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Condemning Porn is the New Porn

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You know the problem with porn? It's so common that it's lost the ability to shock, so Tom has to resort to condemning porn in order to start a fight at a liberal website. How dare he say such a thing? It's an insult to liberal values!

I'll leave it to Tom to discuss the substantive differences between promoting legal censorship and just acknowledging that a lot of folks think too much porn-- and excessively large Big Gulps -- aren't good for our society, even if they don't want to ban either.

But it is interesting that some liberals condemn religiously-based OPINIONS the way conservatives often condemn sexual imagery or other libertine values. You get the sense that some liberals aren't really looking for a live-and-let-live society but to clone themselves and their values everywhere.

On the porn issue, there is a whole realm of non-conservative feminists who have deep antipathy to the values embodied in prevalent porn in our society. As long as they don't jump to government censorship, why shouldn't liberals celebrate the diversity of opinions as what makes a pluralistic society great?

I'm personally pretty much a libertarian atheist in my personal values, but I actually think the political values promoted by many liberal commentators is sometimes intolerant as many of the conservative values on the right in their rejection of diversity. Isn't it kind of countercultural to be against porn in a culture saturated with it?

I think progressive politicians sometimes pay the price because while the policies they promote-- minimum wage, health care for all, even diversity of thought -- have supermajority support in the population, many religiously-minded progressives feel that their values aren't respected. Maybe folks don't think they deserve respect because they fear the next step will be censorship, but there is a middle ground which just means standing up for the First Amendment while suggesting that if more people just personally rejected the products of excess Tom talked about, we all might be better off.

I'm not even sure I agree with Tom on the cultural causes of the excesses he's talking about-- I'm probably more of an economic determinist in my explanations and probably more tolerant of some of the cultural results. But I do find it amusing that so many of the commentators are so offended.

As the title says, condemning porn it the new porn. It seems to offend certain people the same way porn upsets other people.


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Nathan, you made a statement about some liberals condemning religiously based opinions. Your damned right we do. When you consider the harm that has been done by these so-called OPINIONS (does capitalizing the word make it less threatning) throughout history I have nothing but condemnation for those who force them on the rest of us.

WTF????

Here's a progressive politician talking about the common good and where his policies would provide for that common good, and then wham! He goes off on porn.

Well, ok, but WTF does that have to do with progressive public policy?

Tom "wasn't sure that censorship was the answer" - begging the question that would lead to "but I'm not rejecting it".

I don't know about you Nathan, but I've had enough religion mixed with my public policy for the last few years, and I'm a little bit sick from it's long term effects. Why am I incensed about porn, you might ask? Much like the Global Gag Rule that is injuring tens of thousands of women every year in developing countries, that was some serious pandering to another set of religious-based OPINIONS that wound up censoring information desperately needed (certainly more needed than porn).

Religious litmus tests like anti-abortion, anti-porn, anti-gay....do we really want to have the left go through that kabuki also?

Alphonse ( Al ) Kada
Iranians are fighting the Americans in Iraq so they don't have to fight them on the streets of Tehran

I violently disagree.  I imagine some liberals (and others) may not accept religiously based opinions, and I've read some pretty strident and to me irrelevant discussion table arguments over the validity or evil of religion. But Nathan's post sure sounds to me like a straw man in a society that is, in contrast to any other western nation, so consumed with religion. Even more, however, and far more important, it's a straw man based on what comments have actually said. 

I'll repeat what indeed I have said. I welcome religiously inspired beliefs, just as I welcome politics inspired by Aristotle or Shakespeare or Rawls.  Pore your heart into politics. What I can't abide is those who can't accept others who don't share their religious inspiration and those who think society must be purged of its personal evils before politics can achieve definite aims. To me, that's not only offensive but just plain nutty.

To me, in other words, I'd apply what ArtA just said, that the culture wars have no business in politics. Only she applies that in support of Nathan and Tom, and that's utterly backward.

John 

http://www.haberarts.com/

Who the hell is tom?

I have no idea what the heck all of this is about, but I did see this:

But it is interesting that some liberals condemn religiously-based OPINIONS the way conservatives often condemn sexual imagery or other libertine values. You get the sense that some liberals aren't really looking for a live-and-let-live society but to clone themselves and their values everywhere.

Hmmmm... liberal values throughout all of society? Sounds good to me!

But it is interesting that some liberals condemn religiously-based OPINIONS the way conservatives often condemn sexual imagery or other libertine values. You get the sense that some liberals aren't really looking for a live-and-let-live society but to clone themselves and their values everywhere.

Nathan, I can't speak for anyone other than myself. But, what I condemn is the prospect of religiously-based LAWS, which have their origin in publicly espoused religiously-based OPINIONS.

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Look, if religious people are going to fight to outlaw abortion, have prayer and schools, teach creationism in science and restrict access to contraception, then I'm taking the gloves off and pushing MY agenda: revoke tax breaks for churches, create mandatory public education about the TRUE CONTEXT of the development of major world religions, outlaw the religious indoctrination of children, and take God out of the pledge of allegiance and off our money.

Or, we can all just agree to disagree and craft a society that allows people to be moral according to their own terms and without the enforcement of the government

In other words, keep your hands off my porn!

Related and frankly more important: Not a single major liberal blogger felt inclined to either defend or attack the University of Delaware's "Diversity Education Training" program, regardless of multiple documents describing Orwellian or Cultish tactics and multiple students saying the program was mandatory.

In the meantime, about 90 right wing bloggers all decried it.

Result: Liberals failed to defend free speech and Conservatives have another point to crow about when claiming there is no hate like liberal hate and that liberals believe in free speech for me but not for thee.

I wrote more about this here at TalkLeft.

Nathan, at times, when I have brought issues like this up, I am told I am a "concern troll."

Since when did liberals decide that defending freedom of speech was a conservative cause?

-- my ratings policy
If I like your argument: 4 or 5
If I dislike or disbelieve your argument: no rating
Exceptions:
If you call someone a troll, you get a 1.
If you call someone a concern troll, you get a 0.

I capitalized OPINIONS because Tom in his post wasn't talking about "forcing" anything.  He was acknowledging that a lot of people are upset by the materialism, sex and other excesses in modern society.  And frankly, a majority of the population have some allegiance to the religious values Tom is talking about.

So either we get politicians who can speak to those values but channel them in a progressive direction or we'll have elected leaders who just call for censorship. 

And while I can wax poetic on the evils of religion in history, plenty of nasty folks with little spirituality have done great damage as well.  Hate and violence has come from a lot of different sources, religious and secular, over the years.

Jerry, I dislike your ratings policy. First of all, I think that there's a place for 3s and 2s. As a teacher, I've had to swallow the concept of grade inflation in the classroom: "C" means "Average", but if you really gave all the average papers Cs you would get fired and yelled at. (Not to mention the "below average" D papers and the "failing" papers). So the "average" papers become B+s. Why do we have to replicate grade inflation on comment boards? If I think that a comment adds nothing to the discussion, what's wrong with giving that comment a "marginal" rating of 2? And if someone is just making comments to piss other people off, why not give that person a zero and call him a troll if you like?

It sounds like your "ratings policy" is driven more by a "do unto others" policy than a "grade on the merits" policy: you don't want to get ratings of 2, so you won't give ratings of 2. And you announce it to try to coerce a sort of reciprocal detente in the rating wars. I'd rather have people give me their fair and honest evaluation of their comments, and I will give them the respect of doing the same.

I doubtt that liberals want to restrict free speech. However the far left, which shares some of the same authoritarian if not the totalitarian, inclinations of the right. One of the scarier elements of the last couple of decades is the number of people who think they know better what believe should say, hear, read or believe and that government should be used to enforce their views.

Daniel A. Greenbaum

Which is not what we were discussing.  Tom Perriello for example is a pro-choice, pro-gay rights and pretty down-the-line civil liberties kind of guy.   The fact that some liberals hear him talking about values and assume that anyone talking about religion is a crazy zeolot and then jumps to planning to attack their churches and unconstitutionally force them into schools not of their choice kind of illustrates the problem of the culture war from the liberal side.

As an atheist, I'll argue strongly with religious folks that God doesn't exist and that many liberal values create a superior society, but one liberal value I cherish is the idea that we all are better off if we extend the people having different values a degree of respect, even when we don't necessarily believe in the same things.

"I welcome politics inspired by Aristotle or Shakespeare or Rawls."

Amen to that.

"you'll never find...

...another love like mine."

As another atheist, I would go one step further -- you may or may not agree. My progressive values are based on a lifetime of thinking deeply about politics, history, culture, science and philosophy. I have thought through these things carefully enough already, arriving at a personal position that is pro-justice, pro-tolerance, pro-peace -- in other words, progressive. I do not care to revisit these values themselves; they are the foundation of my political opinions. In other words, I base my political opinions on faith, faith in the things I have already thought about.

On the porn issue, there is a whole realm of non-conservative feminists who have deep antipathy to the values embodied in prevalent porn in our society. As long as they don't jump to government censorship, why shouldn't liberals celebrate the diversity of opinions as what makes a pluralistic society great?

A thought occurred to me when I read this and maybe I'm taking this too literally but isn't it possible to have a diversity of opinions and to disagree with many of them? It seems almost obvious to me but the more diverse and numerous the opinions or beliefs, the more people you'll find yourself in opposition to right?

I suppose I feel it's just as healthy and worthy of celebration to disagree. I don't think you'll find very many liberals that want to restrict a person's beliefs. I know I certainly don't. But there's believing and there's imposing and I think this ends up being the real rub.

I think it's exactly what we're discussing. This piece talks explicitly about whether "religious-based opinions" merit respect from secular liberals. To the extent that Perriello's opinions are based on his religious beliefs, they do not have my respect. I may agree with his conclusions in certain cases, but I respect the basis for his opinions almost as much as if he'd formed them after reading tarot cards.

I'll point out, however, that many people appear confused about the origin of their beliefs. They may think that their opinion is based on religion, when it may in fact be based upon a subconscious utilitarian calculation, or plain old common sense.

But it's important to note that I'm not talking about just any old opinions. Go ahead, have the wackiest opinion ever, I couldn't care less. But when you try to make your wacky opinion the basis of public policy, that's where I will take issue with it.

Religion is getting a bad rap here--and I say that as a terminally lapsed Catholic who neither prays or attends services that don't include decent food and drink in the aftermath.

Religion is not the problem here. The problem is religious flim-flamers and the accreting mountain of ignorami that buy into their bullshit. Christianity, in particular, has become an object of fashionable hostility--not because of the tenets of the faith, but because of the bogus interpretations of those tenets.

"Do unto others," goes the aphorism. "As you would have them do unto you."

Who finds that objectionable?

So, as far as porn goes. I suppose we could find a consensus that tolerates it so long as we keep it away from kids...

...and, probably pets.

Dammit, Smedley--now you want to take porn away from my cat too??? He gets so little satisfaction from life as it is....

I think you have to consider that most people believe in souls and that souls can be damaged by mechanical, mercenary and predatory sexuality depicted as if it were healthy for relationships. Certainly, mechanical, mercenary and predatory killing is depicted and virtually practiced in videogames. In essence, the programming, if "unfettered" by parental intervention, religious conscience and intelligent folks who still believe there is such a thing as wisdom, would train the children of tomorrow to live as demons.

The fact that the porn saturation of Western society happens in the context of the rest of the ailments Tom has been talking about suggests that porn is part of the training of minds to complete a sort of anti-stationing of the cross, moving from indulgence to indulgence until challenged (even oil field to oil field) and then whipping out the big guns to level all who protest our excesses. Oh, but you would say that porn is unrelated to selfishness, and selfishness is good?

Look: nudity that respects privacy, the outer appearance of which is called "modesty" is a lost art of living as a whole being, not just a sexual being. Sheesh. For crying out loud. Enough already of severing the human soul into parts and then exploiting her divided qualities for cash while crippling the folks involved.

C.S. Lewis wrote wisely I think when he pointed out that the "prudishness" (prudence?) of the Puritans and moralists of the Victorian era was an extreme reaction to an extreme licentiousness that had come before. What force gave the pendulum its push to the extremes? What came before.

Jerry,

I think that your ratings policy is silly, and it is pretentious and presumptuous to post it.

But hey--that's just me.

So, does this make me a troll? or a "concern troll."

What is WTF? The World Troll Federation? :o]

Tom expressed his opinion, and a bunch of people disagreed with it (though not all.) That's "rejection of diversity"?

How exactly are we supposed to have a diversity of opinion (or even a debate) if nobody is supposed to disagree or criticize anyone else's opinion?

You've got it the other way around.

Religious folks do not generally want to use politics to arrive at their goals, however, politicians see the religious as a great and disciplined constituency they can use. Therefore they tempt its adherents with the prospect of fear and protection, and both parties create the extremes by which this is possible for every election.

Politicians radicalize the religious in this country by suggesting that if they don't get politically involved to stop X or Y, they'll lose their religious freedoms. And frankly, some of the things anti-religionists have done in the name of the Democratic party in various levels of government from coast to coast has been extremely provocative and confirmatory of the politicians' fear game. Just ask Jay Sekulow who has handled intrusion cases nationwide.

Thank you for asking,

I am basically saying all the fine grades of the ratings are silly. In school it may make sense to distinguish between the C, B, and A work. I just don't think it makes that much sense to do that here.

And from the patterns I've observed, most people give out 5s if they agree with what you are saying, and almost all the other ratings are used to burn people. In the past we've seen people come through and give out 1s and even 0s to posts they disagree with, that are not spam, just because the rater well, was an abusive jerk. See Unclesmedley's rating of my message as a zero for an example.

I am trying to reward good arguments, regardless of what side they are on, and penalize attacks on others.

If you make a good logical argument, or bring in new evidence, or old evidence in a new way, I will recognize you.

I think that calling people troll and concern troll is just a way to stop a dialog. Troll and Concern troll are used to get the group to doubt the sincerity of the person. It's the ultimate blog form of an ad-hominem attack.

I believe that most people that make it to TPM Cafe are good intentioned and sincere, and if they disagree on various policies, well, that's what makes an argument interesting.

In such an environment there is little reason to call anyone a troll, or a concern troll.

So Unclesmedley had his little fun with my post. Whoopdie doo. He/she basically just revealed his/her own inability to carry an intelligent thought or take part in a conversation.

-- my ratings policy
If I like your argument: 4 or 5
If I dislike or disbelieve your argument: no rating
Exceptions:
If you call someone a troll, you get a 1.
If you call someone a concern troll, you get a 0.

I'm somewhat sympathetic to Tom's opinion on porn and even the idea that torture and war are linked to a broader culture of selfish materialism.

What bothers me isn't so much his opinion, but his apparent insistence that this be a political opinion. Yes, I realize that he doesn't intend to coerce anyone. But it isn't coercion that's the problem here--it's the notion that we must look to public debate and dialog to determine all right and wrong--not just in matters of force and economics, but in religion and aesthetics as well. We The People decide not only what is permissible, but what is beautiful, sublime, and worthwhile.

Maybe this is my Protestant "pray in the closet" roots showing, but I find something wrong with this even when I kind of agree with the opinion in question. When Tom talks about whether "any of us honestly believe that the ready availability of internet porn is not destroying something sacred within us", well, I don't believe the sacred is knowable, universal, or arguable. The problem with politics is not merely coercion, but that political arguments presume that there is one correct knowable answer.

Why would your stating your opinion make you a troll or concern troll? I don't understand?

I think that giving my prior post a 0, in a thread where Nathan Newman is complaining of intolerance shows you're an abusive jerk with no understanding of what you read and no sense of irony, but no, I don't think that makes you either a troll or a concern troll.

Hope that helps.

-- my ratings policy
If I like your argument: 4 or 5
If I dislike or disbelieve your argument: no rating
Exceptions:
If you call someone a troll, you get a 1.
If you call someone a concern troll, you get a 0.

The debate could go meta here, but let me try to distinguish two things.   One, if folks say, "hey Tom, you're linking porn to materialism and greed in society, but there are clear studies that show that people who watch porn are also less materialist," that's disagreeing with his argument.

If commentators say, "hey Tom, you condemned porn; that must mean you're one of those religious cranks who are out to censor everyone and oppress the non-religious", you have a broader manifestation of intolerance.

Some forms of intolerance manifest themselves in not taking an argument seriously and assuming that because of whom a person is, they must be saying something different and more sinister than what they actually said.  In many ways, that kind of assumption of dark motives and not listening is the most prevalent kind of intolerance that exists, far more common that straight up hatred and name-calling.

What if he said it with no reference to the sacred? I think there are lots of different reasons one could give for why it is bad, perhaps especially for young people.

I have to say that I'm not really sure what his political argument is, though, as it seems like a cultural argument to me, and I don't know what you do about that in our society, other than not participate in it and teach your children well.

I suspect that smedley gave you a zero because, by posting your ratings policy (and complaining of having been previously labeled a concern troll), you have displayed a massively fragile ego. Smedley didn't really give you a zero because your comment merited it--he gave you a zero because you're inordinately obsessed with ratings.

I don't care what kind of rating you give me. I'm going to give your original rating a 3, because (1) you fail to explain what the Delaware issue was, though you do provide a link of sorts, (2) the Delaware issue doesn't seem to have a lot of relevance to the issue that's being discussed in this forum. Under normal circumstances, that might merit a 2. However, the listing of your misguided ratings policy has spurred some interesting and legitimate discussion.

I think you have to consider that most people believe in souls
Again, a rather sweeping statement, not limited by geography, or clear definition of "soul". Coincidentally, I ran across a ">http://home.btclick.com/scimah/mindandsoul.htm>comparison of the idea of a "soul" in Christianity and a "mind" in Buddhism. Now, I wouldn't go so far to say as all Christians and all Buddhists agree with the definitions and qualifications in the article, but it's far less of a sweeping statement that "most people".
Who are most people, anyway? A Wikipedia breakout of religious adherents puts Christians and Muslims as the largest groups, at a total of about 53%. OK--numerical majority, not necessarily a Bush-style "mandate". Do all denominations have a clearly shared definition? It would be silly to suggest anything more than "something nonmaterial".
I'd hesitate to say Jews routinely put as much emphasis on "soul" as these other Abrahamic religions; I find there is more of an element of individual right choice than a directed morality. A late friend of mine observed his mixed Jewish-Buddhist marriage worked mostly because the two both had temples, and they found more commonality with each other than with Christianity or Islam. Yes, I know "anecdote" isn't the singular of "data", but I have enough humility (that's supposed to be Christian, right?) not to be throwing around lots of "of courses" and "most peoples".
I note Mike again doesn't define "relationship" here, and whether, for example, if Muslim polygamy and status of women is beneficial to human values -- recognizing not all Muslims practice this sort of relationship.
As mentioned in my first link, there is a considerably different concept of the non-material human aspect, and of deity, in Buddhism, and to a lesser extent in Hinduism, the two forming the estimated 18% in the Dharmic religions. About 12% were considered irreligious, and the rest of the population is pretty fragmented. Still, when there are 500 million in Chinese traditional, 400 million or so animists, etc., I find there to be a fair bit of generalization going on.
When I find expressions such as
anti-stationing of the cross,
, I'm not sure that the Muslims, Hindus, and Taoists are getting all that represented.
I still note that Mike has yet to comment on my suggestions on more inclusive terms than "soul", such as the transcendental, numinous, or self-actualized states. Might I assume that it's his definition or the highway?
This isn't just about porn. Mike's positions, to me, are getting more and more annoying as generalizing a large number of particular Christian views, not even of all Christians. It's hard to keep him on one topic; in the post to which I responded, there's a stew of violence and relationships and porn and mercenaries and a few other things. -- Howard

*equal opportunity offense to both extremes*

"Those who cannot remember the past are condemned to repeat it" [George Santayana]

Well, I may be wrong, but isn't it at least implicit in Tom's post that his religious beliefs are the reason for his opposition to pornography and a number of other social ills? (It certainly seems to be the subject of his post today.)

If this is so, then my response is to argue that religious beliefs should not be the basis for public policy, period, because religious beliefs are highly variable and are based upon faith as opposed to reason, and that any public policy stemming from religious concerns or convictions has the danger of imposing religion upon me.

This response does not make me intolerant.

Look, I've given up, to my wife's great relief, trying to find out what diddy-wah-diddy means.
But for the sake of God, could somebody tell me what "the far left" is in America? Which are our "far-left" parties or party?
Where are the "far left" magazines or newspapers, let alone radio or TV.

There isn't even a "far left" AM radio somewhere.

What "far left" When was the last time you heard a proposal to nationalise any industries or resources? "Far left" my left foot!

Wait, let me guess!! Not wanting to waste everything we have in useless, never-ending foreign entanglements is a "far-left" position! Of course. Sorry I asked.

I am pleasantly surprised at your opinion on this.

The discussions on the topic on this site have just reinforced what has become my own credo on it:

Just say no to culture wars in politics; culture wars belong in culture.

Culture, you know: art, movies, literature, music, human rituals, religions, that kind of stuff. History has shown you can actually change cultures over time with all of the latter, through exchanges and trade between cultures, but few in history have been successful at changing culture by force of law or war without tons and tons of blowback. If you are going to force culture change by politics or law or war or similar, it better be something mighty important enough to be worth all the blowback.

The problem with Tom's statement is the characterization that porn is destroying our nation, and saying that in the same breath as government-sanctioned torture.

In the scheme of what's ruining our country, porn is low on the list.

 

Re: Nathan, you made a statement about some liberals condemning religiously based opinions. Your damned right we do. When you consider the harm that has been done by these so-called OPINIONS (does capitalizing the word make it less threatning) throughout history I have nothing but condemnation for those who force them on the rest of us.

Please put down that great big tar brush and tell us what specific opinions are you talking about? There are lots and lots of very different religious ideas. Which do you object to? "Do unto to others as you would have them do unto to you"? The Eightfold Way? That social injustice is an outrage to God?
You sound almost like the old racists who would focus on some specific act of crminality or dysfunction in a minority community (never mind it was a common sin of all humankind) and would use it as proof positive that "those people" are inferior and need to be kept in their places.

I'll point out, however, that many people appear confused about the origin of their beliefs. They may think that their opinion is based on religion, when it may in fact be based upon a subconscious utilitarian calculation, or plain old common sense.

Leaving aside subconscious utilitarian calculations, what makes you think there is a difference in a religious thinker's mind between an opinion based on religion and one based on common sense?

To put it another way, isn't calling a belief common sense already relegating it to a non-rational sphere, or at least a sphere where it is unseemly to argue about its truth (after all, who can argue with common sense)?

Religious people seem to hold their beliefs to be true (commonsensical) not only because they *are* true (in their minds at least) but because they stem from divine truths. But many atheists do exactly the same thing, the only difference being the lack of attribution of their beliefs to God. They are just as dogmatic about their beliefs, and just as unconscious of their origins.

Um, you're the one that brought ratings up. If you examine my history of posts you'll find that I've argued against ratings from the very beginning. My ratings policy shows that I don't care about ratings. I rate you down if you abuse other people. I rate you up if your argument was truly excellent, regardless of what side you take. If your argument is merely meh, than whatever d00d.

You've been here about nine months, perhaps you just weren't around for the ratings wars. The signature that you have some sort of problem with and use as e-psychiatrist to ascribe all sorts of qualities to me and profile me came out of that war as I described why I did not condone calling people trolls or concern trolls and why I did not slavishly rate every post one way or another.

Not only don't I care what rating you gave me, you can give me a 0 or a 5, whatever d00d. You'll note that I haven't rated you at all, and you can read my response to smedley asking if I think he's a troll or a concern troll.

Whatever d00d. (Does playing e-psychiatrist work for you? Most people think it's obnoxious.)

I came here to agree with Nathan and point to another aspect of that as seen in just the past two days with the University of Delaware. That part of the conversation is apparently lost to you, who would prefer a conversation about how woeful my ratings policy is and what that means about me as a human being on a thread in which Nathan Newman deplored how many liberals just want to speak with clones of themselves? Is this some sort of performance art show that you are creating?

Is there some reason you have to convince us all that your reasons for being intolerant are okay and correct or recognize how special you are?

Here professor, I've changed my sig to help you understand.

-- my ratings policy
If I think you argued well: 4 or 5
If I dislike or disbelieve your argument: no rating
Exceptions:
If you call someone a troll, you get a 1.
If you call someone a concern troll, you get a 0.

So, are you saying that it's just a matter of prioritization?

Once we get rid of torture, corporatism, cronyism, and anything else that's higher on the list than pornography and other "social ills", then it will be OK to go after it?

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A lot of condemnation of porn is because it leads to masturbation. And one of the old saws about masturbation is that it causes insanity.

While there may be a correlation I think the causation runs in the opposite direction. Just look at some of these mentions of alzheimer's and masturbation

I think the religious opposition to porn is analogous to the fundamentalists who say 'we're praying for your soul whether you like it or not,' regardless of the other persons' beliefs.

Don't like porn? Don't look at it--and save the moralistic speeches for your kids.

I'll use this as an example of what I meant. I posted it earlier on Tom's page:

I always like to use this argument: if you believe that morality is tied to religion, then presumably you believe that murder is immoral because God "said so." But since God is all-powerful, then certainly he could have instead decided that murder was morally commendable, and that helping old people cross the street is a venal sin. But if that seems just wrong to you, consider the alternative: God had a reason to declare murder immoral. The philosophical inquiry into ethics is the attempt to discern that reason. Such a reason would be a basis for a general agreement about ethics which is independent of particular religious beliefs.

If you go through this socratic argument with people who thinks that their moral beliefs are rooted in their religious beliefs, some (but not all) will realize and admit that there's something deeper going on about their moral beliefs.

I think many religious people and many atheists, undergo many of the same reasoning processes, although they may not realize it until pressed.

I would agree with you, if I believed in a soul. But I don't. So I don't.

Such a one track mind on sex you have.

Whether or not someone looks at porn is an individual decision, but the censorship is the point, you sanctimonious jerk.

Don't talk down to me like I have no belief system. I studied my catechism, was made a member of my Lutheran church and was an acolyte for five years.

The point of my comment was that because censorship is even being considered as a panacea to porn, once that step is advocated by a policy maker, we end up with the Global Gag Rule, foisted on the world as a condition of US aid, that censors the word "ABORTION". No one may utter it and continue to receive aid. And you're worried about the violence to women from porn? How about the fact that unsafe abortions and lack of reproductive planning is responsible for 40% of the deaths in women in Nigeria? And why is there the dearth of information? Because of "moralists" such as yourself that have been very quick to censor what they are uncomfortable with.

Get over it, BuckO. Keep your repressed lifestyle and your repressive public policies where they belong-

With the right wing.

PS- WTF stands for What The Fuck.

Alphonse ( Al ) Kada
Iranians are fighting the Americans in Iraq so they don't have to fight them on the streets of Tehran

WTF---def., "What the f***?", see also "Whiskey Tango Foxtrot!".

I'll be praying for you, leftAhead.

How can someone even rate someone a zero?  I don't see anything but 1-5 when I click on the "rating" box. 

 

"You say I'm a dreamer.  We're two of a kind.  Looking for some perfect world that we both know that we'll never find." - Thompson Twins, "Hold Me Now"

There are members that have been around for a long time and are considered trusted users. I think the privilege goes with that. One has to collect enough good karma, by earning ratings I guess, to qualify.

Or, we can all just agree to disagree and craft a society that allows people to be moral according to their own terms and without the enforcement of the government.

 

That last sentence is a fine idea, if you really mean it.  Problem is, only libertarians acually believe in this.  Liberals may have a different definition of morality than conservatives, but they are as dedictaed to enforcing it on everyone as conservatives are.

 

Examples: No, the Catholic charities group has to pay for contraceptive s for its employees in its health insurance plan whatever its religious beliefs say.  No, your private business has to hire gay people even if everyone there thinks homosexuality is wrong, and boy no one in that business ought to let on that they have moral problems with homosexuality or it's harassment lawsuit time!  Abortions ought not only be legal, but the government ought to provide them at taxpayer expense. Etc. etc. etc.

 

And don't get me started on state-run education. 

 

"You say I'm a dreamer.  We're two of a kind.  Looking for some perfect world that we both know that we'll never find." - Thompson Twins, "Hold Me Now"

Yeah, I guess I don't really mean that. I've been called "libertarian" on many occasions, but I'm all for regulation that promotes public health and protects civil liberties.

I think it's related to the number of posts you've made, because I was one of the first members, and it took me a very long time to become so privileged as I didn't post nearly as much as others.

And then, for some period of time, everyone was getting the ability to rate a 0.

0 is supposed to be reserved for troll and/or spam, because with enough zeros, the post is hidden.

But of course, people abused it almost immediately as smedleysuncle and allsburgh have done here, giving 0 ratings to people they didn't like, or to relatively good comments that just didn't make the "right" argument.

For quite a while, my sig was: "Just say no to zero ratings, except for Petey the ratings spammer" -- Petey was one of the worst abusers.

Then we went through a period where anyone that disagreed with the main thrust of a thread was immediately called a troll or concern troll. I think it's completely bogus for liberals to do that to each other, as well as for members of the community. For most of us, just click back many posts and it's clear these people are neither trolls, nor concern trolls, but just reasonable people that have a disagreement. And I think we should learn from that or respect that.

So that's when I changed my sig and finally agreed to give out zero ratings. It's for behavior I think is completely egregious, not just a stupid argument, but a malicious name calling lets shut down discussion argument.

Still, I'm not sure, but I think I've only given out 1-3 zero ratings. And the same for one ratings. Why bother? I give credit to the good arguments and interesting posts to push them to the top, who needs to get involved with anything else?
-- my ratings policy
If I like your argument: 4 or 5
If I dislike or disbelieve your argument: no rating
Exceptions:
If you call someone a troll, you get a 1.
If you call someone a concern troll, you get a 0.

No, liberals believe in personal freedom, libertarians believe in freedom of economic transactions. In those examples, the liberal isn't restricting what you do with yourself, but what you can use economics to make other people do or not do. In a hypothetical world in which one man owned all property in the nation and required everyone to be Christian to live here, liberals would object but libertarians would insist on that one man's right to do with his property as he chose.

It's not that we have a different definition of morality than conservatives, it's that we have a different definition of liberty than libertarians. Ours actually makes sense.

Possibly the primary value in a zero rating is that it may protect it from Google. In other words, words we don't wish the outside world to see might be shielded. I admit I don't know, but think it's likely, as only logged-in members see zero-rated comments. I think a spider would present as a non-login viewer and miss out on Fred Dobb's ravings.

Sometimes a troll will pretend to be a liberal and call for outrageous actions or make outrageous accusations, in a transparent attempt to have it swept up in searches. It would then be a chew toy on the right-wing sites.

I tend not to zero unless I feel this risk is present, since it can incite a rating vendetta.

I disagree. Libertarianism is about freedom from constraints, not just economic constraints. It's just that those who advertise the fact that they are libertarians seem to be more interested in money than in motorcycle helmet laws. That's not the fault of the ideology, but the fault of the proponents.

Just go staple Hustler to the steeple...they'll
be using the Lord's name in vain by the time
they get it down....hehehehehe

If it's any consolation, Jerry, your post is only the second, possibly the third, post that I've given a zero rating to. I suppose you are entitled to your opinion that it constitutes "abuse." But then again, ratings are inherently subjective, aren't they? And I think that's the whole point.

I don't think it would make much difference. It's not a matter of sacred vs. secular, it's more culture vs. politics, personal vs. political, private vs. political, subjective vs. universal and perhaps even aesthetic vs. ethical.

It's not crazy to argue as Gandhi and King did that ambient selfishness leads to political violence. But that can only be taken so far before Bush waterboards a kitten every time someone buys a Big Gulp. To declare war on selfishness is to declare war on human nature. Perhaps humanity should aspire to transcend human nature, but transcendence cannot be found in national/political argument that assumes universal, knowable moral truth.

I find porn to be a bad target, in that it's a gradient of wrongness depending on things like violence in depiction and exploitation in production. I find it suspicious that one would choose to focus on internet porn as though old fashioned porn was somehow morally acceptable. I also find it strange to focus on secret, furtive eroticism as objectionable when public images of commercially exploited sexuality abound in television, movies, and print. Selfishness pervades our lives in so many ways, I just don't understand why internet porn is the most important target, other than it gets people riled up.

I think it's related to the number of posts you've made, because I was one of the first members, and it took me a very long time to become so privileged as I didn't post nearly as much as others.

I'm pretty sure trusted user status here is still achieved the same way it always was, by what ratings you have.

The power to zero is definitely taken away if your karma score drops below a certain level. The idea behind that is that you want people that the community considers good peace officers should be the ones able to zero, or partially censor so that lurkers and others with low karma can not see troll comments and be tempted to feed, or respond.

They changed the software here to Drupal a while back and then custom added a ratings system. But when they were using Scoop, they had the "karma" level set very high, you could see that easily with the way that system.

The way it works in Scoop, and the way it probably still works now with this custom Drupal, is that any comment that you make that is not rated gets a score of 3. It was clear to a lot of regulars that if you made a lot of comments in a day that didn't get rated, you lost your trusted user status. You had to keep your average above 3 to have trusted user. One thing this is meant to do for the proprietor, if they set the level so high, is to discourage lots of idle chatter, like long strings of one liners like is common on Daily Kos, and to discourage tit-for-tat one-line debates taking over threads, to encourage more thoughtful posting. The same theory is inherent in other software forum tools where they have a setting where you can only post so many comments within a certain time span and then you get a "locked out" message that tells you to go take a coffee break and you can post again in an hour.

Maybe I'm wrong, but I always got the impression that Josh Marshall chose a high setting originally because he wanted to encourage this place to have thoughtful commenting rather than lots of one-liner quips, and to discourage people with lots of time on their hands, with a special grudge or with a tendency to knee-jerk from dominating threads, i.e., thinking and composing before posting.

Give me a break Allsburg, I posted a very reasonable comment to this thread, you ask me a question and decide to berate me. I respond to your berating by telling you to stop playing e-psychiatrist and you give me a zero. And why did you berate me? Because you don't like my sig.

Don't piss down my back and call it rain.

By the very rating system menu you had to use, your zero says you thought my post was a troll, and there is no way using the common net definition of a troll for anyone to believe that.

It's amusing that you would attack me personally, dare me to rate you down, and when instead I tell you what a sanctimonious prick you are, one that demands everyone believe your intolerance is sanctity, you instead rate my post down to a zero.

Your zero was a temper tantrum. It was clearly abusive and unnecessary as was your original personal attack on me.

You can pretend that my post, that responded to a your attack was so egregiously horrible that it deserved that zero, but all of us can read that post and its context, and understand exactly what you did and why.

Allsburg, as you've made clear in your postings here today, you're upset that we all don't rate just like you do, and you're upset that we all don't think like you do.

In fact, you are exactly the sort of intolerant liberal that Newman and and the rest of us run into all of the time.

And you hate it when that is pointed out to you. Some teacher.

-- my ratings policy
If I like your argument: 4 or 5
If I dislike or disbelieve your argument: no rating
Exceptions:
If you call someone a troll, you get a 1.
If you call someone a concern troll, you get a 0.

Alright Tom. Now do that in pig latin. Dare ya.

Why do I get the distinct feeling that while most people were long ago aware that this post and nearly all sympathetic to its points have focused on cultural change among us, there remain some who cannot get it through their heads that we're not talking about censorship?

It's as if they're afraid that a raid on their stashes is immiment.

;o)

Hey Howard: most people, most people, most people. ha!

Allsburg, don't you worry. I don't even want to touch your door handle. :o(

Please read the posts and comments more closely--no one's proposing government censorship.

Are you inflating grades to keep your job?

Responses to Howard indented in this one.

Again, a rather sweeping statement, not limited by geography, or clear definition of "soul". Coincidentally, I ran across a http://home.btclick.com/scimah/mindandsoul.htm>comparison of the idea of a "soul" in Christianity and a "mind" in Buddhism. Now, I wouldn't go so far to say as all Christians and all Buddhists agree with the definitions and qualifications in the article, but it's far less of a sweeping statement that "most people".

Most peoples around the globe believe in the human spirit or soul. That's been true to date.


Who are most people, anyway? A Wikipedia breakout of religious adherents puts Christians and Muslims as the largest groups, at a total of about 53%. OK--numerical majority, not necessarily a Bush-style "mandate". Do all denominations have a clearly shared definition? It would be silly to suggest anything more than "something nonmaterial".

You're not saying much here Howard. This isn't too relevant. Seems like a tizzy.


I'd hesitate to say Jews routinely put as much emphasis on "soul" as these other Abrahamic religions; I find there is more of an element of individual right choice than a directed morality. A late friend of mine observed his mixed Jewish-Buddhist marriage worked mostly because the two both had temples, and they found more commonality with each other than with Christianity or Islam. Yes, I know "anecdote" isn't the singular of "data", but I have enough humility (that's supposed to be Christian, right?) not to be throwing around lots of "of courses" and "most peoples".

Thanks for that research, Howard. What's it got to do with the fact that most people in the world believe they have souls? That remains the fact. Different shades of definition don't change it.


I note Mike again doesn't define "relationship" here, and whether, for example, if Muslim polygamy and status of women is beneficial to human values -- recognizing not all Muslims practice this sort of relationship.

I'm not a Muslim, Howard. That's a pretty good reason why I don't pretend to speak for them other than in general terms. I know they believe they have souls. And I'm certain that Muslim relationships are damaged by the phenomenon that is the topic at hand as much as others. It's a hunch. You want I should check my wallet to see if I have enough cash to hire Zogby to follow up on my hunches for you?

So now you're referring to me in the 3rd person. Great Howard. Thanks. 

As mentioned in my first link, there is a considerably different concept of the non-material human aspect, and of deity, in Buddhism, and to a lesser extent in Hinduism, the two forming the estimated 18% in the Dharmic religions. About 12% were considered irreligious, and the rest of the population is pretty fragmented. Still, when there are 500 million in Chinese traditional, 400 million or so animists, etc., I find there to be a fair bit of generalization going on.

I believe they have souls. When its my opinion, that's what you'd expect, wouldn't you? I stick to my guns on this one, H.



When I find expressions such as

anti-stationing of the cross,

, I'm not sure that the Muslims, Hindus, and Taoists are getting all that represented.

Howard, I'm not Muslim, Hindu or Taoist. Why would I represent them beyond generalities? To try to prove I've read a recent Encyclopedia piece on some outdated details from a census survey about them? I'll let them post their opinions. I do know Hindus find Western sexploitation to be pretty sick because to Hindus sexual relationships in marriage are sacred. I agree with them in general on that point.

I still note that Mike has yet to comment on my suggestions on more inclusive terms than "soul", such as the transcendental, numinous, or self-actualized states. Might I assume that it's his definition or the highway?

Might I suggest that your assumption that transcendental, numinous or self-actualized states are inclusive of "soul" is your version of "your way or the highway?" Seems hypocritical to me Howard.

This isn't just about porn. Mike's positions, to me, are getting more and more annoying as generalizing a large number of particular Christian views, not even of all Christians.

Howard, I speak for myself in my opinions and I'm Christian. Why should I speak as if I were not and adopted multiple definitions, some conflicting that I don't believe? You can do that to your heart's content, but if I did that, it would be disingenuine. 

It's hard to keep him on one topic; in the post to which I responded, there's a stew of violence and relationships and porn and mercenaries and a few other things.

It's not really your job to censor comments to keep them on the scope that pleases you, is it Howard? No way. Beyond that Howard, your characterizations are off base today. Lots of bending the truth and mixing yourself up in others' exchanges, failing to distinguish between yourself and others in responding for them. Odd, inconsistent, and not your usual class.

In the tradition of Gadsden independence, Don't tread on me, H.

Do you oppose religious freedom recognized in the First Amendment?

So for you, a culture of abortion, porn, contraceptives in lunchboxes and kids who don't pray on your watch is the culture of American dignity?

If teachers were asked to uphold the constitution of the US, would you omit the very important part of the First Amendment that triply protects religious speech, exercise and non-establishment, to include prayer?

I don’t think that loss of privileged user status is enough punishment if the idea is to discourage casual comments. I almost never have privileged status and it makes no difference to me.

Aht-way the uck-fay?

Iskey-way ango-tay oxtrot-fay?

Ee-say ou-yay.

To be honest, I'm not dead sure after all this time what a trusted user is.  No doubt I'm one.   But I have to say that the ratings don't appear to do much to affect the forum quality.  Mostly, they seem like a chance for us all to express emotion.  But that's a discussion best head over in the feedback table.  Indeed, I fear we had it.  

John 

http://www.haberarts.com/

I don't understand why we can't put all internet porn on it's own domain, .sex, .adult, .smut, or whatever.

That would in no way limit free speech, but it would allow those of us who find it offensive to block it from our family computers.

I think porn does harm people by giving them false expectations, especially youngsters.

If that makes me a prude, fine, but it seems to me that there is some common sense steps that could be taken that wouldn't limit "free speech" and make "prudes" like me more comfortable. There must be some reason that people find it addictive. We regulate other addictive substances, for the common good.

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I find it suspicious that one would choose to focus on internet porn as though old fashioned porn was somehow morally acceptable.

I think that it has to do with access. There was a compnent of shame involved going and being seen in a sex shop or asking for a magazine behind the counter, that societal restraint is absent with the internet.

I also find it strange to focus on secret, furtive eroticism as objectionable when public images of commercially exploited sexuality abound in television, movies, and print. Selfishness pervades our lives in so many ways, I just don't understand why internet porn is the most important target, other than it gets people riled up.

I do not think that it is. Tom talked about many other things in his original post, porn just seems to be the one that "riled" people, as you say.

Personally, I'm a lot more "riled" about the lack of UHC and CEO salaries.

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Look Ace,

Change culture all you want. Just don't do it by sliding your agenda in by force of law.

And you still haven't addressed the issue that I raise:

Where do you stand on the Global Gag Rule?

Answer that question without obfuscation and I'll listen to what you have to say. Snark your way out of it again and you will reveal your true agenda.

Alphonse ( Al ) Kada
Iranians are fighting the Americans in Iraq so they don't have to fight them on the streets of Tehran

Treating snark like a serious comment,


So for you, a culture of abortion, porn, contraceptives in lunchboxes and kids who don't pray on your watch is the culture of American dignity?

I consider a subculture of abortion on demand, porn available to adults, contraceptives in appropriate places (lunchboxes are fine if one takes an oral contraceptive at lunchtime),no gag rule and kids who don't pray a dignified part of a broader American culture, which also includes a subculture that protects all life at a Jain standard, missionary position for procreation only, mandatory fertility drugs, and prays so much it doesn't have time for sex, making the prior three points irrelevant.

If teachers were asked to uphold the constitution of the US, would you omit the very important part of the First Amendment that triply protects religious speech, exercise and non-establishment, to include prayer?

I wasn't aware teachers had a specific requirement to uphold the Constitution, although teachers, in whose class the Constitution is relevant to the curriculum, should teach the Amendment as it is written. I do not believe it is terribly important for a total-immersion French class to start with a reading of the First Amendment in class.

I have not objected to you saying you want certain things for the culture, as long as you don't legislate religiously based subculture. I have, and will continue to, strongly objected to your informing me that you know, better than I do, how I should live my life and what my spirituality and ethics should be.

I will continue to say that I am happy if your personal religious, ethical, and spiritual choices in your own life work for you. I will continue to indicate some areas where I see no unambiguous answers, and will continue to respond that you, sir, do not have all the answers for my life.

--
Howard

*equal opportunity offense to both extremes*

"Those who cannot remember the past are condemned to repeat it" [George Santayana]

I guess I just dont want my political leaders to act like school marms and scolds.

I mean, they can if they want, of course. That's their right. But they shouldn't expect my support because I think it's sill at best and dangerous at worst.

thosethingswesay.blogspot.com

That's perfectly understandable, and I don't disagree. I usually agree with your political viewpoint in general.

It's hard to talk about some of these issues in an ethical fashion without coming off that way, I think.

For instance, I'm not in favor of "taking away peoples guns" if that is what they need to feel safe, or use in hunting, but I also support common sense measures to keep them out of the hands of unsupervised kids and insane people..

If you mention this to a guns rights advocate, it seems to me you get the same knee-jerk reaction we're seeing here over porn. I don't think I've seen anyone arguing that there shouldn't be any.

But then, I'm not "caught up" on this conversation quite yet.

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Again, I don't wish to put the focus on porn or even the lumping of porn together with issues like war. Partly, it's not that relevant: one cannot seriously attempt to control the Internet without restrictions far beyond porn that one has never dreamed of, and even then it'll be hacked and I'll keep getting spam inviting me to see the results. In part, though, Nathan is using it to pretend outrage and to hide the big picture.

Tom hasn't broken a liberal shibboleth, although I like to think that the First Amendment is more than a shallow prejudice. (If you want to start itemizing liberal interest groups, we'd have to put unions into question, you know, such as the one that sold out the other day by endorsing Clinton.) I don't care for porn myself, although I shouldn't have to say that. Freedom of speech should mean not having to start sentences with "much as I detest." Besides, as an arts writer, I end up discussing all the time work that may or may not have pornographic intent but gets viewed and attacked that way regardless. (Did you know that Madonna has had slinky videos in a posh Soho gallery?)

Nope, Tom just opened a window onto the whole agenda, which we should have seen from his framing economics about greed and many other signs. Nathan confuses confusing liberalism with a totalitarian impulse. I'm saying that Tom is confusing government of, by, and for the people with a totalitarian impulse, and worse he likes it that way. If that invites some knee-jerk attacks, fine.

Face it: the culture wars are pretty much over except in GOP primary debates. And face it, too: alas, the struggle for a modicum of justice in the Bush era is going to have to regain a lot of ground. Let's not confuse the two. 

John

http://www.haberarts.com/

I think that's brilliant. Then if parents with kids want to block .xxx or .sex then can and he problems solved. But you know who got in the way of that? ICANN, which controls Internet domains. They don't want to "promote" sex sites by giving them their own neighborhood. Which is too bad. The great think about a red light district, especially in cyberspace, is that nobody has to go there.

thosethingswesay.blogspot.com

Deleted Duplicate.

I think you have the conversation just right.

I'm with you on guns, by the way.

Over all, I guess... I enjoy American culture. I think that it's developed really well when left to the people. There are always aspects of culture that we're not going to like. I think it's odd. Last year there was an excellent documentary about the MPAA called "This Film is Not Yet Rated" which accused the MPAA of censoring depictions of sex but not of violence. My reaction was, "Well, I like violent movies too." Some people feel differently. Some people hate gangsta rap and porn sites. I hate Oprah. But I don't go around saying that American culture is sick and demented because it made prah wealthy and influential. I don't go around saying that Oprah is the sign of a spiritual malaise. If I did, I'd be rightly ignored, or perhaps mocked. But it's okay to say that about Jay-Z. You even score points doing it.

My point is, and I think most people here get this, is that our differing tastes aren't a sign of anything broken in American culture. Just the opposite, in fact.

thosethingswesay.blogspot.com

A Red light district, exactly, thank you.

Haven't we learned that prohibition doesn't work? You'd think that after centuries of human civilization, we'd learn that there are reasons red light districts work for societies.

I didn't know that about ICANN, thanks for the education. I don't see how allowing these sites their own domains would be "promoting" them, it would, in effect, be regulating them. It sounds like the same kind of hysterical argument that pops up every now and then when people want to close a sex shop, or clean up a red light district, or even, have a "war on drugs."

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What he said ^

Alphonse ( Al ) Kada
Iranians are fighting the Americans in Iraq so they don't have to fight them on the streets of Tehran

Doesn't sound too good. Tell me more about it. Haven't read about it, at least under that title. Glad to have a normal conversation. Thanks.

If partisanship, then culture war.

If non-partisanship, then culture discussion.

Howard: I've never told you how to live your life. I've given opinions on what I think the good life is, culturally and within the bounds of persuasion, not government coercion. You continually, and either dishonestly or in fits of inexplicable fear, twist it every time I state such opinions into the false premise that I am advocating government coercion.

I don't think the things that the poster you transformed yourself into are healthy things to strain to preserve in the culture. In the context of a community cultural sea-change, we need to have this conversation without obstructionists making false assumptions about the conversation in order to sidetrack it. That's what your doing now. American culture suffers too many ailments that we as a supposed community can't afford to ignore.

I think your post really crystallizes what I find objectionable about what he said--to complain about internet porn instead of all porn or commercialized sexuality in general (I know he spoke of a wide variety of things, but internet porn seemed to be the only thing in the sex sphere) shows that what concerns you isn't greed, lust, or selfishness, but a lack of societal restraint and conformity. Public commercial sexual prurience in broadcast and cinema flies under the radar, but if people can become sexually aroused without their neighbors knowing about it, then it's a problem. I find that a troubling viewpoint, since I believe in both altruism and non-conformity.

It's a double standard that makes me think the problem is not selfishness, but a feeling of creepiness on the part of the median American. He talks about the common good, but it felt more like the least common denominator. The common good is advanced by diversity even if the common man is offended by it.

I've given opinions on what I think the good life is, culturally and within the bounds of persuasion, not government coercion.
You usually do not make such statements as personal opinions, something I make a point of doing when I cannot substantiate things with independent sources. In stating my personal opinions, I often say I am searching for my own way, or can see that multiple ways can coexist.
Thank you for mentioning twisting, because it's something I find you doing constantly. If you don't want things twisted, let us both concentrate on avoiding it. One of the first steps, from my standpoint, is making personal opinion clear, rather than telling another poster "this is absolutely true no matter what you think."
You mention "inexplicable fear". Many Americans, who do not personally want an environment dictated by socially conservative Christians, find fear quite explicable when such, not necessarily you, constantly push that agenda. From previous conversations, as I remember, you are extremely opposed to abortion in any form. I believe in abortion on demand of the woman. Jerry Fallwell, of all people, rather precisely stated the abortion problem, and I shall try to quote them from memory, along with his proposed action. He started out by assuming that both sides act in good faith, and then sad the crux of the issue is that "those who want abortion on demand do not believe that the fetus is a human being with human rights. I do not believe that they are deliberately killing humans. I pray that they will see that a fetus is human."
That's one of the areas where, if we are going to discuss it, we have to agree to disagree. I don't think a fetus has any human status or rights, and lecturing me about that is not going to change my view. Telling me that view corrupts society is also not going to have much effect, although I respect your stating it as your opinion. As far as the corruption of society, I will cite someone intensely opposed to abortion, but whom I respect immensely: C. Everett Koop. As Surgeon General, he commissioned studies to evaluate the psychological effects of abortion on the women that had them. His statement made it clear that, as a pioneering pediatric surgeon, he believed that it was morally wrong to abort on demand, but that he could not present scientifically acceptable data that it harmed the mothers.
In the context of a community cultural sea-change, we need to have this conversation without obstructionists making false assumptions about the conversation in order to sidetrack it
The preceding has a great many emotionally loaded terms, and no semantic content that I can determine. I cannot understand what is being obstructed, what false assumptions are made and the basis on which they can be demonstrated as false, and what exactly is being side-tracked.
In my experience, you are up with the best of them for side-tracking conversations when there starts to be any consensus with which you disagree. Further, there is community sea-change where manufacturers are putting disinfectants into every household product, which is a matter of serious concern among infectious disease specialists. Is that side-tracking enough for you?

--
Howard

*equal opportunity offense to both extremes*

"Those who cannot remember the past are condemned to repeat it" [George Santayana]

While ICANN is intended to be a world body, it is a California corporation, and, without getting into great detail, certain of its authorities are stated in a memorandum of understanding with the US Department of Commerce. It was not the intent of most of the ICANN founders to make it subordinate to the US government in any way, but there are some legal aspects that make that a real possibility.

There was significant Congressional and executive branch opposition to creating an .xxx top-level domain (TLD), and ICANN concluded that it could not win that battle. There were too many levers in the Memorandum of Understanding for them to create that TLD without fear of legal attacks that might shut them down and return a fair bit of authority over the Internet back to US authority.

ICANN is by no means perfect, but it tries to move in useful directions. Part of the situation is that certain contracts, such as the registry controlling the .com TLD, were signed with commercial organizations, in this case Verisign, prior to ICANN getting the authority.

This situation came to a head once, when Verisign, with no particular warning to the Internet operations engineering community, implemented a product called Sitefinder. Sitefinder monetized, for Verisign, the behavior of web browsers when the user mistyped a URL and wound up referring to a nonexistent domain.

Unfortunately, while some argument can be made that it is reasonable behavior for a web browser to take the user to a search engine, or at least give the user that option, for nonexistent domains, the Web is not the only application of the Internet. By making Sitefinder part of the "guts" of the Internet, rather than building the function into web browser, the core Domain Name System (DNS, which translates names to addresses) behavior changed without warning. Among other things, this behavior had a major and negative effect on email protocols.

I attended the public ICANN meeting on Sitefinder, commented on the issues, and am happy to say that Verisign eventually backed down. Part of the reason was that ICANN did make a clear threat of cancelling the Verisign contract over .com. While the legality of ICANN, rather than the US Department of Commerce, cancelling that contract for cause is legally complex, it was something that Verisign did not want to risk. In fairness, Verisign could have inferred it had change authority based solely on the DoC contract. No one, unfortunately, really knows, and it is quite unclear whether US law would govern here.

--
Howard

*equal opportunity offense to both extremes*

"Those who cannot remember the past are condemned to repeat it" [George Santayana]

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I can't believe that a supposed "progressive" (Tom) pulls out the internet porn canard to make a point about what is wrong with our culture.

I find railing against "porn" as an attack on any sex out of wedlock. It is condemning conduct that goes against a religious dogma. This is about the 1st amendment and privacy. By condemning what 2 (oer more) consenting adults do on tape is condemning them engaging in it at all.

Part of the reason porn/erotica is as popular as it is stems from the societal taboo we have placed on sex outside the "traditional marriage". People who enjoy consensual out of wedlock sex/porn are labeled as deviants, sexual predators perverts and libertines who are lookiing to undermine our culture.

The act of sex is a pleasurable one that brings enjoyment and happiness to those who willingly engage in it...what is so bad about that? How did being happy become bad?

As for the religious folk out there. I don't tell you how to live your life or what you do in your own home and all I ask of you is the same. Peace in your journey just keep out of my business!!!

Do you really think that the taboo against casual out of committed relationship sex is the fault of religious people? Is there a possible that that taboo is due to the differences in the sexual natures of men and women?

Nn "...a lot of people are upset by the...sex...in modern society." In your post you said that "there is a whole realm of non-conservative feminists who have antipathy to the values embodied in prevalent porn in our society," -probably includes me.

Our antipathy is not directed at the sex or the porn, it's directed at its subtle yet blatant degradation of women. Does it spill over into our culture? My four high-school and college granddaughters are 'challenged', on occasion, by boys who can't figure out why their requests for blow-jobs get a sock in the jaw or who the @#$$ do you think you are.

Sociologists etc. suggest that the sex act was done under cover by cave-types, and mostly ever since, because a man is at his weakest physically following ejaculation - an ideal time for his 'enemy' to strike. I've wondered if there's some connection between that and the sometimes 'horrors' attached to easily available porn.

Haven't we learned that prohibition doesn't work?

I laughed...then I cried. Unfortunately workerbee we have not learned anything seemingly ever. We seem destined to continually try putting square pegs into round holes. And once that task fails, leaving us with handfuls of splintered wood, we try to bash our own heads and the heads of those around us into that same said hole.

For another illuminating example of us "not learning" may I refer you to aisle 4 and ask you to grab a box of Regime Change.

In other words, libertarianism is for those with an arrested developement of a teenager.
Where as, those of us, who have had our heads kicked in while experiencing the whole "freedom from constraint" idea, think civilization is a great idea. The thing about living, for 20 years, in "one of those" neighborhoods is law,order,and regulation look a lot better than the alternative. Nothing like being broke into three weeks in a row to realise that "right to property" is a very abstract concept

Jack

I think the blame falls squarely on religion's shoulders Robert. The sexual practices of people have been one area organized religions have tried to control from day #1. Sure there are differences in the way the sexes look at relationships, both purely sexual and in sex in the pair bonding, but those differences doesn't chage the fact that both sexes like making love. Men just happen, through genetics, to think about sex more often then women do. Plus we are just focusing on hetereosexual relationships here.

We, as a society, are taught the "morality" of a person is largely determined by their sexual conduct. Liking sex "too much" is abnormal, bad, evil. Organized Christian religions also instill in young males the idea that women are to be subservient to men which leads to dysfunctional relationships and also domestic and sexual violence against women. It isn't the porn that is causing this violence it is the way our "Christian Youth" are being reared. And women are told that if they enjoy sex out of wedlock they are "whores". The Virgin Mary is held up to them in the ultimate affront that sexual chastity is their burden to bear lest they burn in Hell.

Repressing these natural urges to enjoy sex, which organized religion is all about, leads to dangerous sex, binge sex, unprotected sex leading to unwanted pregnancies and rape. We are taught to fear sex, by the forces of organized religion, and sex then becomes a source of guilt and violence rather then the enjoyable act it should be viewed as.

Give us examples of those you consider to be far-left authoritarians.

 I think your post really crystallizes what I find objectionable about what he said--to complain about internet porn instead of all porn or commercialized sexuality in general (I know he spoke of a wide variety of things, but internet porn seemed to be the only thing in the sex sphere) shows that what concerns you isn't greed, lust, or selfishness, but a lack of societal restraint and conformity. Public commercial sexual prurience in broadcast and cinema flies under the radar, but if people can become sexually aroused without their neighbors knowing about it, then it's a problem. I find that a troubling viewpoint, since I believe in both altruism and non-conformity.

 Wow, I've seen a lot of non sequiturs hee before, but yours is a rather spectacular one.

<>Societal restraint is a safety valve on everything from porn, to greed, to drug addiction, to murder, or to any type of selfish and anti-social behavior. There's nothing wrong with a society exercising some for the benefit of that society, unless you're in favor of anarchy. Perhaps you are. In which case, you may as well smash up your computer, your room, and your town, as that is about the only "benefits" of anarchy, the freedom to destroy. 

With all the problems indicated resulting from easy access to Internet Porn, "conformity" is hardly the main concern, nor is it even one of the most important, unless you mean by "conforming" that one will not engage in violent and anti-social behavior, in which case, yer nutz, to put it politely.

Ted Bundy and Gary Bishop both confessed to porn's dominating power in their lives; a 20-year FBI study indicates that 81% of sex murderers name porn as their most significant sexual interest; police investigators routinely find porn in the homes of sex crime suspects; and a study by the Los Angeles Police Department of more than 40 child molestation cases found that pornography was a factor in every single case.

Although law enforcement and mental health professionals are reluctant to say that pornography causes sex crimes, most seem to name it as one of numerous, complex, related factors that serve as precursors to sexual offending. Other issues commonly named by experts include a history of physical or sexual abuse and exposure to domestic violence.

However, what may make porn use emerge as an even more significant factor connected to sex crimes in the future is the easy and abundant availability of porn online. That's why John Rabun, Chief Operating Officer of the National Center for Missing and Exploited Children, calls the Internet the "wild card" of the future concerning sex offenses.

Rabun says that in the past, law enforcement could visit porn shops to discover what sexual perversions were popular and might be connected with future sex crimes. However such investigative techniques no longer work since the Internet offers everything from soft-core to unimaginably violent and degrading types of porn – all via the privacy of a personal computer.

"The Internet just scares us all to death," said Dave Fowers concerning the flood of online porn. Fowers is a 28-year veteran with the Utah Division of Youth Corrections. "I've heard it said in some of our conferences that the Internet will change the way America understands sexuality, and I think it will." It is estimated that as many as 60% of Internet sites offer porn, and that does not include the thousands of sex chat rooms or online clubs.

Porn, teens and sex crimes
Adding to the concern are three factors that focus on adolescents. They are illustrated in the following studies: 1) The Internet has become the primary communication tool for teens, according to a study by America Online; 2) A report from the Kaiser Family Foundation says 70% of teenagers, age 15-17, "have accidentally come across pornography on the Web;" 3) Studies of adult sex offenders suggest that many began their sexually abusive behavior in their youth, according to the National Criminal Justice Reference Service.

So, if the Internet is overflowing with pornography, and impressionable teens are using the Internet in growing numbers, then it's reasonable to assume that greater numbers of adolescents in the future will be tempted to turn sexual fantasies into reality, and continue that behavior into adulthood. Fowers agrees: "When you've been in the trenches for so many years with this issue and you've seen the extremes of sickness, you get the sense that you've seen a good share of what's out there. But I think we're going to be shocked to see whole new systems of ways and means to interact sexually."

Fowers, who has focused his work on juvenile sex offenders for over a dozen years, says he is already beginning to see the edge of a disturbing trend with more teens regularly talking about such perversions as necrophilia, bestiality and ritualistic mutilation. Pornography that features such obscenities is easily found on the Internet.

    http://www.afa.net/journal/novdec/2002/porn.asp

There are real, societal concerns regarding internet pornography. It simply doesn't follow that the most shallow, and least important aspect of regulating it be passed off (with contempt) as the driving factor here.

<>Either you do not, or know anyone that, has children or younger siblings, are so lucky as to have never been  in a situation where the threat of sexual activity with someone you aren't interested in threatens to turn violent, or you're just ignorant of the actual reality of the harms it is (at least partly responsible) for.

One thing I must say for Tom, is he had the guts to bring it up, with all the knee-jerk reactions and loud whines of "don't take away my easy access to sleaze" I'm thinking it's far more of a problem and sickness then anyone previously suspected. 

<>It also occurs to me that to become so shill in your defense of what is, in actuality, smut, that Tom is correct in saying people don't care about the greater good. Of course porn should be kept away from adolescents and children, and sexual offenders. No one wants to take away your right to do or view whatever gets you off, as long as it is between consenting adults and it IS in the privacy of your own home.

Unfortuately, internet porn has found it's ugly way into childrens rooms, workplaces, and Middle Schools, and if you can't talk about that without having a hissy fit about your own selfish wants and convenience, perhaps you are too "emo" and shallow to discuss it at all. 

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You're kidding, right?

Religious folks do not generally want to use politics to arrive at their goals,

Tell that to Pat Robertson, Billy Graham, Jerry Falwell's children, and many many others!  What a joke!  Expecially if their goals are to get rich!

Jan

Well, lately, it seems that being a libertarian is a way to be a republican and not say so:  witness Tucker Carlson, and several local politicians in my own back yard.

How did that happen?

Well, maybe it's what you said in Tucker's case anyway; he is definitely a teenager with arrested development.  I do think it is a hodgepodge where republicans take refuge but don't want to call themselves independents because that sounds too liberal.  They are basically wandering around criticizing everyone, but offering nothing.

Jan

Please read the post that YOU are commenting on.  He did not talk about "censorship."  This is what he did say:

Look, if religious people are going to fight to outlaw abortion, have prayer and schools, teach creationism in science and restrict access to contraception...

Are you saying that the religious right is not proposing governmental intrusion in these areas? 

Jan

Some social restraint is necessary, of course. But it's not a good in and of itself. Free will is. God left us capable of committing sin for a reason. I'm not defending porn at all. I think churches and families and media should come out against it. I don't think politicians should though. I agree that we should be less selfish--but to single out Internet Porn (and capitalize it!) just demonstrates that, it's less about selfishness and more about singling out what ordinary people find ugly. It's less a matter of common good and more a matter of common taste. It isn't just that I oppose coercion (though you can't seem to decide whether you do or not) I simply don't think the black-and-white rhetorical forms of political argument are conducive to discovering what is truly worthwhile in life.

The only porn they ever found Ted Bundy with was some cheerleading magazines. Do we need a moral crusade against all graven images? Whatever the image is, someone will find it appealing in a way that you and I find creepy.

There was a post Bruce Schneier made about terrorism The War on the Unexpected that seems relevant to this issue. Serial killers and molesters are likely to be outliers in society--but a society that attacks all outlier behavior is not conducive to the common good. It's a cliche, but it's true--our differences make us strong. All greeks are men but not all men are greeks. Most sex offenders look at porn but most porn observers are not sex offenders.

You know, with Tom Periello I probably made too much of a single paragraph--though given the intentionally procative nature of the paragraph in question I think that should be understandable. I'm sorry if you thought my last post was referring to what you had said--I meant that what you had said made clear what I found objectionable about what he had said.

But when you go on and on like that, well...don't go tossing around assessments of my psychology based on my posts when your own are such glass houses. It's precisely that kind of rhetoric that I think makes political discussion (even non-coercive) a poor source of values--when we argue factual matters like GDP someone is right and someone is wrong, but when it comes to our values it's just not acceptable for you to call everyone who disagrees with you "nuts" anymore than it was when Tom called us dishonest.

Gandhi made all Satyagraha reformers swear Bramacharya (abstinence) oaths. But he rooted his reforms in Self Control, not Social Control. (Ultimately self control brought social power, but such motivation could not be the motivation of true selflessness.) And his firm conviction on nonviolence was built on an acknowledgment, given the fallibility of human reason, one can never rule out the possibility that the other fellow is right. Not until we adopt a politics like that could our politics ever truly encompass our highest values.

Excuse me.  Are you the same person who accused me of inaccuracies and overgeneralizations? 

...a culture of abortion, porn, contraceptives in lunchboxes and kids who don't pray on your watch is the culture of American dignity?

Just asking, because the "contraceptives in lunchboxes" kinda threw me.  FYI -- people -- even children can pray whenever and wherever they want to.  It is only those who want it to be institutionalized who are making a stink --> what is the purpose of praying if your pals don't notice?  Well, they have a point there, because there actually IS no point!  Now if they want to scream it out so it disturbs others, well... that is not really fair.

How in the hell are we a culture of abortion?  If we are a culture of abortion, then so is your "god," who manages to abort 80% of conjoined sperm and eggs.  We are a culture of parents, of children; of thinkers and non-thinkers.  We are a culture of workers and lazy people.  We are a culture of law-abiders and scoff-laws.  We are a culture of people who believe in the common good, and republicans.  We are a culture of the sick and the lucky; of the fat and the thin.

Go and put some marbles into your half-empty glass! 

But as to American dignity, we have lost it because of our arrogance and repudiation of international law; we have tortured and cheated; we have lied and invaded.  That is where we lost our dignity.  Grow up!

 

Jan

Well, after being here for over 2 years, I lost my "good Karma" because ElCampasino rated me "1" for every post for about a week or longer.  He admitted that he did it without even reading what I said, or if he did read it, whether he agreed or not, but to "teach me a lesson." 

So because of a troll, I lost my "trusted user" status.  Is that fair?  Is anyone paying attention?  I am too busy to send the complaint to "management," but it really ticks me off!

Jan

Jesus also said that putting someone in the path of temptation is a sin. If you want to use the Bible as a basis, you'll be sorely disappointed.

I understand you're looking at--what in your conceit you consider--the "higher level of understanding."

Unfortunately, that doesn't help the kids here on the Earth in the here and now, and your complaints and whining over your access to something that traditionally has been a private matter, (for perfectly good reasons,) strikes me as extremely platitudinous.

If I live in a glass house, you are denuded on a platform in Times Square. And the Pope's handing out condoms.

Sorry 'dude,' your complaint appears to proclaim your priorites, and they're hardly noble ones. I'll stick with the common sense, historically competent, ideal of the common good. If I run on and on, It is only because as I type, the flaws in your complaint become more numerous and senseless.

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It is hardly an attack against all sex outside of marriage. Sex requires another consenting adult, (customarily), didn't you know cruisin the net is a soletary pursuit?

I do not think Tom is argueing against all porn. Just Excess Porn, you know, the kind that cuts down on workplace productivity, Marital duty, and Middle School kids learning about it by actual participation, rather than distorted fantasies?

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No.

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Asking Mikey to grow up? Jan, I'm disappointed in you. I thought you didn't believe in miracles.

I think you've made a good point here, but I don't think that easy access to porn is the answer.

Seems to me it feeds the problem. Especially with inexperienced youth. False expectations lead to diappointment and shame, too.

I don't think anyone would argue that porn should go away. I think the argument is how to keep it from becoming an unhealthy preoccuption, which it appears to me it's been doing.

More of it doesn't appear to help eliminate the shame of it, to do that, you'd have to make it a bit more honest.

[fade to the scene in the automat in "When Harry met Sally")

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You're missing quite a few opportunities to downrate me. I have been calling Mgmax a troll all over the blog. Have at me.

Jesus also said that putting someone in the path of temptation is a sin.

I do not disagree. I believe I made clear that we should use culture and religion to oppose porn. But to put it in political terms just isn't compatible with the sort of politics we have in America. What Jesus and Gandhi understood is that we must reform ourselves before we reform the other--if you want the marginalized and lonely to refrain from porn (which I agree that they should), you should ask the majority culture to forsake it's own commercialized sexuality in entertainment and advertisement. Pull the plank from your own eye before offering to remove the mote from your brother's.

To seek reform of the other before reform of the self is just another form of selfishness. (A form of selfishness with very obvious foreign policy implications).

If you want to use the Bible as a basis, you'll be sorely disappointed.

I use the Bible and numerous other holy and artistic works to inform my values. I've never been disappointed with this approach. Certainly not this time.

Unfortunately, that doesn't help the kids here on the Earth in the here and now,

Internet porn is not the biggest issue hurting children. It's not even the biggest sexual issue--I would first blame the images of transactional, commodified sexuality that pervade mainstream culture. But in case you haven't noticed, teen pregnancy rates and such have been falling over the past decade or so.

If I live in a glass house, you are denuded on a platform in Times Square

Then why you are still not able to understand what I'm saying? If you think I'm writing here in defense of porn, you must not have read anything I wrote in this entire thread.

I'll stick with the common sense, historically competent, ideal of the common good.

Most people understand that freedom is the core of the common good. That linkage has historically been at the heart of America promote the general welfare was followed immediately by secure the blessings of liberty to ourselves and our posterity.

If I run on and on, It is only because as I type, the flaws in your complaint become more numerous and senseless.

Try typing less and reading more.

I hear what you are saying about surfing the net for porn being a solitary endeavor workerbee, lol.  The fact that people want to "reach" into your home and control what you watch is no different then trying to control your conduct in the home.  Could reinstitution of "Sodomy" laws be far behind, if you agree with that premise?

 

And as far as "Excess" or "Extreme" porn goes...what is "Excess" or "Extreme" is subjective.  Each person might differ on the definition of that.  As long as no laws are being broken, it is performed only by adults for adults and consenting ones at that, why should content be censored?  The access of internet porn by minors is a BIG problem.  Minors should not have access to it.  I think the responsibility of making sure minors don't have access to it falls within the home.  But something needs to be done about some of the porn sites that target minors...which isn't the majority of them...but one porn site which targets minors as an audience is one too many.

I posted my thoughts on some of this further down the thread workerbee, but there are a couple of issues from this post I didn't address.

Well part of the reason that our nation is so fixated with it is because how porn and sexual activity is being suppressed.  People enjoy sex and when they are denied it they go looking for it.  I think how erotica is suppressed is the main cause of it's popularity. 

As a country we really need to have a healthier attitude towards sex.  I am not saying promote it...people can handle their sexual urges on their own...but don't allow the spread misinformation, lies and fear about it though.  Yeah more frank and open in the discussions about it.  And as far as porn "going away"...it ain't happening, lol.  Erotica has existed since the dawn of humanity until now.  I doubt human nature will be changing at this point in time. ;-)

 

:-) 

Thank you Howard, your knowledge never ceases to amaze me.

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Hum, I think that happened to Howard and I over the Fred Dobbs. I think the cure is for anyone who is interested to go back and uprate those comments. I'm not sure, but I'll go give it a try.

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Aside from non sequiturs, at which you excel, your capacity to contradict yourself several times in a post is unparalleled.

Heck of a job.

I suggest you think a little more and type a little less. When you get it sorted out, let me know.

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I hear what you are saying about surfing the net for porn being a solitary endeavor workerbee, lol. The fact that people want to "reach" into your home and control what you watch is no different then trying to control your conduct in the home. Could reinstitution of "Sodomy" laws be far behind, if you agree with that premise?

I don't agree with your "either/or" premise. Should a business be able to restrict an employees access to porn while using their equipment, on the clock? Should a parent be able to restrict pornographic content to a child? Or a school? Or a library? Should a society be able to regulate content on public airwaves or commercial broadcast when kids are likely to be watching?

You live here in Connecticut, you know about that substitute teacher that got spammed by a porm site "pop-up" generator in a classroom, she's facing prosecution. (I would have pulled the plug) but should that have ever happened? What about her freedom to be free of that in a classroom?

"Sodomy?"

Do you think that kids should have easy access to websites with graphic pictures of naked people sodomizing eachother? Even if "tastefully done," is it something you'd feel comfortable with, say a 9-year-old viewing because they were googling dog toys and typed in "big bone?" That happened to us, I'd just hooked up our high speed, and my kid and her friend were having fun on Petsmarts website, so I left them for a minute to make a snack, and later, I saw what happened in the history. I put parental controls on after that, but my point is it was too easy for that to happen.

This isn't either/or. 'Freedom to' is always tempered with 'freedom from.'

And as far as "Excess" or "Extreme" porn goes...what is "Excess" or "Extreme" is subjective. Each person might differ on the definition of that. As long as no laws are being broken, it is performed only by adults for adults and consenting ones at that, why should content be censored?

Certainly it's subjective, but we have ratings systems in place elsewhere, (movies, websites, books) that do not generate much controversy, because for the most part, we as a society came up with those parameters. I disagree that we can't collectively agree on a definition.

The access of internet porn by minors is a BIG problem. Minors should not have access to it. I think the responsibility of making sure minors don't have access to it falls within the home. But something needs to be done about some of the porn sites that target minors...which isn't the majority of them...but one porn site which targets minors as an audience is one too many.

I'm glad you agree, and aside from putting them on their own domain, there is no surefire way to prevent it from happening. So scold us parents all you like, unless we have the tools we need to prevent porn sites from foiling filters, (and they actively work at that,) and kids having access to computers (like at auntie and uncle's house) that aren't as strictly filtered as their school and home computers, the only way to restrict access is a domain ban. I'm afraid children are rather prevalent in our society, and "pop up" just about everywhere. It seems common sense to protect them, if we have the means, everywhere.

Porn sites that play by the rules and don't target minors are tarred by the same brush as some that push the envelope as hard as they can. I hear what you are saying about excessive violence vs. sex, and I largely agree, but I don't think exposing people to BDSM will help correct that obvious imbalance.

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Just because you disagree with something yet can't think of a counter-argument does not mean it is either a non sequitur or a contradiction.

Here, I sorted it out for you. You're welcome.

You're amusing.

Indeed, pluck that plank out of your eye.

Explain to me please, how expecting everyone to "reform themselves" has anything to do with this topic.

Great advice, be perfect, and if you can't manage that, oh well, anything goes?

"Reforming" oneself naturally means trying to reform ones environment, the way to accomplish that is through regulating access to addictive or potentially harmful substances, and societal restrants, NOT by expecting that everyone will stop viewing porn if they become "enlightened."
That's so unrealistic as to be ridiculous.

Seems to me you are quite intolerant of those that do enjoy porn legally and safely in their own homes. You aren't satisfied with restricting it there, you want to get into their heads.

I'll take regulation as the lesser evil.

Is societal reform a part of individual reform? Can individual reform be promoted by societal reform? Or is it that both have a bearing on eachother.

I'd say the later, and Ghandi apparently thought so, too.

SOMEONE has to think about society and the practical workings in that society, even if they themselves aren't particularly "enlightened."

It doesn't follow that these problems can be cured by individuals focusing on themselves, that's what got our society into this mess in the first place.

You're welcome for this realistic enlightenment, I'll be happy to provide some, any time.

Explain to me please, how