, faux-macho, and panicked put-on since Day One, does that make me a man-hater? No. You can't read a bigger agenda into it.

If Michelle takes lumps for saying something stupid, fine -- taking her to task over her remarks about being proud of America is not a line of attack I like, but it is fair game. Attacking her as nothing but a baby mama making terrorist fist jabs? That's something else. That's unconscionable, close to dehumanizing. Such attacks are exactly the reason we need to elect Obama -- to send that style of politics to its room.

And your approach of "too bad for her because people said Hillary has a screechy voice" seems pretty empty.

What just happened? The above post by me was supposed to appear as a reply to dijamo's post of June 13, 2008 12:32 AM.

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too true.

Do your own homework on the Google. Because it doesn't matter how many facts or how clear the hypocrisy is, you'll just close your eyes and excuse what happened anyway. But since I am generous, here are a few links to get you started.

This should catch you up for Chris Matthews in context through January 9:
http://www.dailykos.com/storyonly/2008/1/9/15149/90400

This is a NYT piece on sexism in the campaign:
http://www.nytimes.com/2008/06/13/us/politics/13women.html?bl&ex=1213502400&en=ce19a1d9a8f54dd5&ei=5087%0A

Well, okay -- that Matthews link is good -- apparently he's a sexist loon. I would also argue that he's not quite a real journalist, that generally what he does is (in the words of Jon Stewart) "bad for America" -- and that I was unaware of all these quotes because I haven't watched him in years. So I accept that Matthews is sexist -- but it's a huge leap from there to saying that a candidate's wife deserves to be slandered.

Something you (dijamo) said in yesterday's version of this thread bothered me, and I replied to it then -- you were upset at Michelle over her perceived attack on Hillary back in August '07. Let me relink now because I find this account of that event persuasive, and maybe it will turn down the heat on your feelings in some small way:

http://blogs.abcnews.com/politicalradar/2007/08/obama-nothing-p.html

I still don't buy it and it's not the point anyway. It's not about Michelle Obama - it's about why this newfound mission of protecting her when Hillary was thrown to the wolves by the democratic party? Do we stand for respect for women for all women or just black women or just the black women we happen to like. I despise Katherine Harris and Condi Rice, but I've never had to attack them in gender demeaning terms to do it and speak up when other people do. It's called being against sexism and misogny on principle. It's called attacking sexism to create a culture of respect for all women rather than choosing the one you like that's worthy of respect.

He asked for an example and I gave him one. Chill out. Yes, I said, "Chill out."

I don't watch Fox, so no I didn't send them a letter. I'm not a big CNN fan anyway, so I didn't send them a letter.

I agreed that it seemed like the Clinton were just "prostituting" Chelsea. She's a grown woman. Why can't she talk to reporters? Personally, I wouldn't have used the word "pimp" on air, but I agreed with Shuster's assessment. I also agreed that she was behaving in a small, petty, nasty manner - she-devil. Though, I wouldn't have used "she-devil," just small, petty, and nasty.

I was mostly disturbed by the comments about her voice and laugh. Other than that, I gave some people, including Christ Matthews some slack. Christ Matthews treats his female guests with the upmost respect - especially since he's stopped commenting on how attractive they are. And I cut folks some slack if they used gendered langauge to criticize something that is bad about Clinton's campaign. With the exception of the b-word and c-word, lots of English adjectives are gendered in a way that doesn't discriminate against women.

Now, I'll ask you. Where was all this righteous indignation with Pat Buchanan and Fox spewing all kinds of racist ignorance? Most importantly, where was all this indignation when the Clinton campaign played on mainstream racism? I don't recall Obama using sexism to his advantage. Do you?

So, again. He asked for an example. I gave him one. Chill out.

You sure are nursing that grudge. Or, are you simply another McCain troll doing the work of appealing (supposedly) to Hillary's sympathizers?

My vote is for the second option, based on the tone and focus of your posts. The avatar is a nice touch, though. :-)

That was to "djamo", by the way.

Thanks for the clarification.

And can you also provide some examples of your rallying a defense of Hillary when she faced profoundly sexist attacks? Or is sexism only wrong and noteworthy when it is done to the wife of your chosen candidate?

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There were no sexist attacks. Hillary is delusional. As she was fond of saying, if you can't stand the heat, get out of the fucking kitchen. Or, as I say, if you want to run with the big dogs, learn to piss on three legs. The game doesn't belong to anyone, and there are no rules. Hillary would have done a lot better if she hadn't acted like such a fucking pussy. She wanted to be treated special because she's a woman. Tough shit for her. Politics ain't beanbag.

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That's totally obnoxious and totally lacking factually.

1) There were sexist attacks on Hillary from the usual MSM goons, and many on the left did in fact condemn them, as they should have.

2) Hillary's camp also exaggerated the sexist attacks to play them up for sympathy. For example at one rally a couple goons had signs saying "iron my shirt" which was clearly an isolated prank by a couple morons, and her campaign and proxies kept citing it as widespread sexism.

3) Calling that as being a "pussy" and making analogies about how one needs to "piss on three legs" is moronic.

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I seem like the kind of person who cares, don't I?

Here's the funny thing about Hillary: she's not a pussy, and she's fully capable of holding her own in the world of hardball politics. And if she had wanted to, she could have taken on the sexist remarks directly. No doubt she would have wiped the floor with the people who made them. But it served her purposes to not deal with the remarks, because it was far more valuable politically to be able to complain about an overarching sexist bias in the media. It plays to her goal of gathering women around her and presenting herself as their great martyr/defender. If that's what gets her up in the morning, I guess it's no skin off my ass, but it seems petty and self-serving to me. And pretty fucking cynical.

Get one thing straight: Hillary is not, never has been and never will be a victim. She is a professional politician who knows precisely what she's trying to accomplish. How she gets there is her business. Personally, I'd rather win the election.

Camille Paglia, at least, thinks the "Iron My Shirt" stuntmen were planted there by HRC's campaign.

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And Camille Paglia is a brilliant political strategist. Anyone who think this was an unstaged event should be deprived of the right to vote on the grounds of naive stupidity.

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And sexist attacks are never profound...

I was happy to chastise MSNBC for Chris Matthews' comments about Hillary and for David Schuster's comments about Chelsea.

I confess I didn't even know about Tucker Carlson's ridiculous sexist comments. I never watched Tucker Carlson. But, hey--crap like that from Tucker doesn't shock me. He makes dumb-ass comments and insults people all the time.

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What Carlson said wasn't sexist. He could have said the same thing about a guy. And if he had, no one (not even the guy he was talking about) would have taken offense. And Ken Rudin's comment? I suppose he could have picked Godzilla instead of Glenn Close. But it wasn't sexist. It was just true.

Bunny Cat! Tucker Carlson said something like "hearing Hillary's voice makes me involuntarily cross my legs."

Tell me you were just unaware that he had said that. Please tell me you're not defending that!

Tucker Carlson has said other really tacky things--like his comments demeaning people who observe some religion he disapproves of--so it is surely no surprise that he makes sexist insults too?

Carlson's guest came up with "Vaginal American". Your talking head corps hard at work.

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What Carlson said was, "When she comes on television, I involuntarily cross my legs."

Please explain what's sexist about that comment.

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I'm seriously trying to understand what's sexist about that comment. I just asked my wife if she thought it was sexist, and her answer was, "Well, I'd say the test would be, if he'd made the comment about a man, would it make any less sense? And by that standard, it wasn't a sexist comment."

I think I agree with my wife.

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Well, let's see. If said about a woman, it means she is a castrating bitch. The bitch part is gratuitous. That is, she wants to unman and, therefore, dominate that person. If said about a man, it means he is a dirty-fighting son of a bitch (I like the symmetry here). The image for me from a woman is that she wants to remove the balls; for a man, cause pain but leave them there.

Oh, never mind.

If you read the comments section at talkelft they were all about defending Hillary and now they are all about bashing Michelle Obama. I guess racism trumps feminism for at least some Hillary supporters.

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Will 50,000 little brown balls stand up for Quiet Riot?

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This is an incredibly stupid genderist, racist post and thread.

Just as celebrities have no right to privacy when they're out in public, Hillary has no right to play the sexism card when she's running for office. She's not a woman. She's a politician. If she can't fight her own fights on the merits, she deserves to lose. If there were sexist remarks made during the campaign, she should have addressed them--one by one, and when they happened. The reason she didn't is because she's a fucking phony and a whiner. You don't wait until you've lost and then complain about it. You fight to win. Hillary's biggest problem is that she thinks being a woman makes her special. Nobody's special. Not even Queen Fucking Hillary.

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Sorry. I just read the original post, which was well-intentioned. But it misses the point that Michelle Obama isn't running for office. Barack is. And so was Hillary. There is a difference.

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True. It's very sleazy for a media outlet to facilitate going after her like that, and it's degrading to our democracy and culture. Gutter.

I am comparing what Michelle Obama will face to what Hillary faced when Bill was running for President. The press was merciless and attacked her on everything from looks to dress etc. Just because Michelle's not running for office doesn't mean she won't face the treatment. And the progressive left and democrats have lost the moral authority to call the GOP smear machine on their crap because the worst parts of the left actively participated in the gendered smearing of Hillary in the campaign.

This includes you Rabbit Kitty calling Hillary bitch, pussy, needing to piss on three legs - and that's just in this thread & not the crap you've said before. There will be less of an outcry against Michelle Obama because those sexist attacks were used by our own party against a female candidate. Sexism and misogny is not just in a vacuum against Hillary Clinton - it contributes to a broader atmosphee of disrespect of women in the public sphere and women in general.

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Once again, you are posing troll-generated divisiveness as party division. The trash talkers here were NEVER sincere Obama supporters they were provocatuers.

If you can't differentiate between sincere Obama supporters who experssed dissatisfaction with kitchen sink tactics, and trolls with potty- mouths, you do Hillary and Democrats no favors.

Did you actually read the sentence I just typed and understand the simple point I was making? With an open mind?

Or have you already conjured up another conflationary post, putting sincere posters who expressed forensic arguments in the same "lump" as trolls who used diespicable language and epithets?

Once more, don't put clean-debate Obama supporters in the same category with the trolls.

Maybe repeating this simple logic three times will get you to consider what your words sound like, it is almost as if you are not what you claim to be, you persist in emotionally dividing everyone based on what other "not what they claim to be" commentors have provided.

So Rabbit Kitty is a troll and not an Obama supporter? I have seen Rabbit Kitty both expressing forensic arguments AND partaking (and excusing) potty mouthed sexist and misogynistic language against Hillary. That dichotomy is what bugs the hell out me - Rabbit Kitty is not some ignorant Republican trying to seed dissension. There are actual progressive liberal demcorats who find gender bashing attacks as acceptable. Democrats used to stand against this crap not partake in it.

For those who criticized Hillary on forensic levels alone or on a personal level as well that did not devolve into sexist attacks, they have the right to speak up for Michelle Obama. But I should hope they spoke up for Hillary too on principle even though she was competing against their candidate of choice. We don't get to choose who is worthy of gender based destruction and who is not. It is a slippery slope and those on the left need to acknowledge they contributed to a deteriorating respect for women in the public sphere.

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Rabbit Kitty is a snarker, we all know that, and mixes logic with derision as a way to point out hypocrisy, not from personal contempt.

This is exactly what I mean, that you equate the name-callers witht the debators, you blame those who respond to simething withthose who stat something.

Go back and read again, you are mixing the reactors up with the actors, and you don't seem to see the difference, anyone who is even mildly critical of Hillary got the same treatment and contempt as those who called her names.

And if, as partisans they are willing to jump to Michelle's defense now, you choose to promote the same old divisiveness, rather than accept their hypocrisy and do the right thing by defending this black woman from sexism as vociferously as you defended a white woman.

You prefer to dwell on past hypocrisy born of heated debate, rather than the addressing the CURRENT fact there's a deliberate and organized effort by the R's to literally trash the Democratic candidate's wife.

Move on to the next level, djiamo, you need to defend Michelle just the same as you did Hillary, or YOU are much more the hypocrite, especially if you do it on gender, not racial grounds.

MAybe your precious and abundant time would be better spent protecting ALL women than reminding everyone here about past arguments? Or maybe Michelle being a black woman means you think she should tough it out, and poor, defenseless white Hillary needs your protection?

Or are you just stuck in indignation mode?

Move on!

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Rabbit Kitty is a snarker, we all know that, and mixes logic with derision as a way to point out hypocrisy, not from personal contempt.

Nobody understands me but you. Sniff... :)

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This includes you Rabbit Kitty calling Hillary bitch, pussy, needing to piss on three legs...

The really hilarious part is that you think Hillary is some sort of precious flower, in need of protection from foul, sexist pigs like me. I have no doubt Hillary has both heard and uttered far worse things than anything you've heard me say. She can hold her own with the boys, and she already knows how to piss on three legs. And if what Terry McAuliffe said is true, she likes to "throw 'em back" with the guys as well:

She loves to sit and throw 'em back. We all hear about the story that she and John McCain actually had a shot contest, I think in the Ukraine or somewhere around the world. And she actually beat John McCain in a shot contest.

She's a girl from Illinois who likes to throw 'em down with the rest of us.

Actually, according to the NY Times, Terry had his facts a little wrong:

Two summers ago, on a Congressional trip to Estonia, Senator Hillary Rodham Clinton astonished her traveling companions by suggesting that the group do what one does in the Baltics: hold a vodka-drinking contest.

Delighted, the leader of the delegation, Senator John McCain, quickly agreed. The after-dinner drinks went so well — memories are a bit hazy on who drank how much — that Mr. McCain, an Arizona Republican, later told people how unexpectedly engaging he found Mrs. Clinton to be. "One of the guys" was the way he described Mrs. Clinton, a New York Democrat, to some Republican colleagues.

http://www.nytimes.com/2006/07/29/washington/29rivals.html

One of the guys. Hillary's cries of sexism are just part of the never-ending Clinton dog and pony show.

Michelle Obama does not strike me as the precious flower type who needs to be protected from the cold harsh world either. So again what you consider acceptable against Hillary you should consider acceptable against Michelle Obama. Glad at least you are being consistent. So when someone in the media calls Michelle Obama a bitch, you'll be quiet or you'll participate in calling her a bitch in the blogosphere. What progress we have made in the fight for women's equality.

When will you get it through your skull that it's not about protecting women or that she's too fragile for such attacks? It's about respecting women in the public sphere and no one should have to put up with that crap. If there's a male politician who's had to deal with this crap please open my eyes. Otherwise just accept you reap what you sow. Thanks for helping to elevate the political discourse.

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But see, that's the point: if someone in the media calls Michelle Obama a bitch, she's not going to let it pass and then level some phony, self-serving charge of "sexism" after the fact. She's going to get right in their face about it. Right. NOW.

Michelle Obama doesn't need the assistance of white feminists to make her case (and what the HELL does being white have to do with anything?). She's perfectly capable of taking care of herself. Michelle is a real feminist--living her equality. Hillary Clinton is a shameless opportunist, disingenuously living like a victim.

Michelle Obama has spoken out directly on the Obama Baby Mama? Or is she letting the story get us much play as possible in the hopes of winning over feminists to support both her and her husband? Puh-leeze spare me.

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Make up your mind. Are you her defender or are you her enemy? I think you're missing the point. Michelle will not only not cry "sexism" in response to this, she will also not cry "racism". Have you noticed the Obama campaign talking a lot about racism? No, you haven't. Because they refuse to play the victim card. From the Economist:

Mr Obama spoke out against labeling whites as racist without realising that their "resentments...are grounded in legitimate concerns." He said that past policies of welfare, which have gone disproportionately to blacks, may have done more harm than good. He empathised with struggling white parents who see children of minority groups win help through affirmative action to atone for crimes that they and their own children had not committed.

You don't get it. Sexism is not the problem. Using charges of sexism as a way to divide the party in order to win an election is.

Ahem. The Obama campaign certainly raised the race card as often as they could even though the candidate decried it. His campaign was as guilty as you can get in terms of seeding dissension in order to solidify your base.

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2008/01/12/obama-camps-memo-on-clin_n_81205.html

So please don't try to pull the Obama's so innocent card. And secondly you said Michelle Obama didn't need anyone to speak up for her and she would do it herself. Has that happened? No. So it defeats your argument and you change it once again.

I think it's despicable what was done to Michelle Obama but I also think the democratic party needs to come to terms with how they were silent in the face of attacks on Hillary. I empathize with her situation but I have no sympathy. If you play with fire, you get burned. Many many Obama supporters have been spewing sexist and misogynistic attacks against Hillary. Now that it's Obama's wife that type of attack is just wrong. Consistency please. If you played a part in creating this cesspool, don't think other people are going to come in and clean it up for you.

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Why would the Democratic Party defend Hillary? The whole point of a nominating contest is to find the best candidate. Anyone who can't defend him or herself doesn't deserve the nomination. Get a clue. It's survival of the fittest. We WANT them to fight.

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OK, dijamo--now point me to the specific place in that memo where the Obama campaign levels the racism card. In the MEMO--not in the article. (Just so we don't get off on another one of those pointlessly unproductive tangents you're so fond of.) In the memo, where does the Obama campaign charge the Clintons with playing the race card? In the memo.

What was the purpose of a memo listing purported insults to the african american community other than to gather up anger against the Clintons and raise the race card. Give me an effing break here. Politics ain't beanbag and this is a clear cut case of trying to smear folks with the racism card. Then they have their surrogates like Donna Brazille bemoaning the Clinton's raising the race issue because Bill Clinton called Obama being against teh Iraq war from the beginning a fairytale. Very Rovian - don't let Obama get caught making the smears - but that's the race card pattern I and I found it despicable.

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You can't point me to a place in the memo where the Obama campaign charges the Clintons with racism, can you? Because it isn't there. You're just reading your own biases into it.

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OK, dijamo--now point me to the specific place in that memo where the Obama campaign levels the racism charge. In the MEMO--not in the article. (Just so we don't get off on another one of those pointlessly unproductive tangents you're so fond of.) In the memo, where does the Obama campaign charge the Clintons with playing the race card? In the memo.

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Sorry for the double post.

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And when will you get it through your skull that respect is something you earn? Your stupid candy-ass rules would give us the weakest possible candidate. A candidate who would then go up against the Republicans--who don't give a fat rat's ass about your prissy little rules--and get their butt kicked.

I'm sorry. There is nothing I have less respect for than the foolish notion that life is supposed to be fair. In politics, you win or you lose. There's no in between.

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You must have the greatest respect for "winner" G W Bush (and his great "all's fair" dirty-trickster Karl Rove). I think you're probably smart enough to see that Clinton was savaged throughout the campaign in a way that others were not. And she never played the gender card to get victim-hood sympathy from it (she only recognized it in her concession speech).

Yes, Obama's surrogates played the race card. The accusations of racism against the Clintons, Kerry, Cuomo and Ferraro were bogus. Calling Michelle Obama his "Baby Mamma" seems pretty racist to me. Claiming that MLK could not have achieved his civil rights successes without LBJ's politics- not so much. Race alone didn't win Obama the nomination anymore than sexist attacks alone lost it for Clinton. But the outcomes would probably be different if identity politics, smears and false allegations of smears were not invoked.

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I'll repeat my comment from the first thread which Theda deleted: this post reflects disunity as sustenance. Theda divides; that is what she has done throughout this campaign, and now it appears that she just cannot help herself.

Note the challenge people. It presumes zero genuineness in the white feminist community. How sad one progressive would impose this kind of litmus test on one of the most loyal segments of the progressive community over decades.

I say there is no place for the the Thedas of the world in what I understood the Obama campaign is supposed to be all about. To me, Theda is just another uncle/aunt who ranting in the attic. And this post is Exhibit A.

I oppose this on all women...Michelle Obama is not running for President. Let's get to the issues - there are more important things to be concerned about...which will effect our children's children.

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You're presuming that a group of people who you identify so broadly as to render your label meaningless are going to get as worked up over what happens to the wife of a candidate as they were over what happened to an actual candidate.

Why should they?

Also, what has Michelle Obama done to earn anyone's passionate loyalty. Granted the Republicans are jerks for attacking her but Republicans attack a lot of people. I get worked up over it sometimes and not others.

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"Also, what has Michelle Obama done to earn anyone's passionate loyalty."

I would ask the same question about Hillary Clinton.

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After 20 or 30 bitchy posts about process we get to the topic.

The current attacks on Michelle Obama are truly ugly. The "Obama baby Mamma" Faux Noise attack is a particularly vicious attack on the Obama marriage and traditional American family values. The attack (and it wasn't an accident) basically says all black men are irresponsible players and all black women are willing to give them a pass.

If we don't all stand up to the Republican slime machine and tell them to kiss off we have no business calling ourselves Democrats. If self-identified feminists don't lead the charge against the mighty Wurlitzer they should hang their heads in shame.

Will we? Will they? Most will, but some are so self-absorbed they only perceive slights to themselves and their buds. Geraldine Ferraro I am looking at you.

If we all stand up to protect the Obama family it will be a proud moment for all of us. If we don't shame on us.

The white feminist establishment will not come out en masse to protest Michelle Obama's treatment because they do not regard Michelle Obama as one of them. The do not regard Michelle Obama as one of them because she is black.

Thank you. Thank you very much.

(And by the way, I'm glad you guys on this site have finally figured out that Dijamo is not really black. This is the first step to putting his postings in proper perspective and then ignoring him. Good day.)

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Or maybe they don't regard Michelle Obama as that important.

Republicans will always launch unfair attacks on people. It's what they do. But we have to prioritize our responses.

Hmmm perhaps this weekend I'll update my avatar with me in my Hillary is my Homegirl! t-shirt.

http://www.cafepress.com/cp/moredetails.aspx?showBleed=false&ProductNo=163953794&colorNo=6&pr=F

Your refusal to accept that a black woman supports Hillary Clinton's campaign as passionately as many of you support Senator Obama is really quite sad. But it's time to come clear. Here's the picture of the real me:

http://www.hallmark.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/article%7C10001%7C10051%7C/HallmarkSite/Maxine/?landingPage=maxine&hostName=maxine.com

Oh I am sooooo looking forward to Keith Obamasman's special comment on sexism against Michelle Obama. The hypocrisy in the media is appalling. And you should note that daily reporting (which covers the majority of news coverage) is not commentary. It's the commentary part where the sexism has been rampant. Why not do a study on that? Because it doesn't paint a pretty picture of the media.

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But who cares? That's the point. Who the hell cares? If you gals want to get involved in politics, that's fine. But don't expect to be treated like little ladies at a tea party, because it ain't gonna happen. It's politics, baby. Play the game the way it's played or don't play at all. Nobody needs you.

The point is, you don't walk onto a football field or a basketball court and start laying out the new rules. You play the game the way it's played.

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So you are saying the white feminist establishment lack priniple and conviction. They are nothing but a bunch of self-absorbed half-baked chest pounding hacks. I hope you are wrong. Women, please God, prove him wrong.

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This post was supposed to be in reply to dragnets post upthread.

I want them to prove me wrong. I want to see a column from Gloria Steinem about the horrible treatment Michelle Obama has been and is being subjected to.

Somehow, I don't think this will happen though. Black women as a group have always been skeptical of the feminist movement at large, which is understandable. Many of the premier feminists were also ardent racists.

If Dijamo were really black then he would be able to discuss the justifiable and longstanding distrust that black women have toward institutional feminism. My guess is he'll dredge up an essay from somewhere, and repackage the ideas here in a post---all the while asserting to be a black woman. That's if he offers any post on this topic at all.


RonByers I hope I'm proven wrong too. Time will tell.

Ok Dijamo....

I gotta lay it out for you...

I love Diane Fienstein. I love Barbara Boxer. I love Gov. Sebelius. I love Claire McCaskill. I loved Barbara Mikulski. I voted for Carol Mosely Braun twice. I can name a dozen prominent women I would love to see as President.


And I think Hillary Clinton is a bitch. The way she mishandled healthcare in the 1990's, the way she mangled her campaign, the way she always thinks anyone not on her side is the enemy, the way she hung around the primary long after it was clear she couldn't win, the way she carpetbagged to New York and made huge promises she didn't keep, the way she whined and complained when she lost the nomination because of her OWN missteps.....


Ummmmmmmmm that makes me view her as a bitch. That doesn't make me sexist. That makes me able to view her behaviors and draw my own conclusions. If you, for one second, think Hillary lost for any reason other than her misrun campaign, you are not being realistic. If she had run an adequate campaign, she would have EASILY been the nominee. She and her team f*cked it up and now she and her supporters are pointing fingers for blame without looking in the mirror. Penn's interview made me gag yesterday. And I repeat again that 15 months ago I sat down with my parents to explain to them why I was voting for Hillary Clinton over their choice, John Edwards. As the campaign progressed...Hillary lost me. Interesting, all three of us voted for Barack Obama in the end.

I also think Bill Clinton has turned into an asshole. Does that make me a "manist"? I don't think all men are assholes. I also don't think all women are bitches. Just Bill and Hillary. Their belief that Hillary was somehow "owed" something turns my stomach.

I was trying to get along...but your continuously whiney posts about sexism are getting ridiculous.

Here's a clue. Identify what your particular issue is with her and address that. Don't use bitch as a shortcut because you are too lazy to get to what is really bothering you. Of course if gender is what is really bothering you, bitch is probably the right word to use.

I believe the counterpart of bitch is dick for the males. I could call David Axelrod a dick or I could call him an obnoxious arrogant windbag. Obnoxious arrogant windbag is more specific, gets my point across and avoids demeaning someone in gendered terms.

Feel free to spread this technique to others.

He didn't use bitch as a shortcut. He meticulously laid out the precise reasons he think Hillary Clinton is a bitch. And you addressed none of those reasons. You just accused him of being sexist in response.

Please address what he actually wrote.

There are plenty of politicians that have had policy failures. John McCain failed miserably on Immigration reform. Does that make him a bitch?

All the calls for Hillary to get out the way and the little lady to step aside and concede with grace when traditionally that is not how the cookie crumbles in primary campaigns is transparently sexist. There are politicians like Teddy Kennedy that did not concede until the convenetion and did not campaign or endorse his rival for the nomination. Was Teddy Kennedy a bitch? Was Jesse Jackson for that matter who won 30% opf the democratic primary and 14 states and did not concede until the convention precisely so he could have a seat at crafting the democratic party platform and ensuring the voters who voted for him had a seat at the democratic party table?

Obama's campaign was the one who played the race card and the media bought into it.

But let's take a step back and say if someone has legitimate policy disagreements with Obama is it ever okay to call him the N word or does that automatically make them a racist? Why is it acceptable to have a legitimate beef with Hillary and resort to bitch?

Please people get a clue. It's not just about Hillary but it is about the debasement of women in our politics, public sphere and in general. If you condone using gender based insults and sexism and misogny, you have no right to compalimn when those same insults are used against someone you do like or agree with.

The simple fact is that we use gendered terms of derision for everyone---not just chicks. It's a function of having gender at all. When I saw Hillary Clinton try to change the rules to have the delegates seated after agreeing to take away their convention right, I though to myself "What a bitch!" After seeing Bill Clinton's parade of oafishness and buffoonery I said to myself "What a dick!" Hillary is bitchy and Bill is definitely a dick, asshole, a cad and worse.

My issues aren't just on policy disagreements (being a liberal I don't disgree to strenuously with many of their policies) but ultimately with the character and temperment of the Clintons. When Bill Clinton cheated on his wife with dozens of women over the past 35 years, that makes him a dick and an asshole. When Hillary Clinton endured these serial humiliations without so much as peep in front of her only daughter and then led the charge to viciously attack and slime these women in the press when they came forward makes her every bit the bitch that Bill Clinton is a dick.

Do you think young women don't see this? Do you think they haven't been watching? Do you think they are blind? Hillary is no feminist role model which is why the overwhelming majority of young women don't view her as a role model and did not vote for her. I know several who think she is a bitch, for all of the reasons laid out in my particular paragraph.

Gender has little to do with it. It has more to do with the character, moral fiber and temperment of a person and the personal behavior. The Clintons have given us ample information to go on and the verdict is clear: they are dicks and bitches.

There will be those in the GOP who see Michelle Obama as a racist B because of her thesis in college. They will consider thiis a valid character and temperment "issue". They've already started making this argument AND YOU ARE PLAYING INTO IT. If you have issues with someone address the particular issues rather than smearing them personally. How do you say it's unfair to criticize Michelle Obama when you cantinue to attack Hillary in sexist terms? You have no moral authority. It is sad and disgusting that the democratic party has fallen into the same GOP smear tactics in their rush to villanize Hillary and Bill. I've lost much respect for those in my party who find this shit acceptable.

We have met the enemy and they are us. Or actually they are you. I don't engage in that GOP smear shit.

And Hillary Clinton lost any moral high ground or right to complain when she led the charge to publicly deride, smear and slime many of the dozens of women victimized by her husband. That's why young women don't like or consider her a feminist.

Wake up, Dijamo. Hillary Clinton has been using GOP slime tactics against women for decades now. You have no moral standing to complain about this until you acknowledge that basic fact.

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"Many of the dozens" of women? What is this? 1998 and your name is Ken Starr? Maybe Mike Savage? What a crock.

What color is the sky in your world? Do you often allow yourself to swallow GOP BS? No wonder you're so unpleasant and sound like a Repub.

If you must criticize the Clintons, do so honestly. Don't make up stuff to feed your bigotry.

Good grief! Sometimes TPM sounds like Freeper central. The ignorant bile is astounding.

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The N-word, as you delicately put it, is at its worst used to apply to any black person male or female. Like kike refers to any Jew.

Now, bitch can refer to all women, but it is more often used, in my humble opinion, to refer to a particular type of behavior, as dick is for men. Asshole can be either, obviously.

Two completely taboo words in public discourse, rough equivalents of the N-word, for men and women are cunt and cock-sucker, although the latter brings up homophobia, a whole 'nother kettle of fish.

And actually, I disagree that calling a woman a bitch on TV wouldn't get the speaker in big trouble.

God, I am so sick of identity politics!!

I posted two replies to Dijamo on Theda's piece before it disappeared. In this resurrected version, neither of my replies appears.
Why not? In both, although I disagreed with Dijamo's position, my responses were entirely civil, as follows:
Reply #1:
Actually, Dijamo, throughout this thread, it has been you who declared, peremptorily, the identity of she who is worthy of support and protection from misogyny (ie. HRC) and she who is not (MO).
I hate to say it, as I have admired other comments you've made, but this tactic is Rovian: accuse others of that which you are doing yourself.
Sorry, Dijamo, with all due respect: no sale on this one.
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Dijamo, it is your fundamental comparison that is flawed, in that Hillary was a candidate, as Obama was a candidate; therefore, Bill and Michelle were outside that relationship. We're having an apples to oranges problem here. The correct comparison, for what it's worth, would be to what extent was HRC treated misogynistally, versus to what extent was Obama subjected to veiled or overt racism. In other words, unwarranted attack, either way.

Theda, in answer to your original question, there are plenty of white women who will support Michelle. Several here, as noted.

Please note I never said Michelle Obama is not worthy of support and protection. I said our failure to speak up as a party with a vigorous defense of Hillary when she faced sexist attacks has reduced our standing to cry foul for Michelle Obama. You can't turn a blind weye one day and then come rallying to the cuase without people seeing right through your hypocrisy and calling you on it.

When Hillary was Bill Clinton's wife she went through the same crap Michelle Obama will go through because they are both strong intelligent women who seem not likely to bow down in the face of attacks. I wish Michelle Obama the best of luck and while I will not condone those attacks, I will speak up vociferously and expose the hypocrisy of those who think they determine which women should be respected and which should be thrown to the wolves.

We all rely on those who came before us to pave the way and Hilalry paved teh way for what Michelle Obama will be piut through. Of course Hillary became a polarizing bitch because she refused to back down. Perhaps Michelle Obama will find a way to make it through the misogynistic attacks unscathed. But please note those Obama supporters who were silent in the face of sexism against Hillary Clinton have made it harder for us to confront those attacks on Michelle when they happen.

And that's what happens when you rely on situational ethics - destroy Hillary by any means necessary even if it means violating that code of respect for all people that Democrats used to stand for.

Once you head down that road, it's pretty hard to turn back and the people you left behind and told you the party was losing its way will be mighty pissed. Don't expect a welcome home party for Michelle Obama's defenders (who are not feminists and are defending her honor rather than demanding respect for all women) from the feminists who have been smeared and demonized and radicalized and called racist simply for expecting that the first female with a serious chance of winning the presidency should have had more support in the face of the sexist and misogynistic attacks upon her.

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What is it about Michelle Obama that makes you think she requires YOU to cry foul for her? Is it the fact that she's a woman? Because if that's what this is about, you should have a closer look at your own hypocritical attitudes about women. Michelle Obama can take care of herself.

When Hillary was Bill Clinton's wife she went through the same crap Michelle Obama will go through because they are both strong intelligent women who seem not likely to bow down in the face of attacks.

She's still Bill Clinton's wife as far as I know. And she certainly DID bow down in the face of attacks. Did Hillary ever directly confront a single one of the people who made these comments? No, she did not. Because it was far more valuable to her as a candidate to let the comments go unchallenged so she could use "sexism" as a way to radicalize and polarize the election.

An dit should be noted the only time Hillary's campaign brought up the rampant sexism is when they attacked Chelsea and said she was being pimped out. I don't know where you are getting this media outrage over the sexist attacks on Hillary. They passed by without so much as a comment and Hillary's supporters got more and more pissed at the double standard on race and gender. By the way, when did Obama himself bring up the HELP EVERYONE I'M BEING ATTACKED BY RACISTS? He didn't he had his campaign surrogates go out and gather up righteous indignation even where none was deserved. See LBJ, fairytale, nelson mandela, jesse jackson and so on and so on and so on. Where's the criticism of Obama for not standing up for himself. Some intellectual honesty would be nice.

wait, nelson mandela is barack obama's surrogate now??!?!!?

jesus christ. as if we needed more proof you've lost it.

all those black people---they just stick together now don't they?

Actually in that memo exposing how the Clintons were using the race card they quoted Bill as saying he'd worked with many world leaders Yitzhak Rabin, Nelson Mandela etc and there's no one he would trust more to lead this country than Hillary. The Obama campaign then interpreted as a racist slight to diminish Nelson Mandela (and erased Yitzhak Rabin from the quote to make it seem as Bill just siad Hillary is better than Mandela). I kid you not - it's in the actual memo. Remind me again how the Obama campaign didn't play the imaginary race card at every opportunity. When did Hillary's campaign pull some crap like that?

Love that new politics.

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I didn't see the word racism used in the memo at all.

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But they WERE pimping her out. That was not, in any way, a sexist comment. Tastelessly stated, but right on the money.

Once again your logic is flawed....

She should have gotten out of the way because the math showed it was impossible for her to capture the nomination. No one called for Huckabee to step aside because he was running a rosey-sunshine love fest and refused to say anything bad against McCain. Hillary, on the other hand threw nasty garbage long after it was obvious she could not win the nomination. She attempted to damage the presumptive nominee of the democratic party and damage the chances for democrats in the fall. THAT is why people called for her to step aside....not because she was a woman.

She's a bitch. Get over it. Own it. Embrace it. The press pussy-footed around her for so logn BECAUSE she was a woman. Do you think anyone would have tolerated her disgusting "show" on the final night of primaries if she wasn't a woman? Would a man's campaign have issued a statement "oh we just need time". Bullshit. A man would have been expected to concede on Tuesday and recognize the historic context of Obama's victory.

There's another..... her tacky speech the final night of the primaries was EXTREMELY bitchy. Oh wait....saying that McCain had reached the CIC threshold but Obama hadn't was bitchy too. If you behave in a bitchy fashion...that makes you a what? A bitch.

And don't tell me her attacks on Obama weren't damaging. I saw the Republican press realease yesterday detailing Obama's social security plans using Hillary's words against him.

She's a bitch. Karl Rove is prick. Mark Penn is an asshole. See? All of these words apply because of the behaviors of these people.

It's not sexism. Hillary can't be a dick....as she doesn't have one. She also can't be a penis model, or a male gay porn star. She can, however, be a bitch. And she is.

And yet you didn't address Teddy Kennedy or Jesse Jackson who took it to the convention. But my logic is flawed. Take a look back at the Teddy Kennedy campaign my friend. He was being unhelpful to Carter even AFTER the convention. No one called Teddy a bitch.

You can make all the excuses you want but I should hope you do not ATTEMPT to defend Michelle Obama. It just exposes you as a hypocrtie and those who genuinely have the right to yell foul on sexism will have their voices diminished because of people like you who morph your argument on what is acceptable according to whether or not you liek the person. Unbelievable.

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No one called Teddy a bitch.

Are you quite sure about that?

http://mariestwocents.blogspot.com/2006/01/ted-kennedy-is-bitch.html

Maybe he should spend the rest of his life whining about it.

You proved my point. Republicans do that shit not democrats. Who are we as a party anymore that this shit is acceptable and people are still defending it even after the primary is over?

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Politicians--Republican AND Democrat--have been heaping scorn and venom on each other since the first two cavemen whacked each other the heads with clubs. Now that women have decided to play, I suppose we'll all have to start minding our manners. Shame. I'll miss the bare-knuckles brawling.

Let's hope to God the NFL never lets women play pro football. I'd hate to see tackling outlawed because it's too mean and uncivilized. Women can be such a bunch of fucking prissy Girl Scouts sometimes.

Fzirst of all, Ted kennedy was an asshole in 1980 and should have graciously stepped aside. It is one of the reasons Carter lost so badly. Kennedy was a poor loser and a dick in 1980. The democrats did not want a repeat of that nightmare....and they would have stepped in if Clinton had been a man OR a woman.

Second of all, I can defend Michelle Obama all I want. For I have not seen a single behavior of Michelle's that could be described as bitchy. One must act bitchy to be a bitch. Hillary Clinton has, on many instances, acted in a bitchy manner. I have cited them before. What is someone who bahaves in a bitchy manner? A bitch.

Unbelievable? What is unbelievable is anyone whom says Hillary lost for any reason other than the fact she ran the shittiest campaign a major contender has run in American history. She should have won. She could have won. But she and her team made tactical mistake after tactical mistake and practically begged for another contender to step in and take the nimination. That is NOT about sexism. That is about the failure of a campaign. If you continue to point the finger of gender bias...you're going to force people to draw some conclusions you might not like. Perhaps the problem is that because Hillary was a woman, she was at a disadvantage from the start. Women are over emotional, indecisive, and unable to keep focus. I can see certain people using those adjectives to describe the failed Clinton campaign. If you want to point the finger about gender and sexism someone might point back.

Do I think she lost because of those reasons? hell no. She was a candidate, just like any other candidate. She made some terrible decisions and blew her clear advantage.

By screaming sexism and pointing fingers, you do nothing but diminish her accomplishments. In fact you strip away any dignity she has. Hillary Clinton was a candidate who wanted to be treated like any other candidate....and she was. Crying sexism is a farce and makes you look like a poor loser.


It wasn't sexism. It was a flawed campaign that was marked with terrible strategic errors.

Can you admit that? can you actually face the reality that it is no one's fault but Hillary's that she is not the nominee today?

Until you do, your posts come off as some sort of sad fairy tale. "She was robbed! She was mistreated!" I call bullshit.

Obama played the race card? Hahahahahahahahahah

What do you think Bill Clinton meant when he said " Well, Jesse Jackson won SC in 84 and 88."?

Hahahahahahaha

Are you even trying to claim that Bill wasn;t trying to marginalize Obama's victory because he was a black man and SC is a black state? Is THAT your defense? Hahahahahahahhahahah

And for that matter...i don't recall seeing anyone FORCE Bill into making such an inappropriate comment.

You are not appearing credible when you make such ridiculous claims.

He meant Jesse Jackson won the state in '84 & '88. That's a fact. Jesse jackson is not some marginal insignificant figure. he won 30% of the dem primary vote and 14 states - came in second place. Respectable. It is disrespectful to say comparing Obama to Jesse Jackson is racist. The next female real contender will be compared to Hillary. The next black contender will be compared to Obama and Jackson. It's called history. Did he say Obama can only win black states? Of course not - Obama had already proven his broad appeal in Iowa. That said his overwhelming victory in SC was due to the fact blacks made up 50% of the democratic primary voter and the Obama campaign amde a concerted effort to raise racial tensions and find racial slights however imaginary they might have been.

Now I am going to take a deep breath and end my part in this dialogue because the truth is I want to see a Democrat in the White House in November. It is not helpful to rehash who was worse to whom. But the refusal of the democratic party to come to terms with why feminists are so angry may just prevent that from happening. Reconciliation is NOT a one way street. Both parts need to come together and where I will not reconcile is with this bullshit that we need to ignore how Hillary was treated and rise to Michelle Obama's defense from the very people who engaged in sexist attacks on Senator Clinton. Not helpful. Many of you have argued politics is not bean bag and Hillary should just deal with it. I am sure in the interests of concistency you will give Michelle Obama teh same advice and not expect this mass feminist support protecting her honor which was implied by the original post and if that doesn't happen then feminists are racists. Bullshit. You reap what you sow and if you are silent to sexism against one person you can't very well say stop being sexist to someone you support.

Michelle Obama is a strong woman and will pereservere much as Hillary did. But those hypocrites who have the nerve to call for a defense of Michelle Obama are just beyond the pale and I will not hesitate to point out their lack of moral grounds for their newfound girl power.

Dijamo, I'm glad to see you end your silly jihad. I will end by saying this: that Hillary Clinton lost the right to evoke the specter of woman-bashing when she led the charge to destroy, deride and demonise the women who came forward after being victimized by her cad of a husband. Until she---and her supporters---come clean about her repellent actions in those instances, then no appeal from them concerning sexism will have any meaning whatsoever. Hillary Clinton has been using GOP smear techniques against women decades and you continue to attempt to ignore this. Your silence of this single point speaks volumes.

As someone who has a muslim name, I declare your calling this a jihad as an ethnic slur. Barack would be so ashamed of you.

I don't address the affairs because I don't give a crap about whom Bill Clinton slept with or why Hillary stayed with him. I care and vote on policies not who had the most fidelity to their wife. I cerainly don't criticize Jackie Kennedy or think JFK was a worse president because of his indiscretions. It is a non-issue for me and I think people who consider that as a real factor for their votes are puritarian lunatics. Personally I care more about the economy and people rising out of poverty much more than what was rising in Bill's pants. But that's just me.

And Hillary did not attack the women Bill Clinton had affairs with. You are creating this in your conspiratorial mind. But if you have evidence of her calling them bitch this or ho that please feel free to share with the class.

Oh dear sweet Dijamo. You see dear, the problem with pressing people to produce evidence they supposedly don't have is that when then produce it you may very well find yourself hoisted by your own petard...

You can read all about Hillary's shenanigans in "No One Left to Lie To" by Christopher Hitchens (a notable Clinton hater, yes it's true). His extensively researched and sourced book has never been rebutted by anyone---because it's 100 percent factual. Hillary did her best to intensify and dissmenate terrible slander concerning the sexual victims of her husband. I've been casting about trying to find a good excerpt online, but I haven't yet. I'll be sure to post if I find one to save you the trouble of all that reading. I will be sure to post what I find so be sure to bookmark this thread.

All for now.


(PS, Hillary is bitchy.)

"But those hypocrites who have the nerve to call for a defense of Michelle Obama are just beyond the pale and I will not hesitate to point out their lack of moral grounds for their newfound girl power."

If Michelle Obama gets falsely smeared in a dual-pronged sexist and racist attack on Obama, would you really first look to see if her husband's partisans, EVERY GODDAMN ONE OF THEM, WHETHER HE "CONTROLS" THEM OR NOT, has a gender-equality pedigree approved by HRC's supporters before reacting?

Your judgment, at least, if not your soul, has become hopelessly bureaucratized by identity politics. You should hesitate if hesitation gives you a chance to think about what you're saying.

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Look, Bill Clinton is one of the smartest politicians alive. It was in his and her interest to marginalize Obama as a niche candidate -- black in this case -- rather than the candidate of universal appeal. Remember, sweetie, that before Iowa, Obama was seen by many as a post-racial, non-black, non-white candidate who was criticized as not being black enough. Black voters at that point were saying they supported HRC largely. He wins Iowa and suddenly, everyone is in love and the fabled Clinton hold on black voters is slipping. Okay. The Clinton campaign has burst the bubble. It makes sense to marginalize him and what better way but to compare him to Jackson, who though he did very well in his runs, was running to present issues, not be actually win the presidency. Any anyone who thinks differently is not being honest with themselves. So Clinton tries to make Obama a peripheral, issue-type candidate, who's not really in the running for actual president. That is why his remark was offensive, not to mention clever and politic and crossing, in my view, the "ick" line.

I believe that it was these defensive moves, good ones, by the way, that began the process of polarization of this primary season into black-white, male-female that we now have. On balance, I blame the Clintons for this poisonous atmosphere which has triggered deep and semi-conscious reactions that this brand of politics depends upon. Viz the Republican style since 1968. It is the loss of the ability to see shades of gray that this style depends upon. Also required in warfare. If you like your politics as all-out war, as many do, well, have at it.

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Correction: The Clinton campaign has TO burst the bubble. Sorry.

Between Dijamo and Aimey May I don't know who's worse. They should each be given a Geraldine Ferraro award.

I did not hear the one thing that would add credibility to your arguments....

"Hillary Clinton lost the Democratic Nomaination because of her own mistakes and the tactical erros of her campaign team."

I am still waiting.

Feminists also believe in accepting responsiblity for their own mistakes.


And I saw Bill's statement on SC...it was VERY CLEAR to me what he was trying to say.

I have said many many times Hillary did not lose because of sexism, but it played a role in this campaign that was ignored by the democratic party until they noted feminists were PISSED. The democratic party's silence in the face of the sexism she faced makes it harder for the next woman to run. It makes it harder to confront against Michelle Obama.

Who's the one who was so shortsighted? You think it's all about Hillary but it is not and because you don't like Hillary, it's okay to use sexist and misogynistic attacks against her. Guess what? reoublicans don't like Michelle Obama and they'll do the same shit to her as you have doen to Hillary. It gives us less moral grounds to clobber the GOP for using sexist attacks when actual democrats were doing the same crap. Thanks for your role in making these types of attacks not just acceptable for Republicans but also for democrats.

Hillary Clinton's concentrated campaign to deride, humiliate, and public degrade the women victimized by her caddish husband---and the subsequent deafening silence of her cult of personality---make it difficult for us in this thread, and many others, to take her complaints of sexism seriously.

You have me so pissed off by your short-sightedness....I can barely type!

dijamo,

It truly is not helpful for you to continue telling folks -- Democrats -- that they have "no moral authority." So, the entire DNC has "no moral authority"? Since YOU think Democrats didn't speak out against the sexism you saw, now we have no right to speak out against sexism? C'mon your generalizations and accusations are a bit over the top. I guess you're the only around here who has "moral authority."

I saw sexism, racism, xenophobia, classism and religious bigotry throughout this campaign. Now we're seeing agesim--your "jazzy" blog is a good example of that. (Oh, McCain's a Republican so it's okay to be ageistic?) From my perspective, no one in the DNC spoke out on behalf of either candidate when they were being pummeled. Their surrogates at various times attempted to defend and explain, but my sense was that both candidates were left to their own devices and although it bothered me at first, in retrospect I think it made sense to allow the candidates to show their mettle and watch how they handled certain lines of attack.

The only other thing I would add is that for people like me, who never wanted Hillary to run to begin with because I had problems with the Clintons (for lots of reason) it's been very challenging to tease out what negativity has been directed toward Hillary because she is a woman and what has been about her as a Clinton.

On another thread about sexism, I wondered out loud whether something was wrong with me that as a woman--a progressive, conscious woman who has actually done anti-sexism work, I was having a hard time seeing the onslaught of sexism toward Hillary, especially the level of it that allegedly caused her to lose the primary. Considering she was the front runner for 7 years and considering that the media told other Democratic candidates to not even try to beat her because she was a shoe-in, it's hard to see how it was sexism that prevented her coronation.

I certainly can acknowledge the sexism in the media and some derogatory gendered language used on blogs to describe her, but I still contend that it wasn't any worse then the derogatory racist language that was used to describe Obama. I do think that racist language can be more subtle and harder to discern but it was there and remains there.

What I find really problematic about all this is that some women are really leading with this charge of sexism to explain Hillary's loss which subverts the other, perhaps more potent reasons that cost her the primary. It's one thing to say sexism exists, but to suggest that there aren't other legitimate reasons undermines our ability for a full analysis. If we want another woman to run for the presidency, we should examine ALL the reasons equally instead of emphasizing one while ignoring the others. It seems self-defeating to me.

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One last point.

If white feminists or black feminists or white non-feminists or brown semi-feminists or any color or combination of the above care to fight sexism or racism or ageism or whateverism in the media, they should most definitely do so. Whatever you believe is right. But please, let's not make this about Hillary, alright? She got her money's worth. She said herself that the nasty part of campaigning was the "fun part." So let's stow the temporary situationally-righteous indignation and deal with reality, OK? The media has been completely egalitarian in their stupidity and bias. No one's getting a raw deal, and no one is getting an unfair break. The media's contempt for us and for our intelligence knows no bias. They hate us all.

So when you're out there fighting for justice, don't forget to fight for fair treatment for obese people and guys who are going bald and kids with thick glasses and bad golfers and women with bad fashion sense and people who are lousy parents and people who drink beer and live in trailers and Italians and Latinos and gays and lesbians and penny pinchers and the filthy rich and on and on and on. Because they all get picked on, and it's all just so unfair that it makes me want to cry sometimes. So fight for them all. And when you've finally defeated your last whateverist, sit back, turn off your television, and cancel your subscription to the newspaper, secure in the knowledge that at that point the media will be so bland, sanitized and fucking boring that there will no longer be any reason to pay attention.

Thank you for your kind indulgence. Carry on...

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Great post/writing!

Is it okay to gush at TPM. I know that it's okay by Andrew Sullivan.

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Oops, one last comment for dijamo (because she's such a trooper):

The goal of a nominating contest is to find the best possible candidate. The one who is tough enough, smart enough and talented enough to stand up to the filthy Republican attack machine. It's not about being fair or nice or decent or anything of the sort. It's about battering the hell out of each other, knowing that whatever you do to each other, the Republicans will come up with worse. This nominating season, the weakest candidate lost and the strongest candidate won, and that is precisely what was supposed to happen.

The fact that Hillary whined during much of the contest--about sexism, about being asked the first question, about being out-spent (as if that was somehow Obama's fault)--is one of the reasons she lost. And it's one of the reasons she deserved to lose.

Obama was so great because he was beating the candidate with so much more money, and then he was so great because he was almost beating her outspending her 3:1. You see, Obama's great.

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I agree. Obama is great.

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This thread is a mess. People are all over the place. I will comment regarding Michelle Obama. I am a Senior feminist who voted in the California primary for Hillary and lived to regret my vote. Her campaign was scurrilous in my opinion, and the Bosnia lie and the racial comments along with some of the jerks that ran her campaign, changed my mind and I began to look at Obama more carefully. I always liked Michelle because to me she appears to be a strong person who has her own mind, and has a good sense of humor. I liked her right away. It is clear that she is getting the short end of the stick with those people who have a problem hearing things like the truth. Laura Bush defending her was interesting and good. People with racial bias are clearly going after her. People like George Will are real jerks, commenting all the time about their problems with her. That is hurtful and so unnecessary. She is not running for anything and should be off limits. Cindy McCain is much more questionable in her character, but Democrats tend not to shred individuals like Republicans do. Michelle Obama is going to be a great first lady and people in this country are going to be learning alot about what African Americans go through on a daily basis. I am sure the Obamas will transcend the nonsense, and Michelle deserves to be a well treated first lady considering the fact that she rarely sees her husband; she knows what a wonderful president he will be. In the end, we really owe a lot to her.

Here's the core questions that no one has attempted to answer:

If someone has legitimate policy disagreements with Obama is it ever okay to call him the N word or does that automatically make them a racist?

Why is it considered acceptable to have a legitimate beef with Hillary and resort to calling her a bitch?

Anyone who called Obama an n word on national TV would have been fired immediately and publicly vilified. You call a woman a bitch and it's no big deal just politics as usual.

Why is it acceptable for people in the media, the GOP smear machine and now some democrats to use gender demeaning terms while it is wholly unacceptable to use racial derogotaory terms?

And after you're done justifying why gendered attacks are not as worthy of outrage as racial attacks, come back and tell me again why feminists don't have a right to be pissed at what was done to Hillary Clinton and that now that the sexism target is becoming Michelle Obama, now the democratic party wants them muster up whatever outrage is left in defense of Michelle Obama who was at the very best interpretation silent to sexism that her husband's opponent faced.

Injustice anywhere is a threat to justice everywhere. Martin Luther King Jr., Letter from Birmingham Jail

Here's the core questions that no one has attempted to answer:

If Hillary was so easily knocked out of a democratic primary by sexism from democrats and left-leaning pundits, just how badly would she have lost the GE facing the even more unabashed sexism from the right? How would she have fared as president with the even-harsher sexism that exists in other countries? And why DID she choose to have men run her campaign and make all the major decisions? And when times got tough, why DID she throw the women under the bus like PS Doyle?

I'd say that if Hillary can't stand the heat she should get out of the kitchen - but I'm sure you'd howl about the deafening silence coming from the Obama campaign in response to such a sexist comment by me.

Your endless poo-pooing of the Clintons' purposeful and tactical racism is pretty disturbing. After all, it was Martin Luther King jr who once wrote, "Injustice anywhere is a threat to justice everywhere."

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Well, one reason for the throwing under the bus is that's what the Clintons do. Via Lonnie Guiniere (sp).

Oh God, how about we dedicate a month to Leonard Peltier and Waco while we're at it. Whatever it was, the Clintons did it.

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Not that there's anything wrong with throwing people under the bus.

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dijamo, did Hillary go after Alex Castellanos when he called her a bitch? When Glenn Beck did it? When Penn Jillette did it? Did she? No, she didn't. Because she wanted them to call her a bitch. She needed them to call her a bitch.

Playing the bitch card is called campaign strategy. Sheesh, don't be so damn naive.

Has Michelle Obama personally gone after the Baby Mama comment? Nope. Because she wants to feed the outrage and rally the feminist flag around ignoring the fact that the Obama campaign and democrats in general were silent about the demeaning sexist attacks against Hillary. If Hillary had complained, she'd be whining and moaning about sexism and she's not oenough for politics. If Hillary stays silent, she wants other people to whine and moan for he and she's not tough enough for politics. In your screwy world Rabbit Kitty, no matter what Hillary does she's wrong so women should just stay out of politics altogether or should just shut up and play by the rules that favor the patriarchical world that currently exists. I should hope you don't have daughters if that's your message to them - accept the effed up reality rather than trying to change it.

By the way, this grand master plan f senator clinton's to generate widespread outrage against the media never happened. Those who did speak out about the sexism she faced are ignored as fringe lunatics or flaming feminists even within the democratic party that used to stand for respecting all people. Howard Dean found out about the horros of sexism in the media during the campaign at the RBC committee meeting because he doesn't watch cable news. Or because Hillary's campaign had efefctively ended - you be the judge. The actual problem of sexism is just starting to get the attention it deserved when Hillary is no longer a candidate and I hope people and especially democrats in time will be able to look at what happened dispassioantely and say is this what a female presidential candidate should expect?

But of course that's a question for another day. Let's continue rallying the feminist flag around Michelle Obama now that teh democratic party has realized especting women is good again.

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Has Michelle Obama personally gone after the Baby Mama comment?

Nope. And she probably won't. And she won't play the sexism or the racism card either. Your candidate was a pimp. Michelle Obama is a class act.

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Rather than fight and use more problematic slurs among ourselves, it would be useful to look at the effects of sexist and racist media dog-whistling.

Yes, it's disrespectful to all women when the word "bitch" is publicly used to discuss HRC. This usage is not analogous to calling a man "asshole" or "dick." For one thing, these would not be allowed in mainstream network discourse. "Bitch" is technically allowed for the same reason it's so offensive: it's a term referring to animals. In fact, both "bitch" and "Obama's baby mama" are offensive because they reduce women to biological, animalistic functions.

The "baby mama" comment combines racism and sexism in an ugly new way. It's a kind of throwback to the days when racial stereotypes were commonly acceptable. When such terms are given free reign in the media, the intent is to diminish respect for the minority group. The Obama/Osama "mistake" was another rhetorical strategy designed to diminish and re-brand a public minority figure.

We'll see a lot of interesting new variations of old slurs in the next few months, and it doesn't matter how well we responded before. I was please to see that Fox news had to back down on "Obama baby mama" so quickly. Let's keep up the good work!

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Since white feminists have already stood up for her more than once, this seems like you are trying to create controversy where there is none. But since nothing gets women approval faster than attacking feminists, have at it. All the boys will love you.

Even some of the girls.

I'm amazed at the number of posts dedicated to answering a bitter poster obsessed with giving everyone here voter's remorse. If this person wants to be the online version of Maggie Williams, let her. Her side lost, and the recalcitrant on that side will always lament that loss with the same class (or lack thereof) as their idol. To paraphrase Malcolm Shabazz, chickens coming home to roost never make me sad, in fact, they do make me kind of glad.

Yes, we'll defend Michelle with that same steadfast concern that you show:

"we have been hearing from feminists that Michelle Obama was badly treated during the campaign. Some arguments are overblown -- sexism is not why she's being attacked -- but it has been valuable to raise the issues".

See? There you go, we all stand together.

Do they care about fairness to all women involved in public life, or are they just whining for Hillary or maneuvering for her voters?

Do you really expect us to take you seriously?

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Quoting Christopher Hitchens is pretty Lame, too. You'd think people would have a bit more sense.

Doubtful. She's been attacked all along and none of the players who complained about Sen. Clinton's treatment said anything. Prominent second wave feminists, in large part, ignored women of color to the point that women of color said fuck you and started their own shit. Don't expect second wavers to change now.

So far I haven't seen white feminists stand up to defend Michelle Obama in any kind of forceful way, and sadly this doesn't not surprise me. During the primary campaign I didn't see any feminists stand up to the racism being used against Obama, often by the Clintons themselves, and in fact I saw many diehard Clinton supporters, including many self-proclaimed feminists, use racially divisive comments themselves. Clearly there's a great deal of racism among the feminist movement, just as there is in all other parts of our society. Sad, but true.

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The dimension to the attacks on Michelle Obama includes racism, not just feminism. It might surprise a lot of people but a lot of white feminists are ALSO racists, take Ferraro and her comments that Obama got ahead because of his race, not because of his strength as a candidate. I came across a great article about this dichotomy but can't for the world of me remember who wrote it and where.

I really don't think Geraldine's a racist. I think she's just turned into the elderly aunt who shows up for Christmas dinner and embarasses everyone by giving voice to every impulse that passes through her brain. She's kind of sad and nonsensical.

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What irks me particularly about Ferraro is that her criticism of Obama isn't even about sexism, but about his benefitting from some form of affirmative action - "country got caught up in the concept". It was incredulous for me that feminists like Gloria Steinem did not speak up against this blatant racism from one of their own.

Following Dijamo's logic, since no feminists spoke against racism targeted at Obama, the next time another feminist is attacked, she should not expect anyone to come to her defense.

Is that even sound logic???

Psst Naomi Wolf is a white feminist supporting Obama. Camille Paglia is a white feminist supporting Obama.

And there was no blatant racism in this campaign period. Talking directtly about race does not make you racist. The campaign is over now. Can you at least have the decency to acknowledge that Hilalry and Bill are not the grand wizards of the Klan?

What planet do you live on?

And please stay tuned for the GOP attack to find out what real racism is. They will be racist like that Harold Ford commerical with the white woman telling Harold to call her and John McCain's illegitimate black baby and Obama's Baby Mama.

And please stay tuned for the GOP attack to find out what real racism is. They will be racist like that Harold Ford commerical with the white woman telling Harold to call her and John McCain's illegitimate black baby and Obama's Baby Mama.

Interesting question. As an Obama supporter, I've been sincerely impressed with the number and conviction of Clinton supporters now coming out for him. I hope we all do our best to combat the trash that will be coming in the month's ahead.

Someone over at the Huffington Post had a great idea. Everytime Fox makes a derogatory comment about the Obamas, we should donate to the Obama campaign and advise Fox that we've donated because of them. Only problem is that this requires watching Fox.


Dijamo is way off base here.

Though I will concede there were sexist remarks made by some members of the media, sexism did not permeate the race nor did it negatively impact HRC. Because of that, why the outrage? It had no discernible effect other than help HRC.

When you look at the exit polling, when gender was considered by voters, HRC won the demographic. On the other hand, when race was a consideration, HRC also won. Gender was a plus for HRC while racism negatively affected Obama's chances.

I think HRC used race in subtle ways, but she is not a racist. I gave Bill a pass for the fairytale comment as it was misconstrued. I do not give HRC a pass for the LBJ comment. What was the point of the comment? I do not give Bill a pass for the Jesse comment. Why would he even bring that up? All he had to say was "Hey, we lost. He ran a good campaign." When she blew him out in WV, BO did not make any comparisons to white candidates having a good track record in WV. He congratulated her and left it alone. When asked specifically whether the "bubba" vote just didnt want to vote for a black man, he said that HRC ran a good campaign and was better known.

My rule of thumb is whenever the Clintons make a superfluous comment, you know there was a sinister reason for it. They are the consummate politicians not trailblazing feminists.

A real feminist would not have appealed so blatantly to her gender to garner votes in the last contests. A real feminist would not have whined about sexism and how it was impeding her chances. Remember the South Dakota interview where she was saying that she found it "curious" why everyone wanted her out. She is a politician and was playing the game, not bemoaning sexism. That's why I think HRC supporters were hoodwinked into thinking she is Susan B. Anthony or something.

I liked her initial strategy where she was post-gender. Of course, she got desperate and abandoned it for "this is for all the little girls out there" and "women who always had to play second fiddle." And, of course, Bill's constant imagery of HRC being "beat up on" and treated "disrespectfully." I thought it made her less credible as a leader of men AND women.

It's a lame attempt because we do not have to be reminded of the obvious fact that she is a woman. BO did not pontificate about the historic nature of his campaign. It's already obvious. It was the job of the media to push those storylines, not the candidates themselves. I would have been higly disappointed if BO started having "Blacks for Barack" events the same way HRC had women-only rallies.


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lol, she can't win. There's another poster today complaining that she didn't run as a woman.

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Joan Walsh - a Clinton supporting white feminist - voiced her outrage over the baby mama chyron @ Salon.com.

The National Organization of Women had this to say: "And we've already started compiling the General Election Edition of the Hall of Shame, which will include attacks on women candidates and women voters, and of course, Michelle Obama."

Ms. Magazine: Sexist coverage of the election did not end when Senate Hillary Clinton (D-NY) suspended her campaign. Earlier this week, Fox News ran a blatantly sexist and racist graphic referring to Michelle Obama as Senator Obama's "Baby Mama."

The Women's Media Center recently launched a joint campaign with Media Matters called "Sexism Sells, But We're Not Buying It.". What About Our Daughters also recently launched a website Michelle Obama Watch to follow Michelle Obama throughout the campaign. http://michelleobamawatch.com/


But sure, go ahead and pretend white feminists are ignoring the sexism against Michelle Obama the way Obama supporters ignored the sexism against Clinton. Go ahead and slander the feminist movement and accuse them of ignoring this rather than actually going to NOW or Ms. or actually taking 2 minutes to check something before libeling white feminists. But, then, if you actually checked the facts, you might have been a Clinton supporter....


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