Where Is The Love?
Obama to Stephanopoulos on This Week:
I think that I have the capacity to get people to recognize themselves in each other.
Obama to graduating college students last week:
There’s a lot of talk in this country about the federal deficit. But I think we should talk more about our empathy deficit – the ability to put ourselves in someone else’s shoes; to see the world through those who are different from us – the child who’s hungry, the laid-off steelworker, the immigrant woman cleaning your dorm room.
As you go on in life, cultivating this quality of empathy will become harder, not easier.
Obama is calling for the cultivation of social empathy.
Look at the Right in America today. On nearly every policy, the dehumanization of some Other is fundamental to the project. Immigrants risking their lives to seek something better for their families are freeloading criminals. LGBT folks trying to be happy on their own terms are social deviants trying to destroy the family. Muslims are interchangeably targeted and all a part of some amorphous evil block threatening Western civilization. As Bill Moyers put it when describing Jerry Falwell, it is "a trait of the fundamentalist mind to deny the humanity of others."
It's not just fundamental to the Right, it's a serious cultural problem for the Left. The New York Times reported last month that a growing body of research shows the ways in which diversity in America--racial, ethnic, religious, and linguistic-- is a major barrier to having the political will to build a more meaningful social safety net. It's no coincidence, the article notes, that the social democratic success stories in Scandinavia are pretty much culturally homogeneous.
Obama's call for a "new kind of politics" based around this kind of mutual understanding and an end to an active demonization of political opponents discomforts a lot of people on the Left who see echoes of Lieberman-esque capitulation and collusion in the cloak of bipartisanship. And Obama hasn't done enough to calm these worries by staking out his territory on the Left on the policy side.
But it would be a mistake, I think, to replace the Othering politics of the Right with an Othering politics of our own. It's hard to blame folks for hating Bush and the dishonest jingoists he's populated our government with. But we should remember that our heroes, the MLKs and the RFKs, preached love and empathy for even those who are unable to return the sentiment.



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Back in the playground days we used to play basketball with whoever was on hand: 2-on-2, 3-on-2, 3-on-3, 7-on-6, whatever. And people would rearrange and switch sides as needed to keep things even and fun. We were quite competitive and loved to win, but we were playing against our neighbors and schoolmates who were not necessarily our friends (and might even have been our enemies) but with whom we knew we needed to maintain at least non-destructive relationships for 7 or 8 more years.
The problem is that such a system requires that all parties have a fundamental allegiance to getting along, and specifically to handling losses without developing longstanding brutal grudges. If a small group had ever gotten together and made an agreement to subvert the system and behave destructively in a coordinated manner they could have done a lot of damage over a period of a year or more before the rest of us figured out what was happening - and then our only alternative would have been to terminate the system. If trust had been destroyed it could not have been replaced.
This is what concerns me about Obama: he either doesn't understand this, or he thinks that his personal charisma will be sufficient to overcome the planned, coordinated, dedicated politics of hatred and destruction from the Radical Right. I don't think he can; the dolstchosslegende attack alone is going to be brutal beyond imagining from 2009-2012 and the Radicals are going to focus every effort (and hundreds of millions of dollars) on blaming the Democratic President and Congress for every single thing that is done to try to clean up W's mess (staring with Iraq).
Strong as our Constitutional system is I don't think it was ever intended to resist a large-scale, long-term, tightly-organized effort to subvert it from within. Obama thinks he can wave a magic wand of charisma and everyone (including the Radicals' base) will fall under the spell and agree to play nice again. I don't see it happening - the Radicals worked for 30 years to get the chance to accomplish what they have done under Bush/Cheney and they aren't going to give it back without and eye-gouging fight.
sPh
May 23, 2007 7:46 AM | Reply | Permalink
This is the second post on here recently where the politics of alterity have become a major issue (Yasemin Congar's being the other). Obama wants to frame this in terms of empahty, which, I think, is complicated insofar as it tends to leave an awful lot of room for the implicit presumption that other = disadvantaged, in harms way, struggling, etc. I think a different, and importantly better way to frame it, might be to consider that we must view the other in the first instance as deserving of respect; and only then, only after that respect is in play, should the other become a subject of evaluation.
In an odd way, this is a very traditional structure that one can find playing out in ettiquette structures all over the political sphere, even in the politics of polite debate in congress. However, at a more fundamental level, respect for the other in his or her alterity seems to me to be a fundamental precondition for a form of empathy that does not degenerate very quickly into a sort of normalizing patriarchalism, on the one hand, or a kind of 'trump card' where we use a the question of whether or not someone conforms to 'our' defintion of what empathy should entail as a criterion for determining whether or not they are a 'good' person. That is to say, empathy, precisely because of its essential vagueness, is not strong enough to prevent precisely the integrity of the other that we seek to establish and protect from nevertheless being erased.
I think Andrew is right that it is a very very dangerous trap for the left at this juncture to allow itself to become captive to a kind of agonistic contempt for our political opponents. Indeed, one need only look at the comments on a lot of the more stridently political left blogs to see how vicious such a politics can become, and how nearly indistinguisable in tone some of the attacks can be to the prejudicial statements that the Right is willing to make, even if the underlying point of those leftist attacks is more about the hypocricy of the right than anything else. The point is, this is not healthy, in any way shape or form.
I think then that we might do well to at least listen to some of the developments in certain schools of philosophical ethics in the past two or three decades, which have paid an increasing degree of attention to the notion that the basic term of any ethical or political system of justice must be based first of all on the establishment of a kind of position of 'respect' for the other, and then argue out how that position becomes both a standard of what does and does not constitute acceptable conduct (a position, like many of the right wing positions that we seek to criticisize, which fails to respect alterity is easily judged negatively in these terms) while at the same time preventing us from falling to easily into the assumption that our good intentions necessarily equal us knowing what is in everyone else's best interest.
May 23, 2007 8:06 AM | Reply | Permalink
In other words, a President Oprah is what we don't need. President Clinton could try that on when the economy was doing well and we were at peace, but now is not the time.
Right now I'd like to see Senator Obama lead, intelligently, on the Iraq issue. And, connecting with your issue of respect, I'd like to see him taking a position on that war that respects his antiwar supporters' intelligence. Progressive voters are smart enough to know that leading on the Iraq issue does not involve taking shots at Senator Grassley.
May 23, 2007 8:20 AM | Reply | Permalink
I honestly believe Obama is on to something. I don't think most voters embrace this dehumanizing hatred. I think it could be a politically winning issue: "One America."
Yes, it will require a struggle against the righty bastards - but the struggle will be more than worth it.
May 23, 2007 8:28 AM | Reply | Permalink
I really don't see much chance that US Presidential politics, or domestic politics in general, is going to transform itself into a graduate-level seminar in humanistic philosophy any time in the next 50 years. Just listening to Nixon's(!) speeches on the Vietnam war (much less Rush Limbaugh) shows that we have regressed along the lines of rational discourse in poltics in fact.
Politics is about a hard-fisted brawl for control of the money, control of the spoils, and on the Right the opportunity to stuff your groups' beliefs down the throat of the entire nation. I can't believe that Obama isn't more aware of this than I am, which gives me pause.
sPh
May 23, 2007 8:31 AM | Reply | Permalink
In certain respects, I think 'One America' would miss part of what I'm arguing is essential here. 'Many Americas' seems to me to be much more to the point.
May 23, 2007 8:37 AM | Reply | Permalink
...an end to an active demonization of political opposition discomforts a lot of people on the Left...
It's not so much the Left is discomforted by the bipartisanship-ness of it all. It's that Democrats lose elections because they're not partisan *enough* -- no sense of the Dem brand, unwillingness to take on the GOP equates to unwillingness to take on the terrorists, etc, etc, etc.
I wouldn't go as far as to say we need to turn to this idea of Othering, but there needs to be a recognition that today politics is a battle, and Democrats need to fight to win.
On another note, reading through the papers and presentations at last week's Personal Democracy Forum, I'm wondering to what extent media technologies can or cannot "show us the love," and bring people together?
Certainly on group blogs like our Cafe, it's an ideal place for people of basically the same political stripes can interact (and we, I think, do a much better job than others at respecting all viewpoints, at least those based in reality). Other new, social networking tech (Twitter, Facebook, etc) also seem to be geared towards those of the same ilk. Interestingly, these sites seem to "work" better for the Left than the Right.
But can they bring people together, in the Obamaian sense of the word? I've yet to see a successful "centrist" site, and what's available on the Right is very limited (and not very open).
I mention this because the connection between media technology and politics is inescapable. No way to measure this, but certainly as least as important as pressing the flesh in Iowa and NH. (The Swift Boat Vets took out Kerry's campaign through a cheap, easy to make commercial that was replayed on every media outlet. The anti-Clinton 1984 ad is a preview of the potential of what anyone (read: not a media ad firm) with Final Cut Pro can do...)
So as much as Obama wants to bring us together and show us the love, the media technology platform on which Politics rests may make that impossible.
"Thank God George Bush is our president." -Rudy Giuliani
May 23, 2007 8:39 AM | Reply | Permalink
Well its actually *not* humanistic philosophy, but that's beside the point. I agree entirely that we have regressed along the lines of rational discourse.
I also think this is not something that we ought to simply accept and be done with. Aristotle said, way back in the 4th Century BC, something which still seems to me to be absolutely essential.
If you read the Politics in a certain way, what he ultimately seems to be arguing makes the difference between a virtuous and a vicious society, irrespective of the particular constitutional form that its government is arranged in, is that whatever element is "to kurion" or authoritative, it must be the element that is capable of 'rational deliberation.' Democracy, so called, does not meet this standard for Aristotle, but another form, what he calls "politea" or "polity" does. This is a purely nominal distinction, like that between monarchy (good) and tyrrany (bad), but the point is, a society where the controlling elements are incapable of rational delbieration is in deep deep shit. And that, as you quite rightly say, is very clearly where we are and are headed.
Now, this element of rational deliberation is not quite the same thing as what Obama is advocating a the level of empathy, or I am suggesting needs to be rethought at the level of a basic tenet of seeing the other as an object firstly of respect in his or her alterity. *BUT*, I would argue that rational deliberation cannot take place unless something like that condition is fulfilled, which is why I think that Andrew is right to point out that Obama is onto something, and something that does have important significance for us.
If we don't at least push in the right direction at the level of the way in which the discourse is conducted, then the petty, stupid, mean-spirited, wholly strategic, wholly rhetorical style of attack politics that the right has perfected in the last two elections is not going to go away, its going to accelerate.
And I think Aristotle is right to suggest that when a society hits that level of political discourse, when deliberation is carried out in such singularly irrational terms, that society is in deep deep trouble.
May 23, 2007 8:47 AM | Reply | Permalink
The Radical Right is very much in favor of "One America": theirs.
Again there has got be an acknowledgment that when two (or more) parties attend a political debate, and one party brings their position papers and philosophy texts while the other brings well-crafted agitprop and brass knuckles, things are not likely to turn out well for the former - and that doesn't even address which approach the American public prefers.
If Americans are so hungry for this politics of reconciliation, why didn't they take stronger action to demand it in 2006 and perhaps even moreso in 2004?
sPh
May 23, 2007 8:48 AM | Reply | Permalink
As someone who's more-or-less a lefty, what I want is Dem politicians who are more willing to be strongly partisan on important issues, and more progressives putting their energy into actual activism instead of (or at least in addition to) being vocally hostile. Even though that hostility is certainly understandable at this point, and not only because it's a response to open hostility.
May 23, 2007 9:07 AM | Reply | Permalink
I see my $25 contribution to Obama was well spent money. It would be nice to have a Christian acting president instead of a President acting like a Christian.
May 23, 2007 9:16 AM | Reply | Permalink
Congratulations to Obama for re-framing and taking ownership of compassion. This is only one element of the Progressive agenda; so, while some of you say out with one idea in favor of another, I propose that broad-based multi-faceted approach is best. And since Democrats are traditionally the inclusive Party, this world view makes a fabulous cornerstone not only to the agressive overthrow of the Right but Progressive stalwards such as immigration, healthcare, jobs, education, the economy, abortion and housing as well.
I agree Obama needs some hard stances, as well-voiced and strategically placed as this one.
May 23, 2007 9:18 AM | Reply | Permalink
But isn't this all talk, really?
Isn't Aristotle giving us a normative theory of politics, one that cannot be attained? Similar to Habermas, and his interpretation of the discourse in the salons and coffeehouses (of which TPM Cafe is somewhat modeled on...).
Aren't these ideas of what we'd *like* politics to be? Can they? Was there ever a time when politics strayed very far from the gutter?
In fact, isn't politics more about the gut? Emotions, affective reactions and responses, rather than anything rational?
Do we vote for the guy (or, now, the girl) with the best ideas, or the one we'd like to have a beer with...?
(I"m not suggesting I have the answers, or even arguing this position. Just questioning whether rationality is all that it's cracked up to be...)
"Thank God George Bush is our president." -Rudy Giuliani
May 23, 2007 9:32 AM | Reply | Permalink
I think there is a place for this and if Obama can run and win with that message, more power to him. The talking heads this morning were shocked, shocked I tell you, by the recent poll showing that a quarter of young American Muslims think suicide bombing is appropriate in some cases.
Of course, the poll is being distorted and any fundamental religious group will have similar radical beliefs, but stories like this are used to a further the gap between Us (real Americans) and the Others. The only thing that is new is who is used as the out-group. Remember, though, that Bush used some of the same kind of rhetoric as Obama. He was the Compassionate Conservative before he became a Decider not a Uniter.
As I see it, the empathetic view is built into our government. Human and civil rights, equality, minority rights, etc. are guarantees and protections that follow from empathy. When I hear Russ Feingold, say, arguing for enforcement of those civil liberties, to stop torture or to end the war, I hear it as a call to protect those whose voice is not being heard. He does not have to preach some sham rhetoric of love and light, just call for justice and fairness. Any politician who really and truly represents the people is empathetic in my book and will get my vote.
May 23, 2007 9:56 AM | Reply | Permalink
It just sounds kind of cheesy to me.
Somebody called him a "President Oprah," down in this thread. That's a scary concept. I hope there's something beyond the platitudes because while I like Obama, he is starting to lose me.
thosethingswesay.blogspot.com
May 23, 2007 9:58 AM | Reply | Permalink
I think the 'Democratic base' wants the opposite of reconciliation now. Most of us see we are in an age of right-wing political bullying. Bullies can't be reconciled with, in fact that spirit of reconciliation enables further bullying.
We've seen this played out over and over again during the Bush presidency, and Obama does not get it at all. Not that he's alone, we've just seen complete collapse on the Iraq issue instead of Congressional leaders standing up against the President's bullying tactics.
I.e., when Bush essentially says, "If you don't give me the money, I'll just leave the troops out there in Iraq without ammo or food!" the Democratic response is, "Well, then, the responsible thing to do is to give this bully what he wants."
May 23, 2007 10:12 AM | Reply | Permalink
It's sad to me that calling something "cheesy" is such a powerful push back. What could be worse, after all, than believing something deeply and earnestly?
In terms of platitudes, I recommend you read this speech, this speech, or this speech. I don't think it's accurate or fair to call him platitudinous if you take them into consideration.
You might also watch this interview.
May 23, 2007 10:17 AM | Reply | Permalink
Mr. Golis says:
I figured perhaps I had better read the whole speech. I hope the rest of you do, too. Make a little list for yourselves of the people he calls deserving of our empathy. My list isn't complete but it includes:
aMike
May 23, 2007 10:21 AM | Reply | Permalink
I'm confused. Is this comment sarcastic?
May 23, 2007 10:27 AM | Reply | Permalink
Cheesy as in "it sounds good but is inadequate to the problems at hand."
The first speech you linked to is the religion speech. The one where Obama uncritically says that more Americans believe in angels than evolution. When he first delivered this speech it made me uncomfortable.
The second, about Iraq and America's larger role in the world is excellent and one of the reasons I like Obama.
The third is the one we're bickering about. He's a great storyteller, I'll give him that. But there is a whiff of Oprah-style self-improvement to him and he's going to have to turn into something more than a motivational speaker.
I hope he does.
thosethingswesay.blogspot.com
May 23, 2007 10:35 AM | Reply | Permalink
Obama wants to practice the politics of reconciliation against the politics of bullying. As I said here elsewhere, bullies know how to deal with the politics of reconciliation; we can look at what the Iraq supplemental capitulation for the latest on that.
Most Democrats know what we are up against. We don't want to 'understand' and 'empathize' with Mr. Bush, we want to fight back ferociously.
May 23, 2007 10:41 AM | Reply | Permalink
The entire Call to Renewal speech can be dismissed because of one line in which he noted Americans belief in angels to prove the point that we are a very religious people? Seems a bit unfair.
May 23, 2007 10:44 AM | Reply | Permalink
This isn't about Bush. It's about the post-Bush era. It's about what Democrats need to stand for in the long run. Obama is running to be the next President not to be the Speaker of the House in the next week.
May 23, 2007 10:45 AM | Reply | Permalink
That one line was just one a picked out. It's represenative of the tone of the whole speech, which made a secularist like me think twice. Like I said, I haven't made up my mind yet, but Obama's spiritualism is worrisome.
thosethingswesay.blogspot.com
May 23, 2007 10:48 AM | Reply | Permalink
Could you say more? What is worrisome about it?
May 23, 2007 10:49 AM | Reply | Permalink
Sure... it's in his response to the childish Keyes attack. Keyes said Jesus wouldn't vote for Obama.
Obama explained that he finally reacted by saying: "I answered with what has come to be the typically liberal response in such debates - namely, I said that we live in a pluralistic society, that I can't impose my own religious views on another, that I was running to be the U.S. Senator of Illinois and not the Minister of Illinois."
Nothing wrong with that. But Obama thinks there was something wrong with him giving the only rational response to such an attack that makes any sense.
This is how he kicks into the substance of his speech where he seeks to bring religion more into politics while I think it should be more separate than it is now.
In his senate campaign he got it right. Would Jesus vote for me? It doesn't matter. Public office is about more than what a dead religious figure might want. But Obama doesn't see it that way. He seems to claim that the very notion wounded him somehow.
That worries me.
thosethingswesay.blogspot.com
May 23, 2007 11:04 AM | Reply | Permalink
It is about Bush, Limbaugh, Cheney, and Glenn Beck, and the fights we have with them and their successors and imitators. I think there is little likelihood 'post-Bush' will be much different than Bush? Right now I'm evaluating Obama on how he is managing the politics of 2007, and his speech was a commentary on the politics of the present and his suggested 'way out' of those politics.
In my opinionn, the way out is to fight back against the cheap-shot bullying Republican politics of 'surrender monkeys' and 'traitors' and so on. The way out will have nothing to do with empathy for such Republicans and right-wingers.
My understanding is that Obama was bullied when he lived in Indonesia; being in a minority of one there, I bet he learned appropriate ways of coping. But those are the exactly the wrong lessons in how to deal with bullying for a representative of the majority American political party. I'm wondering whether Obama's perhaps hard-wired approach to bullying may condemn him to political irrelevance in 2007-2008.
May 23, 2007 11:05 AM | Reply | Permalink
Re: sarcasm. Not at all..
My fingers got off the home keys and posted the comment in midstream. I tried to edit it, but it was too late.
Let me continue here, You raise in your calling attention to his speech what I can only call a straw man. No, make that two straw men... Joe Lieberman and collusion under the name of bi-partisanship. You do it using a rhetoric I don't let students get away with...using "some folks" rhetoric, which leaves your own attitude behind a curtain, and encourages others to agree with those "People on the Left" who you raise as Obama's critics."
I looked very carefully at the speech. I looked at obsessively carefully. I used the find text mechanism to see if Obama ever used the word Republican, or the word Lieberman, or the word bipartisan. None of them were used.
Every reference he made was to humans in distress, either through human action or through the forces of nature. He didn't call for empathy with the well off. I can't think of how to make a speech of this type on this type of occasion any more left in its moral sentiments than it was.
I was (and am) afraid that a significant number of people who read your introduction to Obama's remarks will either miss the link (because links don't show up very well here) or will simply be too busy or casual to read it in its entirety. They won't get it if they don't read it, and I'm not sure that your trope on it will get them to read it.
Your last paragraph is spot on...I was going to get to that. But why even raise the issue of what some anonymous left wingers think. It simply sets Obama up, and draws attention away from what is a masterful example of a very ritualized kind of oratory--the Commencement Address. I've sat through 34 of those besides my own, and this one is a gem compared to most.
I hope people realized that narrative is where policy has to originate. Kennedy understood this perfectly well. The policy (the Peace Corps) is based on the rhetoric (Ask not what your country can do for you: ask what you can do for your country).
aMike
P. S. One of the posters here actually listened to the address, and recorded a reaction. Valdron, with whom I agree more often than not, didn't appreciate the reaction, but I suspect that Valdron hadn't heard the speech. He remarked in response,
I doubt reading the speech he would have been quite that harsh, though maybe he would. I was (and am) afraid that a lot of people, not carefully attending to what Obama actually said, would find their eyes drawn to the words Lieberman-esque capitulation and collusion in the cloak of bipartisanship and use those as leverage to bat Obama around. I don't think you meant them to do that...but I see it happening.
May 23, 2007 11:07 AM | Reply | Permalink
But it would be a mistake, I think, to replace the Othering politics of the Right with an Othering politics of our own.
Just the usual pro-Obama blathering here.
Really, this all goes back to that hoary paradox: if tolerance is good, can you tolerate intolerance?
Look, if indeed the precise problem with the Right is its intolerance, its "Othering" of any and sundry segments of the populace, then how do you promote tolerance and compassion without fighting them and all they stand for?
What Obama has shown little disposition for is such a fight. He sounds like Lieberman because in a most basic way he is LIKE Lieberman, trying to find bipartisanship where there can be no bipartisanship, on issues as basic as tolerance itself.
Get a clue, for Christ's sake.
May 23, 2007 11:10 AM | Reply | Permalink
I agree we're in deep trouble, which is why this election matters so much.
But -- and I say this as someone who has been skeptical of Obama and in some ways still am -- cultivating empathy and respect for others isn't necessarily about limiting your tactics to exhorting your opponents to do the same. I can imagine a leader who calls on everyone to put themselves in others shoes AND plays hardball. Such a leader would need to carefully avoid any demonization of the opposition. But given what's at stake, empathy and respect demand that we pull out all the stops to change the course of our nation -- short of feeding the basest tactics of the struggle by embracing them as our own.
I imagine this as being a bit like Bill Clinton's early speech (was it his inaugural?) where he eloquently proclaimed that we needed the strengths and abilities of all Americans, without excluding anyone, to face the future. The difference (and the main thing that I'm trying to figure out about the candidates, the main thing that I distrust about Hillary) would be having a real, instinctive and active embrace of the grassroots follow from that speech. Not just a call to think nice thoughts and support me while I do all this great stuff in DC, and some of you go do some kinda service stuff, that's great -- but a real call to citizenship, to stand together, to confront our national failings of recent years and take action.
One last thought on this. How will such an idealistic campaign stand against the agit-prop and brass knuckles of the Right, you ask? By calling it out for what it is, loudly and clearly and repeatedly in terms so unmistakable that they slice through the media filters and reach into the culture. That means controversy, riding it out, getting beyond it, and changing the terms of the debate.
My suggestion is for the president, whoever it ends up being, to use the term Bullshit in a major live speech on TV, and to explain the delightfully head-clearing definition of this term promulgated by : bullshit is worse than lies, because lies can -- perhaps -- be proven false. Spreaders of bullshit cultivate the irrelevance of the truth by saying anything -- true, false or in between -- they can think of to manipulate the emotions and opinions of the audience. Define that for Americans, point out how pervasive it has become in our political discourse, ride out the controversy, and move on. Repeat with variations (not more obscenity, just more bluntness that cuts through the filters).
So who can do something like that (I'm not attached to the term, just the results)? Clark or Dean, certainly. But we may not have either of them running. Edwards? Not sure, but I think so. Obama? ditto. Hillary? Actually, I can see her doing it and pulling it off, but I have a harder time seeing her make the initial decision that it's worth the risk -- essential actually -- to stoke up a little controversy and rally the public, a solid majority at least, to her side.
May 23, 2007 11:22 AM | Reply | Permalink
forgot links, and the philosopher's name:
Harry Frankfurt of Princeton University
Bullshit (wikipedia)
Complete text of essay
May 23, 2007 11:27 AM | Reply | Permalink
I think this is too reactive. Bush and Cheney will soon be gone. Glenn Beck is a marginal media figure that the internet left likes to fixate on because he's so uniquely offensive. Rush Limbaugh is a fading force in American political life.
I don't think having compassion for these individuals means you have to capitulate to their ideas. Think MLK dealing with Bull Connor.
I agree that Obama needs to do more to prove that he can balance this kind of empathy with a willingness to challenge hateful beliefs that come from the Right. But I don't think we have to respond to hate with hate and I think that in a broader sense, beyond the narrow world of crossfire media food fights, we need to build a sense of social empathy to be able to engage in long-run efforts to change our political structures.
May 23, 2007 11:35 AM | Reply | Permalink
Obama's call for a "new kind of politics" based around this kind of mutual understanding and an end to an active demonization of political opponents discomforts a lot of people on the Left who see echoes of Lieberman-esque capitulation and collusion in the cloak of bipartisanship. And Obama hasn't done enough to calm these worries by staking out his territory on the Left on the policy side.
Yeah, sometimes people confuse the empathy thing with capitulation. So far I'd give Obama the benefit of the doubt that capitulation is not what he would tend to do, in practice.
But we should remember that our heroes, the MLKs and the RFKs, preached love and empathy for even those who are unable to return the sentiment.
Yes, and we shouldn't lose sight of the fact that MLK, for example, was fighting, not going "Oh, so we have to sit at the back of the bus, let's just move on, shall we?" Empathy and non-violence can be powerful agents for change. MLK used 'em not only to motivate the fight, but as his primary tools for conducting the fight.
May 23, 2007 11:37 AM | Reply | Permalink
When does Obama "tolerate intolerance" or "find bipartisanship where it doesn't exist"?
I'm actually curious for examples.
May 23, 2007 11:39 AM | Reply | Permalink
Here here.
May 23, 2007 11:40 AM | Reply | Permalink
Wonderful Link.
I'm sending it to all my friends, and I'll probably distribute it in class next fall. Thanks for turning me on to Harry Frankfurt's Essay.
aMike
May 23, 2007 11:53 AM | Reply | Permalink
I agree with you, except building that social empathy has to mean attacking (in self-defense and in defense of social empathy) the sociopathological.
I think our essential disagreement is that I see this era (since about 1993) as the days of right-wing bullies gone wild. So I process your Obama quotes through that and I get uncomfortable. This era's main 'meta' fight involves fighting back against the bullies or keeping our mouths shut. Uttering words of general understanding and empathy for 'the other side' -- and worse, suggesting the main problem with political discourse may involve us 'liberals' not understanding and empathizing with the religiously devout -- while not attacking the bullies who they in practice sanction and allow to be their leaders hurts your cause of social empathy.
May 23, 2007 11:54 AM | Reply | Permalink
I agree with your first point.
I think, though, that when Obama says to secularists "we mustn't stereotype Christians because if we do we lose them to the Jerry Falwells of the world" he's talking about how we can collectively do a better job of building our coalition by way of love. In other words, his entire premise is that Christian fundamentalists are wrong.
Also, for me so much of Obama's appeal is about moving past the politics since 1993. What we're going to find out with Obama's candidacy is whether or not there are enough people who also feel that way and whether or not they are able to retake the public sphere from the bullies and demagogues on the Right and bring with us the forces on the Left who have opposed them
May 23, 2007 12:07 PM | Reply | Permalink
I like to have a beer with the guy or girl who has the best ideas, as long as they know how to express them in a coherent and interesting, and enjoyable way. This is one of the reasons I like to read what cscs has to say. Some politicians could work on that. :-)
aMike
"The gutter is a step up from the sewer." -- aMike
May 23, 2007 12:07 PM | Reply | Permalink
But he specifically addresses your sentiment:
May 23, 2007 12:11 PM | Reply | Permalink
"But we should remember that our heroes, the MLKs and the RFKs, preached love and empathy for even those who are unable to do the same."
Yeah well, that was then and this is now.
And what did it get those guys anyway, other than a bullet?
May 23, 2007 12:13 PM | Reply | Permalink
Andrew,
Do think the separation of Church and State as originally written into the Constitution is still necessary and/or a good idea today?
sPh
May 23, 2007 12:14 PM | Reply | Permalink
Absolutely. But separation of Church and State is not the same thing as separation of religion and politics.
May 23, 2007 12:19 PM | Reply | Permalink
And what did it get those guys anyway, other than a bullet?
My take on this is that if the movement had been dominated by violence, it would have been crushed very early on, with many more deaths, and would not have accomplished anywhere near as much as it did.
One of the sad realities of racism in the US is that people were going to get killed in the Civil Rights movement, no matter what. Question is, how many, and what would they accomplish in the process?
May 23, 2007 12:24 PM | Reply | Permalink
It's hard to blame folks for hating Bush and the dishonest jingoists he's populated our government with.
Reeeeally hard.
Personally, I don't see how we can move past this all this crap without some kind of... I dunno, something. An impeachment, a "truth & reconciliation commission" sorta thing, institutional changes... something.
The grown-up, responsible argument for this is that we need to do something to make it less possible for outrageously reckless disaster-mongering to go on for years and years under a future president.
But it would also just be good for my blood pressure :-)
May 23, 2007 12:26 PM | Reply | Permalink
I'm all for moving beyond this political era, but we won't move beyond the politics of bullying without attacking and then destroying a couple of bullies. That's just the way it is with that type. An effective attack must involve demanding that their supporters disown them.
Obama may want to re-read an account of Vice-President Humphrey's unsuccessful 1968 campaign. I wish it weren't so, but for these times the politics of empathy are as wrong as the politics of joy.
May 23, 2007 12:28 PM | Reply | Permalink
And what about that Times story?
May 23, 2007 12:29 PM | Reply | Permalink
when two (or more) parties attend a political debate, and one party brings their position papers and philosophy texts while the other brings well-crafted agitprop and brass knuckles, things are not likely to turn out well for the former
You make good points here and above.
I'm curious what you make of my thoughts (above) re: combining principled politics with hardball (short of demonization and contentless attacks) as well as a fearless calling out of the opposition?
I'm not saying Obama is doing or will do this, but somebody could. Dean or Clark surely could take a run at it. Obama might be able to as well. He certainly has the rhetorical skills and -- it appears -- the heart for it. I worry that he hasn't yet been through his Edwards/Gore "I'm my own man now and damn the consultants" moment. No way anyone pulls this off without taking major risks.
That is what we need, desperately. Real courage and leadership.
May 23, 2007 12:41 PM | Reply | Permalink
By appealing to their compassion and humanity. By helping them to see how inhumane their actions are and voicing a rejection of their ideas that create divisiviness and othering. The same way we created a societal revulsion for drunk driving, drugs, and murder. You stake out moral imperatives when it comes to what we want in this society. You relate peoples actions to their families, sisters, aunts, uncles, sons and daughters. Help them to feel and see compassion.
It is helping people to see that we are all part of an inescapable webb of human mutuality.
May 23, 2007 12:41 PM | Reply | Permalink
I'm not advocating violence.
I'm simply not advocating "empathy" for our right-wing foes.
Every time we have "empathy" for them they end up steamrolling us. The latest example was Alito: look how well that's worked out for us. You might as well ask me to have empathy for the Klan.
Who cares what they think? None of them have ever given shit number one what anyone else thinks, and to quote jesus "do unto others as you would have them do unto you." Well it's about time we started "doing unto them that have done unto us."
In general, the right is a bunch of criminals, no different than any crime syndicate. That's not denying them their humanity: that's simply a statement of fact.
Empathy for the right. Sure. I'll get to that right after I get done with my empathy for John Gotti and Ed Gein.
May 23, 2007 12:42 PM | Reply | Permalink
Except Bush doesn't even act like a Christian, he just makes enough canned references to God to keep the wingers happy.
May 23, 2007 12:48 PM | Reply | Permalink
So the only way to fight back against the Right is to dehumanize them?
May 23, 2007 12:49 PM | Reply | Permalink
I think the primary producers of the 'empathy deficit' are the enormous growth (in the past 35 years) of social inequality and the ongoing sense among working-class whites that other groups receive favored treatment in our social system. The second produces inter-ethnic lack of empathy, but I think we should openly talk about and deal with those two causes rather than focusing our energy on a symptom.
May 23, 2007 12:52 PM | Reply | Permalink
Abso-frackin'-lutely. I suspect a fair chunk of the shit we're in could've been avoided if Ford hadn't pardoned Nixon. That didn't "help the country heal" as the common so-called-wisdom proclaimed when Ford died. On the contrary, it left a wound open to infection.
I don't want revenge against the criminals in charge ... well, maybe at heart I do. But I'd happily settle for justice.
May 23, 2007 12:56 PM | Reply | Permalink
I don't understand what that "open talk" about the decreasing empathy would look like other than exactly what Obama is going, encouraging the cultivation of social empathy.
You think we can argue our way around people's resentment of affirmative action?
May 23, 2007 12:58 PM | Reply | Permalink
Okay, so he grew up with a "healthy skepticism" of organized religion. But does he still have that?
He talks about an emptiness that people have. I don't feel empty and even if I did, I wouldn't want the President trying to solve that particular problem.
You know where this kind of talk leads, once some one gets into the White House? It leads to all sorts of "family friendly" legislation that winds up looking a lot like censorship and it's all done for the "spiritual health" of America.
Maybe Obama won't go there. But I don't quite believe it. The guy just seems to think he can improve people, rather than just improve their lives. He really does talk like a self-help type of guy. It runs through everything you just quoted.
thosethingswesay.blogspot.com
May 23, 2007 1:01 PM | Reply | Permalink
"I don't feel empty..."
In the words of Barack Obama: it's not all about you!
The point he's making is not about policy or the right wing "family values" agenda you associate with anyone who believes in God.
The point he's making is that religion is deeply personal and inspiration, it's something from which people draw meaning and around which they build their lives.
If you can't recognize that other people draw meaning and community and inspiration and support from their religion, you're failing Obama's most basic test: the ability to see yourself in others.
May 23, 2007 1:07 PM | Reply | Permalink
Yes. Well, not around it but directly at it. It's not productive to speak on the cultivation of empathy without talking about -- and talking about doing something about -- the two primary causes of its decline.
May 23, 2007 1:11 PM | Reply | Permalink
The problem with such an analysis is that the temptation to take the next step and use the coercive power of the State to _force_ others to accept _your_ religion /for their own good/ becomes too strong to resist. Please keep in mind that the (physical and spiritual) descendents of the Puritans agreed to sign the Constitution including the provisions of separation of church and state because they had experienced both sides of that sword. The combination of religion and secular politics creates a very tempting poisoned apple and I get the strong impression that Obama doesn't understand that.
sPh
May 23, 2007 1:16 PM | Reply | Permalink
I will not be running for office.
That is, of course, unless The People want me...
May 23, 2007 1:17 PM | Reply | Permalink
I think you're equating my refusal to endorse "empathy" with our right-wing opponents with "dehumanizing."
From websters: 1 : the imaginative projection of a subjective state into an object so that the object appears to be infused with it
2 : the action of understanding, being aware of, being sensitive to, and vicariously experiencing the feelings, thoughts, and experience of another of either the past or present without having the feelings, thoughts, and experience fully communicated in an objectively explicit manner; also : the capacity for this
So basically, it means "walking a mile in their shoes". Problem is, I find it impossible to empathize with a group that believes in policies that make the rich richer and the poor poorer. I find it impossible to "see it their way" when the topic is "indefinite detention with no access to a lawyer" or "shall we repeal habeas corpus" or "shall we torture people". YMMV.
That doesn't imply dehumanizing the right (they do a fine job of that on their own). This simply means acknowledging that, while I can understand the right's reluctance to, say, investigate a president who started a war based on lies because it might implicate them in the process, that such notions are inherently unsupportable.
May 23, 2007 1:17 PM | Reply | Permalink
.> This isn't about Bush. It's about
> the post-Bush era
Do you honestly think that Rove, Rove's staff, and Cheney's staff are going to disappear quietly into thinktanks in February 2009? Personally I think they feel they are just getting started and will be more than eager to offer their services to Giuliani (for example).
sPh
May 23, 2007 1:19 PM | Reply | Permalink
How many can remember:
"Extremism in the defense of liberty is no vice. And moderation in the pursuit of justice is no virtue."
Now that the shoe is on the other foot, was Barry prescient? Or did our ridicule of the idea (me included)just apply to the other side?
May 23, 2007 1:21 PM | Reply | Permalink
Wow, Obama is subjecting me to a moral test. I hope that I pass and he votes for me!
I guess we're going to disagree on this one, Andrew. Hopefully this exchange has been entertaining.
But the more I think about him, the more he's slipping as a possible primary candidate for me. I'd rather hear from Richard Dawkins on religion than from barack Obama.
thosethingswesay.blogspot.com
May 23, 2007 1:23 PM | Reply | Permalink
Thank you. One doesn't have to believe that a candidate is Jerry Falwell to realize that when they talk about faith the way Obama does, it will creep into policy making.
thosethingswesay.blogspot.com
May 23, 2007 1:24 PM | Reply | Permalink
Fairleft above argues that to cultivate empathy now we have to talk about why we've lost it:
I think there's a distinction to be made. Amongst people who are constantly engaged in politics on the Left, it's certainly essential to talk about the causes of the "empathy gap," and I think Fairleft and I agree that it has a lot to do with white resentment of things like affirmative action.
But, I don't think it's productive for Obama to run around doing a history lesson. Rather, I think he should keep doing what he's doing, which is preach communitarian ideas of individual salvation being connected to collective salvation:
May 23, 2007 1:27 PM | Reply | Permalink
We've run out of room on this thread, so my response is on a fresh thread here.
May 23, 2007 1:27 PM | Reply | Permalink
Ok, I understand that distinction.
I would say two things. First, it would help us all on political grounds if we could put ourselves in their shoes.
Also, allowing for the difficulty of seeing things through the eyes of Bush, what about through the eyes of his supporters?
May 23, 2007 1:34 PM | Reply | Permalink
Sorry, that was a bit hyperbolic, but you understand what I'm saying right?
I think Dawkin's is fascinating and has some good arguments, but I find his insistence on believing that anyone who disagrees is just stupid incredibly disrespectful.
May 23, 2007 1:35 PM | Reply | Permalink
At worst, there are some liberals who dismiss religion in the public square as inherently irrational or intolerant, insisting on a caricature of religious Americans that paints them as fanatical, or thinking that the very word "Christian" describes one's political opponents, not people of faith.
Andrew -- we had these debates here when Obama made this speech. The above statement is what, I think, bothered most people.
This is a complete strawman argument -- what Democratic politician does this? What Democratic politician dismisses religion?
More importantly, while I guess there are some "liberals" who do what Obama claims, if you close your eyes and listen to the above line, you would absolutely think it's Bill Bennett or Bill O'Reilly.
What "liberals" think about religion in the public square is that it's a Constitutional issue. And the Right conflates these absolutely rational and well-thought arguments with some bullshit about how liberals hate Christians.
And that's exactly what Obama does, too, in the above quoted line. Paraphrasing, of course. But read between the lines, and it's there.
"Thank God George Bush is our president." -Rudy Giuliani
May 23, 2007 1:37 PM | Reply | Permalink
.> Also, allowing for the difficulty of
> seeing things through the eyes of Bush,
> what about through the eyes of his supporters?
Before or after 2004? I live in a very conservative area of Middle America and I would give you different answers before and after November 2004.
Andrew, you are dancing around the question of how Obama will perform if it turns out that the Radical Right really _aren't_ nice guys , really are trying to run the table in one shot, and don't plan to give up after 2008. What if they are aware of Obama's politics and have a plan in place to exploit them for their own malign advantage?
sPh
May 23, 2007 1:37 PM | Reply | Permalink
That strikes me as exactly the kind of stereotyping that Obama is objecting to. If MLK or RFK had been elected to some sort of office would he have imposed those kinds of policies? They sure talked about religion a lot...
May 23, 2007 1:37 PM | Reply | Permalink
Yes YES YES YES!
We don't live in social vacuums, and most of us don't live in gated communities. One could use the same paradigm for just about any progressive cause one can think of...maybe all of them with just a little tweaking.
But empathy is also valuable in its own right. Empathetic people are more fun to be around than narcissists are: as that old saw goes--Enough about me, let's talk about you! What do you think about me? I think a lot of the posters at TPM are closet empaths.
aMike
May 23, 2007 1:39 PM | Reply | Permalink
cscs,
Somehow those words mean something different to Obama supporters than to non-supporters (neutral and/or opposed). Obama supporters just don't seem to have the empathy to understand why some liberals find those words disturbing.
OK, that was a bit of a snarky shot, but it seems clear that Obama supporters hear those words and understand them to mean something very different than others do. And they give Obama a clear pass on the "some liberals" formulation.
sPh
May 23, 2007 1:40 PM | Reply | Permalink
That was the best part of then, as those of us who lived in both periods usually testify.
aMike
May 23, 2007 1:41 PM | Reply | Permalink
Consider many of the comments on this thread. Destor basically said that since Obama talks about God he'll eventually impose religious laws.
In my experience in three blue states--NY, MA and CA-- the Dawkins view that religion and religious people are just dumb is very common. You don't need a politician to say so to know that many people think it.
May 23, 2007 1:41 PM | Reply | Permalink
I'm not advocating violence.
Oh, I didn't think you were advocating violence. But I do see the non-violence thing as being integral to MLK's advocacy of compassion.
Do you have a specific critique of MLK's approach in mind when you say "And what did it get those guys anyway, other than a bullet?" Or maybe it's just more of a general "dammit, it's not fair" kinda thing?
To me the main relevance of MLK's example to this discussion is that it illustrates that empathy doesn't equal giving up your principles for someone else's. Far from it, really.
People do sometimes use the rhetoric of understanding to mean "let's just do what they want, instead of what we think is right." But that's not really empathy/compassion -- it's just people being confused.
May 23, 2007 1:42 PM | Reply | Permalink
Whereas _I_ find that sort of response from Obama and his supporters condescending and naive.
sPh
May 23, 2007 1:43 PM | Reply | Permalink
I guess I find the whole notion of religious people being unfairly stereotyped to be rather amusing. I mean, if anyone's left out of the political process it's the secular humanist.
thosethingswesay.blogspot.com
May 23, 2007 1:43 PM | Reply | Permalink
Wow. Now that comment IS brutally condescending and also an inaccurate characterization of those who have disagreed with you in this thread.
sPh
May 23, 2007 1:45 PM | Reply | Permalink
Why can't it be both? That's exactly what Obama's speech was about. The fact that both sides stereotype each other.
May 23, 2007 1:46 PM | Reply | Permalink
I apologize if so. Can you explain?