Protecting Parents from Workplace Discrimination
We may say as a country that we value families and mothers, but a rise in job discrimination complaints by moms highlights how far most workplaces are from that ideal. Yesterday, to help clarify the responsibilities of employers, the Federal Equal Employment Opportunity Commission (EEOC) issued new guidelines on what kinds of discrimination against parents is illegal.
Under federal law, the guidelines explain, an employer cannot encourage career advancement for men with children, while denying promotions to women with children or otherwise stereotyping working women with children as less able to cope than their male counterparts.
But here's the sad and somewhat shocking part. Nothing in federal law stops an employer from discriminating against parents generally:
Title VII does not prohibit discrimination based solely on parental or other caregiver status, so an employer does not generally violate Title VII’s disparate treatment proscription if, for example, it treats working mothers and working fathers in a similar unfavorable (or favorable) manner as compared to childless workers.
While many states prohibit discirmination based on marital status, only Alaska and the District of Columbia explicitly protect parents as a class from discrimination in the workplace. Pennsylvania is considering a bill to ban discrimination based on "familial status" as well as "marital status" A key way to stop discrimination against parents, especially moms, is to bar employers from even asking in interviews whether an applicant is married or has kids, an important provision of the proposed Pennsylvania law patterned on other states which bar such questions.
MomsRising is focusing national attention on the campaign with a petition in support of the Pennsylvania bill, a step to bringing greater consciousness of the problem to states around the country. See also Progressive States & MomsRising on Prohibiting Discrimination Based on Family Responsibilities











Comments (35)
Shocking. One thing to note about this is that, with the demographic bulge heading towards retirement, the idea that childless workers are more productive than parents who work will be hard to sustain (whether or not it is true today), inasmuch as family leave and absenteeism will also accrue to those who need to take care of aging parents (and, for that matter, spouses).
May 24, 2007 11:38 AM | Reply | Permalink
Nathan,
What do you mean by discrimination here?
If a worker with a kid and a worker without are doing their jobs equally well then obviously they should be treated the same way.
But if the childless worker is more present or more efficient or is performing better, that's not discrimination.
In my experience, there's probably no difference between workers with or without kids on a day to day basis but I've certainly seen people without kids get promoted while people with kids ar eon maternity leave. Would you consider that discrimination? Or just the breaks?
thosethingswesay.blogspot.com
May 24, 2007 12:16 PM | Reply | Permalink
I think the point here is that, under federal law, there are no protections against discriminating against people because they have children. You are right, I suppose, that such workers aren't discriminated against if they are less efficient than their coworkers. But one could imagine a workplace in which the employer presumes generally that workers with children will be less efficient, and, say, lays them off first. It may or may not happen, but there is no barrier in the law against it.
May 24, 2007 12:32 PM | Reply | Permalink
Which in fact does happen all the time. Mothers are not hired on the presumption that they will be less productive and are not promoted on the same presumption.
May 24, 2007 12:42 PM | Reply | Permalink
I wonder to what degree the absence of protection stems from the fact that conservative policymakers continue to come from the part of the right that opposes women working in the first place.
May 24, 2007 1:17 PM | Reply | Permalink
So what would be the burden of proof for the parent claiming discrimination?
And if an employer has good numbers showing that a parent's absences had affected job performance to the point where non-parents similarly situated had been fired, demoted, refused promotion, or otherwise adversely affected to the same extent as the plaintiff, would the suit survive a summary judgment motion?
May 24, 2007 1:21 PM | Reply | Permalink
A key way to stop discrimination against parents, especially moms, is to bar employers from even asking in interviews whether an applicant is married or has kids....
But what would the job applicant do if asked the question? A friend of mine faced a similar dilemma in med school interviews. She knew that such questions were not legal, but she figured that refusing to answer would be a decisive black mark. (She later talked with some people on the admission committee and had been spot on in her assessment.) I think that having such a law would be better than not, but I don't know that it would accomplish much.
May 24, 2007 1:32 PM | Reply | Permalink
This seems like a solution in search of a problem or possibly a subgroup in search of a grievance.
It certainly unfair to say "we'll let the mothers go, because they aren't as dedicated to the company", but it's also unfair to not hire 20-something single women because they'll find a guy and have a baby and quit. It's also unfair to lay off a better-performing man in order to save the job of someone who is married and "has a family to support". All of these could happen and I've seen the last two actually happen.
It seems like there's a baseless assumption that it's possible for everyone to have it all, and that choices don't have to have consequences. You want kids and a family? That's great, lots of people do, but to expect the time away from work that they can require to not affect your career is unrealistic.
May 24, 2007 1:47 PM | Reply | Permalink
I tend to think that parents need protection against discrimination that assumes that becuase they are parents, they can't be counted on to be professional about pulling their weight, taking their jobs seriously, etc.
On the other hand, I have seen cases where parents seemed to think it was okay to "put their family first"--ahead of the job--even in a non-emergency. As an example, I remember a co-woker who seemed to think that it was perfectly reasonable to fire her child-care person (not for abusing her children but for feeding them peanut butter and jelly for lunch instead of something heathier ) and then call in and say she couldn't come to work for a week until she found a new caregiver. Meanwhile, others had to pick up the slack while we were on deadline. She was apologetic, but as she explained it she felt she had to "put her children first."
As a working mother, I would have felt that I had to keep said care-giver (who also let the kids watch too much TV) until I could find a substitute--interviewing applicants at night after work.
This leads me to think that employers, co-workers and clients also may need some protection from parents who believe that they have a right to put family first, while holding onto a job--even if that means that other suffer.
Here, I'm again thinking of a specific example. A friend, who is an immigrant from Mexico, takes his children's education very seriously. (He also helps other kids in his neighborhood--parents who don't speak English send their kids to his house for help with their homework.)
Recently he was complaining to me that his daughter's 3rd grade teacher isn't doing her job. It seems that she is pregant, and having some difficulty with the pregancy, so is very frequently absent either because she has a doctor's appointment, or because she isn't feeling well.
In the past few months, she has been out about a third of the time. Each time, the class has a "sub" and little work gets done.
In addition, even when the teacher is in school, she is tired, and often doesn't collect the homework. So many students have stopped doing it. His daughter continues to do it (her Dad insists) but is very disappointed when it isn't collected or checked.
He said that he went in to talk to the principal about this--with no success. "The principal said she is a very good teacher--and I agree," he said. "I have no problem with her as a good teacher. But this year, she isn't teaching, and my kid needs a teacher. This is hurting my kid."
It strikes me that this is a case where the teacher really should have started taking her six-month paid maternity leave as soon as her pregnancy began keeping her out of school. Instead, she is saving the six months until she has the baby, so that she can spend six months at home with her child.
This is understandable, but not fair to her students.
I'd be interested, Nathan, in your view--should there be a law that forces her to take a leave (either the six months paid maternity leave that she has coming, and/or an unpaid leave) so that her students have a full-time teacher?
P.s. I definitely think she should have a right to take as much as a year's leave (paid, unpaid, or ssome combination) without losing her job.
May 24, 2007 1:56 PM | Reply | Permalink
Yeah, that might not pass muster, but I assume that this could play out in a lot of other ways than an individual fired for performance reasons. For example, assuming a genuinely discriminatory workplace, there might be tellingly disproportionate patterns that can be proven - e.g. that everyone laid off in a particular down cycle was a woman with a child, or simply that all new hires are childless (if the applicant pool is skewed the other way).
May 24, 2007 2:06 PM | Reply | Permalink
People really ask such things? I would have thought that we'd all know better.
May 24, 2007 2:22 PM | Reply | Permalink
Mothers are not hired on the presumption that they will be less productive and are not promoted on the same presumption.
and what happens if the presumption is true?
if someone is single and has no problem with responding to pagers but an individual with kids does, what does that employer do?
blaming/faulting the employer makes no sense to me because it's their customers that need attention.
for example, when I was going to the university, "the teacher" had her kids outside the door and she would periodically check up on them and even became annoyed at me for wanting attention.
besides that, her office hours were such that she could ferry her kids around.
in my mind, that woman was negligent because I was paying $75 an hour for her services and she was baby sitting her kids.
To boldly go...
May 24, 2007 2:46 PM | Reply | Permalink
If the presumption turns out to be true, then the employer can deal with it. If there are some kinds of demonstrable grounds to think that a specific individual will not perform their job well, then the employer doesn't have to hire them. If the employer applies this standard to every interviewee that walks in the door, and hires accordingly, then it's discriminatory (in the common meaning of the term, though evidently not under the law).
May 24, 2007 3:03 PM | Reply | Permalink
It seems like there's a baseless assumption that it's possible for everyone to have it all, and that choices don't have to have consequences. You want kids and a family? That's great, lots of people do, but to expect the time away from work that they can require to not affect your career is unrealistic.
I'm a little baffled by this 'have it all' line of argument that keeps coming up. I don't think anybody really expects there to be no career consequences for having a family (save Mom and Dad Strawman); wanting there to be a legal barrier to firing you for the express reason that you have kids isn't wanting to have it all.
The funny thing is that the argument you are making tends to focus on upper middle class professional parents as the model for who is asking for this, as if talking about discrimination against parents is a sign of our entitlement. In truth, the parents who are likely to face real discrimination, the ones who we should be talking about here, are the working class parents who work in relatively low-paying, low-skill jobs, not the ones who supposedly want to "have it all."
May 24, 2007 3:06 PM | Reply | Permalink
Why do so many people not find it disturbing that one of the issues at the heart of this is that we as a nation place more value on "work" than "family"?
I personally find it upsetting that a large number of people in this country -- almost certainly the pro-productivity crowd included -- proclaim themselves to be "family values" people yet subscribe to this line of reasoning. What exactly IS "family values" and if you discriminate or remove "family-types" from the workplace, how can they support a family in the first place? Do we form some kind of insect-like society with breeders and worker drones, each exclusively performing their required tasks?
Isn't this argument ultimately about supporting a system which is emphasizes capitalistic priorities while demonizing and damning family priorities? I think about the list of things we as workers have been forced to give up or endure in the name of "productivity" in recent years (smaller staffs, increased job requirements, diminishing benefits, lack of job security, out sourcing, wages out-of-synch with cost of living increases, etc.), and from my perspective it is "family" that is now on the chopping block as something a "good worker" should avoid. This is very troubling to me.
May 24, 2007 3:14 PM | Reply | Permalink
I have been on lots of job interviews and received many job offer (large companies and small) and the issue of children does not come up until you start doing the benefit forms (after you've been hired).
I have interviewed potential employees who bring up their children without any questioning or prompting on my part. I am not really that interested in what they do outside of work, or if they have children or not, but many people seem to want to paint a "complete" picture of themselves.
May 24, 2007 3:31 PM | Reply | Permalink
Good point... every job candidate sells themselves in their own way. I do a lot of theatre outside of work. One friend of mine, who is an actor, doesn't mention it to his employers because he's afraid they will see him as just trying to find a day job while he's really pursuing another dream. I've always emphasized it in the interview because I think it will make me stand out as somebody with creative interests.
Either method seems to work fine. It's a matter of style.
thosethingswesay.blogspot.com
May 24, 2007 3:35 PM | Reply | Permalink
Truth is, while everybody says they're all about "family first," few people are.
Where I differ with you is that I think it's entirely legitimate for people to have goals, wants and dreams that outrank "family" on their lists of priorities.
I just wish people would be honest about it.
It's almost impolite, and certainly impolitic to say that "family isn't first for me," but it isn't first for a lot of people. That's not even as sad an observation as it sounds. We're told it's supposed to be sad. But a lot of those goals that outweigh family are pretty compelling.
thosethingswesay.blogspot.com
May 24, 2007 3:46 PM | Reply | Permalink
I fully agree with you there too, I do not thing that everyone should be family first...unless of course they decide to have a family. It's at that point that I think they should be! IMHO, our country has had a serious problem over the last few generations in the steady increase is selfish, ego driven lifestyles while raising a family. All I'm saying is that if you're going to have a family...WANT to have a family and live your life and alter your priorities accordingly. Children are not fashion accessories and families are not health club memberships. If everyone had kids of course over population would be worse than it is. But we should not make life more difficult or impossible for those who do wish to have them. And for those that do, step up to the responsibility.
Even for those who do not wish to have families, placing primacy on capitalistic priorities can and will still hurt you. Replace "family" with "personal quality of life" and the formula is the basically the same isn't it? Sure it's great that someone achieves a high level of professional success and, if they are lucky, a tidy sum of money too. But at what cost? I suppose I'm looking for a more Yin/Yang approach to personal/professional life in order to attain happiness and success. And I think that's a reasonable and attainable expectation! If I retire rich but haggard after years of thanklessly being chewed up and spat out by my job I'm not sure I'd look back and see success. I guess money can't buy you happiness, just lots of stuff to make you forget how miserable you are. Maybe there's some solace in that.
May 24, 2007 4:57 PM | Reply | Permalink
We probably don't disagree a bit.
When I was thinking of other priorities I was thinking "write a kick-ass novel" or "cure cancer."
thosethingswesay.blogspot.com
May 24, 2007 5:03 PM | Reply | Permalink
Get too it!
I am expecting a kick-ass novel that cures cancer within the next year or so (I need some new reading material and maybe it will be preventive too)!
May 24, 2007 5:14 PM | Reply | Permalink
I really am working on it.
It won't cure cancer.
But I think it'll be worth a read someday.
I hope.
thosethingswesay.blogspot.com
May 24, 2007 5:20 PM | Reply | Permalink
I might mention the family thing when I think it has strategic value (when I'm the one being interviewed, of course), either because of the kids pictures on the wall, or because sometimes mentioning things that interviewers know they can't ask you, even if they don't care, makes them think they've learned a lot about you.
How craven interviewing for jobs makes me....
May 24, 2007 7:09 PM | Reply | Permalink
I know that "data" is not the plural of anecdote, honest! But my friend was being interviewed for medical school, which has a different dynamic than being interviewed for jobs. I think that they tried to couch it as "how dedicated are you to becoming a doctor," but it was still pretty appalling.
May 24, 2007 8:02 PM | Reply | Permalink
right, but it's often hard to fire after hire. for this reason, I've met people who hire based on personality, age, sex, skills, the university where they graduated, etc...
they've also used job descriptions to encourage certain people to apply while discouraging others.
as much as I've tried, I haven't been able to change work culture, etc... and, thus, I've had to go through a few jobs, etc..., before I found my current position where, as far as I know, the power balance and expectations worked out.
for that reason alone, I don't see why laws are needed because the "at will" labor contracts let people move around to find happiness and fit.
in some ways, I see Nathan trying to put square pegs in round holes.
one innovative company that prefers "work-at-home moms" is JetBlue. (see article) I remember reading that the JetBlue CEO gushed about these women because they were loyal (low turnover), on the job (didn't call in sick) and took a lot of pride in their jobs.
my point is that win-win job situations can be as powerful, or even more powerful, than writing laws that people ignore and/or fight.
To boldly go...
May 24, 2007 8:37 PM | Reply | Permalink
my point is that win-win job situations can be as powerful, or even more powerful, than writing laws that people ignore and/or fight.
I agree with you personally - I work in a very portable field, and tend to rely on the union of my two feet to protect my rights as a worker.
But I think that the people who face job discrimination because of parental status aren't so much me as they are women who work in low-skilled jobs who are less able to simply walk out and find something new.
Interesting about Jet Blue. I think this report was discussed somewhere here at the Cafe, but it's sort of in the same vein - the retirement of the baby boomers will create labor shortages that will make it easier for people out of the workforce to care for children to get back in, and for others to negotiate benefits like flex-time. (We'll see if it trickles down, though.)
May 25, 2007 5:47 AM | Reply | Permalink
I agree with you personally - I work in a very portable field, and tend to rely on the union of my two feet to protect my rights as a worker.
One of the blogs that I read (Of Two Minds) is talking about about the barriers of being a small business.
It's interesting to ponder what will happen in the future with pensions and health care benefits. Since I don't have either, my "economic interests" seem to lie with "lower taxes" in order to preserve my nest egg from being used to bail out underfunded pensions and health care promises.
However, I see single-payer, universal health care as a good political solution since it equalizes the benefits and entices both sides to support it.
To boldly go...
May 25, 2007 12:28 PM | Reply | Permalink
That's just the problem, parents SHOULD have a right to put family first in some cases - while holding onto a job.
I've heard the childless piss and moan about this. If a coworker goes home early to care for a sick child, they typically make sarcastic cracks like "I have to stay home and take care of my dog..."
IMO, they can suck it. Whiners.
(VictorLaszlo is a single dad with full physical custody, and has been for over 10 years.)
May 25, 2007 3:20 PM | Reply | Permalink
If a coworker goes home early to care for a sick child, they typically make sarcastic cracks like "I have to stay home and take care of my dog..."
I find myself wondering if anybody really wants to live in a society that reifies this attitude as policy. A person might not like his coworker to leave to care for their sick child, but would he really want to work in a place where the coworker is compelled to stay?
May 25, 2007 4:12 PM | Reply | Permalink
Precisely.
...further, said complaining worker seems to be operating on the premise that the parent with a sick child is 'lucky', because he/she gets to go home early.
May 25, 2007 5:03 PM | Reply | Permalink
Or maybe in all fairness it's that the speaker is unlucky, because the parent will come back bearing germs. That's the complaint I'd have, if I were the complaining type.
May 25, 2007 8:10 PM | Reply | Permalink
Why do so many people not find it disturbing that one of the issues at the heart of this is that we as a nation place more value on "work" than "family"?
when did work lose its status of being a family value?
when kids are born, there are more mouths to feed.
In a world with a growing population, it isn't clear that we necessarily need more famlies.
To boldly go...
May 26, 2007 6:53 AM | Reply | Permalink
You are the perfect straw man for this issue. I fully support the idea that profiling of parents, and particularly mothers, as less qualified workers is a serious problem, and should be illegal.
However, it is a personal choice to have children. I cannot stress this enough. In a society with available birth control and legal abortions, not to mention adoption, all people ultimately CHOOSE to have children or not. This choice should not have spillover consequences to other people. I think that parents should not be given special treatment in terms of their children by law, although of course, companies should be free to negotiate with employees for family leave.
May 26, 2007 10:09 PM | Reply | Permalink
Under the surface, I think this contains a contradiction.
Assuming that companies are free to negotiate family leave, every employer will come up with their own plan. Some will see it as a responsibility of the employer, and will accordingly budget to hire temporary workers to replace employees on leave. Others will not, and will assume that existing staff will take up the slack while their coworkers are out. The only way to allow for family leave and ensure that there aren't spillover consequences to other people is to allow for "special treatment in terms of their children by law," by setting policies in federal law about parental leave, including hiring temporary replacements. Maybe you don't like that (and maybe it'll never happen), but one of your three points in the second paragraph has to be jettisoned.
May 27, 2007 4:21 AM | Reply | Permalink
Re: Mothers are not hired on the presumption that they will be less productive
Unless the interviewee brings it up herself hgow would the employer even know if a prospective employee they are interviewing is a parent? Employers obviously find out later who has kids, but during the hiring process I have never found that marital or parental status comes up in any way.
May 27, 2007 7:36 AM | Reply | Permalink