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We've had discussions here at TPMCafe of what we should or shouldn't consider acceptable behavior in commenting. We're about to post an official set of guidelines.

But I wanted to post it here as well to get comments from readers, thoughts, etc. It's not written in stone. We can and probably will make changes over time.

TPMCafe and the TPM Media network follow a simple set of rules for acceptable commenting. 1. All political viewpoints are welcome. However, hate speech of any kind, libelous statements or threats to fellow users or others will be deleted and may be grounds for suspending or terminating a users account. 2. Four letter words are not banned, but we ask that they be used sparingly as overuse coarsens and undermines the debate. 3. TPMCafe is a venue for lively and passionate debate. But insults, personal attacks and the like make that sort of enlivening exchange impossible. If you just want to scream and taunt, please go somewhere else. If you have any question about what is and what's not acceptable, follow this rule: If you wouldn't use a certain word or talk to someone a certain way in a real-life political discussion at a Coffee House, don't do it here either.

Share your thoughts in the comments section.


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Geez, dad.

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too paternalistic? ;-)

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Well, you DO look pretty dad-like in your picture.

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Hey, not that there's anything wrong with that.

Again I appauld.

No. just jerking your chain. We can all do with a little kick in the pants every once in a while.

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Works for me. At least as long as you are serious about banning people.

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We are, though we'll also need readers help reporting what they believe are violations. In the not too distant future we're going to add a report/alert button for people to flag violators. To be clear, this won't be for stuff people disagree with or stuff that's stupid, but for bright line violators, stuff that readers will probably see before we do and which we need to get on.

I'm sure Rep. Geoff Davis would agree with me that a red button is a bad idea. We can't trust all these kids with that kind of responsibility.

I'm sure Rep. Geoff Davis would agree with me that a red button is a bad idea. We can't trust all these kids with that kind of responsibility.

I'd like to report this poster for spamming. Where's my red button!

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You mean you don't have one?

;D

No, no red button yet. We need it. I also want to report him for using the same avatar as me.

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Is calling MJ a Hamas supporter an insult or personal attack even though MJ has never advocated for Hamas? Where will that line be drawn?

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Nice. They're rules written by somebody who didn't want to write rules and those tend to be the best rules.

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These agreements go towards EC and MR, as well? Assuming so, but you only mentioned the Cafe in #3.

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Yes, this applies across the network. See intro to the rules.

Under Rule #3: Can you exempt Greg Sargent so both sides can continue to taunt him mercilessly when he doesn't "report" our preferred biases?


Regrets,G.,

I am heading to Hillary's Indiana bar and have a beer and a shot (or several) with the guys there and toast Obama.

Cheers.

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You might want to look at this:

http://www.cspan.org/community/etiquette.asp

It covers a few things you don't, but which you may want to consider.

I like that it's concise and friendly, though.

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I mean your remarks are concise and friendly. It wouldn't do to get too wordy.

Most of the serious junk will end with the Primary season. Though with a report/complain button your going to need someone full time to sort out the details.

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if it ends up that way, it won't have worked because what we're talking about is when someone posts a racist rant or says something that appears libelous. if it devolves into stuff people just don't like, that won't work.

Just imagining something like the Simpsons episode when they were going in for family counciling and given the ability shock each other. LOL.....There will be a lot of button hitting in this group.......

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that's definitely possible. and because of that it may not be workable. what we need is a way for readers to notify when something has been posted that needs to be taken down immediately, etc., but without getting pinged every time there's something they really disagree with. in practice that may be hard to do for the reasons you say.

A recent post by M.J. Rosenberg was virtually shut down by an abusive, threatening repeat commenter. Unfortunately, withdrawal of abusers' commenting and reader-blogging privileges is essential to keep the TPM site vital and welcoming. Go for it.
I'd even back publication of an occasional List of Shame, detailing specifically why people had their accounts axed. Object lesson to others!
While we're talking about internal operations, there was a very well written reader blog yesterday called "Something Rotten in Denmark" by Deanie Mills.
I recommended it, and came back today to see whether it had made the Recommended Posts list. It hadn't, and had fallen off Recent Posts as well. After a search, I found it.
This post had been recommended more than 100 times, Josh. Is there some reason such a well-recommended post wouldn't make the cut?
If it's because of some technical glitch, I trust you will make some serious effort to correct it.

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Recommended Reader Posts are only available for 24 hours after publication date. After that, they drop from the list. Keeps the list evolving.

I don't think that explanation is quite sufficient. The post I cited is barely over 24 hours old even now, and in the comment thread the writer herself reports having difficulty finding it this morning.
It reached 100 recommendations a little after 3 p.m. today, but I never saw it on the recommended list at all.
Surely software can be tweaked so highly recommended posts get a respectable shelf life. "Freshness" shouldn't trump quality.

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It was on the recommended list this morning.

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Well, either I'm the first one banned, or we're having problems posting comments.

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so it showed up with a lot of recommends on the psot itself but never made it onto the most recommended list?

Precisely. See immediately above you.

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It was in the #1 slot of the recommended list until about... 1:30 PM, PDT.

It disappeared about 20 minutes or so before my recommended post disappeared.

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Deanie's post made the list. There is a non-intuitive feel to the list, since even a large-number recommended post has to wait for a turn. The clock overrules the relative recommendation values, as far as I can tell. And so instead of shooting up and displacing other posts with modest tallies, it may not show until after people have left their computers, gone to bed, etc.

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It was actually at the top of the list all day today.

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"I'd even back publication of an occasional List of Shame, detailing specifically why people had their accounts axed"

I second that emotion.

Back in the day when dKos first implemented the ability for the collective readership to hide comments there were torrents of complaints about 'censorship'. At the time only 'Trusted Users' were able to visit what I called 'Hidden Comment Land' and as one I made it a point to go see what was getting hidden and why and if necessary use my TU powers to unhide the comment. Well I only found one instance where I actually did unhide a comment and on later review of that comment thread came to understand why it was hidden. In short even in the heat of the argument (and there was a lot of heat at dKos) the power to actually censor content was simply not being abused.

So a modest suggestion. Instead of banning comments and commentators I suggest walling them off but providing a door and a key. Let regular readers visit HateLand and report back on what they see. You can learn just as much about editorial judgement by what they edit out as what they allow in. You might call this the DVD model, the default mode is to watch the final cut but the outtakes and deleted scenes are still available for anyone freely chosing to view them.

There is a certain kind of commenter that relishes being banned and takes it as a measure of validation along the lines of "You can't stand the truth!" whereas when the actual comment is capable of being exposed to light and air simply shrivels up.

Though instead of calling it the 'Hall of Shame' I instead suggest 'The Stupid! It Burns!!'

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There was a Hidden Comments list and Trusted Users vetting the list for abuse in the first incarnation of TPMCafe, with the Scoop software. That is a feature invented by Scoop and I think one that really works for self-policing. Here that was replaced with Drupal software (now itself replaced by Movable Type) which had comment ratings and "karma" but no Hidden Comments section, and mho, that is when abuse of ratings and arguing about ratings became a much bigger problem.

I thought the former worked pretty well for the early TPMCafe to help keep a high signal-to-noise ratio and a high level of civility that many newbies commented on, almost as if surprised. A crucial part of Scoop's success with the Hidden Comments system is that when you reached Trusted User status, you received a message explaining what you were supposed to do, what Trusted User responsiblities were. And also that it was clear when you went out of Trusted User status, it showed up as the link to Hidden Comments disppearing, it was amazing how that tempered people's behavior.

I tend to think it worked better here than at Kos because the earliest community at the TPMCafe was one of refugees from the "noise" at other sites, looking for a higher level of forum. They became Trusted Users quickly and used that power to regulate the site. That power was much lessened with the removal of the Hidden Comments section in the switch to Drupal, and you then had a slow downhill spiral of better members (as to both behavior and quality of content) leaving.

I think a lot of people don't realize that the "Tip Jar" tradition at Kos is there because of what some see as a flaw in Scoop's otherwise fine Trusted User invention. People become Trusted Users by commenting well, by getting approval of their comments. There was no similar reward for good Blog posts. So people thought of putting a "Tip Jar" as a comment for people to get plus ratings for their blog entry.

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P.S. To clarify the above, I mentioned the composition of membership of the early TPMCafe, drawn by Josh's promotion of trying to create a new, alternative, less moisy kind of forum, for a reason: because most people would not describe DKos as particularly noise-free and highly civil even though it uses the same system! I think you have to be starting with a user group that shares your aims for it to work. They "elect" the first group of Trusted Users, and with occasional input from management, the general tone wanted by the site's creators can be maintained. But you can't easily impose it on a group that already has different ideas about behavior. (And without Trusted Users vetting Hidden Comments, ratings abuse allows small groups or individuals to upend the system, cause a lot of childish animosity and ratings wars.)

Thanks, Josh. Personally, I try to ignore or avoid those who don't have the self-confidence to post any personal information in their Profile. There have been some commentators whom I've thought are assholes, then I see from their Profile that they are real people with real lives and actual things that they care about, so I take their heated rhetoric with a bit more understanding. Anonymous speech is almost always corrosive to intelligent conversation. I'm Terry Carroll, and I recommend against anonymity. (However, my kitten avatar would rather avoid conflict altogether.)

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I can understand how you might feel that way (about anonymity). OTOH, I've known of several instances at other sites where it turned out that the posters most loudly creating suspicions of those who prefer to post anonymously turned out to be posting anonymously themselves.

We really have no way of knowing if, for instance, John Smith is who he says he is, or if "John Smith" is nothing more than an intricately-developed alias created by some weird person who spent too much time as a child playing Dungeons and Dragons.

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There need to be some real concrete guidelines (including examples) of what types of behavior will result in banning.

Public warnings of unacceptable behavior in a form similiar to "strike one", etc should be issued to offending posters with the calling of the "third strike" resulting in "you're out". If banning is in the form of a defined "time out" or permanent, that info should also be a part of the public record.

I can't stress enough that this system needs to be transparent and public as TPM has a bad track record of "disappearing" posters. In addition, public warnings serve as object lessons to the community as a whole and other users can encourage transgressors to cool it in order to remain part of the community.

The above are "lessons learned" from participation on a site that successfully managed the issues surrounding banning users.

Fair warning that it became "necessary" that publically arguing with the *moderator responsible for warnings/banning also became grounds for calling the "third strike". *He had/has lots on his plate in addition to monitoring the rabble.

;>}

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. . . "disappearing" posters.

I still miss transhuman, but I guess it was his own fault (he did challenge Josh one time too many).

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I really miss transhuman too. I wish I had asked him more questions than I did.

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I think it depends on the comments, Lally. We will delete users who abuse or spam without any warning. We reserve that right. If it seems like someone is just too heated or being a jerk we'll warn them and give them a chance. It's just a matter of whether we think someone is in good faith crossing the line or in bad faith trying to hurt the discussion or the community.

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Is there a need for this? I look upon this blog, like others, as a search for the truth. A lot of things are written, but in the end (we hope) our goal the truth shines through. Along this road to the truth there are some verbal potholes, but who cares. Sticks and stones. On a given day perhaps I am an SOB. Usually when someone goes for the gutter with me I know it's because there's no factual argument available, so I win.

A blog will never be like a coffee house conversation, nor should it be. The mere fact that posters use fictitious names is one indicator. In any case, we're rather anonymous and that helps us lead straight to the truth. That's good -- let the games begin, no verbal holds barred, may the best argument win. These are tough times and they call for tough people with rigorous facts and thoughtful arguments. I'll take my coffee straight, thank you very much.

There will always be one or two that go too far. It'll be obvious. A public reprimand and warning should suffice, if not, banishment.

But... it's teh intrnetz... what good is it if not to anonymously insult people with the wit of an 11-year-old?

Seems like basic, common-sense guidlines. I approve.

The report/alert button is not going to work, IMO. You're going to need a full-time person to sort through the noise in order to remove posts that are truly hate speech/libelous.

If you do decide to implement such a system, I suggest creating a database where you track the "reports" that are generated on each user. If the user crosses a certain threshold of reports, then, you investigate whether his or her posts are actually problematic or if the user is somehow being sabotaged by someone who does not like his or her opinions.

Any way you slice it, the option to report abuse of the commenting policy is extremely complicated. Additionally, you have to think about the people who are going to abuse the option of reporting comments as being in violation. There should be consequences for users who repeatedly report comments for silly reasons, like mere disagreement.

But, the general idea, I like. I think the place is fine without such guidelines, but the ones you have suggested seem fair and not too oppressive. Cheers!

The rules are of course, great. Enforcement a little tougher. There will be definite abuse of any "Report Abuse" feature, so to avoid having to dig through every single instance of a comment reporting, perhaps it could be set up so that it requires two or more flags? That might cut down on the amount of comments being reported out of sheer disagreement or any other non-legit reason.

Curious though - will these apply to the blogs as well as the comment section? Will there be an option to report blogs as offensive?

And can we still rail against Lieberman? ;)

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These sorts of dictatorial powers undermine the peoples right to free speech. There are easily agreed upon almost universal guildlines that can and do prohibit offensive or scatological language, threats on any kind, or obviously scurrilous slander. However if for example referring to inviduals in the Bush government as fascists is considered by the TPM politburo unacceptable commentary, - then TPM would be restraining, restricting, and silencing the peoples right to free speech, the definition of fascism, and a dissenting or counter opinion to the parrots who frame the Bush government as bold and decisive leadership, who talks to god in the WH.

Broadly curbing commentary will diminish the voices of dissent, opposition, or those voices who question, challenge, or reject the stated point or opinion on TPM. I'll wait to see your rules, and how they are employed, - but the idea of stifling debate in anyway is anathema to the spirit of democracy and the only real strength and value of the "blogsphere" - the unadulterated freedom of speech.

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There is no right to free speech on a private forum. Josh could hypothetically ban you, because he doesn't like the name Tony.

The right to free speech only applies to government actions.

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"People almost never make use of the freedoms they have, for example, freedom of thought: by way of compensation they demand freedom of speech."

Soren Kierkegaard
Journals

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The real strength of the "blogsphere", and democracy for that matter is rooted in freedom of speech. I wait to see your rules, and how they are employed, but the idea of restricting, restraining, prohibiting, or silencing any commentary is anathema to the spirit of democracy and what thought would be TPM charter.

Any diminishment of speech effectiviely silences voices that oppose, dissent, with, challenge, question, or reject the state points, or opinions. These debates should rightfully be won through civil discourse, and certain rules prohibiting offensive language, or threats of any kind, or scurrilous slander can and should be minimized. That said is referring to the Bush government as "fascist" (a description I will defend in any forum as accurate and correct)something the TPM politburo would deem unacceptable? Dictatorial rules defend dictatorial messages, and dictatorial "message-force multipliers".

The people have the right to the "freedom of speech", and to "...petition the government for redress of grievances." Voices must have a platform and the right to counter the parrots in the socalled MSM bruting for example the fictions that Bush is a man of business accumen and a bold and decisive leader who speeks to god in the WH, or that America is NOT in a recession, or that we ARE making progress in Iraq.

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Tony, Josh specifically says above that different kinds of political speech are totally fine. This isn't an issue of who has acceptable opinions. It's an issue of whether, when you say "Bush is a fascist" you explain that opinion or are just yelling "fascist" at everyone you disagree with.

We live in pretty intense political times, so we understand folks are going to use intense political language. The issue is whether they back it up with an argument or simply throw around epithets and disrupt the community.

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Fascist!

Er, sorry for the typo.

Facist!

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I think a larger danger on this blog is group-think, where we're all supposed to think the same way on major topics, and are flamed if we don't. These new guidelines won't reduce that danger and might promote it.

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Can you explain how you think this might make that worse? I share you concern w/ homophily (group think promoted by the ability on the internet for like-minds to clump together and push away dissent) and want to make sure that doesn't happen here.

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Andrew, I would suggest the rating/notification system not be automatic for removing posts. The problem we had with the last incarnation of the Cafe and the ratings, were people constantly using "0" ratings on posts they simply disagreed with. "0" rated posts after a timeframe (I don't remember the time-frame) were automatically deleted.

Quite a few of us would make it a point to "uprate" comments that were zeroed just for political reasons.

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Ya, this system won't allow users to troll rate someone off the page, just to flag a comment for us to look at. Basically, it'll be a way for you to ping us to let us know if you think something bad is happening.

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Andrew,
It's just the idea, as TonyForesta stated lucidly above, that our speech would be restricted. Kozmik would zero me when I published Gore quotes that Kozmik didn't appreciate. Will TPM do likewise?

There is this possibility of attack from the blog host. I don't blog any more with Stan Goff or Matt Yglesias because both of them attacked me for my postings, so I'm sensitive to this. Truthout before that. It happens. As Tony indicated, free speech meets privacy rights and guess who loses. We would hope that free speech would be the priority. Your new guidelines include passing reference to free speech, but then they get motherly and I get nervous.

You certainly don't want to sink to a ThinkProgress level. I understand that. I don't want that either. I leave the decisions in your good hands.

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"I don't blog any more with Stan Goff or Matt Yglesias because both of them attacked me for my postings, so I'm sensitive to this. Truthout before that. It happens. As Tony indicated, free speech meets privacy rights and guess who loses."

Don I am only vaguely aware of your comment history but I suggest you get a little more self reflective. People get attacked for reasons, some legitimate and some not but if you are constantly getting turfed from what are generally seen as mainstream sites the problem may not be as much the censor as the censored.

Democratic Underground handled this in a hilarious way with their 'Hate Mailbag'. It doesn't seem that they maintain it any more but you can get a taste from this (warning none of this is family or workplace friendly): http://www.democraticunderground.com/mail/hatemail_23.html

As often as not these screeds came fully equipped with an appeal to the First Amendment. Well sorry, in a world where setting up a new, free blog is only seconds away and with few practical restrictions on (self-restrained) blog-whoring the claims that anyone's Free Speech rights are being seriously trampled is faintly ridiculous. Freedom of speech does not equate to freedom to use someone else's printing press.

As an example I can't comment at Free Republic. They censor for content. On the other hand if I posted there calling it Frei Republik I would expect and deserve being banned. Some people just refuse to understand the principle that 'freedom of speech' ends where your flailing fist meets my nose, particularly when they don't see how and why that rhetorical fist is being perceived as flailing to start with.

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Please forgive the multiple posts and remove all duplicates. I have been attempting to deliver this post for 40 minutes and was never given any signal that any of these posts landed. Instead, this is the response that appeared on my window after each attempt. (

SERVER ERROR) "...Please contact the server administrator, domains@stinson.com.au and inform them of the time the error occurred, and anything you might have done that may have caused the error.
More information about this error may be available in the server error log.

Apache/2.0.52 (Red Hat) Server at comment.talkingpointsmemo.com Port 80"


Later I attempted to shorten the posts in an attempt to deliver a comment and be herd.

Again my apologies for the multiple posts. I intended to deliver only a single comment.

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No problem, I'm taking care of it. This is an election night server issue that has nothing to do with the new Cafe or you doing anything wrong. Our apologies.

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Aah!
So you don't compile your own Apache?
A stripped down Redhat with a custom compiled Apache could help your resource issues a great deal Andrew.
Only the stuff you need and nothing more also increases security of the platform. Consider load balancing too. Recommend Apache 2.2 instead of 2.0, or go old school with 1.3. Use process and not threads, etc. We could talk some shop?!

Oh, and moderation is a GOOD THING in my opinion, even including moderation.

Great. Thanks for taking the time to try and improve the experience here.

True, you can't catch everyone who doesn't follow the guidelines, but patterns will emerge and make it easier to predict.

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Deanie's post made the list. There is a non-intuitive feel to the list, since even a large-number recommended post has to wait for a turn. The clock overrules the relative recommendation values, as far as I can tell. And so instead of shooting up and displacing other posts with modest tallies, it may not show until after people have left their computers, gone to bed, etc.

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Tom, not sure what you mean. I was sitting at my computer when Deanie's post left the Recommended roll. Sure, one has to refresh the browser, but one will have to do that with any updates to posts, comments, etc.

Josh: First of all, did the second baby arrive? Is all well?

I think this is a pretty open acceptable standard. Frankly, I am done with Huffington Post, they are not posting and the screening is slowing the process to the point of totally frustrating. Also, as I mentioned to you prior, I think advertising personal blogs (definition, blogs that are making money on their site, and posting that link to every post on TPM) is off-putting.

Best, Mary

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Mary, thank you for asking. All is well on the home front. We're expecting our new addition in a few weeks.

This is GREAT NEWS!!1!! for HILLARY!!1!1!!

Seriously, this all seems sane, rational, and well-reasoned. I'm all for it.

How about a Bloggers' Wall of Fame category in next year's Golden Dukes? I'd love to see the Gene Shalit clone, who kept me on the floor with his intensely creative, well-crafted, neo-Jungian analyses of others' work, at the top of that list.

I like it. Makes me think of what was on the matchbook cover of the tav where I met my wife.

"Dedicated to Quality Draft, Fine Food, Pleasant Music, and Stimulating Company. We're also dedicated to extremes of opinion, hoping that a livable marriage will result. If physical violence is your nature, either develop your verbal abilities or leave."

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Understood Andrew Golis, and for the record I relish the opportunity to "back up" my commentaries, and particularly the description of the Bush government mentioned above "with an argument". One thousand thanks for the clarification.

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We'll all look forward to it!

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Josh - Many thanks for grabbing this bowl of jello. I think TPM commentary needs a little more discipline. Who knows, if the place is a bit more civil (especially I/P issues) I might start posting again.

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Maybe something in the rule about offensive avatars.

And I want to publicly thank tpm for your attention to those I've flagged for you via email. Your swifts responses in that department have been appreciated!

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I think the major focus for TPM is, of course, to achieve the highest readership possible. This in turn improves the posting community with a much more diverse collection of opinions. As on most blogs, a few overly vocal posters will dominate a thread and pull it down with insults and/or inappropriate comments. I have abandoned several sites because of this. Believe it or not, the History Channel was one of the worse. I'm in no way interested in spending my spare time reading childish insults thrown back and forth between anonymous readers. But I do crave intense and intelligent debate about our country's problems.

I'm here because the information made available is some of the most pertinent and up-to-date you can find anywhere. And the analysis is always honest and straightforward. The comments are likewise intelligent and spirited. But when the insults unnecessarily start creeping in, it really puts a drag on the whole experience and gets in the way of real constructive dialog.

I applaud the move and think with just a minimum of enforcement this site would easily be heads above the rest.

I applaud the move and think with just a minimum of enforcement this site would easily be heads above the rest.

It already is.

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Good point.

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I despise the ad hominums,think four letter words are stupid and that it would be good if the posters only wrote things that they would say face to face. But I think that the only grounds for blocking access should be hate speech.

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Sorry. As well as hate speech , I agree with the other two criteria included in that phrase:
libel and threats.

Now that everyone else is sleeping soundly, let me just say, "Thanks, Josh, for inviting us into the discussion on how to set the rules. That's the democratic instinct we expect from TPM."
The growing-pain glitches we're all so irate about are a small price to pay for the open-ended forum TPM is morphing into.
Still more intimate, tactile and welcoming than the cool, monolithic Slate, TPM is treading the fine line between being a community and being all-inclusive. Nobody has pulled it off yet, but I believe you stand the best shot.
The issue I raised earlier about Recommended Posts is typical of those you face. You want the cream to come to the top. Rigid, by-the-clock software can get in the way of that.
Slate's approach was to subjectively award the coveted designation Star Poster, and offer selections of posts under Editor's Picks.
Very labor-intensive. You don't want to have to do that yourself, and you don't want crude algorithms to do it for you.
You want software that is as organic as the process you're trying to moderate and encourage --software that may not yet exist.
But TPM is creating the demand, so it won't be long. If a website can bring down an attorney-general (don't be modest!), it can certainly push major IT advances.
Like I said above, go for it.

I like it.

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I welcome any and all rules in sites I visit, even if they don't end up working as intended. At least I know the site is trying to provide some sorting of quality from dross for the reader, and that interests me enough to keep checking it.

The internet allows anyone to have their own blog, so raising "freedom of speech" on this question is bogus. Some like to scream that rules and filtering features are censorship. I call them editing.

Unedited and unfiltered sites are available in mass quantities on the internet and most people with jobs or lives are increasingly rejecting them. For me, it's not really the issue of civility so much as it's such a waste of time to wade through tons of ugly dross and sturm and drang role playing for god knows what reason (participants can't afford real-life group therapy? hate their father or that bully in grade school, have to make that anonymous fellow on the internet into an image of him in order to knock him down...) letting quality go unread.

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Wow, that's kind of harsh.

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One suggestion:

I think "attack the commenter's argument, not the commenter" is a good rule that works, one which most people understand.

Some object to this on political sites on the grounds that politics is all about name-calling and knee-capping and smackdowns. That's for you to decide. :-) In any case, some sites get around this by saying that you can name-call and smackdown and insult George Bush all you want, as long as he's not a member of the site. Personally, I'd prefer leaving the question vague, I don't get much intellectual stimulation from group-solidarity Bush name-calling, either.

How about acceptable avatars? There are currently several that don't quite match my concept of civility. Worse than the avatars, themselves, is the message they seem to convey from the commenter: "I am a detestable human being. In your face. Live with it."

You can use a similar rule of thumb: "If you wouldn't bring along the three month old, decomposing corpse of your father or your demoniacal, chronically vomiting little sister to a real-life political discussion at a Coffee House, don't do it here either."

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Could you consider a ban on flashing ads and avatars for those of us who are prone to strobe-induced migraines and siezures, or who just find them intrusive and distracting.

This one also has my vote.

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I would take out the "please go somewhere else," and change "four-letter word" to explicit language.

Good guidelines. Fair. Concise.

Would you consider it libelous if I said "there are rumors circulating on the internet that McCain is the son of Hitler-- will this be a problem for him in the general?"

So if I posted a Chris Rock dialogue --stuff I wouldn't say in conversation--how would you separate racial and offensive words from political commentary?

My guess is what many interesting people like about TPM is its frontier mentality and, generally speaking, the ability of the posters to "hang" who they think are out of line. Don't fool with it too much, in my opinion.

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