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A good present for Mother's Day? Try economic equality

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I remember when I first tried pitching political op-eds for Mothers’ Day five years ago. “Forget the flowers and chocolate,” I wrote, “what mothers really want is economic equality.”

Too edgy.

This year, it’s not.

I feel a tipping point coming on. The new grassroots organization founded by Joan Blades, Co-Founder of Moveon.org-- momsrising.org – was just introduced last week and already has, at last count, close to 47,000 members. Take Care Net’s Working Family Bill of Rights is receiving serious attention from the Democrats: a congressional briefing was sponsored yesterday by the Progressive Caucus. Barack Obama has been quoted as saying that the party that gets work/life issues right will be the next majority party, influenced by his senior policy advisor Karen Kornbluh, a well-known expert in the politics of work and family. Workplace Flexibilty 2010, led by Chai Feldblum, is gathering momentum towards consensus policy initiatives to remedy the fact that the U.S. lags behind other industrialized nations in supports for working families.

No kidding. The countries that lack paid maternity leave are: Papua New Guinea, Swaziland, Lesotho and the United States of America.

The mainstream media is beginning to break the trance of romantic stories of professional mothers “opting out” because of the lure of children. Kids are great -- definitely worth bending a life around -- but we have bizarre mismatch between a workforce in which 70% of families have all adults in the workforce, and workforce norms that still assume an ideal worker with immunity to household work.

Finally, mainstream media is getting the point that most moms aren’t opting out – they are pushed out by stereotyping and bias against mothers. A great example is the CNN story aired last week.  It’s been a good week in the trenches. Those of us who have been working for years to change the conversation in the U.S. about work/family issues feel the sweet breeze of change. At last.


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I agree that paid maternity leaves are certainly desirable, but I couldn't help but feel that your list of countries that lack paid maternity leaves was somewhat misleading, as in many countries, particularly strongly Islamic ones, women can barely even have careers at all. While the US may lag other industrialized countries in removing some parts of the glass ceiling for women, we are still far ahead of many countries in which all but a handful of women have no choice but to labor in the home.

Your link doesn't work and a search of mcgill yields nothing relevant. But Here's an article that says the same thing.


But do you believe that Harvard study? Do you believe that millions of Mexicans are giving up a fine paid maternity leave to brave the deserts and have their kids in our overcrowded, unfriendly emergency rooms? Do you believe that starving Zimbabwe has a great maternity leave program? That Russia with its rotting military and dangerously declining population has one? Or do you believe - as I do - that the Harvard department which produced that study should be closed and its members sold off as toxic waste? Don't you think when you read such drivel?

And what about Rwanda and Sudan, and the Islamic countries that another poster mentioned, and Guatemala and other central American countries, and Bolivia, and rural China, and much of Southeast Asia?


I think it's a requirement that you be an unthinking idiot to be a liberal.

Here's the table. I look at it - at the entrees for Mexico and Rwanda and Sudan - and I think "Who the hell compiles this dumb shit?"

Why not read the footnotes below the charts for the answer to your existential question?

Neoboho

Obviously I read the footnotes. My comment was a way of saying how can supposedly seriously people try to pass off such crap.

The source - twice removed - is "Maternity Protection ILO Convention No. 183, June 2001, International Confederation of Free Trade Unions, the Public Services International and Education International". I'd like to know where they got their stuff. Perhaps you can tell me?

I would guess the ILO got it from some U.N. organization which - basically - made it up. Care to dispute that?

I'm sorry.  I missed the part where you established with any kind of argument that it is "crap."

Neoboho

Well, sure.  Mexico, for example, has it all codified in their national laws.  Do I need to do your homework for you?  BTW, Instituto Mexicano del Seguro Social pays the benefit for the employer.  You might start there in your quest for truth.

Neoboho

Mexico is a good place to start. Tell me why so many Mexican women are giving up that fine maternity leave in their home country and making the dangerous trip here to have their babies under our crappy system?


After you've finished doing that homework for me you can explain why I should believe the ILO info for any other countries...which was obtained in the same unthinking way.

Despite the governmentµs obligation to enforce labor law, it does little to meet those obligations


from Questions and Answers About Pregnancy Discrimination in Mexico


This from someone critical of the maquiladoras and seeking to extort money from them because they are a very wealthy part of Mexico's economy (but dominated by foreigners). You can imagine what goes on in the rest of the country.


Did you know this? I think so. Was this a part of the homework you were going to do for me? I think not. Is this situation typical of third-world countries? Definitely. Do U.N. functionaries know it? Yes.

PRE-HIRE PREGNANCY SCREENING IN
MEXICO'S MAQUILADORAS: IS IT DISCRIMINATION?


Another one, again relating to the maquiladoras. It's got to be worse in other parts of the economy. I mean isn't it evident that Mexico is filled with "economic refugees" as you lefties like to put it?

Well, now my argument is clear, isn't it?

I think that women should have the opportunity for paid maternity leave, but a program that is solely dedicated to maternity leave has two problems:

First, it is a very expensive benefit for companies to provide. Therefore, women will be more expensive for companies to hire. This could lead to discriminatory hiring practices or general reductions in wages to cover the cost of the benefit.

Second, it benefits only women who have children and therefore could be seen as discriminatory against men and people of both sexes who decide not to have children.

My solution would be to offer employees the opportunity to buy "time-off insurance." Employees who choose to buy this insurance would be able to use it to take time off for:

Pregnancy (or paternal care)

Illness or disability

Elderly care

A vacation after X years of employment if the benefit had not already been used for one of the above events

The amount of time off available would vary based on the amount of insurance the employee was willing to purchase. Employers, obviously, could subsidize the benefit, just like they do other benefits. And employees who don't want the benefit can opt out and save the premiums. This seems like a fair solution to me that is not discriminatory or overly burdensome on employers or unfair to the childless.

Talk about an exercise in futility - after the 10-15 comments you've made, the US still does not have maternity leave laws, while most other countries do.  

Neoboho

Most other countries have meaningless laws...while we, without those laws, have superior care. However, if you feel that's not good enough then pay for pregnancy care for poor mothers with your own money and stop trying to force others who don't agree with you to do the same.

Talk about an exercise in futility - after the 10-15 comments you've made, the US still does not have maternity leave laws, while most other countries do.


Talk about an exercise in futility - after the 10-15 comment's I've made, you haven't noticed that I haven't taken a position on the desirability (or lack of) of maternity leave laws. You haven't noticed that I've been railing about the dishonesty of leftie claims that we are somehow primitive in not having such laws...or my argument that such laws in most third-world countries are completely ineffective and meaningless. And you haven't responded to my questions about why I should believe that Mexico provides better care to its young mothers than we do, why Zimbabwe does, or Rwanda, or Sudan, or Iran, or Pakistan, etc.


If you don't provide answers then as far as I'm concerned you're a liar, a fool, or both.

If you don't provide answers then as far as I'm concerned you're a liar, a fool, or both.

That works for me.  Have at it, my friend. 

Neoboho

Just what I expected from you.

You don't have any answers and you don't have the integrity to admit you're wrong so you play at being the magnanimous wise man...dispensing charity from on high. My guess is you're in the "helping professions" (probably unlicensed) with a following.

I agree that other types of work flexibility are iumportant, and that from a certain angle, there is something unfair about parenting leave. But I think that it makes sense to privilege parental leave (both parents, ideally), because we all have an interest in the outcome, inasmuch as investing in good parenting has positive outcomes - more functional members of society - that benefit us all.

I was lucky enough to have 14 weeks of parenting leave, and I know other fathers who had little to none, and I think it remains more of a struggle for them because they weren't there through the boot camp of surviving every day, on three or maybe four hours of interrupted sleep, learning to adapt themselves to the baby.

The flip side, of course, is that if I had been at woirk, I would have been less than useless, in that sleep deprived, semi-hallucinatory state. Better to have me not working at all.

I don't know if I'd "privilege" leaves for having children over leaves for illness. After all, having children is (or should be) a choice--and one should enter parenthood with knowledge of its burdens and responsibilities and with a plan for coping with them. If you have a job where you can make your own hours and be out of the office or work fewer hours while still getting the job done and not putting additional pressure on your fellow workers--great. But if taking time away from work interferes with your ability to do the work or forces your colleagues to take on more work to pick up the slack, then you shouldn't expect your employer and fellow workers to shoulder that cost. You'll need to make the sacrifice of going to a part-time job, hiring child-raising help, or quitting work altogether in favor of staying home with your kids. Parents need to realize that having kids may require some sacrifice of money and career (or some difficult juggling to avoid those sacrifices). Employers can try to accomodate parents as much as possible, but ultimately there's a limit to how much an employer can do to pay employees full salaries while those employees are away doing a different job of caring for their children.

I wouldn't put one above the other, either, necessarily.  I only mean that the cost of not having one type of policy might be borne more by all, and in that sense, there is a social value to it.  That is, if we as a society choose to set the rules in ways that make it more difficult to have children, and for parents to be a consistent, daily presence in their lives, the results, in the aggregate, will be bad for society.  And over the past generation, is there any doubt that the work-family balance has tilted away from family?  For some of my childhood, my mom was able to stay home without our family slipping out of the middle class, and when she did go back to work, both of my parents were home by 5:30 or 6.  Aside from the upper middle class, how many American families can afford to have a parent stay home?  And looking especially at salaried professionals and those whose jobs are close to the minimum wage, how many parents cannot reguarly make it home in time to spend more than a few minutes reading bedtime stories to their kids?

I'm not confident of my position on this - I think there are open questions about how much less time children today spend with their parents than they used to, and if it is more, whether this will have a deleterious effect on their upbringing.  But I certainly wouldn't be surprised if it did.

Of course, parents must and do recognize those sacrifices that must be made - one way the other, except for the independently wealthy, all parents do make them, one way or the other.  But I'm not convinced that greater accommodations could not be made without undue financial burden on employers or raised work levels for colleagues.  What if, like all other industrialized countries, we had publicly funded parental leave?  That would relieve the strain on the employer, and allow them to hire additional help (the best way to do so might not always be to replace the person in question, but hire temps to lighten the load for everyone who is able to take on that extra work, say).  

I'm not saying it's easy, or that everyone needs to kowtow to the noble sacrifices of those who choose to have kids.  I'm just saying that whoever's growing up right now are the ones who are going to put you and me both to our final rest, and how they turn out, collectively, is of interest to us both. 

True, my working name is the Marshmallow Mariachi Yogurt.  I run an Ashram in Dirt, Texas.

But just for the record - you were building a strawman in relation to the original blog - so don't expect anyone to get drawn into it too deeply. 

<> Neoboho

That works for me. Have at it, my friend

"First, it is a very expensive benefit for companies to provide. Therefore, women will be more expensive for companies to hire. "

There's an easy answer to that: make it available for men who have just become fathers, too. That's what the federal government does, here in the U.S., as well as some private companies that offer this important benefit. I agree it is an expensive benefit, if it falls on the employer. That argument holds true of many benefits related to long-term wellness. Which is an excellent argument for getting private empoloyers out of the loop on health care and going to a single-payer system.

I also agree with the naysaying comments that find it silly to compare U.S. benefits to those in countries where your chances of getting a good job are much more remote (from Mexico to Russia). The author would do better to stick to first world comparisons - compare the U.S. to countries in Europe, where a smaller amount of GNP is spent on health care a smaller amount of GNP is spent on health care , and the health outcomes are much better .

You can find my own Mother’s Day editorial here, my take is a little more global than Prof. Williams'.  

Boraxo

--

"Bother," said Pooh as Satan pointed out the small print.

I was thinking about the line of argument, made in a few posts on this issue lately, that it's unfair to have benefits that families but not single employees are entitled to, and wondering whether, though I've voiced some agreement with this along with some concerns, I don't secretly think that there should be such preferential treatment just because I'm situated on the family-having side of this divide.  And the following thought occured to me.

Part of the argument has to do with the fact that parenthood is an individual choice.  As Purple State put it (hope you don't mind my singling you out):

After all, having children is (or should be) a choice--and one should enter parenthood with knowledge of its burdens and responsibilities and with a plan for coping with them.

Embedded in this is the assumption that having a child is an individual decision, and as such falls within the realm of personal responsibility - if you want to have children, you should make sure that you are able to cope with the consequences of your decision. 

Not very many years ago, I think you could say that parenthood wasn't considered a choice in quite this way - it was more or less expected that young men and women would, in the not too distant future, marry and have children, because that was the normal course of things.  I think it's a very good thing that the weight of social expectation does not bore down on the individual like this anymore (though I assume that nearly as many people still do end up doing just this).  But I also wonder if there isn't some correlation between this new understanding of parenting as individual choice and the fact that the work has changed in ways that fundamentally make parenthood harder than it once was.

In more traditional societies, like Japan or the United States Army, say, having a family more or less automatically incurs a higher rate of pay for men, who are expected to need to provide for wife and children. In my parent's day, work ended at an hour that let parents get home in time for dinner, the family dinner being part of the 50s ideal and all that.  Could it be that the fact that having kids was expected of the individual meant that society understood that it had an obligation to help them meet this expectation?  Could it be that the idea that this is a matter of individual choice means that employers are less likely to see an obligation to facilitate family life, through increased pay, or sane working hours, or flex time and all the modern ways to go about finding balance?

Don't get me wrong: I don't long for the days when all good young people coupled up and had kids.  I just wonder if there isn't a connection between the idea of individual choice and the sense that every parent has to figure out how to take care of their kids on their own. 

Devon . . . I think you're on to something here. I'm not sure I agree that the problem is that employers feel like they have less of an obligation to facilitate family life because they now see having children as an individual choice. (I don't think employers ever felt much of an obligation to facilitate family life--remember they forced people to work 14 hour days until the labor unions reigned them in.)

What I do think is right though, is that traditional societies did not provide much leeway for individual choice when it came to family matters. Men and women had defined and separate roles, which they were expected to fulfill. The role for women included doing most of the child care. In traditional societies, women often had help from extended families and close-knit communities--but women were expected to bear most of the burden of child raising.

In today's society, we no longer have those defined roles--and the support structures of extended family and community have largely disappeared. In some ways--with products like dishwashers and washing machines and electric vacuums and disposable diapers and convenience food--traditional "women's work" has become easier and less time-consuming. But it has also become far less challenging and therefore far less rewarding. Women want the stimulation of a career--and fortunately our society has evolved to allow that. In the process, however, we haven't figured out how to handle child-rearing duties--particularly when children are young. Sure we have elementary school and (if we are wealthy enough) daycare or nannies to watch over our children while we work--but working outside the home leaves only a few hours free to interact with our children. Most people feel very stretched balancing the demands of career and kids. What's the solution? A more flexible work environment is desirable--but it will come at a cost. Employers aren't going to pay two people full salaries to do one job. If you want to work fewer hours, your employer is going to reduce your pay by the amount necessary to bring in a second worker to fill in for you when you're gone. If you expect to be paid for 40 hours when you're working only 30--forget it. The employer has to pay someone to cover the 10 hours you're away--and also has to keep the person who is actually working 40 hours happy. Why should a childless person who works 40 hours accept being paid the same as a parent who works only 30? A publically funded benefit may ease the burden on the employer--but it places a greater burden on the taxpayer. And remember childless taxpayers are already subsidizing children's education. If we go to a single-payer health care system (which we should), the childless will probably be subsidizing children's health care as well. And why should poorer childless taxpayers be subsidizing time off for higher-paid middle class parents?

I guess what bothers me about the idea of paid time for childrearing is that parents seem to be asking to get time away from work without bearing any financial cost (and instead transferring that cost to others). Sure, make work flexible to allow people to work fewer hours. Provide parents with the opportunity to purchase some kind of affordable insurance to help them maintain income while they're away from work having babies. And do something for poor single parents, who are really struggling. But why should we all subsidize middle class couples who want to have kids and get more time off to raise those kids--but don't want to sacrifice any income or career opportunity?

I also agree with the naysaying comments that find it silly to compare U.S. benefits to those in countries where your chances of getting a good job are much more remote (from Mexico to Russia). The author would do better to stick to first world comparisons -

I'd liked to admit that I do too. Except I don't attribute this kind of thing to "liberals." To me, it's a pity the naysayer took that tact (which I think destroyed a lot of the credibility of his challenge,) and took such a vituperative, anger-laden approach suggestive of bringing along all kinds of unrelated baggage, instead of just accusing Ms. Chalmers Williams on sloppy scholarship or purposeful hyperbole. Your approach hit it exactly right, mho.

For myself, I find the habit of academics using blogging to get away from the rigors of scholarly arguments to indulge in practicing various tactics of punditry in attempt to sway people politically disturbing. We used to be able to expect more than that, and people should challenge on it. It does come from the entire spectrum, there's a lot of political pundit bloggers that used to be academics and I can't help think that they know exactly what they are doing in pushing the hyperbole envelope with their reading publics. It's actually something I have admired about Josh Marshall (and also Yglesias), that he doesn't often indulge in that sort of thing, matter of fact, he seems to work very hard at getting to the bottom of inconvenient facts.

I also agree with the naysaying comments that find it silly to compare U.S. benefits to those in countries where your chances of getting a good job are much more remote (from Mexico to Russia). The author would do better to stick to first world comparisons

This is a good point - up to a point.  One thing I would add is that the assumption that, because such a law is on the books, that law is obeyed is not always one that can be made in every country.

However, the developed/developing world distinction here may not make a lot of sense.  Do you have any evidence that it's so hard to get a job in Mexico, Malawi, or the Philippines, say?  That is, are you sure that, because these countries are poor, that many people aren't covered by the law because they can't find work?  I don't think this is something that one can simply stipulate of the entire developing world.

Second, first world comparisons may not be any better.  Speaking with a German friend of ours recently, she said that by law, all Germans have a right to change their employment status to part time.  But in practice, employers don't like it, so rather than agree to P/T status for employees who want it, they often offer to buy them out of their contracts - offer a generous severance package instead.  Which might seem like a decent compromise except that it's a lot harder to get jobs in Germany than it is here, and many people cannot afford to take the deal.  In the end, in other words, this is a way that companies can get around the law.  

So it seems to me that developing world comparisons aren't necessarily bad ones, on this topic, and developed world ones aren't necessarily any better than developing world.  But it's a very big world out there, and comparisons in general may not really hold. 

For myself, I find the habit of academics using blogging to get away from the rigors of scholarly arguments to indulge in practicing various tactics of punditry in attempt to sway people politically disturbing. We used to be able to expect more than that, and people should challenge on it.

I'm not convinced.  First, academics here aren't doing it with their mortarboards on - they're just ordinary citizens like us, spouting off.  Second, to the extent that they are making less rigorous arguments than they do professionally, I would champion irresponsible speculation.  The rigors of scholarly arguments are great, but it's easy to get so constricted by that that you can't think creatively at all.  Setting it aside to argue less rigorously with us less rigorous folk could, I think, lead to new ideas that can be pursued in a more academic manner later on. 

I guess what bothers me about the idea of paid time for childrearing is that parents seem to be asking to get time away from work without bearing any financial cost.

I can see where you're coming from, but I don't think that most parents hope to get away with something like that. The dilemma (well, trilemma) is fairly clear to all: you can sacrifice money, you can sacrifice your career, you can sacrifice time with your kid. Not very many people are in a position where they don't have to grab one of these horns. (I was, for awhile: I quit a low paying nonprofit job for a high paying consulting practice, and made a bit more working under 20 hours a week. But that's a pretty weird situation to be in).

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