What kind of society have we become? Before members of Congress departed for recess, they gave President George W. Bush—hardly known for his wisdom or compassion—the right to define what constitutes torture and to suspend the constitutional right of habeas corpus. But our elected representatives couldn’t find time to pass the Labor, Health and Human Service appropriations bill which, among things, funds child care.

The “Care Crisis"—the absence of anyone to care for America’s children, elderly and disabled—has turned into the new millennium’s version of the “Problem That Has No Name,” Child care is part of that larger Care Crisis. It is the 800-pound elephant that sits in Congress, our homes and offices—gigantic, but ignored.

And, it keeps getting worse. According to a new 50-state report on child care policies just released by the National Women’s Law Center, the Bush administration has successfully dismantled government services for children. State funds for child care assistance have fallen for the fifth year in a row. The problem will soon become catastrophic when large numbers of single mothers bump up against their five-year life limit on welfare.

The report portrays a bleak picture of our national child care deficit. Nancy Duff Campbell, co-president of NWLC, says that: “The new federal welfare work requirement [passed this year] creates more demand for child care assistance without providing enough funding to meet that demand.” No big surprise here. Many of us always knew that the elimination of guaranteed welfare—replaced by Temporary Assistance to Need Families —was designed to reduce the number of women on the welfare rolls, not to reduce poverty.

The report also finds that states are failing to adequately compensate providers. Helen Blank, NWLC director of leadership and public policy, describes the consequences of paying child care workers such poor wages:

Low-income children are denied critical early learning experiences. Parents find it difficult to access the child care they need to work. And providers, who are often low-income women themselves, face earning less or going out of business.

Poor working mothers face other barriers as well. Two-thirds of the states have raised the income eligibility and copayments for child care and 18 states have long waiting lists. All of these barriers to adequate childcare make it extremely difficult for women to work, feel confident that their children are safe and to get off welfare.

But do either Democrats or Republicans think this constitutes a threat to the national security of our society? No. In fact, more than three decades after Congress passed—and President Richard Nixon vetoed—the 1971 comprehensive child care legislation, child care has all but dropped off the national political agenda. And, with each passing year, the child care crisis only grows larger, burdening the lives of working mothers. But it never reaches our nation’s political agenda.

Anti-feminists naturally blame the women’s movement for abandoning their children for the impossible ideal of “having it all.” But it was journalists and popular writers, not women’s rights activists, who created the myth of the “superwoman.” Feminists of the 1960s and 1970s always knew that women couldn’t do it alone. In fact, they insisted that men share the housework and child rearing and that government and business should provide and subsidize child care.

Single mothers naturally suffer the most from the child care crisis, but even with two parents, there is not much time for family life. Parents become overwhelmed, children feel cranky, workers quietly seethe and gulp antacids and sleeping pills, and volunteering in community life gradually vanishes.

Overworked American families, whose time spent at work has increased three extra weeks between 1986 and 1997, suffer from what sociologist Arlie Hochschild has called a “time bind .” But both social conservatives and the Religious Right, who glorify “family values,” refuse to support any national effort to help working families regain a sense of stability and balance.

Conventional wisdom also reinforces the widespread myth that child care is not a problem, that American women have gained equality, entered a new post-feminist era and that it’s time for disgruntled feminists “to move on.”

This is hardly new. Ever since 1970, the mainstream media has been pronouncing the death of feminism and reporting that women have returned home to care for their children. The early 21st century version of this journalistic narrative describes—with a certain celebratory tone—how elite, wealthy and predominantly white women are “choosing” to ditch their educational credentials and “opting out” in favor of home and children.

What’s missing in all these stories is the fact that the vast majority of ordinary middle-class and low-income working mothers have to work. They have no choice. Such stories also obscure the reality that an absence of quality, affordable, and accessible child care and flexible working hours greatly contributes to a woman’s so-called “choice” to stay at home.

Poverty—like the care crisis—remains invisible to mainstream America and largely outside the national political discourse. Yet, in 2004, the U.S. Census Bureau announced that poverty rates in U.S. had increased for the fourth straight year and had jumped from 31.6 million people in 2000 to 37 million, including 13 million children.

Rather then expanding Head Start, the government issues vouchers that all too often result in inadequate child care. And many mothers who can’t get subsidized child care assistance reluctantly leave their children with irresponsible relatives or babysitters they have good reasons not to trust.

While the media celebrates the highly-educated career woman who quits her job to become a stay-at-home mom, the government requires single mothers on TANF to leave their children somewhere, anywhere, so that they can fulfill their requirement to work and get off welfare.

Congress’s indifference to child care, however, is merely one example of this country’s failure to address poverty and the growing child care crisis. It’s easier to sacrifice cherished civil liberties in the name of fighting “the war on terror” than to address the need for superior education, universal health coverage, climate change, subsidized child care, mass transit, and affordable housing, all of which constitutes real national security for families and their children.

Look into the mirror. What are your values? Is your sense of security only tied to a national security program that has resulted in two failed wars and an unprecedented assault on our democratic rights? That is the question that all Americans should ask themselves before they cast their votes in November.